This song is about 2 different girls who self-injure by cutting. The brunette girls father finds out and comes to her school, and to her rescue when he picks her up and brings her home. The blonde girl is self harming because of the loss of someone. I know that there are a lot of comments about overcoming cutting, but what you dont understand is how much of a victory this is. It's very difficult to stop, and these people are proud. You don't have to understand it, just please respect it.
It's a complex issue. It's not an addiction like heroine, and it's not a sexual thing like masochism. You are so upset, so emotionally distraught that you can't deal with it. The only thing that brings the slightest relief is physical pain. And it's different for everyone. Some people get addicted to the control. They feel their lives are out of control and this act is the one thing they CAN control. This is the only pain in thier lives they have some infuluence on.
For others, they like the pain. Depression can make you feel so, so numb. Like you're watching a movie, not living your life, feeling the sting as a blade slides through your skin, can make you aware of that life. Remind you that you're not dead. For some people it's the blood. They like seeing it, feeling it pulse, knowing they're still alive. Some people don't even feel the pain, they're so focused on the act there is no pain.
But everyone gets something out of it. Everyone gets a release from it. The adrenaline, the chemicals bouncing around in your body, it's a whole new kind of high. That's what you get addicted to. You get addicted to that feeling, you're alive, you're in pain but at least you can understand the physical pain because the emotional pain is too confusing to fathom at all. Cutting is incredibly addicting, because you get a sense of release from it, relief.
You get so upset you start to panic. The world feels slow beause your mind is racing so fast, your heart beats, you cant breath you feel like you are going to explode if you dont do something, and cutting brings you back. It calms you down, it helps you focus. That's why it's addicting. When you're in a depressive panic state, and this act can make you fel better, make you feel alive, make you FEEL, you get addicted. It certainly doesn't solve any problems, but it's addicting regardless.
It's hard to explain, unless you've been there. Depression affects people in strange ways, and they do feel numb. Affection doesn't feel safe, colours dont seem bright, food has no taste, everything in life is bland. Boring, dull. Not in the way that there's nothing to do that day, but you can be in the middle of something you would normally find exciting, and feel nothing. It's like watching clothes go around a dryer all day, every day. Sure, you know what's going on, but you really don't care.
It doesn't. Depression leads to feeling numb and alone and can lead to self injury. Not everyone who's bored or leading a dull life is depressed, and not everyone whos depressed has a dull life. Depression affects whoever it bloody well wants to. You can be the most exciting person or the most boring person, and still get depressed. Depression isn't a side effect of boredom. Numbness is a side effect of depression. And not everyone who is depressed self injurses.
sometimes when youre depressed adn stuff you have felt so much pain that u build a wall and block it out like something th happend or tht someone said so the next time something sad happens you dont really feel sad and you dont feel anything if tht makes sense
I hate to sound like a meany, but ive seen suicides, and sometimes some people are better off suceeding, before they ruin any remnant of a good legacy by bringing there "loved" ones down with guilt and worry... And I have lost some people close to me too ;(
I can relate to this so much and my self harm addiction just gets worse but I have hope it will get better and that the special person will keep giuding me through it <3
I love this song, and I listen to it continuously, the first time i heard it si started to cry. Horses took me away from cutting, and a few people that helped. Thank you, this song is amazing :) <3
Im still stuggilng with my self harm addiction. My dad knows it too but doesnt show any emotion about it which makes me depressed even more. Im just trying to find someone who cares enough to tell me there is hope. But im slowly stoping by myself,Im proud <3
I cut and I've only told one person. He tells me to stop and that i dont deserve pain but I feel that i do. and im getting out of control. I want to stop but i cant and i cant imagine life without it. I need help but im too scared. :(
I've tried that but It didn't work. I have a lot of hobbies but they don't stop me. A lot of my friends don't lived in town though and are really busy.
darling no matter how grim life looks you just need to see the silver lining, everything has it, for every single time someone dies in the world two more a born, life is beautiful and we are beautful, dont waste your life and go out a love the world
you may not see it but trust me, its there, on everything, even if you dont belive it at first just think up one good thing about everything you see when u look out the window and as you walk down the street, soon youll be much happpier
i just told one of my best friends that i cut, and im so glad i did. sure, he got mad and almost told my mom, but he helped a lot. he made me promise not to cut anymore and i dont want to break that promise.
this video makes me cry almost every time i watch it. its pretty much my life in song form. <3
this video makes me cry. i absolutly love it. Im such an up and down person, "the deeper you cut, the deeper i hurt, the deeper you cut it only gets worse." my favorite line.. i love you, between the trees. :)<3
angel2love3: i think the reason they get mad is because they feel helpless. i myself have dealt with this. except, now i have finally been able to stop. i just wanted to tell you to never give up hope.
Angel2love3, I know how hard it is when ppl tell you not to do it again, and get mad when u do, even though they care. Its hard to explain to them that u can't just stop. Its not that simple. I understand, I do it too, so message me on here if u need to talk anytime xx
i used to cut i hated life and i cry when i see her in the bathroom with the knife i wish someone had done that for me and maby i wouldent have such deep scars
yeah , i was thinking the same thing. me &my best friend were talking about how if that was us we cant think of anyone that would do that for us . i would definitely do that for her though . idk if she would for me, but .
This song is so amazing but add the video and its 10 times more inspirational. It gives me chills. I cry every single time the dad comes and hugs her in the bathroom. Most parents would say you were stupid but he loved her enough to recognize the extent of her pain.
everyone has their way of cope. stay strong, a week is impressive. be proud you made it that long, and don't give up. even if some people tease you, there will always be others out there who understand what your going through.
