honestly, i dont think i do. A few years back I learned to really appreciate myself the way I am and not let anything anyone else says about me affect me becuase the only person I need to please is myself. Sometimes though, my self control slips and I do get my feelings hurt about something, but I'm only human so its okay. :)
ThanksLis: If you learn to become 'selfless' meaning everything is not only about oneself then you project beyond ur own worry of self. Without getting too deep - what this means is that if we constanty project our thoughts inward toward our selfish needs then we will always try and filter those projections with opinion - whether ur's or others. When u learn to think 'away' from self and outwardly - then we learn to care and begin processing Love for others. Bworth'while' Bcome 'Out'secure ;)
Hi. I am happy for the explanation on youtube.com, Hello, it was a sharing of insight to mention how that people project onto others what they have going on in their own mind, to add to this...if i may, recreating past experiences with what is available around them to try to get a handle on their place in reality. I would like to beyond saying this add that this recreation may be mutually benefitting if cleans slate of karma. but it is still a role playing¬ entirely genuine. just a thought.
I love you Lisa, but there is a big difference between making yourself happier by not taking insults, and being oblivious to what people are seeing you do. You shouldn't ignore everything, and pretend every criticism is just a reflection of someone else's insecurities. Sometimes it's a good thing to listen to what other people are saying, I think the book should be teaching how to determine what criticism and compliments are helpful, and true and what you need to ignore.
@gravitation369 for instance, if a drug abuser is being told that they are abusing a drug, and they are ignoring it because they think it's just a reflection of someone else's insecurities, They could end up killing themselves.
@gravitation369 for instance, if a drug abuser is being told that they are abusing a drug, and they are ignoring it because they think it's just a reflection of someone else's insecurities, They could end up killing themselves. this is dangerous material, for a lot of already oblivious people.
everything is personal. We are not machines. The only cure for a bad attitude is a sound beating. This is the greatest failure of modern society, the "law" and the "system" removing your right to defend yourself. It is not a right granted you by any system, it is your right, period. The worst is when somene spews their vitriol, then catches themself and apologizes. UNDERSTAND - if you were really feeling any amount of sorrow after the fact, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE COMMITTED THE AFFRONT TO BEGIN WITH.
Good stuff. I totally agree. This is an example of how I've always been. It's awesome being awesome. If ppl love you or hate you it doesn't matter. Have fun, live life, do stuff, enjoy it all and most importantly just say "SO". SO who cares if some one dislikes stuff about you. Be the awesomest you you know how to be. At the end of the day that's all that truly matters anyway.
I think we have to draw the line between being completely isolated and being completely dependent on someone else's opinion. I believe it's important to take some things personally and welcome criticism/compliment. Having said that, I believe it's equally important to have your own thoughts and ideas. I just can't imagine a world where everyone would not give a damn about what everyone else is thinking, that would truly be insanity. We all have to care about someone/something. Thanks Lisa. Love
*Cont.somewhere and i realy dono what to do like i dont go to the malls,some streets by foot becuase i saw him there and then i like got afraid of that places and i realy dono what to do its been 3 years since that happend and i still got that cold feeling in me when i go to the mall or some streets for just thinking that im gona see him etc.and btw he was found on the police by been a "head" of a porn online filming so its realy bad.thankgod that he never filmd me so i wantd to know that to do?
well ahh a few years ago i had a friend of mine that was awsome and we always player basketball etc.. for some months but then he and 2 friends of him that where"gasters" tryed to steel me 2 times without me nowing and that all started because of hi5 that i said that he was diferent etc..and then i talked to the police and the next day he did a vid.on youtube about me :( making fun of me saying realy bad things and a few years pass by and i still got that cold feeling in my heart when i go somew
But you must never be blind to constructive criticism or even the flat out truth. Talking as devils advocate I would say that just because someone calls you stupid it doesn't necessarily have anything to with their day or them at all. It could just be because you've done something that it is stupid! You need to find a balance otherwise its just not constructive, it's blinkered.
i hadn't thought about it this way i really appreciate you putting this up, very true statements that you don't really think about from this perspective. i don't know that it's possible to completely tune out someones negativiety towards you but i do think it's possible to acknowledgr someones actions realize it's not you and move on from it.
Living in the moment without prejudgement, self-hate and fear is the real key to finding joy. The only kind of joy that doesn't disappear when the drug/person/place/moment passes. All hate/anger/prejudice/negativity comes from our own fears..and the top fear is the fear of death. Our ego fears even losing an arguement because somehow that argument becomes our attachment to us and that in itself can become an attachment. According to Buddha attachments lead to sorrow.
Well it's possible to strive for this and I do believe some achieve it for the most part. It becomes about loving yourself unconditionally. The same idea that the outside world doesn't have to determine your joy or unhappiness. You let it. Then too often to deal with the stress that puts on you, one goes towards addictive escapes to deal with our own addictive emotional needs. But drugs/food/sex/etc is only temporary pleasures that adds to ones already existing pain soon after.
I'm not so sure that I agree with this Lisa. I think there is element of not living based on what others think about you that is very healthy and I think this is an interesting concept . . . but I have to wonder. When does it end? All of your self-worth is supposed to come from inside you? You say someone may just be taking their anger out on you, but that you are not supposed to take it personally? I don't think so. Maybe it's more about how we process pain than being impervious to it . . .?
thank u for this video it explained allot and i feel better about my life setting i do know that what i have going on wont change , i have learned that its not what is going on to make me who i am but what i do to have a different view on things.thank again and take care .. PEACE AND LOVE SAMUNG09
Subjective reality is a attractive concept. People willing to communicate about key issues and fallow through with choices are also something you can consider. I do and prefer them to the type who instead hate your guts and complain about your uniqueness weather it's an opinion or not.
love all of don miguel ruiz's books, i started reading them because my father has the same name as the author, but they happened to help me out a lot with my outlook of life..
OMG!! dats so rite. I have this habit of getting analysed day in and day out and my mood swings on other's opinion. dats probably b'coz my elder bro, he has kept intoxicating me with these thoughts that i'm no good, i'm error prone, and stuff like that since my very childhood. Thanks for sharing this... Love u lisa ,xoxo :)
I have been diagnosed with having social anxiety so this all sounds very familiar to me. Up to a point where it really hits home. I observe the world around me very thoroughly and tend to take too much, too personal.
I have learned to deal with some of these things but it's still quite difficult to not take it all so personal.
