it depends ask her off by yourself talk to her seriously tell her that you feel she is crossin the line and that u want her to stop certain behaviors or else there will be a prob if she dont listen go to ur man and tell him. i hav this hot amazin friend/bro that is straight but he lets me flirt with him. i tell him hes hot and has a beautiful voice and stuff. ive asked him to tell me if i cross a line as i love him so much except sexual or romantic love dont exist there. if he said stop i would
HE NEEDs to tell that " bitch i knwo you my girl and all but child this is my boo and he dont like you girl" so we cant be all like that in front of my man unless you want me alone. if she dont care then you need to leave that niggah alone, cuz he the one that needs to let her know not you.
Woman like gay men because gay men typically take care of themselves. Typically they are out going, and friendly. And, they know how to talk to woman. Again, typically. Not always. But, that's why woman like gay men. Not ALL woman, but a lot of woman do. And, they tend to pretend they aren't gay, just "in touch" with their feminine side.
Haha, yeah man, this girl crossed some lines though for sure! :D
WELL FIRST OFF SHE IS CHASING THE WRONG MAN CAUSE YOU ARE SEXY! BUT LET ME STOP. I AM A STRAIGHT FEMALE AND IN THIS CASE SHE HAS IT IN HER MIND THAT SHE IS HIS WOMAN. MAYBE SHE FEELS THAT HE IS BISEXUAL AND SHE HAS A CHANCE WITH HIM. FIRST OFF YOU NEED TO BLAME HIM FOR LETTING IT GET THIS WAY. NO ONE CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT TO YOU WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION. YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW YOUR POINT OF VIEW AND IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF IT LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WILL NOT BE STICKING AROUND.
You need to first figure out whether they've had relations prior too....if they haven't then she clearly has a deep love for him and wishes he would engage in a commitment with her. She's waiting and plotting ..and he's encouraging that type of behavior
lol soo cute when ur a lil upset n jelous, but i have some female friends but aint no way in hell imma le em scrub my back lol i dnt think ur over reactin, keep ya eye on tht lil heffa lol
Dang, I wish I had come across this video back then. I would've handled it for you. I had a pen with a hidden blade in it. It would have been perfect. Lol.
Uuhhh...! I don't know about this situation. Well, maybe that's their relationship I really don't know what to say. However, the vibes you get don't lie. She may want your man.
hell naw yhu aint over reacting...Shyt i wood cut a bytch too...She crossed the line wit the shower.. aww hell naw..i dnt believe yhu HAVENT cut her yet..
I dont think she wants ur man, all of my really close friend girls are like that with me. I would even sleep with them. Its a sexy lesbian type thing(Im a guy) its kinda of hard to explain but im sure she doesnt want him. Can we see him??
Yes I have and I told em you need to choose and if you choose me you need to limit yoself wit him... AND THEN FUCKED UP PART IS HE LOVED HA I MEAN LOVE HA.... but i had to let that go it got to much for me ni69a tried to kill hisself over ha no sir.....
She's a little over zealous. Just pull her off to the side and tell her that You have exclusive rights and priviledges to your man and that she need to respect your time with him. If she can't respect that the I say to "Gut Punch That Azz" Kidding... Ask Your BF to address her because he's her BFF because she can't separate her friendship with him versus trying to conquer him. Xem..make him responsible for setting her straight. Sm00ches.
My question to other posters in this video thread....
Why are women referred to as "bitches" by gay men?
I hate that and it does nothing to repair the already broken thread of the black family, which includes us ALL, not just couples, per se
When did this lingo become acceptable and when is it going to stop as I think there are so many other words to use to describe the black woman other than BITCH, FISH and other derogatory names given by gay men.
No wonder I stumbled upon your video and LOVED u from the beginning...we AQUA FOLKS are loyal, insightful..the original power thinkers is what they call us! TRUE INDEED..and it gets better as you age brova.
From one AQUARIUS HOMIE to another...CHECK your MAN b/c at the end of the day...he should be loyal to you b/c your relationship is deeper than you & hers,
I would say 2 BOTH at the same time that I am uncomfortable!
Xem, just accept her. If she is doing something inappropriate with your man, it's your man's responsibility to set boundries. Don't cut her! Work on communication with your man.
As a fellow Baltimorian, I say cut the trick, 2 much, wayyyyy 2 much, she crossed the line when she feed him...I spoon/fork feed my girl bestfriend becuase I want her! That should tell you something.
Yo Xem on the real. I would ask if your man and her ever fucked before. I would also ask why doesn't your man repsect the fct that it bothers you. And if your man likes the attaention he is getting from her then why does he need you? That situation is very serious especialy when there is a 3rd party trying to interfere. Xem on the real dude maybe yu should back away for now because this is wayy too much
Xem, this was funny yet serious. I am a true cancer and I need to tell you you have us down packed. I been where you at however I was young..er and I felt I should not have to compete with the power of the pussy. Sorry. I had to walk away. Again I am a true cancer. I wish you the best , but do not cut that girl. LOL... Keep it Real
Oh Man!! I was in a situation like this. This girl I was involved wit was in love wit her gay best friend. She even claimed to be pregnant by him but he made her get an abortion...crazy right??!! Its an OBSESSION! I talked to her about it but she claimed they were "Jus Friends." LIES!! lol...I jus moved on. But ur boyfriend friend needs to be put in check..FO REAL.
bby u are not ovr reacting! i wuld cut tht bitch to!! ha lemme see her ill do the job 4 you...u need to hav a serious conversation wit him and not wit her around
Man, this is not good. If all of these instances are indeed true, you need to have him handle this ASAP. Not saying he needs to end the friendship, but he needs to put boundaries on their friendship; because its clearly causing a strain. If he really cares, he'll do it.
Your beef is not with that queer-hetero-lesbian chick...cut out all the drama. instead, you must address the guy. if he respects your dating relationship, then he will not cross the infidelity boundary. if not, then then tell him, "bitch. boo. bye." cutting her will not change him, not one bit. it will only make you look messy.
Lmao damn Xem! Cutting people and stuff? NO! NO MAN IS WORTH THAT!
But i'd sit both of them down, and get to asking some questions. How long they've known each other...whats the need for the shower thing..yada yada yada.
Random Thought: Ever think someone could be DL, but in the reverse form? Meaning everyone thinks he's gay, but he gets down with women too? Not saying thats the case! Just something I thought about when watching this.
yeah Xem I don't know about that...I have heard of some close relationships but that is just toooo close for comfort....I mean damn!!!!! that is crazy, I hope you can get that straightened out
yo you are bein a little wild man there friendship is a little close but you gotta give the girl a break. man chill for sec and think is he in love with you or her?
My Brotha, She's letting you know that he is hers. I have a female friend that I had to stop going to the clubs with because she wasn't letting anyone get near me. It isn't that she wants me, she just don't want to loose me. Hope you understand what I'm saying. Hit me up and we can talk.
lol... Wow... this is wow.. that's all i have to say.. I think she crossed the line... hey.. what is that song that is playing in the background.. it's soo calming and I need it in my life!!! to calm me down... usually all your music in the background is really good.... but i hope you take care of that problem! lol..
