well, this one black guy bullied me like almost everyday, it wasnt that bad, but every time he bullied me, my anger just grew.. until he smacked me day, and i literally just snapped on him, full adreniline, and now we're friends
I got bullied so bad I ended up getting PTSD and school phobia. I confronted them in negative ways like threatening to kill them. Now that I'm 20 and passed all that shit, thinking back I can't hold a grudge. What happened made me who I am today. It changed me in an overall positive way even though I had hard times as a kid.
you tell a teacher , and if that doesnt work , you tell another , and if that doesnt work , send a kick to the groin and a punch to the face right in the jaw (an upercut works good) if all this doesnt work , run like hail.
i would call my friends and fuckin beat their ass and again and again and again until they learn that i'm not a ''victim'' kinda person i will fuck up their life soooo hard that they would be begging me to leave them alone
My freshman year I got punked on everyday by some dude. Never said a thing I just went along with it. It was getting to the point where I just wanted to kill him or myself. One day they punked on him and i for some reason defended him. From that day on, we are friends. Glad we are.
Situations Can vary greatly so it's hard to make a video summing them all up or even to explain it one on one when you aren't there yourself to know how it is exactly but I think Onision does a decent job at it.
I was never bullied & I'm UNhappy about that, I wish someone had tried to pick on me cause I know exactly what I'd do & how to handle it, so that if someone messed with me that might have been someone they weren't picking on then & I'd also get to kick the shit out of some prick too.
There was a bully who called me freckle face and I was always like "stop calling me that" and it would get worse, then when she said "what's up freckle face" I said "not much" she nodded and it stopped
There was this one bully i dealt with for 3 years. He stalked and harrased me and my freinds. He always said that the reason why he had to do it, was because he just had to do it to me. Piece of shit school would never help no mater what i did. Everyone in the whole school besides a few people hated him and made fun of him, so i guess he just tried to find someone to pass it on too. Still wanna fucking murder his ass though.
I think the reason that people are afraid to take action is because they feel alone or helpless in their struggle for justice. It really does take the support of someone else to help a person to take the first steps out of the chaos. I haven't really experienced bullying at it's worst but I know what it feels like to be alone. Friends or family give you back the hope that you need to find a way out. BTW For those commenting, there is a piggy bank in the background.
The whole tell the teAcher until someone does something about it, well if you tell say the vice princible and they don't do anything about it and it continues you couldgo to the school bored. This is what a friend of mine did and that vice princible was forced to leave and is now working with adults who can fight their own battles.
A tactic that worked at my school, was for all the kids who were consistently being bullied to get together & confront the bully en-mass.
Nothing violent - simply surrounding him & verbally ripping him a new one over his behaviour to shame him in public (bullying usually occurs covertly).
This inevitably results in a teacher hearing the event (strategic selection of 'venue' is key) & investigating.
Thus bully finds 'consolidarity' in his victims for a 'no-blame' teacher intervention - score!
Bad thing is that some people don't like to report it because they feel like they are making problems for the bully and don't want to make any major trouble for them. I had to convince a bullied friend to accuse the guy, and thankfully it seems that he didn't got bullied again ever since.
I wouldn't consider what I go through bullying. It's just high school girls being jerks with me. There's this one girl, and I've known her since 8th grade, and she's always been a brat to me. She's just one of those people who see someone, and automatically hates them without knowing anything about them, which is what she did with me. She's said some rude things to me, and I answer right back. People are scared to stand up for themselves, but I'm not, and I'm glad I'm not (: Great video Onision!
i have been bullied many years, im 15 and its been going on since i was 6. i became agressive, angry, upset, depressed, i lost my hair, i became obese, til i raised my voice and said something. i told the teachers over and over and over again. until they had enough and they had to do something, no one can help yourself but you. stand up for what you believe in and fight <3
"Ha ha when you run the flab on your arms jiggle."
"Ha why you cutting emo chick?"
"Wow, at least I dont have dots all over my face. *zits*"
Now these are all sayings that have been said to me. Theres more but these r examples. Um... Idgaf what ppl say and im not afraid of shit. I hate to be picked on all my life for being "fat" or "zitty". It hurts. I used to cut. ^^^^^^ All thats why.
My Thespian Society troupe at school did a play last year, "Thank You For Flushing My Head In The Toilet (and other commonly used expressions)" by John Dorf, as well as a video with lines from the play that named statistics on bullying such as suicide rate and so on that is now circulated through the school district as a message to our students about the harmful effects of bullying.
Just though I'd include that. It's amazing what bullying does. People don't really realize it.
With the zero tolerance at schools these days and all the anti-bullying programs, I feel bullying is dropping. The old fashioned way, anyhow. Cyber-bullying is on a rise, as is violence in schools as a result. Students take matters into their own hands much too often these days.
Bullying these days has gotten to the point where kids are killing themselves instead of wanting to face further harrassment. Its only a matter of time before we see another Columbine or Virgina Tech incident.
@DistinctiveBlend I apologize, I wasn't trying to be tough. I was however, not feeling great when I made that post X_X....
It's still something that does seem relevant though...Nobody can possibly comprehend pain and/or suffering, without knowing how it feels, first-hand =\
Teachers can't do anything. Chances are it won't stop the person and if it does it'll just make more and more people dislike you. No one in my year 'bullies' me. There are plenty of pricks though.
I would tell the teacher if they don't do anything I'll tell them to lay off if they don't I'll do what some other kids did in the past become a merderer because the god damned teachers didn't wanna fucking listen and take action -_- it happened once but I kicked the living hell out of the kid not kill him good thing was he was just one kid
When I was in school and being bullied, I tried your suggested methods. I told my parents. I asked them to stop. I told teachers. I told the principal.
It didn't work.
Finally, one day I beat the shit out of the bully. Other kids who saw what I was doing even joined in. Some people just threw rocks from the sidelines.
I never had a problem with that kid again, and neither did any of his other victims. So there you go, problem solved.
@RenaSunflash That doesn't solve anything. What if your future kids piss you off?Are you going to "beat the shit" out of them too? honestly if you can't figure out a way to solve this problem without resorting to violence then you're no better than they are.
@SweeneyTodd14312 And what method would you suggest? I tried everything else. The school even called in the kid's parents. Sometimes the only way to do it is to literally beat them. And as for "That doesn't solve anything" ... but it did. It solved the problem permanently, for me and many others.
Don't worry about my future kids. I don't plan on having any. :)
@RenaSunflash you forgot one option. Sue them, the school, thier parents, and all the security officers, teacher and anyone else who watched them pick on you and did nothing to help you. Sue for harrasment and emotional destruction, because they kept you form learning, robbed you and threatened your life. an adult does that they go to jail. treat them like the adult they are never going to be.