I love how you leave an enticing view to the video link, yet you show none of that in the video! Your do have an understanding for peoples insecurities and arounsing nature.
" How much you love yourself and how you feel about yourself are directly proportionate to the quality and integrity of your word"- and- "You were born with the right to be happy. You were born with the right to love, to enjoy and to share your love. You are alive, so take your life and enjoy it"= those are a couple of my fav quotes by him. Amazing. Don't take anything personally- simple and profound. Life changer. Don't make assumptions. Amazing.
if ur really want to get to the physiology of it its just all from when humans were first developing and if you wernt accepted into the pack/tibe of other humans then u ur chances of dieing where much greater. i think that 2010 thing is going to be the next level of human neurological development and all of this shit hopefully wont be a problem anymore
i know i have a ridiculously huge problem with this one its weird because iv known most my life that people are just projecting there own feelings but still iv allowed my self to believe that wat ppl say to me is the way i am. and in a way it is. iv let it affect me so much that i am physically exactly what people think i am, and its not even verbal accusations, i also judge other peoples choices for them selves and let it affect me. again it comes back to people wanting to be accepted
Why am I even here listening to those crap if you can just think by your own brain. But thanks for showing us your pretty face, that's the whole point isn't it?
I've been really insecure lately. Trying to get another job in the medical field and hearing so much negativity along with friends not being who they seem to be. I've been going insane. This is great advice.
O', & bleach is also a sign of lazyness - trying 2 distract people from your body. The most absurd extreme is when somebody fat bleaches their hair - as if 2 say 'I care about my appearance' (AS IF!!), or "WOO don't look @ my crap bod - check out the hair instead! =))
Come on!! California - land of fake BS. Stop contributing 2 the BS.
Hey Lisa! Here's some good advice: STOP BLEACHING YOUR HAIR! B who U R =) Start maybe by dying it back 2 it's natural color.
Bleaching is something gals do when they PERCEIVE that they R of an inferior breed, believing that fake BS hair will jack their price, perhaps even hooker a wealthy dork 2 snag a larger house in the divorce =))
Bleached hair says 2 the world "I am a fake - a liar, a self-hating prostitute'
O' 4 fux sake what a bunch of insane crap. "I know U R but what M I' - OMFG I knew it would B a pile of lies as soon as U read the spic author's name.
Let me give U a tip: Evaluate your environment & yourself based on OBSERVABLE EVIDENCE!
My god, the nonsense people read. Don't waste your time. Maybe read a 'logic & fallacies list' so U can learn 2 evaluate what U R reading W/greater speed =)
B impeccable W/your work? What spix do THAT? Come on.
@ davii611 i totally agreee! thats so true. & i know that because for so many years i didn't let anything affect me-including people's comments & ideas. after a while i found myself with just one close friend & ccompletely isolated from everyone in my school! so now i've changed my ways, although i still don't let other people's words affect me too much.
The problem that i see with this is that when you block yourself from other people's comments and dont let it effect you, you can become isolated from human interaction. I do agree with what is being sayed to an extent but theres got to be a time when you have to take in someones opinion to heart, whether you want to or not otherwise. Thats what being human is all about, reacting to other people.
i used to have great confidence until i started preschool, and then the teasing/bullying started, the name calling, from strangers to family, which progressed into 30 years of suffering. my family members still call me stupid, ugly, worthless, etc.
this book seems to have the right idea, but it comes to a point in your life when that damage is almost impossible to reverse. you are obviously quite beautiful and your parents are supportive, so i just can't believe that you actually understand.
i really need to give this book to a friend of mine... she has every single one of these problems..... and all she ever talks about is how everyone hates her and all of her assumptions are getting ridiculous and im running out of things to tell her... and honestly ive been avoiding her just because of this reason..... she loves books so maybe she will read this one.. i really hope it'll help her
I never noticed how strongly I base my confidence(even thoughts and personal style) on what other people say !! I also never noticed how stupid that sounds to let some unconfident little guy domonate my life. I just got threw a bad breakup that left me restless. He told me(I wont go into detail), but let's just say he told me a handful of specifics that are wrong with me. I regret telling him I loved him, because I can't love someone that hurts me PERSONALY=).
This in life... is what i hate. It has nothing to do with your video, but it has all to do with beauty. i find that every time I find a pretty girl, I am not permitted to call her beautiful or express the TRUE emotion I have inside me without becoming a retard who seems "inferior" which inevitably makes me "unnatractive" for some HOMO reason. It's pretty gay. I feel like jumping off a cliff to be honest.
"You should not let others' opinions affect you...it's just another opinion" So if a person kills someone and people tell him that what he did was horrible, that is just an opinion and he shouldn't take it personally right? No....we share a common reality, and we have reasonable expectations of one another because we live in society, not on disconnected islands. Therefore others' opinions of us often matter, and sometimes we have a responsibility to consider them.
I don't think thats right. You should be able to tell when someone is in a mood or when they really mean something. When someone really means something then you should take it seriously. If someone tells you you're selfish and you really are, their comments may be the only way to spot the problem, and everyone knows the first step to recovery is acceptance in any matter of phsycology.
Look i got a reply from a "FAN BITCH".....FAN BITCH..... not seeing her pic at the icon makes u to go and check a eye specialist with a psycologist for being obssed witha porno bitch..
Hey there!! i saw ur video for the first time n i,l say u r beautiful but do take it personaly :D,its a gr8 book that carries such beautiful thoughts to lead towards a beautiful life,we should live like that only but i think being trapped by human nature its very very dificult too,but nt impossible but afterwards there are second thoughts and negativity as well
I was thinking the same thing! I clicked on this because I saw some tits and then 3 seconds into it she is getting all philosophical. Sorry, honey.....you already have created the persona of being a dumb slut with all your other dumb videos. You are just an attention whore.....like a woman who makes pornos trying to be respected as a serious actress. When you have a bazillion black guys fucking you.....it just doesn't work.
She didn't show her boobs or even her cleavage at any point in this video. Go to the opticians and get your eyes checked. If you are jealous, thats pathetic.
I take things personally ALL the time. It's pretty ridiculous.