I wish I could give this song to my boyfriend and all my friends. They aren't depressed and they don't cut, but this is like a way of telling them that they are everything to me and I will always listen to them
I may not know you. but if you self harm I know you deserve better. It *is* an addiction. But today, you're alive and that means there's hope out there for a better tomarrow, even if it doesn't seem like that all the time.
i have alot of friends who are cutters & are depressed, i'm depressed and have cut once.... i refuse to do it again, because i saw how much it hurt *them*. But my boyfriend does it too... and i dont know what to tell him anymore.... i let him know i love him, and that no matter what its going to be okay, even if he can't stop from cutting all the time .... but i dont know how to help him anymore...? any advice anyone?
just let him know you love him, and talk with him a lot. and try to get him to promise he'll stop. it really helps( at least it did for me.) and yeah, just let him know there's hope, and that people love him.
i love this song i know how she feels i do the same thing it makes u feel like ur dien but ur not it just in reality no one cares there all liers the only love is what u have for urself
i used to cut, but then i started again. my freind is doing it and im trying all i can to make her stop, but im being a hypocrite. our other friend found out what we do and she flipped and doesnt get that cutting is addictive. even if u want to stop, u cant.
if u know someone who has this addiction u need to tell someone, or if your not comfortable with that just talk to your friend. talking helps a lot
heei , dont mean to be a creeper or anythingg but alot of ppl go through simmilar things.. you should really tell someone or talk before it does get alot worse
i agree with helloxxkitty99 your best bet would be to talk to someone who has gone through the pain of cutting who will listen and understand... and check out to wright love on her arms im a huge supporter of them
I know how you feel. My boyfriend and I are both cutters, and we've both stopped for each other.. But he doesn't know how hard it is for me just to pick up a knife again. Sometimes I feel like I can't even go to him about it. You're not alone. But you truly deserve better in life. Not saying it's a low, cheap thing to do. But I'm being honest. I know I don't even know you, and I know for a fact you deserve better. Hang in there.
this song gets to me alot as i used 2 do it BUT NOT ANY MORE as MY NEW girlfriend, well girlfriend for 4 years now LOL helped me and ive now helped my m8ts who cut
Theres a huge difference. You can kill yourself by cutting if youre not careful. I know its unrealistic, but try forgetting about whatever "hurt" so bad and busy yourself with something else. It does no good moping and hurting yourself.
I've tried to cut before....it didn't work because my scissors are not sharp enough.
I realize how stupid it is....but I get so depressed, and can't stop myself. I reach for the scissors, open them and drag them across my wrist so that it's red and sore. :(
@summersweetie14 ya i know what u mean, they use the person who nobody would expect to do it, probably to show that just becuase they dont show it, doesnt mean there not...
Well i know this is the same thing a lot of people have said but seriously cutting or any kind of self injury isn't the answer to anything and once you start it is hard to stop, i still struggle with cutting too but i'm trying to stop and i encourage everyone else to stop too
Any one who cuts..knows it really is addiction because it helps..but makes it worse... i cut too deep once...not good..i almost died.. i look back and see hoe stupid i was. and all because ppl where making fun of me cuz im gay.. well thats dumb.. im stronger now. anyone can overcome this.. i promise...so put down the knife,razor whatever. you will be glad u did.
When my dad found new marks on me (just scratches, not even real cuts), he threatened to send me off to some Catholic brainwashing place to get rid of it. I mean, had the pamphlet and everything. So you know... fuck this video. It doesn't happen like that.
@OrimiCorruption Yeah, my dad wasn't like that either when he caught me. He screamed at me and was mad at me. He thought I was doing it because of my friends or something? My goody-two-shoes, Christian friends.. Smart dad.
not one lyric is more true than that. cutting is serious. i had a problem with it. an addiction. but the best thing in the world is stopping. Its not worth it. It just makes the pain worse.
p.s xotalliexo04 i reallyy hope you can figure out who this is. because i was with you when you put the comment on.
i was addicted. its a really hard thing to overcome but with the help of a friend or two who know the real you can definately help. it took me 5 months to get over it. the scars leave wounds that will never heal. but once your done its amazing. to anyone who does it dont do it anymore its honestly not worth it at all. so stop doing it
cutting is a hard thing to stop...i know,but this song is helping me. my parents dont know but im hoping to completely stop before they do fing out. GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE WITH THIS ADDICTION!
i had this addiction, but i culdnt stop before someone told, but im happy they did, or who knows, could have gone too deep, every day i would go a bit deeper because it wasnt satisfying me anymore...
i think you shouldn't try to fix it all on your own before you tell. I have plenty of friends finally did tell their parents and it made everything so much easier to walk through. If you don't feel like you can trust your parents, tell an adult you trust - teacher, advisor, youth group leader... someone who can help you before it's too late!
thanks, but my rents would never understand. my friends get mad at me and i only have 1 or 2 that know i really cut. i hav 1 friend that would understand, i told her everything but we arent that close anymore. i cant tell a teacher cuz they might send me to counseling and my parents will end up finding out.
sarah am i the friend that u told everything to? if it is me.... i thought we were bestest buddies! plz tell me if that is me, who u arent close to anymore
This song is my life.. It makes me think in a way i never htought bout my problems and my addiction. the part that really means sumthing to me is. Close ur eyes and just forget bout the the bleeding........ <3 Love Between the Trees!!!
That's not really funny, nor a joking matter. Considering some people get hit, bad. and some people cut. if you had a "reason" to cut, you wouldn't announce it to the world. We won't pity you.
ive been wondering...if she went to the drawer and there was nothing there, howd she pull the knife out? talking about drugs i would assume, but that doesnt really follow the story or message, soooo...?
