I mean really I think he will go to college and meet a girl and get married I mean why not. My son was diagnosed and I believe he will have a completely full life.
If I had an AUTISTIC baby and realized just after it was born, I"D THROW IT IN THE TRASH. And that decision is made from what I've seen on your here video.
Hope hope hope....sometimes autistic people are more normal then you might think they might sometime be more mature than a man that has gone trough all of his years of life... don't think of it as a disease think of your son just like he is just a bit different then the others but it doesn't mean he is ill it means he might have different reactions to things as the previous post of my friend DON'T LOSE HOPE.
My soon to be 6 yr old is having crying fits in kindergarten to where they have to remove him from class & get the guidance counselor, this has been going on for a month & a half now & they called us for a meeting w/ the guidance counselor next week, I feel they're going in the direction of trying to label him w/ something & I honestly don't feel anything is wrong with him in terms of a disorder, it scares me they may bully us into believing he has something just because he cries a lot.
Autism is only a definition of someone who thinks differently and which people cannot handle it. Therefore they are tagged with the label "Autistic".
I think differently than a lot of people. I hate playing sports, I can't look people in the eye, and sometimes I'll throw a fit because I'm stressed. As far as I know, most of those are symptoms of a type of Autism called Asperger's. I have not been diagnosed with any form of Autism.
My daughter is on the spectrum. Last year she tried to sell books on Amazon but was late shipping the books. They permanately deleted her account. However, they have deleted MY account, her mother just after a week that I created it this August.They told me "do not bother writing back". They punish an entire household. Do NOT use Amazon. They also refuse to reimburse me for the shipping I paid for. I told them about ASD and they didn't care. I have followed all Amazon rules.
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to
someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
I think one of the problems is the wide spectrum of autism. While it is accpeted that 1 in about 100 children have ASD, it is also been accepted that Autism is overdiagnosed at about a 70% rate. This was at a convention in Harrisburg that addressed occupational and speech pathologists about the Verbal Behavior Project in the PA school system. Lots of "facts" and no real answers.
Autism is normal, I never in my whole life ever saw or seen a perfect person. Every time I read people's comment they misspell words, make silly grammars and make delusional statements. If you have autism you can get a date/relationship, live by yourself and drive a car depends on your disability. Autism people can think like a normal person and fool anyone. Autism is not bad, it's just human. We all have autism, when was the last time you forget something or made a mistake?
Give the kid a chance. I have a daughter that is able to do some of the things you speak of now at 10. don't put him in a box. He is verbal, intelligent and capable.
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Autism is just ANOTHER LABEL invented with a purpose to DEGRADE and ISOLATE an perfectly NORMAL child from environment and other human subjects. Children with autism are perfectly normal, they just perceive the world in its own way.
There are lots of fictional "mental illness" in psychology, which serve only as a label for a conviction instead for tolerance and integration.
This is true. humans are the masters of denial, and when something arises that they can not explain rationally, they don't popularize 'that'.. they create false stereotypes to serve themselves. . our society has no real tradition for spirituality and healing, and just facing reality. We have traditions for greed, and corruption.. and it is absolutely relevant to the so called 'autism' epidemic.. we don't recognize the change that is happening. It's called Evolution, but not how you learned it
Thank you for posting this video it opens the eyes of many. I enjoy working with people with autism and love learning as much as I can about the disorder its self. each person is still an individual with a lot to offer. I plan to adopt a child with autism I just want to do as much as I can
@RimjobTheGreat You are a tosser & a wankstain, in fact the best part of you ran down your slut mothers ass onto a brown stain on her sheets...I hope you kill yourself you troll...You are an oxygen thief & deserve to eat shit & die...what was that??? pffft your response to this means fuck all too me so dont bother tosser...end game.
I think you are taking this waaaaaaay too dramatically. not all people with autism end up with no friends etc. Having autism does not 'doom' your child. And most of them can have great and happy lives. You should never give up hope and I wish you good luck.
It's unfortunate that you have such a long list of things that you, "believe that many of those things Hunter will not have" "meaningful things". I have heard the words "he can't" so many times in this video...you have set him up for a failed life. And yes, I do understand as I have an 8yo autistic son and he will achieve all of those "meaningful things".
We have been treating a autistic child with our unique technique which aligns his brain. He can now stay still, go to toilet, not running round, not breaking things, concentrate on drawing, enjoy going for a walk with his father. The family got more peace at home. Never think there is no way.
There seems to be fear and uncertainty in the narrative. As an adult with autism, I say, "don't be so certain that he will never have friends, or fall in love." I've been in relationships, and I'm married. It was very, very hard, but I wanted it very much. If your son grows up and desires these things, he can learn how to communicate and achieve his goals.
I respectfully disagree with a lot of the negative comments. Both my son and husband are autistic. My husband is a functioning man who loves and supports his family - both emotionally and financially. My son is a vibrant smart little guy who's future is his for the taking. This idea that kids with PDD of HFA are "doomed" to never have, should they choose to, the things that most of us value and enjoy is just not true. And I know some many families like mine....
Hush little baby don't you cry, doc's gona shoot U with formaldehyde... If that formaldehyde don't make U forever sick, doc'll come up with another trick.. Last month Pakistan reported 136 recent cases of polio,107 of them had had polio shots. Simple test.- Let's compare health of vaccinated to Un-vaccinated.. Do Amish have autism?. Why yes- in those adopted from overseas vaccinated upon entry & those taken away by the state & vaccinated.
NO vaccine EVER proven safe or effective. 1853 UK had mandatory small pox law= fines increased to criminal jail in '67 & near 100% compliance by '71. Results? 1872 worse epidemic small pox ever near 45,000 deaths. 1955 health director Peterson of Idaho halted Salk polio vaccine program. Medical industry pushes vaccines because they create sick people. They need sick people to make money. If there were no sick people they'd be out of cushy jobs. Sadist should be charged criminally liars they R.
YOU & JANBA32 need to seriously quit arguing & bashing each other. Both angry ramblings need to stop. It's just gross. All the comments back & forth, all this negative energy could have been put towards positive, constructive things & loving times with your children. I also have an autistic son & he is more mature than you two at this point. geez....
Hey, @Janba32 and @DrArsenicum.... Please stop fighting on this comment thread.... If you absolutely must carry on that argument, please do so via inboxing... I am 13 and i know very well that it is wrong to argue over each others personal lives!!! So, please, have some decency and stop your discussion
@DrArsenicum LOL you're a joke. As for defending my son, I would do whatever it takes. Hell no would I let you say that to my face. I deal with people no where near as rude as you in stores all the time & I lose it on them. If they said the shit to me that you say, I'd be in jail. But you wouldn't know anything about being a parent at all let alone a protective parent. I'm not wasting anymore time on you, you worthless waste of a life piece of shit scumbag.
@MissPinkPrincess1987 Congratulations, finding 2 minor spelling mistakes in a big block of text written by someone whose last language class was about 6 years ago automatically qualifies your entry to the "biggest clown on youtube" competition. Somehow I think you're gonna win this one.
Also, spare me the details about hunting me down. We both know if you ever heard that from me in real life you'll just cry and run home and baaaaaaw all over the internet about how people are so mean nowadays
@DrArsenicum Also, if you said anything like that about my child, I would hunt you down! I have a 5yr old son with autism & he is the most wonderful, sweet, kind, friendly, amazing, smart, perfect little boy I know! Yes he has his moments, all kids do, but I still love him with all my heart!
@DrArsenicum you make me sick. Like I seriously wanted to throw up after reading your comment. I pray to god you never have children, for their sake! You are seriously INSANE & I highly,very highly,recommend you get some serious psychiatric help!
That kid is like an animal... He doesn't realise his surroundings, he doesn't recognise the people around him. Even worse than animal - at least they act by instinct, so you can predict their behavior and condition their responce accordingly. This... Thing cannot even do that. It is completely unpredictable, chaotic, unhuman. It doesn't deserve to leave. Its just a piece of meat on legs, no purpose, no aim, no sanity.
@DrArsenicum What a mean thing to say about a child with a disability! I don't know what you are a doctor in, but I'm shocked and saddened that you would make such a comment about someone's son.
