I think many men and women in our society mistake lust for love when they first meet somebody and go out with them a few times. I'm a black man and I think some of us need more morals&values instilled in us by our parents and grandparents. you can't sincerely love somebody after one date or even a month.
@Devine5188 nah I do not suck his d*** as you so eloquently put it. I save that for my man, and no Darling, I am not single, i have a man, a good man. I just simply agree with the man.
@Devine5188 So are we going to do this or not??? Sorry Dedan for doing this on your video but she needs to be checked!! If you are not going to present a valid argument in your claim that black women are blameless then you are wasting my time!
(cont'd) that have wreaked havoc on our community that I may be as blameless as the black woman. I'm just a poor ole lost black girl with no direction thinking black women need to start taking some accountability. Poor ole little me!!!
I can't agree with your views on black women''s promiscuity being the determinate factor for the rise in HIV cases.Promiscuity might raise their chances of being exposed ,but it isn't the primary cause. UNPROTECTED SEX in addition to the number/frequency of their encounters seem more likely. They could be committed to one person, and that persons contact outside of the relationship can just as easily spread a multitude of vd. I doubt your stats can conclusively match your argument
I feel you on this issue dedan. Im a young black man approaching my twenties and I will what until marriage when I find the right one. As a black man his MIND & GOALS should be stronger than any sexual feelings he may have,besides that, its better to wait anyway
Dedan I dont know if you read these comments or not. But I respect what you do. These people are HATERS! talking about you dont care about Black Women. You, gerald, Dree & all of the other Elite Men on your show. have caused me to REALLY self reflect, and really want to make a chage in that like. I absolutely LOVED your book WHat women need to know and dont want to hear. Keep on Black Man, Keep on!
@SilkyBrownLady I agree with you. I do not understand why people are having a problem with his videos. He's telling the truth. I can see if he was giving some detrimental advice but no he's telling the truth! He chooses to talk to women because a lot of our women need help. So many make poor decisions with men. If you are on point, why would you find fault with his videos. I think the shoe is fitting the women making these lame comments. If they want videos addressing men, they should make some.
@HTownDoItBig Because he is throwing insults Black people cannot really be this stupid...oh wait you are that stupid that's you'll always be bottom feeders think for yourself go pick up a real book he dissing black women and making money off you at the same time YOU GOTDAMN FOOLS
@Devine5188 Lol....he's making money off me?? I can't do anything other than laugh at you! Like I said before, he's telling the truth. What you just spewed is the typical emotional and irrational response from people that get mad at the truth. Why would you get angry about someone telling women to keep their legs closed. LOL....I'm a stupid bottom feeder fool that doesn't read because I acknowledge the faults of black women?? Teach me o wise woman. Show me the ways of the sisterhood that have
@HTownDoItBig I have yet to see a successful white woman with a black man...wanna know why? any woman who wants her children to survive and any smart financially savy woman in this world would not procreate with a black man knowing he can't teach them anything because he has bad credit, can't speak intelligently, has no money, and more than likely has a criminal record. You don't need to acknowledge the faults of black women because we are still in a better position than you ever will be.
@Devine5188 "Verify credentials"...please believe I have plenty to back up my claim on the "faultless black woman." You most definitely do not want to get into a debate with me about this because I will straight school you! If you really want to go into other facets of the black woman's disrespect for the black man (as you have proven in your post) and the nerve of many to say and I quote "we are still in a better position then you will ever be" then let's do it. I will eat you for dinner...lol
@HTownDoItBig Your a gotdamn troll all of your subscriptions are to these pathetic guru's who insult black women...Wow get a f***ing life I wouldn't be suprised if you are dedan himself again pathetic loser
@Devine5188 ONCE AGAIN....lol...are you going to make a valid claim to support that black women are blameless? If not, keep it moving. You are doing nothing but spewing more venom. You think I care about being called names and being accused of being a gay guy or even Dedan? LMBO...those are nothing but distractions! That doesn't work with me. I see you're not ready. If you were, then you would have already made a point for me to counter.
@HTownDoItBig You don't want it mother****er stop playing games when black men stop f***ing each other, going to jail, running away from their children, being irresponsible I will stop responding to these dumb video's featuring dumb people. Which will be pretty much never or when the white man wipes their a**es of the earth for good.
