Strawberry Letter #38: "I'm the Other Woman"

[MsQueenRandom]

THEY'RE POLYGAMISTS!! am i right? am i right? probably not..

[ThickNCurly1]

A farm in Utah? lol.

[vonnababy2]

OMG-That wife is a crafty one, eh?? LOL Wanting to be "friends" with the mistress...She needs to DROP that dude.

[momoken1989]

EVERY YEAR? O.o

[nednelmam]

SORRY TO SAY THIS JUST DO THE POLYGAMY THING THE WIFE SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ACCEPTING....AND THE WRITER OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT MIND SHARING SO WHY DONT YALL ALL GET MARRIED TOGETHER HA

[ArkenWest1219]

what is this woman thinking!

[bonfio713]

CRAZY's an understatement for this situation. I had a guy that I was engaged to and when I found out that he was messing with someone else, he had the audacity to say that she's just another girl and that I am the one he loved and wanted to marry. I dropped him like the hot potato mentioned and I have never regretted it. Love hurts but its worse if one saw it coming. She's not a fool...she's just naiive. You said it....that was GREAT Advice.

[vivik972]

waaaaw this is craziness !! that guy is sick!! he loves to play and you're hisfavorite toy for the moment..make a choice for yourself now don't think about anybody else than yourself and how you want your life to be. This is very close to be called polygamy...

[epifanny]

@RetroVintageChic86 the law begs to differ

[epifanny]

@RetroVintageChic86 @RetroVintageChic86 No i'm not nuts, i'm purely rational and practical. Because adoption is working so well for the children already in the system. May i know how many children you have adopted or fostered?

Had my mother decided to abort, it would have been for the best and between her and her partner...pregnancy may be a 'natural' process but is not without its danger to the expectant woman, so she is free to decide whether she wants to go through with this or not.

[epifanny]

@RetroVintageChic86 My mind is perfectly fine, i feel sorry for YOU, since you cant see the reality that is other peoples lives. It is not up to us to judge whether abortion is wrong or not, its up to the people that have to make the choice to decide whether it is the right choice for them!

And it does not matter whether i am a christian or not, it has no bearings with the topic.

[epifanny]

@RetroVintageChic86 If this woman cannot afford a child she should not have one! And by afford i dont just mean financially, but in every other way, being a parent is more than being a financial or comfort provider. If she is within the legal limits to have an another then it is not murder, this clump of cells in her womb is not a child or person, but cells with the potential to become a being.

Yes she should not have been involved with him, but she was, so she now must look at all the options!

[CourtneysGIRL2]

Yo....I love this LADY...lol!!!! :-) This aint no farm in UTAHHH...NOOOOOOOO!..lmao

[nshouston31]

Great advice, abortion is not the answer.

[epifanny]

I dont agree with keeing the baby unless she really really really wants, and if she can afford it. It sucks to be in this situation, but she should think carefully.

[angeewells]

he says like a dog on the sniff. never! never! tutor in your home the library is availble. he is just sorry!

[afronique]

He just trying to spread his seed.

[916simone]

Please run dont walk, run run run. I have been there done that and although I am out or the relationship I am still paying for it. Take your kids and dont look back. Get your self worth and self esteem together and find someone that is worthy of you and your kids. I could write a book on the shit here. PLease do not make the same mistakes I did. Like bronze said, God would never bless you with someone else's husband. Nothing good will ever come from this relationship.

[harmonyranay07]

okay so i love the realness the you give off this video was the truth. are u christian?i love how you talk about god so much

[Reicya]

Let me get started 1) you should have been studying at the library 2) why would you want to put yourself in his wife's place to be cheated on later 3) the wife wants to be friends? Does he isolate her? Signs of an abuser 4) he has your child calling him daddy? No Ma'am! Run from him sis he is NOT the one! 5) move to his duty station? Girl call his Sgt or somebody 6) having a baby every year. Talk to your dr about that. Your body needs time We will be praying for you & yours!

Shalom & Blessings!

[PrettiVulupNicBarbie]

Ooh Chile....is all I keep saying... the reason he is never leavig his Wife is because she apparently ACCEPTS his foolishness...HE HAS GOT ALL OF THEM FOOLED!! And what is really wrong with the Wife?

[tori0083]

This story needs to have it's own soap opera on BET...

