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  • Girls are expected by society to be social creatures. I think women who have autism or aspergers have a hard time because they are seen by other women as being awkward and they don't know how to act around them. That's why I turn to men for social support because they're more accepting of differences. I was picked on SO BAD in elementary and high school because of my aspergers. I am not ashamed anymore and check out my piano channel, you'll see that I clearly love music!

  • Those girls picking on her just have no tolerance. Reminded me of my days in elementary and high school. 

  • She is a real true inspiration to everyone. I really think that all the other girls should have been a lot nicer and more knowledgable about autism.

  • sorry but these nasty bitches should go back to school and get an education dumb nasty bitches

  • Aspergers, Bipolar, Autism, manodepression etc etc is just labels that mental health experts put on people for making a diagnosis more easy. Like labeling a product in a store. Being bullied for having these labels is therefore not logical. Aspies can be very nice to talk to if you get them out of their shell. Their view of the world is something very interesting and it has an innocent vibe to it.

  • So cute at 6:04

  • "You don't suffer from Asperger's. You suffer from other people" --Tony Atwood

  • This message isn't to 'a large group', as most psychologists + families see we are beautiful: ...but as an autistic person, per se, it is very distressing that USA 'professionals' talk about us like we are diseased. We have difficulties; AND talents, we are angels, not retards.

    It is not accurate, or moral, to wish that we were different: WE don't!

    Yes we have great difficulties; but only to begin with; until we find our centre. Please then, don't reject/'cure' our SELVES! (Not that one can.)

  • i have asperges aswell its sucks heather is beautiful inside and out and kimberly is a mean bitchy girl im glad she went home the second time

  • Every girl there except for Victoria and Heather are just cum dumpsters. That's all they're good for...being human toilets for men to ejaculate into.

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  • Heather has this "innocent" vibe to her. The other girls just prance around like hookers. I keep expecting them to pull off their clothes.

  • i like you because i didn't get it and i didn't understand myself because a lover isn't a liar

  • I have Aspergers. This video has really moved me. I don't watch ANTM but Heather has really inspired me to be strong and hold my head up high. A lot of those other girls sound really bitchy :/

  • @harpsealpup86 i think i have it too :/ i know what heather is going through

  • I feel sooooo bad for Heather and man those girls are rotten!!!

  • it sucks having asperger's especially when you're around allot of negative ppl. i've noticed i've picked up some stuf and it's going to start getting me in trouble but having trouble stopping doing it. i was fine when i was going from job to job and just being at home or on my bicycle. think i'm going to just shut up and keep to myself cus when i try to be social it doesn't end up well now adays.

  • Heather is an inspiration! I have something similar to aspergers called dyssemia and I know exactly how she feels :(

  • still dont get wat aspergers/autism is but anyways...

  • @abigailsID it's a mild form of autism, i would never call an aspie autistic unless they happened to have classic autism, aspergers is defined as people having social inadequices, like being distant from groups, bad eye contact, bad social awareness, some depression/anxiety, paranoid about others talking about them behind their backs/more...i know b/c i have it

  • @Iruotnem what causes that kind of behavour though. because being distant from groups can be caused by social phobia or other things.

  • @abigailsID another symptom is having limited/narrow interests so while others are playing sports/video games/drinking, one w/aspergers may have no interest so are put aside....there's a scene where everyone is playing in the pool and she is at the side holding a book i believe

  • I know what it's like. I'm a female with Aspergers. It can be hard in social situations. KEEP FOLLOWING YOUR DREAMS!!

  • KIMBERLY IS SUCH A F***ING BITCH!!! HEATHER WON'T "CLING" TO YOU!!

  • Yay for Victoria for not being a bitch. she understands how Heather is feeling.

  • I have autism a mild case of it. and when I see girls a lot I get all shy cause I can't go up and say hi

  • Wow, what bitches.

  • wow... what a bunch of stupids whores assholes**** Karma never fails... They can have kids with autism and can be bullied too... 

