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  • Thanks for this video!! My daughter has your type of hair and I KNEW it could curl but just didn't know how to get it to do it. Just smoothing the gel in the hair doesn't work. I never thought about brushing it!! GREAT tip and I'm going to sub. Do you have a video demonstrating this technique? If not please provide and thanks so much!! I want my daughter to love her natural hair.

  • Hello to the person waving.. hi, hi, HHIIIIII lol

  • @Aitebaars - going natural is not about learning to love yourself for everyone. Maybe that was your reasoning.

  • 111 people will never have healthy hair.

    I think you're hair looks awesome.

  • how did i get here 

  • In spite of what every one is saying...I think this video is honest. And thats true...I have similar hair texture and experience similar situations. I appreciate your transparency and the fact it is FRUSTRATING sometimes when you go natural & you cant really do a wash and go. Its not about the fact that we don't accept or love our hair. It's just we like a certain look. This encourages me more because she's being real but at the same time dealing with it. Thanks for posting.

  • @UnadornedTruth 4real

  • just be patient with others , we or all human and still learning everyday , i may b young but i can teach some1 older than me too , because1 day we might just want someone to help us too

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  • i too do not have3a-etc.but what we do have is,thick,volume hair.especially when it grow out.

    ppl always think i have a bush or afo-wig on.naptural85 is so beautiful n full,yes..ur hair is hard to mantain .but be patience n relearn ur hair.

  • THANK YOU!!! My hair is EXACTLY like this and I Always give up bc my hair laughs at product too!! Lol I've been putting it in a poof with this stretchy rubber band bc my ends are always straight with bushy roots. I'm going to take a couple hours tomorrow n follow your method ALL the way through! Pray for me! And thanks again for showing hair like mine.!

  • I thought going natural was about embracing the variety of textures african hair has too offer. I have 4a hair, and I HATE when people call it "good" hair. Wtheck? GOOD HAIR IS HEALTHY HAIR. GOOD HAIR IS THE HAIR GOD CREATED YOU WITH. So many sista's get disappointed when they big chop and discover their hair isn't curly. Does it really matter? Going natural is about learning to love yourself. :) Kinky, curly, straight, or anywhere in between. Just rock it my dear. It's beautiful. ;)

  • @AitebaarS That's one thing I never could understand. How does one not know their hair isn't a certain texture? I mean, don't you notice your texture when you get new growth? Maybe I don't understand because I can count how many times I've relaxed my hair on maybe 1 hand so I always had my natural texture visible. But, dang. I never could understand when a black woman said: "This is the first time I've seen my natural texture in years". WOW!

  • LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO You can tell she got self hate lmao. No wonder why her child is mixed lol.

  • @CrownJewel32 dont say that because a lot of people or mix , i am and my husband is non - black , her child is beautiful

  • @danger069gurl Don't tell me what to say. I can say whatever the hell I want. I don't give a damn if you are mixed or not. The fact of the matter is a lot of black people who have self hate have mixed children. And, who cares if your husband is non-black. I don't care about you.

  • @CrownJewel32 and we dont give a damn what you think because its ckear your a bitter black woman so dont come on here and be a troll... stop hating on peope's children and go get a ife

  • @danger069gurl Excuse me? I'm not bitter about shit. I have absolutely no reason to be. I'm just keeping it real. Most black people who have self hate USUALLY have mixed children. Hating on people's children? I could barely even see this woman's child. All I said was that there wasn't a wonder why her child was mixed since she obviously has self hate.

  • @danger069gurl And, bitch. If you didn't care what I thought, why the fuck are you even responding?

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  • @danger069gurl And, you can't even spell "Irrelevant". What an idiot. I'm so last year but you started talking shit to me THIS year. Bitch, move around somewhere. You sound stupid.