It is quite odd though that I stumbled across this vide because I've been searching for a way out of my unhappiness. All of your videos (I've watched a few) make SO much sense, and I feel that your ideas are sersiously helpful and insightful. But i gotta pee really bad so bye. lol
same can be said for a lot of negative things...maybe you did unknowingly something to offend them, maybe they don't like you, or cud just be pulling ur leg....but if you try to remain immune to them, how can you observe yourself?? just because someone said ur stupid,doesn't mean that u shud ignore that....ppl fight all the time, but instead of ingoring,you shud learn to get over it.
if we start ignoring , creating that shield around us, we'll always assume we're right, even if WE are WRONG.
its a very intereting observation but i don't agree with it completely. Yes,upto a certain extent, the thoughts ppl project on others are a reflections of their own behaviour,, but it doesn't happens all the time. if someone says 'you're beautiful'....it could simply mean that they're just being nice,or they really think that, or maybe they're trying to impress you.....
now if one thought of the moving bush as just wind blowing and it actually is a tiger he is dead but assuming that its something bad and thus alerting ourself we have eliminated ourself to be surprised. any way those days are over in a sense but we still are very insecure species and thats why we needed religion and stuff to console ourself. anyway this insecurity will be with us and the best we can do is to control it but can't eliminate it.
yeah of course , i mean this i think is very common and i think that people already know that, because of the obvious conflict that arises regarding something going on. like two of your friends telling you whether or not you should watch a movie.
but the problem is not that we don't know that , because we do. the problem is even knowing that we still seek for that validation because of that inbuilt evolutionary insecurity in ourselves. this insecurity is the same that has saved us from ......
good points LisaNova, insecurity can drive you mad if you let it. I was I've gotten older I saw that being comortable or "cool" ment being finding acceptance within yourself and not being suede by anything else. Sometimes you have to be darn right stubborn about what you believe.
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I am so insecure it really holds me back at almost everything I do, I'm always looking at people to see what they think or asking them what I should do. For example if I did my hair a way that I loved and then went to school and someone said it was weird or ugly I would feel insecure and bad all day, I would want to get rid of it. and then I would never wear my hair the same way again. the same thing such as clothes and other things. Insecurity to me is the worst emotion. Thank you Lisa
Sometimes you can not take things not personally ,but yea that has happened to me loads of times that I have a discussion with someone else and someone will overhear a segment and start bitching about it although the discussion wasn't even about them
Seems really good self help book. I really to see this video as well because it has given better understanding to me about what they mean by those four agreements.
The lady who has done the presentation of the video, has balanced pretty well with her expression, examples, choice of words....Many Thanks for posting the video.
I am really amazed by the thoughts which are presented thanks to the book and the hard work of the team. How long it takes to impact on someones life it again depends for how long we practice etc....
Seems interesting book.
We''ll read it surely.
The lady who has presented the video has done really good justice to books with her expressions, tones and choice of words.
After hearing the explanation, I think I try to live my life this way the majority of the time. Of course, its harder to not take compliments personally (versus the put-downs), but I think taking everything you see/hear/read with a grain of salt is a good policy. But, I also think it's important to avoid a life of rampant skepticism. Some people and what they say/do/write are genuine - the skill we all need to develop is the ability to recognize those people while dismissing the others.
I've been following your discussions about this and it hits home hard. I didn't understand it all that well until you and Rawn were discussing it because the examples made so much sense when you were kind of feeding off each others explanation of it? I think the not taking compliments thing is so very true because I feel as if I'm constantly in the warp of taking it too seriously when I'm being over complimented or put down,it's like I'm either full of myself or feel down, really eye opening x x
I agree everyone should have feelings of self worth free from whatever anyone else says or does. Some would say all embarrassment is based on the oppinions of others. I love compliments though :-)
i basically try not to let anything anyone says bother me. the only exception is to people im really close to, friends family and stuff because they are the people who know me the best so i tend to listen to them, or try to.
If You Let Your Emotions And Your Self Worth Be Reliant On Somebody Els's Opinion Your going To be In constant Misery, Because Your Always Going To Be Looking for somebody's Validation Or Opinion To determine how You Feel About Yourself.-"Don Miguel Ruiz's / Lisa Nova"
1st of all wanted to say i was pleasantly surprised to find out you were doing posts like these, and about the 4 agreements to boot! :)
you're right, not taking things personally (bad and good) is very important for your well-being. these are two sides of the same coin - focussing on the positive ones is a confidence booster but as you say, they're other people's opinions. most importantly: know within yourself you ALREADY are all the positive things you hear from others!
Question: Are you naked, or is your hair just covering your shirt? XD Lol, I was trying to figure that out the whole time.
Anyways, onto something that means something! I totally internalize anything and everything people say to me. It's an insecurity which I'm always fighting with. Deep inside, I feel like I'm not important and blahlblahblah, so I take what people say to me to heart because of this.
On the flip side, sometimes I am able to have self-confidence and I don't take what others say to heart. It depends on the day. I'm still learning how to ignore those nagging comments in my brain, but it was a learned habit that I got from my dad.
Everyone struggles with their own insecurities, and it's even worse if you were raised in a critical household, like me. But, it's not impossible to change! It's only impossible if you decide that it is.
Could you also think in your own opinion this is how anger problems begin if you're taking something it like someone saying your ugly and you don't take nicely to it.. and therefore react to it you could therefore get anger problems becoming insecure, if you get me.
i take compliments personally and really try to focus on the positive. if you base things off others you wont live your dreams. my mom is really insecure and i want her to be strong but i find myself dissing her because im really hurting inside i can cry for hours.
I'm glad to say that I don't take things personally, but on occasion I let one or two remarks get to me a little, even though I know they should be instantly dismissed.
Thank you for talking about this book! I had never heard of it, but now I can't wait to read it! (:
im just gonna tell you with the parts i agree with. mainly its just the part about not taking complements or negative opinions... i agrre with not taking the negative in but i would say go ahead and take the good in, pretty much be selective of what you want to accept. kinda like the positive thinking type of thing. i think if youre aware of what you accept and what you dont then you will have a better day/life. i think im gonna go buy that book rite now, actually im gonna go get all three.
the fact that you would have your cleavage as the video picture, and then sit here and talk about life and opinions and people taking out issues on other people and whatever is disgusting.
I do agree on some points, and I would disagree on others like I do agree with the idea that everyone has their own opinions and that their opinions are based by their own lives and experiences, and that everyones opinion will differ, however I do not agree that you should not take opinions personally because that is one of the ways that we grow as a person. But l also agree that you have to rely on yourself and not rely on the opinions of others for your own self worth.
i was talking to my friend about this video and he did not agree . but everything you say i agreed to. because i do that sometimes. someone can tell me that im pretty one day and ugly the next and illl act on what they say. but my friend was like the totally opposite. im going to get that book. im going to try and not take things so personal .. but i love all your videos and keep it up. im always watching =]
to be honest people don't move me> enjoy life to be honest. To be really hoest the only time I become inscure is if I have a very beautiful girl in my life. Other than that I am a unstopable force.
