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  • my husband wouldn't do it.

  • That's awesome!

  • -That is what I call a true apology! :)

  • Tell that to David's concubines!

  • @johnnysbubbletop63 Nobody's perfect, even from a man that was after God's own heart.

  • @ChippyChopper No. David really had concubines. They were just arguing over internet porn. Shows how much people actually READ!

  • @johnnysbubbletop63 Really confused...I didn't say you were wrong, although your comment on internet porn is a bit off.

  • @ChippyChopper That's not what he viddied in the last segment I twired? Thereby the whole argument & this apology thereafter. No. I haven't seen this, and will not pay money to see it neither.

  • @johnnysbubbletop63 Sorry, don't speak Ænglisc.

  • @ChippyChopper That's totally too bad, chum. You should.

    Ole Kirk's being stalked by the Kronborg Witches. Burn them! Their ghosts had behoten him foul hawberries from that time as revenge on James & his lineage.

  • @johnnysbubbletop63

    This movie is far more than an argument over internet porn. If you watch the movie, it's about their whole marriage. They were fighting nonstop, slept in separate bedrooms, and lost their love for each other, as well as other things. The moral of this movie is God teaches us how to love, and shows us what love really is. God, is what saved their marriage. So, no. This movie is not all about porn. It's about God and what he can do for us in marriage, and life.God bless!

  • @johnnysbubbletop63

    This movie is far more than an argument over internet porn. If you watch the movie, it's about their whole marriage. They were fighting nonstop, slept in separate bedrooms, and lost their love for each other, as well as other things. The moral of this movie is God teaches us how to love, and shows us what love really is. God, is what saved their marriage. So, no. This movie is not all about porn. It's about God and what he can do for us in marriage, and life.God bless!

  • That is real LOVE! Just imagine how many marriages end in divorce. They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” JESUS!

  • "who says I have to stop" best line <3

  • Well the movie carries the message successfully, of course the acting is not impeccable except for Kirk Cameron Because he is the only trained actor, most of the people in the film are people from the Director's own church who did not study acting. but I love this movie! I am single but It taught me so much!

  • I shared this movie with a friend which helped to save her marriage.

    Jesus Christ is more than able to save your broken marriage. Trust Him!

  • I felt blessed watching this movie.Many people underestimate the power of God in their marriages. It's important to stand by your partner, never leave your partner behind when there's fire! Thank you for this movie and i pray it will help us and many others .

  • well I think the performances were not great. but kirk cameron did a performance great, amazing

  • This movie is so difficult for me to watch, because it hits home. I pray that one day my spouse says these words not only to me, but to Jesus.

  • im going thru a seperation and trusting god

    

  • when he starts crying...that's when i lose it. beautiful.

  • @couzies ME TOO! I Cry EVERY TIME I SEE THIS, and I have seen it plenty. It's hard to explain to people who are not Christians WHY this movie is so powerful. One thing for sure, the story speaks to our hearts and souls. Christ said my sheep hear my voice, so I never worry about those who don't hear or see. This movie is for those who will.

  • One of the most powerful moments in this movie. 2nd only to the scene of Caleb and his father at the cross when Caleb explains his reasons for it not working and states that she's spat in his face. Only to have is father make him realize that he has done the same thing to Jesus. These two points in this movie broke me and are helping me get past my issues in my own marriage. We serve a mighty, powerful God who loves us unconditionally. No matter how badly we've wronged Him, He is there waiting.

  • Caleb Holts is a good man, but Kirk Cameron is even better. Do you know that Chelsea Noble (Kirk's wife) played as Catherine Holt double who appeared in the scene where Caleb and Catherine reconcile, as Cameron would not kiss any woman but his wife.

  • @centerbrook because he doesn't know that acting is actually playing pretend

    Trust me - it's not like ONE LITTLE KISS is going to make him into the coldest, sickest atheist there is.

