The only thing wrong is his understanding of counselling and his perception that people are all perfect communicators. Many couples love each other deeply but once problems start the communication breaks down. A counsellor simply enables that communication and doesn't say how to fix the problem or tell them what to do but once the couple are able to communicate effectively can see the way forward for themselves.
Everyone who disagrees with his assessment of counseling is a dumb cunt. Likewise, anyone who thinks any less of Will Smith for this video is stupid as fuck. The first thing a counselor says to you when you step into their office is: This all depends on you. I can't help you if you don't want to help yourself. He said strong and smart but, not once did weak or stupid come out. That's just sKepptiksowat reading into it. The uploader's fucking name says SKEPTIC; open your own damn eyes and minds.
@sherlockmwm I'm a fan of his, but he's wrong here. Sometimes there's an underlying problem that only an expert can sense and provide a solution for. Simple as that.
Did you morons even watch the fucking video? Or did you just read title and angrily comment? What was so wrong about what he said? If you listen to the context of what he's talking about, he's absolutely right.
why would anyone be offended at the idea of SELF-IMPROVEMENT, from BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED, as the key to success in their relationship??!?! all of you against this idea are obviously the same people who look for happiness externally, like for example, thru a relationship.
@OakPark11MileRd Remember bro you should never lead with an attack so harsh even if AboveEmAllProduction is so. It makes your side look week in argument, he who resorts to insult is he who has no argument. This is so even if you have argument point witch you do like the 100k but no1 will see that. Thay will only see insult and weekness even if it is not so.
@AboveEmAllProduction i would not use the word wise i whould say what he says is true.. other than "counseling is a cheat" cuz chooseing to go to counseling can be a smart. key words (can be)
He's a good actor and I mean no disrespect towards him, but I just think some people (especially a person who can give 100.000 dollars away to a celebrity center) should be grateful and count there blessings, instead of spreading the cheese, and telling everyone how great they are not compared to him and his own. Maybe tacky is a better word.
I agree with him. If two people need a mediator in order improve their marriage then they should not be together. I feel this way about premarital counseling with ministers and sex therapists, etc.
@SynthiaRose So all couples should be perfect or not together at all? And all marriages should be perfect, be going perfectly, and continue to go perfectly until death they do part?
If two people need a mediator in order to improve their marriage then they already ARE together, should they just not bother, never mind about those vows they took, and just get divorced?
So if a woman is being physically and mentally abused by her partner it's up to her to change and get her marriage back on track, while she shoud not seek help?
@rolandsausage No, He's saying if your not stupid. You'll leave the guy. My mother and I were mentally abused and finally she divorced my father. Problem fixed. It's not a matter of science or god or bullshit. It's using common sense and strength of will.
@rolandsausage No. This is obviously not what the hell he is saying. I love how people just distort everything. What he's saying is that you need to BECOME smart and focused yourself, and then find someone ELSE who is smart and focused. If your with someone who is mentally/physically abusing someone you dont need a damn marriage counsler, you NEED TO LEAVE THAT PERSON.
Will smith is such a manipulative bastard, I cant believe people fall for it.
whenever he is on the news again because of some red carpet event, come on here do a search, and watch him doing the exact same 'completely natural' reaction to every bloody camera there.
@tryandlisten, It would seem Ron L Hubbard is having a laugh at everyones expense.
The more I find out about Scientology, the more I wonder if he was conducting an experiment to see how far you can push and manipulate people before they will break ranks and say No!, I will not do that.
Some of the rules and beliefs in the group are so ridiculous, I can't help but feel he was taking the micky/piss, to show how little people think for themselves and crave to belong and conform. just a thought
I like Will Smith but he always comes off as someone who recites something out of a book, almost as if he's trying to make himself sound smarter than he really is. He tries particularly hard whenever he's in the company of Oprah Winfrey.
Dear Will Smith, not everyone leads a charmed life like you. We're not all bazillionaires married to other bazillionaires with bazillionaire children who get everything we ever want handed to us on a silver platter. Some people actually spend every day with their families, and when you spend every moment with another person, sometimes they get on your nerves. A third party can help you see things that you don't see in yourself. Get off your high horse of scientology.
Will has his own philosophy, that he accepts because he gained his success by believing in himself.. and if you actually listen, it's MILES apart from the Scientology philosophy..
Of course the idiots of youtube wont understand or even attempt to understand philosophy so they label anything philosophical as "Scientology"
@mikeysa Na Will is a Scientologist, thier brainwashed crap is obvious and with each interview he does you can either conclude hes either a Scientologist or a moron.
@mikeysa I get his personal philosophy, but I have to say it comes across as like "all you gotta do is say this and believe that you will be what you wanna be and the universe will get outta your way", BS! If he didn't become as famous as he is he would have no such delusions.BTW Will is gay/bi-sexual and so is his boy Tom Cruise(I have nothing against gay folks people, jussayin).You know showbiz is run by the Jews&Gay men(Quincy Jones,homosexual, got Will started in the TV Biz).
Just some info I found-- The 39-year-old and his wife, who has been spotted out with the Cruises at various events and on the red carpet, added: "I am a Christian. I am a student of all religions, and I respect all people and all paths." So he obviously doesn't claim to be a scientologist.
It is true that if the both of you in a relationship actively work at it, then it will work better; however, things break down after a while and the two involved cannot objectively work it out and look at it. That's where counseling comes in.
Anyone who actively pursues celebrity is a whack job and is everything that's wrong with the human race. It's no wonder so many of these people become scientologists.
Will is stuck in a (meme) but he is correct, its in your will to project your reality, and if you believe that you will get what you want, only then can you have it.
Simple right? If you believe counseling will work, then it will work. Take control of your way of thinking and then you can take control of your life.
Take a look at this lecture from a man who has devoted his time to helping people think more clearly. youtube.com/watch?v=r6svgZjkasI&feature=related
... however, I do disagree with him about counselling being a "cheat". there are a lot of couples who don't know HOW to communicate effectively - a genuine, skilled counsellor can help the couple express their true feelings, and help couples expose and get to the real root of underlying conflict.
I really do hope skeppitik that you are not just an 18 year old commenting possibly on something that maybe you might not understand. If you aren't that, well... learn how to quote properly...
christ!!! talk about misrepresenting what Will said! Hey Skeppitiksowat, at which point in your clip did Will say the words "weak" and "stupid"?! He said that using counselling is a "cheat".
I don't know about you skeppitik, are you married? In a long term relationship? Well I have been with my wife for 16 years... and what Will said about "YOU" having the onus to make it work is totally true. Communication is crucial. Honesty is crucial. Of course Love is crucial. .....