CAll the cops and sue for harrasment. thats what i did. If they got to jail then they go if they dont then get a restraining order and sue then again.
best thing to do is fight back, thought not everyone has enough guts to fight back, but i remembered one time i got picked on when i was in like 8th grade by like alot of guys in my class, then one time i lost it and threw a chair at the let's say "leader" and i ran at him and jumped on him and started punching him, and after that they stopped being immature kids and stopped bullying me, what i did was wrong because that sent him to the hospital, but it just stopped them
i remember back in 2007 i was in the 10th grade and everyday these 2 guys would make fun of me saying i look like a breadstick with pubic hair at the top and call me a faggot EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!! but you know what karmas a bitch because those 2 dropped out and i graduated and im in college now sooo boo yah bitch!!! ;)
Or... Stab a pen in their legs, like I did on my 2nd grade at highschool. Haha! I'm Just kidding, don't do it... Like I did on my 2nd grade at highschool.
I always think about what I'm going to say when I get bullied. "You guys better stop this. I'm tired of taking this crap from you" blah, blah, blah. But then when I DO get bullied, I can never bring myself to say it...
I would choose neither.I would fight the bullies.If there knocked out,they will realize to not fuck with me anymore.Its very diff to bully in my opnion..i dont understand why people bully. :/ So,fight the bullies,not the innocent kids.
I was picked on all throughout Jr. High. Whenever I was picked on, confronting the bully never worked in my favor, all it did was egg them on, and made the abuse worse- because they KNEW it bugged me. It wasn't until I finally went to a teacher- one who I had a good student-teacher relationship with AND was a former corrections officer- that the abuse ended right then and there. I doubt any of my other teachers would have done a thing about it had I told them.
My best answer is to not show them you care and don't pay attention to them. They won't listen to reason; in fact they are just enjoying the attention. Make bullying known to the principal and supervisor and parents of child involved. Adminstrators, teachers and parents should all be involved in creating a zero tolerance policy at the school. This is coming from a parent perspective.
@Kristy0025 Also, if you read my comment, I said that the whole " tell an authority figure about it and everything will be all right" perspective of it was bull shit. The principal or teacher can only DELAY the problem not solve it.
kirsty is right although theres implications and depends on the teachers etc too but your solution using force is why teens are found shot or stabbed to death in allys,defend yourself by all means but going out of your way to beat the crap out of someone will create 'the grudge' if you can handel that kind of shit on your back then fairplay but its better to resolve the issue by getting to know what exactly their issue is with you or ignore them
its all great acting macho and thinking with your cock but from my experience it doesnt resolve anything infact just makes things worse and overall you have to fuck your mind with the memorys of decking someones face in without cause, the best solution is to resolve it by comunicating and finding out why they are so fucked up, if you lack the skills to do that find someone who has to resolve it for you which could be a teacher , a parent ,a friend or an oddbod of the street heh
A few years ago these kids on my bus would pick on me every time i got on the bus because i had a boyish hair cut. it got worse to the point where they would hunt me down every period to say something about it. my social studies teacher saw me and knew it was out of my ordinary. so he took names, looked in the year book, and spoke to them. i dont know what was said, but they stopped. i think it was the fact that my teacher was in his early 30s and REALLY understood everything.
Oh yes, the subject that I have spent most of my life thinking about. Let's think this out. The lie that parents have always told their kids is that if you tell an adult about you being bullied that everything will be all right. That bull shit made me get a worse beatdown than the one before. So, what's the only other option? Violence is key. Beat the living shit out of the bully and make him/her think that you can and will kill them if they try that bully shit again. Believe me, it works.
@Kristy0025 That's if you pull that shit inside the school. I did it when a bully tried to fight me outside 5 blocks from the school in front of my house. I beat his ass and choked the shit out of him and told him that next time I won't let go. He stopped messing with me though.
People try to push me around because since I like nerdy things 9Books, computers, etc.), but they never seem to know that I also enjoy sports and lifting weights. I always thought that if you ignore it, it goes away. Tell the teacher. Well, that's a lie. Teachers never do anything. This guy tried to shove me in to a locker so I hit him in the face, and he never messed with me again. If someone is trying to mess with you, you have to set limit. How far can they go?
@AlienFromPlanetEx Are you going to ask where a teenager would get drugs next? I realize things must be much different on Panet Ex, but come on, you really over estimate the effectiveness of law and underestimate the effectiveness of mores.
I get bullied a lot, and I stand up for myself. I tell the teachers every little thing people do to me because in Massachusetts, bullying is illegal, so if the faculty ends up with a long list of accounts by people at the end of the year, they can get in serious trouble. I don't take crap, and I'm simply not putting up with it anymore.
@ThePurpleGirlz This is youtube and I can say what I want to you. Tell your teachers that I said you're a little pussy and need to stop sucking on your dad teat and grow a pair.
i think the best option is to be aggressive in your approach when you confront the people bothering you. they do not deserve to be talked to in a respectful way like that. they need to see that you mean business because the only reason they are picking on you is because they aren't afraid of you. so you need to show them that you are not gonna take their shit. you are big enough to talk back to them.
In many cases, the bully is just bored out of his mind and has low self-esteem.
The more interesting your reaction is, the more he'll bother you. The less interesting your reaction is, the more likely he will be to go find someone more interesting to harass.
I would say to stop picking on me, but the kids in my school will just pick on me more. This hasn't happened to me, but my classmates get picked on and i see it. I tell her that if you ignore them, they will go away.
if you tell the teachers then you are a snitch, if you give a speach to the bully then they will make fun of you and bully you more. solution = don't be weak. Bullies only bully people that they view as weak. So um, don't be weak.
Have your hand ready to punch if they come at you.. and really put some force behind it. I've never been bullied and I've only seen bullying on tv but I think it takes brute force against an idiot. That seems to be the only kind of reaction they understand. Maybe they were beat as kids, or don't feel like they're getting enough attention? Either way.. someone has got to teach them. I'd talk to the counselor and tell her/him that this person needs counseling, because they're insane!?!
I notice that a lot of comments are about fighting and strength/courage is a good thing,
but the strongest man in the world is the man who can walk into a room and walk over to the bully and defuse the situation verbally and NOT hurt anybody.
Hitting is easy. Toddlers do it all the time.
Real manhood is finding some way to talk the perpetrator down -without- violence.
Well my opinion is try to and a avoid these people or person and if they come looking for you just to start trouble thats when i think you should stand your ground
my view, warn first, warn a 2nd time 3rd time fight back, even if you do lose of course and you may get your butt kicked, at least the bully knows that every time that he/she wants to mess with you he/shes gonna have to go through the same fight everytime eventually they will probably get sick of all the hard work seing how they are lazy enough to steal lunch money haha
The problem is tht bullies dont care no matter wat u do or watever the teacher does they still do it and the sad thing is tht the teachers let it escalate and dont do something until the hear something about a fight. They let it go until it gets physical and by tht point it may be too late.
