long relation. it ended. then dragged for 1 more year. i loved her a lot. more than i loved myself. she mooved on with someone else. the bad thing for me was that he is better for her. felt real bad. felt into deep depression. calling her, stalking her, telling her how mutch i still loved her. exercise, new relations, going out with friends, nothing helped. even medication agains depression did nothing. i started feeling better only when i managed to tell her how mutch i hated her. That helped
my boyfriend just dumped me for his ex and his completely ripped my heart out now i think about it ive only just clearly realised i was used. my advice is dont kid yourself to make you think something will work, if theres a serious problem and you know it itl come and itl tear you up to pieces. i was so stupid love makes you stupid sometimes
I was the rebound... and it honestly hurts like hell.... please dont do that to someone.. its the worst feeling possible... and then when they break up with you saying they still have feelings for their ex... there are no words.
This is all bullshit.. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and two months.. We had just got back together apparently but I wasn't aware of it.. I asked if we were and he thought I was asking some other guy.. He now thinks I cheated and he wont talk to me.. I've explained I would never cheat on him but he wont believe me.. He was my world.. And my longest relationship. I can't just move on in two weeks.
So here's what I just did: suck it up. Honestly, it's hard as hell to just suck it up. It burns a lot. It's kinda like washing out a laceration. Washing it out stings like hell, but when you're done, it feels a lot better, and it doesn't get infected! There's no such thing as just forgetting about it, or telling yourself you'll get someone better. You've gotta face your inner demon head on! Once you're past that, moving on is a lot less overwhelming. It takes a bit of will power, but it works!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
This advice is easy to give when you are not in the depths of despair.. My relationship was 9 years and I'm supposed to get over it in 2 weeks? We all KNOW what we are supposed to do.. The internet and friends are full of advice.. Just do this! Just change your focus.! Bury yourself in your work.. Don't mope.. Exercise.. Meet new people.. All sound advice, but if you're not at that place, it simply doesn't work.. It's not as easy as some pop psychology..
its been about almost a year and i can't get over the guy, and when i do get over him but then i see him in the hallway or around places outside, i can't help but have my crush again that i used to have on him, i dont know what to do?
@deevinesprays I agree 100% .it take Years , my journey took around 2 years still when i got alone- watching moive , romantic song or something i go back in time. the wounds are still fresh.
my ex dumped me like a month ago and i havent gotten over yet. We dated for like almost 8 months and we were freakin deep in love but she said it was distance but i always had a chance to see her i stayed over her house for days and nights for weeks alot of times we slept in the same bed together every night. She says she still loves me but shes dating some player named lamar and he was my friend and knows how much i love her still. Im saying this you cant trust anyone but yourself. LOVE SUCKS!!
@seanman70 oh yeah! dude im in the exact situation that you are.
I actually kinda got over mine though.
i got over it by talking it about it with my friends. Make jokes about her with friends, call her names like bitch and whore. I know its terrible, but trust me it helps so much.
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
im 15 and me and my bf recently broke up after summer holidays, we went out 4 times and i never felt like this about anyone before and now i just cant stop thinking about him and it really hurts to get over it, at school he looks like nothing is bothering him and i just cant get over it.. love sucks!
@cheerleaderj68 that is the same for me! my ex doesn't look like it bothers him ever since we broke up, but i dont get how it cant bother him, i get so sad, and im hurt so much over it
@Singamajigfan200 this last girl that i had was it ive been stabbed way too many times. spent a year with her its my longest relationship. i had problems in the past with things that i will not say on here. she left me friday 6 hours after one of my closest friends was shot and killed.
its been some time now sense i wrote ......its been a full year and im still in pain ......lord why i cant get over this woman......she hurt me in the worst way......i need more time...i will feel normal again....but im still hurt........god help me.........
She hates my but i will protect her with my life.... I will die when she does.... I will help her when she need it.... If just more people was like that... Think about it people
What do I do when I had nobody in my life but her and she leaves for no reason and gets with another guy in a week. I've actually been thinking about suicide and a few people asked about it bc in middle school 3 year relationships are kinda a big deal, it was emotionally abusive to me. But I'm so attached I can see her like everywere....
my last gf. broke up with me 2 day before she had to move.her new bf. did not have a truck.it saved me from alot of work.. she tryed to call me some how i lost my cell and my home phone some how was off the hook... silly girl ha ha
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@yvetterudy: very true. lots of coaches are overly positive and dont actually understand and empathize with their clients so it makes people feel screwed up for not being super cheerful and happy golucky like them. glad you can discern the difference. check out my youtube channel if you want some solid breakup advice from an actual good coach. ive even got some videos from my clients uploaded too.
@iinaaiin hahaha so true. shes got a phony positive front that trivializing the pain that we all go through after a break up. getting over a break up is definitely not as easy as she says but its not as hard as most people make it. if you want some real advice that actually helps, check out my youtube videos. i went through a really bad break up myself a couple years ago and decided to share my experience with others and help them get over it as fast as possible.
@iiHatezDomii First of all I'm average not boney. Have you ever been in a relationship? Its not as easy as eating comfort food. I loved my girl, but I must move on. There are plenty of women out there.
@cobaltbovine: haha yeah. this plastic barbie needs to reconnect to her own painful experiences and speak from that place if she truly wants to help people, not put up a positive front that reeks of fakeness and insincerity.
i was dating this girl about a year and she is a good friend now...been knowing her bouttwenty yrs. she got married...and she is leaving her hubby,he beat her and she now had enough she tried to leave before she went back i admitt its hard to start over i just pray for her im gonna help much as i can im just glad i got through what i went through ill have her in my prayers the whole time and every step of the way.....
The problem with her whole approach is that it's just another form of "denial". It may work short-term but it won't last, because each person grieves differently & so we each need to take the time to feel all the different emotions & go through all the classic stages of grief (denial/shock, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) in OUR own way. This is usually erratic & rarely happens in any particular order. We let go when we've fully processed the loss and the pain. And that takes time...