@DrArsenicum Your response reveals your deep inhumanity . I hope you never have children because unless they are perfect you just might kill them. My adult son is not autistic but lives with mental illness. He has more humanity in his little finger than you do in all your body.
@Janba32 No matter how much you call shit chocolate, it'll never taste or small any better. You throw bold words about how much humanity your kid has, but deep down inside a rational part of you knows he's just a burden on society... Its just you can't see it past the hormone-induced illusions.
@DrArsenicum - I suspect that had you lived in Nazi Germany you would have stood first in line to throw those who the Nazi regime deemed "mentally defective" into the gas chambers. My son is not a burden on society and, if he was, do you think I should have killed him when he became schizophrenic at age 20? If, God forbid, you are a parent with a mentally ill child would you shoot them? Most likely you would. I pity any kids that you might have. Hopefully you are sterile.
@Janba32 Lolwhut? You claim you have a child yet you speak like a 13-year old. Nazi germany, pity to my kids, hoping I'm sterile. Thats how schoolkids always argue. Either stop pretending who you aren't, or go make your hubby a sammich in the kitchen, grandma. Oh, wait, I forgot, your husband must have surely left you, unable to take any more of your bitching or the fact that you gave him a pathetic excuse for a human being instead of a normal son.
@DrArsenicum You are a pathetic excuse for a human being. I would not trade my son for anything especially if the trade was for someone with a defective heart & mind like yours.
Since you don't like people with mental problems what do you want to do with the hundreds of Iraq & Afghan vets who have filled up the psych wards at VA hospitals. Do you spit on them too?
I spoke of Nazi Germany because they killed those who they deemed mentally defective. Their attitude was no different from yours.
@Janba32 Gramps, you really shouldn't speak about subjects you don't know - particularly Nazi Germany. As for Iraq and Afghan vets - serves them damn right. I'm shocked and appaled they fill in the psych wards - I'd much rather see them chucked on the streets where they belong.
@DrArsenicum I happen to know quite a bit about Nazi Germany & I know that those that you would deem mentally defective were often put to death. I'm sure that wouldn't bother you a bit.
One thing I know about you is that you do not have one shred of compassion in your body if what you are saying is not just a put on. If you believe what you are saying I feel very sorry for you. You never know. One day you might end up on the street.
@Janba32 So, why did you beat your son that he turned psycho in his later years? Did you secretely hate him? Did you see in him the image of the husband that ran away from you when he saw your body turn into a bloated balloon?
@DrArsenicum You make me laugh. You are so far from the truth you have fallen off the world. Goodbye you sick sucker. You are so disgusting that you don't deserve any more replies other than to say that if you saw me on Facebook you wouldn't make any of those comments because you are so far off base it is laughable. I would never, ever friend a stupid, disgusting jerk like you who probably can't make any friends either on Facebook or off. No one would ever want to get near you. Adios.
@Janba32 Ah, yes, look at the social network whore - facebook, facebook, facebook, all your life is on facebook, maybe if you've gotten out into the real world once in a while you'd notice sooner that your own son is banging his head against the concrete wall. Instead, you chose to spend time online and ignore the real problems.
@DrArsenicum - Where did you learn to be mean & uncaring about other people? Did your rmom throw you out on the streets when you were young? Were you ridiculed as a child? Were you told that you were worthless? I feel sorry for you. You are a lost soul & need professional help.
As for my son, he has been getting excellent help over the years and works to help others in the same situation. You are nothing next to him. Today is Mother's Day. I will be with my 2 sons. Where will you be?
@Janba32 Well, Mother's Day in UK was about a month ago, and I was with my both parents on vacation then, if you need to know. Today is actually Victory Day in Europe, pretty ironic how you mentioned Nazi Germany before. I only feel sad my grandpas fought in the war so the governments can waste their resources on people like your kid instead of building a better brighter future.
@DrArsenicum - You properly use the word "arsenic" in your name. You are a poisonous creep.
My uncles fought in WW 2. My dad worked for the US government. All three of them, were they still alive, would denounce you.
And what is the better future you want? March everyone who you think doesn't measure up to the gas chamber? Then the government wouldn't have to spend any money on them. Is that what you want?
@Janba32 You never answered my questions. Did you beat your son? Is that why he turned a moron? Are you going to leave him any inheritance when you kick the bucket? You know your healthy son should get everything, and I bet your uncles' ass he's gonna throw his moron of a bro on the street. You know its true, even if you're living under the illusion he's going to give him the same care you do now. no such thing as brotherly love.
@DrArsenicum - I don't believe in either beating or spanking.
I guess you know nothing about brotherly love or any kind of love at all. I feel really sorry for you all alone in your life. I would guess you have neither a girl friend or a boy friend. I don't believe you have kids and that is a really good thing. You would be a most terrible father especially if your child didn't turn out just as you wanted him or her to be. You'd throw the poor child into the street or kill him or her. Right?
@Janba32 Just look at what you write - its all "guess" and "assume" and "believe". You don't know anything, so don't think too hard by trying to assume anything - it didn't work out for the wellbeing of your son, it's definitely not going to work out with other people. And stop saying you feel pity for me - thats a retards' argument, when there is nothing to say people like you just say "well, I feel sorry for you" - no fucking sense, but makes it seem like you saved face, amirite? You fail.
@DrArsenicum - Seems to me that it is you that has been making big assumptions as to what I did or did not do with my son, about my body shape, about my husband etc. Maybe you are unaware that schizophrenia is a genetic. This son, unlike my other children, was adopted. I don't know the background of his bio parents. Were you beaten as a child? You seem to harp on child beating so I can only wonder if you were abused and beaten as a child. If so, that might explain your cruel & uncaring nature.
@Janba32 LoL, you took some junky life reject into your house? That is just sad, grandma. That explains his condition, obviously. Maybe he went full retard after he learned that his loving ma and pa are actually completely unrelated people? I'm now fully convinced you're not going to leave him any inheritence and his step-brother would chuck him out on the street just like his junkie teen mom did. Well, all is back to square 1 for him, I suppose its not that bad then.
@DrArsenicum You are so sick it is unbelievable. You didn't tell me if you were beaten as a child. Maybe that would explain your total lack of compassion. I will not waste my time with you any more. Go and crawl back under your rock.
@Janba32 So you admit you have nothing to put against my arguments? Well, just as I thought. And if you want to retreat, at least do it with dignity - ending the conversation with an arbitary insult is just pathetic.
@DrArsenicum - There is no reason to argue with you because none of what you write is valid. Every assertion you make is off base & untrue. My son's mother was not a junkie but an office manager who got pregnant & decided not to have an abortion. He will get as much inheritance as will my other 2 children. He is as much my child as are they. He has been in our home since he was 17 days old. I am his mother. He is my son. My biological kids don't think of him as a "step brother."
@Janba32 Well, I wouldn't make assumptions on behalf of your kids. You ever seen Godfather, Part II? What you think is the good relationship between your kids is likely not entirely true. Especially true between same sex siblings.
@DrArsenicum You didn't answer my question. Were you beaten as a child? Also, do you have an autistic or mentally ill sibling who you think got too much attention from your parents? It seems that something must have happened in your life to make you so hateful when it comes to either autistic or mentally ill people.
I wonder why you watched the autistic video unless autism has been part of your life. I watched it because a friend who works with autistic children sent it to me.
@Janba32 My, aren't you a persistent old hag? No, my parents never beat me or even punished me as a kid - I was always a "goodie-goddie" child, a shining example to others. And none of my relatives are disabled in any way. So there goes your grand theory. I just don't support autism as a "soft" mental deficiency - either classify it as a full disability and send retards into nuthouses or deem them stable and let them run free, either way don't expect compassion - its undeserved.
@DrArsenicum You are a persistent dingbat. No sense in continuing this. You don't know me. You don't know my children. You don't know anything so stop with your assumptions. They are worth nothing more than a bucket of garbage.
Maybe you might have been a "shining example" to others but you lost your humanity along the way. Your light has gone out. BTW, I have often heard neighbors & family describe a criminal as having been a wonderful child, a goodie-goodie but something happened to him.
@DrArsenicum I didn't say you were worth nothing more than a bucket of garbage. I said your assumptions were. But now you show your true face and it is pretty ugly.
BTW. I am retired having worked many years to enjoy retirement. How come you aren't working? Are you on the dole? Or, if you are at work, are you taking time at work to post these insults?
