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  • well my dad rocks sucks to be you guys

  • WHATS THE POINT OF THIS VIDEO? I DUN GET IT.

  • @XiledY0 My dad missed alot of my life. I wanted him to see me growing up and the things Ive been through. But at the same time I wanted to say F him for not being there. I love my dad, always have and always will. Thats just how I feel about him not having been there for me.

  • you are not more my dad!

    You have my heart broking.

    Mom is a always for me and you, you never!

    I was 9 and you say goodby!

    I hate you dad!

    Mom you are everything for my and you nothing!

    And i feel the pain everyday.

    loveyou mom!

  • I think of my sperm donor that calls hisself my "dad" everytimes I hear this song. It hits home.

  • @JustineOKC I had a situation much like yours, unfortunatly mine didn't have a happy ending like yours did... treasure ur relationship with ur dad

  • i understand how you feel same thing happened to me.

  • i understand how you feel same thing happened to me.

  • i listen to this song all the time.. i havent seen my dad for about 16 years or so... i guess he left when i was 6 months old.. i called him about a year ago and he basically said that he wants nothing to do with me. the pain is still here and i dont think it will ever go away

  • my dad left to :( i feel this pain every day

  • justine my dad left me before i was born so i feel your pain

  • all of you people who can relate to this song, i'm right there with ya.

  • all of you people who can relate to this song,i'm right there with ya.

  • this song to me is for the people who hate their dad because he is a piece of shit who dosent give two shits about his kids yea they probally miss him every once in a wile but im far from missin him now he had chance after chance an still didnt choose me an my brother so fuck you robert!!!

  • Well i feel you girl hope you get this! Except the middle finger dont ever go down when i think about my "sperm donor! Love the song though! Take care emo love ya girl!!!!! love the video i cried and being super stoned of some that orange kush didnt help!!!!!

  • hey, yo're beautiful :3

  • theres alot of meaning to this song expessially when it happens to you. my dad left me and never called me back only to talk to his other children who i dont even no. If only he can feel the pain he causes me

  • this is an amazing video

  • this was cute. and sad :(

    love the song.

    and i love the ending.

  • I really liked this video, it shows proper emotion, shows how you really feel about your father, i still talk to my dad even though he left but he's never sober and he only keeps in contact when he wants something, congrads you really got my approval doesn't happen often. ^^

  • omg thats so sad :( :'(

    have u managed to get in touch with yur dad yet ?

  • Emo much.

  • me and my dad fight alot and i wish we didnt bc it hurts :/...i wish i could find a way to tell him that it really hurts...i love him and hes moving to kentucky now and i dont want him to go :(

  • wow....i wish i could say i feel your pain...i sorta do,but not nearly as bad....my dad left for 3 months....and i found out he was with some other girl...other than my mother...my mom forgave him tho...but she still brings it up by making remarks about it when they are having an argument...but hey, who could blame her? <3 <3 <3 youre really pretty and your dad would have been proud to have all the boys chasing after his daughter lol

  • my parents are divorced,my mom left,and my dad might as well have done the same thing. he left me here to die and i know that. my dad has me here beliving that i'm the bad person i try to convince myself i'm not. it's been hard these years of my life, but i'm getting by...............barely

  • wow you did a really great job with the video. its so personal and deep.... i have a great dad but my daughter's father ran out on her so i think of this song through her perspective... you are so pretty by the way!

  • i know how it is waking up every single day in ur dad never being around it hurts he left us when i was 5 years old :'( i miss him with all my heart

  • Such a deep song!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • My dad left and came back and left again and when he does spend time with me he tries to cut it short.

  • My dad chose drugs over me:((

  • LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO­L i left you for a reason. you were a terrible child. your mom is a whore

  • i love this song... i wrote the lyrics down in a letter to my dad,, he sent it back with a big scribble on it!!!!!!!

    i wish he cared!!!!!!!!!

  • Im 23 years old mt dad left my mom when i was three i miss him even thow i dont know him my heart hearts every dad of my life i miss you dad

  • I know the feeling hon. My father doesn't love me or care either. The drugs and sex are more important than his oldest daughter. We who have commented feel your pain.

  • i only got in contact with my dad this year...im 17

  • My Dad left me when I was 5 so keep your head up and stay strong!

  • I Love this song <33 Not so fun for u, 'nd the others here :(

  • it nice to see a lot of people with the

    feelings. my dad left me and my mom when i was just 6 years old....:(

  • My parents got divorced when I was 6 & my dad moved all the way to California when were all the way in Poland,): im still mad at him for that.