The lyrics "She opens it, there's nothing there, there's only left over tears" isn't talking about how there's nothing in the drawer, it's talking about how there's nothing left inside of her.
wow. this song is amazing. i used to have a bad cutting problem. and i had one too many close calls with suicide. i also lost one of my best friends to suicide. it makes u think. u never know how someone else is really feeling. this song makes me cry when i think of how i used to be. im finally getting over my cutting though. a few relapses here and there but for the most part im finally getting better. between the trees is amazing. <333
I Love this song so much. It always makes me tear up, first time I heard it i cried. One of my best friends used to cut, and another girl I was very close to attempted suicide 2 or 3 times. My sister also used to cut. I don't want anyone to feel that way.
this song made me cry so much because my 2 best friends killed themself .. i knew them scince i was 2 and they were every thing to me them cindi cut herself to much and too deap and hit a vain and died and because of this lance couldent take itt and he hung himself while i was at his house i want everyone to know that eventho all this has happend i still have never cut my self and i never will because i see how it not onley hurt my friends but it hurt the people who loved them...
i have been cutting for the past 2 years. then i watched this video and i stopped. this video helped me out allot. but a couple days after i stopped a friend found out about my cutting. we dont really talk anymore and yesterday she made a bitchy little comment in front of all my other freinds practically stating that im a suicidal cutter. i'm scared to back to school
it sounds like not going to school would only prove that their perspective of you is correct. if you have changed you should be proud of that and show them how strong you are now.
dont worry about it , if shes doing little bitchy things then maybe she wasnt really your friend, just go back to school dont let her interfear with your life, its ur life not hers
trurt me, i know how it feels for someone you think is your friend to totally turn away from you and do things like that. if you think you can really work it out, try talking to her and really explaining what going on. if that doesn't work, i know there's other people out their who can be a true friend
Im a guy and i cut, but this video reminds me of my best friend who is a girl, she cuts and i have to help her, which is partly why i find it so hard too cope, but im never gonna stop because she means the world too me.. and i know she would be there for me if she could..
i love this song so much. i broke down when the dad hugged the girl. xx i cut myself and it's really hard to stop. it's my way of coping. to everyone who cuts themself, you're not alone we're in this together.
You are fucked up fer saying that. People who cut don't do it fer attention they do it fer a coping mechanism. And everyone has felt like cutting or killing themselves once in their life and your going to say that. you have no right to judge people if you are going to say that. people cut and kill themselves because of selfish basterds liek you. go die in a hole. Dont comment on a video saying that shit if you know people are going to feel even worse because they seen what you wrote
No it's not a fact it's a opinion. I'm no fucked up i'm the one helping people out while you're the one waisting you're worthless life insulting people over youtube. And if 2/3 of the population thibnks the same way you do. I wish you all luck if you believe in god you all are most def not going to heaven for hating on people who need help.. That is so riduculous.. :// You have no respect..
You don't een know me and your going to interpret i dont help people out. Whateer. Dude get a life. Fuck off people like you make the world een more fucked up.
it never got too bad, and thank god i was able to stop when i did.
just remember: even though it may feel like there's no one out there who loves you, or who cares, God will always be there. if your father wouldn't come to you like the girl in the video's, remember your heavenly Father will. that's what got me to stop.
I wore orange yesterday :3 xD
i support the orange ribbon and TWLOHA
JoshIsAL0ser 11 months ago
he has got beautiful eyes
missy101kt 2 years ago
I lost one of my best friends to cutting.
It's the most terrible feeling ever, to lose someone like that.
Especially when it's the only thing YOU can resort to, even though you know what could happen.
LexBelladona is absolutely right about everything that she said.
xforeverfadingx 2 years ago
Eugh, typically there would be crap discussion attatched to a video like this.
However.
I much prefer the original recording of this song. This version is shit.
DucksWillRule 2 years ago
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Love this song!
Morningdew1435 2 years ago
i luff dis gr0up way 2 much n0w!!!!!!!!!!!<3
ashwani180895 2 years ago
Can anyone tell me what this song is about? All I see is emo and even more emo. No offense.
Also tired of the "Used to cut but don't anymore!" comments.
Dc3n7s 2 years ago
This song is about 2 different girls who self-injure by cutting. The brunette girls father finds out and comes to her school, and to her rescue when he picks her up and brings her home. The blonde girl is self harming because of the loss of someone. I know that there are a lot of comments about overcoming cutting, but what you dont understand is how much of a victory this is. It's very difficult to stop, and these people are proud. You don't have to understand it, just please respect it.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago
Respected. But I don't see how cutting becomes an addiction unless you're a Masochist.
Thanks for explaining for me.
Dc3n7s 2 years ago
It's a complex issue. It's not an addiction like heroine, and it's not a sexual thing like masochism. You are so upset, so emotionally distraught that you can't deal with it. The only thing that brings the slightest relief is physical pain. And it's different for everyone. Some people get addicted to the control. They feel their lives are out of control and this act is the one thing they CAN control. This is the only pain in thier lives they have some infuluence on.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago 2
For others, they like the pain. Depression can make you feel so, so numb. Like you're watching a movie, not living your life, feeling the sting as a blade slides through your skin, can make you aware of that life. Remind you that you're not dead. For some people it's the blood. They like seeing it, feeling it pulse, knowing they're still alive. Some people don't even feel the pain, they're so focused on the act there is no pain.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago 2
But everyone gets something out of it. Everyone gets a release from it. The adrenaline, the chemicals bouncing around in your body, it's a whole new kind of high. That's what you get addicted to. You get addicted to that feeling, you're alive, you're in pain but at least you can understand the physical pain because the emotional pain is too confusing to fathom at all. Cutting is incredibly addicting, because you get a sense of release from it, relief.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago 2
You get so upset you start to panic. The world feels slow beause your mind is racing so fast, your heart beats, you cant breath you feel like you are going to explode if you dont do something, and cutting brings you back. It calms you down, it helps you focus. That's why it's addicting. When you're in a depressive panic state, and this act can make you fel better, make you feel alive, make you FEEL, you get addicted. It certainly doesn't solve any problems, but it's addicting regardless.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago
Hm. I don't have anything to say to that to which I don't know what you'll say back.
