I agree with you too. I don't want to be used for sex when I'm older. If I have a boyfriend that says he wants sex I'm telling him I'm waiting until marriage.
I wear a Purity Ring, And I'm proud to say that i'm also waiting for marriage to do any of that stuff! :) also i'm proud your waiting too. well done, and well done to all those other people not getting involved in that kinda thing! Personally, As i was born and raised a christian; i feel its not right, so as I have told myself from a very young age that I wouldn't, it makes it easier not to! :)
stupidest thing I've ever watched. If someone chooses to have sex with someone it's their choice, sex is natural and shouldn't be frowned upon. As long as you're being safe and having fun with it there's no problem. you're not a prude for waiting until marriage and you're not a slut for having sex before marriage, it's simply a choice you make individually. and let me tell you having sex with someone you love is amazing but casual sex once in a while is great as well. no hate haha <3
I don't really wan't to get married, so I'm all for sex before marriage I think its a matter of choice though. I wouldn't ever have sex on a first date. I know that i'd wait for the right person to come along
Its rare for anyone to ever promote that they are not having sex before marriage, even if you already had sex start a new and learn to keep your self..you'll recieve more respect and have a greater chance of meet your true love ... make them wait cause if they really care for you and your beliefs they wouldn't disrespect what you said they. Would agree and wait!
I want to wait until i am ready. Not until i'm married, although it would be more special, u want to experience it early to know who it feels. But i will do it with someone i love. NOT a first date
im waiting untill im married because i dont want to end up like my friends... 5 of them have got prego before the age of 18... 2 have been given STDs and my best friend (who is a guy) is literely a man whore and him being bi, hes more of a man whole than people think...
If i dont last untill i marrige im only gonna loose my V's after im 21 and its with a guy who loves me!!
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
having sex does not make you a slut a whore or whatever. we all have different opinions on sex some want to wait some don't but no matter when you do it before or after your married it doesn't make a a slut unless you like 11 years old then thats different.
Having sex doesn't make you into a slut. Being with somone you love and trust when it's your first time is really important thou. But having a ring on your finger or not, that just doesn't matter. Life is just too short not to be enjoying sex!
I myself am waiting till i am married :) i mean why can't you just wait? the world has changed so much, and we have so many teen pregnancies now. Jst wait until ur with that one person you love. It may be incredibly hard but its for the best :)
@Bittersweet1251 my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is.
I think it's awesome that you're verbal about your opinion. I, too, plan on waiting for marriage. It's so cool to see a public figure doing stuff like this. Most people don't understand some of the harmful effects on them, their emotions and others when having pre-marital sex. So, I appreciate you. Thanks for being so great! :)
@TheSweetteen16 depends on how committed u r. if u r in love. and by in love i mean would one day like the marry the person but marriage just isnt rite at the moment. then no u r not a slut. if u do it with every1 then yes u r a slut. no 2 wayz about ti.
im not gunna have sex untill im married, no matter how tempting it could be, i dont wear a purity ring, i just know that im gunna wait and feeling 'lonely' sometimes is better than doing something ill regret
Someone said they'd wait until they were an adult before deciding when they would do it, because it's an adult decision. I completely agree with that. I don't know when I'll do, because I'm not psychic, but I will at least wait until I'm in my 20s. And out of college.
Before you have sex with someone, you should both get STD tests (even if you're virgins), the female should go on prescription birth controll (pill, IUD, etc), and you should use condoms every single time you have sex (anal, oral, and vaginal). If you're in a same-sex relationship, obviously you can skip the prescription birth control step.
@rainbowkiss100, HPV, herpes, hepatitis. Those things can all be passed on from person to person without sex. Sometimes just kissing can give you an STD.
@MurasakiSunshine my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is.
I personally disagree. I used to say I wasn't gonna have sex until I was married, but I changed my mind one night and I personally do not regret it. Sex is fun. And the pregnancy and STD thing, use condoms and birth control... Problem solved!
I'm 20 and a virgin. It's not that big of a deal, people. If "virgin" is the worst insult that someone can throw at you, you're doing pretty good in life.
@MurasakiSunshine You can have sex without getting pregnant or getting an STD. Using a condom for starters. But if you are having sex with someone you trust/or has been tested, you just need birth control. I understand when people don't because of there religious beliefs or because they aren't ready, but not having sex out of fear of pregnancy or STD's isn't right.
@Bibbabble, my mother got pregnant on birth control and herpes and genital warts cannot be prevented through condoms. And like I said before, I don't feel like I'm ready to have sex. I can say I don't want to have sex because the moon is made of cheese. I don't need a reason to not have sex. If I don't have religious beliefs, I should just be sleeping with everyone I come across?
I feel that its an adult decision- so I'm waiting till I'm an adult. Aka 18+ years of age. I might not be ready even then, but at least when I do I can say it was a mature decision that I don't regret. I have deep respect for you BLT!
I really respect your views! It's nice to see that there are still people that believe that love is mental and you don't need to have sex to be with someone. I'm not sure if I'll wait until marriage, but i'm definitely waiting a few more years. I mean I'm only 17. I'm definitely not ready yet.
If your really like someone and feel save and comfortable with him/her and ofcourse want to doi it, I think you should. To me a ring would never define the dept of my relationship, but I understand that to others it's the ultimate sign of commitment.
I believe in abstinence, my family are strong catholics and thats how I have been raised, to be honest though, ithing its best! because before marriage you can get pregnant, daddy leaves and your alone, after marriage you know you love that person and your ready to give yourself to them completely.
I feel it depends on the person, but I feel it should be a personal reason, not because of your religion, or what you're taught. If you feel it will be more special and meaningful to you to be with someone you're married to, then that's fine. For myself, I say if I feel comfortable enough with the guy, go for it. Though I haven't had sex yet, I'm not against it. If you are ok with it, and so are they, go for it! Just wrap it before you tap it.