"..if two people take care of themselves" wait a minute I thought a marriage or a partnership is about working together and supporting each other not being out for yourself. "poor people make themselves happy"..well yes as individuals we are responsible for our own happiness but boy it sure does sound condescending coming from a multimillionaire smuch like you. "they'll come better"..I do hope your school will be teaching better grammar than you are capable of Mr Smith.
I am a THETAN-i was thrown into a volcano a million years ago-then they detonated Hydrogen Bombs & blew my ass up.Now along with a few of my friends,we come to torment you-we have formed the government of the united states-we harrass u & torment u & tax u-Our leader? John Travolta&a science fiction writer fraud named L.RonHubbert. Our goal? A NEW WORLD ORDER -u will be chipped.All rights will be taken away& ur e-meters will be rigged to electrocute you & all newcomers.LONG LIVE THE CONGRESS. lol
I am a THETAN-i was thrown into a volcano a million years ago-then they detonated Hydrogen Bombs & blew my ass up.Now along with a few of my friends,we come to torment you-we have formed the government of the united states-we harrass u & torment u & tax u-Our leader? John Travolta&a science fiction writer fraud named L.RonHubbert. Our goal? A NEW WORLD ORDER -u will be chipped.All rights will be taken away& ur e-meters will be rigged to electrocute you & all newcomers.LONG LIVE THE CONGRESS. lol
No offense Will, but WTF do you even remember about the real world??? Must be nice to dish out your wisdom on life while you sit on your fat ass bank account. Not all of us have that option douchebag.
Woooow! Who's the douschebag here? All he's saying is that people can make marriage work without asking Dr Phil to step in TELL them what their problem is. He's right...America is too dependent on degrees to solve their problems. It has everything to do with his experience...and NOT his bank account.
Sure, it's doable if you can be objective and honest but to dismiss councelling as a whole, especially when many people don't have the aforementioned traits, is just ignorant.
Well, he DID follow it up by saying that "Two smart people can always make it work."
He made room for that objection. He's simply saying that it's not necessary to go see some shrink in order for two people to stay together and be happy. It all rests on the two partners. Don't go see Dr. Phil because you're having a fight...talk it out, and be humble, because then you can make it work without the mediator.
You and I, and probably Mr. Smith, can have this conversation because someone along the way has given us the tools to work on our relationships, ourselves. There are people who, either not having the influences in their lives that we did or not paying attention to them, if they did, can't figure out how to do these things alone. Councelling can have a time and a place for inexperienced people. As you said, you don't go to Dr. Phil because of a spat, it goes deeper than that..
con't That being said, "smart" has very little to do with it and for Mr. Smith to imply that those who don't have the tools to lead a healthy life aren't smart is a little ignorant.
Being smart has EVERYTHING to do with it! What? Do you actually believe that "Love conquers all" party-line, as sported by Disney Channel. It's crap...and ignorant of you to think that being "SMART" has nothing to do with a marriage.
To imply that people who don't have the tools to make a marriage work aren't smart is ignorant. That has nothing to do with the intelligence of people who do make it work. They are two completely different groups.
What are you talking about?? Intelligence is intelligence. His comments, if you are listening to the ENTIRETY of his comments, he didn't say anything about people being stupid at all...this video is mislabelled, and YOU are off-base.
If only everyone was as "enlightened" as Will Smith. Oh wait, I forgot. You totally can be! Just send the church of Scientology a check and they'll take care of the rest. ROFL!
@WickyConnors notice he used the phrase "better communicator" which is one of the first lower level courses they'll make you pay for as found by a documentary done by the BBC.
I don't think it's a cheat. If both are willing to sit and get help they're trying to make it work, being smart has nothing to do with how well a marriage goes. I bet it's more biological than it is intellectual.
@luanluan2006 nah. that would just mean that those two people excepted the fact that they arent... um "smart" and are gonna agree to seek HELP.. which is good. and also humble..
by smart like listening, not rushing into stuff. fixing problems. u know that sorta thing and other stuff like that. not being superficial... well yah im no scientologist either i hate it. but if ppl are smart and not drones to how they "should" act then they will be diff. right bout not cheat though.idk why i posted
What the fuck is everybody sniveling about?It does take some smartness to maintain a marriage or relation of that matter.I'm thinking if the man has been married in hollywood for 11!yrs....come on people hes gotta be doing something right.
Oh and yes Luanluan,it does have something to do with biological elements of people intrinsic desires
He is doing something "right". But what is "right" in one marriage isn't "right" in another. It wont work in every marriage. That's what counciling is for, finding what is wrong and making it "right".
It doesn't make a person weak to seek help. What makes them weak is if they are too blind to get the help they need.
(I know it's biological, i was being sarcastic)
I like Will though :D. Who hates the Fresh Prince?
Brilliant Will Smith, and for u fools that disagree. Marriage counseling and the divorce rate...check it OUT and tell me if it's working. GET BACK AT ME
@aaronsandra Uh...he doesn't sound anything like Tom Cruise. He sounds very positive. And it's true. People "cheat" in away when it comes to counseling. They have this perception someone else is going to fix the relationship. I am a coach I hear it all the time. I applaud him for working so hard in his marriage. What part of "working on yourself" sounds anything like Tom Cruise? The title to the video is very misleading. As far as I'm concerned he walks his talk. Go Will!
Gibberish and does not make a lick of sense. If two people are happy by themselves, then they should never have gotten married in the first place. Guy's a scientologist all right.
Now, explain to me how I'm a retard for pointing out that you're trolling with your stupid comment, unless you were being serious with your "novice homosexual" comment, then you're the retard.
LMFAO you MORON AHAHAHAHAH!!! THAT MAKES THIS SO MUCH BETTER!! AHAHAHAHAHAHA!! And you're calling ME stupid? HA!!!!!!
Novis Homo, try GOOGLING something before you shove your head up your own ass. See I was thinking that it was impossible for someone to be SO FUCKING stupid as to think "novice homosexual" was somehow implied, wow. I thought it HAD to be a troll, I'm pretty sure the poster of this video was thinking the same.
@mdrdrmcc You're the moron. Why would I know that Scientology term? I am not a scientologist. By the way the term was coined in ancient rome and is 'novus homo'. Who is the moron/troll?
@andygoodyear No, I call them fucking stupid and morons if they make a statement about something they see without doing any research. Moron is a word used for people with IQ's between 51-70, YOU.
Oh wow, look you CAN use Google afterall! AMAZING! AHAHAHA! Fucking idiot. HURRR, I'm andy and I'm going to stonewall with some wikipedia entry I found on a different term and try to use it even though it's not related at all to the topic! Congratulations on your ability to use a search engine!