@Janba32 I'm a student - I got one exam left and I'm pretty ready for it, so I can take it easy and spend some time online. Besides, I do my revision using my laptop anyway, so takes me a second to alt-tab to feed your lack of mannerisms and then switch back to study.
Anyway, I still don't get why you'll compare your children to garbage, but hey, I don't judge. Lots of moms get all "post-natal syndrome" on their offspring, its ok for you, too, you're only human.
@DrArsenicum - You fail this exam big time. I did not compare my children to garbage. You did. You get a big fat F. I said that it was your assumptions that were not worth a bucket of garbage.
Although I didn't write it I figured you were still a kid with a lot of growing up to do.
PS. If I were your English teacher I would mark you down for writing "I GOT one exam left." You should have written "I HAVE one exam left."
@Janba32 Good thing you're not a teacher then. People like you shouldn't be allowed near children - you already drove your one son over the edge, there is no telling what you might do to a classroom of kids, LoL! Just because you're old and way past your healthy years doesn't make you any wiser than anyone. In fact, I can say in my defense I didn't raise any children to be retards, so I lead by that fact alone.
@DrArsenicum - Earlier I said I hoped that you had no children. I believe that even more now. If, heaven forbid, you had a child that wasn't perfect you would either put it in a cruel institution or throw it on the street to fend for itself. I hope to God that you are sterile.
My son's mental illness is genetic. My other two children are wildly successful in their lives. If you are lucky you would be thrilled to have it even a quarter as good as they do. I suspect you will fail in life.
@Janba32 Lolwhut? Wildly successfull? That doesn't make even sense. What, their success is wild, i.e. they do ok half the time and half the time they give head for crack? You're starting to wear out, grandma. You first responces were more sharpish and to the point, now you're just waving your fists into the air and hurl arbitary insults. Everything I said to you was based on what you said, I never said smth. like "I hope you get hit by a bus", which is in essense what you're saying to me now.
@DrArsenicum - There you go again knocking my children. They ARE successful. My daughter & husband own 3 large homes. Their income is in the top 2%. Their 22 year old son graduated last June from university, got a high paying job & just bought his own home.
My younger son has a great job with an important company & owns his condo.
None do drugs but maybe you do.
Junior, you are wearing out. You need to grow up (I hope you will) and stop throwing out the kind of garbage that you do so well.
@Janba32 Super, just what I expected - trypical American thinking. Hey, I'm successfull, look at my wallet, LOOK! I own this and this and that and I spend tons of cash on this shit and I have so much zeroes in my bank account, omgomgomg! You people are so shallow and uncivilized you only measure life with money, you are really just cavemen with flashy cars. My income allows me a comfortable existence, but I'd never go around waving my bank statements in the air like you do - thats simply rude
@DrArsenicum - I mentioned their success only because you called them garbage. My children use their money to help out others. . My daughter worked for years with mentally ill & retarded kids and has a far more compassionate outlook on life than you do. Her husband works to improve education. Looking at them you wouldn't know they had any more money than you do.
They value service & compassion which I suspect you do not.
My mentally ill son successfully takes care of himself.
@Janba32 That still doesn't redeem you of moronic thinking of measuring success as income. Just the very notion of you ever bringing up money in a conversation with a stranger, much less using it as argument to try and make a POINT shows how shallow and pathetic you people are. Maybe you feel inferior because of that and have to compensate the lack of culture and manners by charity work, so you'll pass on as a human to bystanders. You're not fooling anyone, grandma, I can see into your very soul
@DrArsenicum - I saw into your soul way back from your very first comment on the autistic video. What I saw was cruel and ugly.
It wouldn't have made any difference to you whether or not I wrote about my children's financial success. If I had written only of what they had done for other people you likely would have wisecracked that they were lighting the crack pipes of street people.
And what to you do to make this a better world? Nothing I would guess.
@DrArsenicum I guess you are a Brit maybe studying here in America. I wouldn't talk about "you people" when Britain is a country where class matters, where the graduates of private schools have a greater chance of getting a good job than does someone who goes to what we here call a public school.
As for culture and manners I'll stack my children up against anyone.
If you are indeed British I certainly won't judge all Brits by you. Many of our good friends are British ex-pats.
@Janba32 I am British, but why on Earth would you assume I'm studying in America? Is there even a tiniest hint of that in any of my answers? Not only am I not studying there, I've never been there and I don't ever intend to be, God forbid! As for "class matters" - thats ridiculous, if you get your facts about the country from cheap travelbooks and hearsay and believe it, at least don't make an ass out of yourself by letting people know you believe that crap. Seriously, better to just not talk.
I was just in my garden thinking about you. You are young and likely think you know everything. I don't know why you feel as you do about people who are different. I hope that if some day you have a child you and your child will not face the pain of mental illness. I hope that you will not feel the pain that comes when a loved child, once happy and talented, becomes schizophrenic at the age of 20. It is a life changing event both for the child & the family.
@Janba32 Look, I'm sorry, but I just read to the words "I hope that if some day..." and I stopped reading your comment, seriously, every other comment you write something you hope I am or my children would be, or something would happen to me, this is getting really, REALLY repetitive. If you want me to listen to your words, at least stop wishing god-knows-what, I haven't even read what you hope for this time, just change the channel, mkay? I can't bring myself to read this stupidities.
@DrArsenicum I wrote that I hope you never know the pain of having a mentally ill child. I hope that any child you have will be healthy both for his sake and your sake. It is very panful having a child who is mentally ill and almost as painful when someone makes fun of his illness.
Sorry I thought that you were in the US. I've been to Britain & found the people that I met to be lovely. I thought that you were in the U.S. because of the time differential. I just checked & it is 1:33 AM there.
Have you ever seen "The Horse Boy?" I encourage everyone who has, or knows someone with Autism to watch it. Its very interesting! I only know few people who have the diagnosis,. What I have learned is that if affects everyone who has it so dramatically! Prayers go out for a cure and hope!
ah you poor things. I have autism, I've been married, I have had best friends all my life, I've had boyfriends, etc. I have children. Autism does not necessarily mean the denial of all that... please--there is HOPE. **mentalhugs**
The quote about divorce rates for those who have autistic children that you used in the beginning have been debunked. i talked to the person who did the study into it and found it a false claim.
However, it does have a profound effect if the marriage does not have a solid ground.
I fee for you... thank you for uploading a great video...I would like to however encourage you two as a couple to use autism to come closer to each other. It is not easy for human nature to take it easy with any unexpected misdrirection in life. Please reconsider your lives together. I also found out just how wonderful a life my recently diagnosed son has given to me. tae heart
Your little boy could achieve whatever he puts his mind towards. Autistic people are often really focused on something that they enjoy. There are loads of different things that would help in live a life as normally as possible. Like music therapy; it teaches kids to understand themselves and other people and to communicate those understandings effectivly. Good luck to you and hunter, great things COULD be achieved.
@6958921 Go fuck yourself you asshole. I have no doubt his child will grow up to be great. So you say both Einstein and Newton came from "defective sperm"? You are vermin to the human species and all
I can hope is for little fuckers like you to not reproduce.
For who made this video: Don't give up hope on things like your child falling in love or academic achievements. Autistic minds are not disfunctional minds, they are just different. Good luck to you and your family.
@The2monkeynuts u made it sound aweful& i took it as hate towards the parents & child. i experience this, most days, with my child's behavior,...& saying something about someone dying in a fire reagrding anything or anyone is horrible& unacceptable. & ps, u made that comment first & i was infuriated for all. i think the child is awesome& so are his parents.
Having girlfriends, feeling love, and having friends might be hard. But he can, really, he can. And it can matter to him. There are people out there who want to be his friend. Who will want to love him as much as you do. They're a really special sort of person but they exist. Trust me.
@rimaaelita His child is obviously Autistic - and probably PROFESSIONALLY diagnosed!! Unlike your knowledge you uneducated git!!! My son is Autistic - PROFESSIONALLY diagnosed - and the very last thing we, as parents, need is some ignorant piece of trash like you. You pathetic moron!! To the parents - it's hard - I wish you the best.
Never judge a parent with an autistic child,never judge an autistic child.........