I'm seventeen and have been dating my current boyfriend for three years and haven't had sex with him yet. I may not wait until marriage, but I am going to wait until I can be sure that on the chance that it doesn't go as planned (pregnancy for example), that I'll be prepared to handle it.
I don't really see the point of waiting, except if you want to of course. It's a natural thing and if you approach it with reason, as you should all things, I don't see why you shouldn't enjoy yourself with someone you love / think is hot. waiting out of principal just adds stress for newly weds. part of life is to get comfortable with your body and who cares if you want to share that with someone else.
@faIc0n well lets say you randomly hook up with someone and end up pregnant, u would have slept with so many people, u wouldent know who the father is, and with being married there is a bond and u cant break up with them just cuz they r pregnant like u can if ur just bf/gf. i just believe its all about trust. THATS THE POINT OF WAITING.
im not a christian, and i dont believe that u HAVE to be married, im just saying sometimes its more than neccesary,especially if the sex is unprotected. :I
I think as long as you're being safe, it doesn't matter how many people you have sex with... and if any boyfriends/girlfriends you have love you enough, then it won't matter to them.
So, yeah, I think if you're not in a committed relationship, get with as many people as you want, as long as your safe and have regular STD check-ups.
@LelaGlitteryAfrodite well lets say you randomly hook up with someone and end up pregnant, u would have slept with so many people, u wouldent know who the father is,there r std's and with being married there is a bond and u cant break up with them just cuz they r pregnant like u can if ur just bf/gf. i just believe its all about trust.
im not a christian, and i dont believe that u HAVE to be married, im just saying sometimes its more than neccesary,especially if the sex is unprotected. :I
I think it's very cute of you to wait till marriage and if it's the right thing for you that's great. but i think we don't live in the times when people thought masturbation makes you blind, sex before marriage is a dirty sin and the earth is flat. although there are of cause bad things connected to sex like prostitution, raping etc. sex is one of the most beautiful, pure and natural things in the world. most bad things about sex happen, when people feel guilt for their desire.
I honestly just don't like the insinuation that if you do choose to have sex before marriage, you're a slut. She talks about it being a choice and her choice and that's fine. But The rest of us shouldn't be judged or insulted because we choose to live our lives differently.
To all the people who are saying she's forcing her opinion on us, she said that she wasn't trying to so she isn't forcing her opinion. And I agree with you Brittani :)
I was over 18 and with my boyfriend at the time (he's my fiance now) for over a year before we had sex for the first time. and not to brag but if more teens did that there would be less 'teen moms'
I think that's really a matter of personal choice. Some may want to wait till they're married, some may want to get it cracking right now! There's nothing wrong with either way. Personally, I want to be in love with the person I'm with and I want him to love me too, but we don't necessarily have to be married, lol. There must be a lot of trust between us too. Whatever you choose, wrap it up unless you want babies or crotch furbies, just saying!
I too am waiting til marriage :) even with all that temptation out there i've managed to stay pure for 19 years. Since im engaged, a year longer wont hurt, and will be more of honor to my fiancee :)
i think people can do with their sex lives what ever they want, no matter what age they are. and i really don't like "saving it till marriage" but i think i really hate that idea just because i hate marriage. but, ya know. that's my opinion.
I'm christian, and it really bugs me that some people say 'wow Christians are so annoying and oh my god i hate them, blah blah blah." We're all in the same religion, we're all different individuals. So just because one person says they want to wait, don't assume that's how all Christians feel.
@JeanPaige9 my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is
I made my mistakes and I fell in love I tried waiting till marriage but I honestly felt that he was the one not making those mistakes again till I am married I recommittes to god and you rock for saying your gonna wait and not make the mistake I made Brittani I love you.
@TorrieAlexandra: I get why you would want to wait, but not everyones experience is a negative one. I don't regret not waiting till i was married. I loved the guy, and if i had to do it all over again, I would in a heartbeat. He may not have ended up being The One, but he was my first love. Marriage is ok, but don't make the mistake of thinking that just because you're married, you'll be safe from making the same mistakes all over again. The only difference would be you have a ring now.
LOL @ everybody getting in there feelings and getting all offended. She said this is HER opinion and shes not forcing it on anybody else. So calm down ..and the ones who are mad are the ones who had smexy time before marriage. Seriously calm your balls. haha<33
@xitsxnanax when she said she wasn't forcing her opinion on anyone else, that was the most hypocritical part. Making this video alone is pretty much glorifying her opinion as the "right" one
I think it's okay to have sex before marriage if you know you're ready and use protection. I know many people won't agree with me, but they have their opinion and I have mine.
If your really saving sex for marriage, I sincerely applaud you, but for most of the video I felt like you were being a little sarcastic, so I don't know whether to like this video or not.
wow okay i think your both wrong if she doesn't wanna have sex then cool if you think its ok to have sex then cool everybody's different and damn you people are deaf she said she wasn't trying to push it on you and stop with the whole religious thing like if someones christian and they had sex it's wrong it
shouldn't be wrong if they don't regret it or feel that it was the right choose i mean really times have changed and I'm not religious or anything but didn't god supposedly die for you and if he did don't you think he'll forgive you for having your own opinion i mean really people chill out
Abstinence isn't a bad thing. some people wait, some don't. You can't deny that waiting is a bad thing, but some people decide not to wait and thats their choice. The point to this video is that you can do many other things and not have sex, that you don't have to do that. Stop being so offended.
"I'm not forcing my opinion on anybody, because what i think might be different from what someone else thinks" she literally said that!! everyone needs to stop being offended, EVERYONE has a different point of view and you shouldn't condemn anyone for what they believe. is it that hard to watch a video with a message and not get offended when you don't see the same way? my goodness. relax.
People can have sex if they want to or don't want to, when people choose to have sex is none of your business, and if you don't like there decision then keep it to yourself, i'm sure they don't care what you think anyways.
