My heart is breaking and I have no one to turn too... If anyone would like to talk to me on a more private line, my email is Samrustyandteddy@hotmail.com please Help me, I don't know what to do :( thank you x
Well it's now been 3 months, and it's felt like 3 years to be honest. I can't get him put of my mind, he's always there in my dreams, and I sometimes cry for no reason. I feel completely numb from the inside... I would like some advice on how I can brake the silence
He said that he was sorry for hurting me and that he wouldn't do it again, he said that it would be best to cut all contact with me and that it wasn't my fault. He said that he has nothing to put into a relationship. But he use to tell me that when he left his girlfriend, he couldn't cope so he got into another relationship.
He had told my mums boyfriend that he wasn't Jamie and that he was called "Adam" and that he didn't know a Jamie. When he called me (on withheld) I asked why did he lie? He couldn't give me a proper answer... Well a week later he emailed me saying that he wanted to speak to my mum, he couldn't get through to my mum so he emailed me this
And yes we did have our ups and downs, but after this holiday, he told me that there was no internet connection so he wouldn't be able to email. Well during that week he emailed me asking how I was Ect.. So I went home and looked up his IP address and found out he was home, later that night we drove passed his house and knocked on his door
I didn't know what a "rebound relationship" was? Everything was fine until he went away on his holiday, he didn't tell me where he was going this time. He told me that he loved me, but were not boyfriend and girlfriend, which I kinda got confused about as he said before "I can't wait till your my wife"
LuvBuzd... I really need your help, I met a guy at my college last year and we got together, this so called "relationship" was a little odd? Jamie had told me about his previous ex girlfriends from the past who kept stalking him etc... We went out to business parks and cuddled on the park bench together and take walks along the river. We thought we were meant for each other, Jamie had told me that when his relationships didn't work out he would find someone new to replace her. Back then I didn'
I got into a rebound a month after my ex dumped me, and 3 years later I still regret what I did, because I hurt a good girl the same way my ex hurt me.
Nice video, i wish my ex would watch it, now what if i was the reboundee! how do I get over it ?? in reality i dont want to, because i know and i feel it in my heart that we connected and sparked something.
me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and he has a new girlfriend today. we haven't even been broken up for 24 hours and now he has some new chick. im really upset about it :(
one of my friends broke up with her boy friend. since then we kinda got lot closer. we became really good friends. we did lot of things together as friends. i want to ask you when should i ask her out and start a relationship. she is still kinda emotional about the previous break up.
Basicaly my ex of 4 months and i broke up after an argument because i saw some guy being awfully flirty with her we argued on the friday didnt speak all weekend broke up on the monday. Within the 1st week she was in a relationship with this guy . He was in a serious relationship for 3 years and has a 2yr old daughter they moved in after 4 months together got engaged ! this was nearly a year ago (ive moved on since then there are 2 parts to this story) is this a classic rebound situation?
what do you mean that the ex would have to bring back, does that mean that she/he would have to make the first contact? i have not contacted my ex on rebound for 6 weeks, her family tell me she misses me a lot but she just won't contact me. should I wait or should I make a casual contact?
what do you mean that the ex would have to bring back, does that mean that she/he would have to make the first contact? i have not contacted my ex on rebound for 6 weeks, her family tell me she misses me a lot but she just won't contact me. should I wait or should I make a casual contact?
@mahv2001 Dude i've kept NC now for 3 months my girl still with the rebound, but she is extremely depressed, she goes every once in a while to ER with anxiety atacks pain in the neck, shoulders, head and abdomen, doctors can't find anything wrong, she is going through lots of test and they all come negative.last time I talked to her I told her our relationship was done & anything beetwen us we could not even b friends I wished her the best and have not talked to her since, should I make contact?
thank you for your insightful and very articulate advice. my ex just jumped into another relationship 2 weeks after we broke up and it devastated me. i'm glad that i didnt go that way and i've been to work on myself on my own. =)
All those above is soo ture, and my jr. prom date has recently gotten into one 3 days after a breakup with her other relationship, and reason being, she was controled since day 1 on that part, and currently, she is dating her ex's best friend, and most likely, its going to be more destructive in the end than the first one...one reason y i ain't going for the rebound...glad you put this up, cuz all you said is 100% true.
if only every other counselor was as real as this dude... :) you rock, bro!!! and thanks a lot !
batmansillo 1 month ago
You talk way too much about yourself in this video
phlipper234 2 months ago
AWWWWW. I feel like I have been in a rebound relationship with a man on the rebound for almost a year now. I feel sad.
OCButterfly99 2 months ago
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My heart is breaking and I have no one to turn too... If anyone would like to talk to me on a more private line, my email is Samrustyandteddy@hotmail.com please Help me, I don't know what to do :( thank you x
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
Well it's now been 3 months, and it's felt like 3 years to be honest. I can't get him put of my mind, he's always there in my dreams, and I sometimes cry for no reason. I feel completely numb from the inside... I would like some advice on how I can brake the silence
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
He said that he was sorry for hurting me and that he wouldn't do it again, he said that it would be best to cut all contact with me and that it wasn't my fault. He said that he has nothing to put into a relationship. But he use to tell me that when he left his girlfriend, he couldn't cope so he got into another relationship.