It's just annoying to me. Maybe I'm foolish for being so misunderstanding. And for looking down on something I hold little understanding of.
I really don't understand how someone can feel nothing at all. How they can feel empty.
Or numb. Hm.. Maybe it'll come to my understanding some day.
Dc3n7s 2 years ago
It's hard to explain, unless you've been there. Depression affects people in strange ways, and they do feel numb. Affection doesn't feel safe, colours dont seem bright, food has no taste, everything in life is bland. Boring, dull. Not in the way that there's nothing to do that day, but you can be in the middle of something you would normally find exciting, and feel nothing. It's like watching clothes go around a dryer all day, every day. Sure, you know what's going on, but you really don't care.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago
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Hmm.. I don't see how a boring, dull life leads to feeling numb, and getting depressed, and ultimately, cutting oneself.
Dc3n7s 2 years ago
It doesn't. Depression leads to feeling numb and alone and can lead to self injury. Not everyone who's bored or leading a dull life is depressed, and not everyone whos depressed has a dull life. Depression affects whoever it bloody well wants to. You can be the most exciting person or the most boring person, and still get depressed. Depression isn't a side effect of boredom. Numbness is a side effect of depression. And not everyone who is depressed self injurses.
LexBelladonna 2 years ago
Okay... I won't make that comment anymore then?
Dc3n7s 2 years ago
sometimes when youre depressed adn stuff you have felt so much pain that u build a wall and block it out like something th happend or tht someone said so the next time something sad happens you dont really feel sad and you dont feel anything if tht makes sense
XxXoldshoesXxX 2 years ago
@XxXoldshoesXxX So what your saying is that if someone makes fun of you over and over again you kinda get this numb feling?
JoshIsAL0ser 11 months ago
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x3dgmyaddictionxawg 2 years ago
this song is amazing. i cried. i feel like a pussy.. whatever. i have a terrible cutting addiction and this ment a lot to me
Wagseey 2 years ago
I hate to sound like a meany, but ive seen suicides, and sometimes some people are better off suceeding, before they ruin any remnant of a good legacy by bringing there "loved" ones down with guilt and worry... And I have lost some people close to me too ;(
deadloch9 2 years ago
i know what you mean, and same here. my older brother at 17 and my mom always cut wen i was a child.
Wagseey 2 years ago
and that cutting is never the answer it just adds to your pain....
ShakeandBake360 2 years ago
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ShakeandBake360 2 years ago
I can relate to this so much and my self harm addiction just gets worse but I have hope it will get better and that the special person will keep giuding me through it <3
XXXIHEARTCOOKIESXXX 2 years ago
This song was/is my story.
I love this song, and I listen to it continuously, the first time i heard it si started to cry. Horses took me away from cutting, and a few people that helped. Thank you, this song is amazing :) <3
AngelHorse101 2 years ago 2
I love this song soo much. Cute video.
Im still stuggilng with my self harm addiction. My dad knows it too but doesnt show any emotion about it which makes me depressed even more. Im just trying to find someone who cares enough to tell me there is hope. But im slowly stoping by myself,Im proud <3
iloveandy6 2 years ago
you should be!! its very difficult to stop without help, but its not impossible!!
keep the faith, remember that behind all the things that might hurt you there is hope
ciccipordi90 2 years ago
My cutting story.
Jesus was the man who held me and told me it was alright. I'm stopping, slowly. He's more than the crutch, hes the whole hospital. haha
BekaThePixie 2 years ago 5
I love this song.. It makes me sad.. I can relate to it so much.. but its.. hard to stop. It makes me feel.. almost content.
scatters432 2 years ago
I cut and I've only told one person. He tells me to stop and that i dont deserve pain but I feel that i do. and im getting out of control. I want to stop but i cant and i cant imagine life without it. I need help but im too scared. :(
shanmannon 2 years ago
find something to replace cutting, also find a distraction and go out as much as you can with mates
SuperFreak41 2 years ago
I've tried that but It didn't work. I have a lot of hobbies but they don't stop me. A lot of my friends don't lived in town though and are really busy.
shanmannon 2 years ago
darling no matter how grim life looks you just need to see the silver lining, everything has it, for every single time someone dies in the world two more a born, life is beautiful and we are beautful, dont waste your life and go out a love the world
SuperFreak41 2 years ago
thank you for caring. But my vision is blocked and the sky is dark. I dont see a silver lining. sorry im so negative.
shanmannon 2 years ago
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x3dgmyaddictionxawg 2 years ago
Thank you. Ill keep that in mind and it's comforting to know that people have gotten through this so i can too.
shanmannon 2 years ago
you may not see it but trust me, its there, on everything, even if you dont belive it at first just think up one good thing about everything you see when u look out the window and as you walk down the street, soon youll be much happpier
SuperFreak41 2 years ago
ill try it. thank you
shanmannon 2 years ago
I miss you.
yourheadcanbeaprison 2 years ago
i just told one of my best friends that i cut, and im so glad i did. sure, he got mad and almost told my mom, but he helped a lot. he made me promise not to cut anymore and i dont want to break that promise.
this video makes me cry almost every time i watch it. its pretty much my life in song form. <3
MizzBizarre 2 years ago
D;
This video makes me cry .