I just think you should be safe; Honestly I'm probably going to have sex before marriage but I'm going to be smart about it... I'm not planning to to smash more then one person but What if you feel in love with one guy and you had sex with him ad you were with hi for like 5 years and suddenly break up; it happens. And then you meet an amazing guy that ends up being your soul mate, your obviously going to have sex with him. Welp I wasn't trying to make that long but whatever.(:
I think its not a bad thing to have sex before marriage, but I think its wrong to be whoring around with 100000 guys/girls. I think it all depends on a persons choice, and if they think they are ready or not. Also you should never rush into sex, its suposed to take your relationship to a new level of closeness. You and the guy/girl you are with should be together for a while, talk about it first, and do it when ever you are ready. If its before marriage or not its their choice, no one elses.
Go brittani! That's the right thing! L we have a program at my church called true love waits and that's what its about! In the Holy Bible it says to wait and so that is what I'll do :)
I think it's not about marriage or age. You have to wait untill your body and mind matures completely - then it's okay to do it, just without whoring around. The important thing is just to be ready. (Personally what I do in the bedroom is for me to know and guys/girls to find out.)
Me, being a Christian, I think sex before marriage is wrong. But I have nothing against people and do not judge people who have had sex before marriage.
I feel like having sex before marriage is fine. But just as long as you respect and love your self as well as the person you're with and you take the right precautions you should be fine. But if you wanna wait that's cool too. It's all about what makes YOU comfortable. No one is going to call you a "slut" if you're doing what you feel is the right choice. If they do, it doesn't matter. They don't know who you truly are. So fudge them haha!
You don't want to have sex before marriage that's fine, your business, but I love sex so no abstinence for me ;) As long as one's careful and responsible and at least preferably know the person one's sleeping with, I don't see the problem :)
I don't think abstinence is the only answer...I had sex with my boyfriend but we had been dating for 10 months and talking about sex for three or four, and he never once pressured me or made me feel bad for waiting until I personally was ready. I am also Christian, have my peace with God, and I don't regret it...I like you and understand where you're coming from, but the delivery of your message made me lose some respect for you. Sorry:/
@yoursimplywonderful How did it make you lose respect for her? You should have lost respect for yourself for doing that. I understand other people doing it ((and I'm not saying it's right for them to do it either)) but you doing it and being a Christian is just wrong. Even the Bible says "Sex is a gift from God to MARRIED couple". You being a Christian I'd figure you'd know that. But no hate. Just saying...
@NatalieJoannee im not christian but i also know that fact..so yea i think you have a very good point there, so i think what yoursimplywonderful is trying to actually say is "i have peace with my MIND" not god lol..xD
but anyways people do whatever they like, at the end of the day people are raised differently.
@MeVagYo I guess you're kind of right; I have peace with myself and I don't feel a guilt towards God, so if that makes me a bad Christian, I guess it does...but I can't help how I feel, which is happy and not guilty. I was raised very Christian, pro-abstinence, but came into my current views on sex on my own; I prayed and thought about my decision before making it. Maybe I'm considered a bad Christian or weird because of it, but we're all still growing and learning, right?
@yoursimplywonderful well i mean, why should anyone get angry?! its not like god is gonna judge u for what someone else's actions, nor other will be judged for ur actions, so its just stupid to get angry, i understand tho that christians might find it offensive of u to be christian but at the same time not follow the rules 100%, but if anyone out there has a decent working brain wont be angry, cause religions r there to satisfy a part of us humans..-
@MeVagYo Exactly...and I didn't mean for my comment to be so controversial! That's both the good and bad part of youtube; you can share your opinions, but people are also free to hate on you.
@MeVagYo (continued) guess what im trying to say is we take from religions what we think sounds fit for us and nobody must follow a religion 100% anyways, who can..
@NatalieJoannee I do know that; I believed it for a long time and changed my views on my own. And I have not lost any respect for myself because I made an informed, safe decision with a boy who loves me. I have a lot of respect for Brittani and her decision to wait, as I do with everyone that chooses to. But one of the main problems that I have with religion is the communication of views that come across as judgmental and sometimes hateful, even if they were meant out of love.
@allyroxx601 I think you should reread my original comment. I didn't say I lost respect because of her choice, it was because of her delivery in this video. And I don't know your religious views, but I think you need to cool it on the judgmental comments towards someone you don't even know. You don't me, you don't know anything about me, and your comment was incredibly rude.
@NatalieJoannee People are allowed to make their own decisions and to express their own opinions. Being a Christian DOESN'T mean that she has to be abstinence, this is a country of religious freedom meaning she is allowed to be a Christian and follow god but if she decides to have sex no one is going to print a big A on her forehead. If they choose to be abstinent that's their choice, however at the end "be good don't be slutty." is basically saying be abstinent or your a whore.
@movei123 It's actually my business whether it's messed up or not. I know I posted the comment so I'm opening myself up to judgment, but I have had my own faith journey throughout my life, and feel more confident in myself and more at peace with God than I did when I was saving myself; I felt guilty and hated myself for even having sexual desires. So it may seem messed up to you, but it feels right to me. Everyone''s relationship with God is different.
@yoursimplywonderful I won't argue with you about this- it's pointless. I just felt obligated to point out that your actions and the beliefs you claim to hold don't match up.
Im no longer a virgin:) and im proud
HCObabe97 15 hours ago
my man told me he wished for sexy time....so when i was ready i gave him sexytime. now we are maried and care even more deeply about each other.
Potter20001000 21 hours ago
if they really love each other and been together for a long time i think its ok if they truly love each other and btw doesnt make u a slut...
oliviaisgiggle 1 day ago
it really doesnt matter brittani its not like youll die and be cursed forever of something..
TheAlyssac123 2 days ago
I agree with you too. I don't want to be used for sex when I'm older. If I have a boyfriend that says he wants sex I'm telling him I'm waiting until marriage.