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
He had told my mums boyfriend that he wasn't Jamie and that he was called "Adam" and that he didn't know a Jamie. When he called me (on withheld) I asked why did he lie? He couldn't give me a proper answer... Well a week later he emailed me saying that he wanted to speak to my mum, he couldn't get through to my mum so he emailed me this
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
And yes we did have our ups and downs, but after this holiday, he told me that there was no internet connection so he wouldn't be able to email. Well during that week he emailed me asking how I was Ect.. So I went home and looked up his IP address and found out he was home, later that night we drove passed his house and knocked on his door
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
I didn't know what a "rebound relationship" was? Everything was fine until he went away on his holiday, he didn't tell me where he was going this time. He told me that he loved me, but were not boyfriend and girlfriend, which I kinda got confused about as he said before "I can't wait till your my wife"
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
LuvBuzd... I really need your help, I met a guy at my college last year and we got together, this so called "relationship" was a little odd? Jamie had told me about his previous ex girlfriends from the past who kept stalking him etc... We went out to business parks and cuddled on the park bench together and take walks along the river. We thought we were meant for each other, Jamie had told me that when his relationships didn't work out he would find someone new to replace her. Back then I didn'
p1nkyp33 5 months ago
I got into a rebound a month after my ex dumped me, and 3 years later I still regret what I did, because I hurt a good girl the same way my ex hurt me.
swingersfan 11 months ago 3
Nice video, i wish my ex would watch it, now what if i was the reboundee! how do I get over it ?? in reality i dont want to, because i know and i feel it in my heart that we connected and sparked something.
LongLiveDisneyMagic 11 months ago
me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and he has a new girlfriend today. we haven't even been broken up for 24 hours and now he has some new chick. im really upset about it :(
ILOVESTARBUCKS13CGA 1 year ago
There's a pop song about this. "Rebound" by Jay Stilez
ineedmusic1995 1 year ago
I feel like my gf is using me as a rebound :l
metalickid66 1 year ago
one of my friends broke up with her boy friend. since then we kinda got lot closer. we became really good friends. we did lot of things together as friends. i want to ask you when should i ask her out and start a relationship. she is still kinda emotional about the previous break up.
harsha806 1 year ago
Basicaly my ex of 4 months and i broke up after an argument because i saw some guy being awfully flirty with her we argued on the friday didnt speak all weekend broke up on the monday. Within the 1st week she was in a relationship with this guy . He was in a serious relationship for 3 years and has a 2yr old daughter they moved in after 4 months together got engaged ! this was nearly a year ago (ive moved on since then there are 2 parts to this story) is this a classic rebound situation?
Born2BLoud 1 year ago
luvbuzd....Can I get my ex back? She wants us to be friends....i'm beaing a complete hypocrite but in a good way...
I just want her back...can I get her?
jaetguz 1 year ago
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what do you mean that the ex would have to bring back, does that mean that she/he would have to make the first contact? i have not contacted my ex on rebound for 6 weeks, her family tell me she misses me a lot but she just won't contact me. should I wait or should I make a casual contact?
mahv2001 1 year ago
what do you mean that the ex would have to bring back, does that mean that she/he would have to make the first contact? i have not contacted my ex on rebound for 6 weeks, her family tell me she misses me a lot but she just won't contact me. should I wait or should I make a casual contact?
mahv2001 1 year ago
@mahv2001 Dude i've kept NC now for 3 months my girl still with the rebound, but she is extremely depressed, she goes every once in a while to ER with anxiety atacks pain in the neck, shoulders, head and abdomen, doctors can't find anything wrong, she is going through lots of test and they all come negative.last time I talked to her I told her our relationship was done & anything beetwen us we could not even b friends I wished her the best and have not talked to her since, should I make contact?
mahv2001 1 year ago
does this mean i can get my ex back from a rebound??
duder215 2 years ago
@duder215 Your ex would have to bring him/herself back. If a person's heart can be "taken" from another, do we really want to pursue that heart?
luvbuzd 1 year ago
I was just a rebound and it hurted like hell to just be told, i love u but i love my ex more goodbye, and i really loved this person
TheDefjams 2 years ago
thank you for your insightful and very articulate advice. my ex just jumped into another relationship 2 weeks after we broke up and it devastated me. i'm glad that i didnt go that way and i've been to work on myself on my own. =)
lilazndevil168 2 years ago 5
it's best to heal up before we get back on the field (sorry, couldn't help the sports metaphor). Hope things are working out for you ;)
luvbuzd 2 years ago
Hey, fantastic stuff there man, love the info and the enthusiasm
ThatAlex 2 years ago
thx for the feedback. :-)
luvbuzd 2 years ago
All those above is soo ture, and my jr. prom date has recently gotten into one 3 days after a breakup with her other relationship, and reason being, she was controled since day 1 on that part, and currently, she is dating her ex's best friend, and most likely, its going to be more destructive in the end than the first one...one reason y i ain't going for the rebound...glad you put this up, cuz all you said is 100% true.
OCCougar88 2 years ago
Thanks for the compliment... I'm glad the info I gave could provide some insight.
luvbuzd 2 years ago
loved it! thanks for the advice! i have been struggling....
dksrkdud 2 years ago
glad I could help... I know the feeling lol
luvbuzd 2 years ago