Now, andy, let me clarify this fer ya, since thinkin' isn't your forte:
"It is spelt 'novice' not 'novis'. And I wonder why you are comparing scientologists to homosexuals?"
If this had indeed BEEN a troll, it would have been GENIUS level, by me calling you a TROLL, it was a compliment for trolling skill, but since you're just a typical fucking idiot smashing your head into the keyboard, it depresses me to NO end. . . I was hoping for brilliance, but all I got was disappointment.
@mdrdrmcc Thinking isn't my forte? Just because I don't know a lot about Scientology doesn't make me thick. By the language you resort to, it's obvious who the unintelligent one is here. I'm sure there are plenty of subjects you know nothing about that I excel in. But hey as I said, if it makes you feel like a big man behind your PC then go for it (I say PC rather than Mac because PC users act a certain way). You are amusing me so continue
No, if you simply didn't know a lot about Scientology, there wouldn't be an issue but you corrected someone while being admittedly ignorant of the subject matter. A simple google search of "scientology and novis homo" would've solved any problems you had but you didn't, that is why you're thick, smart people don't know everything, they simply have the ability to research.
"It is better to keep silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt"
Nope, no nerve, just TRYING to teach a pretentious retard a thing or two.
Next time keep your fucking mouth (figuratively) shut about things with which you have NO idea.
Oh, and enjoy huffing your own farts you're so goddamned smug and self-assured, the REAL smart people will continue to LEARN instead of simply assuming like a complete jackass. It's obvious I was right when you delete your comments.
Go do something real with your mac, install Ubuntu on it (yes, you can).
By "PC", I believe you are following the recent trends of both Microsoft & Apple referring to the Windows OS franchise. Sorry to burst your corporate whoring bubble but PC doesn't mean that.
Apple is like Scientology, it portrays itself as the antithesis (AT) to the mainstream, it's not. The AT of corporate OS's is Free Software & of religion is science/atheism, both Apple & Scientology steal code/concepts from the true AT & fail to contribute back.
Nope but do you think it's wrong for guys to suck each other off?
He was congratulating me for obliterating your stupid comments, "stupid" evidenced by your deletion of them, unless you'd like to repost them so that I can have a crack at 'em from a different angle! I had SO much fun!
Smart people do not form instant opinions without reviewing information relevant and readily available (if not less). IF a bright did, he wouldn't share as to avoid looking dumb.
I use Ubuntu GNU/Linux (the real alternative to corporate software) & have been using Debian systems as my main OS's since 2000.
It would be nice if Apple would start giving back to the Open Source world they stole from.
You can take your retarded choice in fad corporate operating systems & expensive hardware & shove them right up your ignorant sanctimonious ass, you fucking moron.
Ahh, Will Smith...relationship expert! Divorce is not an option for him?! What about his first child's mother? Apparently, he has joined the "I'm famous, my opinion is fact and everyone wants to hear it" club! "Marriage counseling is a cheat"...ask your first wife, idiot! And Seven pounds sucked, btw..!
Well it goes without saying, two good smart people. What it really take for a marriage to work is truth and honesty and adherence to the vows and ten commandments. You do not raise your voice, or yell at someone you love. We must completely give our obedience to each other and to God, and never to someone else. Secrets with others hold you in bondage to them, giving them you obedience. Only truth can return it back to your spouse.
Save Will Smith from Scien-fictin-tology avoid his movies -don't even rent anything that he is in -they will kick him out so fast his beautiful eyes will roll back in his head, ?& maybe we will save him & his FAMILY.
This title is a lie Will never called people weak and stupid. I agree with him in a way b/c all counseling does is help ppl see things from a 3 party/different perspective and if you WANT it to work, you will DO whatever it takes to make it work and come out stronger, counseling is not going to do the work for you, you still have to put the work in and attempt to make the relationship better by becoming a better person.
The majority of people that need therapy cannot afford it so you have to be creative, although Will Smith doesn't have all the answers either. It's very egotistical to believe others have the same advantage as you do or the money to make things happen. The rich have advantage of creating their own reality no matter how warped it may be because they believe their wealth justifies its validity.
Scientology makes your ability to communicate...fail. I would've just said "Why would you need a marriage counselor, when you can talk and learn to understand your spouse yourself? Successful marriages have good communication. Isn't that obvious?" But no ,C0$ just teaches people to blabber rather than getting to the point.
I like Will Smith, but that's 1 stupid statement. Counselling is sometimes the last resort if the person sinks too deep into depression. Aww Will gets famous and suddenly turns into an a**wipe! That's not surprisin. Puttin his money where his mouth is, i'm sure.
this title is misleading and a scam to get folks to visit this page. if you want legitimate hits on your page, be a bit more truthful and interesting... and frankly, i dont care if you think i'm being harsh. i came here on a whim and was dissappointed by the subterfuge...
I Iol'd. I agree with him, two smart people should be able to work things out by themselves. That's why he is in desperate need of Counseling. Hurr Durr!
i love will smith! he is an awesome guy, i don't care what he believes in! my only hope is that he doesn't belief in the extermination of the sp's. i always he figured he would like and love everyone regardless of bieng an sp. i lost all respect for tom cruise when he put down sp's. doesn't he know it is all made up crud? and why aren't they working in the sea org ?is that just for the drones who can't afford the big donations?....i'm just saying!
sKepptiksowat, your description of this video is wacky. Willard is a Christian. And he certainly isn't calling people in marriage counselling stupid or weak (since he didn't even say those words!) He's just saying that for people who are strong enough, the only thing you can do to make your marriage work is to work on yourself and make yourself better in the relationship. Each person only has control over their self. Talking about stupid and weak and homo. Get a grip, you git. Horrible. Shame!
@bikutorusan Dude, homo means "man" and novis means "new". It's a Scientology term. He says counselling is a cheat and that 2 smart people can do it on their own. He might not have said the words but he sure as Xenu suggested them. Will Smith has said himself he is not Christian but ather a student of all religions and that Scientology is 90% of what the bible is. Hubbard said there is no Christ. lrn to google and don't take vid titles so seriously. Your last sentence is a horrible shame.
"lrn"? I did query Google for some information and I believe we read the same things on Wikipedia. 98 % I believe it was. :P Good job to the both of us...
"He said counselling is a cheat and that 2 [sic] smart people can do it on their own." Exactly my point. He didn't suggest it's a cheat in general, just that if these two people are /strong enough/, it's a "cheat". There was definitely no suggestion that I could sense. Rather, I felt as though he meant it to be taken with a grain of salt. :-)
Reading between the lines and analysis of statements is a subjektive thing I suppose, so i will leave it at that. No worries as I dig where your coming from. I was really just responding to the asshatedness of your 1st comment.. Your response to my response pretty much ignored what I said so let's leave it at that Please don't think I want a debate or troll war. I left a typo or two for you. lol @ your [sic]ing of my post. Lrn2 chill on the grammaration and spellingness thingy. Nuff said.