CottonMickey 2 days ago
I personally think being a virgin is a better choice even though its hard
Makeupfreak909 2 days ago 2
Shane :(
TechnoDraco 2 days ago
I agree bc my boyfdfriend wants have sex and im 3 years unger and hes like well i wanna f**** u soo badly like noooo
rockstard1019 2 days ago
Personally I don't believe in abstinence, but I respect you both for waiting! I think it shows real dedication and trust for you both to wait :)
EffOne95 3 days ago 2
I wear a Purity Ring, And I'm proud to say that i'm also waiting for marriage to do any of that stuff! :) also i'm proud your waiting too. well done, and well done to all those other people not getting involved in that kinda thing! Personally, As i was born and raised a christian; i feel its not right, so as I have told myself from a very young age that I wouldn't, it makes it easier not to! :)
tach18 3 days ago
i am not ready until i am21
kaykay30452 3 days ago
I don't know, I'm 12. I'll do it when I'm ready.
thatbabyshow4 3 days ago
Completely agree. :)
HeyImBrylee 3 days ago
i totally agree with u!!
JemiStoriesxx 4 days ago
eh idont really care sex before or after marriage... doesn't matter to me :P its just sex xD
ItsShayTime 4 days ago
She clearly said she's not trying to force her opinion on anyone shut up and laugh.
BLT is freakin awesome!!!
ChayaFaya 5 days ago
stupidest thing I've ever watched. If someone chooses to have sex with someone it's their choice, sex is natural and shouldn't be frowned upon. As long as you're being safe and having fun with it there's no problem. you're not a prude for waiting until marriage and you're not a slut for having sex before marriage, it's simply a choice you make individually. and let me tell you having sex with someone you love is amazing but casual sex once in a while is great as well. no hate haha <3
jenniferxcheck 5 days ago
@jenniferxcheck did you hear her??? she said what SHE said. not you. that's your opinion. brittani has her opinion.
iwritetragedies7 4 days ago
people should do whatever fels right to them, for me sex is just sex, it feels good, then its over
jasmineXrockz 6 days ago
Is she joking or is she seriously a virgin?
Bibbabble 6 days ago 6
@Bibbabble She is seriously a virgin. It's really not that big a deal
aneopetsname 4 days ago
i love smexiee time haha and it isnt slutty just havin fun :)
luvablechelsey 6 days ago
scrabALLLLL!
IridianDarkThorn 6 days ago in playlist Liked videos
I think if you love the person dearly, you should be able to fully trust them and make love.
Joed195 1 week ago
I don't really wan't to get married, so I'm all for sex before marriage I think its a matter of choice though. I wouldn't ever have sex on a first date. I know that i'd wait for the right person to come along
RickysCreature 1 week ago
Its rare for anyone to ever promote that they are not having sex before marriage, even if you already had sex start a new and learn to keep your self..you'll recieve more respect and have a greater chance of meet your true love ... make them wait cause if they really care for you and your beliefs they wouldn't disrespect what you said they. Would agree and wait!
sexyred77 1 week ago
Agree :) me too
idontknwrly 1 week ago
nice to know there's other people out there who share the same morals/beliefs :)♥
jennaXhye818 1 week ago
I am a Palestinian Musllim Girl who will never date or have any affairs with anyone until I am married. Palestinian forever!
HanaBanana71 1 week ago
@HanaBanana71 Wait... you're going to have affairs after you are married. Not cool.
Bibbabble 6 days ago
I want to wait until i am ready. Not until i'm married, although it would be more special, u want to experience it early to know who it feels. But i will do it with someone i love. NOT a first date
AlannahA99 1 week ago
why should u do such a thing to ur selves? just use condoms
Ninaki13th 1 week ago
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Ninaki13th 1 week ago
and he gets money for that crap?
TheRightNeutrino 1 week ago
I like dick.
Murderdoll13 1 week ago 5
is the narrator the guy that did honey badger
bmbmac19 1 week ago 3
@Evonne77 you can still get "crotch furbies" even though you "wrap it up".
SamHudock 1 week ago
im waiting untill im married because i dont want to end up like my friends... 5 of them have got prego before the age of 18... 2 have been given STDs and my best friend (who is a guy) is literely a man whore and him being bi, hes more of a man whole than people think...
If i dont last untill i marrige im only gonna loose my V's after im 21 and its with a guy who loves me!!
MARRIAGE BEFORE SEX is the way to go!!
TheRangaK 1 week ago
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my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
eric0100 1 week ago
having sex does not make you a slut a whore or whatever. we all have different opinions on sex some want to wait some don't but no matter when you do it before or after your married it doesn't make a a slut unless you like 11 years old then thats different.
ipriscillaran 1 week ago
Having sex doesn't make you into a slut. Being with somone you love and trust when it's your first time is really important thou. But having a ring on your finger or not, that just doesn't matter. Life is just too short not to be enjoying sex!
honeyybees 1 week ago
17+ only! I'll loose it before marraige...but only if I'm at least 17..
horsecrazy8900 1 week ago
I myself am waiting till i am married :) i mean why can't you just wait? the world has changed so much, and we have so many teen pregnancies now. Jst wait until ur with that one person you love. It may be incredibly hard but its for the best :)
Bittersweet1251 1 week ago
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@Bittersweet1251 my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is.
eric0100 1 week ago
I think it's awesome that you're verbal about your opinion. I, too, plan on waiting for marriage. It's so cool to see a public figure doing stuff like this. Most people don't understand some of the harmful effects on them, their emotions and others when having pre-marital sex. So, I appreciate you. Thanks for being so great! :)
caseyforeverify 1 week ago
having sex before marriage doesn’t make you slutty
TheSweetteen16 1 week ago 90
@TheSweetteen16 depends on how committed u r. if u r in love. and by in love i mean would one day like the marry the person but marriage just isnt rite at the moment. then no u r not a slut. if u do it with every1 then yes u r a slut. no 2 wayz about ti.
candyluver27 6 days ago
im not gunna have sex untill im married, no matter how tempting it could be, i dont wear a purity ring, i just know that im gunna wait and feeling 'lonely' sometimes is better than doing something ill regret
snoib100 1 week ago
Lol is the guy talking in the background the same voice as the honey badger?