  • wow... what a bunch of stupids whores assholes**** Karma never fails... They can have kids with autism and can be bullied too...

  • Is this from "America's Top Model"?

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  • My 8 year old daughter has Asperger's as well and I would love to kick the ass of each one of those bitches who were making fun of Heather. Watching Heather on that show reminded me so much of my own daughter. It's heartbreaking to know my sweet natured child will be subjected to similar things in her life. My daughter loves everyone she meets with an open heart and mind and to know there are people who will hurt her for the fun of it makes my blood boil. WTF is wrong with people??

  • I would be that girl's friend. I'd be her boyfriend. That is... If she wasn't already seeing someone which she is. If only she knew she had a secret admirer. Wait... She probably has a lot of them.

  • omg.. how bitchy they are! :o

    how can they be so stupid to her? i would never ever be like that to anyone, espically not anyone with aspergers. i actually like heathers personality and i would like to be her friend if i were there. and i love how heather name was called first and all the girls got like jealous hahaha.

  • to tell you the truth I loved the fact she was shy. Shy doesnt mean without personality and I also think being shy in the fashion world is something original.

  • ....and I never watched ANTM again >{

  • That Kimberly is the biggest bitch!

    I loved Heather <3

  • @Lexigiggles

    i agree. talk about prejudice!

  • It's sad how they gossiped about here as if they were in middle school or high school again... I'm aspie as well but I couldn't see myself doing thatO.O

  • I just LOVE how those bitches talk about Heather like she's fucking deaf or something. Heather is beautiful! Those girls apparently never grew up knowing someone who had some form of autism...I wish their parents would of taught them not to judge others who are a little different than they are.

  • heather's awkwardness is beautiful. She is stunning inside and out.

  • I have aspergers syndrome, and it's very hard to explain. If anyone were to ask, I'd just say, "It's an Autism Spectrum Disorder." lol

  • "so do you like see the world differently than like me?"

    yes bitch, every person in the world sees all things differently than you do.... somebody pump some more air into that head!!!

    there's a lot of talk about how people w/ autism have no theory of mind, but I see a lot of DUMB SCANDALOUS BITCHES who have no regard for other human beings and see others as objects to for their own exploitation and gain.... WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO TRUST ANYONE LIKE THAT!!!

  • what a pretty girl in and out...the rest is just nasty idiots

  • this video made me cry. it's hits close to home because i too have Asperger's and i've been through the same ordeal as Heather (except the whole modeling thing). i really hate those bitches talking smack about her. just because the rest of them are model-wannabes doesn't mean they have to act like cunts to those who aren't born "normal". only women like Heather embodies true beauty INSIDE AND OUT! i'm a fan!

  • i have high funtioning autism and they way heather was treated in this show makes me sick. people are so damn ignorant "she has all this disabilaties and stuff"....sounds like the girl who came out with that joke of a scentence is the one with a disability. heather was the most striking girl there and the other girls all knew that and that her aspergers gave her something different, and they were just jealous. i am glad she has gone on to be successful

  • I promise I'm going to stop watching antm. those kind of shows explore the feelings of those who are watching and the models. But the models might not even care about it, the important thing is getting a job and fame to at least most of them.

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  • I have AS too. I know how she feels.

  • Those girls are evil and I hope they drown in urine.

  • She's so beautiful and so photogenic, and i think it was really brave of her to go into this competition because lots of people would be too scared. All those girls bitching and whispering about her are so low. Just because there's something different about her it doesnt make her any less able to model. xx

  • heather is like the prettiest girl here, those other bitches are just ugly and im not just saying that to build her up, i mean seriously look at all those other girls compared to her!! she seems like she has substance to where the other girls just look fuckin stupid and are all average lookin and ugly to me.

  • "She has all these like different disabilities and stuff but this is a competition" lmao wow way to show your ignorance Kimberly. She just has one and the Asperges Syndrome. Its a social disorder, in no way does it affect her modeling ability. I should know, I'm a model with as.

