How to Build Your Self Confidence

[123ManChicken]

yeah that reeallly helped, not, i still feel depressed :'(

[Minimig4]

Wtf. Short people = Low confidence? Makes nooooooo sense! It makes sense, if you relaxes in your shoulder, and your neck comes up ( Sorry can't explain it that well).... But short people? Helps me a lot (Ironic), since I'm the shortest in my class!... Bad video.

[ZisforZealand]

Today we're talking about self confidence. Why don't you have any? You're not that ugly. Hahaha good way to start it off :P

[0330simon]

about the workout its true.... it makes you feel 10 times better and you feel that you can do anything

[pixipower08]

Luv this and adding it to my website:)

[PaigeAE]

@BECONFID3NT

[llarose]

Congrats, but I must recommend you stop dragging your voice..it's distracting and a little annoying. Clear your throat and speak from your chest, not craggly from your neck.

[HunterTheCrab]

I sprint everywhere cause Im so confident

[MrRoboworm]

THIS BITCH IS IN THE TOP TEN PERCENTILE. AND MAKING THIS VIDEO MAKES HER PUSSY WET.

[MrChannel5news]

this bitch is stupid.....once again your video shows nothing.....you should get smacked in your stupid ass face 

[Residew]

Yeah this is all bullshit, I walk super fast, have very little self confidence.

[starlightbrightful]

uh is this katie from paranormal activity?

[andlyndav]

@starlightbrightful first damn thing i thought too haha

[101feven101]

why does the music remind me of lizzie mcguire?

[tjlinnard]

There are an infinite amount of ways to boost your self confidence, but to be truly confident you have to understand yourself and why you are that way. So often people try to attain confidence by all of this outward grasping when we all have it inside of us, we just have to find whats blocking it, realize that this isn't beneficial and decide to change it. Say it's hard, easy or whatever excuse you want, fact is that you can change your self image. You simply need to make the choice to do so.

[KaneAzlan]

I love her dimples!

[92Skylines]

I've done all this, before watching this video. I'm still not self confident, it's not that easy. All of this makes you self confident for a short moment, but it doesn't work over a long period of time.

[kish774]

you have a great voice..l am short and l feel very confident.people have actually commented that they like being around me coz l boost their selv esteem

[MrMcCookies]

Im 6ft7 and i dont seem more confident than the italian midget at work that gets all the babes.

[KriszRokk]

Great insights about building self confidence. Henry Ford famously said "whether you believe you can or you believe you can't then you are right".

[deftdelivery]

Get some FUGGIN SWAGGER!

[2dittoz]

@deftdelivery tht only works in movies

[deftdelivery]

@2dittoz If you believe that, you my friend, have lived and will continue to live a sad existence. I feel sorry for you looool

[2dittoz]

@deftdelivery lol no cus i do have swagger lolololol xD but at my old skool this fat nerd wuld wear aeropostal which is what i wear now and he got noone lololol

[IgoOrLee]

I'm 2m tall and still I don't have confident :P

[noobguy1234]

@IgoOrLee aww. im smart and but im still not confident :(

[IgoOrLee]

@noobguy1234 try with cool clothes That help me...but still I'm fucked up xD

[CrystalShinigami]

So ... basically, you can only be confident if you're not slow, short, and fat.

Awesome life lesson, guys. Awesome.

[jculpa]

Tomorrow's a brand new day :D

[bBoYkRaFtY]

stumbleupon

[Poncho151500]

What a bitch!

[RonJosueCas]

Just for a btw, being tall does not make you more confident by any means that's a load of shit just saying

[HellsHighwayTrooper]

@RonJosueCas i think it can help a tad if u have good posture but if ur tall and have shit posture you look like a nob

[HarveyMidnight]

I can shorten this entire video.

Look at a picture of a hobo.

[johnnycatt6671]

what? you left out the MOST important part! DO SOMETHING! THE ONLY way to have self-confidence is to do something (anything) that you think is hard, once you accomplish that, you move on to something a little harder. In a few moves, you will find that you are successful at lots of things... only FEAR is stopping you! Remember, Donald Trump went bankrupt 3 times, but he kept doing bigger and bigger deals. He got better with every move - good or bad!

[arcanists411]

FUCK YOU EXCL!!!

[seekperfection]

Thank You.

[DarkClown06]

Walking faster can also give people the idea that you have really bad diarrhea. I'm short so I'm a piece of shit. Say what you think can get you beat up. What things you say to me woman! XD

[Poncho151500]

Shut the fuck up, you self-centered bitch.

[itackledabearonce]

black people can't be more self confident cuz they walk slow.

[ElectricBlueGlasses8]

you're not THAT ugly.

[PSNWERT500]

fuck excl...

