Dating Advice: Why do guys always seem to go for the bad girls or "bitches"?

[RaeRae914]

Old bitch,fat bitch both can go fuck themselves.

[twobeavers]

@RaeRae914  Wow such a harsh comment from a pretty Irish girl...

[dotdotdash2]

nowadays all women are lying cheating cunts in the USA. There used to be nice girls but not now. This shit started at the end of the 1990's. Abortion and lying and cheating is the in thing with women.

[scottadler]

My experience is that there are no "nice girls" -- there's no reason for girls to be nice.

I once had a girlfriend whom I thought was the nicest girl in the world, a sweet, religious tomboy, whom I thought would be the perfect wife. Naturally, so did a wealthy lawyer. She dropped me like a stone -- but only after he proposed and safely had the ring on her finger. (She invited me to the wedding, anyway, and expected an expensive gift.)

There were many other "nice girls" (bitches in disguise).

[twobeavers]

@scottadler You must be somewhat attracted to these types because you seem to have met a few of them. There are definitely "nice" girls out there but there are also red flags that many of us choose to ignore in our relationships. It is sad when men or women paint each other negatively. I have met some "not so nice guys" but I certainly do not think that men are :ALL" that way. Remember we all attract what we put out.

[scottadler]

@twobeavers In the case above, the girl was a longtime coworker known as the company sweetheart. No one would believe we were intimate outside the office. She denied it. So I told the staff of three really odd-looking birthmarks on her left butt-cheek.

Regarding other women, they enjoy being nasty to men -- why do you think commercials selling to women are always about humiliating men? It's even more orgasmic than disembodied vibrating plastic.

Admit it, there are no nice girls.

[dattebenforcer]

bitches are hustlers too, i thought you knew, i thought you knew...

[ImaFrEaKsOfUcKu]

EASY! but i dont go after the bitches

[pacloro]

same thing i ask myself of why the girls always go for the bad guys.

[PollockQT]

You girls look nice, I like it ^^.

[kingpedro36]

WOW, I didn't know women have the same problem. I dated some "bad girls" I was even married to one. I liked them because they dress sexy and are fun. My current girlfriend is a "nice girl" and major tomboy and she isn't as exciting as a bad girl, but she makes me so happy. She's considerate, makes me feel appreciated, laughs at my jokes and our love life is amazing. She may not be as flashy as a "bad girl" but she gives me everything a "bad girl" can not.

[twobeavers]

@kingpedro36 great comment! Nice to hear from a guy's point of view.

Thanks for taking the time to write! xo

[MultiBrenda1970]

women over alalize to much most guys go for women who are there presenting themselfs as available, when women never tyalk or smail or presnt themselfs, they will be missed. its simple, asa guy some time , he wont over analize it

[WhyBeF]

Bad girls have their looks together, therefore, the perception of better orgasms for the guy.

[danielkrieger1]

Guys don't go for bitches and they never have unless your definition of a "bitch" is different than mine which is girls that treat guys like shit, girls that think they are better than you and are too stuck up or girls that are very aggressive and think they can beat you up or something

[needles1987]

@danielkrieger1 Guys go for bitches all the time. I know. I'm a guy.

[needles1987]

Men going for bitches actually happens a lot more than women going for assholes. I personally prefer nice girls. I'd rather be single than date a bitch.

[twobeavers]

@needles1987 good for you & I totally agree! Who needs all the drama? 

[AirForceGirl05]

@needles1987

THANK YOU FOR BEING HONEST. 99 percent of men are fake.

[MMelodyStarr]

@needles1987 awww

[itubeyoublah]

is that a woman?

[ghodium]

i believe in treating a woman with loyalty and respect and if, despite that, the woman feels the need to be a bitch to him then any self-respecting man should move on

[imover900yo]

I dont like dating bad girls. I like dating nice and sweet girls.

[MsRandomBubble]

It's a vicious circle, guys go for the bitchy girls, leaving us nice girls out, therefore we date the guys that give us the attention, Aka bad boys or thugs, because the nice guys ignored us, then from dating the bitchy girls, men start to think we are all the same, just like women start to think the same thing about men. Fortunately, I refuse to date an asshole, and am glad when I nice guy finally notices, I would rather be single then deal with a thug or bad boy.