  • Cuueckk

  • my dad tries to stay in contact wif me but he will go anywhere 4 work hes in tazzy now

  • Dads can absolute assholes sometimes

    my dad and i dont talk either

    when i woz little i listened to this song and sometimes cried

  • buried my pop when i was 18.....i am 38 now......it never stops hurting.........take care.....B

  • ur beautifull... omg

  • I uderstend because I ...... don't have dad, I hate my DAD !!!!

  • can i say from a fathers point of view that, this clip is heart breaking, for all of you that have lost ur dads for 1 reason or another, and want answers, find him and ask him.. you might be suprised !16 years ago i lost my little girls. 5&6 y/o, their mum took them out of the country, i have only just found them, and things are great now. dont give up hope. if he has a heart he is looking for you! good luck. beautiful song, but it kills me to listen too

  • i havent seen my dad in seven years.he giot life in prison

  • yeah i understand i havent seen my dad in seven year.

  • Im growing up with a dad who travels outside the country to have fun with prostitutes. Only my mother and sister were there to support me.

  • same thing like in that song. i hate him .. but i miss him !!

  • I know the pain I lost my dad too and I haven't seen him for a since I was 9.

    I'm 15 now.

  • i understand how do you fell :'(

  • I feel your pain I too lost my dad and without him I feel empty inside

  • i know the pain I've lost my dad too

  • why are you going to make a nice video then finish it off by sticking the middle finger,thats kinda stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • because i miss my dad but i felt like sayin f him cause he wasnt there. me and my dad talk now. we have a good relationship.

  • This makes me cry when i remember my dad.

    He walked out because of me.

  • :'(

  • i love this song its so personal since i dont know my dad gret vid

  • heya im in the same boat apart from my dad told me that he never wanted me, i was only 4 when he said that to me, he burnt all his photos of me, i tried ringing him last christmas to see if he's ok, he just said he has no son, and that im dead to him, this song does reflect on my relationship with him.

  • Im so glad to hear your a survivor.

  • I have no idea. He's never said anything about it, and I talk to him now...so...guess thats a no. Either that or he doesnt have enuf guts too apologize.

  • Im sorry to hear that. I couldnt imagine my situation being the other way around. Keep your head up and just pray for her.

  • I am over it. I actually have a GREAT relationship with him now. Thanx for the comment though!

  • I am now 20 years old and have a 7 month old daughter. Me and my dad have occasional phone conversations. We get along. Just wish I could see him. He's half way across the country.

  • i really hope your dad will see this. :) it´s beautiful, love the song.

  • Hope your dad gets to see it. *hugs*

  • when my dad first left i listened to this song every night and cried myself to sleep

  • 1:45, smoking is bad.

  • i never met my dad

    so u guys r lucky u guy have a dad

    i grew up with no dad

  • I know how you feel. My dad ran out on me my mom and my brother when I was 3. My brother was young enough he was able to forget but i wasnt.

  • i feel ur pain

  • i feel ur pian my dads never home when he is he acts let where not there this sad and i trynot to cry every night and its just so hard

  • i feel ur pian my dads always gone and when hes home he just watches tv and eats he never spends time with us or pays attenchen to us its really sad

  • I hope he gets to see it too

    xx

  • I hope he gets to see it too

    xx

  • i hope you find ur dad, i hope he comes back maybe just maybe hes waiting just for that right time

  • fathers are assholes ne?

    and i know how u feel with this

  • Same with me HockeyBabe153 my dad hasnt seen me in like 5 years... screw him hes out of my life.... drunking b@$%@rd.

  • great vid

    i love it

    amm

    be happy =)

  • why u are smooking thats bad! :(

    but i like the song

  • maybe because it a great video!!! and why don't you have a heart for her! what if this was you dad? this is a really great video and I love the Song!

  • Wow! if it wasn't the fact the my grandma is right here I would be cryin right now,I mean wow i think thats the best way to tell ur dad u miss him and stuff.I miss mines too but what he did to my mom i don't know if i can ever forgive him for that.

  • i like it i think its really beautiful thing to tell ur dad....and i feel you good luck and i hope he gets it ;)

  • sad stuff, i feel for ya. Idk what id do if that happened to me.

  • you know, a telephone call would do just as well.

  • LOAD OF SHIT.

  • i love this video i watch it all the time it reminds me of my life...my dad left me to its been the hardest 16 years of my life....

  • It's a good thing to put this video, I like it, it's sad..

  • Ooooh!Yours video makes me cry,but it´s nice...You´re very pretty girl:)Take care,-)

  • I like it.I hope he sees it.