[SirEwonJung]

well this just didnt make me feel better at all

[TheLolrunescape]

thumbs up if excel did get you here

[TheUresofunny]

thanks! :/

[tabledancer99]

thumbs up if you hate confident ugly people - not because you're jealous coz they're confident and you aren't, but just coz it's not right. ugly = worthless !!!!!!! GET THAT INTO YOUR FUCKING HEAD _ YOU CAN'T ESCAPE FROM YOUR UGLYNESS _

[spikedude55]

Excl brought me here.

[hypotheticalbacon]

thumbs up if you thumbs-ed up both top comments

[Skerbie]

You're not THAT ugly.

[UberAndy26]

Ok I have good clothes, and I walk some what fast but I still have no self esteem, and I have scoliosis so standing strait doesnt work.

[ShortySilly16]

1:18 WHAT DID YOU SAY?! Tall people are more confident?! D:< I NEED SOME DAMN HIGH HEELS! AND SOME INSTANT GROWTH! Walking up straight ain't gonna do SHIT for me!! D: *rantrantrant*

[royalsteven]

I agree with most. Dressed well, yes, but clothes dont make you anything if you have no self esteem. Walk fast? Well it may look you are tensed or anxious also. Stand up straight, yes definately. Also making compliments is hard with no self confidence but so rewarding. You can make the world a little more beautiful by doing it. Working out also helps a lot to feel healthier and better. But forgot the most important: eating healthy and smiling a lot. You are what you eat and humor is relieving.

[TheFitnessShinobi]

What is this huh? change the channle

[dimolishor]

im 6 foot 4 inches if i was confident would i have looked this vid up :L

[likwidrzan]

u need spell check.

[easybeats123]

alcahol. all you need is alcahol.

[rbgo88]

this video doesn't teach you how to confident, it teaches you how to look well in front of strangers

[besdlfjssdfsdf]

Did the "you're not that ugly" bit make anyone else crack up?

[mjpitche]

I love that narrator! She's a cutie!

[deathkingo]

WTF!? ZZ Top are masters of the English language!

[CheapAntivirus]

You are as confident as in this vid :)..perfect i like it

[Nenakhmer]

Awesome!!!

[AjayKagitha]

One more small addition to this, As soon as you wake up, decide to complete one particular task by end of the day(the task can be very small like ironing couple of clothes). Continue this for 2 to 3 weeks without break. This would actually boost your confidence.

[fashank22]

I love the working out picture

[bubzNC15]

who is excl :DD

[smellslikestuff]

I want to repeatedly punch you.

[sonic200990]

Well I'm short (5f1) I'm fucked.

[beautifulsarah100]

@sonic200990 Mary-Kate and Ashley are around the same height. What would give you more confidence: A. The knowledge that you have earned around $400 million, or B. Being six feet tall? You can only choose one.

[7MoJoe]

I hear walking on your hands makes you look more confident

[anythingnew]

@7MoJoe

Black male kids do this a lot.

[lialyhamood]

i don't think that walking fast make u look confidence

it makes you look silly

i think walking slowly with the head and shoulders up make you more confidence

[shegar2011]

i've heard that walking fast means you're desperate or something, that is shows more confidence to walk nice and relaxed without being in a rush

can anybody clear this up for me?

[BokoNOM]

Note: A fair bit of this isn't going to build your self-confidence.

[CoolBreezeClub]

Dress nice, look nice and work out, as the ladies like a nice body -not beer guts!

[MagiMysteryTour]

"Tall people are naturally more confident than short people". So if I'm 5'4" should I go get platform shoes, because no matter how straight I try to stand up I'm still going to be short. You know why tall people are more confident than short people? Because you prejudiced snoots treat us like we're worthless our whole lives.

Remember what Stuart "Smallie" said: "You're good enough, you're smart enough, but doggone it people just don't like shrimps".

[hampsted42]

@MagiMysteryTour no need to go get platform shoes. just become a jockey.

[jacqueline3b]

@MagiMysteryTour Actually...tall people have a tendancy to be less confident.

[MagiMysteryTour]

I always thought two of the ZZTop guys had beards. Now I know it's just hoochie poop.

[aha0085]

This is bullshit

[ThePankar95]

has anyone heard of the book Unstoppable Confidence by Kent Sayre?

Pls does anyone know if its a scam or not?

[xXdeathnoteX0x]

Thumbs up if excel didnt get you here.

[BigUnitism]

thats wrong sister. walking quickly makes you look impatient and rushing. Walking like nothing matters makes you look far more confident than walking fast.

[pukenpunk7]

yes a crock of shit!