I didn't mean anything by it, I just don't want people to think I say 2 instead of two. Sorry about that.
I'd love to address the things I didn't reply to (I thought I got it all). What were they? I can't see it. :/ Also, do accept my apology if I came on too strong with my first comment, I might have gotten a little hot-headed.
@sKepptiksowat , yeah...Hubbard was in with Jack Parsons and the O.T.O (a sect of dark forces). He should stay clear of anything involving Scientology. Very disappointing, but understandable given the confusion of Hollywood stars. The hustle with it is that it supposedly "helps" actors due to helping cure self-doubt, stage fright and "bait-and-minion-training". It is brainwashing, Hubbard was ONI (office of naval intelligence) and he also knew Aleistar Crowley was into occult magic.
where did he say people are weak and stupid eh muppet, and scientology helps nobody its a scam for fuck sake, seriously like anyone involved in it is missing something inside them big time
Just start off by reading some of the books like.. scientology-the fundamentals of thought.
Or for like 14.99 you can buy Anthony Robbins book "Awaken the giant within" and it will change your life.... all you have to do is buy it and read it and it will change your LIFE!
But from reading your comment you probably have the attention span of a 3 year old, magic pill society.. how about you just get your ass off the sofa and take responsibility for YOUR life!
Anthony Robbins, really. It sounds like you have the manners of a monkey. And no nothing about medication and how many people it has actually helped. Keep feeding money to your $cientology cult.
He/She thought that you are a Scientologist because you are telling them to read a damn Scientology book. Would anybody but a Christian recommend that someone read a Bible? Unlikely.
Regardless, this is typical scientology crap, then you spill out the typical hostility "you probably have the attention span of a 3 year old" ... never, in this day and age, have I seen a true so called "religion" (read "tax-exempt status") get so hostile... consistently.
Preferred him when he was a Fresh Prince- not this crazy eyed stuff.
littlesmew 6 days ago
i smell scientoloogggyyyyy
alexjit 1 month ago
he looks more like a dumbass with that pink shirt
hammastytava 1 month ago
I thought if a Hollywood celebrity said something it was automatically true :/
Crimson13Tide 1 month ago
The only thing wrong is his understanding of counselling and his perception that people are all perfect communicators. Many couples love each other deeply but once problems start the communication breaks down. A counsellor simply enables that communication and doesn't say how to fix the problem or tell them what to do but once the couple are able to communicate effectively can see the way forward for themselves.
connor2k 2 months ago
Everyone who disagrees with his assessment of counseling is a dumb cunt. Likewise, anyone who thinks any less of Will Smith for this video is stupid as fuck. The first thing a counselor says to you when you step into their office is: This all depends on you. I can't help you if you don't want to help yourself. He said strong and smart but, not once did weak or stupid come out. That's just sKepptiksowat reading into it. The uploader's fucking name says SKEPTIC; open your own damn eyes and minds.
sherlockmwm 3 months ago 2
@sherlockmwm I'm a fan of his, but he's wrong here. Sometimes there's an underlying problem that only an expert can sense and provide a solution for. Simple as that.
newjackridi 3 months ago
Did you morons even watch the fucking video? Or did you just read title and angrily comment? What was so wrong about what he said? If you listen to the context of what he's talking about, he's absolutely right.
thelatestttplague 4 months ago
why would anyone be offended at the idea of SELF-IMPROVEMENT, from BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED, as the key to success in their relationship??!?! all of you against this idea are obviously the same people who look for happiness externally, like for example, thru a relationship.
irvanm87 6 months ago
ehm he's devorced now isnt he ?
warpmarc 6 months ago
@OakPark11MileRd Remember bro you should never lead with an attack so harsh even if AboveEmAllProduction is so. It makes your side look week in argument, he who resorts to insult is he who has no argument. This is so even if you have argument point witch you do like the 100k but no1 will see that. Thay will only see insult and weekness even if it is not so.
Handzoffire 7 months ago
Fucking Will Smith. I used to like you.
Go back to Bel-Air.
NyxFTW 7 months ago
the only thing weak and stupid is the title!
BenciNaKamenci 7 months ago
@BenciNaKamenci im with you bro. he only said "2 smart ppl can make it work"
Handzoffire 7 months ago
self loathing cock sucker who scientology can cure him. Jada is sooo stupid!
Somai82 7 months ago
i think what he is saying is wise and not at all related to scientology.
AboveEmAllProduction 8 months ago
@AboveEmAllProduction i would not use the word wise i whould say what he says is true.. other than "counseling is a cheat" cuz chooseing to go to counseling can be a smart. key words (can be)
Handzoffire 7 months ago
....and two dumb-asses will make the lawyers richer.
CBR11X 9 months ago 2
Calling another person weak does not necessarily mean the person saying it is strong.
Its like saying I'm rich and your poor. Wouldn't that be considered gloating, and couldn't gloating be considered a weakness in itself?
benthemiester 9 months ago 2
@benthemiester you made a very strong point
lambsquad17 9 months ago
@lambsquad17
He's a good actor and I mean no disrespect towards him, but I just think some people (especially a person who can give 100.000 dollars away to a celebrity center) should be grateful and count there blessings, instead of spreading the cheese, and telling everyone how great they are not compared to him and his own. Maybe tacky is a better word.
benthemiester 9 months ago
I agree with him. If two people need a mediator in order improve their marriage then they should not be together. I feel this way about premarital counseling with ministers and sex therapists, etc.
SynthiaRose 11 months ago
@SynthiaRose true that.
hellakooked 10 months ago
@SynthiaRose So all couples should be perfect or not together at all? And all marriages should be perfect, be going perfectly, and continue to go perfectly until death they do part?
If two people need a mediator in order to improve their marriage then they already ARE together, should they just not bother, never mind about those vows they took, and just get divorced?
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gcillp 1 year ago
So if a woman is being physically and mentally abused by her partner it's up to her to change and get her marriage back on track, while she shoud not seek help?
Will Smith, you are a fucking idiot.
rolandsausage 1 year ago 6
@rolandsausage No, He's saying if your not stupid. You'll leave the guy. My mother and I were mentally abused and finally she divorced my father. Problem fixed. It's not a matter of science or god or bullshit. It's using common sense and strength of will.