I am 15 and have done MMA for the past 8 years now and in that time have learnt a good ammout of combat skills, the way i see things is that i have a 3 strake rule, strike 1 - verbal abuse, i will leave it after all sticks and stones right? strike 2- verbal and mild phisical abuse, i will stick up for myself and give the person a fair warning "get your hands off me" if this does not work then it goes to strike 3, this is where i will act as i see fit, ie self defence. thats my view
ask for help from someone much bigger than the bully i think that a much better method because if you tattle on them theyll be pissed that you told and will probly bully you even more and if you confront them most likely they wont care but if you get someone much bigger and stronger to help you confront them its unlikley theyll mess with you anymore because everytime they try to mess with you theyll remember the person that punked them out last time
Unfortunately, violence can solve this problem. It's sad that that's true, but in my experience, when you beat the fuck out of one of them, they'll respect you more.
See i go to a school of like 400 kids total and they are taking the bullying thing to seriously. Like I know that in some cases people really are getting bullied, but i supposedly "bullied" someone by knocking their pecil out of their hands one time.
I was bullied and i simply ignored it or supported it till they got sick of my sarcasm because it showed them how pointless their actions were. Try pretending to enjoy it or being a smart ass about it they will get bored and look for someone weaker and less smart =) god luck Amy (i think that was the girl who asked the question idk)
I was made fun of throughout middle school and early highschool. I hate to tell people to resort to violence but in this case I will. My Spanish name was retardo and this kid named Tim always made fun of me my freshman year in front of a girl I liked. I just exploded one day and beat the shit out of him. I gained respect by standing up for myself physically...it's really too bad. Nobody messed with me after that.
Eventually you just have to do something drastic. I'm not saying this was the right thing to do but it worked. so it was the right thing to do at least in my situation... There was a guy much older than me verbally sexually harrassing me for about a month at high school, and I got the the point that all my anger toward him bottled up and one day when he continued to harrass me I screamed at the top of my lungs for him to STOP in front of the entire class. After that he never even looked at me.
I'd kill them X_X.....Okay well....maybe not to the point they really are dead....But I've always stood on this one belief
You don't understand pain and/or suffering, until you've experienced it first hand. I'd probably take the bully's eyeball & let him/her live the rest of his or her life deformed & scarr'ed, I'm sure that will teach him or her something necessary to life in time.
When somebody tries to bully me...honestly i either say something completely demented that'll in turn scare them...or go all sorts of metal and drop kick them in the eyebrow...
when somebody trys to bully me i go fuckin mental and kick ther teeth in and i have reciantly been told some people have been bullying my little brother..... im gonna buy me a new bat
@TheNeil16 should never use force as that makes you no better then the bully actually giving them what they want , some want to be beaten but yeah ive learnt what goes around comes around , should stand your ground instead and draw a line , if they choose to cross it try to address why they crossed it in the first place as the bat is obviously useless and dig in where it really hurts usally close to home from my experience they are usally all fucked up cos they dont like thier step father
Violence is not the answer...but its is a cheating way around things if you want thing to change. We tried to resolve it w/o a fight, like you are supposed to. We would have gone to the police, but policemen and woman never showed a black or mixed person any sign of respect in my neighborhood. Going to the poliice could have even made it worse.
Ok, true stroy. I was once picked on by racist white kids. They kept calling me a nigger and throwing rocks at my brothers and my face. We told the school, they didnt do anything. My parents even spoke to their parents....nothing happened. So even tho we didnt want to, my and my brother took matters into our own hands, and whooped their ass. Sometimes, thats what it comes down too. We tried to resolve the matter w/o a fight, but you see, nobody would do anything at all. So we had to fight.
It's also important to point out that 7th and 8th grade students go temporarily insane.
Something about brain development causes all middle-school kids to go nuts.
So no one should blame themselves when their classmates are trying to figure out what's right and wrong . . . and getting it wrong. It's brain development and, usually, it gets better. Kids have to be taught how to behave, but it's not all on -us- to do -all- of the teaching. Everyone has a responsibility in that all-important job.
'Hey, I'm the good guy' and should pat themselves on the back. That's a big deal and people forget to do that. Person A is the good guy and that's damn important. We shouldn't blame ourselves when someone else is being an abuser.
In general, it's good manners to confront your abuser. To tell them that it's not funny and they should knock it off. In many cases, confrontation is not easy or even the wise thing to do, such as an abuser who is a burglar with a gun.
The next step is to alert the authorities. Your favorite teacher, the parents of the abuser, the police, the news media, whatever. Tell them if you require anonymity.
People who dislike "snitches" are idiots, and they end up living in crime-ridden neighborhoods because nobody calls the cops when people commit violent crime. The mafia hates "snitches". In the real world, the "whistleblowers" are true national heroes, risking their jobs in order to make the world better.
And, finally, as Onision says, every case is unique. We have to pick our battles.
Sometimes you can stand up to a bully or rally everyone together to stand up to him. Bullies are often sad, pathetic cowards who were abused by their fathers and who back down when someone stands up to them.
I sort of feel as though much of the corporate world and the world of politics and corporate lobbying has been taken over by bullies and we have to join hands and stand up to them if we want to rescue Democracy from their clutches.
Sometimes abusers are like violent boyfriends and the right response is to report them to the authorities and run as far away as possible. We have police departments and the FBI and the Department of Defense for a reason.
And sometimes neither fight nor flight are the right answer. Sometimes abusers should just be ignored. The classic example is the YouTube Hater. A bucket of spit is worth far more than any idea ever expressed by a YouTube Hater. They don't even deserve one second of our attention. All they deserve is the mental Delete Button. See the comment . . . and instantly forget it.
In other words, there is no "morally" right or wrong response. The abuser is the bad guy, not us.
I've been bullied almost my entire schooling experience. I found, personally, the best thing to do is stay your ground. Know who you are. Most bullies do those actions to show off to their group. If you stay strong, and are extremely confident. They will feel it. It didn't stop the snickering behind my back about me, but I know who I am. They miss out on knowing me. And to be honest, that Jr. High gossip crap doesn't fly in the real world. I'm already steps ahead.
>_< not really what i meant i was asking about limitations on how nice you should be to someone before letting them take full advantage of you. when they see you wont do anything
If someone is bullying you and they will not stop after you tell them to the first time, you beat the living shit out of them. But hey thats just me...
There is only to options: 1 outsmart them 2 out-muscle them!
Pleading will get you nowhere since self esteem is yours to give yourself and not be given by others! Start boxing and you'll both gain confidence and the ability to fend for yourself best tip i can give!