But this is a great songg<33
CarleyxCatastrophe 2 years ago
this video makes me cry. i absolutly love it. Im such an up and down person, "the deeper you cut, the deeper i hurt, the deeper you cut it only gets worse." my favorite line.. i love you, between the trees. :)<3
MassacreMayday 2 years ago
angel2love3: i think the reason they get mad is because they feel helpless. i myself have dealt with this. except, now i have finally been able to stop. i just wanted to tell you to never give up hope.
quietgirl09 2 years ago
Omg thats amazingly sad DX
yomhnr6 2 years ago
Yeah, this vid/song made me cry, lol. I've struggled with self injury for 3 and a half years.
Rawrgasmiiic 2 years ago
it made me cry too..
i have and i continue too..
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i wish i had someone who cared like the father..
:/
Angel2love3 2 years ago
have you told anybody? because there is definitely someone who cares for you enough to help you through this
trust me, a friend of mine told me she had been cutting for a while now and asked me to help and she's working through it
just keep praying and looking for somebody :)
lilflip909 2 years ago
no i haven't told anyone..
where i am, people expect a lot out of me..and if this came out...they'd look down on me, and i dont want that either..
i keep praying, and looking...but most of them just dont seem to care..
i have 3 that really care, and theyre all guys.
they always tell me never to do it again..
the next time i do, they cry with me..
and tell me that they'll always be there..but yet they get so mad..
why does this happen?
:[
Angel2love3 2 years ago
Angel2love3, I know how hard it is when ppl tell you not to do it again, and get mad when u do, even though they care. Its hard to explain to them that u can't just stop. Its not that simple. I understand, I do it too, so message me on here if u need to talk anytime xx
SatinReign 2 years ago
I have the same thing....
Fredoferret 2 years ago
thats the exact same way i felt when i saw this video...
Crazyforever000 2 years ago
i used to cut i hated life and i cry when i see her in the bathroom with the knife i wish someone had done that for me and maby i wouldent have such deep scars
skater8573 2 years ago
yeah , i was thinking the same thing. me &my best friend were talking about how if that was us we cant think of anyone that would do that for us . i would definitely do that for her though . idk if she would for me, but .
xjamie95 2 years ago
This song is so amazing but add the video and its 10 times more inspirational. It gives me chills. I cry every single time the dad comes and hugs her in the bathroom. Most parents would say you were stupid but he loved her enough to recognize the extent of her pain.
KiraJeanRAF 2 years ago 4
"The deeper you cut, the deeper I hurt. The deeper you cut, it only gets worse"
.......
I don't think I need words to describe the feelings I get when I hear those lyrics.
xXAlonexInxDecemberX 2 years ago 5
i'm kinda embarrassed to say this but yeah this video made me cry a bit, when her dad found her in the potty room with a knife. :( :)
drbobo123 2 years ago
dont let it be embarrassing, i cried toand i dont care. neither should yu.
natisacutie 2 years ago 2
i usee 2 Cutt ; and this sonqq makess me think about wahh i dOnee <|3 & hOw my friends felt :(
XxLoSzaHxX 2 years ago
i used to cut but i havent in over a week, hopefully it stops forever. i get teased at school for it.
natisacutie 2 years ago
same here...
14blackparade14 2 years ago
everyone has their way of cope. stay strong, a week is impressive. be proud you made it that long, and don't give up. even if some people tease you, there will always be others out there who understand what your going through.
JamesBlue55 2 years ago 2
what does anyone really need when theyre reduced to cutting? a hug...just a nice warm embrace. heh...hugs...they work wonders :]
xXblueXrainsXx 2 years ago 7
i used to cut and so this video made me cry
SorryIRuinedYourLife 2 years ago 2
ways**
EMO93CONVERSExx 2 years ago
ah.. pain is pain... many was to resolve...
EMO93CONVERSExx 2 years ago
ahh<3
Ohhx3Michellee 2 years ago
When her dad hugged her I burst into tears and my dad was like what and I gave him a hug haha
My friend cuts herself and I try and help her but she just doent listen...I love her too much to lose her :(
abby123music 2 years ago
i love this song :) but its sad... it means alot to me cuz my friend cuts and i lost them recently :(
ChillyIce1820 2 years ago
((((Hugs)))
Sars xx
thatsbetter 2 years ago
I just started bawling at the scene with her dad. The only reason I ever cut was cause of my dad.
xlovablegalx 2 years ago
ths it jst way to sad..
champkartchick24 2 years ago
I wish I could give this song to my boyfriend and all my friends. They aren't depressed and they don't cut, but this is like a way of telling them that they are everything to me and I will always listen to them
KawaiiandSasuke 2 years ago
I may not know you. but if you self harm I know you deserve better. It *is* an addiction. But today, you're alive and that means there's hope out there for a better tomarrow, even if it doesn't seem like that all the time.
madngirl 2 years ago 3
i have alot of friends who are cutters & are depressed, i'm depressed and have cut once.... i refuse to do it again, because i saw how much it hurt *them*. But my boyfriend does it too... and i dont know what to tell him anymore.... i let him know i love him, and that no matter what its going to be okay, even if he can't stop from cutting all the time .... but i dont know how to help him anymore...? any advice anyone?