  • @CrownJewel32 wow you really sound bitter and sick ,,, no one owes any1 any obligation . you should go kill yourself for being born ugly inside and out

  • @jbagaloo And, you really sound uneducated and slow. Your real username was supposed to be "Jiggaboo" but since you are so dumb, you ended up spelling it wrong just like the idiot you are. Also, what the fuck are you even typing: "No one owes any1 any obligation". Gotdamn........you are an idiot. I think you meant to type "explaination". What a moron. You must be really young cause you have very poor spelling and your comebacks are lame.

  • @CrownJewel32 hey what can you do , no one is afraid on internet trolls , its just show how ignorant and illiterate you r .. get a life and stop hating you trash .. the woman in the video is being real and clearly dont care what you think .. i am the best thing in your pathetic life right now , wont waste anymore time on you ... LOSER !!

  • @danger069gurl Luckily, I just came back online cause I'm just in time to check your stupid ass. Illiterate and ignorant? You are the one who can't spell and sounds stupid. You claim I'm hating? But, what exactly am I hating on? People like you throw that word around like there's no tomorrow and the crazy thing about it is it couldn't be further from the truth. Who am I hating on? You? A bitch with no pictures or videos on your channel? You can't possibly be serious.

  • @CrownJewel32 its must be lonely being you,,,,,, im not here to make channel r 2 account unlike you who are irrelevant in the real world ,,,, sigh .. i wont waste anymore time with a bitter idiot like you ... well i am in university third year so its clearly you the education system failed.. u hating on me i wouldn't care ,, you are hating on the woman video and child .. U poor soul .but if talking to me make u feel better about yrself u can continue although i am ignoring u now :)

  • @danger069gurl It must be pitiful being you because you more than likely can't read or understand anything. Anybody can take advantage of you cause you're a moron who is on a 1st grade level of reading. You are stupid. And, judging by the videos you watch, you're bald headed, too. Has that relaxer taken out your hair, baldy? I'm sure it has. That's why you go from video to video looking at videos of women with long hair to compensate for the fact that you don't have any.

  • @danger069gurl Really? What university do you attend? Phoenix university? Anybody can get a degree from there. Hell, your stupid ass may not even be smart enough to go there. You probably study online at one of these unaccredited universities that hands out a fake degree. Face the facts, idiot. You are a moron. You are destined to fail.

  • @danger069gurl Usually when people know they're getting their ass kicked in the comments section, they say shit like: "Well, this is a waste of time so I'm not going to respond anymore". That's what cowards do in order to leave the conversation that they started by talking shit. But, since you wanted an argument, bitch, you got one. You just found out that you are talking shit to the wrong person cause I will make you feel more worthless than your ass already is.

  • @danger069gurl LOL Is that you in your profile picture? LOLOLOL I KNEW your ass was bald headed! Look at you! Your hairline is gone, sweetheart and you have the nerve to talk shit about somebody else? On top of that, you have that ugly ass synethetic blonde weave in your hair. You look ridiculous and your face is long and ugly. You remind me of a bald eagle. Ugly ass bitch!

  • @CrownJewel32 hey check out my page again i put up something new and since u enjoy watching me subscribe or u already did !! i really had to reply because i cant believe you PM me that's so weird ..

  • @danger069gurl Actually, I didn't pm you ugly. I did leave you a comment on your channel, though, letting you know how ugly you look. What's weird is the fact that your skin looks drier and ashier than a dead persons. Now, THAT'S weird. Next time, recognize who the fuck you're talking to.

  • @CrownJewel32 aww thanks ... subscribe it will last longer , i change pic every day so u can keep a eye on me ... LOL LOL

  • @danger069gurl No, thanks. I'm not interested in subscribing to arangutangs. However, you can subscribe to me since you obviously love interacting with me. You said you were done talking to me but you just can't bring yourself to stick to your word. So, not only are you a moron but you can't make up your damn mind. Ugly bitch. Go look for videos on youtube to show you how to scrub all that dead skin off your face. Also, it's better for you to cut off your hair and start over! LOL

  • @CrownJewel32 YOU DONT even put up a pic show how ugly you are , r u ashamed of yourself ??? i dont expect any compliment from a woman they normally do not like me but you seems to love me .. i reply because u came on my channel , i was shocked , even though i dont have a Channel its just 2 song 4 my friends ... im keeping your company because you obviously lonely but i have to leave you now so stop stocking me , cyber geek lol lol