[londonsoulchild]

it sound like he and his wife are using her to start their own family because his wife is finding it hard to get pregnant

[Tisha701]

@londonsoulchild Wow! Good point. That part never even crossed my mind :-0

[MegaEvemarie]

Madea would bake the stud horse a sweet potato pie that would blow his head off. What's he running a baby factory for, anyway? Keep them coming, BG. Blessings - Eve.

[blackdiamond61105]

@bronzegoddess01.. by the way i love your channel. been watching for a while. should have subscribed sooner. love the advice you give. never stop. its needed. You are truly beautiful inside and out. :)

[sexxislick]

apparently 3 ppl are the 'other woman'..smh...you on point BG!! straight..no chaserr!!! :D

[srbumblediva]

and stop talking to the wife. and take him to court for child support. start that process now before the child is born.

[mrswimberly08]

GOD dont bless no MESS im sick of dependent women with no self esteem and nothing to live for chasing after a man especialy one who is married why would you want to be second or third to someone else its pathetic you see celebrities like alicia and fantasia losing fans for sleeping with married men its sick and nasty let the wife deal with the mans Bull Shit dont surround yourself with foolishness i have a friend going through the same thing i dont feel sorry for these type of women

[msbberrygirl09]

What about the wife should she leave her husband ? Yll keep saying oh "he's married". Leave him alone ? I'm so sick of married women judging SINGLE women. I had a class mates wife call me yesterday cussing me. I never had a relationship with a married man ever. Her man tried to but I put him in his place. I haven't talked to him in months now she calling. We are class mates !! Take it up with ur hubby I didn't make any vows to you lady. Classless

[PinkMakeupDiva]

What we as women don't understand is that 99.9% that men don't leave their wives for them. We have to know our self worth and that we're more than a man's dirty little secret. As much as we try and play the game; .ladies we will always get played because we usually catch feelings at some point. Ladies we need to have some standards and hold men to them.She doesn't deserve this but she knew he was married and had a relationship with him so she has to deal w/the consequences.

[moody2k7us]

UNLESS YOU'RE DOWN FOR SOME SISTER WIVE'S MESS.

[moody2k7us]

IF he will do it to her...HE WILL DO IT TO YOU. What makes u so special that he won't? Clearly you aren't special ENOUGH for him to leave hise wife for sooooo...

[Chasmofmisery]

what is up with these women not knowing their self-worth

[leolion704]

OMG...something similar happened 2 my friend. she met this guy, he told her from THE JUMP he was married...she kept seeing him/sleeping w/ him, ended up pregnant, so she moved from where they lived*small town* . when my friend asked her mother who had both her AND her sister by a married man and her mother told her leave him alone she didn't listen, then she would get mad when he didn't come to the baby's shower, it was on the same day as his/his wife's daughter's birthday...

[leolion704]

when she first told me about this situation, i told her she know he's married, so leave him be...i had nothing else to say to her after this about that situation, she would come and try to talk to me about it, my responses were, ''oh really, well, you knew from the beginning." but i didn't try 2 make her feel worse than i'm sure she did, i did keep it brutally honest w/ her though. as far as i know she learned, but why the hard way ?!?!? she's such a wonderful person...why settle...

[ElectricLadyLand08]

You are the youtube-girlfriend that every dawg HATES!!! Keep it real sis. Be blessed.

[tsnell80]

Real quick.... Financially, uncle Sam, the military won't let him drop you. If u have his name, or social security number, find his company or his first sergeant's number. And let them know before he leaves, that way he will always be accountable regardless. Your baby is blessings, but don't be crazy enough to not financial support for your baby. If u don't need it. Your baby will wonder why u didn't take it!!!

[5001Isaac]

I think that some of this is her too. She knew from day one what would happen that's why she looked "busted". I smell a rat. She is milking him and his wife for all that it is worth. She will lose in the end because she is playing along with the game and the result is all will lose. i hate that she took the bait, but now that she is off the hook, she need to swim for the surface.

[dlemora]

The young lady is lucky all she got out of it was a baby...she could have gotten a death sentence. What happened to protection?

[dajewel1982]

i agree with you except for how can u tell this women to keep the baby? that is very selfish on her end because think about how this baby will feel knowing who is biological father, knowing the type of man his father is, and not having his father with him.  she needs to have an abortion.

[dajewel1982]

simple. she needs to have an abortion. move on. women need to stop being so emotional.

