Confessions of a cheater: I've cheated on people I loved. I didn't do it because I'm mean or I wanted to hurt them. It just happened and I can't take it back and I told them and I cried and apologized but there's one thing I really shouldn't have done... gotten back together with them. If you are able to cheat you aren't completely in the relationship, it's broken. Do the humane thing and break up before you do something you'll regret. Hurts less for both of you.
@StarFire4 Dude that is so fucked up, cheating doesn't "just happen" you made a conscious decision to cheat fully knowing who it would hurt. Take responsibility for your actions. You're just a slut, and that's all there is to it.
@VampirateYuki You can say what you want because you don't know me personally. But I'm just putting my experience out there. I didn't go into the situation thinking about the person I was with because at the end of the day I was over the relationship before I did it. The problem was I WASN'T thinking. I was a teenager and I did what teenagers do best... make stupid decisions. If Slut means a woman with a veracious sexual appetite then I'll ware the name proudly thank you very much sir.
@igirlgeek he probably feels that way because if you broke up, you'd still be around which means he could have you, but he doesn't. you wouldn't want to be with him. it would hurt more because if you died it just meant you couldn't be together. but if you broke up, it meant you didn't want to be together.
hey man, i respect the relationsip advice, im 18 an have been with a girl since we were both 14 in middle school! long story short, she cheated on me when we were first going out and i still dont trust her, &OF COURSE, she has cheated on me numbers an numbers of time after. we still go out an till this day i regret taking her back, its like i cant leave her over cheating now becuase i feel like i have brushed it aside for so long now, message me back man, love to convo with ya! stay strong!
I'm so sick of you insulting everyone who doesn't agree with you and then being a weakling and blocking all comments and ratings. Now if you don't want to allow ratings that's fine, it's your right to, but don't insult people and then stop them from defending themselves.At the very least block the comments individually so that the people who you promised to be honest to can see how many people you're oppressing. And yes you are lying. It's called lie of omission; look it up.Your just ignorant.
Greg you are a great person and a inspiration to me and all of your viewers. Thank you for all of your advice and please don't take me as just another screaming fan. These things are what I and many others believe. We all make mistakes you just have to learn from them and never do it again, me of all people should know this...
I cheated on my boyfriend last summer I told him in the same day and it was really a big mistake ending with the other guy in the hospital, the thing I know that he should not be with me but I'm really happy that he gave me a 2 change or in this case a 3 change... I know most people think a cheater is always a cheater but I really believe that cheating is a choice and if I don't want 2 do it again i'm not going 2 is not because I cheated twice that I will cheat again.
It's hard to say because I've never cheated / been on the other side of the situation as a "cheater". If you KNOW they have a reputation as a cheater, I'd say no. Keep your distance stay friends. They've got some issues they need to work out. 2) If they've cheated the first time with you and no history of cheating. Very hard to say. I've seen some people stay together, some people break up. Usually the ones that stay together, minor offence like kissing. Sex much harder to bounce back.
I do agree for the most part with what he's saying. Though, they can change. I did. I feel like there should second chances in some cases though. But you can never really know..Thats what sucks about it all, that a lot of people aren't like me, I guess they can't help it..
Hate infidelity. Once a cheta always a cheat. Best line ever made. - DEFINALTY do not get back with cheater! Even if it was just a kiss they will do more if they know they can get away with it!!
depends on what u call cheating, sex ? or just when someone has a friend, and flirts with that person for a little and thats it, its over ? people consider different things cheating, it can be even emotional cheatin, and u'd never even realize it. so please, say define cheating, then we can discuss it, sex ? that person is just worthless, emotional cheating ?...now thats something that needs some attention, maybe the person cheated...cause didnt got enough eomtional support huh ?...idk its deep
wow the person that asked that was a friend of mine we still are but we are having a hard time... i remember when he confronted me about thinking of taking my ex back he told me pretty much what you said in this video lol it helped a lot and i didnt get back with them this seems so long ago though funny what you find on here sometimes though
i think im stupid :/ *sigh..... i should have listened to my friend...why did i get back with that person when i knew he cheated on me?....thank you onision for making this video!
Cheating is never a "mistake". That's just another excuse used by cheaters. The very least cheaters should do is take responsibility for their cheating. Act like an adult in your brain too, not just in your crotch.
what if someone is trying to get with you but your scared...like what shoud happen.like their scared of getting hurt, and more than just emotionally too.but the person thats scared still likes that someone?(confussing?sorry) just some words of wisedome would reeeeallly help my situation right now
well you won't find amazingly good advice over youtube- but i can try to help:)
If someone is scared of getting hurt, try to comfort them, let them know you're not a threat emotionally or physically, and tell that person how you truly feel.
It all depends, if you get back right away they will probably cheat, they put all their focus on a new relationship, and not getting caught, insted of wondering why they cheat, I once at 14 dated a girl, she got serious about me fast and it scared me, I was worried of losing a friend, I did kiss another person, but after we broke up, I didnt date for a while and told myself to TELL people when I feel it's moving too fast for me, I was young and scared, and stupid
i believe if they cheat once and you forgive them, they're going to think they can keep doing this and getting forgiven. its not wise to stay with them.
I've cheated before and i never intend to do it again (within my current relationship), i've learnt to just break up before any cheating happens (if at all).
I have to agree with you on this subject. I recently have been the victim of cheating but not in the way you would think. My mother cheated on my father. I now have to drive 100 miles to see my own father. I get to look at the man my mother cheated on my father with everyday. I'm 50% my father. If she didn't love him, how could she love me? Honestly, once a cheater always a cheater. Don't make the mistake of going back. Also, think about others, such as your children, involved because it hurts.
I go by the saying "Use me once, shame on you. Use me twice, shame on me." Second chances to me are important in relationships, even when cheating isn't the topic at hand. In a new relationship, people often overstep their bounds on many different things, but in my experience I've learned to not trust too much or too little, and to try to forgive the fixable things. The only time I've left someone for cheating was when I found out he had been seeing a different girl for a few weeks.
The sircumstances may very well be of the "Ross&Rachel's-WE-WERE-ON-A-BREAK" kind.
The kind that isn't really defined by what kind of person the one cheating is, but more of the sircumstances that led to that point.
My point is that cheating is a horrible thing to do, and something that I've sworn to myself to NEVER, EVER do, but I don't believe that the saying: "Once a cheater, ALWAYS a chaeter" applys to everyone.
Not all people who have cheated are cheaters. Some people have made ignorant mistakes in their pasts. A cheater isn't always a cheater. In most cases, a cheater is a cheater but sometimes you have to have a little bit more faith in people. Humans make mistakes, only the stupid ones make them more than once.
@mraaronyuppy no, you haven't paid attention to them. you're only talking about those you consider as people. there are people who cheat, and that don't cheat. Usually those who cheat are those who feel free to cheat, who consider themselves higher, than the one they are in the relationship.
@mraaronyuppy Well I have. I hate how people only believe that once you do something you're bound to do it again. If you believe that, you're just as stupid as the people who actually do make the same mistakes more than once. And you probably make the same mistakes more than once as well. Everyone deserves a second chance. If someone cheats, obviously you break up with them. But that doesn't mean that they're gonna do it to someone else. They could have learned their lesson.