I would never tell them to stop bullying on me because it could be worse, and they would keep on doing it back in 1st grade. I would tell on the teachers and they wouldn't do anything, so yeaaa I was screwed.. but I got transferred anyway .
I put up with it for a few months, then I smashed the guys face in. And now he respects me. Although there are lots of people who wouldn't like to resort to violence. But sometimes it's the only thing that works. Show them your not scared. And look them in the eyes. If your looking all over the place then they're gonna know your scared.
There is no best option trust me, my whole school life i've been bullied im in my last year now, So what do you do, you do nothing don't react waKl a different way ignore them (i know when people said it to me at a certain point i was like NO!) but trust me they'l get bored of no reaction, it gets so bad they cut my bag with pen knifes ive been threatened to be stabbed,ive been through depression because of it, and it talk that time to know there not worth it.
Last time someone tried to bully me, I broke their arm. Like serious you sometime have to teach people a lesson in pain!
kadamac23 1 month ago in playlist Young Life
..........or to the point where they've told you to go kill yourself?
oORachelsaurusRexOo 3 months ago
Just go at them... like a Bananana!
Swampehh98 8 months ago 2
well, this one black guy bullied me like almost everyday, it wasnt that bad, but every time he bullied me, my anger just grew.. until he smacked me day, and i literally just snapped on him, full adreniline, and now we're friends
DarkCarnival42O 10 months ago
I got bullied so bad I ended up getting PTSD and school phobia. I confronted them in negative ways like threatening to kill them. Now that I'm 20 and passed all that shit, thinking back I can't hold a grudge. What happened made me who I am today. It changed me in an overall positive way even though I had hard times as a kid.
209116032 10 months ago
@209116032 i have PTSD also from being bullied.. :D
DarkCarnival42O 10 months ago
you tell a teacher , and if that doesnt work , you tell another , and if that doesnt work , send a kick to the groin and a punch to the face right in the jaw (an upercut works good) if all this doesnt work , run like hail.
weare1in6billion 10 months ago
i would call my friends and fuckin beat their ass and again and again and again until they learn that i'm not a ''victim'' kinda person i will fuck up their life soooo hard that they would be begging me to leave them alone
dani222fuklqo 1 year ago
my words of wisdom are say "slag off" and kick 'em
youpooper1234567890 1 year ago
My freshman year I got punked on everyday by some dude. Never said a thing I just went along with it. It was getting to the point where I just wanted to kill him or myself. One day they punked on him and i for some reason defended him. From that day on, we are friends. Glad we are.
Sn0wman1021 1 year ago
or you could simply beat the shit out of them.
XilverBullets 1 year ago 6
Situations Can vary greatly so it's hard to make a video summing them all up or even to explain it one on one when you aren't there yourself to know how it is exactly but I think Onision does a decent job at it.
I was never bullied & I'm UNhappy about that, I wish someone had tried to pick on me cause I know exactly what I'd do & how to handle it, so that if someone messed with me that might have been someone they weren't picking on then & I'd also get to kick the shit out of some prick too.
MrEllisRedding 1 year ago
I went on them, they hit my friend one time and i snapped and gave him a wack to the face :)
caliusblack 1 year ago
There was a bully who called me freckle face and I was always like "stop calling me that" and it would get worse, then when she said "what's up freckle face" I said "not much" she nodded and it stopped
TheProjectMJ 1 year ago
There was this one bully i dealt with for 3 years. He stalked and harrased me and my freinds. He always said that the reason why he had to do it, was because he just had to do it to me. Piece of shit school would never help no mater what i did. Everyone in the whole school besides a few people hated him and made fun of him, so i guess he just tried to find someone to pass it on too. Still wanna fucking murder his ass though.
maxmra 1 year ago
no one bullies me because they are afraid of me even though I didnt do anything to them
gatorade1116 1 year ago
You look like my dad.
That is so weird.
flyerthanaG6 1 year ago
I think the reason that people are afraid to take action is because they feel alone or helpless in their struggle for justice. It really does take the support of someone else to help a person to take the first steps out of the chaos. I haven't really experienced bullying at it's worst but I know what it feels like to be alone. Friends or family give you back the hope that you need to find a way out. BTW For those commenting, there is a piggy bank in the background.
jellybun12 1 year ago
The little cow in the backround (on the shelf) is distracting me :)
sunshinepop44 1 year ago
@sunshinepop44 pretty sure that's a pig :P
mp2250 1 year ago
@mp2250 Or... maybe it's both O.o
sunshinepop44 1 year ago
The whole tell the teAcher until someone does something about it, well if you tell say the vice princible and they don't do anything about it and it continues you couldgo to the school bored. This is what a friend of mine did and that vice princible was forced to leave and is now working with adults who can fight their own battles.
ZombieFR3AK91 1 year ago
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beat the shit out of them.
anonymousollie 1 year ago
eh, kicking their ass? especially ''fat'' considered people should try that, because they have more weight which makes them punch more harder
sm0keshell 1 year ago
onision, i love you hahaha.
s00paMILK 1 year ago
Y'know, a lot of people are saying, "Fight back!"
"Kick their asses!"
"Show up on their doorstep with a bat!"
Now, what happens when they're calling you all kinds of bad things and you snap?
You curl your fist up and swing? Then what? They throw you to the ground and send you to the fucking hospital.
tumbleweedMT 1 year ago
A tactic that worked at my school, was for all the kids who were consistently being bullied to get together & confront the bully en-mass.
Nothing violent - simply surrounding him & verbally ripping him a new one over his behaviour to shame him in public (bullying usually occurs covertly).
This inevitably results in a teacher hearing the event (strategic selection of 'venue' is key) & investigating.
Thus bully finds 'consolidarity' in his victims for a 'no-blame' teacher intervention - score!
BrianJ1962 1 year ago
I show them I'm fxcking insane and they leave mah shet alone...sometimes, I bite their neck and drink their blood <3
DancingAmongZombies 1 year ago
Bullies only understand violence.
lollerabbe 1 year ago
I just say fuck you. not to you Onision lol, but to the bullies. But if they say "You wanna go?" I say fuck yeah
whitezombie00 1 year ago
get fucking crazy shit on their doorstep rome with a bunch of friends show em a baseball bat SOMETHING dont jus take it that will never ever work
ajomez 1 year ago
Bad thing is that some people don't like to report it because they feel like they are making problems for the bully and don't want to make any major trouble for them. I had to convince a bullied friend to accuse the guy, and thankfully it seems that he didn't got bullied again ever since.
thegoddamnhadex 1 year ago
Take their fuckin names !!!!
ewtopher 1 year ago
I'd Tell the teacher...or my mom...but if that didn't work....1 word...BASE BALL BAT
crazywanch101 1 year ago
@crazywanch101 that's 2 words
...that you spaced into 3
luvpeacefu 1 year ago
I would punch the bitch and brake her nose. thatll stop them.
wanttobezacs 1 year ago
I wouldn't consider what I go through bullying. It's just high school girls being jerks with me. There's this one girl, and I've known her since 8th grade, and she's always been a brat to me. She's just one of those people who see someone, and automatically hates them without knowing anything about them, which is what she did with me. She's said some rude things to me, and I answer right back. People are scared to stand up for themselves, but I'm not, and I'm glad I'm not (: Great video Onision!
