You dont`t get scared for life after sex, unless its a violent rape & you get beaten & wake up in a hospital. Be it underage or not.
Sex feels good, everyone likes sex who have experienced it. Underage or not, nobody gives a fuck about getting an STD, or getting pregnant.
But young people are more easily manipulated into having sex. Curiosity & lack of info, thus the law was created, So grown ups nor underage wont have to deal with the unwanted Pregnancy nor STD, it is as simple as that.
My mom started fucking when she wuz 13. She fucked a 35 year old in HS. It wuz ok cause he was a cop. She got knocked up too. She had lesbian sex with one of her teachers too. But that's ok cuz its' girl on girl. I fucked Jimmy Nelson and he wuz a V. I fucked my math teach so I could graduate.
Maybe it's because male and female perpetrators are different. Older men seek out young females to sexually control. Older women seek out young males to care for. At least that's my best guess.
@Trips1103 You don't think that these women seek control as well? As far as I am concerned they are both equally defined defenders in my book...but we all know that looking at them that way is considered politically incorrect.
So maybe that whole "she must have been forced" or give more sympathy toward the female double standard was acceptable 20-30 years ago. But it is just not that way now. These girls need no other reason to want sex than the want of sex anymore. Furthermore as a man I know that there is a lot of pressure growing up from 11-16 because that is a period where you have to "prove" your masculinity. Add in raging sexual hormones and exposure to female genitals and you have a nice little home made bomb.
I agree with everything but one point. There are A LOT of fast and young females out there.Times have changed and this isn't "your generation" anymore there are many women giving up that subordinate role and are becoming the more aggressive pursuers of sex. And it is even more prevalent in the younger generations. First thing my mother told me when I got into MIDDLE school was to watch out for those fast little girls. And trust me they were fast enough to put a bullet to shame.
"my mother told me when I got into MIDDLE school was to watch out for those fast little girls."
Yes, your mom told you to look out for FAST girls. My ma told me to look out for BOYS. Yes, times have changed but that doesn't mean that girl IN GENERAL are just as aggressive as the boys. Also, male predators IN GENERAL go after the quiet girls, not the fast ones. So asking if it was her choice is relevant.
Perhaps you misunderstood me.She did not tell me to watch out for a specific type of girl. She meant it as a generalization. Just as your mother told you to look out for boys in general. And rather I believe that a pedophile in general will go after either someone that is searching for a sexual encounter just as easily as one that may not have been. Either way they are receiving both that measure of control that draws them to children and sexual gratification.
" I believe that a pedophile in general will go after either someone that is searching for a sexual encounter "
No, they do not. The ones who go for teens tend to go for quiet, shy, submissive girls. This is not my opinion. This the profile of male pedos.
And boys & girls are different due to evolution. That doesn't change over 1 generation. Boys are still more aggressive than girls even though there may be more aggressive girls now.
@jiggyman14 If kids are grinding it is because of the fucking adults. Your comment basically is saying they want it. You are of the animal kind. Black I suppose.
I'm not going to get into with you...I'm not sure if your brain is skipping a few steps or you are purposely trolling me. I was pointing out something I saw a while back that was related to your comment that disturbed me. Nowhere in my comment did I say they wanted to do anything. I didn't reply to you in order to start a debate. Poster of this male vs female is black as well. Please watch who you call of the "animal kind". Have a nice day.
I really liked your video. I have agreed with everything you said and I feel the same way. I noticed a lot of people posting saying that these days are different, I have to disagree, I have two daughters. The oldest is 19 and the youngest is 12. Let me tell you my youngest daughter has come home and told me about some of those boys in her classes and how disgusting they are. I mean these 12 year old boys know things that I can't beleive what they know! The girls don't seem to be that bad.
Thank you!. Some people just say stuff because they want to disagree. Girls may have gotten nastier over the years but they still got nothing on boys.
As a female who's had LOTS of genuinely male friends, I can say you're right. Young boys talk like that freely. I remember hanging out with my friend and his friends and I were walking on the block. In front of me, his friends started talking about doing something disgusting to a woman despite her being on her...you know. My male friend stood there embarrassed. Boys, especially when they're young really think of sex differently than us girls.
I got dry humped. By a man i do not know. And i got touched by my own father. I dont want to end up like my dad. Or the man that dry humped me. I will get a education and graduate highschool go to collage. And i am in therapy right now. And i will join the airforce. And use my trama and get the work done so i can live long and die rich knowing i have made sons and dauters with a great wife. And see my son's and dauters children. And i want to die rich and old and wise and peacefully. Thats me.
Most people who are parents shouldn't be. Any mother who doesn't care if her son is getting sat on top of by his teacher should be in jail with her. They should have to do the same exact sentence, and the mother should have to comply with Megan's Law and be put on a Child Predators List. I don't have kids, but believe me any adults trying to f^ck my kid would have their vertebrate removed if the cops don't get there first. Just saying.
People are totally not looking into the meaning of the the word "wreck." Stop judging. Long knew he was wrong. Creflo dollar is not defending him. I would think you would see that.
You don't think that female sex offenders have the same effect on males as male sex offenders have on females? That's BS...it's your opinion from a female perspective. How do you know how a male feels? The answer is you don't. I wouldn't presume to know how a female feels. How arrogant
Again, women can seduce men. Once seduced, the man will participate. If we're not speaking of forcible rape, then the stronger mind prevails. It happens very often that men can get involved with a woman that he shouldnt by way of seduction. That includes underage women.
I disagree. not all the time. A lot of men are sought after by these girls. I hate that women are the victims no matter how things went. Youre trying to paint the picture like your opinion is the majority. Then you flip it like all young boys are unable to be manipulated in the same manner. Thats sexist.
(Cont.)...Let's remember yesterday's women arent today's. Plenty young girls are extremely agressive and will initiate situations with older men. The old fashioned idea that men are always the aggressors is outdated and sexist. Women use sex as a weapon. Men can be seduced as well as women can.
'Plenty young girls are extremely agressive and will initiate situations with older men. "
But these are not the girls male sex offenders typically go for. Part of the reason they are attracted to young girls is the inexperience & being able to guide them & be in control. Experienced teens are a turn off. They like the shy quiet girls.
No sweety.....you misunderstand or simply forgot what you wrote.
"But these are not the girls male sex offenders typically go for. Part of the reason they are attracted to young girls is the inexperience & being able to guide them & be in control. "
That's the assertion I'm referring too.
Most men just want pussy, period, regardless of who gives it to them (assuming she's good/decent looking).
@UHeardMe1stTime and girls like older males because they are experienced.
And that person did not say that male sex offenders were going for the aggressive young girls... he was saying the aggressive young girls are initiating situations with older men.
"The old fashioned idea that men are always the aggressors is outdated and sexist. "
Due to the mechanics of sex (who penetrates whom) are more likely to be the aggressors & women have more to lose during a sexual encounter. A woman can throw herself at a man all day. He still must decide to penetrate.
@kandigirlzmagazine THANK YOU! God, I think it's so sexist that people think that it's always women who get sexually abused. Men get victimized just as much!
Citing double standards against women isnt justification for double standards OR sexism. No good. I dont agree with double standards of any kind. No matter what group stands to benefit...(cont.)
There are double standards against women. I recognize the differences between males & females and believe they are affected differently by different things.
This is just an ad hominem attack disguised as outrage at my opinion. You spend more talking about ME than the subject matter.
I do not accept none specific criticisms. Tell me exactly what you disagree with & I will tell you why I say what I say. If you want a pissing contest, go somewhere else. If you wanna talk about this subject matter, TALK ABOUT THE SUBJECT MATTER, not me.
@UHeardMe1stTime I disagree with this video because it sends out a very sexist message. Feminism has changed things for women in this country. Women are the biggest decision makers for themselves and their children. Men young and old in this country can not make a women do something she doesn't want to do and get away with it so easy.
This reminds me of those days when girls that were raped were often met with ridicule and disbelief. People often assumed they liked it or wanted it. So, these women rarely saw any justice. I find it sad that people see it differently. But, I guess that is society. I can assume that you don't see it the same way because you are a woman and therefore aren't fully aware of what this does to a young male (from experience). It just reminds me of when men did the same to women.
People are not understanding what I am saying in the video. I didn't say boys weren't victims at all. I said I don't think it affects them as much as females. Males & females are different.
@UHeardMe1stTime I understand what you are saying. And I replied to it. You are basing it off of your view of males, which isn't reality. As you haven't ever been a male victim your idea that "it affects girls more" is kind of skewed. But that is based off of your preconceived ideas of males and their mindsets. It's normal. I wouldn't invest in a man's opinion on what it's like to be a woman, and I wouldn't invest in a woman's opinion on what it's like to be a man.