Either your boyfriend has cheated on you or you cheated on him...
Either way, whichever one it may be, i don't believe it. guarantee you he is sleeping around, or you're just trying to prove something by being here arguing with an opinion.
You instantly show "Hate" for someone who disagrees with you. i'm not "PUSHING" my opinions as if they're fact, i'm just stating how i personally feel about cheating people.
@mraaronyuppy "Either your boyfriend has cheated on you or you cheated on him..." That's not an opinion, that is an ASSUMPTION. And the fact that you are assuming that every person who cheats is going to do it again with out knowing anything about their ability to learn from mistakes is ridiculous. Yeah it's an opinion, but "cheaters are always cheaters" are based off of assumptions. YOU won't make it well out in the world if you can't learn to give people a chance.
@mraaronyuppy No, I'm actually just a nice person who doesn't automatically assume the worst. And there you go assuming that my opinion stems from something personal. There is such thing as a nice person, you know that right? I hope you do. Also, there's such thing as people who make mistakes (they're called humans) and learn from them and never do them again (good, intelligent humans). I've KNOWN people who have cheated and realized what they did was disgusting and wrong and never did it again.
@mraaronyuppy Haha wow. Who said I was trying to convert you? This is a debate not a sermon. So yeah, you can continue on with your miserable ass life. And not all religious people are gonna sit there and try and convert you, that's another assumption and a generalization. I almost feel sorry for you because your mind is so closed and you clearly have no faith in humanity. You must be so miserable and angry all the time.
hmm so it's fine of YOU to assume i have a miserable life, but it's out of order for me to assume once a cheater always a cheater?
And i did not say All religious people do it...
YOU little girl need to Get off youtube, stop commenting to someone i'm Sure you feel is below you, and actually find some friends, you will NOT Find them here on youtube, ESPECIALLY With the horrible attitude you have on you.
Insulting people for not sharing your shitty opinion, Child!.
@mraaronyuppy How old do you think I am? haha I'm sorry I'm a nice person who doesn't sit there and assume the worst about people with out even knowing who they are. And you seem pretty miserable by the way you're talking about this. You act like just because someone did something bad they're a bad person, you have terrible out look on life. I only insult when insulted. You've been trying to so hard to do so.
Because I'm commenting on youtube I have no friends? What does that say about you?
@mraaronyuppy Actually, I'm going to be 18 in a couple of months. And yeah, the way you think about people is the way I used to think about people. But I decided that I'm not going to be a miserable little arrogant fuck anymore and brighten up and give people chances - ergo I'm happier and nicer. My opinions don't define my intelligence, they define my personality and morals. If anything, your arrogance is offensive to everyone. My intelligence is above average, in fact, it is way above average.
@mraaronyuppy I'm not assuming. You're making it very clear that you are miserable. Either way, it's not the point. No one ever said I was correcting you and i'm not trying to. I really don't give a fuck if you're going to miss out on some good people because you can't give them a chance. I'm just trying to open your mind to another opinion besides your own. I clearly understand where you are coming from. If anything you hold the narcissism and ignorance.
@mraaronyuppy Unlike you, and most, I can see both sides of an argument and I can get through one without calling people names and reducing to swearing and being a bitch. I only bring out the name calling if the other person feels it's necessary. But that doesn't mean I'm not going to stick to my argument and opinions. I realize everyone is entitled to their opinion and I don't hold anyone above or below me for their thoughts. You on the other hand immediately start to talk down to your opponent
Don't just overlook what i said trying to make yourself look all unique, You spoke down to me first acting like my opinion is nothing and is apparently absolutely wrong
And you said you don't call people names yet you called me a sad miserable person.
Explain how i am wrong, go on, Try and talk your way out of it. You can't, you know why?..
Because this argument has no meaning! I'm entitled to my opinions, you're entitled to yours!. Just accept that! Don't argue when it's unnecessary.
@mraaronyuppy I'm not arguing. You're the one who seems to be getting mad. But whatever. Saying you're sad and miserable isn't calling you names. Calling me a bitch is. Saying you're miserable is an observation. How am I making myself unique? haha I never said your opinion was nothing and it's my OPINION that yours is wrong. That's the beauty of opinions. You obviously think mine is wrong as well or else we wouldn't be having this conversation. Also, why do you capitalize random words?
Get off the computer little girl, you've bee on it WAY too long.
Yes, i'm making assumptions, I'm pretty much like you now aren't i?
Ignorance must be bliss little one
Why don't you do yourself a favour and Stop trying to get the last word it, it compliments the stereotype of women always trying to get "the last word" i'd like you to prove that stereotype wrong.. Odds are you will reply, and start more arguments.
@mraaronyuppy Stop calling me little I'm not much younger than you. And so what, you're sexist now? All women don't try and get the last word. Just stubborn PEOPLE and I'll be the first to admit I'm stubborn and I don't give a fuck and I will not be giving a single fuck today. I really don't know how you can survive with such a negative outlook on everyone. It's actually kind of pathetic. Just shut up and continue being as ass some where else in your miserable life.
You just set your gender back by falling into a Sexist male trap... You disgrace girls of your age everywhere
Thank god WOMEN Are alot more intelligent than you. God
See, you seem to think just because i act negative to someone i don't like, being you, that automatically means i'm negative to people i know and like
My friends, family, and girlfriend all see me for the true me. A loving person, You however see what you want to see,someone you feel is below you, because of your idiocy.
@mraaronyuppy Yeah because you know exactly what I'm thinking. I totally think you're below me. I'm pretty sure I said earlier that I don't hold anyone above or below me. And I'm only seeing what you're showing me. How in the world do I disgrace girls my age everywhere? Because I have an opinion and I stick by it? Yeah, so disgraceful. Most girls my age are too stupid to form an opinion or even know the definition of opinion. So thank you for your sexist views but they're unneeded.
@mraaronyuppy And if you're going to reduce to insults because your intelligence can't keep up with an actual debate, then maybe you are the one who should get off youtube and think about growing up.
@mraaronyuppy I've said before "everyone is entitled to their opinion". You're the one being a dick. You're too stubborn and retarded to actually fucking read and process the words I am typing.
@mraaronyuppy You might want to get off your high horse before you embarrass yourself. Also, you probably want to go back to school, your grammar, capitalization and punctuation is atrocious.
i'm not on a high horse of any kind, you're just being so Low you can't tell where i'm at.
Embaress myself? ha, thats hilarious little girl, no go back to moaning on justin bieber videos that mock him while the serious adults talk about Relationships.
@mraaronyuppy If you have to reduce to being an asshole to prove your point, then you're obviously not intelligent enough to back up your argument.
Really, if anything, YOU'RE the little girl. You are the most immature person I've ever met. Last time I checked I don't listen to Justin Bieber and never have. Also, no one moans over his videos. He has a fan base of girls from 8 to 12. Either way, the fact that you bring irrelevant assumptions into this clearly shows your lack of debating skills.