OmgItzReynaxX 1 year ago
i have been bullied many years, im 15 and its been going on since i was 6. i became agressive, angry, upset, depressed, i lost my hair, i became obese, til i raised my voice and said something. i told the teachers over and over and over again. until they had enough and they had to do something, no one can help yourself but you. stand up for what you believe in and fight <3
ChelseaRawrable 1 year ago
"Ha ha when you run the flab on your arms jiggle."
"Ha why you cutting emo chick?"
"Wow, at least I dont have dots all over my face. *zits*"
Now these are all sayings that have been said to me. Theres more but these r examples. Um... Idgaf what ppl say and im not afraid of shit. I hate to be picked on all my life for being "fat" or "zitty". It hurts. I used to cut. ^^^^^^ All thats why.
ManDTee 1 year ago
@ManDTee You're not tough.
zomgwtfbbqbagel 1 year ago
@zomgwtfbbqbagel Ha well thats what you think bitch
ManDTee 1 year ago
@ManDTee But you're not.
zomgwtfbbqbagel 1 year ago
this is happening to me currently. what did i do? i told my 300 pound friends on the football team.
YODSD 1 year ago
My Thespian Society troupe at school did a play last year, "Thank You For Flushing My Head In The Toilet (and other commonly used expressions)" by John Dorf, as well as a video with lines from the play that named statistics on bullying such as suicide rate and so on that is now circulated through the school district as a message to our students about the harmful effects of bullying.
Just though I'd include that. It's amazing what bullying does. People don't really realize it.
xXDJPlushXx 1 year ago
With the zero tolerance at schools these days and all the anti-bullying programs, I feel bullying is dropping. The old fashioned way, anyhow. Cyber-bullying is on a rise, as is violence in schools as a result. Students take matters into their own hands much too often these days.
xXDJPlushXx 1 year ago
thank you for making this video about my question onision ^_^!
lickedteeth 1 year ago
i kicked a bullies ass and they cowards so they go away cuz they want easy target
SuperShaned123 1 year ago
Bullying these days has gotten to the point where kids are killing themselves instead of wanting to face further harrassment. Its only a matter of time before we see another Columbine or Virgina Tech incident.
cushrinada 1 year ago
at my old school teacher were also bulling me :(
frogirl1993 1 year ago
your shadow looks like a beard :P
Stitch1219 1 year ago
"If a man smite you in the cheek, smash him in the other" -Anton Szandor LaVey
:D
xXBlakkMajikXx 1 year ago 23
@xXBlakkMajikXx Lolz, LaVey has actually good points of making the satanic bible. :P
odysseasX 9 months ago
@DistinctiveBlend I apologize, I wasn't trying to be tough. I was however, not feeling great when I made that post X_X....
It's still something that does seem relevant though...Nobody can possibly comprehend pain and/or suffering, without knowing how it feels, first-hand =\
H2OVenom57 1 year ago
I dont let it get 2 me I just wait till they're bored (Or karma gets em AGAIN lol)
emootaku736 1 year ago
Teachers can't do anything. Chances are it won't stop the person and if it does it'll just make more and more people dislike you. No one in my year 'bullies' me. There are plenty of pricks though.
kalashnikov96 1 year ago
I would tell the teacher if they don't do anything I'll tell them to lay off if they don't I'll do what some other kids did in the past become a merderer because the god damned teachers didn't wanna fucking listen and take action -_- it happened once but I kicked the living hell out of the kid not kill him good thing was he was just one kid
Godzelot 1 year ago
i would fuck them up, i don't care if theyre 10 time my size i'll just go on a brawl with them..seriously
mnlead 1 year ago
get some new friends.
FERALxPANDA 1 year ago
When I was in school and being bullied, I tried your suggested methods. I told my parents. I asked them to stop. I told teachers. I told the principal.
It didn't work.
Finally, one day I beat the shit out of the bully. Other kids who saw what I was doing even joined in. Some people just threw rocks from the sidelines.
I never had a problem with that kid again, and neither did any of his other victims. So there you go, problem solved.
RenaSunflash 1 year ago 58
@RenaSunflash That doesn't solve anything. What if your future kids piss you off?Are you going to "beat the shit" out of them too? honestly if you can't figure out a way to solve this problem without resorting to violence then you're no better than they are.
SweeneyTodd14312 1 year ago
@SweeneyTodd14312 lol its kinda funny ur name is sweeney todd when ur talking about not being violent.
bubblebuddy12345 1 year ago
@bubblebuddy12345 lol yeah ironic :P So what it's just a movie... an awesome movie :D
SweeneyTodd14312 1 year ago
@SweeneyTodd14312 And what method would you suggest? I tried everything else. The school even called in the kid's parents. Sometimes the only way to do it is to literally beat them. And as for "That doesn't solve anything" ... but it did. It solved the problem permanently, for me and many others.
Don't worry about my future kids. I don't plan on having any. :)
RenaSunflash 1 year ago
@RenaSunflash lmao.
clubava111 1 year ago
@RenaSunflash it might have worked for you, but it kinda depends if the bully is picking on just you or everybody.
caecar103 1 year ago
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GunShard 1 year ago
@RenaSunflash you forgot one option. Sue them, the school, thier parents, and all the security officers, teacher and anyone else who watched them pick on you and did nothing to help you. Sue for harrasment and emotional destruction, because they kept you form learning, robbed you and threatened your life. an adult does that they go to jail. treat them like the adult they are never going to be.
bkminchilog1 5 months ago
CAll the cops and sue for harrasment. thats what i did. If they got to jail then they go if they dont then get a restraining order and sue then again.
bkminchilog1 5 months ago
heres what you do, you get yourself a big sturdy sack, fill it with rocks and other
hard objects, and go to town on their temples
sprayboy666 1 year ago
3 words people, Kick. Some. Ass
dallasforeva423 1 year ago
best thing to do is fight back, thought not everyone has enough guts to fight back, but i remembered one time i got picked on when i was in like 8th grade by like alot of guys in my class, then one time i lost it and threw a chair at the let's say "leader" and i ran at him and jumped on him and started punching him, and after that they stopped being immature kids and stopped bullying me, what i did was wrong because that sent him to the hospital, but it just stopped them
SoloJolii 1 year ago
i remember back in 2007 i was in the 10th grade and everyday these 2 guys would make fun of me saying i look like a breadstick with pubic hair at the top and call me a faggot EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!! but you know what karmas a bitch because those 2 dropped out and i graduated and im in college now sooo boo yah bitch!!! ;)
pacora24 1 year ago
It's a good thing you have subscribers who offer solutions, because you were no help or comfort at all!!