IMSOFREAKENWASTED 1 week ago
No sexetime until marriage !!!
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Just kidding.
GamingOnALenovoG555 1 week ago
Over here in Germany probably no one can even imagen to wait for sex till marriage.^^
WetterUndMehr 1 week ago
@WetterUndMehr yeeeeh the germans. always ahead *cough* xD
0oOSTFUOo0 1 week ago
Someone said they'd wait until they were an adult before deciding when they would do it, because it's an adult decision. I completely agree with that. I don't know when I'll do, because I'm not psychic, but I will at least wait until I'm in my 20s. And out of college.
Megamusicstudio112 1 week ago
Before you have sex with someone, you should both get STD tests (even if you're virgins), the female should go on prescription birth controll (pill, IUD, etc), and you should use condoms every single time you have sex (anal, oral, and vaginal). If you're in a same-sex relationship, obviously you can skip the prescription birth control step.
MurasakiSunshine 1 week ago
@MurasakiSunshine if you're a virgin what std's you gonna have??
rainbowkiss100 1 week ago
@rainbowkiss100, HPV, herpes, hepatitis. Those things can all be passed on from person to person without sex. Sometimes just kissing can give you an STD.
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@MurasakiSunshine my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is.
eric0100 1 week ago
I personally disagree. I used to say I wasn't gonna have sex until I was married, but I changed my mind one night and I personally do not regret it. Sex is fun. And the pregnancy and STD thing, use condoms and birth control... Problem solved!
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nainhanif 1 week ago
I'm 20 and a virgin. It's not that big of a deal, people. If "virgin" is the worst insult that someone can throw at you, you're doing pretty good in life.
MurasakiSunshine 1 week ago 3
@MurasakiSunshine AMEN!!!
nainhanif 1 week ago
@MurasakiSunshine Is it by choice or just because you haven't had the chance yet?
Bibbabble 4 days ago
@Bibbabble, I've had the chance. I simply don't feel I'm ready. I don't want to get pregnant or get an STD.
MurasakiSunshine 3 days ago
@MurasakiSunshine You can have sex without getting pregnant or getting an STD. Using a condom for starters. But if you are having sex with someone you trust/or has been tested, you just need birth control. I understand when people don't because of there religious beliefs or because they aren't ready, but not having sex out of fear of pregnancy or STD's isn't right.
Bibbabble 3 days ago
@Bibbabble, my mother got pregnant on birth control and herpes and genital warts cannot be prevented through condoms. And like I said before, I don't feel like I'm ready to have sex. I can say I don't want to have sex because the moon is made of cheese. I don't need a reason to not have sex. If I don't have religious beliefs, I should just be sleeping with everyone I come across?
MurasakiSunshine 3 days ago
When I was 7, I said I was gonna be a virgin until marriage.
When I was 10 I said I was gonna be a virgin until I was 23
When I was 11 I wanted to be a virgin until I was 20
Now, I wanna be a virgin until I'm 18.
...
Wait, why did I worry about this stuff at 7?
ThePyschoMovieMaker 2 weeks ago
@ThePyschoMovieMaker 18? you have the best self contol in the world
WADEPH33R3 1 week ago
@WADEPH33R3 My mother told me the same :D
ThePyschoMovieMaker 1 week ago
everyone has their ownnnnnnnnnnnnn opinion ! ...we understandddddddddd .
SparklepiggysReturn 2 weeks ago
I feel that its an adult decision- so I'm waiting till I'm an adult. Aka 18+ years of age. I might not be ready even then, but at least when I do I can say it was a mature decision that I don't regret. I have deep respect for you BLT!
bltlover995 2 weeks ago
WHY DONT YOU HANG OUT WITH SHANE ANYMORE? :(
Nintendogirl87 2 weeks ago 256
@Nintendogirl87 must be afraid that joey will get jealous from all the shanexbrittani jokes xD
drummerxkun 1 week ago
@Nintendogirl87 :( we dont know! damn it...
ifizzZZzzZZ 6 days ago
i dont believe in abstinece..
averibobaveri 2 weeks ago
I really respect your views! It's nice to see that there are still people that believe that love is mental and you don't need to have sex to be with someone. I'm not sure if I'll wait until marriage, but i'm definitely waiting a few more years. I mean I'm only 17. I'm definitely not ready yet.
softball1394 2 weeks ago 2
Waiting for the right one. The one you love. I m 23 but I dont care...Ok if I reach 30 I will care o.O
knightLynderic 2 weeks ago
Lol, she's in for a surprise.
mowkneekah 2 weeks ago
If your really like someone and feel save and comfortable with him/her and ofcourse want to doi it, I think you should. To me a ring would never define the dept of my relationship, but I understand that to others it's the ultimate sign of commitment.
SuperMarioIsFat 2 weeks ago
wow.
this was bad.
milkbaby571 2 weeks ago
*creepy voice* today im gonna help you keep your barn door closed and your pickle in its jar
balloonbaileybear9 2 weeks ago
tell that to the assbags in my school. (Lil' Hoes and Mansluts)
cj2009cj 2 weeks ago
All I have to say is wait for love :)
MgGiecelene 2 weeks ago
this doesn't seem like the average blt video
jazmine1williams 2 weeks ago
I believe in abstinence, my family are strong catholics and thats how I have been raised, to be honest though, ithing its best! because before marriage you can get pregnant, daddy leaves and your alone, after marriage you know you love that person and your ready to give yourself to them completely.
thats what I believe anyway :P xxx
annabond222 2 weeks ago
SCRABBLE!!
soccersophie11 2 weeks ago
I don't believe in divorce or sex before marriage under any circumstances whatsoever.