[xMusicSoothesMySoulx]

I love u! I love ur hair! I love ur make up and ur top! Lol

[Essencejournal]

He must think this is Big Love or something smh. Girl, get your mind right and move on. Great advice BG!!!!! 

[NaturalBeauty321]

‎"Don't make someone a priority if they're making you an option" ...my new fave quote.

[ThykBody]

i love this video girl!!!

[wladytray]

this is some TRUE TOM FOOLERY!!!!!!WHAT THE DEVIL?????Women we need to wise up here we TEACH people how to treat us. I don't know where they do that @ cuz if we gonna b together I DON'T SHARE!!!!!I''m selfish when it comes to my man if he the communtiy man he can PRESS ON!!!!ESPECIALLY if he is MARRIED!!!!That's mean OFF LIMITS!!!It's one thing when u don't know but to know & still get down is UNACCEPTABLE by ALL MEANS!NO IFS ANDS OR BUTS ABOUT IT!!!JUST NASTY! OH & keep that baby!TELL HER BG!!

[TheBronzeQT]

I agree with the advice you gave this woman, although if I were her I would not bring a child into this messiness--But that's just me. We as women have to expect and demand more from men! Men are always called "dogs" and "playas" but they can't do it alone, it takes two to tango.

[ruthy2cutey]

how cud i go about writing u a letter

[BronzeGoddess01]

@ruthy2cutey Just send it as a personal message to my inbox and label it "strawberry letter".

[ruthy2cutey]

@BronzeGoddess01 yea i wanted to know wat you thought about my situation

[ruthy2cutey]

@BronzeGoddess01 i already did

[Celestialbody76]

He is definitely the wrong man. if I were her I would cut him lose and I would definitely not have the baby and would take some courses or something that would keep me occupied so that I wouldn't fall into that trap again... but that's me, she has to pray about it and do what is best for her.

[Celestialbody76]

...and i would also suggest that she should remain on birth control during her periods of celibacy, because there is always the risk that someone else may come along and convince her to give in unless she knows her worth and can resist smooth talkers in future.

[lorielizes]

this man must have a radar for naive women....the part that threw me off is that the wife said she needed a friend WAT? No you need a LAWYER! these people are really crazy this sound like an episode of Jerry Springer

[britt4325]

I love that u keep it SO real!!!! 

[LadyJayTZ]

love your vid - ofcourse us fans feel the same way you do with this issue - for some of us it goes without saying however we are all not cut from the same cloth (yes, regardless of the Adan and Eve situation..). i did want to comment on your PRO stance...I agree, yes, babies are miracles, yet we have heard of unwanted miracles. I understand your position BG, but that just made it sound like she should be stuck with a child she was told to have. Abortion is a choice. Does she want the 'miracle'??

[glamorousdollface]

I agree with blackdiamond61105. You can't "fall" in love...anytime you fall, it isn't a good thing. You grow to love a person as you learn who they are, so she hasn't even grown in love because she doesn't know anything except he's selfish, has a wife and a penis...none of which qualifies him as a good mate for her. All that time she's wasting on him could be spent loving herself and preparing to teach her child to love him/herself. SMH! Why be alive and dig yourself a grave just to fall in?

[Unekwu89]

Also 22 is too old to be on this BS. I'm 21 and I know better than this nonsense. Hell, if you told me this story at 14 I would still know this is wrong.

I can't get over this type of idiocy. I know I sound harsh but goodness. If all it takes is someone to spit a little Game on your ear and you put yourself through this may God help you... There is no other force on earth that can save you from this type of lunacy.

[Unekwu89]

Lmao "this ain't no farm in Utah"

But really. She's the fool here. The man LET HER KNOW he was married from jump, and she went along with it. She cosigned herself to mistress/baby mama status. The man is obviously a user but she failed to protect herself (and her son) from the drama. We are our own gatekeepers, she failed on that regard.

I hope her and the wife dumped this MoFo already.

[mschris014]

Girl, them folks crazy. I can't even....

[bananabaygirl]

oooooooooooooooooo lawd......................i dont believe this 1 smh for the 1st time i have no words its so much to say ......homegurl beta pray n pray hard drop dude n ask god 4 4givness

[keyboardqueen100]

shes a whore. she knew he was married and she stillfucked. WHORE WHORE WHORE no if ands or buts about it. if you know someone is in a relationship.married.etc. and you still allow the fuckery to continue it's shame on you boo boo. 22 get ya mind right fool. your the hoe she's the housewife. when she leave him she gets a check for every baby she pushes out and all that time married...what do you get? ???? ur a single mom statistic waiting in line at welfare. #BYEGIRL

[angel88virgo]

For the life of me I cannot understand why these women haven't discovered birth control or common sense.