" As you haven't ever been a male victim your idea that "it affects girls more" is kind of skewed."
By your same logic, you can't say it affects males more because you've never been a female victim. AGAIN, I am not saying it does not affect males. Males & females are different so how can they be affected by everything equally.
@UHeardMe1stTime Equally and differently are not the same things. Men may be affected "differently" but it doesn't mean that the way it affects them is unequal to a woman's. So your logic is still skewed. You are different than certain women, so if you were raped , by your logic, you would feel the exact same as every woman. People are individuals and ultimately each individual will deal with it differently (regardless of gender). So, your logic is still skewed.
And by the same token DIFFERENTLY does not mean EQUALLY. Boys & girls can be affected differently & still one sex could not be affected as much as the other. You still haven't said anything that makes what I'm saying incorrect.
"You are different than certain women, so if you were raped , by your logic, you would feel the exact same as every woman. "
We are not talking about individuals. We are talking about groups.
@UHeardMe1stTime LOL...you are still wrong. Saying that, "Boys & girls can be affected differently & still one sex could not be affected as much as the other. " is only based in opinion. Not backed by any actual data. It's quite obvious that you do not work in the Mental Health field nor do you understand PTSD in the least. Sorry, but you are still wrong.
"...only based in opinion. Not backed by any actual data."
Of course it's an opinion. My sentence often began with "I don't THINK boys are affect as much (in general). 2nd this is not something that can be proven definitively because "not affected AS MUCH" is difficult to define at best, impossible at worst. Even with data, the conclusion you draw from the data can still be an opinion. I stated my reasons for holding the opinion I hold. That's all I have to do.
@UHeardMe1stTime I am aware, it's just obvious that you don't know what you are talking about, and I personally feel sorry for your son. But, some people aren't meant to be parents. I personally can't continue to entertain you, so take care.
No you are not aware. If you were aware you wouldn't be talking about data.
You're confusing ad hominem attacks for refuting my argument. You have not said anything that argues against what I said. All you've done is tell me what I don't know with nothing to back it.
And the "I feel sorry for (fill in the blank)" is the cheapest trick in the book. Can't you do better? People say that when they suck at debating.
You did not listen to the video. I can tell because you're spouting off a spiel that MRA's spout off to feminists & I'm not one. Males & females are DIFFERENT. Their brains are wired differently & they have different levels of hormones. A woman has her space invaded during sex. A man does not. I didn't say boys were not victims. I said I don't think it effects them as much as girls (on the average).
@UHeardMe1stTime So since we are wired differently do men have to right to cheat...im just asking
because we are more sexually we should be able to have all the partners we want right. you keep
bringing up the fact that it foes not have the same effect and that it should be less of a crime
so just because im a guy im not as hurt so fuck me right....if thats the case i would like to hear your views on paternity fraud.Stop trying to make it seem like it not as bad. A crime is a crime.
@UHeardMe1stTime So since we are wired differently do men have to right to cheat...im just asking
because we are more sexually we should be able to have all the partners we want right. you keep
bringing up the fact that it foes not have the same effect and that it should be less of a crime
so just because im a guy im not as hurt so fuck me right....if thats the case i would like to hear your views on paternity fraud.Stop trying to make it seem like it not as bad. A crime is a crime.
"Are you saying rape exists in our society in the same way it does in the animal kingdom and is just a part of life? Cause that's what you're saying. Whether youmeant that or not...Think about it..."
Whether the young girl or generally kids consented or not is still apart from consideration. Most folks would believe kids are merely taken advantaged of- meanwhile, they can be predators, too.
Realistically, kids are as capable as adults in thought & act. Otherwise you wouldn't believe so many adults are as stupid & refer to them as childish.
The law can be very impractical, particularly as it defies consensual function. It's like punishing someone for attempting suicide.
@UHeardMe1stTime Parents are the accepted 1st step, but they aren't absolute. Reform schooling & detention facilities are resorts. We could say failed parenting is incessant in the US. Whether adult or child, the person is still learning &/or misunderstanding.
"Parent" does not mean "worldly child-rearer". Manuals & licenses aren't needed to parent nor procreate. It'd be helpful but would deny individual philosophy as folks generally raise kids in their image.
@UHeardMe1stTime I'm not saying parents are unnecessary, maybe obsolete, but there are various means to develop a functional adult.
By perspective, I'd say parents can be the least equipped. Single parent homes, more time at work (or party), teen parents, insufficient income, etc. After all, we're not inclined to be infinitely backed by our parents. And kids tend to absorb other schools of thought despite their parents' customs (& sometimes to their dismay).
Exactly. I think either way if your an grown man or woman an having sex with underage people that is nasty and wrong! But I do agree 9x out of 10 boys 13 and up are more down to have sex with older women....flat out I mean really these be their wet dreams come true when a female teacher does have sex with them. Not to say female don't think like that either, but more than likely females aren't interested. Good points in this video
also a female teacher in her mid to late 20s would hit on me too. but this was during the end of the school year. and i was in a private school. to make things worse i was touched when i was 9 years old by another female. and from ages 10-13 i was constantly hit on by adults. i dont know what these nasty ass people see in children. and from 13 i was homeschooled so i wouldnt have to deal with that shit anymore. i hate life and white people
i agree that nasty older men like girls who are young and innocent. this shit happened to me when i was 12 years old. i was a loner and always by myself, mainly cuz the other kids were bullies. if i wanted friends i would have had to become a bully too, and i didnt want any part of that. so my nasty history teacher would hit on me in the front of the class. but he didnt so much that i would be able to report it. he never tried to touch me but it still freaked me out
Teenage boys are often very deceptively sensitive. I've heard the same nasty talk you talk about from boys who later regret losing their virginity at such a young age. And I mean giving up their V-card to one of their peers. Boys at that age are just as new to their burgeoning sexuality as the girls are. They're very easy for an older woman to confuse and manipulate. I wouldn't be so quick to say they aren't as affected as girls.
I disagree I think that boys, are victims. Just because they enjoy the pleasure of someone significantly older doesnt mean it wont cause problems later. Psychologists say that even little children who are victimized sometimes enjoy the pleasure of the experience---it is the psychological damage afterwards the destroys the child. I do agree with one thing said on the video which is something I always believed. If a young male child or teen is molested by a man it can push him towards being gay.
You DID say @ 4:28 that most of the time you dont see boys as victims By the way, I am not talking about little boys either. I am also talking about talking about young men, for example 13 years old. I agree that it is not quite as damaging as if it were a female getting violated, but I do believe that it does more damage than seen on the surface. And much of the collateral damage will not rear its ugly head until years later, in most cases.Anyways I like your videos
"I agree that it is not quite as damaging as if it were a female getting violated"
That's all I'm saying. I said numerous times that I didn't see boys as victims ON THE SAME LEVEL AS GIRLS if the boys are acting certain way afterwards. I did not say boys were not victims at all.
Courts has awarded women child support after getting pregnant by minor boys 12 years old or so. Society, the media vilifies men in general that goes for not just sex that's anything and the opposite for women. Debra Lafave didn't get one day in jail. They said that was because the boys mother didn't want him to testify, BS. The state clearly says if the victim backs out the state becomes the victim. Casey Anthony gets away with murder and Warren Jeffs gets life for sex, make sense?
You're very wrong. Guys are out spoken about sex at a young age while girls act in out at that certain age, I know I was also that age once. You talked about a guy fills that space therefor women can't rape, but you left out oral sex which she very much is capable of performing just as Debra Lafave proved. Society convinces boy minors they scored and are lucky and convinces girls their victims. Sex and with minor girls and adults is no different than boys. You say boys can't be harmed, continued
This is why the Europeans laugh at us. Sometime in the last 30 years, we've lost sight of Natural Law. The watershed event thatmakes one a sexual being is puberty. 15 is not 9, and girls become women before boys become men. Yet we've created this artificial 5 year gap to the arbitrary 18 that has become a trapdoor for men and boys. Men are hard wired by 10000 years of evolutionarybiology tofocus on fertile females.Frankly, females should get stiffer sentences because theirbehaviorisdeviantper se
I believe she said that because it didn't happen to her Son. If an adult female did violate her Son, she would get her. As a young girl, the young boys in my grammer, middle and highschool, minds were in the gutter.And as a teen, Men 20's and 30's discusted me because they would always holla and try to get me and my friends numbers knowing full well we were under age.
This entire video is filled with convenient "man-bad woman good" clap-trap. More times than not in statutory rape cases the child involved "thinks" that they are part of a real relationship, they don't see themselves as a kicking and screaming victim. This goes for both genders. The desperate need to see the girl as absolute victim is simply wishful thinking. And believe me, girls can match boys point for point when being "nasty", they just hide it better.