[twobeavers]

@MsRandomBubble unfortunately this is true for the most part & I agree about dating a nice guy! I have always liked guys who treat me well & never understood the whole need for "unavailable" men...Thanks for writing & your feedback~

[tombraider4mel]

@MsRandomBubble very awesome! i totally agree w/ you. I'm also a nice girl and not some bitchy spoiled tramp that gets all the guys. One guy even said to me "nice girls are appreciated but not datable because they are most likely not wild in bed" which I thought was terrible. But I'd rather be single and wait for my true love than date a bad boy just cuz he is available.

[lestersimmons82]

I'm protective of my sister the same way she is with me.

[lestersimmons82]

if a woman wants to control me treat me like an animal and hurt my feelings , I would never see her again, and she better hope my sister isn't within a close radius of that woman because she would kick her ass.

[twobeavers]

@lestersimmons82 good to hear on both accounts lol.

I like your sister!! Thx for writing xo

[Homemadegameguru]

Most times, bitchy women are extremely attractive. The problem is they know they are attractive and can get men easily and thus they become bitchy and demanding. We men like the physical and are honest about wanting the hottest women - unfortunately, many girls are just too full of themselves. However, what about all the girls who complain about no 'nice guys'? At least a man can admit his bitchy girl is hot - how many women can honesty admit why they pursue abusive, player and thug men?

[twobeavers]

@Homemadegameguru I think ultimately both sexes want what they can't have until they realize how much work it is~ they initially think enjoy the challenge & drama because it's not boring. As we figure out who we are, we know what we want. (At least we hope we do lol) Thanks for taking the time to comment~Happy 2011!

[1a2b3c100t]

lol, the bitch that wrote that is a feminazi & WANTS men to chase women 4 being a bitch,THEY DONT. IF tail is hot they will chase to bed, but after that, it's fuck u.Why u see happy marriages with bad boys & nice women, but if women is a bitch and he is nice it's doom &gloom all day long, nohting but! 99% of guys want a nice girl, 50% of women dream of a bad boy, 2 a point ...lol notice I didn't say bitchy, no 1 wants that! U 2 trying to conflate the terms is really lame. wrinkle cream &jog.

[1a2b3c100t]

Let me break it down 4 u 2 hephers, ur problem is the FAT , Ugly and old, it starts there and ends there, get good looking and problem solved, ahhaah lol u silly wringled old beavers, u can't change the reality, just because you pretend to discuss somthing that don' exist.

[1a2b3c100t]

PLease u all so transparent. Many girls want bad boys' but almost NO guy want's a bitch, not even unconsciously. this is very lame, nice try feminist. men will be men and girls will want what girls want, 40 yr of feminism don't change 1 million of evelution. some men will put up with it to get tail, don't want it. Many girls do! deal with it. lol this was pathetic and lame. it' like the redaded kid trying to out with the validvictorian. Not even a C for effort u get an F for dumb as shit.

[twobeavers]

@1a2b3c100t Merry Christmas to you too~ I was going to leave a nice comment on your channel page but I noticed that you have everything blocked off so no one can write to you or see who you are. That's too bad because I wanted to subscribe to you. Oh well...

[dagetthoceo1]

it goes both ways guys go for chicks they swear they cant stand and women do the same thats why I never put it out of what kind of woman I am attracted to because in the end I always end up with the type of chick I always complain about

[stevesusenet]

@twobeavers Susan, thanks for the intelligent, interesting and free content. In addition to the dopey comments youtube can often be bereft of decent content too.

[stevesusenet]

Susan, you have fantastic arms :).

[1a2b3c100t]

@stevesusenet lol, what a pathetic mangina, take the dick out of you mouth and grow a pair.

[joel1923]

Bad girls are like bad boys: they are not shy; they are aggressive and go after people. I disagree about "the chase". Wall flowers stay on the wall; whether you are male or female. You have to be more assertive in today's world. Being a beautiful girl or a weathly boy surely helps. It's a sad situation.

I think most people just "settle"and marry what is available.

[twobeavers]

@joel1923 Hi Joel, thanks for writing. I think a little chase is always good as well, that is why I talked about having challenges in your life. It has to be in moderation though. Good point about people "settling", I totally agree with you, especially when they are over 40, or the biological clock is ticking like a time bomb. xo Susan

[cdm0014]

i've been wondering the same thing. shes so right about the media

[Whitehorze]

Because it's a status symbol. If a guy can pull a really hot chick, he knows that'll impress his friends.

The problem is that the whole "super princess" act gets really old, really fast.

[twobeavers]

@Whitehorze couldn't agree more! Same with the bad boy attraction, who wants the continual drama?

[Whitehorze]

@twobeavers BTDT, for 7 years... Now the question becomes where to find the real women, not the alcoholic party girls?