That bitch is foul. Straight up!!!. Hire a PI and find out everywhere that she goes. You need to study your prey, then get that bitch like she aint never be got before.
Na . . . ole girl needs a hobby or productive passtime activity other than your man. Ur not over-reacting - she's about 10 miles on the wrong the side of line... not EVEN just a lil bit. She needs checked.
i was in the exact same situation where a girl was way too close with my boyfriend and was telling him she wanted to have his baby while i was pregnant with his kid. i argued with him about it a lot and then eventually decided to be friends with her and i would talk to her about sweet things he did for me, and then eventually told her i knew everything she had been saying to him and she stopped. he let her continue to say these things because she gave him money. it was crazy. it's tough.
Your not over-reacting- wether she wants your man or not- as his freind- once he gets seriously involved with someone- she should automatically step back out of respect. shes not respecting the boundaries- she probably think you dont mind since shes female. i think you should air this out asap.
Yeah you are over reacting.....Obviiously she wants your man and the way you are acting. Her thought is that she will be there long after you are gone.....Also, if you try to come between them you will lose him.....Make her your friend
Oooh no no no...I seen the "She's A Lipstick Lesbian" before this one but now that I seen this it just...I just don't have the words. This girl can easily be bi. I see the way she acts as childish because a lot of young girls do crazy things to interfere with relationships.
Yup I was in that situation and it was crazy because one minute i was thinking nothing is going on and then the next minute i thought she wanted him back. And to this day i still think she want him back. youre not over reacting, i totally understand your position.
you need to introduce her to some straight men and tell her i'm on to ya game. You are definitely in a tenuous position because that's your man's bff. Ask him how many boyfriends has she run off and if his answer tell him, "I'm bout ta be the first!"
okay, so I was chuckling throughout this video. Except the back scrubbing bit! Thats a bit much. My bff is a female so I can relate. Alot of what your sayin is what we do. I'm glad you spoke on it sooner rather than later. But you've said you piece. As the two of you grow and become more serious, things should change. Remember, your the newbie on the block!!! :) I'm assuming she has put some time in on their friendship!!! Just chill out Xem...I think it'll all work itself out! HOPEFULLY!:P
Wow.. Aquarians are good when it comes to competition with anyone from my experience.. and most of the time they dont have to, they can fall back and still make u interested.. my man is a Aquarian very interesting ppl.. Cancers.. lol they love attention.. it has to be about them, and they only put up with a lot of ppl cause those ppl in particular put dem 1st. But homegirl is going above and beyond the call of friendship.. i would be uncomfortable too, and her in the shower.. HELL NO!
Xem, that does sound nutz...but your beef is with your dude, not his 'friend'. He obviously likes the special attention he gets from her. If you have an issue with it, your man needs to set some boundaries with his friend.
No offense Mr. Adams but when you said " I will cut a permanent smile on her face," You sounded psycho. I don't think you're over reacting Ijust think you're doin what ANY gay guy or girl or straight guy or lesbian would do.
...But then again I can understand how women can think that...it's the same idea gay men will often have towards straight men...sometimes it's just hard to accept that when you're attracted to someone. However, I don't agree with her tactics and she is definitely crossing boundaries. I'm just saying that maybe to her, as odd as this sounds...she doesn't see it as being wrong. But someone should definitely tell her! And I'm not saying she's innocent or anything, she KNOWS she shouldn't do it...
Oh hell no she is doing to much and yes there are women out there who think they can turn a gay man but if he's honestly gay and not bi then she doesnt have a chance anyway. there is a chance she may want him and that shower shit i dont care how long they've known each other she has seen his body from head to head if you know what i mean and thats a red flag.
You have to watch her, Iam sure something my happen berween them if she's going on vacation with him. Also you have to discuss that with her or him to l'et him or her know that you are the one his dating and that she's a little too close with him, you have to say something XEM but don't show anger, say something in a friendly ,soft way.
I am an openly gay man. I had this friend in during high school. We heavily touched one another--physically- in public. She even scrubbed my back (in the shower!)! We also cuddled before. Neither of us has any romantic interest in each other.
You need to recognize the complexity of human interaction-the complexity of friends, sexuality, etc!
Now, since I just gave you some of advice....where's my food? No. j/k.
I have been in that situation .....just friends my BUTT....too much too much, i actually always had an intuition and stuck with it, and he claimed it was nothing but chile boo i always had a feeling and still do lol
My best friend and I are very close. His boyfriend is somewhat jealous, in my opinion, of our relationship because he FINDS was to keep us apart, which is dumb because I have NO romantic interest in him. Its sad because now it is awkward if we all hang out because I am always being cautious to not do things we've always done because I don't want to offend anyone. My advice would be to talk to them, let them know how you feel, but don't make him choose.
Xem, it has been two mth's and i would nip that like right now...b/c you are doing nothing but first, wasting energy and time, if he does not tell her look that is not cool!! then he likes it... you need to have a REAL sit down with him and say look she has to stop. B/c if that keeps going on you WILLL cut her.. i got your back..stay up and know it will get better...love
i've been on both sides of this coin Xem! yes she wants him and have set up in her mind to have him one of these days! a desperate woman is patient and can wait! we cancer men can be very laid back and charming and flirtatious! it will stop when he stops it. cancer men all luv attention and being pursued by other men and women. it will stop when he finally stops it.
Xem, you are the threat. She wants you out of the way. She was there before you and she do want your man. She is being disrespectful. But tell me, Do your man put here in check. If he do not stop her then he is approving her actions. Talk to him about her. She is going to be a problem is she is not put in her place...Go and have this talk with your man...NOW....What is the history with them...have they ever...you know.....?
I don't think you are wrong at all. If you have a feeling about it and the fact that she is so close, I would say something to him and tell her that this is my man now and I would just appreciate a little more respect. She is sooooo trippin at this point...you good b/c don't think I would let any male or female wash my mans back and cut up his food...it sounds like this heffa is CRAZY!
No need to get violent, just let your man knows where you think his friend is coming from and that he needs to let her know that him being gay isn't a choice, and so if it's not you it will be another man, but definitely not her!
Remember Xem, some women think they can 'straighten out' a gay man. So maybe your man's friend is of the opinion that being gay is a choice and so if she does her thing she will ultimately win him over. So you need to assess the situation and make the right move.
Oh my. Well of course she's after him. She's a bit extreme.
I really don't think there's anything you can do about this situation except talk to your man about it and tell him to talk to her since you telling her something won't work.
You did mention him being a cancer and my sister is one so I know what kinda attitude your dealing with.Your gonna have to really get on him about this girl. She does seem OBSSESSED! LOL!!
You are absolutely right she has issues and he "has to create some distance or else you have to take a step back from him." Sorry its the truth. They have to make room for you. With Cancers you have to get pushy they live in their shells.
Xem I have delt with this and the bitch had a baby for my man...When you have those gutt feelings inside of you its the truth!!!!!! Everything we need we already have...YOU already have the answers you need...You are very smart and being a gay man we be on it!!! just by nature..aint too much shit get past us..Hell anybody that dates men should be on it cause nigga's have a tendency to act up...Check her ASS and let that Ho kno You'll slap her ass to sleep!! That bitch can take a backseat to You!