Did you see Antwone Fisher? I WAS TALKING ABOUT THIS AT WORK AND SOME MEN WERE ADMITTED THAT THEY WERE MOLESTED BY FEMALE BABYSITTERS . AT 4 AND 5. ONE MADE A REFERENCE TO THAT'S HOW THEY LEARNED TO "EAT:. they played if off like it was cool, but i know dam well it if happened to their sons they would literal get the shotgun.
4 & 5 year olds are prepubescent and so was Antwon Fisher when he got molested. I do think it damages the child regardless of gender if they get messed at such a young age.
The problem with many peoples thought is that people believe that the male forces themselves upon many of the younger girls. HOWEVER many times the female victim is a willing participant and LIKES IT!
@dantej32 Exactly. There is one difference. The male fantasy is usually a clear admission of sex, girls like to work under the illusion of finally meeting the "mature male that understands her".
the first 7(he can count to God be didn't count on God in court). there were 4 accusers each received 6,250,000. 6+2+5+13(devil). 2+5= 7. Each of the 4 have 13, 13*4=52. 5+2=7 the last 7. 777. oh, and I didn't forget about the 6. Here is wisdom. Let him who has understanding calculate the number of the beast, for it is the number of a man: His number is 666 ( Aleister Crowley). All of this for some money. sad…
@UHeardMe1stTime [Part 2] Alister Crowley (the beast 666) have a book called "777 And Other Qabalistic Writings of Aleister Crowley: Including Gematria & Sepher Sephiroth. In this book it talks about how (I'm paraphrasing) a innocent boy is a prime candidate for ritual work. It also talks about using this work to evoke Nephilim(giant)! and use that energy to get MONEY!
@UHeardMe1stTime [Part 1] The whole Eddie long thing was a Insurance scam! everybody involved got paid, including EL. Churches are set up were the members are indemnified from liability. And they get insurance so when things like this come up they can settle quickly. Now lets get to the EL Money Ritual. When EL made that David and Goliath sermon that was code.
Sad thing is....I've heard black men make the same comment the woman made about this subject...has nothing to do with race. Alot of people feel that way when it comes to female offenders. But I feel women and men should get the same sentence and treatment when it comes to these types of offenses.
yeah the guys at Gen X just threw what divine said as black women hating their sons when many people in society including MEN share the same views smdh
@imsatindoll It wasn't really so much as what she said, it was how she said it, Uheardme is virtually saying the same thing but not catching nearly as much heat as Divine, because BM know that divine has an awkward off key relationship with BM, you should know that already!!!
Ashley Madison 25 years old and James Woods 64 years old. He knew her since she was 5 years old. They've been dating since she was 19 years old. Well glad he waited till she was old enough. Still nothing new.
Hey, it's in the movies too. "Scott Pilgrim" "Pineapple Express" even "Rosewood" I even experienced it in junior high/middle school. All the girls were going after guys with cars. 14 year old girls dating 19-26 year old guys...made no sense to me. ( wait it did. They, guys, had jobs that paid above minimum wage. and that was impressive to a 14-16 year old girl, apparently it still is. :P
Most men want young women. Even though people don't like to admit it, a girl is in her prime well before the generally accepted "age of consent" of 18. Many girls are physically mature at 13. By the time they are 16, most definitely are. There was a time when an unmarried woman in her twenties was an "old maid" and she usually married a much older man who could provide for her. It's only nowadays that we infantalize young adults.
I agree that the quiet girls are more likely to be preyed upon by pedophiles. As mentioned in the video, this isn't to say that there aren't some nasty young girls out there; we all have seen them. Some sex offenders have even been convicted of attacking a girl who already had loose morals. However, there does seem to be a "type" of girl whom these men go after, and ten to one she usually isn't promiscuous. And for the record, ALL pedophilia is reprehensible.
I went to an all-girls school and the girls would go nuts, giggling and whispering and calling out when a boy arrived in the grounds. They gave the male teachers a hard time too. That's what happens when the opposite sex is made a novelty instead of something normal to deal with.
@maiafleur wrote- "That's what happens when the opposite sex is made a novelty instead of something normal to deal with."
Brilliant comment, I agree with you but I think society along with uheardme opinion generally have anti-male bias and are more protective of young females on this subject, I doubt thats going to change, but it good to know there are people like you who stand up for what is fair.
@MrRossT1 So what these kids have gutter minds? That's not a pass for a pedophile. When I was in high school we talked crazy too but mostly it was just talk. As long as you remember you're grown then those catcalls shouldn't even be a factor to you. I look a lot younger than I am so teenage boys flirt with me, try to holler, and I always reject them and tell them that they're a baby as far as I'm concerned. Whether they're oversexed is not relevant. Sheesh...
Can't believe theres still some Black people who still follow Bishop Eddie Long, his a disgusting sick gay psychopath!
This is totally off a tangent but why are Black people especially BW so religious anyway when they lead in abortions, STDs, killings, what good is religion doing?
That teenage boys in general are more horny than teenage girls, only tells me that a female predator will have to hit on fewer boys to find one willing to sleep with her but a male predator may have to hit on a few more girls to find one willing to sleep with him.
But once they have accepted, with no threat of force, they are WILLING.
is probably doing the "pursuing". Especially since it's an older woman sleeping with a young boy - these females are more likely to be the dom types - the small percentage of women who pursue and like to be in control of the relationship.
But I don't see what the pursuer/receiver theory has to do with this.
An underage boy who pursues - much like a girl who "accepts" - could regret it later.
And anyway, I doubt that boys pursue their female teachers the way that men typicaly pursue women. They may talk about them but most won't "pursue" them because they know that they could get into trouble if the teacher isn't into it (which most aren't). To me, that suggests that in these situations, the female teacher -
"I doubt that boys pursue their female teachers the way that men typicaly pursue women."
They aren't "allowed" to pursue the teacher but the hardwiring is still there. In nature, males are ALWAYS ready & looking to mate. They just have to find a willing female. Females are not always willing. Some if not most species of females only mate during heat. We are "more evolved" than animals but there are still something hardwired in our DNA. [con't]
Yes, but the females who accept to have sex - and weren't blackmailed/threatened - which is the group we are discussing right now (no one who was "forced") are probably willing. What evidence is there that they are any more unwilling than males? We're looking at a particular group here, girls who have accepted to have sex without any force/threat behind it. How can they be unwilling in the first place?
Testosterone is the hormone that controls sexual desire in both males & females. Of course males have a lot more of it so they have more desire for sex. I'm stating facts now so this is the time to ask for references if you need them. I can provide them but if you Google testosterone & libido, you'll probably find something.
So if males in general are more likely to be willing (due to testosterone) then adult females are more likely than adult males to hit on a willing teen.
But we're not looking at the general population of teenage boys and girls. We're looking at a particular subset - boys and girls who HAVE engaged in sex. One could argue that girls who accept to engage in sex are probably the ones who are more interested in sex anyway. And again, we're talking about teens who were willing to have sex. We're not discussing anyone who was blackmailed. If somebody accepts, how can they even be unwilling in the first place?
Mary Kay Letourneau was his teacher in second grade before she was his teacher when he was 13.DISGUSTING SICK NASTY BITCH. I can't believe you said the boy was bragging as if that somehow justifies her actions.
But then again you are the same woman who was so insecure when a man made a video attacking you that you turned around and attacked a dead woman, Anna Nicole Smith. Very insecure and sometimes appalling but your videos are mildly interesting so....
Why bother to attack a dead woman just to boost your low self-esteem? A secure woman would have been able to make her point without reaching into a "grave" to feel better about herself.
"Do not put words in my mouth."
You're really defensive but If you re-read my comment you'll realize I never said that YOU used the word justified.
I wrote and I quote: "you said the boy was bragging as if that somehow justifies her actions"
"You're really defensive but If you re-read my comment you'll realize I never said that YOU used the word justified."
What I'm saying is nowhere did I say that woman is justified in being with a teen boy. If fact I said I would call the police on a woman who did such a thing so there's no way you could accuse me of justification.
@UHeardMe1stTime A lot of little boys are nasty. They like to catch bugs and show girls their little wee wee's and sure they'll brag about it on the playground. You said used the Mary Kay boy bragging as an example that all cases of molestation aren't the same. My point is that of course he did. He was a little boy who got "some" but whether or not he bragged does not diminish her crime. She's a nasty bitch. Point. Blank. Period.
"whether or not he bragged does not diminish her crime. "
I didn't say it did. I said I would call the police on a woman who sexes a teen boy so of course his bragging does not diminish her crime. Nowhere did I say Female on male statutory rape was not a crime or less of a crime. Most of the people who object to this video are objecting to things I never said.