[coddie06]

What a load of shit, Tyring to gain confidence from such superficial ideas is not what somebody with self esteem or confidence issues needs. It is being happy with the person you are is where true confidence comes from 

[wmediacoach1]

Self-esteem is to embrace who you are and it comes from a very deep place inside of you.

[RockGuitarist27]

@wmediacoach1 well said

[StevieStarry]

People with confidence walk slowly actually. Because people like me would want to get out of a situation asap that we didn't like i.e. walking through a place with a large amount of people there.

[BAconbitsliz]

thanks alot excl!

[MrNick2D]

I dress well, I walk fast, I can't stand straight because of a bad back, I'm still useless, how has this helped? It didn't.

[mumbojumbo1989]

I like your accent!

[omegaweapon123]

Thank you ma'am. :)

[IeatyouYoueatme1]

What kind of bullshit is she spouting? People with less self confidence tend to go faster than those with a higher self confidence and the thing about heights is quite untrue. Nearly all of the short people I know are very confidential and the remarkably tall people I know (my friend and I) are quite unsocial.

[jomsvikingur]

@PhillLOL - appearing busy to others can up your social value in some situations, but that doesn't really have anything to do with self-confidence per se

to build confidence, observe and hang out with confident people. some of their confidence and mannerisms will rub off on you. the rest comes through life experiences and constantly challenging yourself to expand your "comfort zone"

[festivesuccesscoach]

Nice :-) xxx

[jumplikeagirl2]

thank you.

[MetalHeadDirtbike]

Taller people are more confident than shorter people? Fuck that, i'm 6 foot 1 and I feel like shit!

[gr33nlion]

@MetalHeadDirtbike I know & im short as hell & i feel good!

[whatsupyo101A]

cool daily ideas

[jomsvikingur]

walking fast shows a lack of confidence & being nervous.. people with confidence take their time

[PhillLOL]

@jomsvikingur it depends on your attitude...don't you RUN when you have a purpose that calls you? I prefer going fast compared to going slow :) they universe likes SPEED!

[TheMarkmarkusmarko]

what if you're Short it means that your had a low confidence???

[TheFranzruss]

@TheMarkmarkusmarko tall people belittle short people

[MrSteviesax]

I Love Myself, and I am Worthy of the Best Life possible

[vaderjozef]

omg fk off Excl xD

[darkrich88]

ulala

[griffmk]

What a load of shit!!.. Not one mention of real values

[Armdys]

gotta love Excl

[NotSoLiberal]

What the hell is EXCL ??

[rseagles14]

noooooo excl!

[uuuultra]

Thumbs up if you're a loser and actually searched this topic

[jgaleeg17]

@uuuultra shitty fart

[alexcooldude2004]

@uuuultra i think thats really childish of ur part, if people accept that they have a problem, and they try to erase it, that takes a lot of balls!! the world would be diferent if we were this intelignent

[admiralsnipe]

@uuuultra

lmao

[paulinotou]

@uuuultra lol. i actually typed this in. kinda sad. i always struggled with talking to people. these youtube vids are actually pretty informing.

[ilablabyou]

@uuuultra =_=

[Jikrin]

dang i got exclrolled!

[legggggggggy]

BS advice... She hardly touched inner game areas which is the only thing which will make you confident. If you care about what other people think like this video is giving suggestions to so that you look better to others then you are exactly not confident. Confidence is about the questions you ask yourself in situations. People with low confidence ask questions inside themselves that usually start as "I cant... because".

[legendarnyziomal]

NAIVE !!!!

[newbiebiz]

You have to erase self doubt as a first step to building self confidence.

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[WorldMotivation]

"You're not that ugly?" What is that suppose to mean?

[newbiebiz]

@WorldMotivation

it was a joke about Ugly Betty, the show and the character who is trying to become more confident but believes she is unattractive.

[allthings321]

thats a load of shit im not small im average there tall and smalls people and there all soooooooooooooo confident

[DJKickstarter]

A real confident person would walk in exactly his or her own tempo, and exactly as he or she would imagine him or herself in a situation when being happy and confident. Head would be risen automatically, and not because someone else told them they should do so, and they would say nothing at all, but smile and know for them selves that nothing can stop them in being great at being who they really are. They would compliment people because they gain goodness from doing so and positive responses.

[raggedyanarchist]

I do all that stuff except speaking up in group discussions... because I can't... because I have no self-confidence. Pretty obviously advice from confident people who think they understand the key to confidence, when really the bulk of it comes down to the fact we're all different.

[smithmaker]

Cute girl, I love the way she talks and smiles.

[contractkisses]

walking fast usually means i'm so unconfident i want to run away from the place i'm in... derp

[sosweetify]

@contractkisses i totally agree !

[honkeytroll]

i was a happy confident young man till this bitch came along and said that im not supposed to be confident because i am short.