  • Some of these women are real bitch-a -roonie-doonies

  • they were so jelaous,because they knew she was the best of all of them. she is very successful- she is now working abroad in China, and is signed with Elite at their Hong Kong office and i think she did the best of all of them !

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  • OMG I LOVE VICTORIA AND HEATHER SO MUCH! Then the other 4 I mention

  • I love Heather,Saleisha,Chantal,Lisa , Sarah and of course VICTORIA!

  • @Lovejoyfanatic saleisha is mean, i dont really like her

  • is it just me or does she always walk hunched back?

  • @hangv001 ppl with AS usually have poor posture

  • When I was watching this season of ANTM, I can't believe some of the ways that the other girls treated Heather. Some of them were nice, and tried to help, and others were just horrible. Heather's one of the coolest people on this show! I have Aspergers, and she's helped show me that you can adapt to these situations and stuff. Its hard, but possible. She's a brilliant person, I can't believe the way people treated her!!

  • I watched this season and i still think it's wrong that she went out when she did (because she got lost of the go-sees so didn't see enough designers). No sense of direction is a common trait in people with Autism all across the spectrum. Being a professional model she would of had someone with her to help with the directions.

  • Heather made me cry after watching this (since i've got Asperger's too). i'd cry when i see women like me on the spectrum making big strides & achievements in life. after watching these bitches talk smack behind her back, i realize i despise NTs even more. i think they're a bunch of ungrateful, manipulative, superficial assholes thinking that they're better than anyone who aren't like them. i'm so proud of Heather for showing the world what a truly beautiful person inside & out really is!

  • i like heather

  • I hate Kimberly attitude!!

  • I had the same experience with other girls and women and still get judged even today. Why can't people just accept people's differences?

    The world would be a better place!

  • one thing: heather had asbergers, not autism. still, it's nice to see a vid bout heather

  • Heather would be the best rolemodel in ANTM. I really love her :) so strong person.

  • BTW, I would never have picked Heather out as someone with autism. She seems way more normal or "normal" sorry, than I. I'm jealous of her lol. She is way more adjusted than me.

  • than I?

  • to be fair, this was in 2007 and we know more about autism and or aspergers now. *I* know more about it. I knew about it but i had no idea just how regular someone can act with it. I always suspected i had it but I wasn't sure....and now i'm sure just by watching people like this girl and reading up on it. So just remember, I hear that they learn more and more about it every year and this was 2007 so there was a lot more ignorance than now, even though there is still ignorance about it.

  • Aww i know how she feels :(

    :| at least shes the most sane out of all of them, their all mean bitchens, reminds me of my life with other girls i know.

    Your inspirational to me Heather and your very beautiful keep doing what you believe in! :D

  • Me too.

  • I like how Victoria is not doing talking behind Heather's back all the time and thats the strongest part of Victoria's character but Heather to me is the best girl in ANTM History!

  • aspergers is a form of autism and heather likened it to autism herself. as someone with aspergers myself, i find more people are familiar with the term autism than they are with the term aspergers syndrome, so if it's explained that way people are more prone to understand if it's explained that way.

  • aspergers IS autism, it's on the autistic spectrum.

  • @tuberman97 I've heard someone with it explain it as a person with a half autistic brain, and half "regular" brain. I don't know if a doctor would necessarily say that but i think there is some truth to that.

  • (I know some say Neuro typical but I don't know how many people are familiar with that term)

  • GOOOOO Heather!! Go Go Go

    You are the most normal girl in the house!!

    In PORTUGAL everyone loves you!!!

    BIG kiss from PORTUGAL

  • I don't remember who won in 07 cycle but I still remember Heather and her struggle with the beeyotches in the house. I know Heather will go far in life!

  • Heather's talk with her mom made me wanna cry :(

  • ebony and salisha are bitches to heather

  • Heather don't pay attention to those neurotypical bitches you fine as hell i have asperger's u sexier then them be you f those haters

  • fuck u racist bitch, die slow

  • I wish to pass on to heather; I'm in the same boat. I have Aspergers Syndrome. I didn't always know; I knew I was different; but didn't know what the heck it was.