There is "objective reality", "subjective reality" (your opinion regarding something) and there is fantasy and crazy talk. Comments must be "justified" in order to be taken seriously. Otherwise, it's "unsubstantiated" blah, blah, blah worthless drivel.
honestly, i dont think i do. A few years back I learned to really appreciate myself the way I am and not let anything anyone else says about me affect me becuase the only person I need to please is myself. Sometimes though, my self control slips and I do get my feelings hurt about something, but I'm only human so its okay. :)
MuzicLova26 1 year ago
ThanksLis: If you learn to become 'selfless' meaning everything is not only about oneself then you project beyond ur own worry of self. Without getting too deep - what this means is that if we constanty project our thoughts inward toward our selfish needs then we will always try and filter those projections with opinion - whether ur's or others. When u learn to think 'away' from self and outwardly - then we learn to care and begin processing Love for others. Bworth'while' Bcome 'Out'secure ;)
seisso 1 year ago
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TheAnantaSesa 1 year ago
Hi. I am happy for the explanation on youtube.com, Hello, it was a sharing of insight to mention how that people project onto others what they have going on in their own mind, to add to this...if i may, recreating past experiences with what is available around them to try to get a handle on their place in reality. I would like to beyond saying this add that this recreation may be mutually benefitting if cleans slate of karma. but it is still a role playing¬ entirely genuine. just a thought.
TheAnantaSesa 1 year ago
oh my gosh haha wow... i do go insane and i think this pretty much defines my life
MsLi33 1 year ago
Love to your book but how to get free to read once and love ever.
Its my drem remain dream or I hope so.
gopallittlemaster 1 year ago
I love you Lisa, but there is a big difference between making yourself happier by not taking insults, and being oblivious to what people are seeing you do. You shouldn't ignore everything, and pretend every criticism is just a reflection of someone else's insecurities. Sometimes it's a good thing to listen to what other people are saying, I think the book should be teaching how to determine what criticism and compliments are helpful, and true and what you need to ignore.
gravitation369 1 year ago
@gravitation369 for instance, if a drug abuser is being told that they are abusing a drug, and they are ignoring it because they think it's just a reflection of someone else's insecurities, They could end up killing themselves.
gravitation369 1 year ago
@gravitation369 for instance, if a drug abuser is being told that they are abusing a drug, and they are ignoring it because they think it's just a reflection of someone else's insecurities, They could end up killing themselves. this is dangerous material, for a lot of already oblivious people.
gravitation369 1 year ago
everything is personal. We are not machines. The only cure for a bad attitude is a sound beating. This is the greatest failure of modern society, the "law" and the "system" removing your right to defend yourself. It is not a right granted you by any system, it is your right, period. The worst is when somene spews their vitriol, then catches themself and apologizes. UNDERSTAND - if you were really feeling any amount of sorrow after the fact, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE COMMITTED THE AFFRONT TO BEGIN WITH.
UBER069 1 year ago
My dad's better than your dad!
FactionEarth 1 year ago
your pretty but retarted
gsnehme97 1 year ago
@gsnehme97 you cant even spell it lol
FlipperundLopaka 1 year ago
where's the fourth part?? :)
mischka28 1 year ago
where can i get this book???
okayineedausername 1 year ago
i do sometimes and im trying to let what people to not let it get to me
12Carlson 1 year ago
This made me think ... more.
HelloImQuin 1 year ago
Good stuff. I totally agree. This is an example of how I've always been. It's awesome being awesome. If ppl love you or hate you it doesn't matter. Have fun, live life, do stuff, enjoy it all and most importantly just say "SO". SO who cares if some one dislikes stuff about you. Be the awesomest you you know how to be. At the end of the day that's all that truly matters anyway.
MHOK76 1 year ago
Marry me.
xhames61x 1 year ago
I think we have to draw the line between being completely isolated and being completely dependent on someone else's opinion. I believe it's important to take some things personally and welcome criticism/compliment. Having said that, I believe it's equally important to have your own thoughts and ideas. I just can't imagine a world where everyone would not give a damn about what everyone else is thinking, that would truly be insanity. We all have to care about someone/something. Thanks Lisa. Love
MrEniova 1 year ago 5
*Cont.somewhere and i realy dono what to do like i dont go to the malls,some streets by foot becuase i saw him there and then i like got afraid of that places and i realy dono what to do its been 3 years since that happend and i still got that cold feeling in me when i go to the mall or some streets for just thinking that im gona see him etc.and btw he was found on the police by been a "head" of a porn online filming so its realy bad.thankgod that he never filmd me so i wantd to know that to do?
CssGm 1 year ago
well ahh a few years ago i had a friend of mine that was awsome and we always player basketball etc.. for some months but then he and 2 friends of him that where"gasters" tryed to steel me 2 times without me nowing and that all started because of hi5 that i said that he was diferent etc..and then i talked to the police and the next day he did a vid.on youtube about me :( making fun of me saying realy bad things and a few years pass by and i still got that cold feeling in my heart when i go somew
CssGm 1 year ago
But you must never be blind to constructive criticism or even the flat out truth. Talking as devils advocate I would say that just because someone calls you stupid it doesn't necessarily have anything to with their day or them at all. It could just be because you've done something that it is stupid! You need to find a balance otherwise its just not constructive, it's blinkered.
purewest82 1 year ago
i hadn't thought about it this way i really appreciate you putting this up, very true statements that you don't really think about from this perspective. i don't know that it's possible to completely tune out someones negativiety towards you but i do think it's possible to acknowledgr someones actions realize it's not you and move on from it.
tmot4686 1 year ago
I <3 this video!
RainxOnxMex 1 year ago
How would you take this? I wanna butter your ass like a cracker and eat it! ; )
scorpionkings 1 year ago 18
@scorpionkings do you understand that this is exactly the kind of crap She's teaching us (and herself) to ignore?! Grow up!!
tubaguy52 1 year ago
@tubaguy52 Sorry dad that I didn't take a youtube personality serious! I'll try harder next time...
scorpionkings 1 year ago
check my channel y'all i'm doing it big as usual.
dboypimp101 1 year ago
Intelligent Woman
beatsandmelodies 1 year ago
I absolutely love this video! It's so true!
