this makes sense too man, i remember a time when i simply walked near this one girl at a party, she said, "well im not dancing with YOU!" it pissed me off becuse i didnt even say anything to her
Yeah, I guess they just assume certain guys are certain ways based on how they look, which is very wrong. If she did that to you, then she's not even worth it. Thanks for your comment.
I like the way you think, you are great with explaining this. And your view on Extroverts and Introverts paraphrased nicely. I hope you can think of a solution as well. We should definitively talk about this more. Take Care.
Yeah I completely understand the reason behind being shy. It is exhausting to be denied by people multiple times. Extroverts recharge by being with people and introverts like us recharge by being alone. Im going to think of a solution for this because all I want to say is we have to have a no expectation policy because it helps with the insecurity. But I know it can be better explained, Ill think.
Wow, a video response. That's awesome! Try not to worry too much about how it starts out, just make sure you cover everything you wanted in the video. I look forward to seeing it =)
i think i'm going to try to approach a shy person next time i'm at a party. most definitely. the only reason why i haven't done that in the past is becuase i'm a really awkward person, and shy people are normally pretty awkward, and double awkwardness=really bad. soooo yeah.
Be who you are no matter what. Some people get amusement from shy people. But not in a bad way. Shy people are sweet. ... or evil
AdrianThePedestrian 3 years ago
Ha, trying to approach someone (atleast where I live) is like standing in front of a bus, and hoping that the bus will stop before it hits you.
I would approach more people if I didn't have so much to lose XP
I just thought I'd that with everyone.
Crazydvc 4 years ago
this makes sense too man, i remember a time when i simply walked near this one girl at a party, she said, "well im not dancing with YOU!" it pissed me off becuse i didnt even say anything to her
sephious159 4 years ago
Yeah, I guess they just assume certain guys are certain ways based on how they look, which is very wrong. If she did that to you, then she's not even worth it. Thanks for your comment.
-Richard
rammad27 4 years ago
I like the way you think, you are great with explaining this. And your view on Extroverts and Introverts paraphrased nicely. I hope you can think of a solution as well. We should definitively talk about this more. Take Care.
-Richard
rammad27 4 years ago
Yeah I completely understand the reason behind being shy. It is exhausting to be denied by people multiple times. Extroverts recharge by being with people and introverts like us recharge by being alone. Im going to think of a solution for this because all I want to say is we have to have a no expectation policy because it helps with the insecurity. But I know it can be better explained, Ill think.
ouREvilone 4 years ago 2
oh man...I've been trying to make a video response to this. I have like 5 takes already. It's pretty funny how I can't talk to the camera. :P
anemotionalweek 4 years ago
Wow, a video response. That's awesome! Try not to worry too much about how it starts out, just make sure you cover everything you wanted in the video. I look forward to seeing it =)
-Richard
rammad27 4 years ago
Another good response to MaggieLikesArt! Yeah, I'm a shyguy too, and I agree with pretty much everything Richard said. *nods* *nods*
-- David
bokokun 4 years ago
i think i'm going to try to approach a shy person next time i'm at a party. most definitely. the only reason why i haven't done that in the past is becuase i'm a really awkward person, and shy people are normally pretty awkward, and double awkwardness=really bad. soooo yeah.
maggielikesart 4 years ago
I understand the awkwardness...wait are you saying that I'm awkward??? =0
-Richard
rammad27 4 years ago
Wait, shy people are awkward AS PEOPLE, or are you saying that they would probably FEEL awkward when they're approached? :/
Crazydvc 4 years ago