  • @danger069gurl If I did put up a picture of myself, I guarantee you would have to eat your words because I look DAMN good. I BELONG in someone's beauty pageant unlike you. I don't have dark circles underneath my eyes----I have beautiful skin. And, women don't compliment you because for one, you're not pretty. Secondly, you have an ugly attitude so that makes you look even worse. Also, I'd rather be a "Cyber geek" than an uneducated, ugly, moron like you.

  • @CrownJewel32 nigga plz , stop the argument .. you sound like a jack ass , her skin and hair is beautiful unlike you with no pic ... only ugly people love saying bad things about people to hide their own insecurity

  • @shane17201 LOL This is clearly dangergurl. You are so stupid, sweetheart. It's funny how you claim I have no life but you sign up under different accounts to talk shit to me. And, then you put your channel on "Unavailable" so nobody can tell when you signed up. Girl, please go on somewhere. You are weak, pathetic, and weird. I bet you've been thinking about what I said about you all night. And, that ain't doing nothing for your except for making the bags under your eyes look worse.

  • @CrownJewel32 yes i am broke , paying for school dont have a pimp like you

  • @danger069gurl It's funny because I was just about to ask you if you were a prostitute cause you look like this ugly, bald head, crack whore I see on the street corner.

  • @danger069gurl stop fighting with her , dont make people push your botton or you will become ust like them .. finish up your schooling and have a great time

  • @shane17201 WOW! You are truly sad. I'm starting to feel sorry for you. You're telling your own self to do good in school. You sound mentally deranged, sweetheart. Are you sure you aren't a schizophrenic? What a lame. You're not even smart enough to make your clone accounts sound different. Your spelling and grammer are the exact same as your main account.

  • @danger069gurl Every last picture you put up is STILL ugly. You are not attractive at all, sweetheart. Also, your pictures look very low quality. You could use a new camera. Can your broke ass even afford one is the question, though?

  • @danger069gurl And, you had the NERVE to say you were mixed!!! OMG Bitch, you OBVIOUSLY have self hate issues to go along with that balding hairline! You ugly bitch!

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  • @danger069gurl Well, your natural hair is thin and ugly just like your face. You are an ugly girl. Look at those dark circles under yours eyes. I bet you stay up every night sucking dick----that's probably where those dark under eye circles came from. Hell, it could be that somebody socked you in your fucking eyes. You ugly bitch. And, idiot, the word is spelled "Stalk" and ain't nobody trying to stalk you. You are not that damn important.....you ugly bitch.

  • @danger069gurl And, bitch, even if I was gay, I wouldn't want your ugly ass cause you're not even just a tad bit pretty. You could really use a facial too cause your skin looks like dirt.

  • @danger069gurl Loser? The education system clearly failed you because you can't even spell or use periods correctly. And, then you have the nerve to sign up under a different account to talk shit? Bitch, that just goes to show who the true loser is----yourself. Talking shit under multiple accounts and didn't think I would know. And, it's so obvious because both of your accounts type EXACTLY alike and that makes you the fucking loser bitch.

  • @danger069gurl Why are you deleting your comments, jigaboo? Probably because you realized how stupid you sound. Good job!!!

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  • I agree with you. I have 4b hair & cried after my 1st try of Kinky curly. It was a period of acceptance. I love my hair and enjoy being natural. I dont fuss about what I have but I do understand that certain styles R not 4 me. There is a big BIG difference in 4a and 4b hair for one shrinkage is no joke and shine is sooo hard for 4b's to maintain as well as keeping a curl pattern after humidity, workouts and showering. Im not complaining just stating the facts as you did. Luv your post

  • Pretty hair. I have the same hair. Poof ball for days right out of the shower.

  • i love your hair!!

  • I appreciate your honesty.

  • I taught this video was a how to not a rant!!!