@noonav hey now that was well put i cant even say many other words to describe everything you just said but wow you sum it up in short term words. i see that im not the only one who has been through the process it seems,you right time heals all wounds and i been on the process battle ground for a long time now its time for a long break for me i been putting any attemps of someone gettin close to me off. i feels good finding myself again thanks noon you make alot of sense........
everything i ran cross while diggin i found enough to let myself feel at ease we dont belong together and i can stand tall alone and not have her try to change my way of thinking i know what i saw and found out...id rather die alone then to ever go back through all that pain omg i made it im a heal man thanks to god he made it possible for me to do it i laugh to myself the thought of her vtryin to play mind games on me again ..ill pray for the next man that enter her life good luck dude im bless
NO I DONT HAVE ANYONE PROBABLY NEVER WILL..GUYS COME AT MEI TURN MY NOSE UP...NO MAN EQUAL UP TO YOU THATS NOT MY OBJECTIVE FOR LEAVIN ANYWAY..I WANT YOU TO SEE HOW REAL LOVE FEEL...PIECE AROUND YOU NOW HUH? SO WHY WOULD I RUIN YOUR HAPPINESS! I KNOW YOU HAPPY NOW
HER TEXT TO ME: YOU MAKE ME SO ANGRY....I GAVE YOUSO MUCH LOVE,RESPECT,LOYALITY,& TRUST...I NEVER DID ANYTHING TO HURT YOU...BUT YET YOU ALWAYS HAD TO DIG AROUND JUST TO BUILD CASES ON ME....WHEN ALL MY LOVE WAS FOR YOU..NOT NOBODYELSE.. NOW I HAVE TO LIVE A LONELY LIFE CAUSE YOU ACT LIKE YOU COULDNT GROW UP....I HELP GIVE YOU THAT WILL TO GRIND HARD FOR US..BUT ALL U WANTED TO DO WAS FUSS&FIGHT..IM HURTTO MY HEART OVER THIS SHIT..BITTER! A LIL RESPONDING FROM YOUR LAST TEXT >>NEXT POST
i remember when she first left minutes felt like hours, hours were like days, days were like weeks,weeks became mths,ive became so use too it now, im numb to it being without her she text me the other day i felt really nuthin when the process first begain it use too hurt, now thank god i feel so comfy being alone,she knows it i never even call anymore when she text me i want to share what she wrote GO TO MY NEXT COMMENT POST WE CAN START THERE
guys, I wouldnt call her a bitch...she isnt a bad person, I just think maybe she under-estimates the power behind really loving someone when your body and heart has made up it's mind. You know..when you tell yourself to get over her but your mind, heart and body become arbitrary to you.
i don,t under stand how a person can just leave someone they once loved and never look back my dad once told me son just enjoy the time you had with the person you with at the time cause you never know what may happen well i feel him on that one i just cam them at our intimate moments so when they leave i have what i need anyway what the next guy dont have less problems no issues just the lust when i feel i miss them i watch the video and just move on......
sometime after a break up the things that never really made sense to you makes sense after. now i see why after we broke up she called her mom and to her i was runnin the streets with some strange people was plannin on leaving the whole time....she made a lie up to make me look like the bad guy.to cover up her wrong doing which was a good way not to hurt someone who she really love her mom.thats wild huh.all this was in her plan...
i swear if i didnt have this long ago ex of mine who now is only my friend i would have lost my mind fa real she going through things as well we been to hell and back together god put people next to you for reasons break ups can cause people to lose it you can survive this it takes time im gonna pull through this she hurt me and i will never forget how she did it im a scorn man forever....
its been 8 half mths im still feelin the after math of me and my ex i just got enough wind in me to start doin my outside work she really brung me all the way down just when i thought i had it all its been a long and hard road for me i know that im not the only one that has these issues but it sure feels like im all alone with these feelins i have no body i let most of all my friends go and i guess being to myself is what i need i need to find me i lost who i was im glad i feel who i am again..
I don't feel so alone I don't feel so alone I don't feel so alone As many times as I blink I'll think of you tonight I'll think of you tonight When violet eyes get brighter And heavy wings grow lighter I'll taste the sky and feel alive again And I'll forget the world that I knew But I swear I won't forget you Oh, if my voice could reach back through the past I'd whisper in your ear, Oh darling I wish you were here
I'll watch the night turn light blue But it's not the same without you Because it takes two to whisper quietly The silence isn't so bad Till I look at my hands and feel sad 'Cause the spaces between my fingers Are right where yours fit perfectly I'll find repose in new ways Though I haven't slept in two days 'Cause cold nostalgia chills me to the bone But drenched in vanilla twilight I'll sit on the front porch all night Waist-deep in thought because when I think of you
@arieanangel Same here after a year and 5months of my relationship with my 1st love he broke up with me for something so juvenile,4 days later im here still thinking about him every second but i have the strength not to go back with him.It hurts like hell.And im not in the mood for nothing right now.Just the thought of him with someone texting,touching,kissing or hugging her like he used to do to me eats me inside.Horrible feeling.Im destroyed.
After a year and 5 months,on our anniversary we broke up,1st love as well after 4 days i cant sleep,eat,nor think well.Spending 24/7 with someone and all of a sudden there gone the change is drastic for me,i keep thinking about the good times we had...Amazing experience but if he really love me he wouldnt put me through this predicament after i devoted so much time to him and everything.I cant stop crying for him but i refuse to go back with him,i'll just focus on my career.
Im going throught my first break up after a year relationship, first love too.. and reading everyones comments about how long and hard it is is making me feel even worse.. :(
It's definately not that easy to just start hobbies... Sure i've started plenty of hobbies and been out with a few people to try and make a few friends.. but none of it is fun anymore.. going around on 85kmph go karts, and skiiing on the back of a boat isnt even fun cause all i can do is think of my ex and how much i miss him and how much i need him because staring at his face for hours would be more entertaining than the most funnest thing in the world.. When will this shit go away >:(
Its essential to get a lot of exercise. I would go to the gym for a couple hours in the evening and work very hard. Afterwards, I felt better, and slept better too. in addition to the gym, try going for walks when you have time. Aim fo five miles in one hour. Dont sit around doing nothing.
I quit smoking too, as the withdrawal gave me something else to focus on...
its been over 2 months im still not over him i loved him and he broke my heart i cant take it no more. he moved on and its killing me i cant jus forget him like that
i feel really bad for all the ppl commenting in here but honestly....LOVE SUCKS AND ITS FAKE!!! its like some ppl r born rich and some poor. some get a special person while everyone else suffers! FORGET LOVE!!!
@vidaa11 same here all the way i feel you on that it just cant be real.........too many tries and no luck hell with that i love being alone it dont hurt its like im safe from all these fake people .........
its so crazy that u commented on my comment. i was angry when i wrote that. me and my girl got back together 2 weeks ago. hopefully things will work out.
@vidaa82 yup, still doesn't make it right, I'm angry too all the time but I realize I would only say some stuff because I that so I choose to swallow my words or think about it thoroughly before uttering them
Okay, can people like this up alot so i can get a reponse quick!
MY girl friend broke up with me. I didnt know what I had until I lost it. The reason she broke up with me is because I was sending a freshmen messages asking for oral sex. Im 3 yrs older then this freshmen. Tonights new yrs eve, and i know shes gonna party it all out with all these older guys idk. She hates me and so does everyone else.Please message me on how long I should wait or what I should do cuz i want her back so bad.
Wow! She really talks like she knows everything about relations, people, behaviour...
Just by looking at her blonde hair and cute face you know she has been through a lot of tough experiences and she has been there before everyone of us.
Teach us how to live our lives, Donna Barnes, lead us to a new way of existence!!!!
What if it has been 5months and your still not over him. but you have tried over and over to forget about it and move on but you cant because you realize that he was "the one" person that changed your life FOREVER?