@Devine5188 i didnt run away from MY child...i didnt have kids cause i know if the bitch gets mad at me she can take them and ACT like im not a good father....so you have to give some of us credit for not falling for these bitches games..the same bitches i didnt get pregnant wound up getting pregnant and some of them loss...Do you think they take responsibility for their choices or blame the failure on the nigga? u guessed it..LOSERS blame the nigga. REAL WOMEN WIN REGARDLESS OF A DEADBEAT DAD.
@Devine5188 Gotta go.....I really wanted you to bring up a valid claim but I see you couldn't because it's impossible. Thanks for proving my point. Toodles!!!
@HTownDoItBig No B**** I have made no poor decisions, black men as a whole are poor decisions...BW are busy working and raising children they do not have all this free time to make videos. BM do because they most likely do not have a job doing anything just like the guy making these videos. Who listens to someone who NEVER has any facts to back up what he is saying...Verify credentials before you go believing what someone is saying it's just common sense you gullable fool
@Devine5188 LMBO, you sound so angry!! Why are you bringing up white women?? That's noting but a pure deflection. And by the way, I am a black woman. I'm just tired of other black women walking around thinking their faultless in the problems we face. It's time that some of us women start checking you all and I have no problem doing just that. The sistahood is always scoping the net looking for videos to spit their venom no matter how irrational they sound....Lol!
@HTownDoItBig You claim your a black female keep in mind being a gay black man does not count as being a woman...don't mistake passion for anger sweetie no one is going to just sit back and be insulted by a bunch of low class low life men or women for that matter ...Black women have been through enough bs trying to protect these lazy lowlifes
@SilkyBrownLady Stop sucking his d*** your just insecure looking for one of these losers cause you can't find nobody else of course you read his book I bet your single too right? and you'll stay single looking for a good black man open your eyes and get a clue
i am sorry.....but he is the first person on you tube that i totally disagree with,i been watching youtube,for a year now and never really commented about their video, because their always,almost speaking the truth....but him he is bashing bw...and trying to word it differntly
This man is a Mysogynist he is not trying to help anyone. He is very bitter and angry (read most black men) and disguises himself as giving advice. That is why Black Women will prevail let the White men take them down they are failures to their community and to the world
@Devine5188 i agree with u also....this is an asult to bw...how does he know that black women has the highest aids cause some white media said so, thats why they keep on coming with these news,cause they know dumb black men like him would believe it and run to ww. i subscibe to his channel because i (think he is cute) and had advice but boy was i wrong
@zappy158 It's o.k. that they run to white women I mean who really respects black men anyway all they do is run. No respectable women would marry them I don't know why bw get mad with black men for marrying outside of their race. They have strippers and women with low morals and values raising their children not capable of raising children that will ever become anything in life. The best thing bw can do is let them be they are destroying themselves at record numbers.
@zappy158 respectable white women want to keep their money in their family and keep their bloodline going they don't want these woman haters. They want strong men who can provide and be real men. BM have everyone fooled thinking they are that desirable... Ha desirable to people who want to use you because your self esteem is low and your an easy target.
Before you relay statistics, please ask yourself how the research was done. Did the people doing the statistics test every black woman on the planet? If 50% of black women have HIV and they mainly have sex with black men, then what percentage of black men have HIV? I like the message that you give to black women because they do need to abstain from sex. Many women wouldn't and that's the reality. Women should at least be very selective with their bodies.
When people do videos about relationships, they have to be objective. They have to point out the faults of all parties involved because it takes two and know one is perfect. Women do alot of wrong things just like men. Men shouldn't be stringing women and pretending to care for them when they know they don't. I believe that . A Godly man wouldn't purposely string women along and treat them bad. We have to treat people the way we want to be treated.
His message could come across like he has something against black women. I don't think that he does. I do think that he thinks it's okay for men to sleep around, use, abandon, and emotionally tramatize women. It's not okay for men or women to do that. People need to start holding men accountable. A man and a women make a family, not just the woman. Even thought I agree with him about women honoring their bodies. I get frustrated with his videos because he doesn't put men on blast.
Please do videos instructing men on how to respect their bodies and also how to respect women. If God will hold men and women accountable for their actions, why can't we as humans hold men accountable for their actions?