@OKashli My experience, is that cheating comes from a problem in a relationship. It might be (mental)distance, it might be sex, a cheater can still love the person he's cheating on, but there's something missing that she can't give him. And it hurts for both parts if they're both in love.
And yes, im sure it's easier to cheat after the first time. Like beating someone gets less hard. But i'd first try to fix the problem or move on. People who date "cheaters" aren't dumb. just naive.
Kinda thought you meant a cheetah doesn't change its spots. You know... cheetah, cheater. Nevertheless, well said. Forgiving the one you love after it's been proven he or she lacks the integrity to be faithful and honest is a superb decision if utter ruin is what you seek and the initial damage wasn't quite bad enough.
However, you're right as well in some points as it's true that some people will always cheat and I've known people of that calibre who continually 're-offend', so to speak. xD
As Onision has said, "Your actions define you", so I've learned from past actions and changed myself. And there's no such thing as "only certain people" cheat. I'm pretty sure any human being can potentially cheat if it pleases them. Everyone is suspect. Even the most respected of us can be the biggest asshole and even the most powerful of us can commit the worst, immoral acts in the face of personal insecurities and lack of respect for someone else. A very flawed argument there Onision.
Well, this doesn't always apply. I cheated on my ex girlfriend with the girl I have now and she's stayed with me and I've never cheated or had the inclination to cheat again. I apologised to everyone involved, even finding it hard to forgive myself for doing what I did. But through being with my girlfriend, the trust has been regained and we are very happy. The term "once a cheater, always a cheater" doesn't always stick true. Of course, you can bring up past mistakes, but it doesn't define you.
omg plleease why the fuck did u give ur BF a second chance i will not give my GF a sencond chance same if i cheated on her she dont give me athore chance and we was togheter for 5 YEARS 5 YEARS but she would to get a 2nd chance but the problem is that u have a bad haircut and u dont look in ppls eyes when u say that u love them do like me athore LOOK IN THEYR EYES AND SEE IN THEM LIE OR LOVE U THAT IS HIS PROBLEM HE DONT DO DONT END UP LIKE UP have a good day everyone ;)
I'm polyamorous myself, and my take on this is that having multiple partners is ok if it's been talked through and everyone involved has accepted it, and thus it, by definition, is not cheating. I know that I have no wish or intention to be in a monogamous relationship, so whenever I get to the point of starting a relationship of any sort with someone, I tell them this and ask them to give it some thought, if they truly want to get into it or not.
as a cheater...or someone who has cheated, i would like to point out that this is good advice. it's pretty sad when i don't trust myself to stay faithful most of the time. a good majority of the time "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a true statement. granted people are, at least in my case, willing to and trying to improve themselves and remain faithful. it's a bad habit that's hard to break.
Lol just said this on another video, fits in here too.
I HATE saying this cause I HATE cheaters and like 95% of them are likely to do it again but I do know of someone who cheated but now they are happily married. I guess I do believe they won't do it again but I'm gonna say if they do I'm gonna fucking Murder them.
I have a good friend who has a choice between picking me or another girl. Have you ever had to pick between more then one girl like this? and if so, what was your thought on it? Was it hard for you? or was it easy?
@Ishiki321 if they dont chose you without even having to think about it, it won't be a healthy relationship, it's not fun to have to wait for them and hope they pick you. plus when you see the other girl and youre with him , this is me anyway, i would be afraid he would leave me for her at any minute. you want them to want only you. with no doubt in their mind. there is always other people and you'll find who wants you and absolutely nothing else. Good luck =]
You honestly believe that a person doesn't have the capacity to change? When you know that you are an individual who is constantly learning and growing and trying to better yourself. You don't think anyone else becomes self aware through reflection and realizes that they we're wrong? I don't think it's instant, or that you should take back a cheater. But to base a relationship at the very beginning on something someone did wrongfully to someone else before they changed is a superiority complex.
been there. recently in fact. it broke me. and im trying to heal. its so hard but i will NOT go back and get burned again. there out my life. the most difficult thing ive ever had to do but i know in the long run this will speed up my healing process. im trying to concentrate on whats important but in all honesty, its so so hard. i never thought he'd be the type to do it. especially after someone did it to him. hes forgot how it feels
love has intent to be good. it doesnt need guilt telling it that its not loving enough. guilt gives judgement without giving a feeling of love.what does love have to do with religion? why cant people be happy without somone else's guilt being pushed upon the world? all this crap that people hide behind is just a mask for your lack of acceptance. i admit i dont have unconditional acceptance for everything but to me i think i should. but i know people would be happier with out denial and guilt.
what about people who cheated out of insecurities and personal issues. if she didnt take me back, i would have never been saved from hating myself. from being a bad person to one who lives to make her smile. we have been together for 2 years now. i think that to forgive someone for cheating, you have to understand them completely. cause i dont think that anyone but those sex addicted guys do it for fun. it goes deeper than that. i couldnt live without her.
I unfortunately am that type of person. I am always looking for the next best thing, and in the past it has hurt the people I was the closest to. I'm not sure why I have such low standards for myself, I'm not sure what happened in my life to make me this way but I am. So I chose to stay out of relationships. I don't go in to anything serious. Because I refuse to hurt someone else who did nothing but be faithful. Just be real, don't play people.
Everyone thinks people who cheat are jerks with no feelings, to be honest, I've cheated and it feels terrible, it's just like an impulse, but then you feel this immense guilt inside of you, cheating does not mean that you don't love your partner (at least in my case) it's just a mistake. But of course, I can see how painful it is to get cheated on.
i know someone who cheated up on someone else, and ended up getting oral herpes from the girl he was kissing behind his girlfriends back. instant karma, my friends.
I forgive, but I never forget. And therefor, a second chance is worth while for some people. After they've *fucked* me over again, they lose my respect completely.
I've been cheated on a couple times, and all of the cheaters have 1 thing in common;
They started to accuse me of cheating, they thought every person I texted was a guy I was messing around with. So they were in constant denial. It's fun to watch. Suuuure it hurt a little, but I don't have a lot of feelings anymore ;)
some girl tried to make me feel bad because aparently i was cheating on her. read my name you might get a clue as to why i think that was bullshit. i never did anything to suggest i was interested in her, but the girl was dependant on me and abusive. id just like to point out that people may be selfish and not respectful for accusing someone else of cheating. if they are not happy with u, it may be for a bad reason or a good reason. no one is really bringing that up
My ex Aaron... I loved him soo much... Sooo much... And one day... Out of nowhere I walk in on him fucking some other slut... And I let him back into my life twice.. And as of now... He has been calling.. And because I'm still in love with him... Im at the point where I dnt care if he cheats... I want him.. I love him.. And I'm doomed.... Any advice?
@ladydie1234 I know exactly what you're talking about. It hurts like crazy and you want to move on, but you love him so you dont. But if you let him back in, all he's going to do is cheat. I say you either lay down the law and tell him you wont get hurt by a douchebag (of course you can use different words) or you'll walk. Yes it will be hard, but you will feel good about yourself afterwards. I understan you love him but do you want to be hurt again?