I am a Cancer. You are right. With us you have to tell us....you us in our eyes and tell us...b/c he does not see how she is being...all on him....you have to put it in his face ...give him scenarios and talk to him. Don't come off ruff b/c as a cancer you will scare him away...it will be okay
Hmmm you have some people who like to take others people men/women , which is common. SOMETIMES , its not even about the person who they are close with. Xem she just may not like you...and know that she has a hold over your man and for thats exciting. She may be one of the eccentric types ....who just like to fuck with people because they know they can.
I have been through this before,Be ware...a bitch had my man..And we all know aint nuthin better than pussy but new pussy...Im gay and Females try to fuck me ALL the times...I would give that Ho the business!!!!
she doesn't want your man Xem. she has your man. don't be confused on this. their relationship was probably going on this way for a long while. the question you should ask your man isn't what's going on but what's he getting out of that kind of attention from someone who isn't you. She does this this because she can and she wants you to know that she can. and it makes her feel good have a sexually charged non sexual relationship with an unattainable man who lets her to do these things to him.
Im watching this video and it has like 2 minutes left... I couldnt wait to weigh in on this. Xem I dont even know where to begin, washing his back?? oh no.. there ARE lines as you say. Ok look, ordinarily I would have said you're over reacting but no love I believe you when you say she wants your man! So are YOU going to intercede and go visit him next month when he leaves town? This vid had so much to comment on, Im not gonna be able to fit everything. Xem take care of your business! Update us!
I have been through this before...you need to have a serious talk with ole boy and explain that this is not sitting well with you. From hsi response to that convo a lot will be revealed... Good Luck
Secondly, you need to check your man because he could possibly be bisexual and actually be interested in her. Oh, and your teeth are really really pretty. Can I have them? ;)
lol-I feel u Xem,I actually had a friend like that,she was doing that same stuff to me and my boifriend came to me because that made him uncomfortable,I just brushed it off because I didn't take it seriously,but it becomes an issue and effects the relationship,so she needs to be put in her place by your boifriend.
i dont think your over reacting i completely agree she too close for comfort and if she not taking ur suggestions of calmin her p*ssy then u need to let him know how u feel and tell him to keep his friend at a distance cuz its bothering u and if ur feelings really matter to him he should take it into consideration and make changes ... and she dont listen.. cut the b*tch lol
Xem cut her ass!!! lol You are not overreacting, she is too close she needs to back the hell up. I went through it and I told her to back the hell up!!!
i think she's insecure and afraid she'll lose his friendship because of u...u kno how it do...a brutha gets w/ a dude, then drops friends...check this: i got a twist...my best girlfriend has another gay dude as a friend, and HE throws me shade whenever i come around...now, what the f*ck is that about!...LOL.
shes out of line starting with the feeding food... THE SHOWER THING IS A TRIP!!!!! thats a whoop that ass moment you need to put her in check and let her know wats up
Man I been there. I checked my man REAL hard. Told him how I felt, and he stopped. You just gotta bring it to homeboy on some serious shit. He needs to draw a line. If he's really puttin ur needs first then all that shit she is accustomed to doing with him will stop, and he'll stand firm on it! Pleeze Don't Cut The Heifer! LOL
ima tell u this my g she wants him or they did some things already u feel me my g they is just 2 close my g but good luck wit that man ok i hope it work out 4 u but watch her my g 4real.
as a female with a male best friend i know that i can be obnoxious towards the guy that he's dating.its not that i want my best friend i was never attracted to him & i couldnt ever see myself in an intamate relationship w/him.or let alone get in the damn shower to wash his back....thats pushing the line... its more of a jealousy thing if nething she doesnt wanna be replaced. but watch her ass cuz the things that shes doing r not part of normal bestie behavior.
sounds like you need to get "nivea" on her...lol..("don't mess with my man, I'ma gonna bring it to you")...but seriously Xem, have you expressed how you feel to your man, cause ultimately, I feel he need to tell her to chill out and draw the lines, cause with him being serious about you and seeing that you arent thrilled about that...he needs to take care of that sitaution...cause Im have beenint hat situation b4 Xem & it doesnt get better if you continues to go forward unchecked...much luv 2 ya
Uh Uh, something aint right. Hopping in the shower to scrub his back oh hell no, and why she always the third wheel. She up to something, and he needs to tell her to chill.
Don't even bother with her, Your man is YOUR man. She needs to KOW when to clear off, and your man NEEDS to tell her (Not so harshly - Unless it's needed). Let her know who's running this! BUT DON'T CUT HER!!!!
lol yess i have dealt when something like this but i asked u know the friend i pulled her aside and told her how i felt ..she then tells me that she is his and he is hers so the truth came out little did she know i had my cellphone recoreding the whole thing cause every time i came to my man he said no thats not the deal so i show him the edvidence and he delt with the rest she lucky i didnt handle her cause lord knows i did tryna take my man and till this day wee are still together for 3 year
don't cut her Xem! lol! but seriously, if ur instincts are tellin u sumthin is up chances are sumthin is up! That whole scrubbin his back thing is wild, my question is WHY IS HE LETTING HER DO THAT? Where they do that at? Becuz this is the first I've ever heard of best friends of the opposite sex being so close. I'm not sayin that things like that don't happen at all, BUUT idk about this one, trust ur gut, and make movements according to what ur spirit is tellin u to do!
Dont compete with this girl. If your man wants to be with you, he will and if your relationship is being hindered because of this "friend" than he will alter the situation so your comfertable with him but if not, you need to be out.
She will be hurt the most when he turns her down and tells her no.
Don't get upset, just bare with it until he lets her down easy and her face is smashed into pieces, then stomp on the damn pieces and let the bitch know, lol
my bad I got carried away, what I would do is let my man know that it seems weird to me and disturbs me and see what he does.
Then I would pray about it and try to see what happens, I am care free so.....
wow, u certainly are not over reacting that girl wants your man, and she is trying to run u, if thats who u want, roll up your sleeves and show that bitch she can't compete with u. In the Bahamas we use to say in situations like this, "u got roach on ya bread." So smash that crumb snatching heifer and keep it moving. Sorry I got a little caught up, lol. Love your videos by the way.
a woman cant compete with a gay man sweetie just take control. you got him for a reason cause if so he would have just been with her there is something special about u to him so stand your ground and tell her crazy ass to fall back lol keep up the good work
sounds like you fallin for this dude man...but yea my ex had a best friend who seemed to always be around.nothin sexual (for wat I knew) but they were still pretty close..all you can really do is sleep with one eye open and voice ya concerns..remember closed mouths dont get fed..
As everyone else has stated; you need to keep an eye on this woman. Also, I would keep the other eye on ya dude. You have talked to him and voiced your concerns. He states its nothing. I would be worried as ya guy has done nothing to reassure you the friendship is harmless. He may really like the attention he's getting!