  • I would like to see more of your honest videos. Your hair is beautiful and we all go through ups and downs with our natural hair. I just learned to embrace my hair and refuse to spend a whole lot of money on it! Hope your still natural!! Happy growing!

  • i have the same problem with my hair its just like your i have to use different products to define my curls i have hard course thick hair but i luv my natural hair ive been natural for about 1 yr now

  • your hair is beautiful, and my hair is coarse and i love it and im half indian...no need to be upset about your texture and there are plenty of styles to do with it, its just about being comfortable with it...

  • Great video (don't get the negative comments below) I appreciate your honesty! ...and your daughter is just too darn cute in the background :)

  • I am not understanding this is the second video I saw of you and I was hoping to get how you do your style instead of I have this hair I wish I had that hair.......Quit apolozing for what you don't have and just enjoy what you do. Their are plenty of people in this world who have no hair. Stop the complaining and just say what what you do to your hair and forget the haters. There is nothing wrong with your hair might be something upsetting the person who is wearing it though.

  • You might have to take more time with your hair than someone else, but who cares if the end result is pretty at the end. Keep making your videos and embrace your hair always.

  • You might have to take more time with your hair than someone else but who cares if the end result is pretty at the end. Keep making your videos and embrace your hair always.

  • I hope you didn't stop making videos because of these comments. I like your technique actually. To each is there own and if you like it, thats your right!

  • She's excited because she found a product & method that works for her & all you "correctors" sound to me like you're insecure idiots tryna bully her into YOUR mindset. I'm a sub to this channel & I'm tired of reading the same stupid comments from women that are defensive & bitter. Someone must have hurt your feelings but I really don't care. Offer some valuable hair care info and keep the comments for your friends bitches.

  • If you don't like someone's videos then DON'T WATCH and especially don't comment. I and ppl like myself sub these videos because we want information not to hear your fucking opinions on what the proper tone mindset or whatever u defensive preachy bitches are talking about. If u don't have a product or method to enlighten us with then stfu or make your OWN videos. If she doesn't like her hair without product then she can say that.

  • HEY! Where'd u go? Would love to see your beautiful 4a/b hair of late. Hope all is well..

  • im proud to have 4c hair! nothing wrong with it.. quit complaining..

  • love ur hair soo much i cannot wait til my hair gets that long so i can form an afro like urs

  • Wow, I like that she is taking the time to discover what works for her. She does not sound defeated to me, just explaining how she has to do things different. We are all different, praise GOD!

  • Your hair is beautiful

  • we have the same hair texture how do you prevent breakage?

  • Your hair is really cute. Love it!

  • She sounds so defeated and for NO reason! LMAO! I think she is going to cry!

  • @harrah5

    LMFAO!

  • She sounds so defeated and for no reason! LMAO!

  • Yes I can relate and I can appreciate my hair for what it is. Embrace the beauty of the hair God blessed you with. Find out what works for your hair and work it! Each hair type has it's own unique style and what the other types can do yours may not be able to do. Know also that what your hair can do, theirs cannot. Experiment a bit and once you get that method that's right for you, your hair will appreciate you and it will shine! Enjoy the journey and Be Blessed! :-)

  • @yvonnelee1999 Okay I thought it was just me. I pray that she (and other's like her) could see and accept her hair for it's own unique beauty.

  • @yvonnelee1999 You know what? U r right. However, I believe that wearing your hair natural and living a natural life style are different. Natural hair is a wonderful fad that I hope lasts forever! But living a natural life style--yields a totally different mind set. Most are not on that level of consciousness. She's just happy to have curly hair--finally. Not realizing she's had it all her life. LOL!

  • WOW...you come off so negative. That's why you have so many negative ratings. Your hair is pretty. You have a very nice texture. Who cares about 4a,3c,3b or what ever. You sound like a person talking about good hair and bad hair. HHJ

  • Embrace what you have girly!! Be proud!! Don't drink that kool-aid!