Daladier70 1 year ago
@rolandsausage No. This is obviously not what the hell he is saying. I love how people just distort everything. What he's saying is that you need to BECOME smart and focused yourself, and then find someone ELSE who is smart and focused. If your with someone who is mentally/physically abusing someone you dont need a damn marriage counsler, you NEED TO LEAVE THAT PERSON.
aspireformorerecords 1 year ago
Very disappointed in you Will. I thought you were one of the smart ones. I was WAY OFF! psycho path
jennamarisco 1 year ago
This sounds like something Will Smith probably said just hours before the interview while backing his wife into a corner
DAVIDVINCENTDURING 1 year ago 3
its funny haw he thinks he is so smart, its all him him him lol hes a crazy scienwako naw! he needs marrige counciling alot more than scientology
rob89234 1 year ago
perhaps he pays her to ensure she remains his wife.
Rawrbecca1992 1 year ago
Will smith is such a manipulative bastard, I cant believe people fall for it.
whenever he is on the news again because of some red carpet event, come on here do a search, and watch him doing the exact same 'completely natural' reaction to every bloody camera there.
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Will yoo so smart! ZZzzzzz........
Become an Actor, join Scientology
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1BustedMyth 1 year ago
@1BustedMyth LOL anyone who gives money to a science fiction writer cant have any credibility
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@tryandlisten, It would seem Ron L Hubbard is having a laugh at everyones expense.
The more I find out about Scientology, the more I wonder if he was conducting an experiment to see how far you can push and manipulate people before they will break ranks and say No!, I will not do that.
Some of the rules and beliefs in the group are so ridiculous, I can't help but feel he was taking the micky/piss, to show how little people think for themselves and crave to belong and conform. just a thought
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CALLIEMARION 1 year ago
I agree with Will Smith on this one!
TheAlienGod 1 year ago
I like Will Smith but he always comes off as someone who recites something out of a book, almost as if he's trying to make himself sound smarter than he really is. He tries particularly hard whenever he's in the company of Oprah Winfrey.
TheFever77 1 year ago
Dear Will Smith, not everyone leads a charmed life like you. We're not all bazillionaires married to other bazillionaires with bazillionaire children who get everything we ever want handed to us on a silver platter. Some people actually spend every day with their families, and when you spend every moment with another person, sometimes they get on your nerves. A third party can help you see things that you don't see in yourself. Get off your high horse of scientology.
pyrobryan 1 year ago 9
@pyrobryan well put!!
stryfetc 1 year ago
@pyrobryan psychaitry an counsellors are fake thats why
isometric85 3 months ago
@isometric85 is school fake to you?!
wtf is 'psycaitry'?
smh
xindoboyvanderx 3 months ago
Will has his own philosophy, that he accepts because he gained his success by believing in himself.. and if you actually listen, it's MILES apart from the Scientology philosophy..
Of course the idiots of youtube wont understand or even attempt to understand philosophy so they label anything philosophical as "Scientology"
Good job
mikeysa 1 year ago
@mikeysa Na Will is a Scientologist, thier brainwashed crap is obvious and with each interview he does you can either conclude hes either a Scientologist or a moron.
WickedCrazzzeee 1 year ago
@mikeysa I get his personal philosophy, but I have to say it comes across as like "all you gotta do is say this and believe that you will be what you wanna be and the universe will get outta your way", BS! If he didn't become as famous as he is he would have no such delusions.BTW Will is gay/bi-sexual and so is his boy Tom Cruise(I have nothing against gay folks people, jussayin).You know showbiz is run by the Jews&Gay men(Quincy Jones,homosexual, got Will started in the TV Biz).
ltjplanet 1 year ago
Moron.
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Pretend scientology doesn't exist,forget tom cruise, there's nothing wrong with what he just said.
Genedancingmachine 1 year ago
Just some info I found-- The 39-year-old and his wife, who has been spotted out with the Cruises at various events and on the red carpet, added: "I am a Christian. I am a student of all religions, and I respect all people and all paths." So he obviously doesn't claim to be a scientologist.
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gfurtu 1 year ago
It is true that if the both of you in a relationship actively work at it, then it will work better; however, things break down after a while and the two involved cannot objectively work it out and look at it. That's where counseling comes in.
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IbrahimIke 1 year ago
Anyone who actively pursues celebrity is a whack job and is everything that's wrong with the human race. It's no wonder so many of these people become scientologists.
cypsation 1 year ago
Will is stuck in a (meme) but he is correct, its in your will to project your reality, and if you believe that you will get what you want, only then can you have it.
Simple right? If you believe counseling will work, then it will work. Take control of your way of thinking and then you can take control of your life.
Take a look at this lecture from a man who has devoted his time to helping people think more clearly. youtube.com/watch?v=r6svgZjkasI&feature=related
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piumibotheju 1 year ago
I really hope none of ya all is studying in counselling?
srihaputh 1 year ago
... however, I do disagree with him about counselling being a "cheat". there are a lot of couples who don't know HOW to communicate effectively - a genuine, skilled counsellor can help the couple express their true feelings, and help couples expose and get to the real root of underlying conflict.
I really do hope skeppitik that you are not just an 18 year old commenting possibly on something that maybe you might not understand. If you aren't that, well... learn how to quote properly...
tongPoh 1 year ago
christ!!! talk about misrepresenting what Will said! Hey Skeppitiksowat, at which point in your clip did Will say the words "weak" and "stupid"?! He said that using counselling is a "cheat".
I don't know about you skeppitik, are you married? In a long term relationship? Well I have been with my wife for 16 years... and what Will said about "YOU" having the onus to make it work is totally true. Communication is crucial. Honesty is crucial. Of course Love is crucial. .....
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maduharshi 1 year ago
they can get to anyone.... oooooohhhhhhhhhhh wat an idiot
snowjamers 1 year ago
"..if two people take care of themselves" wait a minute I thought a marriage or a partnership is about working together and supporting each other not being out for yourself. "poor people make themselves happy"..well yes as individuals we are responsible for our own happiness but boy it sure does sound condescending coming from a multimillionaire smuch like you. "they'll come better"..I do hope your school will be teaching better grammar than you are capable of Mr Smith.
grannykempock 1 year ago
ye that and millions of dollars stuffed in ur matress
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cadu1995 1 year ago
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cadu1995 1 year ago
someone really should save him. he can do nothing to wake up/help himself in this condition.
damienlabenz 1 year ago
Will Smith Suggests People In Counseling Weak And Stupid
damienlabenz 1 year ago
Haha. He really didn't say anything out of the ordinary. That's practically what a marriage counselor will tell you for Christ's (or L. Ron's) sake.
That said, by raising his son in a cult he's doing him a disservice.