@lorena33614 It's been 6 months for me and I know how you feel. Worst of all he lives in the dorm room next to me...I'm even dating someone new, who I like a lot, but every so often I'm reminded of him and I still cry...only more time and meeting someone better will be a sure cure, I believe. We were going to get married, and I was truly convinced he was the one. Just hang on. Someday you'll meet someone great. It's true: there isn't just one person out there in the world for someone.
@LittleMangoGal thanks im getting over it now a little but ive tried dating but i just dont seem to be intrested in anyone. but i know one day their will be "THAT GUY" that keeps his promises and never hurts me. and with him it will be true and not full of lies that i thought were true. but ive finally stopped crying so thats good. im just trying to live my life.
i went thru that my ex found out but it was after that we broke up that he found out i was doing that and i got this whole image i went from the smart geeky fun girl to the EMO CUTTER and now im just trying to be me, whoever that is.
I decided that I want it to be an easy process when I had to start working with him and his wife (one of my closest friends at the time).
It's been since July 2009. I want something in my life, but when I think of it all of my guards go up and I right back in 2009. I almost worry that if I did get involved with someone, even someone super nice, in the back of my thoughts and actions I would be wanting to give him exactly what I was given - only this time I wouldn't be the one crying.
i'm shattered right now... I HAD this girl... she was so into me and I was into her but then something happened and she started losing interest in me...
i lost the love of my life. she cheated on me with a guy from her work. i didnt know until a week after she broke up with me. this was three months ago and two months ago she was begging for me back. all i could tell her was no. i was angry at first but now the pain numbed every part of me. i want her to do well because i care about her and thats why i have to stay away from her. does anyone understand?
@imanudist - yeah man, i totally understand. that's great that you had the self-respect to not take her back after she came begging back to you. it takes a lot of inner strength and maturity to stay away from her knowing that its best for both of you to be apart. check out some of my videos if you want some more tips on how to get over her.
Just a few hours ago I lost the love of my life. We were dating for a little over two years. I was about to ask her to move in with me, and we talked about marriage and having children all the time. The only thing I'm having trouble coping with is her reason for leaving was "I just don't have faith in us anymore" when not three hours prior we were laughing and having a good time.
Life can be very hard. I don't think I'll ever just be able to "put her behind me"
@Uldemar Hey I have had exactly the same thing. Yesterday my friend and I spoke heaps on the phone laughing to each other she is older than me and we both have myalgic encephalomyelitis where we can't exercise or else we end up in bed for days. Then after the happy conversation on the phone she says she doesn't want to know me anymore and then today she says she wants to be friends again and then said today that she doesn't.
@mark40221 - sounds like you're with someone who has given you a good idea of what a relationship would be like with them - random, sporadic, up and down, and unhealthy. take caution of this red flag and move on, you'll save yourself alot of time and heartache.
It has been over a week since the dissolution of a relationship that I thought was life affirming. Now, I feel so numb on the inside. Everyday I am forcing myself to do things when all I really want to do is just lay there and cry about it. I cried about it once and thought that was catharsis...now it is just hard getting through this period.
@arshadcow :( tell me about it. i been goin thru this for too long i just want it to be over.. if you like u can talk to me . we can help eachother ... somehow..
@miss2sexee I dont know what to say ..how to begin the untold story of a shattered heart ..never mind i am dead anyway.. you tell me whats ur side of story?
her name reynerose she dump me coz of my bad attitude irresponsibility and so on after almost 5 years we had a daughter, she had a god job and i have one im in deep pain right now emotionally i think i cant go on right now coz i wot be seeing them coz she told me to stay away from them, but loved them i don't know what to do they the love of my life what should i do i want them back! it really hurts so bad, pls help m im desperate now... :( T_T
I've done the excersize thing lost so much weight and he still doesnt want me. I've been reduced to a once a week hit and dip after being in a loving in a relationship for almost 2 years.
@CAPECOULORED It's hard. My ex doesn't want me back. She broke it off 'cause we didn't see eye-to-eye on the timing of marriage/kids. It's very hard but I think I'm doing better. I wish my ex wanted me back. :(
I did everything this video said NOT to do...and guess what? I never got over HER that way. Oddly enough, it was when I heard she got layed off from her job that I felt HAPPY! Wrong of me? I know. That's when I started feeling good. I exercised more and now look BETTER than when I was with her. She's right about the exercise thing. At some point, you've got to root for yourself.
That's not true. I've told myself for 2 and a half years I won't let it bother me. Guess what? I still cry at night. Help me with this, you'll be my hero.
@DanielleAndChandler I hear ya. I say: Let it bother you. Cry. Scream. Plead with God. Exhaust all "normal" options. Then finally, make a list of all your best moments in life BEFORE you met him. Look at that list every day. Also, accept the possibility that you may never completely heal that part of your heart. Also, what would you have done with your life if you had never met him at all?
@JesusManson323 Thank you. :) That's amazing advice. Actually, the best advice I've gotten. So thanks. What I'd have done if I'd never met him?.... I have no clue..
@JesusManson323 my bf of 8yrs just broke up with me today... im sooo hurt right now how the hell will i get over this?? i feel like no one will want me now... :( how can someone do this to me,, i dont deserve this..
@punkhoplove You're right about that: you don't deserve this. You deserve to be happy. You were a good, loving person and this is how you are shown gratitude?! You are at your best when you are loving and happy. That's the real you. You are sad because someone you love has dumped crap on your best qualities. That's not cool.
From my experience. Cry. It's unavoidable. But for god's sake, spend time with close friends and family. This is Code Red: all resources diverted to take care of you now.
@punkhoplove Let's get this straight right now: he lost out on you. What a fool. You gave him love and the best part of a woman's qualities. You will cry. You will hurt. Maybe for years (like I did). Eventually....you will get a BETTER man. Why? Because you were good enough to get this one, and this is still your ballgame. Your pain is telling you to bring all the best in you back out again. Cry. But make sure that light keeps shining that brought him to you in the first place. That's yours.
me and my ex broke up 3 years ago . but recently I just wanna see him so bad . It is getiing on my nerves so bad. I know the relationship is over for good. since I already have a baby with someone else and I know that he will never accept my son. I just need some advice to get over this weird feeling I keep feeling towards him.
I believe there are several 4 stages to a broken heart, but the first phase is the hardest. 1. It is the Grieving Phase - This is when you have had a part of you die inside and feel like your entire world is coming apart. It is when you make all the mistakes of wanting to get back together with your lost love. The text messages, phone calls, even worse drunken phone calls, or the in person humiliation of yourself. email me at jaake189 on aol for the rest of my letter. It's free. Just helping.
She never wanted to do anything I wanted, but I was always supposed to be there for her. She wanted to cry on my shoulder every time something went wrong, instead of dealing with the problem. Then she'd bring up every bad thing that had ever happened to her until she was an emotional wreck.
So I should be GLAD she's gone. So why do I hurt? Is my ego so big that I can't deal with her writing me off? I hope I get over this soon.
@blueskunk12 lol "writing me off" yeah i had a girl like that she was bi-polar and it was always about her! I gave her the world and she treated me like shit. Just bang as many girls as you can, it wont help at first but then you kinda start to let go.