    For other viewers, maybe confused, Heather didn't ask for her condition; just like I didn't ask for my condition.

    My condition did not stop me from marrying. It didn't stop me from having a halfway decent job when the economy was in halfway decent shape. Almost everyone that was a genius had some amount of autism.

  • Funny how the bitches who always bash a girl are ALWAYS outlasted by that girl.

  • heather is sweet i think the other girls are being mean i think that heather is being ok and the girls are making such a mean fuss and making fun of her she cant help it so the other girls just dont like her mean.

  • i've got asperger's syndrome too i feel the same way with heather of how the girls are making of her.i was made fun of the same way with other girls in school because of my awkward behavior.but the girls are jealous because heather is very special.heather would be a good role model for people with autism.

  • very much so and while i've never watched the show all the way through, i read somewhere that heather said they actually didn't make fun of her as much as the show made it look like and it was just because of what they chose to air.

  • you sound exactly like me

  • God bless your heart to be more loving & accepting. We are all the same inside, abled, disabled, black, white, yellow, & other. WE ARE ALL THE SAME. I pray God reveals this to you with His love.

  • Well...the girls were nice to Heather later on in the competition, especially Chantal. I also remember seeing parts where Bianca was giving Heather some good advice and Saleisha fussing over her when she fainted....and they were supposed to be the big bullies? It's all about how the show's edited.

    Btw, Heather is so effing beautiful. i could stare at her all day. smart and funny too.

  • 0:52 I think Chatntels big fat mouth hurt her in the competition...................­.someone please smack that girls lips off her ugly face!

  • Chantels*

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  • I too have autism, I LOVE HEATHER!!!!!! I'd ask her to marry me if I ever met her, lol!

  • haha:)

  • @cmjr89 So true, I have aspergers as well. People keep saying I am weird and retarded, they are really mean. It is not my fault. I did not ask to have it. But it is what makes me...me. I agree with what you are saying

  • Heather should have won this cycle.

    EVERYONE HAS SOCIAL RETARDEDNESS IN THEM.

    Some people are just a bit more sensitive in social situations, and im not surprised she didnt want to be around these bitches.Bianca was a spiteful clown to her the most, shes ugly inside and out.

  • She is so special and beautiful

  • I feel sooo bad for Heather, when she cried it broke my heart. But in reality she's just another human being. who DOESNT have problems?

  • So, do you like .. see the world different.. than me? or something, yeah do you see differently than us? like .. totally.

  • in that interaction it seemed like they were trying to get to know her better and what it was like for her. but for most of the clip, most of the girls came across as weirded out by her. its understandable that they'd never met anyone like her before but even all the girls who were like 'i'm open minded..i believe everyone deserves a chance' well i'm sure they meant well by saying such things but there's still a hint of superiority in a statement like that.

  • I love Heather! She's a pretty girl and she's so different than the other girls... Those other girls are fucking bitches. If I would be in their places, I would try to be friends with her.

    In Holland we're in cycle 9 of antm, really weird, 'cause I allready know that Shaleisha wins.

    Sorry, my English isn't very good, I'm Dutch and I can't speak English very well, but I'm trying...;)

  • heather is really cool:)

  • i love Heather. She is just so special. Many people are trying to be special all their lives... she was born that way.

  • heather is gorgeous and if I could I would marry her, those other girls are bitches they have no right to make fun of her like that? she suffers from a disorder but yet they make fun of her and treat her like crap. she is beautiful and so talented. people shouldn't be bringing her down like that. she doesn't deserve it

  • hey buddy, remember me? I called her first

  • My god! These bitches are mean! Heather seems to be a cool person. I would love to be friends with her.

  • I loved Heather. I cried when she didn't win. What I really want is for her to outshine the winners as a model. I want her to be successful because she was the best they ever had. And I can't believe they kept that bitch Jennah around in favor of her, I will never understand that.

