Darling Nickie on Surgery

[EyImBehindYou]

the most annoying couple ever. seriously ignorant.

[herpderpification]

Cheap surgery would make it more accessible? Maybe then transpeople would have fewer mental health/substance use issues and lower suicide rates. As for not trusting transpeople to make correct decisions about their lives and bodies is BS. If you were not given the gift of being cisgendered, perhaps you'd realize that these decisions are mulled over for years, if not most of a lifetime. Think about what you're saying before you open your mouth because you sound ignorant.

[EthanBrayden89]

yeah but if ur 100% sure thats just that much longer u have to be uncomfortable in ur body so not always good in my opinion

[TransScribersFTM]

Yes, I agree.  I mostly said this because of someone I know who is supposedly trans but is really rushing things and no one (including her family/friends/therapist) is totally convinced that this person knows what they're doing or what they want. (I say they because this person has not yet chosen pronouns).

[MaxInTransition]

i think a lot of the reason some people ask questions like, pre or post op, etc, not so much to "compare stats" but to have a point of reference in how to converse with them....not always of course, but often

[TransScribersFTM]

That may be true! Thanks for your insight.

-Nickie

[Techy2011]

you two are great and the video was great.

im glad that you touched on not having surgery to feel complete. im disappointed that there isnt more transguys talking about this bc im sure there are some out there that dont considering having top surgery or surgeries in general but still feel 100% male regardless. thanks guys :)