Tantrums....the autistic child is discovering that he does not understand te world,nor does the world understand him,look into the eyes of an autistic child while having a tantrum and you will see despair....why...why am I autistic...why am I different...why do people not understand my world...??
great kid and loving family! it takes a lot of heart and it is very special raising an autistic child. nice to hear from your personal experiences. thank you. your son is very special and you are very loving and caring parents. thank you for sharing.
HAHAHA!!! FUCKING RETARD!!! I BET HE IS A FUCKING YANKEE BITCH AND LOVES NIGGERS!!! OH WAIT!!! HE IS FUCKING RETARDED!!! HE LOVES SO MUCH SLAVE NIGGER DICK HE WILL DIE FROM AIDS SOON!!! HAHAHAHA!!!! I WILL FUCKING COME TO NEW YORK AND STAB SOME YANKEE BITCH EYES OUT!!! DEO VINDICE!!! DONT FUCK WITH THE SOUTH RETARD!!! WE WILL RISE AGAIN!!!!
Wow, what a cute kid! And his eyes... and especially eyelashes... are beautiful! I'm 13 right now and I've decided that when I grow up I want to adopt kids like these in need. Maybe it won't work out but hey it won't hurt to try!
You are a fucking twat! The child is absolutely normal he is expressing his nager and emotions in a way he does because he is in a raw state and needs parent to regulate his emotions! And what fucking twat like you does? He goes and calls the kid Autistic instead of thinking of your own Impact on him! Stop labelling the kid and get your brain sorted!
How ignorant can you possibly be. You don't live with an autistic child...you have no idea what it is like. And just for your info Autism IS NOT DUE TO BAD PARENTING. It is an autoimmune disorder. However your mannerisms suggest that you have been the victum of bad parenting...I feel sorry for your parents.
i am on the autism spectrum. Im a nurse now but I still have problems with relating to people. The best thing that happened to me were horses. I relate to horses and talk to a few people. I dont have friends the way other people do but I accept it as I am different then they are and dont like the parties and crowds that others love
Sadly this is all too familiar of a story that I hear when talking to adults about their children on the spectrum. It definitely adds a lot of stress to marriages and another huge issue is the added financial burden that insurance doesn't pick up at all. How sad that people have made negative comments on this video posting. Wonder what all of them would feel if they lived a day with autism? This isn't something we live with for one day, it's our entire life.
My autistic child brings my huband and i closer together than ever, it is all in your perspective on life. Accept these children, they did not demand to be born. It was your choice to have him, so deal w it like an adult and quit w the sob story!
apash Its too easy for you to say "You are a fucking loser and terrible parent." Its very hard to raise a child is not what you expected it, so be quiet and respect.
he has alot of heavy metals in his body has he had vaccines? have you got murcury fillings in your mouth ? this will both result in heavy metals in the brain wich makes emotianall inballance, (autisim) you can use oil's from young living in america its called juva cleanse it gets rid of all that stuff i'm not trying to offend you you are doing a wonderfull job God bless xoxo
he has alot of heavy metals in his body has he had vaccines? have you got murcury fillings in your mouth ? this will both result in heavy metals in the brain wich makes emotianall inballance, (autisim)
I got injected by the MMR vaccine I have mild autism my parents don't have it but I wish the doctors get sued for it because I hate it I wish I was non-autistic so I can play video games and get away from my parents
@KatyPerryandKeshaFan Dude. I'm autistic, and I take it as a gift... although, I'm in the high end of HFA (Highly Functioning Asperger. [Not Autism, though part of the scale.]). How am I autistic? I always get pissed off at other people in all of my school subjects because I get "it" in 10-15 minutes when it takes everyone else 3-5 days. ...Let me make that clear *DAYS*. My gift is that I understand things much faster. My curse is that I'm eternally pissed off at everyone. And have bad spelling.
@frostyreynolds lol I was like that in school...It was so so annoying to hear it over and over and over... :) I would get into trouble for constantly doodling...I was so bored...I understand
@KatyPerryandKeshaFan Vaccines don't cause Autism. The theory that they do have been completely debunked. Autism isn't directly hereditary. Your parents not having it doesn't mean that the vaccine caused it
@HonorableMinisterRay How dare you call this precious child a burden? and you call yourself a christian? shame on you. shame on you. A child is never a burden, read your bible: a child is a gift of God. You are an idiot Mr. posting rudness like this.
This is so sad. I hope hunter gets better and has a great life.
TomShootsPhoto 2 weeks ago
I mean really I think he will go to college and meet a girl and get married I mean why not. My son was diagnosed and I believe he will have a completely full life.
skyla710 3 weeks ago
If I had an AUTISTIC baby and realized just after it was born, I"D THROW IT IN THE TRASH. And that decision is made from what I've seen on your here video.
THANKS FOR THE HEADS UP!!!
6edraven6 1 month ago
@6edraven6 i have autism and people make fun of it, i hate it it's not fair, sure im not on that level of the spectrum but
Slayersen 1 month ago
@6edraven6 you have no value towards human life.
Boomies559 2 weeks ago
Hope hope hope....sometimes autistic people are more normal then you might think they might sometime be more mature than a man that has gone trough all of his years of life... don't think of it as a disease think of your son just like he is just a bit different then the others but it doesn't mean he is ill it means he might have different reactions to things as the previous post of my friend DON'T LOSE HOPE.
Life21HD 3 months ago
My son is like Hunter. My heart breaks, I hear pain in your voices....
It just isn't fair, but don't lose hope.
MW2penguin3000 3 months ago
My soon to be 6 yr old is having crying fits in kindergarten to where they have to remove him from class & get the guidance counselor, this has been going on for a month & a half now & they called us for a meeting w/ the guidance counselor next week, I feel they're going in the direction of trying to label him w/ something & I honestly don't feel anything is wrong with him in terms of a disorder, it scares me they may bully us into believing he has something just because he cries a lot.
Anglynn74 3 months ago
He is such a beautiful little boy, his meltdown when getting out of the car absolutely broke my heart <3
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barry0033 3 months ago
when he got out the car having a meltdown made me so sad ...
also a father of a beautiful little asd kid
MrHybrid2012 3 months ago
Autism is only a definition of someone who thinks differently and which people cannot handle it. Therefore they are tagged with the label "Autistic".
I think differently than a lot of people. I hate playing sports, I can't look people in the eye, and sometimes I'll throw a fit because I'm stressed. As far as I know, most of those are symptoms of a type of Autism called Asperger's. I have not been diagnosed with any form of Autism.
astrophysics1997 4 months ago
@6edraven6 Then why don't you kill yourself, because you're obviously a Nazi, which in our world as we know it is ABNORMAL.
astrophysics1997 4 months ago
That's right, display your defective sperm.
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My daughter is on the spectrum. Last year she tried to sell books on Amazon but was late shipping the books. They permanately deleted her account. However, they have deleted MY account, her mother just after a week that I created it this August.They told me "do not bother writing back". They punish an entire household. Do NOT use Amazon. They also refuse to reimburse me for the shipping I paid for. I told them about ASD and they didn't care. I have followed all Amazon rules.
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@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to
someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
Neefa80 4 months ago
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@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
Neefa80 4 months ago
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
Neefa80 4 months ago
@6edraven6 ??? Who are you? And what makes you such an insecure, hateful person with no love or respect for human life or values? with a comment like that, it seems to me that you may be on the abnormal scale.. i suggest you go speak to someone regarding your issues... Might be wise. Take care...
Neefa80 4 months ago
Darn that Waren Zevon's version ofd stairway to heaven
transfan2788 5 months ago
@transfan2788 Don't you mean Knocking on Heaven's door?
DesireBros 4 months ago 3
I think one of the problems is the wide spectrum of autism. While it is accpeted that 1 in about 100 children have ASD, it is also been accepted that Autism is overdiagnosed at about a 70% rate. This was at a convention in Harrisburg that addressed occupational and speech pathologists about the Verbal Behavior Project in the PA school system. Lots of "facts" and no real answers.
cxc410 5 months ago
Autism is normal, I never in my whole life ever saw or seen a perfect person. Every time I read people's comment they misspell words, make silly grammars and make delusional statements. If you have autism you can get a date/relationship, live by yourself and drive a car depends on your disability. Autism people can think like a normal person and fool anyone. Autism is not bad, it's just human. We all have autism, when was the last time you forget something or made a mistake?