A good point. By a certain age, our belief system, habits, and thought processes are already set into place. The likelihood of someone that would cheat, becoming a someone who wouldn't cheat is slim to none.
this really just helped me, a few hours ago my ex who cheated twice on 2 different occasions, wants to get back together and ive been sitting here going "i love her but is it really worth it again" ive come to the answer of no O_O
we humans make mistakes. If only we could feel what that person felt while 'cheating' on their bf/gf you kinda would take some words back. Hones truth though you never know, a person can change for the better. If a person sees the cheating person the hate them but I that person were in it's position or understood the feeling or be the cheater it would have a different perspective, though this is for a certain kind of cheat, not the one where the bf/gf uses you orisnotreallyordeeplyinlovewithyou
Onision. I go against your opinion in this although i love all your videos. I was with this guy and he liked someone else. We broke up. We got back. happend again. We got back. we have been together for 6 months now and we are in deep love. He realizes he loves me and cud never get someone as amazing as me. He told me that to my face.
Onision,
Get a life man, what a waste of talent. I hope you find yourself someday.
herosjourney1 2 hours ago
Confessions of a cheater: I've cheated on people I loved. I didn't do it because I'm mean or I wanted to hurt them. It just happened and I can't take it back and I told them and I cried and apologized but there's one thing I really shouldn't have done... gotten back together with them. If you are able to cheat you aren't completely in the relationship, it's broken. Do the humane thing and break up before you do something you'll regret. Hurts less for both of you.
StarFire4 1 week ago in playlist Relationships 2
@StarFire4 Dude that is so fucked up, cheating doesn't "just happen" you made a conscious decision to cheat fully knowing who it would hurt. Take responsibility for your actions. You're just a slut, and that's all there is to it.
VampirateYuki 3 days ago
@VampirateYuki You can say what you want because you don't know me personally. But I'm just putting my experience out there. I didn't go into the situation thinking about the person I was with because at the end of the day I was over the relationship before I did it. The problem was I WASN'T thinking. I was a teenager and I did what teenagers do best... make stupid decisions. If Slut means a woman with a veracious sexual appetite then I'll ware the name proudly thank you very much sir.
StarFire4 2 days ago
@igirlgeek sorry, meant to post that on Onision's "Love Beyond Death" video
fjhfjfjdhfjdhfjdhfjd 1 week ago
@igirlgeek he probably feels that way because if you broke up, you'd still be around which means he could have you, but he doesn't. you wouldn't want to be with him. it would hurt more because if you died it just meant you couldn't be together. but if you broke up, it meant you didn't want to be together.
fjhfjfjdhfjdhfjdhfjd 1 week ago
hey man, i respect the relationsip advice, im 18 an have been with a girl since we were both 14 in middle school! long story short, she cheated on me when we were first going out and i still dont trust her, &OF COURSE, she has cheated on me numbers an numbers of time after. we still go out an till this day i regret taking her back, its like i cant leave her over cheating now becuase i feel like i have brushed it aside for so long now, message me back man, love to convo with ya! stay strong!
mmmblnts 2 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
I'm so sick of you insulting everyone who doesn't agree with you and then being a weakling and blocking all comments and ratings. Now if you don't want to allow ratings that's fine, it's your right to, but don't insult people and then stop them from defending themselves.At the very least block the comments individually so that the people who you promised to be honest to can see how many people you're oppressing. And yes you are lying. It's called lie of omission; look it up.Your just ignorant.
keld101 2 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
SEPSIS
SkittlesandSpareFilm 2 weeks ago
I could watch this, orrrrrrrr.... i could watch him dress up as a retarded BATMAN!!!
hman659 2 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
Greg you are a great person and a inspiration to me and all of your viewers. Thank you for all of your advice and please don't take me as just another screaming fan. These things are what I and many others believe. We all make mistakes you just have to learn from them and never do it again, me of all people should know this...
Thanks again
Rebecca xx
LOVErandomSTUFF1 3 weeks ago in playlist Relationships
the 43 people that disliked this videos probably cheat...
31770H 3 weeks ago in playlist Relationships 2
damn. i wish i saw this before i took my ex back >_<'
KristleMethod 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
and stop asking him questions like that !
Frag3r99 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
where is hes live??? i cant found it -.-
Frag3r99 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
I cheated on my boyfriend last summer I told him in the same day and it was really a big mistake ending with the other guy in the hospital, the thing I know that he should not be with me but I'm really happy that he gave me a 2 change or in this case a 3 change... I know most people think a cheater is always a cheater but I really believe that cheating is a choice and if I don't want 2 do it again i'm not going 2 is not because I cheated twice that I will cheat again.
demonlover5577 1 month ago
i really needed to watch this video :) i <3 onision
flapjacks061 1 month ago
your a cheater , what the hell!
KarmaTakesAll 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
I had the exact thing happen. I gave a girl... More chances than I've ever even heard of...
guesirwowghr 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
a cheater is always a cheater..
reindrew 1 month ago
My boyfriend cheated and I feel like I'm living a lie now...I don't trust him and I'm not happy......idk what to do..
JatnnaBibi 1 month ago in playlist Relationships
@JatnnaBibi break up with him. pretty simple.
sirengob0om 1 month ago in playlist Relationships 2
You have monkey brow
Onryojiii 2 months ago
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fnizzledizzle 2 months ago
Well it depends on how the person cheats for example:
A: Hurt you really bad , you dont get back together..
B:Didnt hurt you much . you probably forgive and give them a second chance.
c:Hurt you so bad that you didnt feel like living again , usaully end up being best friends and NOT dating
ThemedNumber02 3 months ago
It's hard to say because I've never cheated / been on the other side of the situation as a "cheater". If you KNOW they have a reputation as a cheater, I'd say no. Keep your distance stay friends. They've got some issues they need to work out. 2) If they've cheated the first time with you and no history of cheating. Very hard to say. I've seen some people stay together, some people break up. Usually the ones that stay together, minor offence like kissing. Sex much harder to bounce back.
Ally657 3 months ago
I do agree for the most part with what he's saying. Though, they can change. I did. I feel like there should second chances in some cases though. But you can never really know..Thats what sucks about it all, that a lot of people aren't like me, I guess they can't help it..
jAsciba 3 months ago
you look a bit like Shane Dawson :3
LOLPWN1234 4 months ago 29
Taking bad a cheater / abuser (the two often go hand in hand) = a tacit approval of their behavior and a reward.
and whatever you do, for the LOVE OF GOD, do NOT MARRY a cheater!!! You will find it a lot harder to walk away with kids, a mortgage and roots.
Hawaiiansky11 4 months ago
U MAD BRO?
darklordofkickingass 4 months ago in playlist Relationships
Not all cheaters stay cheaters. Sometimes they fo the wrong thing but I believe they can change, but only if they choose to.
metaldorksforever666 4 months ago
What if the person was drunk and taken advantage of?