Your messages should be for every teen and women and not just black women. God said that fornication is a sin. He didn't say that it is only a sin for women. Men are supposed to be the spiritual and figure head of the houshold. God didn't say that it is okay for men to fornicate. Women are not the only people in the world. Men also need to be accountable for their evil ways just as a woman is held accountable for evil ways.
I don't trust the statisics that the media has put out in terms of the percentage of black women with HIV. I don't think that black women are the only ones who are permiscuous. HIV, STD's, and STI's are color blind and culture blind. It is a human disease. The media would never say the percentages of other cultures with HIV. I think that you should address your message to all women.
i am so tired of you bashing bw.....black women are not the only women who have casual sex. white and hicspanic women do to. u talk nothing bullshit.u just need to get off youtube..... and how do u know that black women have hiv more than other races of course the media is going to say that.whitwe women are the biggest whores.so yah stupid bm, who are going out there saying"oh i am going to get me a white girl because bw have hiv.hiv does not have a race that it goes to dumb ass!
WHO IS GIVING THE BLACK WOMEN HIV, THEY ARE NOT GETTING IT BY THEMSELVES.!!!!
alphaacad1 3 months ago
A woman gives her pussy to whoever she wants to and whoever she pleases.
If a woman doesnt want to fuck...she aint fucking.
With that being said...a woman cant blame anyone but herself for her choices.
One of those choices is to have unprotected sex.
If a nigga wears a condom she gets nothing out of it but a nut.
She can only gain from it if she gets a baby out of it.
I dont see how you niggas fuck women without condoms.
You dont know if her pussy is wet or if someone just came in her.
DoomCity202 9 months ago
The line from that song "I can have another you in a minute" comes to mind.
"You must not know bout me" also fits in this situation.
DoomCity202 9 months ago
i have sex with hookers but i do not tell my girlfriend
some of the hookers might have aids
blackhebrew85 9 months ago
I think many men and women in our society mistake lust for love when they first meet somebody and go out with them a few times. I'm a black man and I think some of us need more morals&values instilled in us by our parents and grandparents. you can't sincerely love somebody after one date or even a month.
AceAnalyst 10 months ago
@Devine5188 nah I do not suck his d*** as you so eloquently put it. I save that for my man, and no Darling, I am not single, i have a man, a good man. I just simply agree with the man.
SilkyBrownLady 1 year ago
@SilkyBrownLady if you say so
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 So are we going to do this or not??? Sorry Dedan for doing this on your video but she needs to be checked!! If you are not going to present a valid argument in your claim that black women are blameless then you are wasting my time!
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
(cont'd) that have wreaked havoc on our community that I may be as blameless as the black woman. I'm just a poor ole lost black girl with no direction thinking black women need to start taking some accountability. Poor ole little me!!!
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
I can't agree with your views on black women''s promiscuity being the determinate factor for the rise in HIV cases.Promiscuity might raise their chances of being exposed ,but it isn't the primary cause. UNPROTECTED SEX in addition to the number/frequency of their encounters seem more likely. They could be committed to one person, and that persons contact outside of the relationship can just as easily spread a multitude of vd. I doubt your stats can conclusively match your argument
0VacantxWonderland0 1 year ago
@0VacantxWonderland0 Black women have HIV because black men can't stop f***ing each other in jail periodpointblank
Devine5188 1 year ago
I feel you on this issue dedan. Im a young black man approaching my twenties and I will what until marriage when I find the right one. As a black man his MIND & GOALS should be stronger than any sexual feelings he may have,besides that, its better to wait anyway
AceAnalyst 1 year ago
@AceAnalyst excuse wait until marriage
AceAnalyst 1 year ago
Dedan I dont know if you read these comments or not. But I respect what you do. These people are HATERS! talking about you dont care about Black Women. You, gerald, Dree & all of the other Elite Men on your show. have caused me to REALLY self reflect, and really want to make a chage in that like. I absolutely LOVED your book WHat women need to know and dont want to hear. Keep on Black Man, Keep on!
SilkyBrownLady 1 year ago
@SilkyBrownLady I agree with you. I do not understand why people are having a problem with his videos. He's telling the truth. I can see if he was giving some detrimental advice but no he's telling the truth! He chooses to talk to women because a lot of our women need help. So many make poor decisions with men. If you are on point, why would you find fault with his videos. I think the shoe is fitting the women making these lame comments. If they want videos addressing men, they should make some.