Kevinjamesprojects 5 months ago
@Kevinjamesprojects that isn't autism. not anything like what you think it is. autism is not normal.
TheTravelfool 4 months ago
@Kevinjamesprojects i have autism and this is ONE of the nicest comments about it a have ever heard!
Slayersen 1 month ago
Give the kid a chance. I have a daughter that is able to do some of the things you speak of now at 10. don't put him in a box. He is verbal, intelligent and capable.
KSitz77 5 months ago
this makes me feel sick hearing this negatice crap
1234548840 5 months ago
@RimjobTheGreat your an asshole
oceanmba 6 months ago
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huwahahiya 6 months ago
Autism is just ANOTHER LABEL invented with a purpose to DEGRADE and ISOLATE an perfectly NORMAL child from environment and other human subjects. Children with autism are perfectly normal, they just perceive the world in its own way.
There are lots of fictional "mental illness" in psychology, which serve only as a label for a conviction instead for tolerance and integration.
siroma80 6 months ago
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lightworker2011 6 months ago
This is true. humans are the masters of denial, and when something arises that they can not explain rationally, they don't popularize 'that'.. they create false stereotypes to serve themselves. . our society has no real tradition for spirituality and healing, and just facing reality. We have traditions for greed, and corruption.. and it is absolutely relevant to the so called 'autism' epidemic.. we don't recognize the change that is happening. It's called Evolution, but not how you learned it
lightworker2011 6 months ago
@RimjobTheGreat you clearly have no respect for human life. You have a LOT to learn.
x3yourstrulyyxx 6 months ago
Thank you for posting this video it opens the eyes of many. I enjoy working with people with autism and love learning as much as I can about the disorder its self. each person is still an individual with a lot to offer. I plan to adopt a child with autism I just want to do as much as I can
Pootrice 6 months ago
@RimjobTheGreat You are a tosser & a wankstain, in fact the best part of you ran down your slut mothers ass onto a brown stain on her sheets...I hope you kill yourself you troll...You are an oxygen thief & deserve to eat shit & die...what was that??? pffft your response to this means fuck all too me so dont bother tosser...end game.
christos300warrior 6 months ago
@RimjobTheGreat .... F#$^^^^^^^ off....
Neefa80 6 months ago
@RimjobTheGreat I Cant believe you just said that!... hope u rot in hell.. :(
Neefa80 6 months ago
looks normal too me just really hyper but i guess he really is
Darkstar2520 6 months ago
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mcarnteydied 6 months ago
I think you are taking this waaaaaaay too dramatically. not all people with autism end up with no friends etc. Having autism does not 'doom' your child. And most of them can have great and happy lives. You should never give up hope and I wish you good luck.
Cinedragon 6 months ago
It's unfortunate that you have such a long list of things that you, "believe that many of those things Hunter will not have" "meaningful things". I have heard the words "he can't" so many times in this video...you have set him up for a failed life. And yes, I do understand as I have an 8yo autistic son and he will achieve all of those "meaningful things".
heronbluruns 6 months ago
This is why autistic kids should be euthanized! they ruin marriages.
multisnootylives1 6 months ago
We have been treating a autistic child with our unique technique which aligns his brain. He can now stay still, go to toilet, not running round, not breaking things, concentrate on drawing, enjoy going for a walk with his father. The family got more peace at home. Never think there is no way.
huwahahiya 7 months ago
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4msocha 6 months ago
There seems to be fear and uncertainty in the narrative. As an adult with autism, I say, "don't be so certain that he will never have friends, or fall in love." I've been in relationships, and I'm married. It was very, very hard, but I wanted it very much. If your son grows up and desires these things, he can learn how to communicate and achieve his goals.
seejester 7 months ago
I respectfully disagree with a lot of the negative comments. Both my son and husband are autistic. My husband is a functioning man who loves and supports his family - both emotionally and financially. My son is a vibrant smart little guy who's future is his for the taking. This idea that kids with PDD of HFA are "doomed" to never have, should they choose to, the things that most of us value and enjoy is just not true. And I know some many families like mine....
ermasdaughter 7 months ago
I admire your perseverance, in your efforts to understand your son. It is apparent that you have deep love for your son.
Carrill 7 months ago
Hush little baby don't you cry, doc's gona shoot U with formaldehyde... If that formaldehyde don't make U forever sick, doc'll come up with another trick.. Last month Pakistan reported 136 recent cases of polio,107 of them had had polio shots. Simple test.- Let's compare health of vaccinated to Un-vaccinated.. Do Amish have autism?. Why yes- in those adopted from overseas vaccinated upon entry & those taken away by the state & vaccinated.
2ndSamuel710 7 months ago
God bless you.
MrZbelli 7 months ago
This dude's videos look kinda sad. Autism is not the end of the world. Everything is kinda fine.
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2ndSamuel710 7 months ago
YOU & JANBA32 need to seriously quit arguing & bashing each other. Both angry ramblings need to stop. It's just gross. All the comments back & forth, all this negative energy could have been put towards positive, constructive things & loving times with your children. I also have an autistic son & he is more mature than you two at this point. geez....
The2monkeynuts 7 months ago
You should get Hunter an animal, it might help with his autism
shakeitshakeitbaby 8 months ago
Thank you for sharing your experiences!
TheDrfoxx 8 months ago
Hey, @Janba32 and @DrArsenicum.... Please stop fighting on this comment thread.... If you absolutely must carry on that argument, please do so via inboxing... I am 13 and i know very well that it is wrong to argue over each others personal lives!!! So, please, have some decency and stop your discussion
petlovers1234 8 months ago 9
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1337mrblackops 4 months ago
Hunter is such an adorable kid :) I admire your strength in caring for an autistic child.
ShayloCray 8 months ago
your son is beautiful!
missLP777 8 months ago
all retards the world is going to end so u dont have to worry
yungSavage317 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum LOL you're a joke. As for defending my son, I would do whatever it takes. Hell no would I let you say that to my face. I deal with people no where near as rude as you in stores all the time & I lose it on them. If they said the shit to me that you say, I'd be in jail. But you wouldn't know anything about being a parent at all let alone a protective parent. I'm not wasting anymore time on you, you worthless waste of a life piece of shit scumbag.
MissPinkPrincess1987 8 months ago
@MissPinkPrincess1987 Boxing on the internet - so rewarding, eh?
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum oh AND you spelled "response" wrong. Check your spelling before you talk bad about anyone else.
MissPinkPrincess1987 9 months ago
@MissPinkPrincess1987 Congratulations, finding 2 minor spelling mistakes in a big block of text written by someone whose last language class was about 6 years ago automatically qualifies your entry to the "biggest clown on youtube" competition. Somehow I think you're gonna win this one.
Also, spare me the details about hunting me down. We both know if you ever heard that from me in real life you'll just cry and run home and baaaaaaw all over the internet about how people are so mean nowadays
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
Thank you for sharing this with us. My heart goes to your family :)
shallowmic 9 months ago
I'm from New Zealand. Sounds sad though. He's like a miniature grownup waiting for input on how to apply game-theory.
1Jakobjames 9 months ago
@DrArsenicum Also, if you said anything like that about my child, I would hunt you down! I have a 5yr old son with autism & he is the most wonderful, sweet, kind, friendly, amazing, smart, perfect little boy I know! Yes he has his moments, all kids do, but I still love him with all my heart!
Ps-you spelled "live" wrong. Idiot.
MissPinkPrincess1987 9 months ago
@DrArsenicum you make me sick. Like I seriously wanted to throw up after reading your comment. I pray to god you never have children, for their sake! You are seriously INSANE & I highly,very highly,recommend you get some serious psychiatric help!
MissPinkPrincess1987 9 months ago
That kid is like an animal... He doesn't realise his surroundings, he doesn't recognise the people around him. Even worse than animal - at least they act by instinct, so you can predict their behavior and condition their responce accordingly. This... Thing cannot even do that. It is completely unpredictable, chaotic, unhuman. It doesn't deserve to leave. Its just a piece of meat on legs, no purpose, no aim, no sanity.
DrArsenicum 9 months ago
@DrArsenicum What a mean thing to say about a child with a disability! I don't know what you are a doctor in, but I'm shocked and saddened that you would make such a comment about someone's son.