"Why bother to attack a dead woman just to boost your low self-esteem?"
The other guy brought her up, not me. I have no problem saying another female is pretty when I think she is. I even acknowledged that Ahn Vu was pretty & she was the main 1 he was trying to use against me. I'm not going to say someone is pretty just because their dead. I think Anna Nicole is an average-looking woman
@UHeardMe1stTime Well, I am not telling you who you should think is attractive. I just didn't understand why you went there in the first place. Having only listened to your video, not his, it sounded like you went sorting through gravestones to defend/make your point. It just seemed random... Honestly, her body is probably covered with maggots now, so it seemed beyond shallow and motivated by insecurity to rate a body on looks that no longer exists on this planet. Whatever, your channel. Do you.
I said HE brought her up as a standard for beauty. I thought that was laughable. I wasn't trying to take a swipe as ANS but if you're naming beautiful women & she's the1st one he thought of, that was laughable. Even if I thought she was attractive, she is NOWHERE NEAR being one of the most beautiful women. If you had listened to my video you can hear him bring her up 1st.
@PeacefulVibes Furthermore, if you have a problem with something I say, the better thing to do would be to ask me about it rather than to start hurling insults. Your insults weren't even believable. Work on 'em.
@UHeardMe1stTime I said you seem insecure and that set you off which only proved my point. But that was hardly an insult. I didn't talk about you or your momma. Damn, you're fragile. smh
Now go ahead and block me, I know you want to...you clearly can't handle anyone disagreeing with you.
So, you ask me to block but then if I did you would say it was because I couldn't handle you. That's like me telling you to hit me & when you do I call you violent.
Those are the words of someone who is losing. You want to be blocked so you can say claim victory so I won't. I'll let you talk as long as you want. You're on MY page wanting to talk to ME. What does that say about you?
Please watch this 3 videos from NoLaTvShow and one from Here's OnPointAndOnTheGrind. Please make a video about this I begging you!!!!!! Preference or self-hate.
Furthermore, what I said about Ana Nicole wasn't to attack her. I was trying to deal with Daywalker & some of my "pissed-offedness" at him spilled over onto her. I hold no ill will against ANS. I'm sorry she died so young. That said, she is is average-looking to me & her life was kinda crazy at times.
Lastly, you can talk about me like a dog but at the end o the day, YOU'RE subscribed to ME. Calling my vids mildly interesting when you've watch so many of them sounds like a HATERRR to me.
@UHeardMe1stTime@UHeardMe1stTime I realize that you said HE brought her up but I still believe you are INSECURE because you felt ''ATTACKED'' by a random stranger who had NEVER seen YOU at that point. That is why I said you seem INSECURE. The way you responded makes you seem insecure, IMO. I haven't insulted you yet I just criticized how you handled a petty youtube dispute with a random stranger. Clearly, you ARE insecure because once again you feel attacked, this time by me. SMH
You dont`t get scared for life after sex, unless its a violent rape & you get beaten & wake up in a hospital. Be it underage or not.
Sex feels good, everyone likes sex who have experienced it. Underage or not, nobody gives a fuck about getting an STD, or getting pregnant.
But young people are more easily manipulated into having sex. Curiosity & lack of info, thus the law was created, So grown ups nor underage wont have to deal with the unwanted Pregnancy nor STD, it is as simple as that.
9578755 3 days ago
LOL...I wish I had had a babe like Debra LaFave "victimize" me when I was 13 years old.
ridgerunner721601 1 month ago
My mom started fucking when she wuz 13. She fucked a 35 year old in HS. It wuz ok cause he was a cop. She got knocked up too. She had lesbian sex with one of her teachers too. But that's ok cuz its' girl on girl. I fucked Jimmy Nelson and he wuz a V. I fucked my math teach so I could graduate.
SweetJaneofGoth 1 month ago
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goobetch 1 month ago
Maybe it's because male and female perpetrators are different. Older men seek out young females to sexually control. Older women seek out young males to care for. At least that's my best guess.
Trips1103 1 month ago
@Trips1103 You don't think that these women seek control as well? As far as I am concerned they are both equally defined defenders in my book...but we all know that looking at them that way is considered politically incorrect.
DeadSleepers 1 month ago
One darn picture but more talking.
I hate that.
u8myshorts20 1 month ago
@u8myshorts20
You'll be alright.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 month ago
So maybe that whole "she must have been forced" or give more sympathy toward the female double standard was acceptable 20-30 years ago. But it is just not that way now. These girls need no other reason to want sex than the want of sex anymore. Furthermore as a man I know that there is a lot of pressure growing up from 11-16 because that is a period where you have to "prove" your masculinity. Add in raging sexual hormones and exposure to female genitals and you have a nice little home made bomb.
jiggyman14 1 month ago
I agree with everything but one point. There are A LOT of fast and young females out there.Times have changed and this isn't "your generation" anymore there are many women giving up that subordinate role and are becoming the more aggressive pursuers of sex. And it is even more prevalent in the younger generations. First thing my mother told me when I got into MIDDLE school was to watch out for those fast little girls. And trust me they were fast enough to put a bullet to shame.
jiggyman14 1 month ago
@jiggyman14
"my mother told me when I got into MIDDLE school was to watch out for those fast little girls."
Yes, your mom told you to look out for FAST girls. My ma told me to look out for BOYS. Yes, times have changed but that doesn't mean that girl IN GENERAL are just as aggressive as the boys. Also, male predators IN GENERAL go after the quiet girls, not the fast ones. So asking if it was her choice is relevant.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 month ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
Perhaps you misunderstood me.She did not tell me to watch out for a specific type of girl. She meant it as a generalization. Just as your mother told you to look out for boys in general. And rather I believe that a pedophile in general will go after either someone that is searching for a sexual encounter just as easily as one that may not have been. Either way they are receiving both that measure of control that draws them to children and sexual gratification.
jiggyman14 1 month ago
@jiggyman14
" I believe that a pedophile in general will go after either someone that is searching for a sexual encounter "
No, they do not. The ones who go for teens tend to go for quiet, shy, submissive girls. This is not my opinion. This the profile of male pedos.
And boys & girls are different due to evolution. That doesn't change over 1 generation. Boys are still more aggressive than girls even though there may be more aggressive girls now.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 month ago
@jiggyman14 Retarded commnt. Toddlers are out looking? smh
kmcl11 1 month ago in playlist More videos from UHeardMe1stTime
@kmcl11
Who said anything about toddlers? I know I didn't. But for humors sake search: "Kids grinding in peru while adults watch footage".
jiggyman14 1 month ago
@jiggyman14 If kids are grinding it is because of the fucking adults. Your comment basically is saying they want it. You are of the animal kind. Black I suppose.
kmcl11 1 month ago
@kmcl11
I'm not going to get into with you...I'm not sure if your brain is skipping a few steps or you are purposely trolling me. I was pointing out something I saw a while back that was related to your comment that disturbed me. Nowhere in my comment did I say they wanted to do anything. I didn't reply to you in order to start a debate. Poster of this male vs female is black as well. Please watch who you call of the "animal kind". Have a nice day.
jiggyman14 1 month ago
@jiggyman14 I know the poster is black dude. Gimme a break.
kmcl11 1 month ago
@jiggyman14 In fact the poster answered you correctly.
kmcl11 1 month ago
I really liked your video. I have agreed with everything you said and I feel the same way. I noticed a lot of people posting saying that these days are different, I have to disagree, I have two daughters. The oldest is 19 and the youngest is 12. Let me tell you my youngest daughter has come home and told me about some of those boys in her classes and how disgusting they are. I mean these 12 year old boys know things that I can't beleive what they know! The girls don't seem to be that bad.
prdmomof2grls1 1 month ago
@prdmomof2grls1
Thank you!. Some people just say stuff because they want to disagree. Girls may have gotten nastier over the years but they still got nothing on boys.
UHeardMe1stTime 1 month ago
Lol but by the church molestation is okay. Christianity is a joke.
ImNotYourFriend212 1 month ago
As a female who's had LOTS of genuinely male friends, I can say you're right. Young boys talk like that freely. I remember hanging out with my friend and his friends and I were walking on the block. In front of me, his friends started talking about doing something disgusting to a woman despite her being on her...you know. My male friend stood there embarrassed. Boys, especially when they're young really think of sex differently than us girls.
ImNotYourFriend212 1 month ago
this vid is perfect. you were very clear and intelligent.
thehotsteal 1 month ago
I'm so sick of the double standards!
wclac 2 months ago in playlist Sex Offender Laws Only Apply To Men
@wclac women and men are different, thats it. if u blieve that. there is no room for a double standard.
thehotsteal 1 month ago
It's more beneficial for teenage sluts (13-17) to fuck adult males than teenage males. At least in that case there is one responsible party.