@midz500 wat i did was literally broke my phone in two ause ull be tempted to turn it back on u need time off from people also to think whats next fo ur self
@KegenNoobZ its a mind thing just when u think about it replace the image or thought w something else its vivid so u gtaa do it a lot and stay busy im going tru thz to i cry a lot and force myself to cry wen i think of her then i feel a lil strong and im like shes a lier and a skank good luck buddy
@XxJFxShowxX no, i didn't get over him. after about 2 weeks we talked and we decided that we are both miserable without each other so we got back together. but i'm sure if we hadn't got back together, by now i would be over him. and if you are having troubles getting over someone, you should just try not to think about them. i know it's hard but just try.
@XxJFxShowxX no, i didn't get over him. after about 2 weeks we talked and we decided that we are both miserable without each other so we got back together. but i'm sure if we hadn't got back together, by now i would be over him. and if you are having troubles getting over someone, you should just try not to think about them. i know it's hard but just try.
@caitlindayrox09 One thing I learned. There are plenty of fish you'll find that are much better for your soul. Just toss out the old and start with the new.
so here is why iam listening to this.. my fiancee of now 9 months just left me and i am 5 month pregnant.. oh thats not the worse part did i mention i am 16, i put a nine mill up to my head and started crying we have been over 4 days and he is dating again, i am so heart broken i want to pull the trigger and end it all, but i guess honestly this is my way of trying to stop it just playing sad songs over and over and crying over and over
long relation. it ended. then dragged for 1 more year. i loved her a lot. more than i loved myself. she mooved on with someone else. the bad thing for me was that he is better for her. felt real bad. felt into deep depression. calling her, stalking her, telling her how mutch i still loved her. exercise, new relations, going out with friends, nothing helped. even medication agains depression did nothing. i started feeling better only when i managed to tell her how mutch i hated her. That helped
adolfo3375 1 week ago
my boyfriend just dumped me for his ex and his completely ripped my heart out now i think about it ive only just clearly realised i was used. my advice is dont kid yourself to make you think something will work, if theres a serious problem and you know it itl come and itl tear you up to pieces. i was so stupid love makes you stupid sometimes
nju88 1 month ago
I was the rebound... and it honestly hurts like hell.... please dont do that to someone.. its the worst feeling possible... and then when they break up with you saying they still have feelings for their ex... there are no words.
4evercutegirl9 1 month ago
This is all bullshit.. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and two months.. We had just got back together apparently but I wasn't aware of it.. I asked if we were and he thought I was asking some other guy.. He now thinks I cheated and he wont talk to me.. I've explained I would never cheat on him but he wont believe me.. He was my world.. And my longest relationship. I can't just move on in two weeks.
xoAutyy 1 month ago
So here's what I just did: suck it up. Honestly, it's hard as hell to just suck it up. It burns a lot. It's kinda like washing out a laceration. Washing it out stings like hell, but when you're done, it feels a lot better, and it doesn't get infected! There's no such thing as just forgetting about it, or telling yourself you'll get someone better. You've gotta face your inner demon head on! Once you're past that, moving on is a lot less overwhelming. It takes a bit of will power, but it works!
xshalludiex 2 months ago
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Break ups suck!!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
If you're going through the same, go to:
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That guide helped me get through it.
BillTheTrainer 3 months ago
Wow pretty amazing. This really helps . Thanks . I'm going thru some hard times rite now and I hope this helps me heal
elvis1825 3 months ago
This advice is easy to give when you are not in the depths of despair.. My relationship was 9 years and I'm supposed to get over it in 2 weeks? We all KNOW what we are supposed to do.. The internet and friends are full of advice.. Just do this! Just change your focus.! Bury yourself in your work.. Don't mope.. Exercise.. Meet new people.. All sound advice, but if you're not at that place, it simply doesn't work.. It's not as easy as some pop psychology..
MrJebac001 3 months ago 19
its been about almost a year and i can't get over the guy, and when i do get over him but then i see him in the hallway or around places outside, i can't help but have my crush again that i used to have on him, i dont know what to do?
Designer101Ash 3 months ago
seanman70 If she loved you she would be with you.
Idalia860 3 months ago
@deevinesprays I agree 100% .it take Years , my journey took around 2 years still when i got alone- watching moive , romantic song or something i go back in time. the wounds are still fresh.
arshadcow 4 months ago
my ex dumped me like a month ago and i havent gotten over yet. We dated for like almost 8 months and we were freakin deep in love but she said it was distance but i always had a chance to see her i stayed over her house for days and nights for weeks alot of times we slept in the same bed together every night. She says she still loves me but shes dating some player named lamar and he was my friend and knows how much i love her still. Im saying this you cant trust anyone but yourself. LOVE SUCKS!!
seanman70 5 months ago 2
@seanman70 oh yeah! dude im in the exact situation that you are.
I actually kinda got over mine though.
i got over it by talking it about it with my friends. Make jokes about her with friends, call her names like bitch and whore. I know its terrible, but trust me it helps so much.
Qdude88 5 months ago
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Break ups suck!!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
If you're going through the same, go to:
Breakups2Makeups. com
That guide helped me get through it.
MMArtist99 5 months ago
im 15 and me and my bf recently broke up after summer holidays, we went out 4 times and i never felt like this about anyone before and now i just cant stop thinking about him and it really hurts to get over it, at school he looks like nothing is bothering him and i just cant get over it.. love sucks!
cheerleaderj68 5 months ago
@cheerleaderj68 that is the same for me! my ex doesn't look like it bothers him ever since we broke up, but i dont get how it cant bother him, i get so sad, and im hurt so much over it
Designer101Ash 3 months ago
@cheerleaderj68 please kid your young, its normal.. ull be fine
litlynvistal1 1 month ago
@Singamajigfan200 this last girl that i had was it ive been stabbed way too many times. spent a year with her its my longest relationship. i had problems in the past with things that i will not say on here. she left me friday 6 hours after one of my closest friends was shot and killed.
StreetxDSM 5 months ago
@crappyblackberries you're fat and ugly.....an no guy wants you...get over it
dhide14 5 months ago
its been some time now sense i wrote ......its been a full year and im still in pain ......lord why i cant get over this woman......she hurt me in the worst way......i need more time...i will feel normal again....but im still hurt........god help me.........