[honkeytroll]

speak your mind AND say nice things to people? thats not possible you moron.

[TheCandyrock25]

wtf excl!

[didyrocks]

thanks excl...

[hobbes296]

Lol... XD



[sam421kc]

thumbs up if excl bought you here

[humdrumpotatoskin]

@sam421kc i like video 2 better =l

[noobkiller837]

@sam421kc Lol self confidence!!! :D

[barnacals]

@sam421kc stop trying to be the friggen highest rated comment....theres no point and asking for thumbs is so freaking annoying

[sam421kc]

@barnacals its for fun, dont look at comments if you dont want to see something you dont like there is always gonna be a comment that you might dislike

[samsonicvids]

excl lolol

[hoibenthomas]

when i'n nervous i walk fast oh and excl send me

[TheShadowmimic1]

excl sent me here XDD i thought it was something else i watched his vid and then i went back 2 beginning and clicked it lol!

[potatojew]

I walk and dress how I want 'cause I don't give a fuck.

There's some low self-confidence for you.

[luigi2sardomin]

excl lollololol

[POOPS1996]

thumbs up if excl sent you here

[Carnivore898]

It's LOW to quote ZZ Top? Screw you bitch! Haha sent by Excl!

[SirKobrias]

wtf excl... u prank meh.

[TheFunnycomedy]

Thumbs Up if Excl Got you here

[rawrbitemeolotss]

@TheFunnycomedy l0l Excl lured me here!

[tabtykins]

Ty for sending me here Excl, I feel much better now. :D

[Shankintime]

stfu

[nautypup20]

1:55 is excl >.>

[urban1994]

thumbs up for excl :D

[hopelesslydavey]

thx Excl this helps

[Daniefab]

this is ridiculous, for a start alot of unconfident people walk fast from years of not wanting to be seen, aswell as this has alot of conformed views that you have to be taller and slimmer.

[MW2syndrome]

All i learn tbh is how to walk o_0

how to talk

&& how to stand up straight

WOW you changed my life -Tard

[ItsGiselleDuhh]

lawl what the fuck is this

[RonAlmeida]

You want to be confident? Don't give a damn!

[magepwnzer]

ok then now i know how to act like i have confidence

[tigersoup]

why are all you guys mis-interpreting by what she said? when she says walk talk or straight, its not nothing to do with hieight... if you notice short ppl always walk very talll.. in other words you dumbass, walk straight without slouching!

[captaingangsta28]

@tigersoup The girl obvious said taller people are more confident then short people. However that only proves my theory of girls having half a brain a guy does and that all girls are stupid.

[frostedlambs]

i just want to drop in on my skate bored and im a bit scerd

[xledzepplinx]

at least zz top makes me feel good. your just a strange southern woman who gives very lame general advice. cheers

[dubumang]

i realize that dressing more fashionably and working out did give me more confidence in my appearance, but I'm not sure if it really reduced my insecurity, the real root of poor self confidence. These suggestions are shallow at best. Who writes these idiotic ideas? feel sorry for whoever made this.

[CarolDodsley]

@dubumang creating an outer air of confidence atually does help you to begin to feel more confident on the inside - these ideas are not perhaps put across very well but are proven ways to help you feel more confident. As you say though your core reasons why you lack confidence come from the inside and those wont dissapear by dressing well or walking wtih purpose. when you use technqiues that help you with both your outer and your inner confidence then you become unstoppable & it really works

[dubumang]

@CarolDodsley In a very materialistic, modern world, I can see more people having issues with their insides than their appearance. Where the media bombards us with the message to appear a certain way, we follow. So I would have liked to hear a suggestion to counteract this single minded thinking. True beauty, true confidence is not what you look like, but how you feel. and not many people, esp young generations are getting this.

[CarolDodsley]

@dubumang I totally agree that true beauty and confidence does indeed come from inside...I believe it isnt about looking a certain way, or being materialistic, it is about FEELING a certain way .When you have a confident stance & dress in a way YOU feel great (not how others say you should), this automatically enhances your feelings of confidence. the outer you reflects the inner you & vice versa - if you feel good you look good you automatically portray this in your physiology and your dress

[cavemanapps]

I cant get the hang of walking exactly 25% faster. I must have low self confidence.

[taska247]

if i walked any faster id be running.... yet i have really low self confidence....<<< so that one is not right unless you want me to become superman

[1annasor1]

this made me feel worst about being short :(

[daoquynh29]

In school I always have ideas and right answers but I'm too scare to raise my hand

[unabashedoptimist]

any body got some good advice on how to raise confidence? because i now have the option of getting a record deal from the top artist in cleveland and do shows all around....but i dont think i can do it i... have gynocomastia and im scared of being scared. reply please!!!