madngirl 2 years ago
just let him know you love him, and talk with him a lot. and try to get him to promise he'll stop. it really helps( at least it did for me.) and yeah, just let him know there's hope, and that people love him.
shioku21 2 years ago
i love this song i know how she feels i do the same thing it makes u feel like ur dien but ur not it just in reality no one cares there all liers the only love is what u have for urself
420goddess2 2 years ago
this shit made me cry..
sarapocorn 2 years ago
i used to cut, but then i started again. my freind is doing it and im trying all i can to make her stop, but im being a hypocrite. our other friend found out what we do and she flipped and doesnt get that cutting is addictive. even if u want to stop, u cant.
if u know someone who has this addiction u need to tell someone, or if your not comfortable with that just talk to your friend. talking helps a lot
loves911 2 years ago
Yea i was talking to my friend and she showed me a picture of this girl who would cut her self down to her bone it was sad
0RaWrErIn0 2 years ago
twloha<3
summersweetie14 2 years ago 2
I've been there. It's juvenile and NOT worth it. Get help, immediately! The people you care about WILL care, even if they don't understand.
rebeccacuriosity 2 years ago
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i love this song (:
BodyLikeWoah 2 years ago
"shes upset, bad day...
heads to the dresser drawer to drive the pain away"
story of my life rite there
my bf mite no what im doing but he has no idea just how bad it is getting and that it can get worse alot quicker.
sometimes dats wats so good bout it, it means i can cut more but at the same time thats the problem....
ive lost alot of friends to cutting, i dont wanna lose myself too. ..
but i cant help it. . . .
libbyb21 2 years ago
@libbyb21
heei , dont mean to be a creeper or anythingg but alot of ppl go through simmilar things.. you should really tell someone or talk before it does get alot worse
helloxxkitty99 2 years ago
i agree with helloxxkitty99 your best bet would be to talk to someone who has gone through the pain of cutting who will listen and understand... and check out to wright love on her arms im a huge supporter of them
guitarplayer2011 2 years ago
I know how you feel. My boyfriend and I are both cutters, and we've both stopped for each other.. But he doesn't know how hard it is for me just to pick up a knife again. Sometimes I feel like I can't even go to him about it. You're not alone. But you truly deserve better in life. Not saying it's a low, cheap thing to do. But I'm being honest. I know I don't even know you, and I know for a fact you deserve better. Hang in there.
DecemberUnDead 2 years ago 2
thanx alot
libbyb21 2 years ago
You are welcome. And I truly mean it.
DecemberUnDead 2 years ago
TO WRITE LOVE ON HER ARMS! Support the Cause =)
princesskmc 2 years ago 10
this song gets to me alot as i used 2 do it BUT NOT ANY MORE as MY NEW girlfriend, well girlfriend for 4 years now LOL helped me and ive now helped my m8ts who cut
666HellsAngels 2 years ago
so you take out your frustration on the only person that you can hurt without getting in trouble or whatever
but you just have to overcome it
you have to know that no matter what your problem is
(feeling lonely, being mistreated, being made fun of, problems with life)
to start solving your problems you have to love yourself and build up to be strong enough to handle your problems
you cannot be affected by little things
and if yu do have really serious problems like getting abused or raped
tripleL914 2 years ago
cutting used to be so stupid to me
and it still is
but i get it more
but cutting is not an option
i know
you just want to so bad
you hurt already so whats the difference
you want to take out all your frustations
but yelling and screaming and hurting other people is unrealistic
tripleL914 2 years ago 2
"you hurt already so whats the difference"
Theres a huge difference. You can kill yourself by cutting if youre not careful. I know its unrealistic, but try forgetting about whatever "hurt" so bad and busy yourself with something else. It does no good moping and hurting yourself.
batgirlluvsrock 2 years ago
ill try something different im gonna try to talk to 1 of my friends. i dont know wat to do...
sarahpuff02 2 years ago
I THOUGHT of cutting but told myself wtf? the problem will still be there in the morning plz stop if u ever need sum1 to tlk to im available hehehe
TO WRITE LOVE ON HER ARMS
thisgirlgotstyle 2 years ago
I've tried to cut before....it didn't work because my scissors are not sharp enough.
I realize how stupid it is....but I get so depressed, and can't stop myself. I reach for the scissors, open them and drag them across my wrist so that it's red and sore. :(
Morningdew1435 2 years ago
Did it make you feel better?
jamespummell 2 years ago
Sort of....but it also made me feel worse. I knew what I was doing, and I knew it was stupid, but....yeah. :(
Morningdew1435 2 years ago
Try jogging next time?
jamespummell 2 years ago
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Morningdew1435 2 years ago
this song helped me alot, its so true, i cant promis i'll stop but i will promis i'll try.
keeponhurtingme 2 years ago 2
woow.
i juss listened to this song for the first time & it hit mee i juss cried my eyes.
cause it's so true if you do it, it doesn't make it better. i used to but i finally opened my eyes.
Dancecutie916 2 years ago
i'm trying to stop...but i can't....
Fieldhockee 2 years ago
amazing song. i love how the band decided not to put the stereotypical "Cutter" in this video. they put the "perfect girl" in it.
summersweetie14 2 years ago 2
@summersweetie14 ya i know what u mean, they use the person who nobody would expect to do it, probably to show that just becuase they dont show it, doesnt mean there not...
pwninja5 2 years ago
Exactly. Usually it's the "perfect girl" who cuts, anyways...
Sad thing.. :\
PinkOrangeTree 2 years ago
Well i know this is the same thing a lot of people have said but seriously cutting or any kind of self injury isn't the answer to anything and once you start it is hard to stop, i still struggle with cutting too but i'm trying to stop and i encourage everyone else to stop too
luvaintwrthpain 2 years ago
i cant listen to this song with out crying :{ i lov this song so much though.
