The Truth About The "Friend Zone" (Part 1) - How To Handle The "Let's Just Be Friends" Moment

[tubeman2010]

How do you handle when she loves you as a friend?

[airzorne]

Nice vid, i wish i saw it earlier..

[tallyhoman911]

Very good and informative video! Thanks it helps alot! :D

[pedobear123]

"jokes on you, i like dicks in my ass"

[gerheartthegreat]

yeah?

[nDotC26]

@stephanerdman then she said the magical three words, obviously I didn't flip out but I said to her, hey so is it cool if we still chill out, cos I like this girl, and I wanna change her opinion of me. So really the whole point of this comment is just to say, this video is 100% spot on, thank you, for teaching me what it means, and thank you, because I feel a lot better now and not some emotional wreck trying to figure out if I've done something wrong!

[nDotC26]

@stephanerdman Dude this happened to me just last night, I met up with this chick at a local bar, we hit it off pretty quickly dancing, drinking and talking, she seemed like she was really into me at the time, and we continued to go on two dates too, but last night when we met up again, she seemed a bit cold, avoiding me, hiding away, at the same bar, I felt really uneasy as to what was going on cos I thought we were cool,

[werty1285]

Nice sunglasses! Whats the brand of it, can you tell me please? I want to get one.

[ovadaheadproductions]

So what your saying is they will play a game with you by saying they want you as a friend and you can't play into it by getting mad? BUT THEN SHES PLAYING GAMES!!! Am I Right??

[rickmag321]

Excellent Video again Stephan. You are definitely the most insightful, intelligent, and above all authentic of all the Dating advice givers. Thanks for your No Schlock Zone Great Advice! I'm very glad I discovered your Videos.

[karlbuttler]

Dude where are you recording this??

[asdfkie]

For all you dudes who think they might be stuck in the friend zone and are afraid of telling her your true feelings: just go for it. I'm a really shy guy and I've known this girl for a year now.We became really close friends and I started having feelings for her. When I found the courage to tell her and I thought,this is it,she's gonna say those words. She was really surprised and at first I assumed she didn't like me.But then I realised she never rejected me. Turns out she has feelings for me.

[Junior4AMG]

JUST SAY, "You just wanna be friends? Hey, that's cool, I have never had a girlfriend before. Why start now?"

Great advice as usual Stephan. This is great life advice, and it is free!!!!! Unbelievable!!!

It is all about being cool. Stay calm, cool, and collected and you will look "Cool"

[joesbagelshop]

I know people say these kinds of things very lightly but I don't: You're a genius, you're very good with psychology and you're one of the few people in this field who says things that he can almost always explain. As Einstein said, “If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.”

You clearly do understand it and I just wanted to make sure you know how good of a job you're doing. If I could siphon your brain, I'd probably never get rejected.

[BboySuperFreeze]

I'm gonna use that "I'm gay" line. I can probally play out of it xP

[rockxhero]

hah what?! Who would ever say I'm gay, unless they were?..

[rockxhero]

@rockxhero stephanerdman, you often have real good advice, but I don't know about that.

are you? (I wouldn't really think so..)

[DaHurler1]

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM!?!?!?!?!?!?....o right, link

[thangQanime]

Great video man. Maintaining composure isn't too hard for me if I can find something to say.My problem though is that I tend to overcompensate and push women away with negs to the point where they don't even think I'm interested in them. And then when I try to flirt, it seems more like I'm messing with them. Girls never think I am chasing them which is a double edged sword. I'm not a pushover, but I also have trouble acting attracted so ironically, I get put into the friend zone...I think?

[TheJawsusNSexmanShow]

Don't say I'm gay. that will make things worse lol

[oiyabastard]

yall need to look to the right and watch the chris rock platonic friends vid ,

[MrEgylover]

`thanks stephan ,,, it true patience is the solution , girls emotions just develop slowly cause she is afraid of somethings men arnt afraid of

[BrianShray]

waiting for part 2 ^^

[LemonZeppelin]

"I'm so glad you said that. I'm gay." haha, clearly not using that line. Good video, as always. Can't wait for part 2.

[sp1d3rm4n15g4y101]

word. i feel this video haha. thanks man

[Swiggitrican]

XD lol Im gay



[IhsantheDemon]

Wheres part 2??? :(

[IhsantheDemon]

@IhsantheDemon oops sry just read that pt 2 is comeing soon...

[macheqosa]

@TheGamingRambos you people are everywhere :-P

[ziobello47]

Are you uploading part 2 right away stephan?

[stephanerdman]

@ziobello47 yes. I'll put a link to part 2 at the end of this video..should be up in...WHAT??? 60MIN??? Damn..slow or what? ;-)

[KaiTendo174]

@stephanerdman Indeed :)

[ozzieruss01]

@stephanerdman

this girl i like told me she liked me but didnt want a boyfriend and just wanted to be friends with me, and she said she knew it was hard to understand but i agreed with being friends and then when she talked to me the day after it sort of was kinda awkward but i tried to make it not awkward... then after that conversation finished a few days later i tried talking to her and she was really one worded and blunt. i couldnt get anything outa her she didnt wont to talk why is this??

[TheGamingRambos]

first lol :P