MollieKey 1 year ago
Living in the moment without prejudgement, self-hate and fear is the real key to finding joy. The only kind of joy that doesn't disappear when the drug/person/place/moment passes. All hate/anger/prejudice/negativity comes from our own fears..and the top fear is the fear of death. Our ego fears even losing an arguement because somehow that argument becomes our attachment to us and that in itself can become an attachment. According to Buddha attachments lead to sorrow.
Jamesparker19751975 1 year ago
Well it's possible to strive for this and I do believe some achieve it for the most part. It becomes about loving yourself unconditionally. The same idea that the outside world doesn't have to determine your joy or unhappiness. You let it. Then too often to deal with the stress that puts on you, one goes towards addictive escapes to deal with our own addictive emotional needs. But drugs/food/sex/etc is only temporary pleasures that adds to ones already existing pain soon after.
Jamesparker19751975 1 year ago
Lovely, articulate woman. Very nice to watch and listen to. Thanks.
davjohns1 1 year ago 2
What happened to Molly!? lol
strivealivebrian 1 year ago
Thanks for reminding of this.
Blankname101 1 year ago
I think your great, don't take it personally. lol. I really do.. have fun.
Brulluhman 1 year ago
that was good.
DSkehan2004 1 year ago
you clearly should be studying psychology
cryman89 1 year ago
thats tru! i figured that one out on my own and now i kno im ryt. kool
packersplayer119 1 year ago
I'm not so sure that I agree with this Lisa. I think there is element of not living based on what others think about you that is very healthy and I think this is an interesting concept . . . but I have to wonder. When does it end? All of your self-worth is supposed to come from inside you? You say someone may just be taking their anger out on you, but that you are not supposed to take it personally? I don't think so. Maybe it's more about how we process pain than being impervious to it . . .?
eeli1 1 year ago
Once this guy said somthing really funny about opinions
"Opinions are like assholes, Everyones Got one, Keep your to Yourself"
Lol
5BroCorp 1 year ago
This helping me really re-evaluate my life. not trying to sound cheesy or whatever, but thanks.
WillMillion15 1 year ago
Lisa, you are Stupid! I love you;-)
wspringer0910 1 year ago
wow. thankyou so much for posting this, that is so true!!
gracealexandra15 1 year ago
thank u for this video it explained allot and i feel better about my life setting i do know that what i have going on wont change , i have learned that its not what is going on to make me who i am but what i do to have a different view on things.thank again and take care .. PEACE AND LOVE SAMUNG09
samung09 1 year ago
u remind me of a young young britney spears!!! like 16 britney!! ur so awsome!!
tgriffplayer 1 year ago
Subjective reality is a attractive concept. People willing to communicate about key issues and fallow through with choices are also something you can consider. I do and prefer them to the type who instead hate your guts and complain about your uniqueness weather it's an opinion or not.
zombiekillscene 1 year ago
Beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside. You are a sweetie Lisa
brockXroberts 1 year ago
love all of don miguel ruiz's books, i started reading them because my father has the same name as the author, but they happened to help me out a lot with my outlook of life..
MsPerfectRed 1 year ago
OMG!! dats so rite. I have this habit of getting analysed day in and day out and my mood swings on other's opinion. dats probably b'coz my elder bro, he has kept intoxicating me with these thoughts that i'm no good, i'm error prone, and stuff like that since my very childhood. Thanks for sharing this... Love u lisa ,xoxo :)
Rockrebel98 1 year ago
<<<< big fan of yours.... LISANOVA..
11002938 1 year ago
I have been diagnosed with having social anxiety so this all sounds very familiar to me. Up to a point where it really hits home. I observe the world around me very thoroughly and tend to take too much, too personal.
I have learned to deal with some of these things but it's still quite difficult to not take it all so personal.
Thanks for the video. It helps a lot :)
funnylookingfoetus 1 year ago
I love how you leave an enticing view to the video link, yet you show none of that in the video! Your do have an understanding for peoples insecurities and arounsing nature.
DDBB2012 1 year ago
lol i thought it was funny when you said even when someone kills you not to take it personally.. probably cos im too immature for my age haha
700ytten 1 year ago
Omg, just saw my mom read this book and I was like "OMG that book did Lisa read!!"
Cassandralovesmakeup 1 year ago
" How much you love yourself and how you feel about yourself are directly proportionate to the quality and integrity of your word"- and- "You were born with the right to be happy. You were born with the right to love, to enjoy and to share your love. You are alive, so take your life and enjoy it"= those are a couple of my fav quotes by him. Amazing. Don't take anything personally- simple and profound. Life changer. Don't make assumptions. Amazing.
skdrama 1 year ago
That book is amazing huh? Don Miguel Ruiz is bad ass! That book is awesome!!! The 5th agreement is out now, you should read. Awesome.
skdrama 1 year ago
why is the thumbnail always you with cleavage?? I fall for it every time
ChudzProductions 1 year ago
if ur really want to get to the physiology of it its just all from when humans were first developing and if you wernt accepted into the pack/tibe of other humans then u ur chances of dieing where much greater. i think that 2010 thing is going to be the next level of human neurological development and all of this shit hopefully wont be a problem anymore
kelsster3 1 year ago
i know i have a ridiculously huge problem with this one its weird because iv known most my life that people are just projecting there own feelings but still iv allowed my self to believe that wat ppl say to me is the way i am. and in a way it is. iv let it affect me so much that i am physically exactly what people think i am, and its not even verbal accusations, i also judge other peoples choices for them selves and let it affect me. again it comes back to people wanting to be accepted
kelsster3 1 year ago
lisa ur so pretty!
Rachel3300 1 year ago
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Why am I even here listening to those crap if you can just think by your own brain. But thanks for showing us your pretty face, that's the whole point isn't it?
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Wonderland1026 1 year ago
I so wanna bang you Lisa....Plsssssssssssssssssss
rockethtown 1 year ago 2
wow...@Deathrape2001...pathetic..im not a huge fan of blondes but what you said was completely ignorant...loser
broccollihead 1 year ago
I've been really insecure lately. Trying to get another job in the medical field and hearing so much negativity along with friends not being who they seem to be. I've been going insane. This is great advice.
VIDEOFREAK076 1 year ago
I love you. You are so beautiful.