Katelovestheatre 2 weeks ago
.....and that is y abstanece is gay.
magggie1 2 weeks ago
I feel it depends on the person, but I feel it should be a personal reason, not because of your religion, or what you're taught. If you feel it will be more special and meaningful to you to be with someone you're married to, then that's fine. For myself, I say if I feel comfortable enough with the guy, go for it. Though I haven't had sex yet, I'm not against it. If you are ok with it, and so are they, go for it! Just wrap it before you tap it.
musicVamp527 2 weeks ago
I'm seventeen and have been dating my current boyfriend for three years and haven't had sex with him yet. I may not wait until marriage, but I am going to wait until I can be sure that on the chance that it doesn't go as planned (pregnancy for example), that I'll be prepared to handle it.
ILOVEVINCENTSINCLAIR 2 weeks ago
Sounds like honey badger don't give a shit guy!
TheEpicPies 2 weeks ago
I don't really see the point of waiting, except if you want to of course. It's a natural thing and if you approach it with reason, as you should all things, I don't see why you shouldn't enjoy yourself with someone you love / think is hot. waiting out of principal just adds stress for newly weds. part of life is to get comfortable with your body and who cares if you want to share that with someone else.
faIc0n 2 weeks ago
@faIc0n well lets say you randomly hook up with someone and end up pregnant, u would have slept with so many people, u wouldent know who the father is, and with being married there is a bond and u cant break up with them just cuz they r pregnant like u can if ur just bf/gf. i just believe its all about trust. THATS THE POINT OF WAITING.
im not a christian, and i dont believe that u HAVE to be married, im just saying sometimes its more than neccesary,especially if the sex is unprotected. :I
GinChan4427 2 weeks ago
she sounds so sarcastic
AmyEtv 2 weeks ago
Her boobs...... are so low O_O
stitchdheArt201 2 weeks ago
I think as long as you're being safe, it doesn't matter how many people you have sex with... and if any boyfriends/girlfriends you have love you enough, then it won't matter to them.
So, yeah, I think if you're not in a committed relationship, get with as many people as you want, as long as your safe and have regular STD check-ups.
LelaGlitteryAfrodite 2 weeks ago
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@LelaGlitteryAfrodite well lets say you randomly hook up with someone and end up pregnant, u would have slept with so many people, u wouldent know who the father is,there r std's and with being married there is a bond and u cant break up with them just cuz they r pregnant like u can if ur just bf/gf. i just believe its all about trust.
im not a christian, and i dont believe that u HAVE to be married, im just saying sometimes its more than neccesary,especially if the sex is unprotected. :I
GinChan4427 2 weeks ago
I think it's very cute of you to wait till marriage and if it's the right thing for you that's great. but i think we don't live in the times when people thought masturbation makes you blind, sex before marriage is a dirty sin and the earth is flat. although there are of cause bad things connected to sex like prostitution, raping etc. sex is one of the most beautiful, pure and natural things in the world. most bad things about sex happen, when people feel guilt for their desire.
Maruhki 2 weeks ago
I honestly just don't like the insinuation that if you do choose to have sex before marriage, you're a slut. She talks about it being a choice and her choice and that's fine. But The rest of us shouldn't be judged or insulted because we choose to live our lives differently.
TheDesMonster 2 weeks ago
To all the people who are saying she's forcing her opinion on us, she said that she wasn't trying to so she isn't forcing her opinion. And I agree with you Brittani :)
h2ogurl1234 2 weeks ago
I was over 18 and with my boyfriend at the time (he's my fiance now) for over a year before we had sex for the first time. and not to brag but if more teens did that there would be less 'teen moms'
KittyKyomi 2 weeks ago
i wan to to wait sor snexxy time
MyFreak333 3 weeks ago
Love you!:)
aquabree33098 3 weeks ago
"and keep your pickle in it's jar"
OMG.
AccioEvieO11 3 weeks ago
I think that's really a matter of personal choice. Some may want to wait till they're married, some may want to get it cracking right now! There's nothing wrong with either way. Personally, I want to be in love with the person I'm with and I want him to love me too, but we don't necessarily have to be married, lol. There must be a lot of trust between us too. Whatever you choose, wrap it up unless you want babies or crotch furbies, just saying!
Evonne77 3 weeks ago 74
I too am waiting til marriage :) even with all that temptation out there i've managed to stay pure for 19 years. Since im engaged, a year longer wont hurt, and will be more of honor to my fiancee :)
MissBeckita 3 weeks ago 2
i think people can do with their sex lives what ever they want, no matter what age they are. and i really don't like "saving it till marriage" but i think i really hate that idea just because i hate marriage. but, ya know. that's my opinion.
Tara13050 3 weeks ago
wow... I feel like I've stepped into a minefield of christians o.O
I don't think there is any wrong opinion as to when you should have sex. Sex is a super private thing, and you should make your own decision.
for me personally, it is much much too late xD and even if it wasn't I'm not planning to get married, as I find mariage kind of stupid ( no offense)
Aquarius2emma 3 weeks ago
I'm christian, and it really bugs me that some people say 'wow Christians are so annoying and oh my god i hate them, blah blah blah." We're all in the same religion, we're all different individuals. So just because one person says they want to wait, don't assume that's how all Christians feel.