ShadowLineCinima 4 months ago in playlist Relationships
There are people who cheat once and never do it again. There are some that cheat compulsively due to certain "mental illness".
tkathryyn 4 months ago
what if u break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend because u were afraid he or she might dumb u
ItsMaribellaCy 4 months ago
Hate infidelity. Once a cheta always a cheat. Best line ever made. - DEFINALTY do not get back with cheater! Even if it was just a kiss they will do more if they know they can get away with it!!
cwgcGymnast 4 months ago
depends on what u call cheating, sex ? or just when someone has a friend, and flirts with that person for a little and thats it, its over ? people consider different things cheating, it can be even emotional cheatin, and u'd never even realize it. so please, say define cheating, then we can discuss it, sex ? that person is just worthless, emotional cheating ?...now thats something that needs some attention, maybe the person cheated...cause didnt got enough eomtional support huh ?...idk its deep
blackened2008 5 months ago
did yuh do sumtin diff wit yur hair?? o.0
frekycc1 5 months ago
Well the thing is Greg is expressing his opinion through past experiences.
XxAnimanga22xX 5 months ago
LMFAO "A cheetah doesn't change it's stripes."
It's SPOTS, Greg. Cheetahs have SPOTS. Not stripes. xD <3
AlyVenom 5 months ago 76
eww
Revektion 5 months ago
wow the person that asked that was a friend of mine we still are but we are having a hard time... i remember when he confronted me about thinking of taking my ex back he told me pretty much what you said in this video lol it helped a lot and i didnt get back with them this seems so long ago though funny what you find on here sometimes though
buggydoo 5 months ago
i think im stupid :/ *sigh..... i should have listened to my friend...why did i get back with that person when i knew he cheated on me?....thank you onision for making this video!
TheAnim3 5 months ago
Cheating is never a "mistake". That's just another excuse used by cheaters. The very least cheaters should do is take responsibility for their cheating. Act like an adult in your brain too, not just in your crotch.
Pastor9764 6 months ago
"Not all people who have cheated are cheaters."
Um, yes, they are. That is exactly what they are.
Pastor9764 6 months ago
umm, i gotta question.
what if someone is trying to get with you but your scared...like what shoud happen.like their scared of getting hurt, and more than just emotionally too.but the person thats scared still likes that someone?(confussing?sorry) just some words of wisedome would reeeeallly help my situation right now
shorwty10 6 months ago
@shorwty10
well you won't find amazingly good advice over youtube- but i can try to help:)
If someone is scared of getting hurt, try to comfort them, let them know you're not a threat emotionally or physically, and tell that person how you truly feel.
hope i helped somehow D:
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
It all depends, if you get back right away they will probably cheat, they put all their focus on a new relationship, and not getting caught, insted of wondering why they cheat, I once at 14 dated a girl, she got serious about me fast and it scared me, I was worried of losing a friend, I did kiss another person, but after we broke up, I didnt date for a while and told myself to TELL people when I feel it's moving too fast for me, I was young and scared, and stupid
bellaboo182 7 months ago
I'm glad you show us your sense of humor and your wisdom.
PicaresqueQuixote 7 months ago
i believe if they cheat once and you forgive them, they're going to think they can keep doing this and getting forgiven. its not wise to stay with them.
CheckAgainNever 7 months ago
I've cheated before and i never intend to do it again (within my current relationship), i've learnt to just break up before any cheating happens (if at all).
iambetterthanalloyou 7 months ago
I have to agree with you on this subject. I recently have been the victim of cheating but not in the way you would think. My mother cheated on my father. I now have to drive 100 miles to see my own father. I get to look at the man my mother cheated on my father with everyday. I'm 50% my father. If she didn't love him, how could she love me? Honestly, once a cheater always a cheater. Don't make the mistake of going back. Also, think about others, such as your children, involved because it hurts.
LmfaoKatiee 7 months ago
I go by the saying "Use me once, shame on you. Use me twice, shame on me." Second chances to me are important in relationships, even when cheating isn't the topic at hand. In a new relationship, people often overstep their bounds on many different things, but in my experience I've learned to not trust too much or too little, and to try to forgive the fixable things. The only time I've left someone for cheating was when I found out he had been seeing a different girl for a few weeks.
MirandaMoshingPanda 7 months ago
That's quite harsh.
I would say that it's true to about 85%
The sircumstances may very well be of the "Ross&Rachel's-WE-WERE-ON-A-BREAK" kind.
The kind that isn't really defined by what kind of person the one cheating is, but more of the sircumstances that led to that point.
My point is that cheating is a horrible thing to do, and something that I've sworn to myself to NEVER, EVER do, but I don't believe that the saying: "Once a cheater, ALWAYS a chaeter" applys to everyone.
bibbisbibbis 7 months ago
Really, really, really good advice. :)
whisperinginblue 8 months ago
True, true, true.
cosmosspring 8 months ago
Cheating is a choice. With that said, why would you ever chose someone who didn't choose you? Or, why would you choose someone who chose everybody?
Exevien 8 months ago
There is your right, My right & Gods right, I know who I believe.
videojack39 8 months ago
What do you think of lesbians falling for there guy best friend?
jancathy7 9 months ago
@jancathy7 uhhh then there not exactly lesbo
memeandme0321 8 months ago
@jancathy7 They're not lesbians, then.
SalaD891 8 months ago
@jancathy7 They aren't lesbian then.They wouldn't go for guys if they were.
PennyMoonshine 8 months ago
I agree...
Blckroses3 9 months ago
ive been with a cheater he just broke my heart (whats left into peices ) so yeah good luck with ur new gf
gingermckinnish 9 months ago
omfg he is so much happier now he is with shiloh
CHstudios11 9 months ago 2
@CHstudios11 but less wise
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nextinline777 9 months ago
I am Buddhist and he is more wise than my teachers Lama Kabochi
jacksoncartner 9 months ago
Not all people who have cheated are cheaters. Some people have made ignorant mistakes in their pasts. A cheater isn't always a cheater. In most cases, a cheater is a cheater but sometimes you have to have a little bit more faith in people. Humans make mistakes, only the stupid ones make them more than once.
OKashli 9 months ago 61
@OKashli
i don't believe that i'm sorry, i've Never in my life met someone who has Not let another down after promising not to cheat...
just saying..
mraaronyuppy 7 months ago
@mraaronyuppy no, you haven't paid attention to them. you're only talking about those you consider as people. there are people who cheat, and that don't cheat. Usually those who cheat are those who feel free to cheat, who consider themselves higher, than the one they are in the relationship.
valken666 7 months ago
@valken666
That barely mate any sense...
I've paid enough attention to learn Once a cheater- Usually in almost all situations means Always a cheater.
mraaronyuppy 7 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Well I have. I hate how people only believe that once you do something you're bound to do it again. If you believe that, you're just as stupid as the people who actually do make the same mistakes more than once. And you probably make the same mistakes more than once as well. Everyone deserves a second chance. If someone cheats, obviously you break up with them. But that doesn't mean that they're gonna do it to someone else. They could have learned their lesson.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Either your boyfriend has cheated on you or you cheated on him...
Either way, whichever one it may be, i don't believe it. guarantee you he is sleeping around, or you're just trying to prove something by being here arguing with an opinion.
