Same Gender Weddings in Iowa

[70Mack]

There is PLENTY of evidence that says the opposit.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Mack, that is simply not true. "Results of research to date suggest that children of lesbian and gay parents have positive relationships with peers and that their relationships with adults of both sexes are also satisfactory. The picture of lesbian mothers' children that emerges is one of general engagement in social life with peers, with fathers, with grandparents, and with mothers' adult friends-both male and female, both heterosexual and homosexual.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Fears about children of lesbians and gay men being sexually abused by adults, ostracized by peers, or isolated in single-sex lesbian or gay communities have received no support from the results of existing research."

[70Mack]

We both know the truth,the PC brigaid will stoop to the lowest depths to make their agenda seem acceptable to the common man and woman.Nothing is going too far for them and if you disagree with then then you have labels put on you this or that or that old chest nut of its not appropriate comes out.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Mack, you can't refute the evidence, so you fall back on that? Look, you're certainly entitled to your opinion, but your opinion should not be the basis for public policy when it is not supported by evidence. The fact remains that gay and lesbian couples are going to have children whether you like it or not, and it's better for those children to have legally married parents so they can have the same protections and benefits as children of heterosexual couples.

[70Mack]

A marriage is between a man and a woman,it is a partnership between a man and woman to bring forth children.The above is a civil partnership,not a marriage.

[mgoss85]

look up the definition in websters dictionary. it does not say just between a man and a woman. what your talking about is what you learned in sunday school. guess what? im jewish...stop using biblical ideology to dictate my life! i dont even know you.....grow up! there are over 1,000 right associated with marriage, denying millions of americans these rights is UNCONSTITUTIONAL!!!

[70Mack]

Its not a marriage,a marriage is between a man and a woman,the above is a civil partnership.Best of luck with it.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Mack, you don't need to have kids to be married. Childless couples get married all the time. Besides, plenty of gay couples do have kids! My parents are gay and they've got three children.

[70Mack]

That may be so but that does not make it ideal or comparable to a Man and a Woman.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Mack, that's your opinion. There's plenty of evidence that gay couples are just as capable of providing an ideal home as straight couples. The quality of a person's parenting doesn't depend on their sexual orientation. It has to do with their love and commitment and dedication to the child. Studies have shown that children raised by gay and lesbian parents turn out just as well as children raised by straight parents, so I'd say it's certainly a comparable situation.

[70Mack]

And there is plenty of evidence to otherwise too,aswell as common sence tells you oyherwise.We both know studies can be made to show what ever the person doing the study pretty much wants.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Mack, no, there is no evidence to the contrary. There have been many, many dozens of studies conducted on children of gay parents since the 1970s, and they *all* show that there is no harm or disadvantage whatsoever. Google "APA gay parents" for details.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Direct quote from the APA: "In summary, there is no evidence to suggest that lesbian women or gay men are unfit to be parents or that psychosocial development among children of lesbian women or gay men is compromised relative to that among offspring of heterosexual parents. Not a single study has found children of lesbian or gay parents to be disadvantaged in any significant respect relative to children of heterosexual parents.

[rainbowheartgirl]

Indeed, the evidence to date suggests that home environments provided by lesbian and gay parents are as likely as those provided by heterosexual parents to support and enable children's psychosocial growth."