The Date Diaries: Penis Size (Advice)

[TheSpongesam]

if the size matters i would suggest this ...hugebetter..commmm

From my personal experience it does work

[phantomsuccour]

oh plus I'm black and whoever, said white guys don't have huge cocks, clearly doesn't live in the Midlands. Wow!!!

[phantomsuccour]

most of my past boyfriends have had huge ones, but sometimes they hurt.

[acf870]

my last guy had a massive one but we didnt find that out till after i fell in love.

[TyJames29]

Ong the rocking n the chair really got me

[jokergallagher62083]

good vedio, good point.....but i have to say

you look just like my friend nik....only with the accent

[saitu83]

omg, you're so hot! i love the accent. pls, tell me you're single :D

[ChristianZ28]

OK well there are two sides to this I am a gay male but I happen to have a big penis and no I am not saying this to get dates or cat calls I get tired of guys in the gym both staight and gay looking at my dick like it's for the entertainment ! Poeple want to have sex with me just because I have a big penis but what about a relation ship I have a big heart as well . I want some one to love ALL of me not just my penis . No I do not hurt people during sex I am a gentel lover !

[jrg305]

@ChristianZ28 I'm same as you. Big dick but no one cares about me without the penis.

[phantomsuccour]

@ChristianZ28 :-) um you have a huge one? good for you!!

[bman2254]

I think ur right, a big penis dosen't mean great sex, it all just depends on you and insecuritys do affect a "performance"

[markinkw33]

most men lie about there dick size... that is not hot at all... would ratehr a guy have a small one or average one and be honest about it... lies are not hot

[ronbrendon]

exactly... if you have self respect why care what the society tells you?

[Xolify]

I like this video, but I would also like to say that I think you focused on "less is more" a tad too much. Remember that there are people with insecurities related to their enormous cocks (yes, I'm serious), so I think the ultimate thing would be to focus on "whatever he's got, is more".

[iratetruth]

Excellent  video.

[iratetruth]

Im 7inches length 5 inches in  width.

[bigtoast3]

yea your funny

[darkangel79413]

That is totally true, I'm only 18 and I haven't seen very many penis's, but I do think it's all about your relationship with the guy...if it's small it's small, you love them either way...

I think I have a good size penis, it's not large like in porn...but it get's the job done...

thank you for talking about this issue!

[mhdickson]

well said mate, there was a UK documentary I saw recently that backs up a lot of your opinions - I remember them saying that we have poor size judgement since many men ( esp straight ones I guess!) will only see other guys dicks in porn movies - & they are hardly average! no wonder everyone's feeling inadequate!

[OnEye]

your accent makes me swoon a little.

[VeryDustyO]

I am happy as long as they have one !

[MakeItRight9]

Stop moving! xD its annoying

[Amadeus2k8]

ditto its a bit annoying

[maveric99]

I used to have a boyfriend who liked to say, "There are two kinds of gay guys in this world-- size queens and liars." Joking aside, I think you really got it right about being attracted to a guy's confidence and self-esteem over penis size any day. I do like fit bodies that reflect that the person cares about himself and who doesnt abuse himself with food, drugs, alcohol or stupid sex practices (like fisting—STUPID). To me, that's way more important than if the guy has a big penis.

[lover028]

I agree that a big penis does not make a good lover, but this phenomenon of "big penis" is not really imposed by the society, it exists since the begining of the mankind. The difference is that today it's represented by porn iindustry and that before you were realising this difference with your friends as we were MORE LESS prudish that today. Therefore, only humans impose themselves this kind of thing.Namely, it's jealousy, which is totally human.

[rle11wb]

Well said. I have a bi friend who is almost 40 and very frustrated because in 20 years of trying, no one has ever been able to deep throat him. Everybody talks about how good it feels and he can't relate.

He also has not been able to have sex with a number of woman and men because of his overly large penis. He hates it!

[Mitsui321]

I think u should tell us more about YOUR relationship with dicks... big or not!

[thatonehatgirl]

yay for wimjimjams being back.

[lostintranslate333]

i dont think having big cock is disgusting cuz obviously some people have fetish for it but i do think big dick is not essential for good sex life. it just really depends on what people like i think.

[traceyjimjams]

i completely agree wim, although i think you pissed off pleniluniun though!!! ha ha ha

[DNSxDK]

your so right.. look at the McDonalds in the US, Supersize my ass!! :D

[hotkinky18]

wow this is crazy your soo right superficial isnt better

[exleo7385]

Exactly!

[TnDon]

Best I ever experienced wasn't very big at all but the skill in lovemaking was spectacular. People (guys) with large organs frequently suffer from the same effect that extremely good looking people suffer....they're stuck up and every aspect of their total personality revolves around their "thing" to the total exclusion of everything else important.