  • @Malkmusianful

    Just because acting is pretend, doesn't mean that one should compromise their morals for it. Kirk Cameron made the right decision to have his wife stand in for the kiss in end of the movie. He doesn't want to commit adultery, even if it's for the sake of acting.

  • @centerbrook Great for him. If I were an actor, too ugly I guess, I wouldn't be kissing another woman either. How many marriages are ruined in Hollywood during the filming of a movie? Too many. Why? Because people PUT THEMSELVES in situations where temptations can cause relationships to develop. STAY AWAY from situations that can cause you to stray. Catherine didn't heed this advice & almost ended up a notch on Gavin's bedpost, for he wasn't going leave his wife for her.

  • 19 people don't know what God can do

  • This movie gets me every time. I love it and I think every dating and marriage couple should watch this movie.

  • this is one of my favorite movies and kirk cameron's best work ever. i loved every minute of it. even though ive loved most everything hes been in i had no idea he could act this good.

  • Wish there was a lot more Caleb Holts in the world!!!

  • awesome!

  • this is a amazing movie! i realy love it!

  • one thing i dislike from the movie is that the Catherine's character seems so innocent here. If a marriage doesnt work, it should be from both side. I almost cried for all the things Caleb did. But the wife? she wasnt giving attention to him as well at the beginning of the movie. Disrespectful. And (almost) cheated in the end. And then? Still Caleb is the one who begged? And she accepted him back only after knowing he paid? Doesnt make sense.

  • @geraldsitorus Its hard to understand, as you say it makes no sense, no logic, but if you see through the eyes of love, the true love of God and the lessons he teached us, forgiveness, no pride, respect for the other, patience, you can understand the "personal battle" that Caleb fought in the movie. I'm right now fighting that battle, believe me, its tough, its hard, worst than everything, but I have faith in Jesus that its worth the pain..

  • @geraldsitorus I agree that catherine's character should have handled things very differently but I also think the money had nothing to do with it. I think she finally believed that Caleb HAD changed when she found out about the money and that he wasnt just going through motions to get her back. she was getting nearer to believing but the revelation that he had paid AND concealed it made her truly know he was a changed man and she felt this so strongly that SHE wanted what he had!

  • i love these movie and made me cry for days

  • Probably the best 5 minutes every put on film.

  • This video fails to note that there are some people who don't belong in a marriage or even in a relationship in the first place. Obviously Kirk Cameron is playing a fictional character here, but there are very real people out there who are either shallow, self-absorbed, abusive, or downright just unlovable, that they have no business being in a relationship.

  • @DarthElk friend that describes how we relate to God when we lie lust steal murder and commit idolatry we are not very lovable but if allow God to move in our lives he can change our lives beyond words. so yes some people need to be single until they allow God to do his thing but rem our nature is shallow and self serving until we repent. God bless.

  • Two words: Tear. Jerker.

    Dang. I have seen this movie way too many times to count and I started tearing up at 3:00 before he'd even started apologizing!!!

  • This movie saved my marriage!!

  • @vienna70 This movie makes Jesus cry.

  • @vienna70 Really? I'm not a huge fan of this movie, but that's pretty cool if you're serious.

  • @vienna70

    No, God saved your marriage. He used this movie as a tool :)

  • @vienna70 No, YOU saved your message. Because you cared enough about it to do something sensible.

  • i love this movie i got it for christmas well actualy mi mom did ut i keep it in mi room and i watch it it bring tears to mi eye and reminds me pf how i should treat my girlfriend

  • Among Christian-tailored films, this kicked the crap out of "Facing the Giants"...Fell far short of "The Passion of the Christ", "The Prince of Egypt", and "To Save a Life" though.

    It's my dream to one day make mainstream films that have very well-disguised religious messages in order to reduce consumer bias. My favorite band Needtobreathe does the exact same thing with their song-writing and by selling on both the Christian and secular music markets. They're fantastic.

  • @BrotherAtticus Passion didn't have the gospel message in it.....though it was very accurate.