YesGrosvenor 1 year ago
wow, i liked him till this
Treemonkee 1 year ago
No offense Will, but WTF do you even remember about the real world??? Must be nice to dish out your wisdom on life while you sit on your fat ass bank account. Not all of us have that option douchebag.
velveetaslingshot 1 year ago
@velveetaslingshot
Woooow! Who's the douschebag here? All he's saying is that people can make marriage work without asking Dr Phil to step in TELL them what their problem is. He's right...America is too dependent on degrees to solve their problems. It has everything to do with his experience...and NOT his bank account.
FrizzKid05 1 year ago
@FrizzKid05
Sure, it's doable if you can be objective and honest but to dismiss councelling as a whole, especially when many people don't have the aforementioned traits, is just ignorant.
thegirl44 1 year ago
@thegirl44
Well, he DID follow it up by saying that "Two smart people can always make it work."
He made room for that objection. He's simply saying that it's not necessary to go see some shrink in order for two people to stay together and be happy. It all rests on the two partners. Don't go see Dr. Phil because you're having a fight...talk it out, and be humble, because then you can make it work without the mediator.
FrizzKid05 1 year ago
@FrizzKid05
You and I, and probably Mr. Smith, can have this conversation because someone along the way has given us the tools to work on our relationships, ourselves. There are people who, either not having the influences in their lives that we did or not paying attention to them, if they did, can't figure out how to do these things alone. Councelling can have a time and a place for inexperienced people. As you said, you don't go to Dr. Phil because of a spat, it goes deeper than that..
thegirl44 1 year ago
@FrizzKid05
con't That being said, "smart" has very little to do with it and for Mr. Smith to imply that those who don't have the tools to lead a healthy life aren't smart is a little ignorant.
thegirl44 1 year ago
@thegirl44
Being smart has EVERYTHING to do with it! What? Do you actually believe that "Love conquers all" party-line, as sported by Disney Channel. It's crap...and ignorant of you to think that being "SMART" has nothing to do with a marriage.
FrizzKid05 1 year ago
@FrizzKid05
I think that you need to read my comment again.
To imply that people who don't have the tools to make a marriage work aren't smart is ignorant. That has nothing to do with the intelligence of people who do make it work. They are two completely different groups.
thegirl44 1 year ago
@thegirl44
What are you talking about?? Intelligence is intelligence. His comments, if you are listening to the ENTIRETY of his comments, he didn't say anything about people being stupid at all...this video is mislabelled, and YOU are off-base.
FrizzKid05 1 year ago
Will Smith is a narcissistic ass hole.
xLance2000 1 year ago
WOW Counseling is stupid ! But he has to do E METER Counseling and thats is suffice ,Whats that all about ? Sounds like CONTRADICTING to me..
ConChaz100 1 year ago
oh my god, will, what a bullshit
janjanjan0 1 year ago
If only everyone was as "enlightened" as Will Smith. Oh wait, I forgot. You totally can be! Just send the church of Scientology a check and they'll take care of the rest. ROFL!
WickyConnors 1 year ago 24
@WickyConnors notice he used the phrase "better communicator" which is one of the first lower level courses they'll make you pay for as found by a documentary done by the BBC.
wildvenisson 1 year ago
@WickyConnors !MAO
dragnarok1134 1 year ago
I don't think it's a cheat. If both are willing to sit and get help they're trying to make it work, being smart has nothing to do with how well a marriage goes. I bet it's more biological than it is intellectual.
luanluan2006 1 year ago
@luanluan2006 nah. that would just mean that those two people excepted the fact that they arent... um "smart" and are gonna agree to seek HELP.. which is good. and also humble..
by smart like listening, not rushing into stuff. fixing problems. u know that sorta thing and other stuff like that. not being superficial... well yah im no scientologist either i hate it. but if ppl are smart and not drones to how they "should" act then they will be diff. right bout not cheat though.idk why i posted
beeftownz 1 year ago
@luanluan2006
Im sorry but let me be real blunt about this.
What the fuck is everybody sniveling about?It does take some smartness to maintain a marriage or relation of that matter.I'm thinking if the man has been married in hollywood for 11!yrs....come on people hes gotta be doing something right.
Oh and yes Luanluan,it does have something to do with biological elements of people intrinsic desires
lopytube 1 year ago
@lopytube
He is doing something "right". But what is "right" in one marriage isn't "right" in another. It wont work in every marriage. That's what counciling is for, finding what is wrong and making it "right".
It doesn't make a person weak to seek help. What makes them weak is if they are too blind to get the help they need.
(I know it's biological, i was being sarcastic)
I like Will though :D. Who hates the Fresh Prince?
luanluan2006 1 year ago
I love when rich famous people give advice to the little people, as if they know what life is really like.
shadowfaxx1 1 year ago
I guess he realized this after his first marriage went bust!!
felecia7267 1 year ago
Brilliant Will Smith, and for u fools that disagree. Marriage counseling and the divorce rate...check it OUT and tell me if it's working. GET BACK AT ME
sciomni2008 1 year ago
He sound almost as bad as Tom Cruise.
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AbbyBologa 1 year ago
@aaronsandra Uh...he doesn't sound anything like Tom Cruise. He sounds very positive. And it's true. People "cheat" in away when it comes to counseling. They have this perception someone else is going to fix the relationship. I am a coach I hear it all the time. I applaud him for working so hard in his marriage. What part of "working on yourself" sounds anything like Tom Cruise? The title to the video is very misleading. As far as I'm concerned he walks his talk. Go Will!
AbbyBologa 1 year ago
What are you guys on about?
All he said that you don't need marriage counseling.
How the hell does that imply he is a scientologist.
That's like saying everyone that came before marriage counseling is a scientologist.
In reality, you don't need marriage counseling, because the only one stopping you from loving the other person is you.
Why's that?
Because you picked up a random ass chick, at a random ass party, and decided to have a random ass marriage ceremony.
Dumbasses.
ZhadoxFlamez 1 year ago
What bull.
rainbowspite222 1 year ago
Gibberish and does not make a lick of sense. If two people are happy by themselves, then they should never have gotten married in the first place. Guy's a scientologist all right.
yellowcougar18 1 year ago
what he says does make perfect sense. I wouldn't go as far to say that marriage counceling is "a cheat"
lynzxer021 1 year ago
title is stupid.
hubeda 1 year ago
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andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear lol
sKepptiksowat 1 year ago
@sKepptiksowat doesn't really answer the question does it?
andygoodyear 1 year ago
@sKepptiksowat
Dude, look at his response to me, he wasn't joking, he LITERALLY thought that you meant NOVICE HOMOSEXUAL. . . .
WOW!!! AHAHAHAHA!
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear LMFAO
TROLL!