You instantly show "Hate" for someone who disagrees with you. i'm not "PUSHING" my opinions as if they're fact, i'm just stating how i personally feel about cheating people.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Thank you for your assumptions. Come again.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
We're all entitled to our opinions, to call mine Assumptions is absurd.
if you can't handle accepting others opinions as they are, then you're not the sort of tolerant person who will make it well out in the world.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy "Either your boyfriend has cheated on you or you cheated on him..." That's not an opinion, that is an ASSUMPTION. And the fact that you are assuming that every person who cheats is going to do it again with out knowing anything about their ability to learn from mistakes is ridiculous. Yeah it's an opinion, but "cheaters are always cheaters" are based off of assumptions. YOU won't make it well out in the world if you can't learn to give people a chance.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
It is an assumption within an opinion
therefore you don't HAVE to take it to heart like it appears you are
stop commenting to youtube comments about cheating and take care of your relationships.
or do you have nothing better to do?
i am Allowed to believe Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
Unless in the future i truly am proven wrong.
Just because it seems either you have cheated or your boyfriend has, don't bring personal matters into commenting over youtube.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy No, I'm actually just a nice person who doesn't automatically assume the worst. And there you go assuming that my opinion stems from something personal. There is such thing as a nice person, you know that right? I hope you do. Also, there's such thing as people who make mistakes (they're called humans) and learn from them and never do them again (good, intelligent humans). I've KNOWN people who have cheated and realized what they did was disgusting and wrong and never did it again.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
well then that just means YOU have seen people not cheat. i however am not, and i am entitled to an opinion i believe, as, i am "Human"
So stop trying to convert me like some sort of Religious person who stands there going "Have you heard of the good will of god?"
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Haha wow. Who said I was trying to convert you? This is a debate not a sermon. So yeah, you can continue on with your miserable ass life. And not all religious people are gonna sit there and try and convert you, that's another assumption and a generalization. I almost feel sorry for you because your mind is so closed and you clearly have no faith in humanity. You must be so miserable and angry all the time.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
hmm so it's fine of YOU to assume i have a miserable life, but it's out of order for me to assume once a cheater always a cheater?
And i did not say All religious people do it...
YOU little girl need to Get off youtube, stop commenting to someone i'm Sure you feel is below you, and actually find some friends, you will NOT Find them here on youtube, ESPECIALLY With the horrible attitude you have on you.
Insulting people for not sharing your shitty opinion, Child!.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy How old do you think I am? haha I'm sorry I'm a nice person who doesn't sit there and assume the worst about people with out even knowing who they are. And you seem pretty miserable by the way you're talking about this. You act like just because someone did something bad they're a bad person, you have terrible out look on life. I only insult when insulted. You've been trying to so hard to do so.
Because I'm commenting on youtube I have no friends? What does that say about you?
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Wait, so, you're a nice person who doesn't assume without knowing someone yet you JUST Assumed i'm a sad miserable person?!
Yeah, i think i know how old you are, you're a typical 15 year old girl with nothing better to do than argue with someone older than you.
Now, if you would Kindly get off youtube as you're stupidty is Offensive to us intelligent human beings.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Actually, I'm going to be 18 in a couple of months. And yeah, the way you think about people is the way I used to think about people. But I decided that I'm not going to be a miserable little arrogant fuck anymore and brighten up and give people chances - ergo I'm happier and nicer. My opinions don't define my intelligence, they define my personality and morals. If anything, your arrogance is offensive to everyone. My intelligence is above average, in fact, it is way above average.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
i'm not intelligent to backup my argument, yet you can clearly and smugly say "i don't make assumptions" yet you assume i'm a sad miserable person?!
My opinions shouldn't and Don't give you any right to prance around doing what you think is "Correcting" them
thats literally like saying to a christian "God isn't real, and no matter what you think, you're Wrong"
Thats the sort of bloody narcissistic talk that shows Ignorance!
So shut the fuck up you ignorant little bitch.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy I'm not assuming. You're making it very clear that you are miserable. Either way, it's not the point. No one ever said I was correcting you and i'm not trying to. I really don't give a fuck if you're going to miss out on some good people because you can't give them a chance. I'm just trying to open your mind to another opinion besides your own. I clearly understand where you are coming from. If anything you hold the narcissism and ignorance.
OKashli 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Unlike you, and most, I can see both sides of an argument and I can get through one without calling people names and reducing to swearing and being a bitch. I only bring out the name calling if the other person feels it's necessary. But that doesn't mean I'm not going to stick to my argument and opinions. I realize everyone is entitled to their opinion and I don't hold anyone above or below me for their thoughts. You on the other hand immediately start to talk down to your opponent
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Don't just overlook what i said trying to make yourself look all unique, You spoke down to me first acting like my opinion is nothing and is apparently absolutely wrong
And you said you don't call people names yet you called me a sad miserable person.
Explain how i am wrong, go on, Try and talk your way out of it. You can't, you know why?..
Because this argument has no meaning! I'm entitled to my opinions, you're entitled to yours!. Just accept that! Don't argue when it's unnecessary.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy I'm not arguing. You're the one who seems to be getting mad. But whatever. Saying you're sad and miserable isn't calling you names. Calling me a bitch is. Saying you're miserable is an observation. How am I making myself unique? haha I never said your opinion was nothing and it's my OPINION that yours is wrong. That's the beauty of opinions. You obviously think mine is wrong as well or else we wouldn't be having this conversation. Also, why do you capitalize random words?
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
You're still trying to pick an argument.
Get off the computer little girl, you've bee on it WAY too long.
Yes, i'm making assumptions, I'm pretty much like you now aren't i?
Ignorance must be bliss little one
Why don't you do yourself a favour and Stop trying to get the last word it, it compliments the stereotype of women always trying to get "the last word" i'd like you to prove that stereotype wrong.. Odds are you will reply, and start more arguments.
Now i play the waiting game.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Stop calling me little I'm not much younger than you. And so what, you're sexist now? All women don't try and get the last word. Just stubborn PEOPLE and I'll be the first to admit I'm stubborn and I don't give a fuck and I will not be giving a single fuck today. I really don't know how you can survive with such a negative outlook on everyone. It's actually kind of pathetic. Just shut up and continue being as ass some where else in your miserable life.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
You just set your gender back by falling into a Sexist male trap... You disgrace girls of your age everywhere
Thank god WOMEN Are alot more intelligent than you. God
See, you seem to think just because i act negative to someone i don't like, being you, that automatically means i'm negative to people i know and like
My friends, family, and girlfriend all see me for the true me. A loving person, You however see what you want to see,someone you feel is below you, because of your idiocy.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Yeah because you know exactly what I'm thinking. I totally think you're below me. I'm pretty sure I said earlier that I don't hold anyone above or below me. And I'm only seeing what you're showing me. How in the world do I disgrace girls my age everywhere? Because I have an opinion and I stick by it? Yeah, so disgraceful. Most girls my age are too stupid to form an opinion or even know the definition of opinion. So thank you for your sexist views but they're unneeded.
OKashli 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy And if you're going to reduce to insults because your intelligence can't keep up with an actual debate, then maybe you are the one who should get off youtube and think about growing up.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Again, like a stupid person, you avoid the matter at hand and carry on rambling..