  • I have never watched this show, but heard about Heather from a friend of mine who happens to be a big fan of Tyra Banks as well as this show. I have an 8 year old son with AS and since hearing about Heather she has become one of my biggest inspirations. Seeing Heather's drive and determination is amazing to me and gives me hope for my son.

    Heather knowingly and willingly put herself in to a situation that would seem impossible to most people with AS and handled it beautifully and with grace

  • Never in my life have I seen a more genuine, sweet, compassionate and humble human being that is as beautiful externally as they are internally.

  • How far did Heather get? I hope she won this!!!!!!

  • that i'm not sure. i know she didn't win but i think she got pretty far in the competition.

  • Heather and Victoria are probably the nicest people we have ever seen in ANTM

  • i hate bianca.

  • Just look at Heather, she's beautiful, intelligent, cool and nice. All the others were asses who made fun of her just because she was different... Presumably they were just effing jealous because she was the best.

  • they are all like yay lets pick on the kid with the handcap FUCKING BITCHES i hate it how the fake bitch won yay another girl like whitney and nicole I HATE YOUR TASTE TYRA!!

  • It's hard enough for people with AS to find their place in this world without people being superficial and downright ignorant to their disability.

    Heather is an inspiration to people with AS everywhere. To the others who had nothing more to do than make fun and not understand remember...beauty is only skin deep. Ugly is bone deep.

  • The Heather's of the world go through hell. All the petty jealousies of most of the other girls come out in full fangs. The fact is, Heather has an absolutely captivating presence. This must have been like swimming in a pool full of sharks for her. Good job. Victoria seemed quite nice too.

  • Miss J.'s afro is becoming bigger and bigger every episode in this cycle! I just noticed!

  • i was pretty upset knowing HEATHER eliminated...honestly i cried!! she deserve to be the ANTM.. i really love her,,, the whole personality... why they just dont eliminate jenah if she has attitude problem!!! i just hope heather will continue her dreams,,, for me she is the real ANTM,, i have no reason to watch ANTM since HEATHER is not there!!! if i only have a chance to meet her well that would be a dream come true for me,,,

  • i was pretty upset knowing HEATHER eliminated...honestly i cried!! she deserve to be the ANTM.. i really love her,,, the whole personality... why they just dont eliminate jenah if she has attitude problem!!! i just hope heather will continue her dreams,,, for me she is the real ANTM,, i have no reason to watch ANTM since HEATHER is not there!!! if i only have a chance to meet her well that would be a dream come true for me,,,

  • doesn't saleisha suck???? Heather rawks shes damn gorgeous

  • I love Heather. I too have Asperger's and am in my early twenties. She is a huge source of inspiration to me and I can totally relate to the kind of cattiness she endured from the other girls on that show. Heather is the best!

  • i find her the prettiest in her cycle , all the best to you . btw i got asperger's too

  • God them bitches were stupid.

  • i know! they're so mean and bitchey. they have no fuckin clue she has a mental disability.

  • @moosh67

    what really made them bitchy was that they DID know she had a disability and made fun of her anyway.

  • heather was actually the most intelligent behaving one of them all, the rest were dittohead zombies .... ironic, huh?

  • heather was the best person on antm outa every season exept natasha lol

    but shes the winner in my book and salishas a piss bag

  • I agree with portia RULZ!

    Heather and Natasha had the proper attitude, intellegence and the most amazing photographs. They could pull off any type of photo shoot that was thrown at them.

  • I really don't like those other girls! They really picked on Heather.

    She's the winner in my book!!!

  • she was hot to

  • ive got same problem with heather..

    im so happy that she came to antm :)

  • i cant believe saleisha won. shes now out of work so lmfao

  • @0dour

    not only that but, from what i've heard heather has been pretty successful :).

  • heather is stunning... and seems like such a kind hearted person.. i hope she realizes just how beautiful she is, and know that she has a big modelling future ahead of her!=)

  • heather is my inspiration she is so real and she is very beautiful she deserved to win

  • i love heater, she's so sweet :]

    she's antm winner for me:)

  • why didn she win? like models have to think alot and she couldnt? nigel dindnt recognise it...