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@mdrdrmcc yes and you're a retard
andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
Now, explain to me how I'm a retard for pointing out that you're trolling with your stupid comment, unless you were being serious with your "novice homosexual" comment, then you're the retard.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
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andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
LMFAO you MORON AHAHAHAHAH!!! THAT MAKES THIS SO MUCH BETTER!! AHAHAHAHAHAHA!! And you're calling ME stupid? HA!!!!!!
Novis Homo, try GOOGLING something before you shove your head up your own ass. See I was thinking that it was impossible for someone to be SO FUCKING stupid as to think "novice homosexual" was somehow implied, wow. I thought it HAD to be a troll, I'm pretty sure the poster of this video was thinking the same.
NOVIS HOMO: Scientology term for "new human".
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@mdrdrmcc You're the moron. Why would I know that Scientology term? I am not a scientologist. By the way the term was coined in ancient rome and is 'novus homo'. Who is the moron/troll?
andygoodyear 1 year ago
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andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear No, I call them fucking stupid and morons if they make a statement about something they see without doing any research. Moron is a word used for people with IQ's between 51-70, YOU.
Oh wow, look you CAN use Google afterall! AMAZING! AHAHAHA! Fucking idiot. HURRR, I'm andy and I'm going to stonewall with some wikipedia entry I found on a different term and try to use it even though it's not related at all to the topic! Congratulations on your ability to use a search engine!
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear A troll is someone who says something only to invoke a reaction. Yes, I am a troll.
You are a moron who I was HOPING was a troll because of how GODDAMN STUPID your comment was.
A Homo Novis is a Scientology term used to denote the next stage of evolution, like "Homo Erectus" or "Homo Sapien"
"Novus homo" (notice it's lowercased) is the "first man" of a family to serve in the Senate.
What these terms have in common? You mixing them up, being a moron and my trolling you for it.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
Now, andy, let me clarify this fer ya, since thinkin' isn't your forte:
"It is spelt 'novice' not 'novis'. And I wonder why you are comparing scientologists to homosexuals?"
If this had indeed BEEN a troll, it would have been GENIUS level, by me calling you a TROLL, it was a compliment for trolling skill, but since you're just a typical fucking idiot smashing your head into the keyboard, it depresses me to NO end. . . I was hoping for brilliance, but all I got was disappointment.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@mdrdrmcc Thinking isn't my forte? Just because I don't know a lot about Scientology doesn't make me thick. By the language you resort to, it's obvious who the unintelligent one is here. I'm sure there are plenty of subjects you know nothing about that I excel in. But hey as I said, if it makes you feel like a big man behind your PC then go for it (I say PC rather than Mac because PC users act a certain way). You are amusing me so continue
andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
No, if you simply didn't know a lot about Scientology, there wouldn't be an issue but you corrected someone while being admittedly ignorant of the subject matter. A simple google search of "scientology and novis homo" would've solved any problems you had but you didn't, that is why you're thick, smart people don't know everything, they simply have the ability to research.
"It is better to keep silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt"
As for PC? . . .
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@mdrdrmcc Hahahaha you are funny. Obviously hit a raw nerve? Keep going.... as I said this is amusing me
andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
Nope, no nerve, just TRYING to teach a pretentious retard a thing or two.
Next time keep your fucking mouth (figuratively) shut about things with which you have NO idea.
Oh, and enjoy huffing your own farts you're so goddamned smug and self-assured, the REAL smart people will continue to LEARN instead of simply assuming like a complete jackass. It's obvious I was right when you delete your comments.
Go do something real with your mac, install Ubuntu on it (yes, you can).
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
By "PC", I believe you are following the recent trends of both Microsoft & Apple referring to the Windows OS franchise. Sorry to burst your corporate whoring bubble but PC doesn't mean that.
Apple is like Scientology, it portrays itself as the antithesis (AT) to the mainstream, it's not. The AT of corporate OS's is Free Software & of religion is science/atheism, both Apple & Scientology steal code/concepts from the true AT & fail to contribute back.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@mdrdrmcc Well put and good troll killin. It was hilarious.
sKepptiksowat 1 year ago
@sKepptiksowat brofist
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@sKepptiksowat troll killing - as if! Does it make you two feel good sucking each other off?
andygoodyear 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
WHOORAY! You're BACK!
Nope but do you think it's wrong for guys to suck each other off?
He was congratulating me for obliterating your stupid comments, "stupid" evidenced by your deletion of them, unless you'd like to repost them so that I can have a crack at 'em from a different angle! I had SO much fun!
Smart people do not form instant opinions without reviewing information relevant and readily available (if not less). IF a bright did, he wouldn't share as to avoid looking dumb.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
I use Ubuntu GNU/Linux (the real alternative to corporate software) & have been using Debian systems as my main OS's since 2000.
It would be nice if Apple would start giving back to the Open Source world they stole from.
You can take your retarded choice in fad corporate operating systems & expensive hardware & shove them right up your ignorant sanctimonious ass, you fucking moron.
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
@andygoodyear
Lastly, I see that you are deleting your comments, good on you. Isn't technology lovely? You can just delete your retardation?
mdrdrmcc 1 year ago
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penguinworm 1 year ago
Ahh, Will Smith...relationship expert! Divorce is not an option for him?! What about his first child's mother? Apparently, he has joined the "I'm famous, my opinion is fact and everyone wants to hear it" club! "Marriage counseling is a cheat"...ask your first wife, idiot! And Seven pounds sucked, btw..!
sahhan315 1 year ago
I used to like this guy but both he and his wife are cringe inducing.
TheKimdunn 1 year ago
Clueless... So... Love ME first and wife second.... Narcisist.
CMO5569 1 year ago
I didn't hear the words "Weak" and "Stupid" come out of his mouth, but who cares.
retsej515 1 year ago
Well it goes without saying, two good smart people. What it really take for a marriage to work is truth and honesty and adherence to the vows and ten commandments. You do not raise your voice, or yell at someone you love. We must completely give our obedience to each other and to God, and never to someone else. Secrets with others hold you in bondage to them, giving them you obedience. Only truth can return it back to your spouse.
SeekTruthinLight 1 year ago
What he said there wasn't so bad, makes sense, I could go so far as to say that I agree, but still, Scientology is for CRAZIES!!!
usernamefromhell 1 year ago
What happened to him? He used to be an inspiration. I give up.