  • Yes the ideal is to remember if your married when arguments come, is to remember when the other person isn't being so lovable, we aren't alway's lovable to them.

  • me and my boyfriend are going on 3 years now and before he used to look at other girls and say things he shouldnt even.... but thro it all i was always by his side cause of how much love i had for him.... when he watched this with me he changed after it so much..... he treats me and our relationship so much better...... this movie has saved my relationship... im so thankful that god put him in my life... i love you Francisco. Eres el amor de mi vida. Te prometo amor eterno. <3

  • @Nizhonigiirl he should have married you

  • Even the best people endure hurts and heartaches in marriage. This humility and apology is amazing. This movie is amazing... every single married couple should watch it, especially if they are going through a rough patch, and especially if they are considering separation.

  • Even if your NOT CHRISTIAN don't let that stop you! This is a really spiritually awakening story, it speaks volumes to the truth beyond knowledge.(WARNING: contains a little provincial dogma.. )

    Probably the only thing it didn't address was that a couples love(spiritual bond) needs to grow beyond themselves, immediate family, friends & to include a growing love & compassion for animals & nature, however, for that I recommend watching PEACEABLE KINGDOM

  • So what happened? Did she catch him watching porn and threaten to leave him?

  • @valhar2000 youl just have to get the movie an watch it !!! i think its the best love movie there is ! an it helped understand more bout god !!

  • PPL I NEED HELP, BEFORE THAT PART CALEB LEAVED A NOTE TO HER. .WHAT THE NOTE SAID, OR WHERE IS THE VID TO SEE IT D=?

  • It would have been more cool that while he was apologizing, Godzilla came and totally destroyed the place and killed the two of them.

  • he should have took the divorce like a man ,,lol ,,,,,,,,, be nice if this worked for women ,, most of 'em are cold hearted , out to take on the world , but the world takes them

  • great scene...i wish my husband would fight for me/our marriage like caleb.

  • It's different when a guy starts to cry.

    Tugs the heartstrings stronger!

  • I am in a similar situation as him. This movie has helped me to see the error of my ways and to love my wife at a level that I have never been able to reach. Thank you for posting.

  • Wow. Normally I would have some smart remark to say but now...I do not know what to say. This looks like an excellent movie and I am downloading it now, as I am writing this. I will be hunting down the book next. I agree with the statement below God works in mysterious ways.

  • ♥ (:

  • this is the part of the movie that made me feel sorry for be a jerk to the most important girl in my life

  • Tx ppl.. i was about to ask the same question for this book.. I'm a buddhist but i agree with every single lesson from this movie.. 

  • 3:21 potatoe head :D loved this movie i have it lol its awesomeness haha

  • i never get tired of this movie ,i love watching it over n over and this part was the best part in all the movie

  • were can i get this book, can someone help mi.

  • it is my best scene and my best movie

    this movie can push me forward in my life

    i want to be caleb

  • I love how he apologizes with out laying blame on her, they both made mistakes but he truly used Gods Grace to apologize from the heart!

  • I feel like he took all the blame for the marriage failing, she had a role in the relationship going sour as well.

  • @mindseye66 Yes but he and you can only be responsible for your part not the other person's.

  • Beautiful movie

  • "So, what day are you on?",

    "Uh, 43...",

    "There's only 40"

    "Who says I have to stop?..."

    (I love that part...we shouldn't stop loving just because a book has a limit...love is a continuing cycle)

  • Watched this movie about a month and half ago and cried my eyes out. I knew our marriage was on the rocks, but two weeks ago, after being together 23 years, he told me time I woke up on a Sunday morning, that he had already found someone else and it was over. I've been with him since I was 15 years old and I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm destroyed.

  • I was SOBBING during this part the first time I watched Fireproof. I couldn't stop crying.