You should edit the cutting part out b4 she cuts herself and says you did it..... she would have proof too ( this video . I dont want them to lock u up! lol
LOL..LOLLLLL... but i do think cutting her is a bit much......<.< dont know if u wanna risk it but y not be serious about the situation in trontof both of them.. make it so that your dude cant just shrug it off and that bitc* cant manipulate the situation. u kno....
She is a "" hag. You know what I mean. As long as she initiates it. When HE starts saying he wants her to scrub his back, join him on a trip upon HIS invite (not hers), or when they get two tickets to a show without you, then there is a problem. Also you need to address her.
Xem, she may be his woman...watch him
GlamourGirlMejor30 3 months ago
Its not your gut...she really does
GlamourGirlMejor30 3 months ago
you gay fo real...you need some puszy....
WillyWill76 4 months ago
YOU WILL CUT HER!!LMAO
BATLOKWA1 8 months ago
LOL....If you need help I can arrange a drive by...LOL, Love it you so real....that's waz up!
RasNandoSXM 10 months ago
just saw this, hilarious
fckinzombies 1 year ago
what King of Camera do you use?
HealingHerbsByRene 1 year ago
LMAO did you cut her yet?!
TheALEXdoa 1 year ago
it depends ask her off by yourself talk to her seriously tell her that you feel she is crossin the line and that u want her to stop certain behaviors or else there will be a prob if she dont listen go to ur man and tell him. i hav this hot amazin friend/bro that is straight but he lets me flirt with him. i tell him hes hot and has a beautiful voice and stuff. ive asked him to tell me if i cross a line as i love him so much except sexual or romantic love dont exist there. if he said stop i would
bluemew88888 1 year ago
HE NEEDs to tell that " bitch i knwo you my girl and all but child this is my boo and he dont like you girl" so we cant be all like that in front of my man unless you want me alone. if she dont care then you need to leave that niggah alone, cuz he the one that needs to let her know not you.
cambokidd215 1 year ago
Woman like gay men because gay men typically take care of themselves. Typically they are out going, and friendly. And, they know how to talk to woman. Again, typically. Not always. But, that's why woman like gay men. Not ALL woman, but a lot of woman do. And, they tend to pretend they aren't gay, just "in touch" with their feminine side.
Haha, yeah man, this girl crossed some lines though for sure! :D
AbiROAR 1 year ago
WELL FIRST OFF SHE IS CHASING THE WRONG MAN CAUSE YOU ARE SEXY! BUT LET ME STOP. I AM A STRAIGHT FEMALE AND IN THIS CASE SHE HAS IT IN HER MIND THAT SHE IS HIS WOMAN. MAYBE SHE FEELS THAT HE IS BISEXUAL AND SHE HAS A CHANCE WITH HIM. FIRST OFF YOU NEED TO BLAME HIM FOR LETTING IT GET THIS WAY. NO ONE CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT TO YOU WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION. YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW YOUR POINT OF VIEW AND IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF IT LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WILL NOT BE STICKING AROUND.
kykypur 1 year ago
LoL.........Thats so funny I keep rewinding the scrubbing the back part.
LBOOGIEDUTTYWINE 1 year ago
You need to first figure out whether they've had relations prior too....if they haven't then she clearly has a deep love for him and wishes he would engage in a commitment with her. She's waiting and plotting ..and he's encouraging that type of behavior
vittoriosheridan 1 year ago
Y the hell is that girl going everywhere with u and ur man?! She needs to fall back!
rudegal2020 1 year ago
You are not overreacting I would do the same thing to fight for your man. Your videos are very nice and uplifting.
TheRebelde75 1 year ago
lol soo cute when ur a lil upset n jelous, but i have some female friends but aint no way in hell imma le em scrub my back lol i dnt think ur over reactin, keep ya eye on tht lil heffa lol
romainestephenson 1 year ago
Dang, I wish I had come across this video back then. I would've handled it for you. I had a pen with a hidden blade in it. It would have been perfect. Lol.
metallicreflections 1 year ago
Do you want me to kick her ass?
maltin5 1 year ago
YES Cut the heffa, I so get it! LMao~ iM PUERTO rICAN SO IT COMES NATURALLY TO ME!
Dsosa720 1 year ago
Have been in that situation...they end up fucking them all. wanted us all to be friends so i wouldn't think anything happening.
cmr0608 2 years ago
What ever happened after all ?
joelc720 2 years ago
Hell to the naw....you aren't overacting!! Get her gone! What ever happened?
Legend9357 2 years ago
Uuhhh...! I don't know about this situation. Well, maybe that's their relationship I really don't know what to say. However, the vibes you get don't lie. She may want your man.
sbabwb 2 years ago
hell naw yhu aint over reacting...Shyt i wood cut a bytch too...She crossed the line wit the shower.. aww hell naw..i dnt believe yhu HAVENT cut her yet..
M1ch3l3tluvsp1nk 2 years ago
I dont think she wants ur man, all of my really close friend girls are like that with me. I would even sleep with them. Its a sexy lesbian type thing(Im a guy) its kinda of hard to explain but im sure she doesnt want him. Can we see him??
Armaniwazhere 2 years ago
u have to trust him xem if he respects you he will not let anything happen. lol u a trip
prophetdanny 2 years ago
I coudnot be you, if that was my man I would tell her to leave.
highu3 2 years ago
Yes I have and I told em you need to choose and if you choose me you need to limit yoself wit him... AND THEN FUCKED UP PART IS HE LOVED HA I MEAN LOVE HA.... but i had to let that go it got to much for me ni69a tried to kill hisself over ha no sir.....
TooSlicTooSmooth 2 years ago
She's a little over zealous. Just pull her off to the side and tell her that You have exclusive rights and priviledges to your man and that she need to respect your time with him. If she can't respect that the I say to "Gut Punch That Azz" Kidding... Ask Your BF to address her because he's her BFF because she can't separate her friendship with him versus trying to conquer him. Xem..make him responsible for setting her straight. Sm00ches.
thyknis 2 years ago
yea scrubin his back in the shower is too much
vickvegas 2 years ago
My question to other posters in this video thread....
Why are women referred to as "bitches" by gay men?
I hate that and it does nothing to repair the already broken thread of the black family, which includes us ALL, not just couples, per se
When did this lingo become acceptable and when is it going to stop as I think there are so many other words to use to describe the black woman other than BITCH, FISH and other derogatory names given by gay men.
SoulFlower69 2 years ago
No wonder I stumbled upon your video and LOVED u from the beginning...we AQUA FOLKS are loyal, insightful..the original power thinkers is what they call us! TRUE INDEED..and it gets better as you age brova.
From one AQUARIUS HOMIE to another...CHECK your MAN b/c at the end of the day...he should be loyal to you b/c your relationship is deeper than you & hers,
I would say 2 BOTH at the same time that I am uncomfortable!
If the shit continues..cut em both!
SoulFlower69 2 years ago
ur funny but she tryna take yo man[shes a real gag]
tazemupmarii 2 years ago
Your not overreacting, something most likely is going on. She wants him. Check her
misscnr1 2 years ago
Xem, just accept her. If she is doing something inappropriate with your man, it's your man's responsibility to set boundries. Don't cut her! Work on communication with your man.