123bignut 5 months ago
She hates my but i will protect her with my life.... I will die when she does.... I will help her when she need it.... If just more people was like that... Think about it people
victorwd1 6 months ago
@crappyblackberries I Hate Not In SOOO Lin Love With Him! :'(
Sparvb 6 months ago
@crappyblackberries Did You Get Over Him :'(
Sparvb 6 months ago
This helped a little I guess.....It's just gonna be tough going to school tomorrow :( well today bcuz it's 3:54am and I can't go back to sleep :-/
angeltalkalot1 6 months ago
its not that easy, I dont feel complete without her, like I have nothing to live for anymore :'(
AuTrickShotting 6 months ago
This is all bullshit! i dont want it too be i dont want nothing else she was my life and now i feel lost and its absolutely shit!
kurtees100 6 months ago
@crappyblackberries hope all is better..
trustinChrist08 6 months ago
What do I do when I had nobody in my life but her and she leaves for no reason and gets with another guy in a week. I've actually been thinking about suicide and a few people asked about it bc in middle school 3 year relationships are kinda a big deal, it was emotionally abusive to me. But I'm so attached I can see her like everywere....
xXawesomeXpossomeXx 7 months ago
@xXawesomeXpossomeXx don't do it
astreetmonster0 7 months ago
But what about being good to the other person? I don't like this video.
xMissHatred1501x 7 months ago
my last gf. broke up with me 2 day before she had to move.her new bf. did not have a truck.it saved me from alot of work.. she tryed to call me some how i lost my cell and my home phone some how was off the hook... silly girl ha ha
tryby12 7 months ago
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frankdushan 8 months ago
This is not helpful. This is rubbish.
krazykittykat17 8 months ago
@yvetterudy: very true. lots of coaches are overly positive and dont actually understand and empathize with their clients so it makes people feel screwed up for not being super cheerful and happy golucky like them. glad you can discern the difference. check out my youtube channel if you want some solid breakup advice from an actual good coach. ive even got some videos from my clients uploaded too.
HowToGetOverYourEx 8 months ago
@iinaaiin hahaha so true. shes got a phony positive front that trivializing the pain that we all go through after a break up. getting over a break up is definitely not as easy as she says but its not as hard as most people make it. if you want some real advice that actually helps, check out my youtube videos. i went through a really bad break up myself a couple years ago and decided to share my experience with others and help them get over it as fast as possible.
HowToGetOverYourEx 8 months ago
@HowToGetOverYourEx Yeah. I know right. It's a hard thing to go through. She's plastic. PLASTIC. :D
iinaaiin 8 months ago
ignorant and biased.
TheConnord12 8 months ago
My girl just broke up with me and this doesn't help at all.
chelseafcfanisy 8 months ago
@chelseafcfanisy I know something that would help you :-] E . A . T
iiHatezDomii 8 months ago
@iiHatezDomii That doesn't help neither.
chelseafcfanisy 8 months ago
@chelseafcfanisy You most be bony.
iiHatezDomii 8 months ago
@iiHatezDomii First of all I'm average not boney. Have you ever been in a relationship? Its not as easy as eating comfort food. I loved my girl, but I must move on. There are plenty of women out there.
chelseafcfanisy 8 months ago
@chelseafcfanisy Avg.=Bony now ah days tahahah. Nope & kay. Kay & Kay & I know it's quit obvious :}
iiHatezDomii 8 months ago
This lady has no compassion...........
cobaltbovine 9 months ago
@cobaltbovine: haha yeah. this plastic barbie needs to reconnect to her own painful experiences and speak from that place if she truly wants to help people, not put up a positive front that reeks of fakeness and insincerity.
HowToGetOverYourEx 8 months ago
i was dating this girl about a year and she is a good friend now...been knowing her bouttwenty yrs. she got married...and she is leaving her hubby,he beat her and she now had enough she tried to leave before she went back i admitt its hard to start over i just pray for her im gonna help much as i can im just glad i got through what i went through ill have her in my prayers the whole time and every step of the way.....
123bignut 9 months ago
isnt this attitude of telling yourself "its not going to bother me" just self delusion? if you are bothered, then you are..
decafeine 9 months ago 7
ive beat myself up for too long but youve motivated me!!
MsAshleyHolland 9 months ago
Thanks :)
chase1tanner1 10 months ago
The problem with her whole approach is that it's just another form of "denial". It may work short-term but it won't last, because each person grieves differently & so we each need to take the time to feel all the different emotions & go through all the classic stages of grief (denial/shock, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) in OUR own way. This is usually erratic & rarely happens in any particular order. We let go when we've fully processed the loss and the pain. And that takes time...
noonav 10 months ago
@noonav hey now that was well put i cant even say many other words to describe everything you just said but wow you sum it up in short term words. i see that im not the only one who has been through the process it seems,you right time heals all wounds and i been on the process battle ground for a long time now its time for a long break for me i been putting any attemps of someone gettin close to me off. i feels good finding myself again thanks noon you make alot of sense........
123bignut 10 months ago
everything i ran cross while diggin i found enough to let myself feel at ease we dont belong together and i can stand tall alone and not have her try to change my way of thinking i know what i saw and found out...id rather die alone then to ever go back through all that pain omg i made it im a heal man thanks to god he made it possible for me to do it i laugh to myself the thought of her vtryin to play mind games on me again ..ill pray for the next man that enter her life good luck dude im bless
123bignut 10 months ago
NO I DONT HAVE ANYONE PROBABLY NEVER WILL..GUYS COME AT MEI TURN MY NOSE UP...NO MAN EQUAL UP TO YOU THATS NOT MY OBJECTIVE FOR LEAVIN ANYWAY..I WANT YOU TO SEE HOW REAL LOVE FEEL...PIECE AROUND YOU NOW HUH? SO WHY WOULD I RUIN YOUR HAPPINESS! I KNOW YOU HAPPY NOW
123bignut 10 months ago
HER TEXT TO ME: YOU MAKE ME SO ANGRY....I GAVE YOUSO MUCH LOVE,RESPECT,LOYALITY,& TRUST...I NEVER DID ANYTHING TO HURT YOU...BUT YET YOU ALWAYS HAD TO DIG AROUND JUST TO BUILD CASES ON ME....WHEN ALL MY LOVE WAS FOR YOU..NOT NOBODYELSE.. NOW I HAVE TO LIVE A LONELY LIFE CAUSE YOU ACT LIKE YOU COULDNT GROW UP....I HELP GIVE YOU THAT WILL TO GRIND HARD FOR US..BUT ALL U WANTED TO DO WAS FUSS&FIGHT..IM HURTTO MY HEART OVER THIS SHIT..BITTER! A LIL RESPONDING FROM YOUR LAST TEXT >>NEXT POST
123bignut 10 months ago
i remember when she first left minutes felt like hours, hours were like days, days were like weeks,weeks became mths,ive became so use too it now, im numb to it being without her she text me the other day i felt really nuthin when the process first begain it use too hurt, now thank god i feel so comfy being alone,she knows it i never even call anymore when she text me i want to share what she wrote GO TO MY NEXT COMMENT POST WE CAN START THERE
123bignut 10 months ago
guys, I wouldnt call her a bitch...she isnt a bad person, I just think maybe she under-estimates the power behind really loving someone when your body and heart has made up it's mind. You know..when you tell yourself to get over her but your mind, heart and body become arbitrary to you.
michael07bleu 10 months ago
What planet does she live on?
hopupman2002 10 months ago
i don,t under stand how a person can just leave someone they once loved and never look back my dad once told me son just enjoy the time you had with the person you with at the time cause you never know what may happen well i feel him on that one i just cam them at our intimate moments so when they leave i have what i need anyway what the next guy dont have less problems no issues just the lust when i feel i miss them i watch the video and just move on......