  • Everybody will die but the most important we do the best in our life's....hmm there is miracle in our life's..luckily when we have a soul mate until we die.....such as my parents....my mom is a lucky woman....I asked my mom, what's the secret to find out soul mate.......she answered......:)

  • I must admit I disregard much of the God talk, but beyond this, it's the most beautifully romantic movie I know.

  • This part of the movie puts tears in my eyes. Cus wE all do take our significant other for granted an not many of us have 2nd chances to make things right. This part makes my heart bleed because these are the hardest of times an its just good to know that no matter how dark things seem at the moment, that there is a bright side.

  • Does anyone else think that him bringing her chick fil a was soo romantic? <3

  • LOL. 

  • I just saw this movie and I love it !!! I'm soo glad I saw this!!! Has some facing the giants actors in it :) I wish many movies these days were based on these kind of happy movies

  • I bought the Love Dare book and it makes a big difference!

    Go to fireproofmymarriage(dot)com to find it!!!

  • Never leave your partner especially in a fire

  • just want to ask.. is that book really exist? may i know what's the title of that book?

  • @30nomad Yes it does exist, it's called the Love Dare. It wasn't "complete" from the beginning but was finished after people asked for the book after seeing the movie.

  • @ChippyChopper i own the book

  • @30nomad yep. i have the book. it's ironic though because i'm not even married, lol.

  • i wish i can let my friends see that movie......that movie change my life

  • @30nomad  i know where u can read the book online ^_^

  • @30nomad i think it does..but,dunno know the title

  • @30nomad Yes... It's called the Love Dare... Wriiten by Alex and Stephen Kendrick

    

  • i cried ="(

  • i recently broke up with GF. we were together for 4 years. and this apology says it all. it is almost to the letter of what i have done to her. I watched this movie 3 times now in the past 2 weeks. I have the book. and now i am going to be on day 3. i dont know how i will complete this journey, as our living situations will be changing soon. but i believe that GOD is taking control of my life now and i cant give up.

  • i need prayer for my situation. it is one that is not based on marriage like everyone elses. we were together 4 years. and now that all is said and done and she wants to move on. i am faced with giving up myself or doing this 40 day dare on her. I dont want to give up. i feel like GOD is leading me in this direction. i am on day 3. while it will be difficult because of living arrangements soon i am commited to doing this thing all the way through.

  • @mrhawksfan08 dont give up buddy cant let the devil have this one

  • i remember i was 14 when i was dying to see this movie. for my birthday all i wasnted was this dvd to watch it over and over again.. and i did. i even got the love dare book too. this part in the movie is where i cry every single time, forgivness. maybe one day when im married i wont have to do this, or have my husband to do this either. this movie was amazing, thank you !

  • well this movie is the best.

    i cry all the time i see it.

    my wife and i separate and this movie make me

    cry.God bless u guys for doing this movie.

  • i cried in this scene

  • This makes me cry. My fiancee and I watched this movie and it's helped our relationship.We could've split a few times, but we made a promise to never leave our partner behind, especially in a fire. I am thankful this movie was made. It touches the deepest part of the heart.

  • peRfect for 'd married Couple, very Heart Breaking ang Inspiring Movie..:)lovettT!

  • "I've learned you never leave your partner;

    especially during a fire"

    my favorite line in the whole movie and

    "Well, who say's I have to stop?"

  • I met kirk cameron in feb. They were showing this at a church in cali

  • Typical women, always cutthroat and ruining everything.

  • i cry everytime i watch this

  • welcome to the new normal=)...

  • i remembered i cried the first time i saw dis.

  • I heard Kirk Cameron is now a born again christian .....he is such a fake

  • i absolutely adore this movie! Kirk Cameron is such an amazing man!

  • I need to know if there are other movies like this out there. I'd like to have a collection of good, wholesome, clean movies that teach people about the important things, and that it is a sturggle to have them.

    If we're going to struggle in this world, then let us struggle towards things that will make us, others, or the world better.

    And does anyone have the Love Dare book online or something- I'm poor.

  • @gravyfunky

    Facing the Giants. Same people that did this movie.