  • wow.....i cried.........

  • this iz reely neat.

  • poor you ''/<3

  • this is a great vid babe :-)

    xxxx

  • im tryin not to cry but this is so sad

  • I love how u put this together, i made one an sent it to my dad, ive only seen him once and the time i did he beat me at the bottom of my stairs.. I love how u did it! great job!

  • Lol, it's a lovely video, you don't have to justify yourself to people. If you hadn't put it online you wouldn't have had so many supportive comments.

    The video shows how much it hurt you, not having your Dad around, but all I can say is that you'll clearly never take love for granted and for that, your baby girl is so, so lucky. :)

  • haha good work n im glad ur not emo dats jus gay

  • beautiful video i lost my dad too i know how u feel, things get better dont you worry keep your head held high and dont forget theres people around you to help you out your mom friends and family =)

    good luck <3

  • i feel you!!! i sent these lyrics to my dad...with a bunch of pix of me 14 years after he left my mom brother and me...i miss him but still hate him for leaving but i jus wanted to let him no that i was ok and shit with out him!!!! i loved your vid...great song!!!!!

  • my mother bailed on my dad its not always fathers u dont have either of them now and i wish my mom never left us but its gone the best thing u can do is...forget

  • why did you put it on youtube?

  • To show the world, and hopefully my dad. I also have it on my myspace page.

  • ok :|

  • I love this song. i've known it before, but using it this way is new for me. you were pretty sweet when you were a little girl. your father has to be the silliest man in the world.

  • I saw it again and I still try not to cry

    Oh damn it´s so fantastic

  • i like ur pics on the video but :( we feel your sadness so much on it... oh my god why mostly dads do that!!!?

  • i hate my dad to

    but i think going emo isnt worth it thou

    he not even important to even think about

    so u know listen to music get urself a bf and get ur self busy not sex but something to do

    and quit smoking! xD

    that all i can say

  • haha go you! thats all the things i waz gna say exept from the emo bit cuz she mite nt even be emo and maybe she just likes the style and the music like me xD

  • i lovee this song soooo much

    i hope your dad does get to see it.. i was nearly in tears

  • fuck my dad ill nvr miss that piece of shit

  • i wont miss mine either

  • the thing with me is that my dad bailed on my mom when she found out she was pregnant with me and i never got the chance to meet him. it hurts to think that he might not want me at all if we ever met. not only that but my mom told me that i wasn't even planned, that i was a mistake. it hurts me more than she knows, but i've got my grandma and my little sister, so it makes it easier to bear. i love my lil sis more than life itself. nice vid.

  • same story...accept i'm adopted

    havent known my father...

    but i just reconnected wit him and hes not drinkin ne more or anythin like that

    i wrote a bookfull of letters to him n in the book there was a cd wit this song on it

  • very beautiful nice video

    =)

  • my dad wasnt around alot when i was kid but he tried. but since o3 when my brother died my dad has pushed us all as far away he could and i miss him like crazy

  • LOve the song my daddy is in jail!!!!!but i forgive him

  • hi!!!! your video made me cry!!!! i love this song cause evr simce i was a baby i didnt even saw my dad he didnt even ask about us!!! until now that im already 19... 19 years he really left us... and now i dont want to do some effort of finding him!!!! take care god bless!! live a happy life!!! ayt?

  • Great video. Im not sure if your Dad is a deadbeat dad like the song is reffering to. but either way your video shows people that there is life after someone leaves (aka a parent or someone else really close) and it reminds people that they arent alone. Thnx I need that.

  • Hey sorry but smoking doesn't help smoking is 1 of the highest death rates nd most poeple die before 40, drugs kill nd so does alcohol it kills off brain cells every sip

    alcohol is the highest deathrate between 15 to 34 or was it 36 yrs old or higher don't drink nd drive

    follow your mind

    not suggesting n e thing

  • I agree, thats why I quit smoking.

  • know what you're feeling now, my dad did also some awfull things.

    girl, we all gotta get over it, if you made this video, and mean the last picture, he's not worth any tears or sad feelings.

    i know its easier to say, still.

    and now i gotta cry

    nice video!

  • I feel ya. But, actually no one can really know waht you went through because everyone handles it differently. My dad left right after I was born, one of the worst parts is he still calls every once in a while just because he knows it pisses my mom off. I can't even begin to describe how confusing it is to hate him and miss him at the smae time. Great vid, man.

  • that was a great video and i love the song too. my xhusband doesn't even ask about his dughter, she is 5 now and she is telling that she wants to see him, i hope she can understand when she will grow up.