  • I love this look on you...your hair looks nice and healthy...the curls are great.....I know having thick coarse hair is something to work with...I want to try it becuz I am one that normally does braids or weaves...want to go all natural! Wish me luck...I keep looking at ur video becuz this is more my type of hair...you are beautiful and your hair is too...embrace it my sista

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  • very pretty style.

  • Hmm thats strange my hair sooo thick and very course and it takes me like 2-3 minutes max for curls. Make sure your hair isnt damaged, and youre not shampooing every week and do a deep conditioner.

  • U seem so sweet n soft spoken

  • Aww man, my hair looks similar to yours....I don't understand what's wrong with it. Are you using bad products that are drying out your hair and making it coarse?

  • This is truly hard for me to watch. It's breaking my heart to see you criticize your hair like this, and in front of your daughter. I am 10 months natural and I get frustrated with my hair at times too but I think if your going to make a video it should at least be motivating for others.

  • @iamnotokay24 So true we have to accept the hair we have and love it!

  • Your hair is beautiful, have you tried the gel with Argan Oil? If so do you have a video for that?

  • Your hair is beautiful, have you tried the gel with Argan Oil? If so do you have a video for that?

  • Girl ROCK IT! I can't wait til my hair grows another 2 inches. I am heading to the beauty supply at 1pm later on to get this Eco style gel!

  • Maybe you should heat train your hair because you're clearly unhappy with the curl pattern. 

  • Its just a little more wavy than curly! ITS BEAUTIFUL AND I LOVE IT!

  • YEAH we have the same hair type i love my hair and am looking foward to when my hair gets long , our hair is awsome sis.

  • I'm very glad you found something that works for your hair type! I think as time goes on you will find many more products that will work for your hair. thank you for sharing.

  • I love your vids I've learned so much about hair from them. I really don't know what my hair type is but my curls definition is ok but it dries out very quidkly can you take a look at my vid and tell me what you think I may need for my hair type? Thank you . (Luvncurlz) I would love your feed back

  • @musiclover77able

    When I was in cosmetology, EVERYONE wanted to use my hair to style. Why? Because type 4 hair can do ANYTHING. It can be straightened or it can curl. BUT when you straighten it, it doesn't go limp. it holds a style forever and thats why beauticians like it because the end result is gorgeous. It's nice that people are going natural but what's the use in going natural if all you're going to do is wish you still had straighter hair or "better" hair type?

  • I'm happy because I hope that works for my 13 yr old daughter who's newly BCd over the weekend, she has your texture and I was hoping that it would eventually do just what yours does. Thank you for this tip!!! Don't sound so sad or negative about your hair. Your hair is gorgeous!

  • YOUR HAIR TURNED OUT NICE. YOUR HAIR TEXTURE IS VERY NICE.

  • I think shes just excited about seeing curls in her hair. Evrybdy's flippin out. lol. Im sure we all -no matter wht our hair type is-get frustrated at our hair while tryna get it into a style we want-and then when it happens we're super excited and wanna tell everyone about it. Its a lil venting and that's NORMAL folks!:) straighter haired people say your hair's so cool! look at what u can do to it! while coily /kinky haired people say but ur hair is cool look at what u can do to it.NORMAL

  • I like how your hair turned out. My 4b/c hair also gets curls/ringlets when I use the eco styler gel. I'm trying out several products, and this is the first on my list. So far I like it, but I prefer the look of braidouts & twistouts, for now.

    As for the hateful people responding, they're the ones who need counseling. It was nice to see a real, honest testimony, even if it deferred from my experience/opinion. I didn't see anything wrong with this video, but then I wasn't looking.

  • Looks great to me!

  • @musiclover77able ok I keep hearing about hair types..what exactly defines the types?

    thnx

  • THANKYOU! for posting this! I have such coarse hair and I got really discouraged coz all the girls i see on youtube have naturally defined curls easily. I now know theres hope! Thank you again!

  • Gosh, I just did the BC and my hair is very short now, and I have a very cottony hair texture and you make me feel like I'm starting off with Shit. Maybe you should just speak for yourself.