Chihang256 1 year ago 2
O', & bleach is also a sign of lazyness - trying 2 distract people from your body. The most absurd extreme is when somebody fat bleaches their hair - as if 2 say 'I care about my appearance' (AS IF!!), or "WOO don't look @ my crap bod - check out the hair instead! =))
Come on!! California - land of fake BS. Stop contributing 2 the BS.
Deathrape2001 1 year ago
Hey Lisa! Here's some good advice: STOP BLEACHING YOUR HAIR! B who U R =) Start maybe by dying it back 2 it's natural color.
Bleaching is something gals do when they PERCEIVE that they R of an inferior breed, believing that fake BS hair will jack their price, perhaps even hooker a wealthy dork 2 snag a larger house in the divorce =))
Bleached hair says 2 the world "I am a fake - a liar, a self-hating prostitute'
Deathrape2001 1 year ago
@Deathrape2001 Why would you dye your hair to its natural colour anyway?
davii611 1 year ago
@davii611 NEWS FLASH! Pretending U don't understand just makes U sound MORE retarded, not less ~;-)
Deathrape2001 1 year ago
@Deathrape2001 About dying her hair? Ok
davii611 1 year ago
O' 4 fux sake what a bunch of insane crap. "I know U R but what M I' - OMFG I knew it would B a pile of lies as soon as U read the spic author's name.
Let me give U a tip: Evaluate your environment & yourself based on OBSERVABLE EVIDENCE!
My god, the nonsense people read. Don't waste your time. Maybe read a 'logic & fallacies list' so U can learn 2 evaluate what U R reading W/greater speed =)
B impeccable W/your work? What spix do THAT? Come on.
Deathrape2001 1 year ago
your a really good motivator
13stephanie14 1 year ago
Your So HoT!!!!!
kingbear3472 1 year ago
Oh yeah.. I fail at everything!
Headbanger99900 1 year ago
@ davii611 i totally agreee! thats so true. & i know that because for so many years i didn't let anything affect me-including people's comments & ideas. after a while i found myself with just one close friend & ccompletely isolated from everyone in my school! so now i've changed my ways, although i still don't let other people's words affect me too much.
great video btw lisaa!
iitsSAMM 1 year ago
The problem that i see with this is that when you block yourself from other people's comments and dont let it effect you, you can become isolated from human interaction. I do agree with what is being sayed to an extent but theres got to be a time when you have to take in someones opinion to heart, whether you want to or not otherwise. Thats what being human is all about, reacting to other people.
davii611 1 year ago
i used to have great confidence until i started preschool, and then the teasing/bullying started, the name calling, from strangers to family, which progressed into 30 years of suffering. my family members still call me stupid, ugly, worthless, etc.
this book seems to have the right idea, but it comes to a point in your life when that damage is almost impossible to reverse. you are obviously quite beautiful and your parents are supportive, so i just can't believe that you actually understand.
arkityp 1 year ago
i really need to give this book to a friend of mine... she has every single one of these problems..... and all she ever talks about is how everyone hates her and all of her assumptions are getting ridiculous and im running out of things to tell her... and honestly ive been avoiding her just because of this reason..... she loves books so maybe she will read this one.. i really hope it'll help her
WeAreWastingUrTime 1 year ago
looks like she gives good blowjob
TimurDaFunk 1 year ago
Ya i figured that out too. (Only reason i watched this
Weeeegie 1 year ago
like being in therapy with a psychologist that needs a haircut ;)
mlehmann8 1 year ago
I never noticed how strongly I base my confidence(even thoughts and personal style) on what other people say !! I also never noticed how stupid that sounds to let some unconfident little guy domonate my life. I just got threw a bad breakup that left me restless. He told me(I wont go into detail), but let's just say he told me a handful of specifics that are wrong with me. I regret telling him I loved him, because I can't love someone that hurts me PERSONALY=).
PurpleStar38 1 year ago
This in life... is what i hate. It has nothing to do with your video, but it has all to do with beauty. i find that every time I find a pretty girl, I am not permitted to call her beautiful or express the TRUE emotion I have inside me without becoming a retard who seems "inferior" which inevitably makes me "unnatractive" for some HOMO reason. It's pretty gay. I feel like jumping off a cliff to be honest.
maxhappyface 1 year ago
"You should not let others' opinions affect you...it's just another opinion" So if a person kills someone and people tell him that what he did was horrible, that is just an opinion and he shouldn't take it personally right? No....we share a common reality, and we have reasonable expectations of one another because we live in society, not on disconnected islands. Therefore others' opinions of us often matter, and sometimes we have a responsibility to consider them.
GPerdento 1 year ago
Fuck me
TheSk8tercp 1 year ago
honoustly?
I like you way more when you talk normal..
Just talking, and say helpful stuff, insteed of acting like a rtrd xD
abcdefgdmfgklfd 1 year ago
I don't think thats right. You should be able to tell when someone is in a mood or when they really mean something. When someone really means something then you should take it seriously. If someone tells you you're selfish and you really are, their comments may be the only way to spot the problem, and everyone knows the first step to recovery is acceptance in any matter of phsycology.
JoeAnnaTV 1 year ago
Look i got a reply from a "FAN BITCH".....FAN BITCH..... not seeing her pic at the icon makes u to go and check a eye specialist with a psycologist for being obssed witha porno bitch..
karan30612 1 year ago
Hey there!! i saw ur video for the first time n i,l say u r beautiful but do take it personaly :D,its a gr8 book that carries such beautiful thoughts to lead towards a beautiful life,we should live like that only but i think being trapped by human nature its very very dificult too,but nt impossible but afterwards there are second thoughts and negativity as well
have a nice day
nishant699 1 year ago
@hpygolkyone
And you're the dumb asshole who doesn't understand the other videos are making fun of "dumb sluts."
emoemu4 1 year ago
lisa nova is a sheer pervert..... she shows her boobs to attract views its like makin porno
karan30612 1 year ago
I was thinking the same thing! I clicked on this because I saw some tits and then 3 seconds into it she is getting all philosophical. Sorry, honey.....you already have created the persona of being a dumb slut with all your other dumb videos. You are just an attention whore.....like a woman who makes pornos trying to be respected as a serious actress. When you have a bazillion black guys fucking you.....it just doesn't work.
hpygolkyone 1 year ago
She didn't show her boobs or even her cleavage at any point in this video. Go to the opticians and get your eyes checked. If you are jealous, thats pathetic.
JoeAnnaTV 1 year ago
apparently its working for her
bgjnat56 1 year ago
I take things personally ALL the time. It's pretty ridiculous.