thornekatt 1 year ago
I made voodoo on them, not my best idea :P
Marina9417SP 1 year ago
Or... Stab a pen in their legs, like I did on my 2nd grade at highschool. Haha! I'm Just kidding, don't do it... Like I did on my 2nd grade at highschool.
riversideholiday 1 year ago
I always think about what I'm going to say when I get bullied. "You guys better stop this. I'm tired of taking this crap from you" blah, blah, blah. But then when I DO get bullied, I can never bring myself to say it...
vmknejifan 1 year ago
I would choose neither.I would fight the bullies.If there knocked out,they will realize to not fuck with me anymore.Its very diff to bully in my opnion..i dont understand why people bully. :/ So,fight the bullies,not the innocent kids.
JoshyLikeDeath 1 year ago
Just beat them up.
givethebunnyhistrix 1 year ago
I was picked on all throughout Jr. High. Whenever I was picked on, confronting the bully never worked in my favor, all it did was egg them on, and made the abuse worse- because they KNEW it bugged me. It wasn't until I finally went to a teacher- one who I had a good student-teacher relationship with AND was a former corrections officer- that the abuse ended right then and there. I doubt any of my other teachers would have done a thing about it had I told them.
SaraOLLou 1 year ago 2
Solution, refuse to comply until they touch you, then murder them :) its self defense, yo.
FirstPersonFails 1 year ago
My best answer is to not show them you care and don't pay attention to them. They won't listen to reason; in fact they are just enjoying the attention. Make bullying known to the principal and supervisor and parents of child involved. Adminstrators, teachers and parents should all be involved in creating a zero tolerance policy at the school. This is coming from a parent perspective.
Kristy0025 1 year ago
@Kristy0025 Also, if you read my comment, I said that the whole " tell an authority figure about it and everything will be all right" perspective of it was bull shit. The principal or teacher can only DELAY the problem not solve it.
19kiggs 1 year ago
@Kristy0025
You're a parent? Get out of this video. The only solution of bullying is force.
givethebunnyhistrix 1 year ago 2
kirsty is right although theres implications and depends on the teachers etc too but your solution using force is why teens are found shot or stabbed to death in allys,defend yourself by all means but going out of your way to beat the crap out of someone will create 'the grudge' if you can handel that kind of shit on your back then fairplay but its better to resolve the issue by getting to know what exactly their issue is with you or ignore them
alexcrook1 1 year ago
its all great acting macho and thinking with your cock but from my experience it doesnt resolve anything infact just makes things worse and overall you have to fuck your mind with the memorys of decking someones face in without cause, the best solution is to resolve it by comunicating and finding out why they are so fucked up, if you lack the skills to do that find someone who has to resolve it for you which could be a teacher , a parent ,a friend or an oddbod of the street heh
alexcrook1 1 year ago
A few years ago these kids on my bus would pick on me every time i got on the bus because i had a boyish hair cut. it got worse to the point where they would hunt me down every period to say something about it. my social studies teacher saw me and knew it was out of my ordinary. so he took names, looked in the year book, and spoke to them. i dont know what was said, but they stopped. i think it was the fact that my teacher was in his early 30s and REALLY understood everything.
ec2745 1 year ago
Oh yes, the subject that I have spent most of my life thinking about. Let's think this out. The lie that parents have always told their kids is that if you tell an adult about you being bullied that everything will be all right. That bull shit made me get a worse beatdown than the one before. So, what's the only other option? Violence is key. Beat the living shit out of the bully and make him/her think that you can and will kill them if they try that bully shit again. Believe me, it works.
19kiggs 1 year ago
@19kiggs
Yep I totally agree. I pulled a knife on some stupid man before and that fool stopped and was scared I think he pissed himself.
AdamJonesXX10 1 year ago
@19kiggs That gets you suspended or expelled or sent to juvenile hall. You don't win in that situation either.
Kristy0025 1 year ago
@Kristy0025 That's if you pull that shit inside the school. I did it when a bully tried to fight me outside 5 blocks from the school in front of my house. I beat his ass and choked the shit out of him and told him that next time I won't let go. He stopped messing with me though.
19kiggs 1 year ago
i get picked on because im short and vulnerable. And im really shy and quite so i get picked on.
Shout2Remember 1 year ago
People try to push me around because since I like nerdy things 9Books, computers, etc.), but they never seem to know that I also enjoy sports and lifting weights. I always thought that if you ignore it, it goes away. Tell the teacher. Well, that's a lie. Teachers never do anything. This guy tried to shove me in to a locker so I hit him in the face, and he never messed with me again. If someone is trying to mess with you, you have to set limit. How far can they go?
Shankopottomus 1 year ago
Bring a gun to school. Solve the problem.
Loustrikesagain 1 year ago
@Loustrikesagain ...and where are you going to get this gun?
AlienFromPlanetEx 1 year ago
@AlienFromPlanetEx Are you going to ask where a teenager would get drugs next? I realize things must be much different on Panet Ex, but come on, you really over estimate the effectiveness of law and underestimate the effectiveness of mores.
Loustrikesagain 1 year ago
I get bullied a lot, and I stand up for myself. I tell the teachers every little thing people do to me because in Massachusetts, bullying is illegal, so if the faculty ends up with a long list of accounts by people at the end of the year, they can get in serious trouble. I don't take crap, and I'm simply not putting up with it anymore.
ThePurpleGirlz 1 year ago
@ThePurpleGirlz This is youtube and I can say what I want to you. Tell your teachers that I said you're a little pussy and need to stop sucking on your dad teat and grow a pair.
Loustrikesagain 1 year ago
Turn it into a joke.
Ex. "Fatass" "I'm fat?! Oh my god I had no idea, thanks for telling me."
cricketrox4ever 1 year ago
U really amaze me u really do
peace13301 1 year ago
i think the best option is to be aggressive in your approach when you confront the people bothering you. they do not deserve to be talked to in a respectful way like that. they need to see that you mean business because the only reason they are picking on you is because they aren't afraid of you. so you need to show them that you are not gonna take their shit. you are big enough to talk back to them.
XbirthdayXmassacreX 1 year ago 2
In many cases, the bully is just bored out of his mind and has low self-esteem.
The more interesting your reaction is, the more he'll bother you. The less interesting your reaction is, the more likely he will be to go find someone more interesting to harass.