  • I just found this video. Your hair looks great. It's just too bad that it's fully of glorifying another type of hair and bad-mouthing your own (which is true black hair). You really don't seem to like yourself. I often wonder how the "good hair/bad hair" ignorance gets perpetuated and your video is a great method of continuing that division. Thanks.

  • girl try 4b hair that is 22inches long!!!! (22inch when blow dryed and 6 inched when air dryed talk about nightmare) I am soo desperate to find a product. we shall overcome one day!!! lol

  • the girl in the background is adorable!!

  • I love your hair and this vid!!!!!

  • Accept your hair for what it is love :)

    Not every natural means curly hair

    I'm sure there are plenty of styled you can rock which doesn't have to be curly :)

  • All I know is if my hair is kinky, it'll stay kinky. I'm not gonna go through hell to make it a texture it's not. Yeah, I'll give it a try when I'm styling it certain days, but I learned to love my natural texture and manage it the way it is.

  • Experiment by using only your hands for detangling and, when possible, styling. Banish the brush to a drawer for a while. Wet your hair often (at least 3x per week) and SEE if you don’t start to see a better curl pattern in your type 4 hair after 3 weeks. I bet you will!!!

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  • WOW!! There are a lot of comments on this vid. I didn’t read them all but I would like to comment on one aspect of the video. In segment 0:55 she said “…It takes so long to get this type of hair into defined curls…” What you don’t realize – judging from the comments – what many don’t realize is that type 4 hair HAS defined curls. The reason your hair is “cottony” instead of “defined” is b/c you are BRUSHING out the curls. Combing & brushing type 4 hair DESTROYS the curl pattern.

  • I hear you my sister. My hair is the same way. If I wear it natural, it's an afro.

  • Can I believe my eye's it's cute ma'am!

  • my hair is has 3 curl types some like your's love seeing your results. im still learning about mine. did you have you're hair cut into a shape?

  • good video, your hair is beautiful w/ gel or no gel. Btw touching your hair every 2 seconds is very distracting.

  • Your hair is beautiful!!

  • your so right, I have cotton texture hair when i get out the shower. I have never tried to define my curls with any products because i feel they won't be defined but watching your video is motivating me to try it. thanks for the video, I'm def going to try it out, I hope it comes out ok for me. =)

  • Yours looks more like 4a not 4b its looks good. Girl, you sound so negative!! \Do you know how many people want hair like yours that lays down and and moves?!!! Embrace it!!

  • my hair is the exact same way.

  • I really like the way you own your hair texture and embrace it. You've mastered it and the results are simply gorgeous! Your honest and matter-of-fact attitude is even more impressive. Thank you for sharing.

  • I think this was a good informative video-I hate that I went back to a relaxer, I am now in transition again after a yr of relaxer and hair breakage(dumb):) I am encouraged again now that I have seen this video that I can have curl def w/4a-4b hair, thanx much jwhjprins for the encouragement-ignore all the criticizing comments even tho ppl r entitled to their opinions!!!!!!

  • hm, let's try this again.

    IMO, she doesn't have a complex (wouldn't care if she did tho). she's discovered that she has definition but is frustrated at the amount of time it takes to bring it out. that's a legit complaint.

    she believes she's a 4b, so she complains about the difficulty in defining that hair type. that's where the problem starts.

  • @regi989

    i'm amazed at how many people seem to believe that undefined without gel = 4b. if she REALLY had 4b hair, then no amount of gel would've given her any curl. she's a 4a. had she not incorrectly labeled her hair (and then proceeded to whine about 4b's natural characteristics, i.e., lack of definition), then she wouldn't be getting all this criticism.

  • @regi989 WRONG! the lack of a product in a black persons hair is what = frizz..hence, afros, puffs, etc.The use of a product (which ever works for your hair type) via gels, leave in conditioners etc. DEFINE our natural curl pattern which we ALL as black people have. It does not GIVE you a curl. Gels work as a clumping agent to gather the curls together so that we can see the actual curly pattern instead of frizz(which is an individual hair shaft separated and surrounded by other individual hairs

  • @peacelovenmelons

    no 4b is going to have a curl size of her diameter.

    i repeat: no amount of gel is going to make 4b hair resemble this woman's hair. FACT.

    i'm noticing an interesting trend. more and more 4b's are asserting that their hair is also curly, and seem to get frustrated when others don't consider their hair curly.