123bignut 10 months ago
sometime after a break up the things that never really made sense to you makes sense after. now i see why after we broke up she called her mom and to her i was runnin the streets with some strange people was plannin on leaving the whole time....she made a lie up to make me look like the bad guy.to cover up her wrong doing which was a good way not to hurt someone who she really love her mom.thats wild huh.all this was in her plan...
123bignut 10 months ago
i swear if i didnt have this long ago ex of mine who now is only my friend i would have lost my mind fa real she going through things as well we been to hell and back together god put people next to you for reasons break ups can cause people to lose it you can survive this it takes time im gonna pull through this she hurt me and i will never forget how she did it im a scorn man forever....
123bignut 10 months ago
its been 8 half mths im still feelin the after math of me and my ex i just got enough wind in me to start doin my outside work she really brung me all the way down just when i thought i had it all its been a long and hard road for me i know that im not the only one that has these issues but it sure feels like im all alone with these feelins i have no body i let most of all my friends go and i guess being to myself is what i need i need to find me i lost who i was im glad i feel who i am again..
123bignut 10 months ago
Read the ones that are older, the song should help! X0X0 - Kathrine. [ Vanilla Twilight, Owl City ]
Randym32898 10 months ago
Randym32898 10 months ago
Randym32898 10 months ago
The stars lean down to kiss you
And I lie awake n miss you
Pour me a heavy dose of atmosphere
Cause ill doze off safe and soundly
But I'll miss your arms around me
Id send a postcard to you dear
Cause I wish you were here
Randym32898 10 months ago
@arieanangel Same here after a year and 5months of my relationship with my 1st love he broke up with me for something so juvenile,4 days later im here still thinking about him every second but i have the strength not to go back with him.It hurts like hell.And im not in the mood for nothing right now.Just the thought of him with someone texting,touching,kissing or hugging her like he used to do to me eats me inside.Horrible feeling.Im destroyed.
mami2freshh 11 months ago
After a year and 5 months,on our anniversary we broke up,1st love as well after 4 days i cant sleep,eat,nor think well.Spending 24/7 with someone and all of a sudden there gone the change is drastic for me,i keep thinking about the good times we had...Amazing experience but if he really love me he wouldnt put me through this predicament after i devoted so much time to him and everything.I cant stop crying for him but i refuse to go back with him,i'll just focus on my career.
mami2freshh 11 months ago
this woman is crazy
rubywuby999 11 months ago
Im going throught my first break up after a year relationship, first love too.. and reading everyones comments about how long and hard it is is making me feel even worse.. :(
thatshillarious 11 months ago
imma try this :D
spitballmaster 11 months ago
I nearly fell off my computer chair when she said, "It shouldn't take more than a couple of weeks." too.
marcluc1988 11 months ago
It's definately not that easy to just start hobbies... Sure i've started plenty of hobbies and been out with a few people to try and make a few friends.. but none of it is fun anymore.. going around on 85kmph go karts, and skiiing on the back of a boat isnt even fun cause all i can do is think of my ex and how much i miss him and how much i need him because staring at his face for hours would be more entertaining than the most funnest thing in the world.. When will this shit go away >:(
NarutoSasukeLegends 11 months ago
@robertssamuel77 : haha for real lol
callie1602 11 months ago
obviously this lady has never been in love.
hobobob59 11 months ago
@crappyblackberries yep.
mattchuzeezee 11 months ago
I think I'll just keep drinking
benniquaid 11 months ago
@benniquaid Drinking alcohol is the worst thing you can do. I've been there, done that and thrown up all over the tshirt.
marcluc1988 11 months ago
@iinaaiin Hey we need someone acting like this for us when we need it.
VioletMoonFire 1 year ago
@VioletMoonFire Yeah. Just " acting ". But reality is the opposite different.
iinaaiin 1 year ago
Love how she's a life coach but she dyes her hair.
1337HaloReach 1 year ago
You have changed lipgloss i see, this one is glittering more beautifull! :)
underverser 1 year ago
or you can watch eminem no love and when hes singing it you can think about her this only works for guys
EDWIN100ish 1 year ago
Its essential to get a lot of exercise. I would go to the gym for a couple hours in the evening and work very hard. Afterwards, I felt better, and slept better too. in addition to the gym, try going for walks when you have time. Aim fo five miles in one hour. Dont sit around doing nothing.
I quit smoking too, as the withdrawal gave me something else to focus on...
horse69outside 1 year ago
its been over 2 months im still not over him i loved him and he broke my heart i cant take it no more. he moved on and its killing me i cant jus forget him like that
KMM1595 1 year ago 3
@KMM1595 I'm going through the same...be strong and someone better will come along for you I wish you the best
SenneffRules 1 year ago
FML!!!!!!!
ccash321 1 year ago
i feel really bad for all the ppl commenting in here but honestly....LOVE SUCKS AND ITS FAKE!!! its like some ppl r born rich and some poor. some get a special person while everyone else suffers! FORGET LOVE!!!
vidaa11 1 year ago 6
@vidaa11 same here all the way i feel you on that it just cant be real.........too many tries and no luck hell with that i love being alone it dont hurt its like im safe from all these fake people .........
123bignut 10 months ago
@123bignut
its so crazy that u commented on my comment. i was angry when i wrote that. me and my girl got back together 2 weeks ago. hopefully things will work out.
vidaa82 10 months ago
@vidaa11 Because you haven't found it yet, doesn't give you the right to state it not being there as a fact
Poomba1989b 5 months ago
@Poomba1989b
i was angry when i wrote that. me and my girl got back together 6 months ago.
vidaa82 5 months ago
@vidaa82 yup, still doesn't make it right, I'm angry too all the time but I realize I would only say some stuff because I that so I choose to swallow my words or think about it thoroughly before uttering them
Poomba1989b 5 months ago
A couple of weeks !? has this woman ever been with someone besides her self !?
these are the women of today... once you understand this you will get over the bitch...
kidzsanlorenzo 1 year ago
Hmmmpff... so this supposed to make me feel better?..
'cause it does't work for me. i don't wanna get over him, he just dumped me.
WhoAmI2YouNow 1 year ago
@robertssamuel77 agreeeeed!!!!
ba6ygirl11 1 year ago
The Problem is i dont want to.
RaWrJumar96 1 year ago
Okay, can people like this up alot so i can get a reponse quick!
MY girl friend broke up with me. I didnt know what I had until I lost it. The reason she broke up with me is because I was sending a freshmen messages asking for oral sex. Im 3 yrs older then this freshmen. Tonights new yrs eve, and i know shes gonna party it all out with all these older guys idk. She hates me and so does everyone else.Please message me on how long I should wait or what I should do cuz i want her back so bad.
932kid 1 year ago
Wow! She really talks like she knows everything about relations, people, behaviour...