  • holy crap kimberly's a bitch >:] , antm was only shown in our country a couple weeks back& by far, i think heather is great and her awkward-ness is cute. this video show us that a lot of people nowadays are more uncaring than what we think. HEATHER ROCKS!

  • i totally agree...people with autism don't cling they tend to push away. I have a son with autism I know how they act. They like affection on their own terms. Kim is a SUPER bitch. Heather was the best and still is!

  • for me, being autistic, the most "clingy" ill get would probably to copy peoples mannerisms as a kid. kimberley needs to spend some time on youtube. and get some character.

  • @Griffin9857 Nah, she needs to spend some time in a convent and learn some compassion.

  • @misspinkpunkykat That could work... :)

  • I don't understand why Tyra felt the need to annonce Heathers disability. Its almost like she sees her as less then the other girls. But thats just my opinion.

  • announcing a disability is a two-edged sword...it can hurt or help. Autism tends to make people withdraw and the fact that she wants to be in photographs, which is hard for people with that disability is amazing and it means that you can do anything. On the other hand it could make people feel sorry for you, but it was obvious that Heather didn't want pity. She just wanted people to be aware of it and treat her like a human being. I think it was awesome of her to remove some of the stigma.

  • I agree aquaruanbabe

    But I believe she is the one who should have told the judges or anyone else that she has that disability. No one else should have said anything.

  • @aquarianbabe

    it is definitely a two-edged sword in that way.

    as far as tyra announcing it: i guess it was fair game once heather made the fact of her asperger's syndrome known when she first auditioned. i didn't get the vibe that tyra thought of her as less than the other girls, if anything it seemed quite the opposite.

  • Heather should have won!! OMG i love her to the max! All her pictures are magnificient! I was so sad when she got eliminated. Sigh

  • seriously I give props to Heather that she got so far. I wish she had won. Not only was she the most attractive, but despite her 'disability' she was by far the nicest, and most earnest of the whole group. I hope she goes far and that people learn to treat better her and anyone with similar disabilites.

  • I hate Kimberley. Her comments were downright cruel. She was always talking about what a wonderfully normal person she was. that's right. That's just how 'normal' people are. Rejecting and mean. Glad not to be one of them.

  • heather was the most stunning girl in that cycle and had the nicest personality, despite not winning i hope she made it far!

  • I have Autism too (the same kind as her) and I'm SO proud of her. She represented people with Asperger's Syndrome pretty damn well.

  • Asperger's Syndrome isn't that rare, but it is more common in boys. She also has ADHD, which almost every person with Autism has, including me.

  • Check out my channel.The cause of ADHD and Autism is the same thing.

  • its funny coz the girls that make fun of her got eliminated b4 her AHAHAHAHAAHAHAH

    ND WEN DA QUEEN BEE BIANCA MADE FUN OF HER HEATHER WON A CHALLENGE ND THE PRIZE WAS SHOPPING WHICH IS WAT BIANCA WANTED LMAO SHE DESERVED EVERY BIT OF IT LOL

  • I'm an Aspie too, those other girl's attitudes are pathetic in my opinon. I'd be tellin em to bugger off.

  • Those other girls should be more understanding.

  • she is georges!

    if i was in the house

    i would have teated her

    with respect and been

    her friend, i cant stand

    it when people look at

    you cuz you have a

    dissability!

    I wanted heather to win!

  • She says her condition like SHE'S Hans Asperger. "Auhsperger's Syndrome."

  • I can only imagine how hard it was for her to make the decision to join this competition in the first place. My daughter has autism (moderate) and I can only pray I'm doing everything necessary to give my girl the confidence this girl has to do what she did. Go Heather!!

  • yeah, heather took great pics. but everybody graded her on a curve. she had the pity vote for her "disability" which didn't seem to be much of a problem, really. she could NOT win after flopping so bad with the go-see challenge. COME ON, PEOPLE!yeah she was great. i loved her. but stop treating her like a charity case. i guarantee you she would not appreciate it.