[Kinkalalee]

LMAO, "this aint no farm in Utah"!!!! lol I feel sorry for the girl, so young, she was vulnerable. You said it right, he saw her coming a mile away. Sometimes only experience can teach you these lessons. Important thing is she realizes her mistake and move on from it. It's not where you come from it's where you're going. She is strong enough to get it together, celebate for two years, yeah she is strong!

[kiera843]

To be honest I dont get women who knowingly go into relationships with MARRIED MEN!! Would they like some woman to be sleeping with their husbands when they decide to get married. Most likely if he is out sleeping around on his wife with her...im pretty sure she is not the only one or WILL be the only one! Lord...im 22 and I will NEVER EVER KNOWINGLY get into a relationship with a married man! Know your worth!! Most importantly do into others as you would want them to do unto you!!!

[tyshi7]

Good advice Ms. BG. But what about the wife? She wants to be the young woman's friend? What! I don't trust the wife's intentions. How can she be cool with the fact that a woman is having sex with her husband and is pregnant with a child, while she is struggling to get pregnant. I suggest her to stay far away from that woman.

[Nee717]

great advice & i am loving your do but she needs 2 just move on because he does not luv her or his wife

[LILUHO2004]

this is crazy i never understood y women think its ok to sleep with married man. they will never leave his wife.. female always say that cant find a good man and most of the time they busy with other people men..

[shanqb]

LIKE LIKE LIKE your response! She's a woman, she and the wife need to know that they are automatically strong! (That's why we have the babies not the men).

[jazminejm2006]

BG great advice as always and I couldn't stop looking at your hair. Love it!!

[MrJess9909]

even if he left his wife what makes her think he wont do the same to her

[mezier50]

Wow he is a piece of work @ arrogant to boot, she needs to run as far away from him as she can get. This woman was sought out by the devil there she was in school getting her life in order for herself @ the child she already has @ in slithers the devil, girl get your child support in order @ leave this man alone he will never be yours, he will never be faithful!

[londonpie72]

Shameful but deifnately don't abort the baby because that will cause more problems. DO NOT LEEP with a married man please that is just wrong.

[VirtuousX23]

Every child is conceived for a reason. God is going to have a purpose for that child, so don't kill your baby :0)

[VirtuousX23]

It sounds to me like he is brainwashing the wife too...he is a snake, and God is going to punish him. U don't ever come around and prey on a young woman's weaknesses. Please let him go and don't allow him to take advantage of you ever again!

[loveedigveggies1004]

Good advice.

[mylaylay18]

Well said!!

[RebelMakeUp]

He is a scum bag and she is a fool. And the wife!!! She wants to be her friend?! Lord have mercy! This situation is crazyness! Great advice girly!!! xoxoxox

[paproute69]

What's wrong with all these men who want to populate the world with their seeds??!! O_o

[MizBossLady]

Y do people think that the military make alot of money? Honey he can't take care a house full of kids plus his home on that money baby. my ex has 12 years in and his base pay befire taxes is right at 4,000 dollars. and hes an e6. honey don't fall for it. if u don't stand for something. u'll fall 4 anything. good luck

[mscardioqueen]

@ 7:01 "This ain't no farm in Utah!" I luv that! LOL LOL LOL. This poor 22 year old naive young woman. Nothing is worse than a player, but a player with empty promises. Good lord! I can't believe that she wd even consider being with a man like this esp now that she knows the complete truth about him. Wat a situation she has gotton herself into.

[toplip85]

GREAT ADVICE HUNNY I AGREE 100%

[prettydougla]

How can you say that a baby which was created while committing fornication and adultery (both of which are sins) is a blessing from God? That remains to be seen. (Let's see if this child grows up to be a productive member of society). Yes, this woman can possibly turn things around and clean up her life but she was sleeping with a married man- without protection! Where is the blessing in that?

[honeyhued08]

@prettydougla The blessing is the child, not the act have you read David and Bathsheeba, yes David was wrong and suffered consequence but was blessed with Soloman. The baby had nothing to do with their mindless behavior.