MarioandRichShow 2 years ago
oh you are fierce for that milf42 shit lol....
cornrowedlowe 2 years ago
As a fellow Baltimorian, I say cut the trick, 2 much, wayyyyy 2 much, she crossed the line when she feed him...I spoon/fork feed my girl bestfriend becuase I want her! That should tell you something.
RODFRED0907 2 years ago
lol a bit much ... both of you .. lol my ex bestfriend was kinda the same way . (she was his ex as well
brucebrucern 2 years ago
I'd watch her. She's a trip
danotreallynuseshow 2 years ago
Yo Xem on the real. I would ask if your man and her ever fucked before. I would also ask why doesn't your man repsect the fct that it bothers you. And if your man likes the attaention he is getting from her then why does he need you? That situation is very serious especialy when there is a 3rd party trying to interfere. Xem on the real dude maybe yu should back away for now because this is wayy too much
Blacqlove 2 years ago
Xem, this was funny yet serious. I am a true cancer and I need to tell you you have us down packed. I been where you at however I was young..er and I felt I should not have to compete with the power of the pussy. Sorry. I had to walk away. Again I am a true cancer. I wish you the best , but do not cut that girl. LOL... Keep it Real
Pebblies01 2 years ago
yep i think something is going on as well better put her ass in check hell that don't mean you jealous you just handling yours
brianmartell12 2 years ago
Oh Man!! I was in a situation like this. This girl I was involved wit was in love wit her gay best friend. She even claimed to be pregnant by him but he made her get an abortion...crazy right??!! Its an OBSESSION! I talked to her about it but she claimed they were "Jus Friends." LIES!! lol...I jus moved on. But ur boyfriend friend needs to be put in check..FO REAL.
Peace and Love
MissQT4Sure 2 years ago
DUDE!!! That woman wants yo' man. You need to stop that crap!!!
blackfanta112358 2 years ago
That bitch would get her ass whooped as soon as she touched the shower curtain! Beat the shit outta her!!!!!!
majik1987 2 years ago
well ive never dealt with this but i personally would cut that bitch.
Dont mess with my man or i will fuck you up. im not scared to hit a woman.
kyuubiprince 2 years ago
im so happy you found somebody.
but like all the girls on your comments say i would cut that bitch
naw i wouldnt cut her. i would sit her down man to woman and tell her my insecurities.
if she gets it fucked up then you cut the bitch.
agoodgirlNOT 2 years ago
bby u are not ovr reacting! i wuld cut tht bitch to!! ha lemme see her ill do the job 4 you...u need to hav a serious conversation wit him and not wit her around
VideoFreaks08 2 years ago
Man, this is not good. If all of these instances are indeed true, you need to have him handle this ASAP. Not saying he needs to end the friendship, but he needs to put boundaries on their friendship; because its clearly causing a strain. If he really cares, he'll do it.
MrBryant11 2 years ago
Your beef is not with that queer-hetero-lesbian chick...cut out all the drama. instead, you must address the guy. if he respects your dating relationship, then he will not cross the infidelity boundary. if not, then then tell him, "bitch. boo. bye." cutting her will not change him, not one bit. it will only make you look messy.
BlaqueButter 2 years ago
Like Bon Qui Qui said
"I Will CUT!! You"
felix106 2 years ago
SLAP THAT BITCH!!
steffon625 2 years ago
LMAO...damn Xem...I love you bro...me and my brotha Rich love you to death...but there are wayz to check that bitch in a classy way...
lilsamson2004 2 years ago
Lmao damn Xem! Cutting people and stuff? NO! NO MAN IS WORTH THAT!
But i'd sit both of them down, and get to asking some questions. How long they've known each other...whats the need for the shower thing..yada yada yada.
Random Thought: Ever think someone could be DL, but in the reverse form? Meaning everyone thinks he's gay, but he gets down with women too? Not saying thats the case! Just something I thought about when watching this.
*goes to watch part two*
TanzElement 2 years ago
yeah Xem I don't know about that...I have heard of some close relationships but that is just toooo close for comfort....I mean damn!!!!! that is crazy, I hope you can get that straightened out
tennislover08 2 years ago
yo you are bein a little wild man there friendship is a little close but you gotta give the girl a break. man chill for sec and think is he in love with you or her?
732356bb 2 years ago
sweetie she tellin you that is her manand that you aint takin her place and to back thhe hell off
732356bb 2 years ago
My Brotha, She's letting you know that he is hers. I have a female friend that I had to stop going to the clubs with because she wasn't letting anyone get near me. It isn't that she wants me, she just don't want to loose me. Hope you understand what I'm saying. Hit me up and we can talk.
Labell9014 2 years ago
talk? yeah right.
BoukenBlack 2 years ago
lol... Wow... this is wow.. that's all i have to say.. I think she crossed the line... hey.. what is that song that is playing in the background.. it's soo calming and I need it in my life!!! to calm me down... usually all your music in the background is really good.... but i hope you take care of that problem! lol..
Uloverides 2 years ago
That bitch is foul. Straight up!!!. Hire a PI and find out everywhere that she goes. You need to study your prey, then get that bitch like she aint never be got before.
TonyFresh001 2 years ago
Na . . . ole girl needs a hobby or productive passtime activity other than your man. Ur not over-reacting - she's about 10 miles on the wrong the side of line... not EVEN just a lil bit. She needs checked.
FutureDevStyle 2 years ago
Don't step 2 her..itz ur MAN who should be checking her!!
S3DUCT1ON 2 years ago
i was in the exact same situation where a girl was way too close with my boyfriend and was telling him she wanted to have his baby while i was pregnant with his kid. i argued with him about it a lot and then eventually decided to be friends with her and i would talk to her about sweet things he did for me, and then eventually told her i knew everything she had been saying to him and she stopped. he let her continue to say these things because she gave him money. it was crazy. it's tough.
ambersvlog 2 years ago
Your not over-reacting- wether she wants your man or not- as his freind- once he gets seriously involved with someone- she should automatically step back out of respect. shes not respecting the boundaries- she probably think you dont mind since shes female. i think you should air this out asap.
RootsRunDeeep 2 years ago
Yeah you are over reacting.....Obviiously she wants your man and the way you are acting. Her thought is that she will be there long after you are gone.....Also, if you try to come between them you will lose him.....Make her your friend
redlove999 2 years ago
uum... that makes me feel ALL types of uncomfortable and I'm not EVEN in your shoes.
That's a real crazy situation.
But... he may have to choose.
And he may... pick her.
alcoholharmony 2 years ago
Hell to the motha fuckin naw!!!! CUT THAT BITCH!!!
BelizeanThug22 2 years ago
Oooh no no no...I seen the "She's A Lipstick Lesbian" before this one but now that I seen this it just...I just don't have the words. This girl can easily be bi. I see the way she acts as childish because a lot of young girls do crazy things to interfere with relationships.