JeanPaige9 3 weeks ago
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@JeanPaige9 my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is
eric0100 1 week ago
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i dont believe in marriage
and if your age is on the clock then your too old for the cock
so all these little girls need to close there legs and just be children!!!
boobearlives4music 3 weeks ago
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i dont believe in marriage
and if your age is on the clock then your too old for the cock
so all these little girls need to close there legs and just be children!!!
boobearlives4music 3 weeks ago
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i dont believe in marriage
and if your age is on the clock then your too old for the cock
so all these little girls need to close there legs and just be children!!!
boobearlives4music 3 weeks ago
i dont believe in marriage
and if your age is on the clock then your too old for the cock
so all these little girls need to close there legs and just be children!!!
boobearlives4music 3 weeks ago
oh no now this video will star brittani louse taylor drama .... :(
diemunguia 3 weeks ago
I made my mistakes and I fell in love I tried waiting till marriage but I honestly felt that he was the one not making those mistakes again till I am married I recommittes to god and you rock for saying your gonna wait and not make the mistake I made Brittani I love you.
TorrieAlexandra 3 weeks ago
@TorrieAlexandra: I get why you would want to wait, but not everyones experience is a negative one. I don't regret not waiting till i was married. I loved the guy, and if i had to do it all over again, I would in a heartbeat. He may not have ended up being The One, but he was my first love. Marriage is ok, but don't make the mistake of thinking that just because you're married, you'll be safe from making the same mistakes all over again. The only difference would be you have a ring now.
Evonne77 3 weeks ago
LOL @ everybody getting in there feelings and getting all offended. She said this is HER opinion and shes not forcing it on anybody else. So calm down ..and the ones who are mad are the ones who had smexy time before marriage. Seriously calm your balls. haha<33
xitsxnanax 3 weeks ago 32
@xitsxnanax when she said she wasn't forcing her opinion on anyone else, that was the most hypocritical part. Making this video alone is pretty much glorifying her opinion as the "right" one
MrSplatterPlatter 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from BrittaniLouiseTaylor
I think it's okay to have sex before marriage if you know you're ready and use protection. I know many people won't agree with me, but they have their opinion and I have mine.
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If your really saving sex for marriage, I sincerely applaud you, but for most of the video I felt like you were being a little sarcastic, so I don't know whether to like this video or not.
InnocuousOctopus 3 weeks ago
Favorite Parts:
1) Sexual Transmitted Dirtyness
2) Scrabble!
3) Today we're gonna keep our barndoor closed and our pickles in its jar!
4)Smexy smexy Time!
5) Be good, don't be slutty!
BluSprinkles 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from BrittaniLouiseTaylor
wow okay i think your both wrong if she doesn't wanna have sex then cool if you think its ok to have sex then cool everybody's different and damn you people are deaf she said she wasn't trying to push it on you and stop with the whole religious thing like if someones christian and they had sex it's wrong it
shanlikesicecream 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from BrittaniLouiseTaylor
shouldn't be wrong if they don't regret it or feel that it was the right choose i mean really times have changed and I'm not religious or anything but didn't god supposedly die for you and if he did don't you think he'll forgive you for having your own opinion i mean really people chill out
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@ nerdykoala25 it's not slutty but it's a good idea to wait it says so in the bible
GirlyGirlTv247 3 weeks ago
Abstinence isn't a bad thing. some people wait, some don't. You can't deny that waiting is a bad thing, but some people decide not to wait and thats their choice. The point to this video is that you can do many other things and not have sex, that you don't have to do that. Stop being so offended.
Abcdemily72 3 weeks ago
Did u date Shane Dawson?
Deadm15 3 weeks ago
"I'm not forcing my opinion on anybody, because what i think might be different from what someone else thinks" she literally said that!! everyone needs to stop being offended, EVERYONE has a different point of view and you shouldn't condemn anyone for what they believe. is it that hard to watch a video with a message and not get offended when you don't see the same way? my goodness. relax.
Abcdemily72 3 weeks ago
so apparently having sex before your married is slutty.? wow christians sometimes Dx
NerdyKoala25 3 weeks ago
@NerdyKoala25 obviously you didn't fully understand the concept of the video.
July2ish 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from BrittaniLouiseTaylor
People can have sex if they want to or don't want to, when people choose to have sex is none of your business, and if you don't like there decision then keep it to yourself, i'm sure they don't care what you think anyways.
SamanthaJSings 3 weeks ago
I've had sex and I'm not even legal.. tbh it's not a big deal.. just make sure you're ready! thats what I think..
charlotteoswald 3 weeks ago
@charlotteoswald sex definetly IS a big deal.
allyroxx601 3 weeks ago
@allyroxx601 maybe to you, but not to me:L
charlotteoswald 3 weeks ago
STOP IT, HAVE SOME SELF CONTROL JOEY! :P
ItsHannahB 3 weeks ago
its not 'slutty' to have sex before marriage
MrsShwing 3 weeks ago
@MrsShwing it's kinda slutty to have sex with more than 3 people before you're 18
SangtotheDy 3 weeks ago
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Why don't you spend any time with Shane Dawson anymore ? You used to be best friends!
oohellamandagail 3 weeks ago
Wow, how condescending. And what is this? Puritan time? Sleeping around is one thing, but being in a trusting relationship is another.
XdisXesXwhyXimXhawtX 3 weeks ago
Lol that was so funny
MadelyCrocker 3 weeks ago
this guy sounds like an american gok wan XD
Katrinaa299 3 weeks ago
I just think you should be safe; Honestly I'm probably going to have sex before marriage but I'm going to be smart about it... I'm not planning to to smash more then one person but What if you feel in love with one guy and you had sex with him ad you were with hi for like 5 years and suddenly break up; it happens. And then you meet an amazing guy that ends up being your soul mate, your obviously going to have sex with him. Welp I wasn't trying to make that long but whatever.(:
familygirl1204 3 weeks ago
I think its not a bad thing to have sex before marriage, but I think its wrong to be whoring around with 100000 guys/girls. I think it all depends on a persons choice, and if they think they are ready or not. Also you should never rush into sex, its suposed to take your relationship to a new level of closeness. You and the guy/girl you are with should be together for a while, talk about it first, and do it when ever you are ready. If its before marriage or not its their choice, no one elses.
xrideithunterx 3 weeks ago
Go brittani! That's the right thing! L we have a program at my church called true love waits and that's what its about! In the Holy Bible it says to wait and so that is what I'll do :)
IceBlueCream13 4 weeks ago
I think it's not about marriage or age. You have to wait untill your body and mind matures completely - then it's okay to do it, just without whoring around. The important thing is just to be ready. (Personally what I do in the bedroom is for me to know and guys/girls to find out.)