Pathetic..
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy The matter at hand is cheating. You've lead this conversation astray with your arrogant, stuck up insults.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Well i said why not stick to our own opinions rather than argue, but your ignorance has made you lead the conversation to THIS!
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@OKashli
You're still prolonging the argument...
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@OKashli
You know what. It's obviously you're too stubborn to ever actually agree to us both just having our own opinions
so i reduce this conversation to something much. much more meaningful by saying.
"FUCK YOU KID YOUR A DICK"
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy I've said before "everyone is entitled to their opinion". You're the one being a dick. You're too stubborn and retarded to actually fucking read and process the words I am typing.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
No, no, no, You didn't want to just peacefully end an argument like i wanted to, so now its going to carry on because of your Ignorant ways
so screw you. Trollolololololol
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Yeah. You're pathetic.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
You just reduced to insults as well though
Pathetic little girl is asking to be trolled
Trollololololololol
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy Pathetic is in a troll's job description. BAZINGA!
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
Pathetic troll you fails Trollololol
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy You might want to get off your high horse before you embarrass yourself. Also, you probably want to go back to school, your grammar, capitalization and punctuation is atrocious.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli
i'm not on a high horse of any kind, you're just being so Low you can't tell where i'm at.
Embaress myself? ha, thats hilarious little girl, no go back to moaning on justin bieber videos that mock him while the serious adults talk about Relationships.
mraaronyuppy 6 months ago
@mraaronyuppy If you have to reduce to being an asshole to prove your point, then you're obviously not intelligent enough to back up your argument.
Really, if anything, YOU'RE the little girl. You are the most immature person I've ever met. Last time I checked I don't listen to Justin Bieber and never have. Also, no one moans over his videos. He has a fan base of girls from 8 to 12. Either way, the fact that you bring irrelevant assumptions into this clearly shows your lack of debating skills.
OKashli 6 months ago
@OKashli My experience, is that cheating comes from a problem in a relationship. It might be (mental)distance, it might be sex, a cheater can still love the person he's cheating on, but there's something missing that she can't give him. And it hurts for both parts if they're both in love.
And yes, im sure it's easier to cheat after the first time. Like beating someone gets less hard. But i'd first try to fix the problem or move on. People who date "cheaters" aren't dumb. just naive.
MissStaleyHere 4 months ago
Kinda thought you meant a cheetah doesn't change its spots. You know... cheetah, cheater. Nevertheless, well said. Forgiving the one you love after it's been proven he or she lacks the integrity to be faithful and honest is a superb decision if utter ruin is what you seek and the initial damage wasn't quite bad enough.
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Crazypandalizzy 10 months ago
However, you're right as well in some points as it's true that some people will always cheat and I've known people of that calibre who continually 're-offend', so to speak. xD
RichieDee123 10 months ago
As Onision has said, "Your actions define you", so I've learned from past actions and changed myself. And there's no such thing as "only certain people" cheat. I'm pretty sure any human being can potentially cheat if it pleases them. Everyone is suspect. Even the most respected of us can be the biggest asshole and even the most powerful of us can commit the worst, immoral acts in the face of personal insecurities and lack of respect for someone else. A very flawed argument there Onision.
RichieDee123 10 months ago
Well, this doesn't always apply. I cheated on my ex girlfriend with the girl I have now and she's stayed with me and I've never cheated or had the inclination to cheat again. I apologised to everyone involved, even finding it hard to forgive myself for doing what I did. But through being with my girlfriend, the trust has been regained and we are very happy. The term "once a cheater, always a cheater" doesn't always stick true. Of course, you can bring up past mistakes, but it doesn't define you.
RichieDee123 10 months ago
i never noticed how much i watch onision speaks, its kind of trippy
assbandit91 10 months ago
omg plleease why the fuck did u give ur BF a second chance i will not give my GF a sencond chance same if i cheated on her she dont give me athore chance and we was togheter for 5 YEARS 5 YEARS but she would to get a 2nd chance but the problem is that u have a bad haircut and u dont look in ppls eyes when u say that u love them do like me athore LOOK IN THEYR EYES AND SEE IN THEM LIE OR LOVE U THAT IS HIS PROBLEM HE DONT DO DONT END UP LIKE UP have a good day everyone ;)
AlexZmKiller 10 months ago
you give me hope for the male species
bluberrypenguin 10 months ago 76
@bluberrypenguin Men aren't a species lol.
metaldorksforever666 4 months ago
I'm polyamorous myself, and my take on this is that having multiple partners is ok if it's been talked through and everyone involved has accepted it, and thus it, by definition, is not cheating. I know that I have no wish or intention to be in a monogamous relationship, so whenever I get to the point of starting a relationship of any sort with someone, I tell them this and ask them to give it some thought, if they truly want to get into it or not.
viattomat88 10 months ago
make them a bannana
Ikkepop 11 months ago
as a cheater...or someone who has cheated, i would like to point out that this is good advice. it's pretty sad when i don't trust myself to stay faithful most of the time. a good majority of the time "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a true statement. granted people are, at least in my case, willing to and trying to improve themselves and remain faithful. it's a bad habit that's hard to break.
EricaOverup 1 year ago
Lol just said this on another video, fits in here too.
I HATE saying this cause I HATE cheaters and like 95% of them are likely to do it again but I do know of someone who cheated but now they are happily married. I guess I do believe they won't do it again but I'm gonna say if they do I'm gonna fucking Murder them.
MrEllisRedding 1 year ago
irony
cioecat01 1 year ago
I have a good friend who has a choice between picking me or another girl. Have you ever had to pick between more then one girl like this? and if so, what was your thought on it? Was it hard for you? or was it easy?
Ishiki321 1 year ago
@Ishiki321 I would really love your advice on this.
Ishiki321 1 year ago
@Ishiki321 if they dont chose you without even having to think about it, it won't be a healthy relationship, it's not fun to have to wait for them and hope they pick you. plus when you see the other girl and youre with him , this is me anyway, i would be afraid he would leave me for her at any minute. you want them to want only you. with no doubt in their mind. there is always other people and you'll find who wants you and absolutely nothing else. Good luck =]
DeadstarSunburn 1 year ago
You honestly believe that a person doesn't have the capacity to change? When you know that you are an individual who is constantly learning and growing and trying to better yourself. You don't think anyone else becomes self aware through reflection and realizes that they we're wrong? I don't think it's instant, or that you should take back a cheater. But to base a relationship at the very beginning on something someone did wrongfully to someone else before they changed is a superiority complex.
OhhhhCanada 1 year ago
wait cheetahs have spots right?
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MaoiMeowi2 11 months ago
been there. recently in fact. it broke me. and im trying to heal. its so hard but i will NOT go back and get burned again. there out my life. the most difficult thing ive ever had to do but i know in the long run this will speed up my healing process. im trying to concentrate on whats important but in all honesty, its so so hard. i never thought he'd be the type to do it. especially after someone did it to him. hes forgot how it feels
FF9MovieMaker 1 year ago
"Dating cheaters and liars is like playing with fire --- if you stay in that relationship with them, expect to get burned by their vices."