MrShaneVicious 2 months ago
of course the same sentnce as males
cloetv12345 2 months ago
I got dry humped. By a man i do not know. And i got touched by my own father. I dont want to end up like my dad. Or the man that dry humped me. I will get a education and graduate highschool go to collage. And i am in therapy right now. And i will join the airforce. And use my trama and get the work done so i can live long and die rich knowing i have made sons and dauters with a great wife. And see my son's and dauters children. And i want to die rich and old and wise and peacefully. Thats me.
TheFunnysamnoob333 2 months ago
I'm sorry but you're just wrong wrong, entirely wrong.
Satsaru 2 months ago
Let's face it, it's all a double standard anyway.
CartoonPropaganda 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
The south park episode was so true the woman got lesser charges because she is white attractive female.
MizzDiamonds 3 months ago
this is woman bastards !!!
99681655 3 months ago
Why the hell a preacher of God gotta call his self Creflo DOLLAR? That don't make him gangsta!
QuartuvLarry 3 months ago
Umm...how does setting age limits make it "statutory rape?"
Is it really moral because it's the law? Because if free speech were banned by law, disobedience to that law would our moral obligation.
Or is it moral because of divine authority?
QuartuvLarry 3 months ago
Most people who are parents shouldn't be. Any mother who doesn't care if her son is getting sat on top of by his teacher should be in jail with her. They should have to do the same exact sentence, and the mother should have to comply with Megan's Law and be put on a Child Predators List. I don't have kids, but believe me any adults trying to f^ck my kid would have their vertebrate removed if the cops don't get there first. Just saying.
WhereYaBoss 3 months ago 2
People are totally not looking into the meaning of the the word "wreck." Stop judging. Long knew he was wrong. Creflo dollar is not defending him. I would think you would see that.
Tallandlightify 4 months ago
You don't think that female sex offenders have the same effect on males as male sex offenders have on females? That's BS...it's your opinion from a female perspective. How do you know how a male feels? The answer is you don't. I wouldn't presume to know how a female feels. How arrogant
Yazoo2564 4 months ago 4
@Yazoo2564 I have to agree with her man. It isn't as bad as with males.
fmcneillii 4 months ago
@fmcneillii It shows just how well you've been indoctrinated in the first place...you're just the sort of cannon fodder that the feminists love.
Yazoo2564 4 months ago 2
@Yazoo2564 Well you would know because you went through sexual "abuse" by a female?
fmcneillii 4 months ago
@fmcneillii Cite where I mentioned I was sexually abused by a female?
Yazoo2564 4 months ago
Again, women can seduce men. Once seduced, the man will participate. If we're not speaking of forcible rape, then the stronger mind prevails. It happens very often that men can get involved with a woman that he shouldnt by way of seduction. That includes underage women.
kandigirlzmagazine 4 months ago 3
I disagree. not all the time. A lot of men are sought after by these girls. I hate that women are the victims no matter how things went. Youre trying to paint the picture like your opinion is the majority. Then you flip it like all young boys are unable to be manipulated in the same manner. Thats sexist.
kandigirlzmagazine 4 months ago
(Cont.)...Let's remember yesterday's women arent today's. Plenty young girls are extremely agressive and will initiate situations with older men. The old fashioned idea that men are always the aggressors is outdated and sexist. Women use sex as a weapon. Men can be seduced as well as women can.
kandigirlzmagazine 4 months ago 8
@kandigirlzmagazine
'Plenty young girls are extremely agressive and will initiate situations with older men. "
But these are not the girls male sex offenders typically go for. Part of the reason they are attracted to young girls is the inexperience & being able to guide them & be in control. Experienced teens are a turn off. They like the shy quiet girls.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
How do you know this?
How do you know "what drives a horny man".
You make way too many assertions babe.
Persistantthug 3 months ago
@Persistantthug
"How do you know "what drives a horny man".
Uhhhh...science. Testosterone is responsible for sex drive / libido. If you're gonna question me, please know your science ;-)
UHeardMe1stTime 3 months ago
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@UHeardMe1stTime
No sweety.....you misunderstand or simply forgot what you wrote.
"But these are not the girls male sex offenders typically go for. Part of the reason they are attracted to young girls is the inexperience & being able to guide them & be in control. "
That's the assertion I'm referring too.
Most men just want pussy, period, regardless of who gives it to them (assuming she's good/decent looking).
Persistantthug 3 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime and girls like older males because they are experienced.
And that person did not say that male sex offenders were going for the aggressive young girls... he was saying the aggressive young girls are initiating situations with older men.
faqjzed 2 months ago
"The old fashioned idea that men are always the aggressors is outdated and sexist. "
Due to the mechanics of sex (who penetrates whom) are more likely to be the aggressors & women have more to lose during a sexual encounter. A woman can throw herself at a man all day. He still must decide to penetrate.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Sexual assault does not need to involve intercourse. Your argument is of no value.
faqjzed 2 months ago
@kandigirlzmagazine
'Men can be seduced as well as women can."
When you put CAN in front of your statement that weakens it. Anything CAN happen. I'm talking about what's LIKELY to happen.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
@kandigirlzmagazine THANK YOU! God, I think it's so sexist that people think that it's always women who get sexually abused. Men get victimized just as much!
linkfan160 1 month ago
Citing double standards against women isnt justification for double standards OR sexism. No good. I dont agree with double standards of any kind. No matter what group stands to benefit...(cont.)
kandigirlzmagazine 4 months ago 2
@kandigirlzmagazine
It wasn't a justification. it was a statement of fact. And it is not sexist to recognized the differences between the sexes.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
Double standard. Usually I agree with you. But not here. Very sexist.
kandigirlzmagazine 4 months ago
@kandigirlzmagazine
There are double standards against women. I recognize the differences between males & females and believe they are affected differently by different things.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
I feel like i have been enlightened more about rape thank you
MsLife365 5 months ago
Contrary to your biased, socialized, uber-sexist beliefs, 1st Time,
did it ever occur to you that females are actually MORE SEXUAL
than males are, both biologically AND physiologically?
You know, I actually feel kind of refreshed watching this video,
especially seeing as how it only confirms even MORE of what
I have always known about your contempt towards the male gender.
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 5 months ago 2
By the way, I HAVE watched and listened to the ENTIRE video,
and while your opinions are indeed your opinions, and although some
of your commentary gives of the APPEARANCE of being fair-and-balanced,
it's quite evident throughout the rest of it that there is plenty you don't
understand and otherwise don't seem to care about when it comes
to life as a male. If only you could wear our shoes...
(Not that the thought would ever cross your mind to begin with...Right?)
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 5 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement
This is just an ad hominem attack disguised as outrage at my opinion. You spend more talking about ME than the subject matter.
I do not accept none specific criticisms. Tell me exactly what you disagree with & I will tell you why I say what I say. If you want a pissing contest, go somewhere else. If you wanna talk about this subject matter, TALK ABOUT THE SUBJECT MATTER, not me.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime The same reply to everyone huh? I really do feel sorry for you.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago 2
@blkwomenpleaselisten
More ad hominem.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I disagree with this video because it sends out a very sexist message. Feminism has changed things for women in this country. Women are the biggest decision makers for themselves and their children. Men young and old in this country can not make a women do something she doesn't want to do and get away with it so easy.
realintelligentwoman 4 months ago 2
@realintelligentwoman
I'm sexist because I recognize that the sexes are different? They are not affected the same by the same things.
"Men young and old in this country can not make a women do something she doesn't want to do and get away with it so easy."
This has to do with statutory rape, not forcible rape. It means the child may have consented, but the consent is not legally recognized.
UHeardMe1stTime 4 months ago
Brilliant analysis chick. Brilliant:D
wataki2 5 months ago
This reminds me of those days when girls that were raped were often met with ridicule and disbelief. People often assumed they liked it or wanted it. So, these women rarely saw any justice. I find it sad that people see it differently. But, I guess that is society. I can assume that you don't see it the same way because you are a woman and therefore aren't fully aware of what this does to a young male (from experience). It just reminds me of when men did the same to women.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago
@blkwomenpleaselisten
People are not understanding what I am saying in the video. I didn't say boys weren't victims at all. I said I don't think it affects them as much as females. Males & females are different.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I understand what you are saying. And I replied to it. You are basing it off of your view of males, which isn't reality. As you haven't ever been a male victim your idea that "it affects girls more" is kind of skewed. But that is based off of your preconceived ideas of males and their mindsets. It's normal. I wouldn't invest in a man's opinion on what it's like to be a woman, and I wouldn't invest in a woman's opinion on what it's like to be a man.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago
@blkwomenpleaselisten
" As you haven't ever been a male victim your idea that "it affects girls more" is kind of skewed."