Just by looking at her blonde hair and cute face you know she has been through a lot of tough experiences and she has been there before everyone of us.
Teach us how to live our lives, Donna Barnes, lead us to a new way of existence!!!!
bostria 1 year ago
If only it were that easy...
hexkwondo 1 year ago
My heart was just broken....over a text message! we wasnt even going out yet. we was beginning to..but he said we are going have to be friends..;(
bluegirl99ful 1 year ago
@bluegirl99ful maybe because you say was instead of WERE lol, and it was done over txt! lmfao
linordz84 1 year ago
Haha this is bullshit. Heres how you actually do it. Step one. Grieve. Step two. Dont give a fuck. There, fixed it.
racehonda9 1 year ago
@racehonda9 i think i love you. lmfaoo! your exactly right!
GillyHicksloverr444 1 year ago
@GillyHicksloverr444 haha its the truth. Best healer for a broke heart is a bottle of jack and a couple of good friends
racehonda9 1 year ago 3
What if it has been 5months and your still not over him. but you have tried over and over to forget about it and move on but you cant because you realize that he was "the one" person that changed your life FOREVER?
lorena33614 1 year ago
@lorena33614 It's been 6 months for me and I know how you feel. Worst of all he lives in the dorm room next to me...I'm even dating someone new, who I like a lot, but every so often I'm reminded of him and I still cry...only more time and meeting someone better will be a sure cure, I believe. We were going to get married, and I was truly convinced he was the one. Just hang on. Someday you'll meet someone great. It's true: there isn't just one person out there in the world for someone.
LittleMangoGal 1 year ago
@LittleMangoGal thanks im getting over it now a little but ive tried dating but i just dont seem to be intrested in anyone. but i know one day their will be "THAT GUY" that keeps his promises and never hurts me. and with him it will be true and not full of lies that i thought were true. but ive finally stopped crying so thats good. im just trying to live my life.
lorena33614 1 year ago
@mhperodeau so am i so i just looked the other way
torob3 1 year ago
@eRISSArOXsOX grow up
pillowtalktime 1 year ago
out of all the videos i saw this is the best one thnx! :)
bambam3219017 1 year ago
What do you do if cutting comes to mind when you feel like your girlfriend is going to break up with you? :/
MGreen01202010 1 year ago
@MGreen01202010
i went thru that my ex found out but it was after that we broke up that he found out i was doing that and i got this whole image i went from the smart geeky fun girl to the EMO CUTTER and now im just trying to be me, whoever that is.
lorena33614 1 year ago
someone help me please :( she broke up with me, my heart hurts :(
gggghhhhwwww 1 year ago
my recovering time lasted 2 years
bigwhiteballs27 1 year ago
miss, you've never been in love
dagger680 1 year ago
I decided that I want it to be an easy process when I had to start working with him and his wife (one of my closest friends at the time).
It's been since July 2009. I want something in my life, but when I think of it all of my guards go up and I right back in 2009. I almost worry that if I did get involved with someone, even someone super nice, in the back of my thoughts and actions I would be wanting to give him exactly what I was given - only this time I wouldn't be the one crying.
aprezzy1 1 year ago
i'm shattered right now... I HAD this girl... she was so into me and I was into her but then something happened and she started losing interest in me...
honestlyhonest 1 year ago
@honestlyhonest - what happened? maybe i can help.
HowToGetOverYourEx 1 year ago
i lost the love of my life. she cheated on me with a guy from her work. i didnt know until a week after she broke up with me. this was three months ago and two months ago she was begging for me back. all i could tell her was no. i was angry at first but now the pain numbed every part of me. i want her to do well because i care about her and thats why i have to stay away from her. does anyone understand?
imanudist 1 year ago
@imanudist - yeah man, i totally understand. that's great that you had the self-respect to not take her back after she came begging back to you. it takes a lot of inner strength and maturity to stay away from her knowing that its best for both of you to be apart. check out some of my videos if you want some more tips on how to get over her.
HowToGetOverYourEx 1 year ago
Just a few hours ago I lost the love of my life. We were dating for a little over two years. I was about to ask her to move in with me, and we talked about marriage and having children all the time. The only thing I'm having trouble coping with is her reason for leaving was "I just don't have faith in us anymore" when not three hours prior we were laughing and having a good time.
Life can be very hard. I don't think I'll ever just be able to "put her behind me"
Uldemar 1 year ago 2
@Uldemar Hey I have had exactly the same thing. Yesterday my friend and I spoke heaps on the phone laughing to each other she is older than me and we both have myalgic encephalomyelitis where we can't exercise or else we end up in bed for days. Then after the happy conversation on the phone she says she doesn't want to know me anymore and then today she says she wants to be friends again and then said today that she doesn't.
mark40221 1 year ago
@mark40221 - sounds like you're with someone who has given you a good idea of what a relationship would be like with them - random, sporadic, up and down, and unhealthy. take caution of this red flag and move on, you'll save yourself alot of time and heartache.
HowToGetOverYourEx 1 year ago
It has been over a week since the dissolution of a relationship that I thought was life affirming. Now, I feel so numb on the inside. Everyday I am forcing myself to do things when all I really want to do is just lay there and cry about it. I cried about it once and thought that was catharsis...now it is just hard getting through this period.
Foxlocke 1 year ago
the pain is tooo much , death is missing me some how :( . its been ages now .
arshadcow 1 year ago
@arshadcow :( tell me about it. i been goin thru this for too long i just want it to be over.. if you like u can talk to me . we can help eachother ... somehow..
miss2sexee 1 year ago
@miss2sexee I dont know what to say ..how to begin the untold story of a shattered heart ..never mind i am dead anyway.. you tell me whats ur side of story?
arshadcow 1 year ago
mines been for about 4 months...he lied to me, he used me and i just cant get over it :(
4evervolleyballchic 1 year ago 2
her name reynerose she dump me coz of my bad attitude irresponsibility and so on after almost 5 years we had a daughter, she had a god job and i have one im in deep pain right now emotionally i think i cant go on right now coz i wot be seeing them coz she told me to stay away from them, but loved them i don't know what to do they the love of my life what should i do i want them back! it really hurts so bad, pls help m im desperate now... :( T_T
reynerose 1 year ago
@robertssamuel77 LMFAO thank you i agree with you completly lol
shanbeq314 1 year ago
for all of us out there.....ITS THEIR LOSS....KARMA and time...
lzvici 1 year ago
@lzvici Wow that actuly made me feel better i got rejected but thats her loss! THANKS
adventredragon 1 year ago
I've done the excersize thing lost so much weight and he still doesnt want me. I've been reduced to a once a week hit and dip after being in a loving in a relationship for almost 2 years.
CAPECOULORED 1 year ago
@CAPECOULORED It's hard. My ex doesn't want me back. She broke it off 'cause we didn't see eye-to-eye on the timing of marriage/kids. It's very hard but I think I'm doing better. I wish my ex wanted me back. :(
bigstickcop 1 year ago
@robertssamuel77 thats what im saying
CAPECOULORED 1 year ago
I did everything this video said NOT to do...and guess what? I never got over HER that way. Oddly enough, it was when I heard she got layed off from her job that I felt HAPPY! Wrong of me? I know. That's when I started feeling good. I exercised more and now look BETTER than when I was with her. She's right about the exercise thing. At some point, you've got to root for yourself.
