In America, this is called NICE GUYS FINISH LAST with women and why Chinese-American men aren't usually appealing to white or other westernized- American women because they aren't used to being in a position of 'taking charge' and conveying to western women - that they are attracted to them, what they want from them and PLAN to do on a date with them. You are very right, Extreme Politeness will earn you very very few points in the US and will actually handicap you socially andbusiness as well.
yes but its two way traffic. people who have too many rules of must-dos/don'ts must learn 2 drop/ease them when communicating with others who don't have similar. TOO MUCH TO EXPECT OTHERS TO TOTALLY SUBMIT TO YOUR WAY.
In America, this is called NICE GUYS FINISH LAST with women and why Chinese-American men aren't usually appealing to white or other westernized- American women because they aren't used to being in a position of 'taking charge' and conveying to western women - that they are attracted to them, what they want from them and PLAN to do on a date with them. You are very right, Extreme Politeness will earn you very very few points in the US and will actually handicap you socially andbusiness as well.
coolmatterstome 1 year ago
wow who is this guy? this is great stuff
imbrd 2 years ago
That guy must be spend many times with Chinese friends.
xiaoxiao19 2 years ago
o god thats like an essay for a 3 lines......
hiromiao 2 years ago
what is this guys name
Fskagguitars 2 years ago
Thankyou, This is verry helpful.
grafito2008 3 years ago
The speaker just understands us - the Chinese.
eyj776096 3 years ago
yes but its two way traffic. people who have too many rules of must-dos/don'ts must learn 2 drop/ease them when communicating with others who don't have similar. TOO MUCH TO EXPECT OTHERS TO TOTALLY SUBMIT TO YOUR WAY.
sungl0 3 years ago
Thanks to the above~~~
This guy is quite good at chinese culture. I love him~~
musicka1121 3 years ago
Thats why they've always seemed so nice to me...
I'm glad I've always returned the friendly words.
jesslafleur 4 years ago