By your same logic, you can't say it affects males more because you've never been a female victim. AGAIN, I am not saying it does not affect males. Males & females are different so how can they be affected by everything equally.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Equally and differently are not the same things. Men may be affected "differently" but it doesn't mean that the way it affects them is unequal to a woman's. So your logic is still skewed. You are different than certain women, so if you were raped , by your logic, you would feel the exact same as every woman. People are individuals and ultimately each individual will deal with it differently (regardless of gender). So, your logic is still skewed.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago 6
@blkwomenpleaselisten
And by the same token DIFFERENTLY does not mean EQUALLY. Boys & girls can be affected differently & still one sex could not be affected as much as the other. You still haven't said anything that makes what I'm saying incorrect.
"You are different than certain women, so if you were raped , by your logic, you would feel the exact same as every woman. "
We are not talking about individuals. We are talking about groups.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime LOL...you are still wrong. Saying that, "Boys & girls can be affected differently & still one sex could not be affected as much as the other. " is only based in opinion. Not backed by any actual data. It's quite obvious that you do not work in the Mental Health field nor do you understand PTSD in the least. Sorry, but you are still wrong.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago
@blkwomenpleaselisten
"...only based in opinion. Not backed by any actual data."
Of course it's an opinion. My sentence often began with "I don't THINK boys are affect as much (in general). 2nd this is not something that can be proven definitively because "not affected AS MUCH" is difficult to define at best, impossible at worst. Even with data, the conclusion you draw from the data can still be an opinion. I stated my reasons for holding the opinion I hold. That's all I have to do.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I am aware, it's just obvious that you don't know what you are talking about, and I personally feel sorry for your son. But, some people aren't meant to be parents. I personally can't continue to entertain you, so take care.
blkwomenpleaselisten 5 months ago
@blkwomenpleaselisten
No you are not aware. If you were aware you wouldn't be talking about data.
You're confusing ad hominem attacks for refuting my argument. You have not said anything that argues against what I said. All you've done is tell me what I don't know with nothing to back it.
And the "I feel sorry for (fill in the blank)" is the cheapest trick in the book. Can't you do better? People say that when they suck at debating.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
this woman know nothing about men. women= victim men=criminals
men cant be emotional cant speak out can be shy because sociaty says so
im gf is 14....she came on to me on fb.....she is asking me for sex...but im nt stupid
i do like the girl and nothing happend to her....ths women knows nothing.
ssscybro2 5 months ago 2
@ssscybro2
You did not listen to the video. I can tell because you're spouting off a spiel that MRA's spout off to feminists & I'm not one. Males & females are DIFFERENT. Their brains are wired differently & they have different levels of hormones. A woman has her space invaded during sex. A man does not. I didn't say boys were not victims. I said I don't think it effects them as much as girls (on the average).
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime So since we are wired differently do men have to right to cheat...im just asking
because we are more sexually we should be able to have all the partners we want right. you keep
bringing up the fact that it foes not have the same effect and that it should be less of a crime
so just because im a guy im not as hurt so fuck me right....if thats the case i would like to hear your views on paternity fraud.Stop trying to make it seem like it not as bad. A crime is a crime.
ssscybro2 5 months ago
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@UHeardMe1stTime So since we are wired differently do men have to right to cheat...im just asking
because we are more sexually we should be able to have all the partners we want right. you keep
bringing up the fact that it foes not have the same effect and that it should be less of a crime
so just because im a guy im not as hurt so fuck me right....if thats the case i would like to hear your views on paternity fraud.Stop trying to make it seem like it not as bad. A crime is a crime.
ssscybro2 5 months ago
"By nature men are usually the ones who initiate sex."
Are you saying rape exists in our society in the same way it does in the animal kingdom and is just a part of life?
Cause that's what you're saying. Whether youmeant that or not...
Think about it...
J0k3r4U 6 months ago
@J0k3r4U
"Are you saying rape exists in our society in the same way it does in the animal kingdom and is just a part of life? Cause that's what you're saying. Whether youmeant that or not...Think about it..."
you make ZERO sense. Think about that.
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I wasn't saying you're wrong. You didn't give me a chance...
I was just trying to draw out a point Ms. Fiesty.
Hahaha
J0k3r4U 5 months ago
Whether the young girl or generally kids consented or not is still apart from consideration. Most folks would believe kids are merely taken advantaged of- meanwhile, they can be predators, too.
Realistically, kids are as capable as adults in thought & act. Otherwise you wouldn't believe so many adults are as stupid & refer to them as childish.
The law can be very impractical, particularly as it defies consensual function. It's like punishing someone for attempting suicide.
JackNeet 6 months ago
@JackNeet
"Realistically, kids are as capable as adults in thought & act. "
Floored. They why do kids need parents?
UHeardMe1stTime 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Parents are the accepted 1st step, but they aren't absolute. Reform schooling & detention facilities are resorts. We could say failed parenting is incessant in the US. Whether adult or child, the person is still learning &/or misunderstanding.
"Parent" does not mean "worldly child-rearer". Manuals & licenses aren't needed to parent nor procreate. It'd be helpful but would deny individual philosophy as folks generally raise kids in their image.
JackNeet 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I'm not saying parents are unnecessary, maybe obsolete, but there are various means to develop a functional adult.
By perspective, I'd say parents can be the least equipped. Single parent homes, more time at work (or party), teen parents, insufficient income, etc. After all, we're not inclined to be infinitely backed by our parents. And kids tend to absorb other schools of thought despite their parents' customs (& sometimes to their dismay).
JackNeet 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime With objectivist reasoning, we can say the trademark job for parents is diaper changing since no one else would.
JackNeet 5 months ago
Exactly. I think either way if your an grown man or woman an having sex with underage people that is nasty and wrong! But I do agree 9x out of 10 boys 13 and up are more down to have sex with older women....flat out I mean really these be their wet dreams come true when a female teacher does have sex with them. Not to say female don't think like that either, but more than likely females aren't interested. Good points in this video
JiaIreland 6 months ago
@JiaIreland your far from wrong dude.females do want it....they just dont tell any one.
ssscybro2 5 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime i agree "women" offenders usally spend less of a sentance very upsetting.
PhillipSchneeman2010 6 months ago
@ UHeardMe1stTime i agree "women" offenders usally spend less of a sentance very upsetting.
PhillipSchneeman2010 6 months ago
the only pastor i like is zachery tims
killedyou3 6 months ago
also a female teacher in her mid to late 20s would hit on me too. but this was during the end of the school year. and i was in a private school. to make things worse i was touched when i was 9 years old by another female. and from ages 10-13 i was constantly hit on by adults. i dont know what these nasty ass people see in children. and from 13 i was homeschooled so i wouldnt have to deal with that shit anymore. i hate life and white people
killedyou3 6 months ago
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killedyou3 6 months ago
i agree that nasty older men like girls who are young and innocent. this shit happened to me when i was 12 years old. i was a loner and always by myself, mainly cuz the other kids were bullies. if i wanted friends i would have had to become a bully too, and i didnt want any part of that. so my nasty history teacher would hit on me in the front of the class. but he didnt so much that i would be able to report it. he never tried to touch me but it still freaked me out
killedyou3 6 months ago
Teenage boys are often very deceptively sensitive. I've heard the same nasty talk you talk about from boys who later regret losing their virginity at such a young age. And I mean giving up their V-card to one of their peers. Boys at that age are just as new to their burgeoning sexuality as the girls are. They're very easy for an older woman to confuse and manipulate. I wouldn't be so quick to say they aren't as affected as girls.
HuggumsMcgehee 7 months ago
She sure have a pretty mouth.
SteveOTheegreat 7 months ago
I disagree I think that boys, are victims. Just because they enjoy the pleasure of someone significantly older doesnt mean it wont cause problems later. Psychologists say that even little children who are victimized sometimes enjoy the pleasure of the experience---it is the psychological damage afterwards the destroys the child. I do agree with one thing said on the video which is something I always believed. If a young male child or teen is molested by a man it can push him towards being gay.
humanparadox 7 months ago
@humanparadox
I didn't say boys wren't victims & i'm not talking about little children. I'm talking about post-pubescent teen.