  • To all these conservative gasbags that think this movie displays any real acting, get a clue.

  • Wow. I feel bad for you.

  • the apology really comes from heart because he learned to LOVE!!! <3 so sweet and true!

  • God, I pray that all those who are struggling through, or with the thought, of divorce find peace and love in You! You ARE love, Lord! I pray that You put Your hand upon their hearts, and heal them through You!

  • forgive me..

  • agreed... I'm on day 41, and we've been changed for good. :)

  • i originally bought this movie because of the guy that plays caleb holt. but as i watched it, i was floored! it grabs your heart and mind and makes you better appreciate the people in your life!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!

  • SOOOO sweet. <3 Most amazing movie ever.

  • I just bought the book... the one he uses in the film... its amazing.. Looks identical to it too with the leather finish.. I bought it at borders for about $20.... I'm only on day 2 but its brings forth a rare but nice challenge... try it... it has valuable quotes from the bible.. that are just truely amazing....

  • its so hearttouching movie and surely God does move through this!

  • Cena preferida...

    Favorite scene.

  • this is a great movie and it showes you things.

  • It's too late now... for me...I only wish...I had found this 4 1/2 yrs ago.....).:

    WOW...what a powerful message! <3

  • NO..it is NEVER too late.... Marriage can be reconciled at ANY point.

  • @randl1003

    You are right, my wife and I were married for 15 years, than we divorced for 3, and now we are remarrying. My love for her has grown 10x and will continue to grow each day. I feel my love for her and she shows the love to me.. We have both learned.... thank you for your post..

  • @frei2006 wow,what a great testimony congrulations

  • Wow! So sorry we have never noticed all these comments here!

    You all are so kind! I also cried... (sobbed) ;0(

    thru most of the movie!

    We are part of a street ministry that obatined a license to show this movie, and believe it has changed many peoples lives!!!

    Thank God for all who made this movie possible!

  • I cryed Like a Baby in this part

  • This is my all time favourite scene. In real life with pride we cannot make confessions to many people. Its really difficult to humble ourselves like this.

  • This is by far the most amazing movie.

    I am 17 years old this movie has changed the way i look at my life and my relationships with everybody.

    Nothing is impossible but its worth a try to work on everything.<3

  • A female freind of mine divorced her husband because he was molesting their daughter. A lady at work divorced her husband because several shrinks told her he wasn't going to stop beating her until she was dead. My best friend divorced his wife because she wouldn't stop sleeping with her best friends husband. Trust me people there are many marriages out there that aren't "Fireproof". Most people that I have known have tried to work it out with faith, and eventually got divorced for good reasons.

  • all those men who were so abusive and molesting your friend's daugther...are they Christian who practice christianity? that is the main point...Jesus. And you gave more strong reasons with these points why we need Jesus, We must repent , give fruits of repentances and faith in Jesus

  • The lady at work who divorced her abusive husband is an evangelical. The lady who divorced he husband who was raping their daughter is also a christian. The entire church of my friend with the cheating wife took his side on the divorce (including his in-laws). The makers of this film literally think that the majority of divorces are for cornball reasons like the couple in this movie. Some churches do tell people to go back to their cheating or abusive spouces and work it out.

  • @Links1776 Actually this church is not, they are a ctually maping out what a Godly Marriage is supposed to be. And all i can say for those other supposied Christians is im SORRY , because hypocrites give Jesus a bad name and really thats not what christians are suposed to do and thats the actions that God the Father or Christ would emulate!

  • Thats why Jesus is needed. In the abusive marriage the guy was an evangelical but obviously didn't have a clear picture of Jesus and how God loves and honors women. The marriage with molestation, the wife was a Christian but what about the father?

    It is because people don't have a clear image of Jesus Christ that they do what they do. If people really knew God and who he is the love for his creation a lot of those situations wouldn't happen.

  • alot of anger..thats to bad... saying your a chrisitan (or attending church) does not mean you are a practicing one!!!