It is quite odd though that I stumbled across this vide because I've been searching for a way out of my unhappiness. All of your videos (I've watched a few) make SO much sense, and I feel that your ideas are sersiously helpful and insightful. But i gotta pee really bad so bye. lol
maxhappyface 1 year ago
f*ck off
ashiskar 1 year ago
I GOTA BONER
COD5252 1 year ago 2
@COD5252
Sad child !
NathannCorryy 1 year ago
same can be said for a lot of negative things...maybe you did unknowingly something to offend them, maybe they don't like you, or cud just be pulling ur leg....but if you try to remain immune to them, how can you observe yourself?? just because someone said ur stupid,doesn't mean that u shud ignore that....ppl fight all the time, but instead of ingoring,you shud learn to get over it.
if we start ignoring , creating that shield around us, we'll always assume we're right, even if WE are WRONG.
ishu161 1 year ago
its a very intereting observation but i don't agree with it completely. Yes,upto a certain extent, the thoughts ppl project on others are a reflections of their own behaviour,, but it doesn't happens all the time. if someone says 'you're beautiful'....it could simply mean that they're just being nice,or they really think that, or maybe they're trying to impress you.....
ishu161 1 year ago
hubba hubba ... faints*
hozzy2 1 year ago
Beautiful!! :) <3
abhi1048 1 year ago
I always internalize people's opinions of me, I am way too sensitive of other people's moods, and it affects me, even makes me cry sometimes.
I will listen to your wise words. I am learning the older I get tho.
Shewolfe1111 1 year ago
ohh shit ppl notice one thing that she every 5-6 secs touches her hair which comes to her eyes .man so funny....... get a haircut babe....
aakashzxv1 1 year ago
I read that book but In spanish is amazing and very helpful
aliuka09 1 year ago
pathetic book.
Paklord101 1 year ago
PROJECTION is one type of defense mechanism which we all use, especially children. Psychiatry babe!!!!
thepsudomonas 1 year ago 2
........a predator hiding behind wild bush.
now if one thought of the moving bush as just wind blowing and it actually is a tiger he is dead but assuming that its something bad and thus alerting ourself we have eliminated ourself to be surprised. any way those days are over in a sense but we still are very insecure species and thats why we needed religion and stuff to console ourself. anyway this insecurity will be with us and the best we can do is to control it but can't eliminate it.
peace
venderednev 1 year ago
yeah of course , i mean this i think is very common and i think that people already know that, because of the obvious conflict that arises regarding something going on. like two of your friends telling you whether or not you should watch a movie.
but the problem is not that we don't know that , because we do. the problem is even knowing that we still seek for that validation because of that inbuilt evolutionary insecurity in ourselves. this insecurity is the same that has saved us from ......
venderednev 1 year ago
good points LisaNova, insecurity can drive you mad if you let it. I was I've gotten older I saw that being comortable or "cool" ment being finding acceptance within yourself and not being suede by anything else. Sometimes you have to be darn right stubborn about what you believe.
jody808 1 year ago
woow this gives me a lot to think about :/
TheVeronicas4ever101 1 year ago
lul, funny vid :L
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boomjigger 1 year ago
hey u r heartthrobing
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milostylo07 1 year ago
i think she has itching problem in her hair
go to some nice doctor hot lady
manpreetsingh9243 1 year ago
you are right lisa.I agree with you.I tend to take things personally , it hurts sometimes.
Thank you for the advice
hope you post such thought provoking videos.
microjonny 1 year ago
you need to get a subscribe me pic on top of description...
srikanth94 1 year ago
I am so insecure it really holds me back at almost everything I do, I'm always looking at people to see what they think or asking them what I should do. For example if I did my hair a way that I loved and then went to school and someone said it was weird or ugly I would feel insecure and bad all day, I would want to get rid of it. and then I would never wear my hair the same way again. the same thing such as clothes and other things. Insecurity to me is the worst emotion. Thank you Lisa
AkuDemDem 1 year ago
girl u r hot
Gr8DarkLordVoldemort 1 year ago
She is so amazing! I think I'm in love! LOL
chad4617 1 year ago 2
Your hot.....
TheSk8tercp 1 year ago
Sometimes you can not take things not personally ,but yea that has happened to me loads of times that I have a discussion with someone else and someone will overhear a segment and start bitching about it although the discussion wasn't even about them
I live by "Badmind na go far!"
Postman1337 1 year ago
Thanks !
MrRadio1982 1 year ago
Great video! Subscribed! I tend to take what other people say very personal...Some greats tips though.Mabye I'll check this book out. :)
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xkingdavid24x 1 year ago
All you haters, let Lisa's light shine!
abk6418 1 year ago
Seems really good self help book. I really to see this video as well because it has given better understanding to me about what they mean by those four agreements.
The lady who has done the presentation of the video, has balanced pretty well with her expression, examples, choice of words....Many Thanks for posting the video.
MrRadio1982 1 year ago
I am really amazed by the thoughts which are presented thanks to the book and the hard work of the team. How long it takes to impact on someones life it again depends for how long we practice etc....
Seems interesting book.
We''ll read it surely.
The lady who has presented the video has done really good justice to books with her expressions, tones and choice of words.
Many Thanks !
MrRadio1982 1 year ago
I'm 14 years old, and you really inspired me to read the book, LIsa. Thank you! I'm really enjoying this novel..
BriannaJesme 1 year ago
After hearing the explanation, I think I try to live my life this way the majority of the time. Of course, its harder to not take compliments personally (versus the put-downs), but I think taking everything you see/hear/read with a grain of salt is a good policy. But, I also think it's important to avoid a life of rampant skepticism. Some people and what they say/do/write are genuine - the skill we all need to develop is the ability to recognize those people while dismissing the others.
lefarrell 1 year ago
I've been following your discussions about this and it hits home hard. I didn't understand it all that well until you and Rawn were discussing it because the examples made so much sense when you were kind of feeding off each others explanation of it? I think the not taking compliments thing is so very true because I feel as if I'm constantly in the warp of taking it too seriously when I'm being over complimented or put down,it's like I'm either full of myself or feel down, really eye opening x x
roisinhealy 1 year ago
I agree everyone should have feelings of self worth free from whatever anyone else says or does. Some would say all embarrassment is based on the oppinions of others. I love compliments though :-)
JCPonders 1 year ago
damn i need to read this book now..
i basically try not to let anything anyone says bother me. the only exception is to people im really close to, friends family and stuff because they are the people who know me the best so i tend to listen to them, or try to.
bradley4980 1 year ago
Πάρτα Lisa και κάντα κορνίζα !