  • @regi989 yeah.... your right that a 4b is not going to have a curl size of her diameter but in your comment , I think you said that 4b hair does not curl which is not true. It's just a little bit tighter curl pattern. I'm a 4b and have loads of curls that people comment on all the time. I use the KinkyCurly products.

  • @peacelovenmelons Maybe she is 4a but to me 4b hair looks similar to this if you go to google image. I have similar hair as hers. if I jump in the shower and out my hair looks poofy and kinky with little curls just like she described. But if I really run gel through it, it will look like hers. I'm 4b but the problem is, it takes time to run gel through it so at the end of the day you just don't care if it looks kinky or slightly curly (I don't). So 4 hair depending on curls, can look like that.

  • @linkin5961 huh... yes.I know. That's what I was telling regi989 but she said otherwise. My dispute wasn't about her curl size. Regi989 said that 4a/b does not curl and will not look like hers and I was correcting her. READ the comments.

  • @regi989 FAct yes it is. You just see a lot of 4b that give up on there hair or don't give a shiiii!!!! about there hair. I'm 4b and mine looks like her hair with gel and I use eco gel. But my hair is shorter. Without gel I can get a slight curly look but it's more kinky. The thing is I would rather have soft hair instead of hard curly hair. your probably thinking 4c. Sorry but not every 4a or b has to be kinky and nasty looking if you have looser curls without gel, yeeeeaaa for you. 

  • @regi989 The curls may be tigheter in 4b but with some gel and stretching we have the same look. Now lets hope it's not a texturizer she is using. Cause before I gave up chemicals all together I was able to achieve the same look with a texturizer and leave and no gel. Now that I'm completely natural and no chemicals 3rd chop I need gel to acheive the same look.

  • @regi989 (continued)... having 4b does not mean you don't have a curly pattern. You just need to find the right product for your hair type. 4b is the curliest(tightest) of the pattern scale.

  • @peacelovenmelons

    And what products are right for 4b??? I haven't found them yet, and I need to know.

  • @Nubianwizdom I've found the Kinky Curly hair products to work really well for me. That's what I currently use and am about to try this Eco styler with Olive Oil to see how that does. If you go onto "CoilKinksCurls" channel on youtube she offers alot of reviews on different hair products. MiraCurl is another product that may work for you but I haven't tried that but I do intend to. MiraCurl is a product that "CoilsKinksCurls" recommended and her results came out nice. Trial and error basically.

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  • I APPRECIATE THE VIDEO BUT I LOVE MY 4B C HAIR... SHE IS NO DIFFERENT FROM THE HAIR COMPANIES THAT MAKE PRODUCTS TO "DEFINE" CURLS! NOW I DONT AGREE WITH SOME OF HER COMMENTS BUT ALL IN ALL IT IS A HELPFUL VID! NO ONE IS BASHING THE COMMENTS ON OTHER PAGES LIKE WHAT TYPE HAIR DO U HAVE.. I HOPE MINE GROW WAVY ECT... I WILL TELL ANYBODY IF U GO NATURAL THINKING YOU WILL ACHIEVE WAVES AND CURLS NATURAL IS NOT FOR YOU!!! I MEAN THE TITLE OF THE VID HAD MANY CLICKING ON IT!!

  • I think having 4b hair is awesome. We can make ourselves look like we have 3c curls like this, straighten, AND rock a badass fro.

    Love your 4b hair.<3

  • this video should be removed from yt. hopefully young girls with her hair texture do not watch this and get discouraged. self hate is horrible. i have 3c hair but all grades are beautiful. smh

  • is you hair hard????

  • I think your hair is pretty! Good job.