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig Because he is throwing insults Black people cannot really be this stupid...oh wait you are that stupid that's you'll always be bottom feeders think for yourself go pick up a real book he dissing black women and making money off you at the same time YOU GOTDAMN FOOLS
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 Lol....he's making money off me?? I can't do anything other than laugh at you! Like I said before, he's telling the truth. What you just spewed is the typical emotional and irrational response from people that get mad at the truth. Why would you get angry about someone telling women to keep their legs closed. LOL....I'm a stupid bottom feeder fool that doesn't read because I acknowledge the faults of black women?? Teach me o wise woman. Show me the ways of the sisterhood that have
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig I have yet to see a successful white woman with a black man...wanna know why? any woman who wants her children to survive and any smart financially savy woman in this world would not procreate with a black man knowing he can't teach them anything because he has bad credit, can't speak intelligently, has no money, and more than likely has a criminal record. You don't need to acknowledge the faults of black women because we are still in a better position than you ever will be.
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 "Verify credentials"...please believe I have plenty to back up my claim on the "faultless black woman." You most definitely do not want to get into a debate with me about this because I will straight school you! If you really want to go into other facets of the black woman's disrespect for the black man (as you have proven in your post) and the nerve of many to say and I quote "we are still in a better position then you will ever be" then let's do it. I will eat you for dinner...lol
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig SO EAT ME FOR DINNER YOUR PROBABLY A FAT B**** ANYWAY
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 once again being irrational.....
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig Test me B**** and think I won't spit fire at your ass
Devine5188 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig Your a gotdamn troll all of your subscriptions are to these pathetic guru's who insult black women...Wow get a f***ing life I wouldn't be suprised if you are dedan himself again pathetic loser
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 ONCE AGAIN....lol...are you going to make a valid claim to support that black women are blameless? If not, keep it moving. You are doing nothing but spewing more venom. You think I care about being called names and being accused of being a gay guy or even Dedan? LMBO...those are nothing but distractions! That doesn't work with me. I see you're not ready. If you were, then you would have already made a point for me to counter.
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig You don't want it mother****er stop playing games when black men stop f***ing each other, going to jail, running away from their children, being irresponsible I will stop responding to these dumb video's featuring dumb people. Which will be pretty much never or when the white man wipes their a**es of the earth for good.
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 I think our messages just crossed each other. I will address you last comment latter. Gotta go!
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@Devine5188 i didnt run away from MY child...i didnt have kids cause i know if the bitch gets mad at me she can take them and ACT like im not a good father....so you have to give some of us credit for not falling for these bitches games..the same bitches i didnt get pregnant wound up getting pregnant and some of them loss...Do you think they take responsibility for their choices or blame the failure on the nigga? u guessed it..LOSERS blame the nigga. REAL WOMEN WIN REGARDLESS OF A DEADBEAT DAD.
DoomCity202 9 months ago
@Devine5188 Gotta go.....I really wanted you to bring up a valid claim but I see you couldn't because it's impossible. Thanks for proving my point. Toodles!!!
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig No B**** I have made no poor decisions, black men as a whole are poor decisions...BW are busy working and raising children they do not have all this free time to make videos. BM do because they most likely do not have a job doing anything just like the guy making these videos. Who listens to someone who NEVER has any facts to back up what he is saying...Verify credentials before you go believing what someone is saying it's just common sense you gullable fool
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 LMBO, you sound so angry!! Why are you bringing up white women?? That's noting but a pure deflection. And by the way, I am a black woman. I'm just tired of other black women walking around thinking their faultless in the problems we face. It's time that some of us women start checking you all and I have no problem doing just that. The sistahood is always scoping the net looking for videos to spit their venom no matter how irrational they sound....Lol!