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If You Let Your Emotions And Your Self Worth Be Reliant On Somebody Els's Opinion Your going To be In constant Misery, Because Your Always Going To Be Looking for somebody's Validation Or Opinion To determine how You Feel About Yourself.-"Don Miguel Ruiz's / Lisa Nova"
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tacocoolaid00 1 year ago
1st of all wanted to say i was pleasantly surprised to find out you were doing posts like these, and about the 4 agreements to boot! :)
you're right, not taking things personally (bad and good) is very important for your well-being. these are two sides of the same coin - focussing on the positive ones is a confidence booster but as you say, they're other people's opinions. most importantly: know within yourself you ALREADY are all the positive things you hear from others!
great video!
yb2517 1 year ago
Question: Are you naked, or is your hair just covering your shirt? XD Lol, I was trying to figure that out the whole time.
Anyways, onto something that means something! I totally internalize anything and everything people say to me. It's an insecurity which I'm always fighting with. Deep inside, I feel like I'm not important and blahlblahblah, so I take what people say to me to heart because of this.
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thedarknessofnana 1 year ago
On the flip side, sometimes I am able to have self-confidence and I don't take what others say to heart. It depends on the day. I'm still learning how to ignore those nagging comments in my brain, but it was a learned habit that I got from my dad.
Everyone struggles with their own insecurities, and it's even worse if you were raised in a critical household, like me. But, it's not impossible to change! It's only impossible if you decide that it is.
thedarknessofnana 1 year ago
I rarely waste my time on featured vids and this is a prime example why.
sjtom57 1 year ago
I hate the fact that you sexually exploit yourself to get more views.
You are better then that Lisa. I have noticed on your other channel titles it is all revolving around sex to get more views...I think it's a bummer.
jhmartin180 1 year ago
Could you also think in your own opinion this is how anger problems begin if you're taking something it like someone saying your ugly and you don't take nicely to it.. and therefore react to it you could therefore get anger problems becoming insecure, if you get me.
DarrenJMcCartney 1 year ago
i take compliments personally and really try to focus on the positive. if you base things off others you wont live your dreams. my mom is really insecure and i want her to be strong but i find myself dissing her because im really hurting inside i can cry for hours.
BrookeLaBonita 1 year ago
those are really good points. but i just wish it was as simple as it sounded. :/
amykinsyooo 1 year ago
Agreed!
elfengal 1 year ago
I'm glad to say that I don't take things personally, but on occasion I let one or two remarks get to me a little, even though I know they should be instantly dismissed.
Thank you for talking about this book! I had never heard of it, but now I can't wait to read it! (:
hello184 1 year ago
im just gonna tell you with the parts i agree with. mainly its just the part about not taking complements or negative opinions... i agrre with not taking the negative in but i would say go ahead and take the good in, pretty much be selective of what you want to accept. kinda like the positive thinking type of thing. i think if youre aware of what you accept and what you dont then you will have a better day/life. i think im gonna go buy that book rite now, actually im gonna go get all three.
TheOhHeckYes 1 year ago
the preview icon is awesome!
but its kinda not fair, cuz a guy cant just put on a tank top and get like 77M views :P
but anyways, lisa, good luck with that book, it sounds like its really working for you! :D
TheH1ll88 1 year ago
my dick, u're ass
san77vb 1 year ago
the fact that you would have your cleavage as the video picture, and then sit here and talk about life and opinions and people taking out issues on other people and whatever is disgusting.
HbuStfu 1 year ago
i have that book, its great<3
MaryJayRodro 1 year ago
I do agree on some points, and I would disagree on others like I do agree with the idea that everyone has their own opinions and that their opinions are based by their own lives and experiences, and that everyones opinion will differ, however I do not agree that you should not take opinions personally because that is one of the ways that we grow as a person. But l also agree that you have to rely on yourself and not rely on the opinions of others for your own self worth.
galvaton10000 1 year ago
like your videos but i really dont give a shit about what other people think about me i like the way i am...
ThePIBmaster 1 year ago
i love your videos... so inspirational! thank you.
rebelwithoutastraw 1 year ago
i was talking to my friend about this video and he did not agree . but everything you say i agreed to. because i do that sometimes. someone can tell me that im pretty one day and ugly the next and illl act on what they say. but my friend was like the totally opposite. im going to get that book. im going to try and not take things so personal .. but i love all your videos and keep it up. im always watching =]
PuertoRicanBeauty53 1 year ago
sry squeaky voice ^^
predalien47 1 year ago
so you dont talk in the squeaky video
predalien47 1 year ago
My boyfriend and i, both think you're really hot. Don't take it personally but... we would loOOove to do you!
electricprunes 1 year ago
I take everyfing personally. This has totally changed the way i fink bout dis now. Fank u
aWarriorsPride 1 year ago
Wow, this is really helpful i like these videos :) thanks
FunkyBanaaanaaa 1 year ago
I would probably take it personally if somebody killed me to be honest
ivanopinion 1 year ago
Her Face Color is Pink....
fairuq 1 year ago
perraaa bañatee sebe qe te apesta el chocho! :S
bullet8709 1 year ago
be a peinarte y abañarte lo que deberias aser :S sebe que te apesta
bullet8709 1 year ago
to be honest people don't move me> enjoy life to be honest. To be really hoest the only time I become inscure is if I have a very beautiful girl in my life. Other than that I am a unstopable force.
blackdreamhunk 1 year ago
well in mine opinion your beautiful lol, so I gess your not going to take that lol
blackdreamhunk 1 year ago
why are u inside reading about life.. go outside and experience it firsthand
kieranirishred 1 year ago
Good for you spreading some views on basic enlightment.
Welcome to adulthood.
lassek85 1 year ago
make a Video where u are striping !!!
Niksan89 1 year ago
your a man... ADMIT IT!
Muogle 1 year ago
wow way to lead everyone on with that thumbnail and then having the most boring video ever...
MusicVideoBros 1 year ago
There is "objective reality", "subjective reality" (your opinion regarding something) and there is fantasy and crazy talk. Comments must be "justified" in order to be taken seriously. Otherwise, it's "unsubstantiated" blah, blah, blah worthless drivel.
kenselin 1 year ago
I liked you before you became a self help guru. Like Woody Allen, I prefer your earlier, funny stuff. (((Toxic wave on you)))
cagwa 1 year ago