secret lovers

[malusarbor]

This is such a great point, about emotions and actions. My dad always said to me "Love is a choice", and I feel like a lot of what you just said holds true with that saying. This show is suprisingly well done and sincere. Good for you guys, really.

[BrainStorm633]

ur hot!!! i like people with glasses....

[aquamarine17baby]

you guys give really great advice, im glad my friend introduced me to this lol

[ELCyberWhiz10]

thank you so much for posting this video. your advice makes so much sense and really resonates with me about a guy i'm having a lot of trouble getting over. but whether you're talking about a man or a woman, relationships are so complex and it's all about where each person is in his/her life...

(by the way, you're pretty hot) :D

[karslife]

i'm a full grown lesbian but kade you are the cutest guy i've ever seen ;) lol

[itsallgoodTV]

I've watched a bunch of the Beaver's try to answer this question, and I'm thinking that regardless of what the other person is or at what level they're at in their relationship it basically becomes a maturity level. regardless of you orientation, being able to function in a relationship takes a certain level of maturity especially when sex becomes part of that relation whether its an activity or an identity. I would say if someone isn't ready, then don't advance the relationship too far. ools

[beththebookworm]

Good advice Kade. Also, join the world of mac users. They make so much more sense.

[erienspice]

Oh yes, I am the same way (the semi-biseual thing), because I love Hugh Jackman.

Erin

[zzonicwave]

Kade, U R a SUPER wise guy. I love how you stand by your views no matter what.. If the world is spining up right, why not going down left if that's where your soul hears its calling from right? Fascinating personality. LOVE IT!

Brilliant minds make it possible and loving hearts make it great! Peace out!

[sethorlando]

you are so right kade and cute too! :D

why the hell do all the people on this channel have to be so good looking, damn you lesbians for been so attractive lol

[downinthatgrass]

Attractive? Yes. Lesbian? No. Affirmed male!! :)

[bummercucumber]

Great advice!

[SalamanderNatsu]

thanks kade

[missdivinestalls]

Your advice was great. I would not stay with that person. Their insecurities will only cause problems and make the other person feel like they are ashamed of them. And get a Mac pronto! Once you get used to it they are GREAT.

[joeylondonxo]

I got linked from 5awesomegays,

Question: Are you a girl(?) boy(?)

=)

I'm a gay guy btw xo

[animeshadow11]

he is a trans from f to m.

[RainbowRawr909]

Kade, you have really good advice. I don't think anyone could've said it better.

[marisolvelazquez218]

so spot on Kade!!

ur always so wise & this will help me or any other person out there that may need this as a reference to know that everything will be alright, u just have to know that things will get better & u have to take baby steps..

:)

[xyzGanz]

so wise kade

[fsubabydyke33]

<3 great video Kade!

[Justagirl551]

that was such good advice, kade. people really do confuse the difference between love as an action and love as an emotion. the action part is much more important.

[Saralalalalove]

I just love the Beaverbunch!

These kinds of advice that come from experiences are really valuable.

I mean who knows it better than someone who lived true these kinds of situations. And ofcourse I know everyone has a different view on things, but the fine red line through all of the beavers video's is almost always the same!

You help a lot of people deal with a lot of situations!

Thank you so much guys!

[wordsforthewind]

"a week full of beavers ahead of me" lol

But seriously, great vid.

[danaalekseev]

well said kade...

[sdakotag]

I love your answer!!!!

[xXinnocence31Xx]

kade ur awesome!

ur such like an intellectual person & always have something completely unique 2 say. u definitely make me look at things in a different light

i appreciate that, keep it up =]]

[stephaniekwilkinson]

Haha just read your description Kade =) I hope the macbook fairy comes your way. I dont know what I'd do without the beaver bunch or where I'd be without it, every video is like priceless to me and every beaver too.

Thanks

[AmandaWiddifield]

thank you kade :)

[MattyMassacre666]

My Ex Is A Bisexual but ... i didnt like it cause i feel like he was doing stuff with girls

[900angryangel]

I just want to give you a big hug. :)

[lunargirlxx]

i liked the part about love as an emotion and love as an action - i am trying hard to set clearer boundaries between the two

[whatzername922007]

Love you Kade :)

[courtneyBLURR]

you're very inspirational. I think the whole secret dating this is hard but if you love the person.. work through it.

I'm going through it right now for almost TWO years, she's Muslim. so.. it's hard. But i'm so in love it doesn't matter.