Until eventually he ends up dead or in prison.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
I would say to stop picking on me, but the kids in my school will just pick on me more. This hasn't happened to me, but my classmates get picked on and i see it. I tell her that if you ignore them, they will go away.
kitzyx 1 year ago
But a brick in your lunchebox and the next time the bully touches you, drop the motherf*er.
CamillaCalamity 1 year ago
You are so cute. :D
xWordtoYourMoms 1 year ago
if course you confront them
invisibleusernamex 1 year ago
if you tell the teachers then you are a snitch, if you give a speach to the bully then they will make fun of you and bully you more. solution = don't be weak. Bullies only bully people that they view as weak. So um, don't be weak.
igotaidsinnarnia 1 year ago
Have your hand ready to punch if they come at you.. and really put some force behind it. I've never been bullied and I've only seen bullying on tv but I think it takes brute force against an idiot. That seems to be the only kind of reaction they understand. Maybe they were beat as kids, or don't feel like they're getting enough attention? Either way.. someone has got to teach them. I'd talk to the counselor and tell her/him that this person needs counseling, because they're insane!?!
anjyl667 1 year ago
Onision makes me smile
iheartMRLambert 1 year ago 2
i beat they ass ^^
cooljamz3000 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
I notice that a lot of comments are about fighting and strength/courage is a good thing,
but the strongest man in the world is the man who can walk into a room and walk over to the bully and defuse the situation verbally and NOT hurt anybody.
Hitting is easy. Toddlers do it all the time.
Real manhood is finding some way to talk the perpetrator down -without- violence.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
That's what happened in the Cuban Missile Crisis. The generals wanted WWIII.
Kennedy talked Kruschev down and -avoided- WWIII. And saved millions of lives.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
Well my opinion is try to and a avoid these people or person and if they come looking for you just to start trouble thats when i think you should stand your ground
gr8gunner101 1 year ago
I would break their god damn necks
TheDeathkngiht 1 year ago
my view, warn first, warn a 2nd time 3rd time fight back, even if you do lose of course and you may get your butt kicked, at least the bully knows that every time that he/she wants to mess with you he/shes gonna have to go through the same fight everytime eventually they will probably get sick of all the hard work seing how they are lazy enough to steal lunch money haha
bdjoe3 1 year ago
The problem is tht bullies dont care no matter wat u do or watever the teacher does they still do it and the sad thing is tht the teachers let it escalate and dont do something until the hear something about a fight. They let it go until it gets physical and by tht point it may be too late.
TheMushroomDrummer 1 year ago
I am 15 and have done MMA for the past 8 years now and in that time have learnt a good ammout of combat skills, the way i see things is that i have a 3 strake rule, strike 1 - verbal abuse, i will leave it after all sticks and stones right? strike 2- verbal and mild phisical abuse, i will stick up for myself and give the person a fair warning "get your hands off me" if this does not work then it goes to strike 3, this is where i will act as i see fit, ie self defence. thats my view
UkzCharlieXx 1 year ago
ask for help from someone much bigger than the bully i think that a much better method because if you tattle on them theyll be pissed that you told and will probly bully you even more and if you confront them most likely they wont care but if you get someone much bigger and stronger to help you confront them its unlikley theyll mess with you anymore because everytime they try to mess with you theyll remember the person that punked them out last time
mckillu06 1 year ago
Unfortunately, violence can solve this problem. It's sad that that's true, but in my experience, when you beat the fuck out of one of them, they'll respect you more.
kenodobi 1 year ago
@kenodobi That's why most bullies are much stronger than the person they bully.
WOOHOJEHA 1 year ago
See i go to a school of like 400 kids total and they are taking the bullying thing to seriously. Like I know that in some cases people really are getting bullied, but i supposedly "bullied" someone by knocking their pecil out of their hands one time.
dcshoefan1 1 year ago
I heard someone say violence is a shortcut...really? It takes a lot for someone to confront someone who has made you feel inferior.
Infesturmind 1 year ago
I was bullied and i simply ignored it or supported it till they got sick of my sarcasm because it showed them how pointless their actions were. Try pretending to enjoy it or being a smart ass about it they will get bored and look for someone weaker and less smart =) god luck Amy (i think that was the girl who asked the question idk)
00WinterGirl 1 year ago
I was made fun of throughout middle school and early highschool. I hate to tell people to resort to violence but in this case I will. My Spanish name was retardo and this kid named Tim always made fun of me my freshman year in front of a girl I liked. I just exploded one day and beat the shit out of him. I gained respect by standing up for myself physically...it's really too bad. Nobody messed with me after that.
Infesturmind 1 year ago
Eventually you just have to do something drastic. I'm not saying this was the right thing to do but it worked. so it was the right thing to do at least in my situation... There was a guy much older than me verbally sexually harrassing me for about a month at high school, and I got the the point that all my anger toward him bottled up and one day when he continued to harrass me I screamed at the top of my lungs for him to STOP in front of the entire class. After that he never even looked at me.
apriljana321 1 year ago
I'm MAD AS HELL and I'm NOT GONNA TAKE IT ANYMORE!
sirbamalot 1 year ago
i think u would b a good dad
softballfastball13 1 year ago 2
I'd kill them X_X.....Okay well....maybe not to the point they really are dead....But I've always stood on this one belief
You don't understand pain and/or suffering, until you've experienced it first hand. I'd probably take the bully's eyeball & let him/her live the rest of his or her life deformed & scarr'ed, I'm sure that will teach him or her something necessary to life in time.
H2OVenom57 1 year ago
@H2OVenom57
lol ok great advice you've got there Mr Internet tough guy.... :|
DistinctiveBlend 1 year ago
never been in that sutuation
MusiqueMMUS 1 year ago
you look so much like my old guitar teacher... insaaaneee
ZackDonovan 1 year ago
When somebody tries to bully me...honestly i either say something completely demented that'll in turn scare them...or go all sorts of metal and drop kick them in the eyebrow...
AidenAutopsyZombie 1 year ago
@herburns I'm sorry, but your Dad is wrong.
TheColorfulLolipop 1 year ago
when somebody trys to bully me i go fuckin mental and kick ther teeth in and i have reciantly been told some people have been bullying my little brother..... im gonna buy me a new bat
TheNeil16 1 year ago
@TheNeil16 should never use force as that makes you no better then the bully actually giving them what they want , some want to be beaten but yeah ive learnt what goes around comes around , should stand your ground instead and draw a line , if they choose to cross it try to address why they crossed it in the first place as the bat is obviously useless and dig in where it really hurts usally close to home from my experience they are usally all fucked up cos they dont like thier step father
alexcrook1 1 year ago
@alexcrook1 i jus kick the shit out of them the bat if for theyer car or theyer parents car
TheNeil16 1 year ago
@TheNeil16 I'm sure.