UHeardMe1stTime 7 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
You DID say @ 4:28 that most of the time you dont see boys as victims By the way, I am not talking about little boys either. I am also talking about talking about young men, for example 13 years old. I agree that it is not quite as damaging as if it were a female getting violated, but I do believe that it does more damage than seen on the surface. And much of the collateral damage will not rear its ugly head until years later, in most cases.Anyways I like your videos
humanparadox 7 months ago
@humanparadox
"I agree that it is not quite as damaging as if it were a female getting violated"
That's all I'm saying. I said numerous times that I didn't see boys as victims ON THE SAME LEVEL AS GIRLS if the boys are acting certain way afterwards. I did not say boys were not victims at all.
UHeardMe1stTime 7 months ago
Courts has awarded women child support after getting pregnant by minor boys 12 years old or so. Society, the media vilifies men in general that goes for not just sex that's anything and the opposite for women. Debra Lafave didn't get one day in jail. They said that was because the boys mother didn't want him to testify, BS. The state clearly says if the victim backs out the state becomes the victim. Casey Anthony gets away with murder and Warren Jeffs gets life for sex, make sense?
YouTubbingGeorge 7 months ago
You're very wrong. Guys are out spoken about sex at a young age while girls act in out at that certain age, I know I was also that age once. You talked about a guy fills that space therefor women can't rape, but you left out oral sex which she very much is capable of performing just as Debra Lafave proved. Society convinces boy minors they scored and are lucky and convinces girls their victims. Sex and with minor girls and adults is no different than boys. You say boys can't be harmed, continued
YouTubbingGeorge 7 months ago
This is why the Europeans laugh at us. Sometime in the last 30 years, we've lost sight of Natural Law. The watershed event thatmakes one a sexual being is puberty. 15 is not 9, and girls become women before boys become men. Yet we've created this artificial 5 year gap to the arbitrary 18 that has become a trapdoor for men and boys. Men are hard wired by 10000 years of evolutionarybiology tofocus on fertile females.Frankly, females should get stiffer sentences because theirbehaviorisdeviantper se
TheArenaRevised 7 months ago
i'm fifteen years old, and i could jerk of to debra lafane, it shouldn't be a crime for her to have sex with younger men.
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MonteIsADHD 7 months ago
Hi, do you have another channel on YouTube besides this one?
Jonesin15 7 months ago
I believe she said that because it didn't happen to her Son. If an adult female did violate her Son, she would get her. As a young girl, the young boys in my grammer, middle and highschool, minds were in the gutter.And as a teen, Men 20's and 30's discusted me because they would always holla and try to get me and my friends numbers knowing full well we were under age.
CurlycrownJ 7 months ago
This entire video is filled with convenient "man-bad woman good" clap-trap. More times than not in statutory rape cases the child involved "thinks" that they are part of a real relationship, they don't see themselves as a kicking and screaming victim. This goes for both genders. The desperate need to see the girl as absolute victim is simply wishful thinking. And believe me, girls can match boys point for point when being "nasty", they just hide it better.
fistoffries 8 months ago 2
Did you see Antwone Fisher? I WAS TALKING ABOUT THIS AT WORK AND SOME MEN WERE ADMITTED THAT THEY WERE MOLESTED BY FEMALE BABYSITTERS . AT 4 AND 5. ONE MADE A REFERENCE TO THAT'S HOW THEY LEARNED TO "EAT:. they played if off like it was cool, but i know dam well it if happened to their sons they would literal get the shotgun.
nomyaw 8 months ago
@nomyaw
4 & 5 year olds are prepubescent and so was Antwon Fisher when he got molested. I do think it damages the child regardless of gender if they get messed at such a young age.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
I knew a few female teachers I wanted to hit lol.
LawlessLaw 8 months ago
The problem with many peoples thought is that people believe that the male forces themselves upon many of the younger girls. HOWEVER many times the female victim is a willing participant and LIKES IT!
dantej32 8 months ago
@dantej32 Exactly. There is one difference. The male fantasy is usually a clear admission of sex, girls like to work under the illusion of finally meeting the "mature male that understands her".
fistoffries 8 months ago
@fistoffries nope.....not all the time and it goes the same ways fr some boys.
ssscybro2 5 months ago
@dantej32 exactly most guys consider the male victim to be lucky and for a young boy to have sex with a full grown woman is looked at as some stud
emmettmays85 7 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime [Part 3] He gave 25,000,000 settlement. 2+5=7
the first 7(he can count to God be didn't count on God in court). there were 4 accusers each received 6,250,000. 6+2+5+13(devil). 2+5= 7. Each of the 4 have 13, 13*4=52. 5+2=7 the last 7. 777. oh, and I didn't forget about the 6. Here is wisdom. Let him who has understanding calculate the number of the beast, for it is the number of a man: His number is 666 ( Aleister Crowley). All of this for some money. sad…
jamminc07g 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime [Part 2] Alister Crowley (the beast 666) have a book called "777 And Other Qabalistic Writings of Aleister Crowley: Including Gematria & Sepher Sephiroth. In this book it talks about how (I'm paraphrasing) a innocent boy is a prime candidate for ritual work. It also talks about using this work to evoke Nephilim(giant)! and use that energy to get MONEY!
jamminc07g 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime [Part 1] The whole Eddie long thing was a Insurance scam! everybody involved got paid, including EL. Churches are set up were the members are indemnified from liability. And they get insurance so when things like this come up they can settle quickly. Now lets get to the EL Money Ritual. When EL made that David and Goliath sermon that was code.
jamminc07g 8 months ago
Sad thing is....I've heard black men make the same comment the woman made about this subject...has nothing to do with race. Alot of people feel that way when it comes to female offenders. But I feel women and men should get the same sentence and treatment when it comes to these types of offenses.
AmuseTheGreat 8 months ago
yeah the guys at Gen X just threw what divine said as black women hating their sons when many people in society including MEN share the same views smdh
imsatindoll 8 months ago
@imsatindoll It wasn't really so much as what she said, it was how she said it, Uheardme is virtually saying the same thing but not catching nearly as much heat as Divine, because BM know that divine has an awkward off key relationship with BM, you should know that already!!!
XDarkDestroyaX 8 months ago
Also check this one too.
Ashley Madison 25 years old and James Woods 64 years old. He knew her since she was 5 years old. They've been dating since she was 19 years old. Well glad he waited till she was old enough. Still nothing new.
MrRossT1 8 months ago
Courtney Alexis Stodden, 16 years old, married “Lost” actor Doug Hutchison, 51 years old, in Las Vegas last month. <---- This is 2011.
Age of consent is arbitrary? This will be a trend. For sure. Back in the 50's and 60's if a guy was 20-25 he could marry a 16 year old girl legally.
MrRossT1 8 months ago
@MrRossT1
GROSS!
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
Hey, it's in the movies too. "Scott Pilgrim" "Pineapple Express" even "Rosewood" I even experienced it in junior high/middle school. All the girls were going after guys with cars. 14 year old girls dating 19-26 year old guys...made no sense to me. ( wait it did. They, guys, had jobs that paid above minimum wage. and that was impressive to a 14-16 year old girl, apparently it still is. :P
MrRossT1 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
Most men want young women. Even though people don't like to admit it, a girl is in her prime well before the generally accepted "age of consent" of 18. Many girls are physically mature at 13. By the time they are 16, most definitely are. There was a time when an unmarried woman in her twenties was an "old maid" and she usually married a much older man who could provide for her. It's only nowadays that we infantalize young adults.
maiafleur 8 months ago
@MrRossT1 i think age of consent only matters if your parents disagree. i think her mom approved. o, the way some parents pimp their kids...
1Madame1 8 months ago
I agree that the quiet girls are more likely to be preyed upon by pedophiles. As mentioned in the video, this isn't to say that there aren't some nasty young girls out there; we all have seen them. Some sex offenders have even been convicted of attacking a girl who already had loose morals. However, there does seem to be a "type" of girl whom these men go after, and ten to one she usually isn't promiscuous. And for the record, ALL pedophilia is reprehensible.
TheSapphireEmpress96 8 months ago
Holy moly! Last time I walked by a Junior High I got cat calls from the girls!!! And I'm twice their age for crying out loud! This is in 2010.
Even walking by a Catholic Middle school the conversations of the girls is the same as the boys. Over sexed instead of in the books.
MrRossT1 8 months ago
@MrRossT1
I actually believe you.
I went to an all-girls school and the girls would go nuts, giggling and whispering and calling out when a boy arrived in the grounds. They gave the male teachers a hard time too. That's what happens when the opposite sex is made a novelty instead of something normal to deal with.
maiafleur 8 months ago
@maiafleur wrote- "That's what happens when the opposite sex is made a novelty instead of something normal to deal with."
Brilliant comment, I agree with you but I think society along with uheardme opinion generally have anti-male bias and are more protective of young females on this subject, I doubt thats going to change, but it good to know there are people like you who stand up for what is fair.