JesusManson323 1 year ago
That's not true. I've told myself for 2 and a half years I won't let it bother me. Guess what? I still cry at night. Help me with this, you'll be my hero.
DanielleAndChandler 1 year ago
@DanielleAndChandler I hear ya. I say: Let it bother you. Cry. Scream. Plead with God. Exhaust all "normal" options. Then finally, make a list of all your best moments in life BEFORE you met him. Look at that list every day. Also, accept the possibility that you may never completely heal that part of your heart. Also, what would you have done with your life if you had never met him at all?
JesusManson323 1 year ago
@JesusManson323 Thank you. :) That's amazing advice. Actually, the best advice I've gotten. So thanks. What I'd have done if I'd never met him?.... I have no clue..
DanielleAndChandler 1 year ago
@JesusManson323 my bf of 8yrs just broke up with me today... im sooo hurt right now how the hell will i get over this?? i feel like no one will want me now... :( how can someone do this to me,, i dont deserve this..
punkhoplove 1 year ago
@punkhoplove You're right about that: you don't deserve this. You deserve to be happy. You were a good, loving person and this is how you are shown gratitude?! You are at your best when you are loving and happy. That's the real you. You are sad because someone you love has dumped crap on your best qualities. That's not cool.
From my experience. Cry. It's unavoidable. But for god's sake, spend time with close friends and family. This is Code Red: all resources diverted to take care of you now.
TruthandJustice101 1 year ago
@punkhoplove Let's get this straight right now: he lost out on you. What a fool. You gave him love and the best part of a woman's qualities. You will cry. You will hurt. Maybe for years (like I did). Eventually....you will get a BETTER man. Why? Because you were good enough to get this one, and this is still your ballgame. Your pain is telling you to bring all the best in you back out again. Cry. But make sure that light keeps shining that brought him to you in the first place. That's yours.
JesusManson323 1 year ago
@DanielleAndChandler wow 2 yrs is a long time
CAPECOULORED 1 year ago
me and my ex broke up 3 years ago . but recently I just wanna see him so bad . It is getiing on my nerves so bad. I know the relationship is over for good. since I already have a baby with someone else and I know that he will never accept my son. I just need some advice to get over this weird feeling I keep feeling towards him.
MissCel8 1 year ago
I believe there are several 4 stages to a broken heart, but the first phase is the hardest. 1. It is the Grieving Phase - This is when you have had a part of you die inside and feel like your entire world is coming apart. It is when you make all the mistakes of wanting to get back together with your lost love. The text messages, phone calls, even worse drunken phone calls, or the in person humiliation of yourself. email me at jaake189 on aol for the rest of my letter. It's free. Just helping.
jaake189 1 year ago
Best way is to get into a high protein diet and pump iron at the gym. Then start training MMA and say fuck that bitch. Become a true bad ass.
BASTARDUS1MAXIMUS 1 year ago 23
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lol i love your comment.
vidaa11 1 year ago
She dumped me with a letter she left on my door.
She never wanted to do anything I wanted, but I was always supposed to be there for her. She wanted to cry on my shoulder every time something went wrong, instead of dealing with the problem. Then she'd bring up every bad thing that had ever happened to her until she was an emotional wreck.
So I should be GLAD she's gone. So why do I hurt? Is my ego so big that I can't deal with her writing me off? I hope I get over this soon.
blueskunk12 1 year ago
@blueskunk12 lol "writing me off" yeah i had a girl like that she was bi-polar and it was always about her! I gave her the world and she treated me like shit. Just bang as many girls as you can, it wont help at first but then you kinda start to let go.
Drkadrk 1 year ago
cry cry but don't try (to get him/her back)
midz500 1 year ago
1) switch off your mobile. (for a week)
2) change your phone number.
3) delete your facebook / orkut / twiter.
4) join a hobby class.(its important)
5) exercise a lot.
6) download a new game.
7) avoid watching films.
8) read a comedy.
9) follow it at list 3 months.
10) and you will be there.
midz500 1 year ago
@midz500 wat i did was literally broke my phone in two ause ull be tempted to turn it back on u need time off from people also to think whats next fo ur self
ScolarshipBoy1984 1 year ago
@midz500 amazing idea haahha
Emurlyjayne 1 year ago
i want to get over my... gf but ther is sumthing that wont let me...she is the only one who understands me
KegenNoobZ 1 year ago
@KegenNoobZ
let the time go by.
midz500 1 year ago
@KegenNoobZ its a mind thing just when u think about it replace the image or thought w something else its vivid so u gtaa do it a lot and stay busy im going tru thz to i cry a lot and force myself to cry wen i think of her then i feel a lil strong and im like shes a lier and a skank good luck buddy
ScolarshipBoy1984 1 year ago
wow.. i came onto this video and didnt expect it to has an impact on me at all..
but everything she said just made so much sence and just made me feel better..
i still havent broken up with my gf yet.. but i know its coming :(
FuzZionHD 1 year ago
@jakeisdead mannnn u spoke the truth!!!!!
XxJFxShowxX 1 year ago
thanks
jakeisdead 1 year ago
@caitlindayrox09 Did u get over him ? :( its been 2 months plzzz let me know.. cuz i hear em all say il get over my breakup with my gf
XxJFxShowxX 1 year ago
@XxJFxShowxX no, i didn't get over him. after about 2 weeks we talked and we decided that we are both miserable without each other so we got back together. but i'm sure if we hadn't got back together, by now i would be over him. and if you are having troubles getting over someone, you should just try not to think about them. i know it's hard but just try.
caitlindayrox09 1 year ago
@XxJFxShowxX no, i didn't get over him. after about 2 weeks we talked and we decided that we are both miserable without each other so we got back together. but i'm sure if we hadn't got back together, by now i would be over him. and if you are having troubles getting over someone, you should just try not to think about them. i know it's hard but just try.
caitlindayrox09 1 year ago
Thanks i guess :'(
virginpancake 1 year ago
thankyou soooooo mcuh!!....you've really helped me...you are the best!
arusheesharman 1 year ago
@caitlindayrox09 One thing I learned. There are plenty of fish you'll find that are much better for your soul. Just toss out the old and start with the new.
y2knoproblem 1 year ago
Wow, best advice I heard on the subject. EVER!!!
y2knoproblem 1 year ago
so here is why iam listening to this.. my fiancee of now 9 months just left me and i am 5 month pregnant.. oh thats not the worse part did i mention i am 16, i put a nine mill up to my head and started crying we have been over 4 days and he is dating again, i am so heart broken i want to pull the trigger and end it all, but i guess honestly this is my way of trying to stop it just playing sad songs over and over and crying over and over
skate1776 1 year ago