[MizBossLady]

@prettydougla every child is a blessing from God. No matter WHAT the mother did. THAT baby did not tell its mother to spread her legs to a marry man. EVERY child is a GIFT from GOD no matter how IT happen.

[tolight16]

EVERY YEAR!!!!??? WHAT THE HECK!!!!

[NYCCHOCOLATE7777]

Yes, Messy is not the word "Thank You" Let it go and leave him alone for your sanity he is not worth it. Believe me l know lived this and breathed it and never again will l let this man into my life he is selfish, and it's all about him and you need to kick him to the curb now

[ambi101]

WTF...this some FOOLISHNESS

[ambi101]

That man is SICK..smh

[soonubian]

Foolishness! So Stupid!

[VMJakaThree]

Great vid AND advice... BUT how does celibacy cloud your judgement?? Now being HOT and HORNY would do that ... lol Speaking from experience.. being celibate for a LONG time ... I know what situations to put myself in cuz flesh is NEVER EVER gonna be saved and wants to be gratified. She could have prevented ALL of what happened and I trust she takes your advice and not make the situation worse.

[ItHiNkIdEsErVeIt]

N his wife is sad for wanting a friend out of this women...they are both lost!! He is n complete charge.

[ItHiNkIdEsErVeIt]

You said that she deserves better than this BUT she doesnt!!!! Lol im sorry but she is treated like a #0 bcus its just how she presented herself. She knew he was married!!! Women need to stop finding it ok to be a mans sideline hoooo

[MrsButler1228]

And there it is!!!!!

[peachesandsunshine9]

WOW,me being a studious person,I can see that you PUT youself into those situations.I'm majoring in a field that is predominantly men,so I'm used to studying with men.If you are purposely wearing certain clothes to study with him so that he wont look at you,then you are already in the frame of mind that this man might want a relationhip.If school is first,I dont care if hes obviously flirting,I will get the studying done and leave.School will only get harder,keep your head up and focus on goals!

[ebonydivine1]

These strawberry letters are so sad. Like how do these people not have basic common sense? Like come on really? Bless you for giving these lost souls some guidance

[blackeee1]

Please do the video of how not to fall in love and I will post it on my facebook for the desperate women in my town to see.....

[yannajata]

Missed you so much

[kissingmocha]

I cant take it..what happen to women with self esteem and self respect !!!!

[KLocStar135]

sounds like big love that use to be on HBO

[patssou]

Why not take the pill or something instead of making unwanted babies? If you know that you can't be abstinent then there are a lot of solutions out there for birth control... I just don't understand but maybe it's a difference of cultures

[smooches111]

You told her right. I just get ill listening to this me mess. STOP THE MADNESS!

[ladyluck538]

And you have to know your self worth!! I would never (knowingly) be a man's side thing, because you best believe you are not the only one. I had a friend who was doing the exact same thing, but the wife doesn't know. She has wasted 8 years of her life, being somebody's side thing. He comes by on tuesday? wtf?! She is getting older, has never been married, doesn't have any children, just always looking forward to tuesdays....smh....

[BronzeGoddess01]

@ladyluck538 Dang. All she gets is one day a week? That's a shame. She'll never get those years back.

[ladyluck538]

@BronzeGoddess01 yep, and don't think she doesn't look forward to it. A total waste of time. And he told her from the jump that he had somebody, and she said-we can be just friends. I was like friends?! Her fam tries to talk some sense into her: move on, don't do it, waste of time, know your worth....eight years later....and she is still one of many....Because if she is tuesday, then I bet there is a wednesday, thursday, and a friday. He gets busy during work hours by the way

[BronzeGoddess01]

@ladyluck538 8 years of Tuesdays don't even equal 1 year. She needs to get out of her own way.

[yannajata]

I want to write a letter

[tanialovinghair]

I understand that he is a user, but she is one too. Anything he is she is one too. Both of them need to be together.

[ladyluck538]

Imo, she had to know he liked her, you can pick up on that stuff. A man should have been tutoring his behind, period. He knew exactly what he was doing, and I feel like she did too. Ladies, do not put yourself in these crazy situations. You donot want a man who cheats on his wife. Even if he leaves her, he is going to do the same to you. I would have never taken it there. period point blank.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@sweetmuzic215 She mentioned duty station so he sounds like a military man. I was in the military myself and I've seen first hand. Some men have a different woman in every duty station.

