How to Teach & Understand Child Behavior : Discipline vs. Punishment for Children

[hellokittycutie2003]

HEFFA PLEASE! Whooping ass and abuse are 2 different things. My mother let us know who the parent was, and that she was head honcho in the house. We stepped out of line, she nipped it in the bud. I'm 23 yo, never been pregnant, arrested, graduated high school, and have my degree. I'd die for my mom, so no resentment held. This new age advice is for the birds. Lack of discipline leads to chaos. I was raised under old school fundamentals, and I'm going to raise my future kids the same way.

[EdwardCullenCutie]

Good advice!

[Thejames44444]

If my child bits another child, I'm gonna say, " NO YOU DO NOT DO THAT , YOU APOLOGIZE FOR THAT . YOUR GETTING AN ASS BEATING WHEN WE GET HOME ."

[4488eli]

oh really!!??????!explaing me why now days kids are soo dern horrible,disrespecful,dishonet to adults!!!!.parents show good example!!!dont show weekness.be smart and teach the right way and be strong.get your kid when they disobey.they will thank you later on.

[whocares6210]

This woman is talking shit. She's teaching us how to be weak parents. Disciplining a child for a start, is letting them know you in control and your kids MUST obey you at all times or they will suffer the consequence. Parents should be be tough on kids.

[XRaDer360]

american punishment: "youre grounded. give me your phone" chinese punishment: "youre grounded. give me your chopsticks. heres a fork"

[missmosley2000]

White people shit. I'll be damned if I get down to any childs level. These studies are taken from white people who probably let their kids ru hte household. What you need to do is show then who is boss while their young. I'm not saying beat the snot out of them, but be a real parent and put your foot down. Ain't nothing wrong with placing your hands on your child. Their yours right?! Parents need to stop being scarred of their kids and take back control.

[dwaynedibbly]

Discipline AND Punish by michael foucalt :). Can't remember what was in there though, I studied it at degree but found it EXTREMELY dry and boring.

[CESARLZ2009]

she doesnt have kids, if she had a kid she wouldnt say this stupid ideas

[swarbricke]

BAD ADVICE!!!!! OMG! This girl couldn't be more wrong! Discipline is simply this: No TV, No Barbies, No phone, no play, AT ALL - until your homework and chores are done. This teaches a child to be disciplined. And punishment is: You bit your brother on the arm, now you lost TV for the day, earned more chores around the house and you have to write at least a 1/2 a page letter to your bother explaining why you are so sorry for biting him.

[BraveWomanCandy]

wow this is really bad advice. if you never use a firm assertive and yes intimidating tone with your child, he will not mind you at all. After all why should he?

[marcuslkt]

bull shit!!!! Stay calm? They all think wad u did and not what u did, if u say no i did'nt do that.......yr mom would go dont lie to me!! when u really did not do it

[kingofspades34]

"if you are calm they will stay calm", thats bull.

you try denying a child something they want, they'll whine. you have to spank them but also associate the pain from spanking to discipline.

dont give them the message that they did something you didnt want them to do, give them the message that what they did is wrong, no matter who or what is involved.

[FosterWA]

The USA has one of the most imprisoned populations per capita in the world. Positive parenting as per this video has been dramaticaly researched to improve child well being & social functioning & to reduce delinquency. I am a parent and this works. Change is challenging - but I urge you to research the evidence. Search "TripleP" and judge for yourself.

[Profbofece]

Its sad to see the "I was spanked and I'm ok" response being use. Yes, I was spanked and I'm ok too. The question here is if you can still have the same outcome of having a child understand (internally) the difference between right and wrong without having to humilate them or use physical force, why wouldn't you?

[TWINsBioDAD]

WHAT DO YOU THINK ( JAIL ) IS? IT'S FORCE AFTER THE FACT, THAT THEY WERE NOT TAUGHT RIGHT OR WRONG AND MORAL'S. OH!!! I was spanked and it helped remind me of CON-CIQUINCES,notice the beginning -con-.If a parent is corrective from the beginning and also rewards the child for positive behavior it is a lot better than building more JAIL'S. sign me as experienced and observant of life for 58 YEARS and raised children. Some times mentoring other children when my own were gone. L&L N.TWIN'S BIO DAD

[gunkler1]

I am willing to bet she has no children

[crazyshark70]

She doesn't know shit let kids go out and learn by themselfs but teach a little bit more about some behaviours. Don't tell them what never to do but what to do your just filling their heads with what your opinion is.

You parents need to learn that sometimes it's okay for your kid to do something bad becuase that will build their adventure into life.

Punishment just forms them into wjat you think

they should be. It's only bad when they take adsvantage okay so stop your idiotic opinions.

[OnlyAPawn1970]

My parents spanked my ass,growing up and I turned out great.Should have had my ass whooped more,actually.Therapists have fucked up society.A generation of self-important brats.White folks dont spank their kids anymore.There is a big difference in abuse and spanking-and yes I'm white.

[beckerexfred]

you need punishment!!!!!!!!!