MW2GamerVids 1 year ago
@MW2GamerVids hey if u wanna be pushed around like a little bitch thats fine by me but ill be reacting violently to anybody who tries to pick on me
TheNeil16 1 year ago
I don't think anything really helps
i know from experience
i've been picked on for 15 years
i almost commited suicide once
people literally want to kill me for no reason
guess i got to live with those memories forever right?
StitchV2 1 year ago
@StitchV2 Don't you mean... attempted to commit suicide?
MW2GamerVids 1 year ago
Violence is not the answer...but its is a cheating way around things if you want thing to change. We tried to resolve it w/o a fight, like you are supposed to. We would have gone to the police, but policemen and woman never showed a black or mixed person any sign of respect in my neighborhood. Going to the poliice could have even made it worse.
MulattoBrothaGW 1 year ago
Ok, true stroy. I was once picked on by racist white kids. They kept calling me a nigger and throwing rocks at my brothers and my face. We told the school, they didnt do anything. My parents even spoke to their parents....nothing happened. So even tho we didnt want to, my and my brother took matters into our own hands, and whooped their ass. Sometimes, thats what it comes down too. We tried to resolve the matter w/o a fight, but you see, nobody would do anything at all. So we had to fight.
MulattoBrothaGW 1 year ago 3
It's also important to point out that 7th and 8th grade students go temporarily insane.
Something about brain development causes all middle-school kids to go nuts.
So no one should blame themselves when their classmates are trying to figure out what's right and wrong . . . and getting it wrong. It's brain development and, usually, it gets better. Kids have to be taught how to behave, but it's not all on -us- to do -all- of the teaching. Everyone has a responsibility in that all-important job.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
Use violence is what im gonna do.
PLproduction1 1 year ago
I want to say that I agree 300% with Onision.
It's funny to say that because essentially what he's saying is that there are no easy answers, but I think that's exactly the right answer.
There -is- no good option. Every time Person A is abused by Person B the first thing that should happen is that Person A should say,
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
'Hey, I'm the good guy' and should pat themselves on the back. That's a big deal and people forget to do that. Person A is the good guy and that's damn important. We shouldn't blame ourselves when someone else is being an abuser.
In general, it's good manners to confront your abuser. To tell them that it's not funny and they should knock it off. In many cases, confrontation is not easy or even the wise thing to do, such as an abuser who is a burglar with a gun.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
The next step is to alert the authorities. Your favorite teacher, the parents of the abuser, the police, the news media, whatever. Tell them if you require anonymity.
People who dislike "snitches" are idiots, and they end up living in crime-ridden neighborhoods because nobody calls the cops when people commit violent crime. The mafia hates "snitches". In the real world, the "whistleblowers" are true national heroes, risking their jobs in order to make the world better.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
And, finally, as Onision says, every case is unique. We have to pick our battles.
Sometimes you can stand up to a bully or rally everyone together to stand up to him. Bullies are often sad, pathetic cowards who were abused by their fathers and who back down when someone stands up to them.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
I sort of feel as though much of the corporate world and the world of politics and corporate lobbying has been taken over by bullies and we have to join hands and stand up to them if we want to rescue Democracy from their clutches.
Sometimes abusers are like violent boyfriends and the right response is to report them to the authorities and run as far away as possible. We have police departments and the FBI and the Department of Defense for a reason.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
And sometimes neither fight nor flight are the right answer. Sometimes abusers should just be ignored. The classic example is the YouTube Hater. A bucket of spit is worth far more than any idea ever expressed by a YouTube Hater. They don't even deserve one second of our attention. All they deserve is the mental Delete Button. See the comment . . . and instantly forget it.
In other words, there is no "morally" right or wrong response. The abuser is the bad guy, not us.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider Thanks for the 6 part essay...?
xFlyswatterx 1 year ago
I've been bullied almost my entire schooling experience. I found, personally, the best thing to do is stay your ground. Know who you are. Most bullies do those actions to show off to their group. If you stay strong, and are extremely confident. They will feel it. It didn't stop the snickering behind my back about me, but I know who I am. They miss out on knowing me. And to be honest, that Jr. High gossip crap doesn't fly in the real world. I'm already steps ahead.
Insanityinmind 1 year ago
there's a third option: get someone to beat the crap out of them. problem solved.
baygrl518 1 year ago
@baygrl518 YEAH totally.
PLproduction1 1 year ago
I just wait 'till they get older and grow bored of it. That and I can make good comebacks when telling them what they look like on the outside.
Nobody bullies me but they have in middle school and it's just a matter of waiting for them to GROW UP.
Pop77o7 1 year ago
>_< not really what i meant i was asking about limitations on how nice you should be to someone before letting them take full advantage of you. when they see you wont do anything
lickedteeth 1 year ago
I HAVE A GUN so ill use that yeeeepp..
eatbeavers 1 year ago
that pig was staring into my soul O.O
TheNumber1production 1 year ago 3
If someone is bullying you and they will not stop after you tell them to the first time, you beat the living shit out of them. But hey thats just me...
Whitemanfromtown7 1 year ago
There is only to options: 1 outsmart them 2 out-muscle them!
Pleading will get you nowhere since self esteem is yours to give yourself and not be given by others! Start boxing and you'll both gain confidence and the ability to fend for yourself best tip i can give!
Jabulon666 1 year ago
one day I just started to talk back and the bullying stopped..People like that always prey on the weak
bjenne 1 year ago
when i was in year 4 i was gettimg picked on all the time the teacher saw and told them to stop and they did
cheeseisniceable 1 year ago
I would never tell them to stop bullying on me because it could be worse, and they would keep on doing it back in 1st grade. I would tell on the teachers and they wouldn't do anything, so yeaaa I was screwed.. but I got transferred anyway .
xQuenne 1 year ago
I put up with it for a few months, then I smashed the guys face in. And now he respects me. Although there are lots of people who wouldn't like to resort to violence. But sometimes it's the only thing that works. Show them your not scared. And look them in the eyes. If your looking all over the place then they're gonna know your scared.
MyParkourDays 1 year ago
i know you probably don't care at all..but you look perfect with this hair length! ;)
HeeLa96 1 year ago
Switch their water with LSD! That always works!
anubisgothlord 1 year ago
Anyways, the easiest way to get rid of bullies is challenging them to BULLY BEATDOWN!
TheRobAndOnly1 1 year ago
There is no best option trust me, my whole school life i've been bullied im in my last year now, So what do you do, you do nothing don't react waKl a different way ignore them (i know when people said it to me at a certain point i was like NO!) but trust me they'l get bored of no reaction, it gets so bad they cut my bag with pen knifes ive been threatened to be stabbed,ive been through depression because of it, and it talk that time to know there not worth it.
so any advice wanna vent messageme
Megalespaulplayer 1 year ago
I like turtles.
TheRobAndOnly1 1 year ago