[Redrose904]

@BronzeGoddess01 damn shame....... thought tht was idk illegal in the military may be i was miss lead...... :S

[XdrenchedX]

I say abortion and drop the guy and keep it moving

[readymiready]

Excellent advice!!! Women have to be careful of these men who "prey" on women who reveal their vulnerability. He's chaos in the flesh and the woman needs to "quit him". You'd be surprised at how 1 year turns into 2 and so on. If you're not careful, you very well COULD end up with a house full of kids by this jerk. I wonder who else he has pregnant besides this woman and his wife? Hmmmm. Keep your baby and PUSH THE HECK ON!!!

[BronzeGoddess01]

@readymiready I think she may have told him she was celibate. He may have seen her as a challenge. She was VERY vulnerable. I wish she would have prayed. Looking busted doesn't keep a man from wanting you.

[CYRINTHIA212]

WTF.. he trying to be a poligimist

[BronzeGoddess01]

@CYRINTHIA212 That's what I was thinking. This ain't Utah! You don't have wives and tell them you'll buy them a big house to raise YOUR kids in. Who does he think he is? If they let him get away with this, I bet there will be a third girl. They're making it way too easy. He's calling all the shots. Who put him in charge?

[Puppylion715]

You always speak the truth! I love you girl!! I was so THROUGH when you said he told her that he wanted to have a baby for him every year!! SMH She AND his wife need to truly love & respect themselves because there's no WAY that they love themselves yet think that this situation is cool! They love & respect him way more than they love themselves Don't settle in order to say you have someone. It makes me sad when ladies cling on to these boys. Know your worth girl! You're worth so much more!

[sdaryab]

She must be crazy...and he knows he has a idiot.

[deionc]

these people just sound messed up and confused...

[blackdiamond61105]

And just a word of wisdom for the ladies. NEVER FALL IN LOVE. GROW IN LOVE. the difference... one will pull you down, the other will pull you up. think about it.

[Tamarje81]

@blackdiamond61105  WELL SAID... AND THATS EXACTLY HOW IT IS WITH MY HUSBAND...

[glamorousdollface]

@blackdiamond61105 I had to literally clap out loud for this comment! Preach!

[PalaisCristalLLC]

Please keep the baby.

[blackdiamond61105]

For the sake of the kids and kids only, i can understand the mother reaching to the girl. Even if they both drop him, and i really want them to, the kids are still going to be related and need to know either. This situation is to common i talk to alot of women like this. and it goes deeper then whats stated in the letter. she said she was celibate but never said why. I hope she drops him.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@blackdiamond61105 She said she was celibate after having her son. I assume it's because the relationship with her son's father ended badly. For some reason she's choosing the wrong men.

[PalaisCristalLLC]

He is psycho and should not be in the military. Shame on him more than her.

[nocturne1980]

22 is pretty young still...she has a lot of time ahead of her to prepare for the man God has for her. I wouldn't waste any more of my youth on a man who isn't even mine. She is young and has her life ahead of her..kids or not. She can use youth and brains as a real advantage to catch a man who is worthy. But she can't keep having kids by men who are lames....narrows her options when it comes to getting a good man.

[87Jjj]

plz, yes! I need to hear 'how not to fall in love'

[briofthed]

Please make the how not to fall in love video.

[Hope1981ful]

Wow! that is sad i can't judge but woman need to leave married men alone i think she should keep the baby as well! I love your videos girl and your hair!

[ikkinnikk]

The Goddess is right.

[Hope1981ful]

@ikkinnikk Yea she is!

[SicaDeero]

Ok some are saying that these stories are no brainers or they are getting redundant but just be thankful that these messages aren't for u. Sadly there are women going through these things every single day and BG can make 100 million videos like these and there will still be women in these situations. The advice for these letters aren't just for the people writing it. Some1 who is going through this can "mistakenly" see this video and this could be of major help. Thank BG for these vids!

[39PYT]

This is a brunch of nonsense; I applaud you for even addressing it! Grow up and take responsibility for you wrong choices love yourself enough when you are being mistreated. Ladies we have got to open our eyes and stop accepting the BS, people only treat you the way you allow them too.

[budgetqueen79]

He think she boo boo the fool! He thought that he was slick. She better keep that baby, the baby is an innocent party. He must like women he can control she in some deep doo doo.