  • Amein... i totally agree.

    You can go live in your garage if you want to...

    bit it doesn't make you a car.

  • I adore this film! this film bring me the peace between me and my boyfriend....They will be a better couple with this film...Thank you to all....

  • Hoping that my husband will one day understand what love is about. God give me the faith to not give up on the dream.

  • @wifeita

    Have him watch this film, perhapes it will get him thinking.

  • Hey flyingbracho....DONT give up. I left my husband back in Feb because he ignored me, was hateful to me when he wasnt ignoring me, said hateful, harsh words to me...when I left, I filed for divorce, our divorce was finalized the end of april. the end of may, we got back together....although divorced, our hearts still belonged together, dont give up hope...I was gone for 4 months and now here we are together, a new beginning for us....we will remarry when its right timing, so DONT GIVE UP

  • Everyone shold understand who needs to participate in the Love Dare. It's not the person or person doomed in the relationship. It's the person that realizes the relationship is doomed. Trust God that upon your conviction, the other person will follow.

  • What I wouldn't give for Jarrod to say that to me!! But he doesn't love me anymore, I guess. Pray for Laura and Jarrod.

  • keep your chin up girl....pray every day....and continue to show him love even when he turns it away, it hurts, yes...i know i have been there! but keep on keeping on, he married you, so he had to love you...and it can be rekindled!!!! good luck and god bless...ill be praying for you!

  • If he doesn't then he wasn't meant to. Continue to hold to the lord and one day the right person will say words even sweeter than those to you. God bless you.

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  • I love this movie! It is mine and my husband's story.

  • God is Love

  • I wonder if they are really crying?

  • heres where the tears come...............

  • This character really knows how to apologize to a woman. He knew exactly what he'd done wrong and he didn't blame her for his actions. He took responsibility for his own actions and decisions. We should all ask forgiveness of others...with the same heart. "God forgive us of our trespasses as we forgive others who trespass against us."

  • this is a very good film that talks about how two people can make their marriage work... it's not cheesy at all,it''s very true.

  • agreed!

  • she doesn't seem very sick...

  • This is so precious!

  • This is so beautiful. Makes me cry.

  • film critics say this film is only for the "self-indoctrinated". They can say that, but that doesn't mean Christians are BAD.

    And they may known a good deal MORE about the importance of marriage than secular atheists.

    Josiah

  • im so scared ima cry with this clip.. lets see if i will

  • This movie is powerful... I love it. It makes me cry soooooooooooooooo much.

  • very sad...

  • Did a woman write this scene? Kirk did a great job!

  • This movie reminds me of this song: watch?v=C_uFn7UI6e8

  • hey as a giuy who has straggled to be like Caleb i have been forgiven by my wife for all the wrong that i have done

  • and yet your on youtube

  • plss anyone could tell me how i get this movie?? need to watch the whole film..

    GBU

  • go to Walmart and buy it, =]

    I am sorry it was to easy.

  • christan book shops usually have this

    enjoy!!! I cannot watch it without crying

    cheers

    allan

  • Yes, Catherine was wrong too but remember she is not a Christian at this point in the movie. You can't expect a non-Christian to live like a Christian. Later she does give her heart to Christ, We don't know what was said between them then but Im sure there were many restorations made then as well. This movie is about men and women honor and loving their spouse!

  • Welcome to the New Normal.

  • Godbless you all!

  • This is the greatest movie ever made!Even though the Love Dare didn't work in my situation. It still changed my life. I will always live and love more effectively because of this movie and the book.

  • The greatest movie ever made..... My wife left me over a year ago and just filed for divorce because i was a terrible husband for over 11 years, then i saw this movie and the movie along with God has changed my life, i have bought the love dare book and i am doing it hoping that my wonderful wife will see the change God has made in me.....anyone that will, please pray for our family,,,, we have an 11 year old son that is taking it harder than me....

  • God Knows, lay your trust on Him.