DECIMUS771 1 year ago
Save Will Smith from Scien-fictin-tology avoid his movies -don't even rent anything that he is in -they will kick him out so fast his beautiful eyes will roll back in his head, ?& maybe we will save him & his FAMILY.
sargonsrobot 1 year ago
This title is a lie Will never called people weak and stupid. I agree with him in a way b/c all counseling does is help ppl see things from a 3 party/different perspective and if you WANT it to work, you will DO whatever it takes to make it work and come out stronger, counseling is not going to do the work for you, you still have to put the work in and attempt to make the relationship better by becoming a better person.
libran5 1 year ago
The majority of people that need therapy cannot afford it so you have to be creative, although Will Smith doesn't have all the answers either. It's very egotistical to believe others have the same advantage as you do or the money to make things happen. The rich have advantage of creating their own reality no matter how warped it may be because they believe their wealth justifies its validity.
easyfortruth 1 year ago
Shut up Will! Make movies and shut up!
caleoquay 1 year ago
Not a scientologists, but using "win or fail" scientology lingo.
Poor little brainwashed wee Willy.
thegirl44 1 year ago
Scientology makes your ability to communicate...fail. I would've just said "Why would you need a marriage counselor, when you can talk and learn to understand your spouse yourself? Successful marriages have good communication. Isn't that obvious?" But no ,C0$ just teaches people to blabber rather than getting to the point.
whammo85 1 year ago 2
Hmm..that's why he goes to "counseling" at the "Church" of Scientology, instead.
*shrug*
Kilia40 1 year ago
I like Will Smith, but that's 1 stupid statement. Counselling is sometimes the last resort if the person sinks too deep into depression. Aww Will gets famous and suddenly turns into an a**wipe! That's not surprisin. Puttin his money where his mouth is, i'm sure.
BabyGurl00818 1 year ago 2
this title is misleading and a scam to get folks to visit this page. if you want legitimate hits on your page, be a bit more truthful and interesting... and frankly, i dont care if you think i'm being harsh. i came here on a whim and was dissappointed by the subterfuge...
jadesky9 1 year ago
I Iol'd. I agree with him, two smart people should be able to work things out by themselves. That's why he is in desperate need of Counseling. Hurr Durr!
phatfish78 2 years ago
Okay...so, asking a subjective professional to help two people communicate better is a cheat. Wow...Will Smith is a moron
coderedgonebadd 2 years ago
i love will smith! he is an awesome guy, i don't care what he believes in! my only hope is that he doesn't belief in the extermination of the sp's. i always he figured he would like and love everyone regardless of bieng an sp. i lost all respect for tom cruise when he put down sp's. doesn't he know it is all made up crud? and why aren't they working in the sea org ?is that just for the drones who can't afford the big donations?....i'm just saying!
bikiniisland 2 years ago
sKepptiksowat, your description of this video is wacky. Willard is a Christian. And he certainly isn't calling people in marriage counselling stupid or weak (since he didn't even say those words!) He's just saying that for people who are strong enough, the only thing you can do to make your marriage work is to work on yourself and make yourself better in the relationship. Each person only has control over their self. Talking about stupid and weak and homo. Get a grip, you git. Horrible. Shame!
bikutorusan 2 years ago
@bikutorusan Dude, homo means "man" and novis means "new". It's a Scientology term. He says counselling is a cheat and that 2 smart people can do it on their own. He might not have said the words but he sure as Xenu suggested them. Will Smith has said himself he is not Christian but ather a student of all religions and that Scientology is 90% of what the bible is. Hubbard said there is no Christ. lrn to google and don't take vid titles so seriously. Your last sentence is a horrible shame.
sKepptiksowat 2 years ago
"lrn"? I did query Google for some information and I believe we read the same things on Wikipedia. 98 % I believe it was. :P Good job to the both of us...
"He said counselling is a cheat and that 2 [sic] smart people can do it on their own." Exactly my point. He didn't suggest it's a cheat in general, just that if these two people are /strong enough/, it's a "cheat". There was definitely no suggestion that I could sense. Rather, I felt as though he meant it to be taken with a grain of salt. :-)
bikutorusan 2 years ago
Reading between the lines and analysis of statements is a subjektive thing I suppose, so i will leave it at that. No worries as I dig where your coming from. I was really just responding to the asshatedness of your 1st comment.. Your response to my response pretty much ignored what I said so let's leave it at that Please don't think I want a debate or troll war. I left a typo or two for you. lol @ your [sic]ing of my post. Lrn2 chill on the grammaration and spellingness thingy. Nuff said.
sKepptiksowat 2 years ago 2
I didn't mean anything by it, I just don't want people to think I say 2 instead of two. Sorry about that.
I'd love to address the things I didn't reply to (I thought I got it all). What were they? I can't see it. :/ Also, do accept my apology if I came on too strong with my first comment, I might have gotten a little hot-headed.
bikutorusan 2 years ago
@sKepptiksowat , yeah...Hubbard was in with Jack Parsons and the O.T.O (a sect of dark forces). He should stay clear of anything involving Scientology. Very disappointing, but understandable given the confusion of Hollywood stars. The hustle with it is that it supposedly "helps" actors due to helping cure self-doubt, stage fright and "bait-and-minion-training". It is brainwashing, Hubbard was ONI (office of naval intelligence) and he also knew Aleistar Crowley was into occult magic.
invincibleironman3 1 year ago
where did he say people are weak and stupid eh muppet, and scientology helps nobody its a scam for fuck sake, seriously like anyone involved in it is missing something inside them big time
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tontotallent 2 years ago
About scientology, if you are poor, downtrodden and looking for help how does it help. You have to pay. So scientology only helps the rich.
rainbowspite222 2 years ago
Just start off by reading some of the books like.. scientology-the fundamentals of thought.
Or for like 14.99 you can buy Anthony Robbins book "Awaken the giant within" and it will change your life.... all you have to do is buy it and read it and it will change your LIFE!
But from reading your comment you probably have the attention span of a 3 year old, magic pill society.. how about you just get your ass off the sofa and take responsibility for YOUR life!
Cypher25z 2 years ago
Anthony Robbins, really. It sounds like you have the manners of a monkey. And no nothing about medication and how many people it has actually helped. Keep feeding money to your $cientology cult.
rainbowspite222 2 years ago
LOL...
1. Where did I mention medication?
2.Who said I was a Scientologist?
Try reading a post properly before responding.
Cypher25z 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
He/She thought that you are a Scientologist because you are telling them to read a damn Scientology book. Would anybody but a Christian recommend that someone read a Bible? Unlikely.
Regardless, this is typical scientology crap, then you spill out the typical hostility "you probably have the attention span of a 3 year old" ... never, in this day and age, have I seen a true so called "religion" (read "tax-exempt status") get so hostile... consistently.
humanfactorsdoc 2 years ago
@Cypher25z Did I read that correctly? You're actually encouraging someone to join the cult of scientology?
pokerslut530 2 years ago
@pokerslut530 .. No you didn't read that correctly. Try again..
Cypher25z 2 years ago