BlueSilence1985 2 years ago
Yup I was in that situation and it was crazy because one minute i was thinking nothing is going on and then the next minute i thought she wanted him back. And to this day i still think she want him back. youre not over reacting, i totally understand your position.
moeluv1277 2 years ago
you need to introduce her to some straight men and tell her i'm on to ya game. You are definitely in a tenuous position because that's your man's bff. Ask him how many boyfriends has she run off and if his answer tell him, "I'm bout ta be the first!"
bigdezol 2 years ago
ahhh yeeeeeah man i hate them 'extra' people..the 'friend'' WATEVA its liessss omg they want them for themselves oi oi U SHUD CUT HER lol..
sinnny 2 years ago
okay, so I was chuckling throughout this video. Except the back scrubbing bit! Thats a bit much. My bff is a female so I can relate. Alot of what your sayin is what we do. I'm glad you spoke on it sooner rather than later. But you've said you piece. As the two of you grow and become more serious, things should change. Remember, your the newbie on the block!!! :) I'm assuming she has put some time in on their friendship!!! Just chill out Xem...I think it'll all work itself out! HOPEFULLY!:P
Marky318 2 years ago
Wow.. Aquarians are good when it comes to competition with anyone from my experience.. and most of the time they dont have to, they can fall back and still make u interested.. my man is a Aquarian very interesting ppl.. Cancers.. lol they love attention.. it has to be about them, and they only put up with a lot of ppl cause those ppl in particular put dem 1st. But homegirl is going above and beyond the call of friendship.. i would be uncomfortable too, and her in the shower.. HELL NO!
DaWiiNeFiiNeDiiMe 2 years ago
He dont want her, he wants u. As of her? Uhmmm..... LOL she got losse nutts in here head. Yeah???...
VASSO
B43 2 years ago
Xem, that does sound nutz...but your beef is with your dude, not his 'friend'. He obviously likes the special attention he gets from her. If you have an issue with it, your man needs to set some boundaries with his friend.
altrie22 2 years ago
exactly the beef IS with your dude not the freind. HE SHOULD BE THE ONE TO CHECK HER.
RootsRunDeeep 2 years ago 4
@RootsRunDeeep I'm going through the same thing, but what if HE WON'T CHECK HER...what do I do.
adamdashawn 10 months ago
u a lil crazy...but no u not over reacting... and yea they are past the friendship boundaries
L302009 2 years ago
No offense Mr. Adams but when you said " I will cut a permanent smile on her face," You sounded psycho. I don't think you're over reacting Ijust think you're doin what ANY gay guy or girl or straight guy or lesbian would do.
nycbroadwayfan1990 2 years ago
Lol.. he said i cut deep... looka Xem gettin all hood
NewOrLeaNzbaby03 2 years ago
You believe in horoscopes...
dogeydo11 2 years ago
Ive never heard of someones "BESTFRIEND" being that close, my bestfriend dont even cut my food, or wash my back.
montgomeryboy92 2 years ago
...But then again I can understand how women can think that...it's the same idea gay men will often have towards straight men...sometimes it's just hard to accept that when you're attracted to someone. However, I don't agree with her tactics and she is definitely crossing boundaries. I'm just saying that maybe to her, as odd as this sounds...she doesn't see it as being wrong. But someone should definitely tell her! And I'm not saying she's innocent or anything, she KNOWS she shouldn't do it...
gmedespair 2 years ago
Oh hell no she is doing to much and yes there are women out there who think they can turn a gay man but if he's honestly gay and not bi then she doesnt have a chance anyway. there is a chance she may want him and that shower shit i dont care how long they've known each other she has seen his body from head to head if you know what i mean and thats a red flag.
88jl 2 years ago
You have to watch her, Iam sure something my happen berween them if she's going on vacation with him. Also you have to discuss that with her or him to l'et him or her know that you are the one his dating and that she's a little too close with him, you have to say something XEM but don't show anger, say something in a friendly ,soft way.
ciel222 2 years ago
you need to talk to her one on one and tell her watz good and to back down just a lil
cashmoney5565 2 years ago 2
she wants ya man Dude!!
maleek98 2 years ago
Part 2
I am an openly gay man. I had this friend in during high school. We heavily touched one another--physically- in public. She even scrubbed my back (in the shower!)! We also cuddled before. Neither of us has any romantic interest in each other.
You need to recognize the complexity of human interaction-the complexity of friends, sexuality, etc!
Now, since I just gave you some of advice....where's my food? No. j/k.
GOD Bless,
Cortez.
hotboiuofm 2 years ago
Xem,
I fill you are over re-acting. If you are so self-conscience that your man wants her over you, then you should not be in this relationship!
It is very hard to speak on this woman's intentions, when I am do not know her; has never spoken with her, or is not within her head.
As I watched the video, you sounded like you were jealous of their relationship! You should really relax.
hotboiuofm 2 years ago
waittt!! i had to pause the video when you said she went in the shower!! i can't.
i think that crosses the line. she's crazy.
jayetw 2 years ago
no you are not overeacting
I have been in that situation .....just friends my BUTT....too much too much, i actually always had an intuition and stuck with it, and he claimed it was nothing but chile boo i always had a feeling and still do lol
misstp90 2 years ago
My best friend and I are very close. His boyfriend is somewhat jealous, in my opinion, of our relationship because he FINDS was to keep us apart, which is dumb because I have NO romantic interest in him. Its sad because now it is awkward if we all hang out because I am always being cautious to not do things we've always done because I don't want to offend anyone. My advice would be to talk to them, let them know how you feel, but don't make him choose.
PS, I agree... showering is a bit much!
cnorthrop11 2 years ago
Ok! Coming from a sister. She is way over line. And, yes. She wants your man!
You better check your man and have HIM put her in her place!!!
knarigirl 2 years ago 16
Are you sure he's not bi?Just think about it.
Txguy39 2 years ago
cut a bitch!
(figuratively only of course)
lol
DARYND 2 years ago
Xem, it has been two mth's and i would nip that like right now...b/c you are doing nothing but first, wasting energy and time, if he does not tell her look that is not cool!! then he likes it... you need to have a REAL sit down with him and say look she has to stop. B/c if that keeps going on you WILLL cut her.. i got your back..stay up and know it will get better...love
cbran444 2 years ago
oh wow xem boo boo take her out the photo
damon8707 2 years ago
i've been on both sides of this coin Xem! yes she wants him and have set up in her mind to have him one of these days! a desperate woman is patient and can wait! we cancer men can be very laid back and charming and flirtatious! it will stop when he stops it. cancer men all luv attention and being pursued by other men and women. it will stop when he finally stops it.
nonpareil313 2 years ago
Xem, you are the threat. She wants you out of the way. She was there before you and she do want your man. She is being disrespectful. But tell me, Do your man put here in check. If he do not stop her then he is approving her actions. Talk to him about her. She is going to be a problem is she is not put in her place...Go and have this talk with your man...NOW....What is the history with them...have they ever...you know.....?
pimusique 2 years ago
I don't think you are wrong at all. If you have a feeling about it and the fact that she is so close, I would say something to him and tell her that this is my man now and I would just appreciate a little more respect. She is sooooo trippin at this point...you good b/c don't think I would let any male or female wash my mans back and cut up his food...it sounds like this heffa is CRAZY!
derekbroussard 2 years ago
No need to get violent, just let your man knows where you think his friend is coming from and that he needs to let her know that him being gay isn't a choice, and so if it's not you it will be another man, but definitely not her!