    I just feel like you are very unsatisfied with your hair and that's so sadddd. My cousin has 4b/4c hair and I have 3b/3c/4a hair. At first, she wouldn't even GO NATURAL because she would never be able to get her hair to "curl". The thing is, being natural is much MORE than having "curls". It's about acceptance. Embrace your poofy-ness. Sometimes, I WISH my hair would poof more. lol. It just flops down pitifully when I try to wear a cute fro. =\ Good luck!

  • I know it must be frustrating to not get your hair to behave the way you think it should. I have been frustrated many times too but try not to negate yourself in front of your daughter. She will internalize what you perceive about your hair as a defect in her self. The curl of your hair is more complex than you think. I am mixed and my hair won't curl a darn. Some of my family members are white and they have no curl in their hair either. No worries. One Love.

  • Wow this video was something to watch. It was a personal expression of one persons frustration about themselves. It was really sad for me to watch.;( I could see the sadness in her face. Wow how ppl can have such reflections upon themselves.;(

  • i love how everyone is hating because she's using gel like people of other races and with other hair textures don't use gel, okay all of u proud naturals act like u don't do twist outs and braid outs Thats the same thing. gawd her hair isn't relaxed that is her hair texture that is what is naturally hers what is wrong with using a product to define what god gave her

  • @pyschotictree I don't think people are reacting to the fact she uses gel. People are reacting to the fact that she keeps talking about how bad her hair is without it. The beauty of type 4 hair is that it can do everything and I mean everything that every other type of hair can do. But it can also do what the other types CAN'T do. Clearly she has a curl pattern because we can see it in the video. So that just means she has had to search to find what brings out her curl.

  • love love love ur videos..finally hair I can relate with. U keeps it real...not "negative"....R-E-A-L....and U work it out soo well. Thanks for sharing :)

  • To everyone with negative comments, watching YouTube videos is a choice. You can choose not to watch her video. The moment you heard something you didn't like why didn't you just click off the video. Many of you sound very ignorant with your negatism. If YOU love your hair that's all that matters. This woman is simply telling you what she did to achieve her look and her opinions of her OWN hair. Jwhjprins I love your hair. Thanks for the video.

  • @lovinme33

    Tell it sista! After fighting with your hair so much and trying to get it to do what it doesn't want to do, it becomes frustrating. Some hair, like mine, is very rough. I almost couldn't get a curl pattern following jwhjprins' methods.

  • I adore how your hair is shaped. It's absolutely lovely :p Have a nice day! ♥

  • ..... smh..... this video just rubbed me the wrong way... I probably have 4z hair!!!!! and it is thicker, longer and kinkier than yours... you should be happy just to have hair.... some women would kill to have their own hair.... stop being so critical.. so what your hair isn't wavy or curly... get over it and rock a fro =]

  • Very Pretty!!!

  • If you dont like you natural hair then perm it and use rollers to curl it. 4b hair is nice even if you cant 'curl it easily, not everyone wants curls

  • you have beautiful hair, defined curls or no. why do you hate it so much?

  • your hair is beautiful.i have 4b too and i am glad i saw this video.

  • wow jwhjprins

    you look alot like my mom

    she even has her hair similar to how yours is in this video

    (well usually she does)

  • Your hair looks great..

  • Thank you, good video. I tried Eco gel for the first time this morning, and you are right.....this is the first time that my curls have been so well defined. I was really shocked to see all the spirals....lol. I do think I used to much gel though, and I'm going to just play around and try and improve on my technique. Thanks

  • you're hair is pretty

  • It looks great!! I like it a lot!!

  • I think her hair looks nice. I have the same type of hair, and hell I get a little jealous too of the other types of hair. It can be a pain getting and managing styles, especially for someone who is new to the natural scene. If I were her I'd be excited too to finally get a defined curl. They're simply pretty. Not saying the puff or other style/texture isn't nice too, but it's nice to finally see change in your hairstyles and finally know there's another style to use.

  • can u mke a tutorial on how u appy the gel?

  • do u do this on wet or damp hair