HTownDoItBig 1 year ago
@HTownDoItBig You claim your a black female keep in mind being a gay black man does not count as being a woman...don't mistake passion for anger sweetie no one is going to just sit back and be insulted by a bunch of low class low life men or women for that matter ...Black women have been through enough bs trying to protect these lazy lowlifes
Devine5188 1 year ago
@SilkyBrownLady Stop sucking his d*** your just insecure looking for one of these losers cause you can't find nobody else of course you read his book I bet your single too right? and you'll stay single looking for a good black man open your eyes and get a clue
Devine5188 1 year ago
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amcdaniful 1 year ago
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amcdaniful 1 year ago
@amcdaniful Total agree, This is your man. Ready??
cyrwilson 1 year ago
i am sorry.....but he is the first person on you tube that i totally disagree with,i been watching youtube,for a year now and never really commented about their video, because their always,almost speaking the truth....but him he is bashing bw...and trying to word it differntly
zappy158 1 year ago
This man is a Mysogynist he is not trying to help anyone. He is very bitter and angry (read most black men) and disguises himself as giving advice. That is why Black Women will prevail let the White men take them down they are failures to their community and to the world
Devine5188 1 year ago
@Devine5188 i agree with u also....this is an asult to bw...how does he know that black women has the highest aids cause some white media said so, thats why they keep on coming with these news,cause they know dumb black men like him would believe it and run to ww. i subscibe to his channel because i (think he is cute) and had advice but boy was i wrong
zappy158 1 year ago
@zappy158 It's o.k. that they run to white women I mean who really respects black men anyway all they do is run. No respectable women would marry them I don't know why bw get mad with black men for marrying outside of their race. They have strippers and women with low morals and values raising their children not capable of raising children that will ever become anything in life. The best thing bw can do is let them be they are destroying themselves at record numbers.
Devine5188 1 year ago
@zappy158 respectable white women want to keep their money in their family and keep their bloodline going they don't want these woman haters. They want strong men who can provide and be real men. BM have everyone fooled thinking they are that desirable... Ha desirable to people who want to use you because your self esteem is low and your an easy target.
Devine5188 1 year ago
Well where do you think they get Aids from genius?
Devine5188 1 year ago
Before you relay statistics, please ask yourself how the research was done. Did the people doing the statistics test every black woman on the planet? If 50% of black women have HIV and they mainly have sex with black men, then what percentage of black men have HIV? I like the message that you give to black women because they do need to abstain from sex. Many women wouldn't and that's the reality. Women should at least be very selective with their bodies.
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GRLNXTDR06 1 year ago
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When people do videos about relationships, they have to be objective. They have to point out the faults of all parties involved because it takes two and know one is perfect. Women do alot of wrong things just like men. Men shouldn't be stringing women and pretending to care for them when they know they don't. I believe that . A Godly man wouldn't purposely string women along and treat them bad. We have to treat people the way we want to be treated.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
@GRLNXTDR06
His message could come across like he has something against black women. I don't think that he does. I do think that he thinks it's okay for men to sleep around, use, abandon, and emotionally tramatize women. It's not okay for men or women to do that. People need to start holding men accountable. A man and a women make a family, not just the woman. Even thought I agree with him about women honoring their bodies. I get frustrated with his videos because he doesn't put men on blast.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
@GRLNXTDR06
I want to remind everyone that not all men maltreat women. There are good men out there who don't toil with women. Bad apples don't represent all.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
Please do videos instructing men on how to respect their bodies and also how to respect women. If God will hold men and women accountable for their actions, why can't we as humans hold men accountable for their actions?
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
Your messages should be for every teen and women and not just black women. God said that fornication is a sin. He didn't say that it is only a sin for women. Men are supposed to be the spiritual and figure head of the houshold. God didn't say that it is okay for men to fornicate. Women are not the only people in the world. Men also need to be accountable for their evil ways just as a woman is held accountable for evil ways.
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mindyourbizok 1 year ago
I don't trust the statisics that the media has put out in terms of the percentage of black women with HIV. I don't think that black women are the only ones who are permiscuous. HIV, STD's, and STI's are color blind and culture blind. It is a human disease. The media would never say the percentages of other cultures with HIV. I think that you should address your message to all women.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
@mindyourbizok i agree with u so much....thank you,every one knows this
zappy158 1 year ago
i am so tired of you bashing bw.....black women are not the only women who have casual sex. white and hicspanic women do to. u talk nothing bullshit.u just need to get off youtube..... and how do u know that black women have hiv more than other races of course the media is going to say that.whitwe women are the biggest whores.so yah stupid bm, who are going out there saying"oh i am going to get me a white girl because bw have hiv.hiv does not have a race that it goes to dumb ass!
zappy158 1 year ago