Kumtekmeon 2 years ago
Remember Xem, some women think they can 'straighten out' a gay man. So maybe your man's friend is of the opinion that being gay is a choice and so if she does her thing she will ultimately win him over. So you need to assess the situation and make the right move.
Kumtekmeon 2 years ago
Oh my. Well of course she's after him. She's a bit extreme.
I really don't think there's anything you can do about this situation except talk to your man about it and tell him to talk to her since you telling her something won't work.
You did mention him being a cancer and my sister is one so I know what kinda attitude your dealing with.Your gonna have to really get on him about this girl. She does seem OBSSESSED! LOL!!
elm1230 2 years ago
You are absolutely right she has issues and he "has to create some distance or else you have to take a step back from him." Sorry its the truth. They have to make room for you. With Cancers you have to get pushy they live in their shells.
sedecim 2 years ago
XEM, that chick needs HER OWN man and needs to get out of yours face! I bet she's single huh?
wordjunkiee 2 years ago
U need to get that in ck bruh
Godson38 2 years ago
xem ...she going to snatch up your man! lol better watch out!
TheRealAshland 2 years ago
i hear u man... she would be cut out the equation.... and milf42 be easy he is married lol
nygndanyc 2 years ago
Xem I have delt with this and the bitch had a baby for my man...When you have those gutt feelings inside of you its the truth!!!!!! Everything we need we already have...YOU already have the answers you need...You are very smart and being a gay man we be on it!!! just by nature..aint too much shit get past us..Hell anybody that dates men should be on it cause nigga's have a tendency to act up...Check her ASS and let that Ho kno You'll slap her ass to sleep!! That bitch can take a backseat to You!
jasechase21 2 years ago
I am a Cancer. You are right. With us you have to tell us....you us in our eyes and tell us...b/c he does not see how she is being...all on him....you have to put it in his face ...give him scenarios and talk to him. Don't come off ruff b/c as a cancer you will scare him away...it will be okay
roltonrobinson 2 years ago
SHE MAY BE....
Hmmm you have some people who like to take others people men/women , which is common. SOMETIMES , its not even about the person who they are close with. Xem she just may not like you...and know that she has a hold over your man and for thats exciting. She may be one of the eccentric types ....who just like to fuck with people because they know they can.
SpiritedAquarius 2 years ago
I have been through this before,Be ware...a bitch had my man..And we all know aint nuthin better than pussy but new pussy...Im gay and Females try to fuck me ALL the times...I would give that Ho the business!!!!
jasechase21 2 years ago
she doesn't want your man Xem. she has your man. don't be confused on this. their relationship was probably going on this way for a long while. the question you should ask your man isn't what's going on but what's he getting out of that kind of attention from someone who isn't you. She does this this because she can and she wants you to know that she can. and it makes her feel good have a sexually charged non sexual relationship with an unattainable man who lets her to do these things to him.
dancinj77 2 years ago
Wow , Hard to say, but hard to accept. But i fear it maybe true.
bigphat200 2 years ago
Im watching this video and it has like 2 minutes left... I couldnt wait to weigh in on this. Xem I dont even know where to begin, washing his back?? oh no.. there ARE lines as you say. Ok look, ordinarily I would have said you're over reacting but no love I believe you when you say she wants your man! So are YOU going to intercede and go visit him next month when he leaves town? This vid had so much to comment on, Im not gonna be able to fit everything. Xem take care of your business! Update us!
vdjdtx 2 years ago
I have been through this before...you need to have a serious talk with ole boy and explain that this is not sitting well with you. From hsi response to that convo a lot will be revealed... Good Luck
blknblue77 2 years ago
Secondly, you need to check your man because he could possibly be bisexual and actually be interested in her. Oh, and your teeth are really really pretty. Can I have them? ;)
SivvySiv 2 years ago
I suggest that she doesn't come with you on a date anymore.
SivvySiv 2 years ago
lol-I feel u Xem,I actually had a friend like that,she was doing that same stuff to me and my boifriend came to me because that made him uncomfortable,I just brushed it off because I didn't take it seriously,but it becomes an issue and effects the relationship,so she needs to be put in her place by your boifriend.
caramel2dabone 2 years ago
i dont think your over reacting i completely agree she too close for comfort and if she not taking ur suggestions of calmin her p*ssy then u need to let him know how u feel and tell him to keep his friend at a distance cuz its bothering u and if ur feelings really matter to him he should take it into consideration and make changes ... and she dont listen.. cut the b*tch lol
datboij06in 2 years ago
I'm so mad your equipped with the "blade" of a nail clipper...haha...too much.
BlueDice86 2 years ago
Question, why did you agree to go out so much with her tagging along anyway? or did she just show up? Did the two of you not care to be alone?
TheMakingsofMyself 2 years ago
Xem cut her ass!!! lol You are not overreacting, she is too close she needs to back the hell up. I went through it and I told her to back the hell up!!!
iMuSiK08 2 years ago
i think she's insecure and afraid she'll lose his friendship because of u...u kno how it do...a brutha gets w/ a dude, then drops friends...check this: i got a twist...my best girlfriend has another gay dude as a friend, and HE throws me shade whenever i come around...now, what the f*ck is that about!...LOL.
mikie1101 2 years ago
shes out of line starting with the feeding food... THE SHOWER THING IS A TRIP!!!!! thats a whoop that ass moment you need to put her in check and let her know wats up
dmr1018 2 years ago
You hit the nail on the head. She's crushing really hard on your man. She needs a man of her own.
1. This is not about you. This is about your man recognizing that as much as he enjoys the attention, it's not healthy.
She needs a man of her own.
2. Without knowing her, I'm sure she finds a way to alienate most if not of all of his other friends.
3. Be prepared for this not to end well, unless your man can see how this affects a man he's trying to get to know.
SHE NEEDS HER OWN MAN!
JOEBLACK36 2 years ago
u not ova reacting, dat shower thing is way ova da line! i wisha bitch would wash my girls back ill cut a hoe. dnt ignore it
ShortyFem314 2 years ago
Yeah, she doing the most. Let him AND HER know the deal. If you are going to be serious there has to be an OBVIOUSLY drawn line.