Freesoler01 9 months ago
@Freesoler01 Its sad, but true.
DrArsenicum 9 months ago
@DrArsenicum Your response reveals your deep inhumanity . I hope you never have children because unless they are perfect you just might kill them. My adult son is not autistic but lives with mental illness. He has more humanity in his little finger than you do in all your body.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 No matter how much you call shit chocolate, it'll never taste or small any better. You throw bold words about how much humanity your kid has, but deep down inside a rational part of you knows he's just a burden on society... Its just you can't see it past the hormone-induced illusions.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - I suspect that had you lived in Nazi Germany you would have stood first in line to throw those who the Nazi regime deemed "mentally defective" into the gas chambers. My son is not a burden on society and, if he was, do you think I should have killed him when he became schizophrenic at age 20? If, God forbid, you are a parent with a mentally ill child would you shoot them? Most likely you would. I pity any kids that you might have. Hopefully you are sterile.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Lolwhut? You claim you have a child yet you speak like a 13-year old. Nazi germany, pity to my kids, hoping I'm sterile. Thats how schoolkids always argue. Either stop pretending who you aren't, or go make your hubby a sammich in the kitchen, grandma. Oh, wait, I forgot, your husband must have surely left you, unable to take any more of your bitching or the fact that you gave him a pathetic excuse for a human being instead of a normal son.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum You are a pathetic excuse for a human being. I would not trade my son for anything especially if the trade was for someone with a defective heart & mind like yours.
Since you don't like people with mental problems what do you want to do with the hundreds of Iraq & Afghan vets who have filled up the psych wards at VA hospitals. Do you spit on them too?
I spoke of Nazi Germany because they killed those who they deemed mentally defective. Their attitude was no different from yours.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Gramps, you really shouldn't speak about subjects you don't know - particularly Nazi Germany. As for Iraq and Afghan vets - serves them damn right. I'm shocked and appaled they fill in the psych wards - I'd much rather see them chucked on the streets where they belong.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum I happen to know quite a bit about Nazi Germany & I know that those that you would deem mentally defective were often put to death. I'm sure that wouldn't bother you a bit.
One thing I know about you is that you do not have one shred of compassion in your body if what you are saying is not just a put on. If you believe what you are saying I feel very sorry for you. You never know. One day you might end up on the street.
BTW, I am not a man. Maybe you aren't either.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 So, why did you beat your son that he turned psycho in his later years? Did you secretely hate him? Did you see in him the image of the husband that ran away from you when he saw your body turn into a bloated balloon?
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum You make me laugh. You are so far from the truth you have fallen off the world. Goodbye you sick sucker. You are so disgusting that you don't deserve any more replies other than to say that if you saw me on Facebook you wouldn't make any of those comments because you are so far off base it is laughable. I would never, ever friend a stupid, disgusting jerk like you who probably can't make any friends either on Facebook or off. No one would ever want to get near you. Adios.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Ah, yes, look at the social network whore - facebook, facebook, facebook, all your life is on facebook, maybe if you've gotten out into the real world once in a while you'd notice sooner that your own son is banging his head against the concrete wall. Instead, you chose to spend time online and ignore the real problems.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - Where did you learn to be mean & uncaring about other people? Did your rmom throw you out on the streets when you were young? Were you ridiculed as a child? Were you told that you were worthless? I feel sorry for you. You are a lost soul & need professional help.
As for my son, he has been getting excellent help over the years and works to help others in the same situation. You are nothing next to him. Today is Mother's Day. I will be with my 2 sons. Where will you be?
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Well, Mother's Day in UK was about a month ago, and I was with my both parents on vacation then, if you need to know. Today is actually Victory Day in Europe, pretty ironic how you mentioned Nazi Germany before. I only feel sad my grandpas fought in the war so the governments can waste their resources on people like your kid instead of building a better brighter future.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - You properly use the word "arsenic" in your name. You are a poisonous creep.
My uncles fought in WW 2. My dad worked for the US government. All three of them, were they still alive, would denounce you.
And what is the better future you want? March everyone who you think doesn't measure up to the gas chamber? Then the government wouldn't have to spend any money on them. Is that what you want?
Go away you low life lonely sick sucker.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 You never answered my questions. Did you beat your son? Is that why he turned a moron? Are you going to leave him any inheritance when you kick the bucket? You know your healthy son should get everything, and I bet your uncles' ass he's gonna throw his moron of a bro on the street. You know its true, even if you're living under the illusion he's going to give him the same care you do now. no such thing as brotherly love.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - I don't believe in either beating or spanking.
I guess you know nothing about brotherly love or any kind of love at all. I feel really sorry for you all alone in your life. I would guess you have neither a girl friend or a boy friend. I don't believe you have kids and that is a really good thing. You would be a most terrible father especially if your child didn't turn out just as you wanted him or her to be. You'd throw the poor child into the street or kill him or her. Right?
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Just look at what you write - its all "guess" and "assume" and "believe". You don't know anything, so don't think too hard by trying to assume anything - it didn't work out for the wellbeing of your son, it's definitely not going to work out with other people. And stop saying you feel pity for me - thats a retards' argument, when there is nothing to say people like you just say "well, I feel sorry for you" - no fucking sense, but makes it seem like you saved face, amirite? You fail.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - Seems to me that it is you that has been making big assumptions as to what I did or did not do with my son, about my body shape, about my husband etc. Maybe you are unaware that schizophrenia is a genetic. This son, unlike my other children, was adopted. I don't know the background of his bio parents. Were you beaten as a child? You seem to harp on child beating so I can only wonder if you were abused and beaten as a child. If so, that might explain your cruel & uncaring nature.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 LoL, you took some junky life reject into your house? That is just sad, grandma. That explains his condition, obviously. Maybe he went full retard after he learned that his loving ma and pa are actually completely unrelated people? I'm now fully convinced you're not going to leave him any inheritence and his step-brother would chuck him out on the street just like his junkie teen mom did. Well, all is back to square 1 for him, I suppose its not that bad then.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum You are so sick it is unbelievable. You didn't tell me if you were beaten as a child. Maybe that would explain your total lack of compassion. I will not waste my time with you any more. Go and crawl back under your rock.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 So you admit you have nothing to put against my arguments? Well, just as I thought. And if you want to retreat, at least do it with dignity - ending the conversation with an arbitary insult is just pathetic.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - There is no reason to argue with you because none of what you write is valid. Every assertion you make is off base & untrue. My son's mother was not a junkie but an office manager who got pregnant & decided not to have an abortion. He will get as much inheritance as will my other 2 children. He is as much my child as are they. He has been in our home since he was 17 days old. I am his mother. He is my son. My biological kids don't think of him as a "step brother."
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Well, I wouldn't make assumptions on behalf of your kids. You ever seen Godfather, Part II? What you think is the good relationship between your kids is likely not entirely true. Especially true between same sex siblings.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum You didn't answer my question. Were you beaten as a child? Also, do you have an autistic or mentally ill sibling who you think got too much attention from your parents? It seems that something must have happened in your life to make you so hateful when it comes to either autistic or mentally ill people.
I wonder why you watched the autistic video unless autism has been part of your life. I watched it because a friend who works with autistic children sent it to me.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 My, aren't you a persistent old hag? No, my parents never beat me or even punished me as a kid - I was always a "goodie-goddie" child, a shining example to others. And none of my relatives are disabled in any way. So there goes your grand theory. I just don't support autism as a "soft" mental deficiency - either classify it as a full disability and send retards into nuthouses or deem them stable and let them run free, either way don't expect compassion - its undeserved.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum You are a persistent dingbat. No sense in continuing this. You don't know me. You don't know my children. You don't know anything so stop with your assumptions. They are worth nothing more than a bucket of garbage.
Maybe you might have been a "shining example" to others but you lost your humanity along the way. Your light has gone out. BTW, I have often heard neighbors & family describe a criminal as having been a wonderful child, a goodie-goodie but something happened to him.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Wat? I don't know your children, who are worth nothing more than a bucket of garbage? Now you finally show your true face.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum I didn't say you were worth nothing more than a bucket of garbage. I said your assumptions were. But now you show your true face and it is pretty ugly.