StellarSunrise 2 years ago
Any one who cuts..knows it really is addiction because it helps..but makes it worse... i cut too deep once...not good..i almost died.. i look back and see hoe stupid i was. and all because ppl where making fun of me cuz im gay.. well thats dumb.. im stronger now. anyone can overcome this.. i promise...so put down the knife,razor whatever. you will be glad u did.
dolphinwigsP 2 years ago
cutting urself does not make the pain go away it just makes the pain worser.....its not worth cutting yourself...
XxSk8erLinkxX 2 years ago
When my dad found new marks on me (just scratches, not even real cuts), he threatened to send me off to some Catholic brainwashing place to get rid of it. I mean, had the pamphlet and everything. So you know... fuck this video. It doesn't happen like that.
OrimiCorruption 2 years ago
@OrimiCorruption Yeah, my dad wasn't like that either when he caught me. He screamed at me and was mad at me. He thought I was doing it because of my friends or something? My goody-two-shoes, Christian friends.. Smart dad.
michaelforever33 2 years ago
"nothing good can come of this"
not one lyric is more true than that. cutting is serious. i had a problem with it. an addiction. but the best thing in the world is stopping. Its not worth it. It just makes the pain worse.
p.s xotalliexo04 i reallyy hope you can figure out who this is. because i was with you when you put the comment on.
08Bennyy 2 years ago
i was addicted. its a really hard thing to overcome but with the help of a friend or two who know the real you can definately help. it took me 5 months to get over it. the scars leave wounds that will never heal. but once your done its amazing. to anyone who does it dont do it anymore its honestly not worth it at all. so stop doing it
xotalliexo04 2 years ago
cutting is a hard thing to stop...i know,but this song is helping me. my parents dont know but im hoping to completely stop before they do fing out. GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE WITH THIS ADDICTION!
sarahpuff02 2 years ago 3
i had this addiction, but i culdnt stop before someone told, but im happy they did, or who knows, could have gone too deep, every day i would go a bit deeper because it wasnt satisfying me anymore...
twilightlover251 2 years ago 2
i think you shouldn't try to fix it all on your own before you tell. I have plenty of friends finally did tell their parents and it made everything so much easier to walk through. If you don't feel like you can trust your parents, tell an adult you trust - teacher, advisor, youth group leader... someone who can help you before it's too late!
samarai426 2 years ago
thanks, but my rents would never understand. my friends get mad at me and i only have 1 or 2 that know i really cut. i hav 1 friend that would understand, i told her everything but we arent that close anymore. i cant tell a teacher cuz they might send me to counseling and my parents will end up finding out.
sarahpuff02 2 years ago
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lol4smileykylie 2 years ago
sarah am i the friend that u told everything to? if it is me.... i thought we were bestest buddies! plz tell me if that is me, who u arent close to anymore
LOLFOBATLFAN 2 years ago
this song is 2 sad 2 listen 2
syco5621 2 years ago
i love this songg! :D
this reminds me of my ex best friend, she loved this sonnnggg/: i miss herr soo much.
iluvbbrf 2 years ago
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TEEN DRAMA THATS WAT THIS SONG IS!!!!
wait did she the girl on the floor of the bathroom die
LinkinParkGurl95 2 years ago
no she was saved.. hence the point of the video you inconsiderate prick.
jakesmitht 2 years ago 6
no the other girls dad died... i think
steegezproductions 2 years ago
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this song is so great!
xxkaitlinxx98 2 years ago
This song is my life.. It makes me think in a way i never htought bout my problems and my addiction. the part that really means sumthing to me is. Close ur eyes and just forget bout the the bleeding........ <3 Love Between the Trees!!!
EmoSk8trgirl40 2 years ago 2
Have hope,
And if you quit;
Good job.
And dont be ashamed of messing up,
We all are only human.
I know what its like to feel abandoned, lonley, and betrayed, but you WILL make it through.
Peace&Love<3
LadyC43 2 years ago 3
i would still be cutting if it wasnt for my best friend & my boyfriend :')
MizzBizarre 2 years ago
i use to cut,
my mom hit me LOL XD
1melimel1 2 years ago
That's not really funny, nor a joking matter. Considering some people get hit, bad. and some people cut. if you had a "reason" to cut, you wouldn't announce it to the world. We won't pity you.
music8meup 2 years ago
TWLOHA<333 this song made me cry when i first heard it ;)
xxxRosalieKeatonxxx 2 years ago 3
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What the FUCK is this..
TheRubiksCube 2 years ago
@TheRubiksCube .. a song :]
xemoskatergrlx 2 years ago
Well...yeah, haha.
I was mostly just in disbelief because the video is soooooo horrible.
TheRubiksCube 2 years ago
oh okay xD
xemoskatergrlx 2 years ago
its a song dumbfuck
xCjxVeNgEaNcEx 2 years ago
Uh, I'm pretty sure that I've already established that I understand that it's a song.
TheRubiksCube 2 years ago
this is a really good song. Love is the movement<3 TWLOHA, never give up theres always hope
27cutegirl27 2 years ago 4
ive been wondering...if she went to the drawer and there was nothing there, howd she pull the knife out? talking about drugs i would assume, but that doesnt really follow the story or message, soooo...?
rockon503 2 years ago
@rockon503 "noting gud will come of this" not "nuthing is in the damn drawer..crap" xD
xemoskatergrlx 2 years ago
The lyrics "She opens it, there's nothing there, there's only left over tears" isn't talking about how there's nothing in the drawer, it's talking about how there's nothing left inside of her.