  • What does that mean? Can you re-word it for me please?

  • youre really really pretty

    like insanely pretty

    very nice vid tw

    -andrew

  • i know how it fells to miss your dad it sucks

  • i love diz video, i was thinking of making one just like diz one!! but urs was off da chain.

  • wow that really touched me. i love this song. I bet your dad is REALLY proud of you. I really think you made this video from the bottom of your heart and i hope you are appriciated.

  • I know how it feels....I miss my dad...I wish he was still alive...I wish he wouldve quit the drugs and never abanded me and my sis...but now hes dead and yea....I'm sad now

  • aww! wow! thats such a great video, and my favorate good charlotte song! hey, i know what its like aswell, my dad left when i was 4, and he cheated on my mum, then cheated on his girlfriend with another woman!

    what a loser!

    and he missed my brother being born because he was with his new girlfriend

    he missed bothe our first days at school

    when we learned to ride a bike

    now he only has pictures of us, and phones once in a while, i really hope your dad sees this, its a great video!

    emily xx

  • hmm nice ending? ;p You're not the only one in this situation for sure ..

  • Now I understood the meaning of the song... It is really a great song, and the video ist great, too. I hope your Dad will see it one day. Be strong (and sorry for the bad english, I´m from germany)

    Mea

  • this is sad, a few years ago i could have done a video on my dad. he was always there, but always caught up in drugs or drunk. but now hes clean. have faith and keep God close by your side, he can and will help you!

  • i just want to say i love this song and i love the video you made for it. i think you did a great job and i hope that ur dad see's this cuz i think hed say what a wonderful daughter he has and how proud he is of u for doing this. my dad didnt neccesarily leave me but he doesnt make the effort to see me and its like he doesnt care about his kid... anyways i just want to say GOOD JOB!!!!

  • *sniffle* now im sad =(

  • This song makes me cry so much *sniffle*

  • aaah thats so sad

  • my 'rents had this one night thing and had me my mom never got married to him but stayed friends,i get to him and we are kinda close but my mom is a single parent im glad she is. But i wish i grew up more with a dad around.a friend of my dads Staci we were on vacation with my dad and some of his cousins and staci and i were talking about me and my dad and that staci was happy to talk to my dad he thought that i needed a dad around idk

  • you make this for youre dad? i hope too that he have the chance to see it... the pics and all... wonderful... sometimes we all wish we was emotionless... but.. no, were not emotionless, and anytimes its better if you cried... so i hope you have a good time... <3 and i hope yore dad (if he could?) take time and see this... he must be proud of you.. i think so... Let yourself go and realax.. <3 Greetings Helena <3

  • oh my god...i started to cry,breaks my heart what your dad did...

    hope he'll see this video!

  • i saw your video so many times... it make me cry... my parents are separate and it's too dificult for me... i would like to speak with u about this... if you wish answer me here... i will give u my mail... i'm french so if u don't understand something...sorry LOL... i hope see one answer from u... kisses !

  • I got teared eyes... I know how it is to miss someone and I hope he sees this video for your sake. I'm sorry for my bad english :P.. Be strong hon'

  • i just want to tell you that you are not alone. i'm just 13 years old and my dad left us 4 years ago, cause he felled in love with another woman..one day he wasn't in his bed. i went to my mummy and asked her where my daddy is..she just answered that he's gone..since this day my dad doesn't want to see me or my lil brother, who is 11..we miss our dad..keep strong. <3 and sorry for my bad english i'm from austria..

  • i havent seen my father in 6 or seven years.... he really hurt me emotionally i actually hate him for what he did to me but sometimes i do forgive him just because i know how sick he is. im pregnant now and married and very happy.... i just wish he would understnad

  • U happy to live?

    Than thank your dad he made you.

    All i gotta say is that though u dont gotta dad.. there is still hope left! You don't gotta live a life u dont want to.. its ur choice whether to or not to.. but for u babii gurl.. i hope ur dad would see this and im sure one day he'll return to say that he loves u too.... God Bless and hope all goes well!

    mwah mwah to u!

    There's a God

    n he's real!

    Take care sis

    Tinei

  • i almost cried. because this song really does have alot of meaning behind it, especially when you really can relate to it.

  • soo sad dont give up

    im from montreal canada and like we said here"lache pas la patate" from a french guy that is crying when i see video like this......sorry 4 my english

  • everytime i hear this song it brings me to tears, i miss my dad and hate him at the same time, i just wish he was around still and that he had actually stuck aorund to teach me things in my life

  • my dad killed himself in front of me and my mom when i was 9 and then my mom killed herself in front of me 2 weeks after that

    and what really hurts is knowing that they are both in hell and ill never see them

  • great vid.