BJsongster 2 years ago
Man I been there. I checked my man REAL hard. Told him how I felt, and he stopped. You just gotta bring it to homeboy on some serious shit. He needs to draw a line. If he's really puttin ur needs first then all that shit she is accustomed to doing with him will stop, and he'll stand firm on it! Pleeze Don't Cut The Heifer! LOL
kyeirue 2 years ago
ima tell u this my g she wants him or they did some things already u feel me my g they is just 2 close my g but good luck wit that man ok i hope it work out 4 u but watch her my g 4real.
hollywood26hw 2 years ago
the bible says men should not lie with men
opinionthatmatters 2 years ago
Honey she gets it... she just dont give a damn... it is a competition honey... trust me... I have been there... she is only gonna get worst
mizrhee1 2 years ago
hey Xem
as a female with a male best friend i know that i can be obnoxious towards the guy that he's dating.its not that i want my best friend i was never attracted to him & i couldnt ever see myself in an intamate relationship w/him.or let alone get in the damn shower to wash his back....thats pushing the line... its more of a jealousy thing if nething she doesnt wanna be replaced. but watch her ass cuz the things that shes doing r not part of normal bestie behavior.
aprettykittyy08 2 years ago
sounds like you need to get "nivea" on her...lol..("don't mess with my man, I'ma gonna bring it to you")...but seriously Xem, have you expressed how you feel to your man, cause ultimately, I feel he need to tell her to chill out and draw the lines, cause with him being serious about you and seeing that you arent thrilled about that...he needs to take care of that sitaution...cause Im have beenint hat situation b4 Xem & it doesnt get better if you continues to go forward unchecked...much luv 2 ya
Kenovan07 2 years ago
Uh Uh, something aint right. Hopping in the shower to scrub his back oh hell no, and why she always the third wheel. She up to something, and he needs to tell her to chill.
Sernetta 2 years ago 2
you r overeacting there just friends thats how gay men befriend women they get close
opinionthatmatters 2 years ago
Oh no dat tht fish is n the way....you need to handle tht be4 it goes anyfurther
bob585582 2 years ago
u know she gon see this video lol
tdottle246 2 years ago
You'll cut a bitch lmfao!
JollyJosh1089 2 years ago
Xem!
Don't even bother with her, Your man is YOUR man. She needs to KOW when to clear off, and your man NEEDS to tell her (Not so harshly - Unless it's needed). Let her know who's running this! BUT DON'T CUT HER!!!!
MelkzStardust12 2 years ago
nah you're not and yes i have been in that situation
lillilmike 2 years ago
OH HELL NO! she is after yo man baby...put her in her place with the quickness.
TheOneofakind17 2 years ago
lol yess i have dealt when something like this but i asked u know the friend i pulled her aside and told her how i felt ..she then tells me that she is his and he is hers so the truth came out little did she know i had my cellphone recoreding the whole thing cause every time i came to my man he said no thats not the deal so i show him the edvidence and he delt with the rest she lucky i didnt handle her cause lord knows i did tryna take my man and till this day wee are still together for 3 year
tyshawn17 2 years ago
hahaha.
wow--
you put ol' 'milf' girl ALL the way out there.
but this is crazy.
you need address her AND him.
he needs to give her the heave-hoe.
because you shouldn't even FEEL like you have to compete with her for YOUR man.
and that 'blade' looks a lot like a fingernail file.
hahaha--
just sayin'.
venusasaboy90 2 years ago
don't cut her Xem! lol! but seriously, if ur instincts are tellin u sumthin is up chances are sumthin is up! That whole scrubbin his back thing is wild, my question is WHY IS HE LETTING HER DO THAT? Where they do that at? Becuz this is the first I've ever heard of best friends of the opposite sex being so close. I'm not sayin that things like that don't happen at all, BUUT idk about this one, trust ur gut, and make movements according to what ur spirit is tellin u to do!
TheOfficialAshPage 2 years ago
This sounds serious. Don't beat her up.
KamilyonEnterprise 2 years ago
Dont compete with this girl. If your man wants to be with you, he will and if your relationship is being hindered because of this "friend" than he will alter the situation so your comfertable with him but if not, you need to be out.
blackhb18 2 years ago
POOR UNFORTUNATE SOOOOOOOULLLLLLL
She will be hurt the most when he turns her down and tells her no.
Don't get upset, just bare with it until he lets her down easy and her face is smashed into pieces, then stomp on the damn pieces and let the bitch know, lol
my bad I got carried away, what I would do is let my man know that it seems weird to me and disturbs me and see what he does.
Then I would pray about it and try to see what happens, I am care free so.....
Much Love Boo
James P.
holyandannointed 2 years ago
HELL NO in the shower
jonescan88 2 years ago
How come he hasnt shut it down? Sounds like he is enjoying this. So maybe he needs to be the one to shut it down
Kengikat 2 years ago
wow, u certainly are not over reacting that girl wants your man, and she is trying to run u, if thats who u want, roll up your sleeves and show that bitch she can't compete with u. In the Bahamas we use to say in situations like this, "u got roach on ya bread." So smash that crumb snatching heifer and keep it moving. Sorry I got a little caught up, lol. Love your videos by the way.
ewingboyz 2 years ago
I love that Euphemism, may I have permission to use it?
smash that crumb snatching heifer and keep it moving, lol
holyandannointed 2 years ago 2
sure, lol
ewingboyz 2 years ago
She does want your man,but i think you should pity her more,than be angered by it.
Afterall she is persuing a gay man,and a TAKEN gay man at that.
Poor girl.
jaided79 2 years ago
I pity her as well.
holyandannointed 2 years ago
you ain't overreactin at all, that chick wants your man and she needs to stop what she do'in cus she kno she wrong.
ajbigave2233 2 years ago
a woman cant compete with a gay man sweetie just take control. you got him for a reason cause if so he would have just been with her there is something special about u to him so stand your ground and tell her crazy ass to fall back lol keep up the good work
tysonuk20 2 years ago
I agree.
josephjmg18 2 years ago
you are not i am in that situation right now! you are so right you have to follow ur gut
bat232000 2 years ago
sounds like you fallin for this dude man...but yea my ex had a best friend who seemed to always be around.nothin sexual (for wat I knew) but they were still pretty close..all you can really do is sleep with one eye open and voice ya concerns..remember closed mouths dont get fed..
ray0703 2 years ago
lmao funny when ut alkin about cutin her
imanid50dee 2 years ago
As everyone else has stated; you need to keep an eye on this woman. Also, I would keep the other eye on ya dude. You have talked to him and voiced your concerns. He states its nothing. I would be worried as ya guy has done nothing to reassure you the friendship is harmless. He may really like the attention he's getting!
P.S. the shower "thing" is way overboard!
geminimalcolm 2 years ago
Oh hell no!! Watch her ass!!!!! She is doing the most and that is disrespectful.
missjhia 2 years ago
You should edit the cutting part out b4 she cuts herself and says you did it..... she would have proof too ( this video . I dont want them to lock u up! lol
djnions 2 years ago
Yeah... she wants him.
Siiren 2 years ago
P.S. i love you man, but thats just funny as hell to me...
amon8959 2 years ago
LOL..LOLLLLL... but i do think cutting her is a bit much......<.< dont know if u wanna risk it but y not be serious about the situation in trontof both of them.. make it so that your dude cant just shrug it off and that bitc* cant manipulate the situation. u kno....
amon8959 2 years ago
She is a "" hag. You know what I mean. As long as she initiates it. When HE starts saying he wants her to scrub his back, join him on a trip upon HIS invite (not hers), or when they get two tickets to a show without you, then there is a problem. Also you need to address her.
romeovision2006 2 years ago