ScarletIrish 2 years ago
i love this song soo much i listen to it everyday since my best frined told me to lstento it cuz he said it reminded hm of me <3
thislifehatesme 2 years ago
TWLOHA!!
xlaurenx181 2 years ago 3
I cut.
My dad knows... he would never do anything like that.
oloverisvintage 2 years ago
you can help yourself,just believe.
wazzupcowz 2 years ago
the first girl is playing the part of renee yohe. she is the girl that TWLOHA was formed for
skittables 2 years ago
Do we know the reason for the first girl cutting? The video only really shows the second girl's story. Does the first girl have a reason?
welshchick1993 2 years ago
wow. this song is amazing. i used to have a bad cutting problem. and i had one too many close calls with suicide. i also lost one of my best friends to suicide. it makes u think. u never know how someone else is really feeling. this song makes me cry when i think of how i used to be. im finally getting over my cutting though. a few relapses here and there but for the most part im finally getting better. between the trees is amazing. <333
lalatoriaaa8D 2 years ago 2
I Love this song so much. It always makes me tear up, first time I heard it i cried. One of my best friends used to cut, and another girl I was very close to attempted suicide 2 or 3 times. My sister also used to cut. I don't want anyone to feel that way.
ahartt92 2 years ago
this song made me cry so much because my 2 best friends killed themself .. i knew them scince i was 2 and they were every thing to me them cindi cut herself to much and too deap and hit a vain and died and because of this lance couldent take itt and he hung himself while i was at his house i want everyone to know that eventho all this has happend i still have never cut my self and i never will because i see how it not onley hurt my friends but it hurt the people who loved them...
123heeelo 2 years ago
hey skittables. dont be scared to go back to school. its awsome this band had an impact on yyou to stop. you are who you are.
hiphopper1892 2 years ago
i have been cutting for the past 2 years. then i watched this video and i stopped. this video helped me out allot. but a couple days after i stopped a friend found out about my cutting. we dont really talk anymore and yesterday she made a bitchy little comment in front of all my other freinds practically stating that im a suicidal cutter. i'm scared to back to school
skittables 2 years ago
it sounds like not going to school would only prove that their perspective of you is correct. if you have changed you should be proud of that and show them how strong you are now.
fallwhodoughtme 2 years ago 2
thank you
skittables 2 years ago
dont worry about it , if shes doing little bitchy things then maybe she wasnt really your friend, just go back to school dont let her interfear with your life, its ur life not hers
taylorbumbum 2 years ago
trurt me, i know how it feels for someone you think is your friend to totally turn away from you and do things like that. if you think you can really work it out, try talking to her and really explaining what going on. if that doesn't work, i know there's other people out their who can be a true friend
ReSpekt9845 2 years ago
i cutt myself to this song sometimes
thislifehatesme 2 years ago
Im a guy and i cut, but this video reminds me of my best friend who is a girl, she cuts and i have to help her, which is partly why i find it so hard too cope, but im never gonna stop because she means the world too me.. and i know she would be there for me if she could..
TheJoshJosh 2 years ago
that sounds kinda like me my guy best friend says this song reminds him of me and he trys to get me to stop cutting
thislifehatesme 2 years ago
i love this song so much. i broke down when the dad hugged the girl. xx i cut myself and it's really hard to stop. it's my way of coping. to everyone who cuts themself, you're not alone we're in this together.
shmexaymuffin 2 years ago 4
i wish more people listened to these guys
not enough money to send em over to australia
MrTrannie 2 years ago
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people who cut themselves are fucked up fags.
tarozeero 2 years ago
You are fucked up fer saying that. People who cut don't do it fer attention they do it fer a coping mechanism. And everyone has felt like cutting or killing themselves once in their life and your going to say that. you have no right to judge people if you are going to say that. people cut and kill themselves because of selfish basterds liek you. go die in a hole. Dont comment on a video saying that shit if you know people are going to feel even worse because they seen what you wrote
bobbitch2008 2 years ago 2
nonono, you don't get me, i was stating a FACT. i may not have the right to judge them? tell that to the other 2/3 of the population.
YOU are the fucked up one
tarozeero 2 years ago
No it's not a fact it's a opinion. I'm no fucked up i'm the one helping people out while you're the one waisting you're worthless life insulting people over youtube. And if 2/3 of the population thibnks the same way you do. I wish you all luck if you believe in god you all are most def not going to heaven for hating on people who need help.. That is so riduculous.. :// You have no respect..
bobbitch2008 2 years ago
you? helping out?
ha.
tarozeero 2 years ago
You don't een know me and your going to interpret i dont help people out. Whateer. Dude get a life. Fuck off people like you make the world een more fucked up.
bobbitch2008 2 years ago
funny, i read your profile and guess what, you're the fucked up one.
tarozeero 2 years ago
Well, it's nice you read my profile even though you hate me that makes no sence at all. And im not fucked up.
bobbitch2008 2 years ago
sense*
and, i wanna know, when on earth did i say that i hate you?
and which part of 'reading your profile' makes no sense to you?
tarozeero 2 years ago
I don't give a fuck if i spelled anything wrong. And you just reading the whole thing to try to make fun of me.
bobbitch2008 2 years ago
i cut myself in the past.
it never got too bad, and thank god i was able to stop when i did.
just remember: even though it may feel like there's no one out there who loves you, or who cares, God will always be there. if your father wouldn't come to you like the girl in the video's, remember your heavenly Father will. that's what got me to stop.
NickJsGurl108 2 years ago 3