Oh.... So true, so true..........
TheStarsDemise 1 year ago
a cheeter dosen't have stripes?
VincentValentine39 1 year ago
love has intent to be good. it doesnt need guilt telling it that its not loving enough. guilt gives judgement without giving a feeling of love.what does love have to do with religion? why cant people be happy without somone else's guilt being pushed upon the world? all this crap that people hide behind is just a mask for your lack of acceptance. i admit i dont have unconditional acceptance for everything but to me i think i should. but i know people would be happier with out denial and guilt.
wiccanXexodus 1 year ago
lol
SirRoggo 1 year ago
"Fool me once, shame on you; Fool me twice, shame on me."
TaliValence 1 year ago
God hates divorce.
fagseatpoo 1 year ago
@fagseatpoo he hates you too
TaliValence 1 year ago 5
@fagseatpoo god would take his holy power and would stop making people divorce. and god loves anyone when you are a good person.
x3dontcarex3 1 year ago
@x3dontcarex3 God Hates Divirce, God hates the wicked! No one is 'a good person"
fagseatpoo 1 year ago
@fagseatpoo hm think i dont really believe in god.
x3dontcarex3 1 year ago
what about people who cheated out of insecurities and personal issues. if she didnt take me back, i would have never been saved from hating myself. from being a bad person to one who lives to make her smile. we have been together for 2 years now. i think that to forgive someone for cheating, you have to understand them completely. cause i dont think that anyone but those sex addicted guys do it for fun. it goes deeper than that. i couldnt live without her.
greekman2377 1 year ago
I unfortunately am that type of person. I am always looking for the next best thing, and in the past it has hurt the people I was the closest to. I'm not sure why I have such low standards for myself, I'm not sure what happened in my life to make me this way but I am. So I chose to stay out of relationships. I don't go in to anything serious. Because I refuse to hurt someone else who did nothing but be faithful. Just be real, don't play people.
SophiaDecker01 1 year ago
Everyone thinks people who cheat are jerks with no feelings, to be honest, I've cheated and it feels terrible, it's just like an impulse, but then you feel this immense guilt inside of you, cheating does not mean that you don't love your partner (at least in my case) it's just a mistake. But of course, I can see how painful it is to get cheated on.
12Daniel34 1 year ago
its a tiger doesnt change its stripes
Tman545380 1 year ago
it's "a cheata can't change it's spots"
supershawnodeseninja 1 year ago
i know someone who cheated up on someone else, and ended up getting oral herpes from the girl he was kissing behind his girlfriends back. instant karma, my friends.
ProAtEverything123 1 year ago
I forgive, but I never forget. And therefor, a second chance is worth while for some people. After they've *fucked* me over again, they lose my respect completely.
MydniteDaun 1 year ago
@MydniteDaun thats how i feel. how can you respect someone who would do that to you. never go back to a cheater
PandaJackedYoShit 1 year ago
I've been cheated on a couple times, and all of the cheaters have 1 thing in common;
They started to accuse me of cheating, they thought every person I texted was a guy I was messing around with. So they were in constant denial. It's fun to watch. Suuuure it hurt a little, but I don't have a lot of feelings anymore ;)
MsLawlMuffin 1 year ago
Agreed!
greenblue49 1 year ago
You are wise beyond your years.
MrJohnnyrace 1 year ago 134
@MrJohnnyrace He /was/.
sloaneVLOGS 8 months ago
@sloaneVLOGS I am sorry for your loss and his familys loss.
MrJohnnyrace 8 months ago
@MrJohnnyrace What the hell are you even talking about? He's wise here. Seen his new videos? Not so much.
sloaneVLOGS 8 months ago
some girl tried to make me feel bad because aparently i was cheating on her. read my name you might get a clue as to why i think that was bullshit. i never did anything to suggest i was interested in her, but the girl was dependant on me and abusive. id just like to point out that people may be selfish and not respectful for accusing someone else of cheating. if they are not happy with u, it may be for a bad reason or a good reason. no one is really bringing that up
TheHighfag 1 year ago
My ex Aaron... I loved him soo much... Sooo much... And one day... Out of nowhere I walk in on him fucking some other slut... And I let him back into my life twice.. And as of now... He has been calling.. And because I'm still in love with him... Im at the point where I dnt care if he cheats... I want him.. I love him.. And I'm doomed.... Any advice?
ladydie1234 1 year ago
@ladydie1234 kick him in the nuts and find someone better
xokumriexo 1 year ago
@ladydie1234 I know exactly what you're talking about. It hurts like crazy and you want to move on, but you love him so you dont. But if you let him back in, all he's going to do is cheat. I say you either lay down the law and tell him you wont get hurt by a douchebag (of course you can use different words) or you'll walk. Yes it will be hard, but you will feel good about yourself afterwards. I understan you love him but do you want to be hurt again?
shortylovesjb 1 year ago
the thirteen people that disliked this videos are all the cheaters in question.
SenorTrampoline 1 year ago
A good point. By a certain age, our belief system, habits, and thought processes are already set into place. The likelihood of someone that would cheat, becoming a someone who wouldn't cheat is slim to none.
TheZenoid 1 year ago
cheating isnt just selfish, its just pointless.
rbdzntsfrlk 1 year ago
thank yoooou exaaaaccctttllllyyyy!
vylett90 1 year ago
fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
dragonsladie 1 year ago
hey onision i have a really important question..... UMAD? hahhahaha
DannyTGTV 1 year ago
this really just helped me, a few hours ago my ex who cheated twice on 2 different occasions, wants to get back together and ive been sitting here going "i love her but is it really worth it again" ive come to the answer of no O_O
Danke, onision ^.^
LostSasori 1 year ago
if u wanna be mah lover you cant cheat on me
Darkpup15 1 year ago
@Darkpup15 k
DannyTGTV 1 year ago
Ya This girl wanted to go out with me again after she cheated on me
and i was like " Ok So you want to go out with me , So That I could be Cheated on me again? Or What? What was going on last time ,"
MrJustinChambers 1 year ago
@TheAntichristRising dude stfu cuz one i can say anything i want and two u cant stop me
satanFTWlawl 1 year ago
Cheetas have spots, not stripes, that's a tiger you're thinking of greg.
Phleminem 1 year ago
we humans make mistakes. If only we could feel what that person felt while 'cheating' on their bf/gf you kinda would take some words back. Hones truth though you never know, a person can change for the better. If a person sees the cheating person the hate them but I that person were in it's position or understood the feeling or be the cheater it would have a different perspective, though this is for a certain kind of cheat, not the one where the bf/gf uses you orisnotreallyordeeplyinlovewithyou
MariaMorphine999 1 year ago
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InsideOutAnus 1 year ago
Onision. I go against your opinion in this although i love all your videos. I was with this guy and he liked someone else. We broke up. We got back. happend again. We got back. we have been together for 6 months now and we are in deep love. He realizes he loves me and cud never get someone as amazing as me. He told me that to my face.
proskater758469321 1 year ago