XDarkDestroyaX 8 months ago
@MrRossT1 So what these kids have gutter minds? That's not a pass for a pedophile. When I was in high school we talked crazy too but mostly it was just talk. As long as you remember you're grown then those catcalls shouldn't even be a factor to you. I look a lot younger than I am so teenage boys flirt with me, try to holler, and I always reject them and tell them that they're a baby as far as I'm concerned. Whether they're oversexed is not relevant. Sheesh...
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
Can't believe theres still some Black people who still follow Bishop Eddie Long, his a disgusting sick gay psychopath!
This is totally off a tangent but why are Black people especially BW so religious anyway when they lead in abortions, STDs, killings, what good is religion doing?
jerryumeh1 8 months ago
How many wealthy black men really believe in a white god?
MrHopenFaith 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
That teenage boys in general are more horny than teenage girls, only tells me that a female predator will have to hit on fewer boys to find one willing to sleep with her but a male predator may have to hit on a few more girls to find one willing to sleep with him.
But once they have accepted, with no threat of force, they are WILLING.
maiafleur 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
is probably doing the "pursuing". Especially since it's an older woman sleeping with a young boy - these females are more likely to be the dom types - the small percentage of women who pursue and like to be in control of the relationship.
maiafleur 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
But I don't see what the pursuer/receiver theory has to do with this.
An underage boy who pursues - much like a girl who "accepts" - could regret it later.
And anyway, I doubt that boys pursue their female teachers the way that men typicaly pursue women. They may talk about them but most won't "pursue" them because they know that they could get into trouble if the teacher isn't into it (which most aren't). To me, that suggests that in these situations, the female teacher -
maiafleur 8 months ago
@maiafleur
"I doubt that boys pursue their female teachers the way that men typicaly pursue women."
They aren't "allowed" to pursue the teacher but the hardwiring is still there. In nature, males are ALWAYS ready & looking to mate. They just have to find a willing female. Females are not always willing. Some if not most species of females only mate during heat. We are "more evolved" than animals but there are still something hardwired in our DNA. [con't]
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
Yes, but the females who accept to have sex - and weren't blackmailed/threatened - which is the group we are discussing right now (no one who was "forced") are probably willing. What evidence is there that they are any more unwilling than males? We're looking at a particular group here, girls who have accepted to have sex without any force/threat behind it. How can they be unwilling in the first place?
maiafleur 8 months ago
@maiafleur
Testosterone is the hormone that controls sexual desire in both males & females. Of course males have a lot more of it so they have more desire for sex. I'm stating facts now so this is the time to ask for references if you need them. I can provide them but if you Google testosterone & libido, you'll probably find something.
So if males in general are more likely to be willing (due to testosterone) then adult females are more likely than adult males to hit on a willing teen.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime
But we're not looking at the general population of teenage boys and girls. We're looking at a particular subset - boys and girls who HAVE engaged in sex. One could argue that girls who accept to engage in sex are probably the ones who are more interested in sex anyway. And again, we're talking about teens who were willing to have sex. We're not discussing anyone who was blackmailed. If somebody accepts, how can they even be unwilling in the first place?
maiafleur 8 months ago
Mary Kay Letourneau was his teacher in second grade before she was his teacher when he was 13.DISGUSTING SICK NASTY BITCH. I can't believe you said the boy was bragging as if that somehow justifies her actions.
But then again you are the same woman who was so insecure when a man made a video attacking you that you turned around and attacked a dead woman, Anna Nicole Smith. Very insecure and sometimes appalling but your videos are mildly interesting so....
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
A guy makes a video that you admit was ATTACKING me, I defend myself & you call me insecure. If that's insecure, GUILTY.
"attacked a dead woman"
Just because a woman is dead doesn't mean I can't say I don't think she's good-looking.
"videos are mildly interesting"
Says the person who appears to watch every one of them.
"somehow justifies her actions."
Do not put words in my mouth. The word justified was not even in the video. If I felt it was justified, why would I call the police?
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I never saw his video, but...
Why bother to attack a dead woman just to boost your low self-esteem? A secure woman would have been able to make her point without reaching into a "grave" to feel better about herself.
"Do not put words in my mouth."
You're really defensive but If you re-read my comment you'll realize I never said that YOU used the word justified.
I wrote and I quote: "you said the boy was bragging as if that somehow justifies her actions"
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes
"You're really defensive but If you re-read my comment you'll realize I never said that YOU used the word justified."
What I'm saying is nowhere did I say that woman is justified in being with a teen boy. If fact I said I would call the police on a woman who did such a thing so there's no way you could accuse me of justification.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime A lot of little boys are nasty. They like to catch bugs and show girls their little wee wee's and sure they'll brag about it on the playground. You said used the Mary Kay boy bragging as an example that all cases of molestation aren't the same. My point is that of course he did. He was a little boy who got "some" but whether or not he bragged does not diminish her crime. She's a nasty bitch. Point. Blank. Period.
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes
"whether or not he bragged does not diminish her crime. "
I didn't say it did. I said I would call the police on a woman who sexes a teen boy so of course his bragging does not diminish her crime. Nowhere did I say Female on male statutory rape was not a crime or less of a crime. Most of the people who object to this video are objecting to things I never said.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes
"Why bother to attack a dead woman just to boost your low self-esteem?"
The other guy brought her up, not me. I have no problem saying another female is pretty when I think she is. I even acknowledged that Ahn Vu was pretty & she was the main 1 he was trying to use against me. I'm not going to say someone is pretty just because their dead. I think Anna Nicole is an average-looking woman
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime Well, I am not telling you who you should think is attractive. I just didn't understand why you went there in the first place. Having only listened to your video, not his, it sounded like you went sorting through gravestones to defend/make your point. It just seemed random... Honestly, her body is probably covered with maggots now, so it seemed beyond shallow and motivated by insecurity to rate a body on looks that no longer exists on this planet. Whatever, your channel. Do you.
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
I said HE brought her up as a standard for beauty. I thought that was laughable. I wasn't trying to take a swipe as ANS but if you're naming beautiful women & she's the1st one he thought of, that was laughable. Even if I thought she was attractive, she is NOWHERE NEAR being one of the most beautiful women. If you had listened to my video you can hear him bring her up 1st.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes Furthermore, if you have a problem with something I say, the better thing to do would be to ask me about it rather than to start hurling insults. Your insults weren't even believable. Work on 'em.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime I said you seem insecure and that set you off which only proved my point. But that was hardly an insult. I didn't talk about you or your momma. Damn, you're fragile. smh
Now go ahead and block me, I know you want to...you clearly can't handle anyone disagreeing with you.
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes
Oooh, still here, huh? She can't stay away.
So, you ask me to block but then if I did you would say it was because I couldn't handle you. That's like me telling you to hit me & when you do I call you violent.
Those are the words of someone who is losing. You want to be blocked so you can say claim victory so I won't. I'll let you talk as long as you want. You're on MY page wanting to talk to ME. What does that say about you?
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime @UHeardMe1stTime I could not leave you a message
UHeardMe1stTime
Please watch this 3 videos from NoLaTvShow and one from Here's OnPointAndOnTheGrind. Please make a video about this I begging you!!!!!! Preference or self-hate.
NoLaTvShow
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Here's OnPointAndOnTheGrind
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Brandtley86 8 months ago
@Brandtley86
I see ya. I'll wut I can do.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
Furthermore, what I said about Ana Nicole wasn't to attack her. I was trying to deal with Daywalker & some of my "pissed-offedness" at him spilled over onto her. I hold no ill will against ANS. I'm sorry she died so young. That said, she is is average-looking to me & her life was kinda crazy at times.
Lastly, you can talk about me like a dog but at the end o the day, YOU'RE subscribed to ME. Calling my vids mildly interesting when you've watch so many of them sounds like a HATERRR to me.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago
@UHeardMe1stTime @UHeardMe1stTime I realize that you said HE brought her up but I still believe you are INSECURE because you felt ''ATTACKED'' by a random stranger who had NEVER seen YOU at that point. That is why I said you seem INSECURE. The way you responded makes you seem insecure, IMO. I haven't insulted you yet I just criticized how you handled a petty youtube dispute with a random stranger. Clearly, you ARE insecure because once again you feel attacked, this time by me. SMH
PeacefulVibes 8 months ago
@PeacefulVibes
" you felt ''ATTACKED'' "
Again, YOU said he attacked. I did not.
"I haven't insulted you yet"
You need to look up the word insult then.
"you are calling me a Hater because I don't agree with how you"
Um, no. Your memory is awful. I called you a hater because you watch my videos but call them mildly entertaining.
You can unsub all day. Subs don't matter. VIEWS matter & you still watch.
UHeardMe1stTime 8 months ago