[freesoup09]

if he is married he is not ur man nor will he ever be in most cases. BG I know you are a Christian and so am I. and I appreciate what you do for those who really need help, but some of these SL's are no brainers. I am not convinced that this many women are that naive to this FOOLISHNESS. I know people make mistakes and all but come on ladies hold yourself and ur worth a little higher, It does not take BG to tell you that or anyone else for that matter. Stay Blessed People!

[GorgeousGemini23]

I'd like to know wth is up with the wife trying to be friends? Lady…your man cheated on you and got her pregnant..you're trying to be BFFs with her? Like really?

[BronzeGoddess01]

@GorgeousGemini23 In the letter she says the wife doesn't have any friends and doesn't live near her family. He preys on weaker woman that he can control. He takes them away from family and friend, gets the pregnant, tells them who not to talk to. He's the one who's "bad business".

[GorgeousGemini23]

@Bronzegoddess01 smh…She probably should get checked out while she's at it..if he's done this with her then there is no telling who else he has knocked up since he's trying to have a baby momma at every duty station..

[meadowarch]

Both these women need a reality check a user will always be user and he will treat them how they ALLOW him to treat them. He sounds like a control freak.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@meadowarch He sounds like he's always wanted two women and he finally found two willing participants. He knew a baby with her would make her more open to sharing him. It's not as easy to walk away from a man once you have his baby. In the letter she said he wanted her to get pregnant. He knew that would keep her around. So far, he's right.

[freesoup09]

OK, before I write this I want to stress that this is no disrespect to BG or the writer but I feel like a lot of the Strawberry Letters are becoming redundant. Of course not each situation is exactly the same but its always something similar to "my man don't love me" or "he is cheating" or "he left me preg and alone". Don't get me wrong the BG gives excellent advice everytime but it could not possibly be that many females who have to question a ridiculously unstable relationship...

[BronzeGoddess01]

@freesoup09 It's sad that a lot of these women think this type of relationship is normal. I understand it may be common sense for some women but for others they don't have a clue as to how to get their power back. I'm not at all offended. I appreciate your comment.

[ladyluck538]

@freesoup09 believe it or not, it's a lot of females out here, that don't have the sense God gave them. Or just don't want to use them........IMO, you know what you should do, you just don't want to.

[freesoup09]

@ladyluck538 EXACTLY...they know exactly what they need to do they just want confirmation from someone else on what they already know. Come on people....it ain't rocket science. IJS!!!

[RebelMakeUp]

@freesoup09 Unfortunately their are MANY women out there who do not know how to deal with relationship's and love, the BG is showing women how to be strong and know their worth! More women need to hear advice like this which is why EVERY strawberry letter is worth it. :) xox

[freesoup09]

@RebelMakeUp ur right, clearly common sense is not so common. nothing is wrong with helping those who need help and are truly hurt by bad situations that may have been out of their control. I commend BG for doing these but that still does not keep me from thinking that some people say, "ooh, that stove is hot, ima touch it n c what happens, OUCH it really burned" and then ask "BG, the stove was hot, i touched it and I got burned, what should I do?"

[rosesdiary]

@freesoup09

lol you'd be surprise. there are a lot of dysfunctional people in the world

[ricquel21]

UH??? SERIOUSLY??? OOOH NO NO NO BOO!!! ...i need you with a talk show!!! 7pm everyday!!! lol

[BronzeGoddess01]

@ricquel21 From your lips to God's ears. I wanted my own show my whole life.

[honeyhued08]

She went from trying to be godly and being celibate to being an adulterer and satanic

[BronzeGoddess01]

@honeyhued08 She was on the right path but she made a mistake. It's not too late for her to fix things though. He gamed her because she was weak. I hate to say it but after two years of celibacy it may have been easy for him to sweet talk her. He's a user.

[honeyhued08]

@BronzeGoddess01 I agree.

[Brittania718]

Oh wow! This whole situation is messy!

[TheMollyright]

a mess

[miszreese]

Girllllllllllll....... what the heck??

[BronzeGoddess01]

@miszreese I know right. She got herself in a heck of a mess.

[dauniquegurl16]

Hey, What does New project 93 mean? I've seen it on some of your other vids with other numbers.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@dauniquegurl16 That's a default thing for people loading videos from a macbook. Until you customize the title it will number it for you.