BTW. I am retired having worked many years to enjoy retirement. How come you aren't working? Are you on the dole? Or, if you are at work, are you taking time at work to post these insults?
Why were you interested in autism?
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 I'm a student - I got one exam left and I'm pretty ready for it, so I can take it easy and spend some time online. Besides, I do my revision using my laptop anyway, so takes me a second to alt-tab to feed your lack of mannerisms and then switch back to study.
Anyway, I still don't get why you'll compare your children to garbage, but hey, I don't judge. Lots of moms get all "post-natal syndrome" on their offspring, its ok for you, too, you're only human.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - You fail this exam big time. I did not compare my children to garbage. You did. You get a big fat F. I said that it was your assumptions that were not worth a bucket of garbage.
Although I didn't write it I figured you were still a kid with a lot of growing up to do.
PS. If I were your English teacher I would mark you down for writing "I GOT one exam left." You should have written "I HAVE one exam left."
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Good thing you're not a teacher then. People like you shouldn't be allowed near children - you already drove your one son over the edge, there is no telling what you might do to a classroom of kids, LoL! Just because you're old and way past your healthy years doesn't make you any wiser than anyone. In fact, I can say in my defense I didn't raise any children to be retards, so I lead by that fact alone.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - Earlier I said I hoped that you had no children. I believe that even more now. If, heaven forbid, you had a child that wasn't perfect you would either put it in a cruel institution or throw it on the street to fend for itself. I hope to God that you are sterile.
My son's mental illness is genetic. My other two children are wildly successful in their lives. If you are lucky you would be thrilled to have it even a quarter as good as they do. I suspect you will fail in life.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Lolwhut? Wildly successfull? That doesn't make even sense. What, their success is wild, i.e. they do ok half the time and half the time they give head for crack? You're starting to wear out, grandma. You first responces were more sharpish and to the point, now you're just waving your fists into the air and hurl arbitary insults. Everything I said to you was based on what you said, I never said smth. like "I hope you get hit by a bus", which is in essense what you're saying to me now.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - There you go again knocking my children. They ARE successful. My daughter & husband own 3 large homes. Their income is in the top 2%. Their 22 year old son graduated last June from university, got a high paying job & just bought his own home.
My younger son has a great job with an important company & owns his condo.
None do drugs but maybe you do.
Junior, you are wearing out. You need to grow up (I hope you will) and stop throwing out the kind of garbage that you do so well.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Super, just what I expected - trypical American thinking. Hey, I'm successfull, look at my wallet, LOOK! I own this and this and that and I spend tons of cash on this shit and I have so much zeroes in my bank account, omgomgomg! You people are so shallow and uncivilized you only measure life with money, you are really just cavemen with flashy cars. My income allows me a comfortable existence, but I'd never go around waving my bank statements in the air like you do - thats simply rude
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - I mentioned their success only because you called them garbage. My children use their money to help out others. . My daughter worked for years with mentally ill & retarded kids and has a far more compassionate outlook on life than you do. Her husband works to improve education. Looking at them you wouldn't know they had any more money than you do.
They value service & compassion which I suspect you do not.
My mentally ill son successfully takes care of himself.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 That still doesn't redeem you of moronic thinking of measuring success as income. Just the very notion of you ever bringing up money in a conversation with a stranger, much less using it as argument to try and make a POINT shows how shallow and pathetic you people are. Maybe you feel inferior because of that and have to compensate the lack of culture and manners by charity work, so you'll pass on as a human to bystanders. You're not fooling anyone, grandma, I can see into your very soul
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - I saw into your soul way back from your very first comment on the autistic video. What I saw was cruel and ugly.
It wouldn't have made any difference to you whether or not I wrote about my children's financial success. If I had written only of what they had done for other people you likely would have wisecracked that they were lighting the crack pipes of street people.
And what to you do to make this a better world? Nothing I would guess.
Janba32 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum I guess you are a Brit maybe studying here in America. I wouldn't talk about "you people" when Britain is a country where class matters, where the graduates of private schools have a greater chance of getting a good job than does someone who goes to what we here call a public school.
As for culture and manners I'll stack my children up against anyone.
If you are indeed British I certainly won't judge all Brits by you. Many of our good friends are British ex-pats.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 I am British, but why on Earth would you assume I'm studying in America? Is there even a tiniest hint of that in any of my answers? Not only am I not studying there, I've never been there and I don't ever intend to be, God forbid! As for "class matters" - thats ridiculous, if you get your facts about the country from cheap travelbooks and hearsay and believe it, at least don't make an ass out of yourself by letting people know you believe that crap. Seriously, better to just not talk.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum - Sorry.
I was just in my garden thinking about you. You are young and likely think you know everything. I don't know why you feel as you do about people who are different. I hope that if some day you have a child you and your child will not face the pain of mental illness. I hope that you will not feel the pain that comes when a loved child, once happy and talented, becomes schizophrenic at the age of 20. It is a life changing event both for the child & the family.
Janba32 8 months ago
@Janba32 Look, I'm sorry, but I just read to the words "I hope that if some day..." and I stopped reading your comment, seriously, every other comment you write something you hope I am or my children would be, or something would happen to me, this is getting really, REALLY repetitive. If you want me to listen to your words, at least stop wishing god-knows-what, I haven't even read what you hope for this time, just change the channel, mkay? I can't bring myself to read this stupidities.
DrArsenicum 8 months ago
@DrArsenicum I wrote that I hope you never know the pain of having a mentally ill child. I hope that any child you have will be healthy both for his sake and your sake. It is very panful having a child who is mentally ill and almost as painful when someone makes fun of his illness.
Sorry I thought that you were in the US. I've been to Britain & found the people that I met to be lovely. I thought that you were in the U.S. because of the time differential. I just checked & it is 1:33 AM there.
Janba32 8 months ago
Have you ever seen "The Horse Boy?" I encourage everyone who has, or knows someone with Autism to watch it. Its very interesting! I only know few people who have the diagnosis,. What I have learned is that if affects everyone who has it so dramatically! Prayers go out for a cure and hope!
babler81 9 months ago
ah you poor things. I have autism, I've been married, I have had best friends all my life, I've had boyfriends, etc. I have children. Autism does not necessarily mean the denial of all that... please--there is HOPE. **mentalhugs**
heatherbabes3207 9 months ago
The quote about divorce rates for those who have autistic children that you used in the beginning have been debunked. i talked to the person who did the study into it and found it a false claim.
However, it does have a profound effect if the marriage does not have a solid ground.
heatherbabes3207 9 months ago
My son is autism his 3 years old n it's hard I feel you.bless yall
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gotohemp 9 months ago
I fee for you... thank you for uploading a great video...I would like to however encourage you two as a couple to use autism to come closer to each other. It is not easy for human nature to take it easy with any unexpected misdrirection in life. Please reconsider your lives together. I also found out just how wonderful a life my recently diagnosed son has given to me. tae heart
Karakiki 9 months ago
Your little boy could achieve whatever he puts his mind towards. Autistic people are often really focused on something that they enjoy. There are loads of different things that would help in live a life as normally as possible. Like music therapy; it teaches kids to understand themselves and other people and to communicate those understandings effectivly. Good luck to you and hunter, great things COULD be achieved.
jebo94 9 months ago
Thats what happens when you got defective sperm :D
thanks for showing us your ugly ass minority autistic experience! ^_^
6958921 9 months ago
@6958921 Go fuck yourself you asshole. I have no doubt his child will grow up to be great. So you say both Einstein and Newton came from "defective sperm"? You are vermin to the human species and all
I can hope is for little fuckers like you to not reproduce.
For who made this video: Don't give up hope on things like your child falling in love or academic achievements. Autistic minds are not disfunctional minds, they are just different. Good luck to you and your family.
cniglari 9 months ago
@6958921 Oh hay anonymous
was /b/ down for a while?
oiramldx 9 months ago
@theangryhick
One day when you become a parent of a " retarded" child you will know what it's like.