[mattjmccue]

you rule

[nyu08]

...and how his insecurity is affecting your lovemaking. It isn't healthy to continue to endeavor yourself into a relationship where your partner is constantly scrutinizing himself based on the audacious standards society has placed upon us. I recommend you reevaluate your relationship based on what YOU want and how it is affecting YOU. End the relationship NOT because he has a small penis but rather because he isn't able to look past his own insecurities in order to give you what you want.

[Heyaitsjohn]

That's mega selfish. I'm sorry but dumping someone because of their insecurities is just idiotic. . .everyone will have a few of them and you're better off building a relationship with someone you like and helping them overcome their insecurities as opposed to looking for someone without ANY.

[nyu08]

James doesn't necessarily address the problem directly. You're needing to reconcile the dichotomy between his actual penis size and the manner in which he deals with his penis size (both of which affect the level of lovemaking, something which seems to concern you). His penis size is what it is; there's no changing it. If it isn't pleasing you, chances are it is never going to please you and you would be better off looking elsewhere. The bigger issue, I feel, is his insecurity towards it...

[madisonbailey]

where have you been?

[1111scream]

size does not matter, confidence does!

I am small, and being of an asian mix parentage does not help either!

(yes guys, asians are small),

Sometimes I do feel I might not measure up with others, and I understand where that friend of Sophie is coming from...

Anyhow, I think if You're confident with yourself, You will transmit that to your partner!

James, Welcome back. See you around SOHO.

-wackyzacky-

IReland (in London at the mo)

[nbboi1]

Too much of a good thing isn't always good.I had a guy pull "it" out one time and I was like what to you want me to do with that, burp it?

[mmmplee]

Sounds like you were talking as much, if not more, to Sophie's boyfriend rather than Sophie.

[Prideboi26]

Good video, so agree with you James!

[jtizzle1017]

AMEN! You said it like it was coming out of my own brain. I think big penises are kinda creepy.

I kept giggling when you would say dictate. :D

"Dick shit" Entertaining while informative.

[littleBIGGERchris]

There's nothing like watching a guy pull his shorts down and pulling out a HUGE one, just gets your heart racing, your mouth watering, and your dick hard. Anybody who says a big dick is NOT a turn-on is a fucking liar.

[wholston]

Skank. ;)

[mmmplee]

The audio preview for this must have been gold.

[notcalebkruzel]

at 1:12 that water tower is right down the street from me in America!!!!

haha. thats so funny.

[jex9]

Doode long time no see!!

Hey xypowerpop! {:D

[Flanole]

I think you are totally correct. Really some of these guys hung like elephants must be really uncomfortable in clothes. Six inches is the average which means half are less. Live with it and love it. :)

[xypowerpop]

great advice James :-)

[flaze3]

Yeah, I think you're absolutely right. Beauty is in proportion, and a huge penis disrupts that. Moreover, the fact that the average penis size is as it is tells us that a huge penis has no natural benefit.

Good vid :)

[ralphfv]

aw i missed u (:

[waynooooo]

You brighten my day.

This is no lie.

Hope you're back to stay! Love the advice, very wise ;)

[KrazyTymes]

OMG, it's so good to see you back!!!

[Petrades]

Give it to me long and hard! Yeah! In all seriousness, it's all about presentation these days, not demonstration. It's sad, but true.

[xypowerpop]

rofl xander :-)

[blackirises88]

Hey, I agree.

[Thisisace]

Very sensible advice, Jim.

[dafttool]

In Ancient Rome, all houses had Priapus statues, the bigger the penis, the supposedly better the blessings for the house. There's a difference between the "G-rated" statues in museums & art books, and the actual range those statues took.

There's an obsession in our culture with bigger being better. But I've found that sometimes size queens have a larger appetite than they know what to do with (if you're catching my drift). What's much more important is knowing how to use what you've got.

[moangui]

Welcome back JimJams, misses you tons!

I personally think that you fall in love with the person, not the thing between the legs. I have always found that having sex with someone I love (or even like) is much better than being fu*ked by a large penis attached to a person I don't enjoy.

[UncleBym]

You can go mad trying to 'measure up' to the porn stars. Sure, a big cock is nice but at the end of the day I'll be hugging my boyfriend...not his penis!

[flaze3]

well said, sir.

[robbob60504]

smaller penises are better cuz its easier to give head

[DeanLeonard1]

Indeed. Michelangelo's David--a work of art that is considered the embodiment of male beauty and perfection--is hung like a hamster. 'Nuff said.

[Tlelaxue]

He might just be a Show-er instead of a Grower.