  • touching story..really i gave this cd to my daddy and he cried....yea.<33

  • I wish you to find your father one day, and that this video will help ^.~

  • nice vid straight up strong n beautiful n dats wat its all about

  • Being without a father sucks like hell. Mine wasn't there to tell me about evil boys, approve of boyfriends, watch me get ready for prom, and I know he's not going to be there to see me graduate high-school or head off to college. But I still miss him like hell... and, unbelievably to myself, I still love him. I just wish he'd come back and take care of his family and 3 daughters. Beautiful video, hon.

    Mona

  • hey i really hope that your dad gets a chance to see this. if you ever do see your dad again you should shoot him. or stab him. just kidding. but yeah be strong. peace out.

  • wow hun. this is.. gah.. i hate my father, stupid bastard, but i knew him and he did stick around. but i just wanted to say that you are probably such a better person with out him. i'm 6 months pregnant and my kid will never know her father. (i'm glad but it is going to suck growing up without a dad) but i think that you are amazing, father or not. God bless you.

  • Hey guys I wanted to say I appriciate your remarks, even the bad ones. I read them ALL no matter what! Some of them really touch me, even make me teary eyed! GOD bless all of you! Thank You for taking the time to watch my video and post your comments!

  • just think how far you have came with no father. my father left me when i was 4 and it still hurts. Ive been down the wrong road more then once, and iit hurts goign back. I recently met up with him again and he is married and has 2 kids. I made the decision for him to not walk me down the isle when i get married because of what he did. My kid wont have a grandfather but its his loss, not hers. its not urs either.

  • very nice i started to cry...my dad left me when i nedded him the most!!!

  • This is so sad. Just to let you know even if you have a dad they suck.FUCK ALL DAD'S!

  • God Bless, I hope your dad realizes what he has done.

  • I love you guys all, if i could just give you guys a big hug ...=(

  • aww.... i hope your dad sees this. i hope everything goes well

  • usmp78390 oh my gosh your story is really sad...well i didn't lose my dad but i don't live with him..=[

  • My dad is still around. (happy) But he beat my mom and he took his anger out on his new girlfriend. He was a cheater. >:[. He did a lot of bad things and told me and my brother to keep our mouth shut or HE WOULD LEAVE US.

  • thats some serious shit.. loved the ending.

  • i know you feel, my dad doesnt give a shit about me, my bros, nor my mom..

  • this is great i hope he sees it

  • my dad is evil, and that's all I'm saying about him.

  • My dad killed himself when i was 4 or 5..

    i dont even noe...i dont remember anything about him.

    $ is such a small age.. whish i atlease knew what he looked like Or about the few yrs we spent together..

    Him killing himself ..gives me noe hope in life.

    But i just have to keep oing i geuss.

    i hope everything turns out fine for you..

  • i hate good charlote..

    But.i love this so much..

    I cryed so hard i swear..

    i Do hope your dad see's this & i noe he would be so happy that your still alive.Your beautiful girrll.

    My dad died when i was about 4 or 5/

    & i dont remember what he even looks like.

    I hard that he loved me so much & stuff but i just whish i could remember one single glance of him.

    Your not in this alone..

    Your dads still out there & hope he sees this.

    xx kayluh.

  • wow i love this video, i can understand you very good! this song is awesome for this video and i hope your father will see it and cry because he deserves this! i wish you all good things!^^byebye chris

  • I hope your dad does see this!! Im sorry for you!! Take good care of yourself, but dont ever forget that some were in this world someone loves you!!! Im sorry again!!

  • hmn sweety its ok i wont say i know how u feel but feel for u my dad bailed on me too and yes i hope ur dad does see this maybe he will wake the fuck up who knows but u must keep living ur life dont worry i feel for u we all hurt some how

  • seems like you reallt miss your dad and looks like you are really hurt by him leaveing you im not going to say anything else cause i do not wont to get you mad but it was a great video and you are very perty

  • I hope everything goes ok for everyone. But,no matter what, know that you still have people who care about you, even if some people aren't there with you.

  • My dad walked from my life when I was three. He'd show up, drunker than any human should be, asking for money. When I was growing up, I didn't see it. Daddy was my superhero. Then I moved in with him for two years, and I saw who he really was. And I hated him. He'd disappear for months on end, no call, no address, we didn't know if he was alive. Then he'd call, and when I'd get the phone and hear, "Hello my baby girl." In April of 2006, he died. I wish every day things had been different.