I know a place where people, like you, go. It's underneath the ground you stand on.
anoopko 9 months ago
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@Wowmaster18 what is wrong with you!?! who would ever say that!? u must be an angry hick....feel really sad for u
The2monkeynuts 10 months ago
@Wowmaster18 what is wrong with you!?! who would ever say that!? u must be an angry hick....feel bad for u
The2monkeynuts 10 months ago
@The2monkeynuts u made it sound aweful& i took it as hate towards the parents & child. i experience this, most days, with my child's behavior,...& saying something about someone dying in a fire reagrding anything or anyone is horrible& unacceptable. & ps, u made that comment first & i was infuriated for all. i think the child is awesome& so are his parents.
The2monkeynuts 10 months ago
Having girlfriends, feeling love, and having friends might be hard. But he can, really, he can. And it can matter to him. There are people out there who want to be his friend. Who will want to love him as much as you do. They're a really special sort of person but they exist. Trust me.
SecretsInMySkin 10 months ago 2
@rimaaelita His child is obviously Autistic - and probably PROFESSIONALLY diagnosed!! Unlike your knowledge you uneducated git!!! My son is Autistic - PROFESSIONALLY diagnosed - and the very last thing we, as parents, need is some ignorant piece of trash like you. You pathetic moron!! To the parents - it's hard - I wish you the best.
theonlyhexxuss 10 months ago
Never judge a parent with an autistic child,never judge an autistic child.........
Tantrums....the autistic child is discovering that he does not understand te world,nor does the world understand him,look into the eyes of an autistic child while having a tantrum and you will see despair....why...why am I autistic...why am I different...why do people not understand my world...??
shiningwarrior1957 10 months ago
great kid and loving family! it takes a lot of heart and it is very special raising an autistic child. nice to hear from your personal experiences. thank you. your son is very special and you are very loving and caring parents. thank you for sharing.
ediann 10 months ago
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this a beautiful video...
and sad.
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LeahBenson1 10 months ago
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HAHAHA!!! FUCKING RETARD!!! I BET HE IS A FUCKING YANKEE BITCH AND LOVES NIGGERS!!! OH WAIT!!! HE IS FUCKING RETARDED!!! HE LOVES SO MUCH SLAVE NIGGER DICK HE WILL DIE FROM AIDS SOON!!! HAHAHAHA!!!! I WILL FUCKING COME TO NEW YORK AND STAB SOME YANKEE BITCH EYES OUT!!! DEO VINDICE!!! DONT FUCK WITH THE SOUTH RETARD!!! WE WILL RISE AGAIN!!!!
TheAngryHick 10 months ago
omg i want one of those bouncy things at 1:38 it looks so much fun
yuzk2 10 months ago
wow he is a great dad............. takes patients.. that MOST ppl dont have with these type of children!
indystud22 10 months ago
Wow, what a cute kid! And his eyes... and especially eyelashes... are beautiful! I'm 13 right now and I've decided that when I grow up I want to adopt kids like these in need. Maybe it won't work out but hey it won't hurt to try!
itscompIicated 11 months ago
i am just as ignorant as you are! The child is FINE!he needs explanation and acceptance, not labeling and running away from difficulty.
rimaaelita 11 months ago
that is so sad for the parents to have to deal with that
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mollysangelique 11 months ago
You are a fucking twat! The child is absolutely normal he is expressing his nager and emotions in a way he does because he is in a raw state and needs parent to regulate his emotions! And what fucking twat like you does? He goes and calls the kid Autistic instead of thinking of your own Impact on him! Stop labelling the kid and get your brain sorted!
rimaaelita 11 months ago
@rimaaelita
How ignorant can you possibly be. You don't live with an autistic child...you have no idea what it is like. And just for your info Autism IS NOT DUE TO BAD PARENTING. It is an autoimmune disorder. However your mannerisms suggest that you have been the victum of bad parenting...I feel sorry for your parents.
rsjg0719 11 months ago
You are a really lovely Dad. He has beautiful eyes by the way.
middy444 11 months ago
i am on the autism spectrum. Im a nurse now but I still have problems with relating to people. The best thing that happened to me were horses. I relate to horses and talk to a few people. I dont have friends the way other people do but I accept it as I am different then they are and dont like the parties and crowds that others love
luv4cascy 11 months ago 2
Sadly this is all too familiar of a story that I hear when talking to adults about their children on the spectrum. It definitely adds a lot of stress to marriages and another huge issue is the added financial burden that insurance doesn't pick up at all. How sad that people have made negative comments on this video posting. Wonder what all of them would feel if they lived a day with autism? This isn't something we live with for one day, it's our entire life.
travisbreeding 11 months ago
My autistic child brings my huband and i closer together than ever, it is all in your perspective on life. Accept these children, they did not demand to be born. It was your choice to have him, so deal w it like an adult and quit w the sob story!
MyJennyboo 11 months ago
@multisnootyundead how sad I hope that you are not serious and you are just being stupid!
xxxLesslyxxx 11 months ago 2
This is my life. I'm living it almost exactly as this video, and it sucks.
steve08087 11 months ago
@multisnootyundead What a fucking asshole....shut up you Nazi!
expostfactum 11 months ago 2
apash Its too easy for you to say "You are a fucking loser and terrible parent." Its very hard to raise a child is not what you expected it, so be quiet and respect.
gmi2791 11 months ago 10
no matter what.... no matter how much they offer it...
dont... stick him on ritalin...
SystemzOverload 11 months ago
LOL I PARADE MY SON ON YOUTUBE FOR SYMPATHY.
Your a fucking loser and terrible parent.
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nanozeni0128 1 year ago
he has alot of heavy metals in his body has he had vaccines? have you got murcury fillings in your mouth ? this will both result in heavy metals in the brain wich makes emotianall inballance, (autisim) you can use oil's from young living in america its called juva cleanse it gets rid of all that stuff i'm not trying to offend you you are doing a wonderfull job God bless xoxo
MrRexrules 1 year ago
he has alot of heavy metals in his body has he had vaccines? have you got murcury fillings in your mouth ? this will both result in heavy metals in the brain wich makes emotianall inballance, (autisim)
MrRexrules 1 year ago
I got injected by the MMR vaccine I have mild autism my parents don't have it but I wish the doctors get sued for it because I hate it I wish I was non-autistic so I can play video games and get away from my parents
KatyPerryandKeshaFan 1 year ago
@KatyPerryandKeshaFan MMR vaccine does NOT cause autism
hollh003 1 year ago
@KatyPerryandKeshaFan Dude. I'm autistic, and I take it as a gift... although, I'm in the high end of HFA (Highly Functioning Asperger. [Not Autism, though part of the scale.]). How am I autistic? I always get pissed off at other people in all of my school subjects because I get "it" in 10-15 minutes when it takes everyone else 3-5 days. ...Let me make that clear *DAYS*. My gift is that I understand things much faster. My curse is that I'm eternally pissed off at everyone. And have bad spelling.
frostyreynolds 1 year ago
@frostyreynolds without offending but im autistic i ask you because i finish a lot faster that others??
KevinHasem 1 year ago
@KevinHasem
Coded: without offending but im autistic i ask you because i finish a lot faster that others??
Rephrased / Corrected: Without offending but am autistic. I ask you because i finish a lot faster than others?
Deciphered: Without offending you, could I be autistic? I am asking because, like you, I finish a lot faster than others.
Answer: Do you have a single main obsessive activity that you're really good at? That's one way you can tell.... You'll just have to get tested.
frostyreynolds 1 year ago
@frostyreynolds lol I was like that in school...It was so so annoying to hear it over and over and over... :) I would get into trouble for constantly doodling...I was so bored...I understand
luv4cascy 11 months ago
@luv4cascy Yes! Somebody that understands! Sorry for taking so long to get back to you!
frostyreynolds 7 months ago
@KatyPerryandKeshaFan Vaccines don't cause Autism. The theory that they do have been completely debunked. Autism isn't directly hereditary. Your parents not having it doesn't mean that the vaccine caused it
gamelvr1 9 months ago
I am a Christian, been all my life. More than you will ever be minister
Dick head
muchambrosia 1 year ago
What a terrible burden this child must be.
HonorableMinisterRay 1 year ago
@HonorableMinisterRay How dare you call this precious child a burden? and you call yourself a christian? shame on you. shame on you. A child is never a burden, read your bible: a child is a gift of God. You are an idiot Mr. posting rudness like this.
muchambrosia 1 year ago
@muchambrosia Lose the racist attitude!
HonorableMinisterRay 1 year ago