JunkieFly 4 weeks ago
Me, being a Christian, I think sex before marriage is wrong. But I have nothing against people and do not judge people who have had sex before marriage.
HappensAnnie 4 weeks ago
I feel like having sex before marriage is fine. But just as long as you respect and love your self as well as the person you're with and you take the right precautions you should be fine. But if you wanna wait that's cool too. It's all about what makes YOU comfortable. No one is going to call you a "slut" if you're doing what you feel is the right choice. If they do, it doesn't matter. They don't know who you truly are. So fudge them haha!
xjayemzee 4 weeks ago
Waiting for marriage if he really loves me he'll wait :)
iluvpink5555 4 weeks ago
You don't want to have sex before marriage that's fine, your business, but I love sex so no abstinence for me ;) As long as one's careful and responsible and at least preferably know the person one's sleeping with, I don't see the problem :)
hannahxlovinda 4 weeks ago
I don't think abstinence is the only answer...I had sex with my boyfriend but we had been dating for 10 months and talking about sex for three or four, and he never once pressured me or made me feel bad for waiting until I personally was ready. I am also Christian, have my peace with God, and I don't regret it...I like you and understand where you're coming from, but the delivery of your message made me lose some respect for you. Sorry:/
yoursimplywonderful 4 weeks ago 39
@yoursimplywonderful How did it make you lose respect for her? You should have lost respect for yourself for doing that. I understand other people doing it ((and I'm not saying it's right for them to do it either)) but you doing it and being a Christian is just wrong. Even the Bible says "Sex is a gift from God to MARRIED couple". You being a Christian I'd figure you'd know that. But no hate. Just saying...
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@NatalieJoannee im not christian but i also know that fact..so yea i think you have a very good point there, so i think what yoursimplywonderful is trying to actually say is "i have peace with my MIND" not god lol..xD
but anyways people do whatever they like, at the end of the day people are raised differently.
MeVagYo 4 weeks ago
@MeVagYo Yup. Yo'ure actually right :)
NatalieJoannee 4 weeks ago
@MeVagYo I guess you're kind of right; I have peace with myself and I don't feel a guilt towards God, so if that makes me a bad Christian, I guess it does...but I can't help how I feel, which is happy and not guilty. I was raised very Christian, pro-abstinence, but came into my current views on sex on my own; I prayed and thought about my decision before making it. Maybe I'm considered a bad Christian or weird because of it, but we're all still growing and learning, right?
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@yoursimplywonderful then im happy for u too ;)
its all about our own satisfaction after all
MeVagYo 3 weeks ago
@MeVagYo Thanks! Man, glad someone out there is able to have a conversation about it without automatically getting angry or hostile:)
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@yoursimplywonderful well i mean, why should anyone get angry?! its not like god is gonna judge u for what someone else's actions, nor other will be judged for ur actions, so its just stupid to get angry, i understand tho that christians might find it offensive of u to be christian but at the same time not follow the rules 100%, but if anyone out there has a decent working brain wont be angry, cause religions r there to satisfy a part of us humans..-
MeVagYo 3 weeks ago
@MeVagYo Exactly...and I didn't mean for my comment to be so controversial! That's both the good and bad part of youtube; you can share your opinions, but people are also free to hate on you.
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@MeVagYo (continued) guess what im trying to say is we take from religions what we think sounds fit for us and nobody must follow a religion 100% anyways, who can..
MeVagYo 3 weeks ago
@NatalieJoannee I do know that; I believed it for a long time and changed my views on my own. And I have not lost any respect for myself because I made an informed, safe decision with a boy who loves me. I have a lot of respect for Brittani and her decision to wait, as I do with everyone that chooses to. But one of the main problems that I have with religion is the communication of views that come across as judgmental and sometimes hateful, even if they were meant out of love.
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@NatalieJoannee AMEN.
allyroxx601 3 weeks ago
@allyroxx601 I think you should reread my original comment. I didn't say I lost respect because of her choice, it was because of her delivery in this video. And I don't know your religious views, but I think you need to cool it on the judgmental comments towards someone you don't even know. You don't me, you don't know anything about me, and your comment was incredibly rude.
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@NatalieJoannee that's even more preachy and judgmental than this video is :D
MrSplatterPlatter 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from BrittaniLouiseTaylor
@NatalieJoannee People are allowed to make their own decisions and to express their own opinions. Being a Christian DOESN'T mean that she has to be abstinence, this is a country of religious freedom meaning she is allowed to be a Christian and follow god but if she decides to have sex no one is going to print a big A on her forehead. If they choose to be abstinent that's their choice, however at the end "be good don't be slutty." is basically saying be abstinent or your a whore.
ThatCzechKid 3 weeks ago
@yoursimplywonderful You're having sex, don't regret it at all, but call yourself a Christian? That's messed up.
movei123 3 weeks ago
@movei123 It's actually my business whether it's messed up or not. I know I posted the comment so I'm opening myself up to judgment, but I have had my own faith journey throughout my life, and feel more confident in myself and more at peace with God than I did when I was saving myself; I felt guilty and hated myself for even having sexual desires. So it may seem messed up to you, but it feels right to me. Everyone''s relationship with God is different.
yoursimplywonderful 3 weeks ago
@yoursimplywonderful I won't argue with you about this- it's pointless. I just felt obligated to point out that your actions and the beliefs you claim to hold don't match up.
movei123 3 weeks ago
@yoursimplywonderful STD's????
allyroxx601 3 weeks ago