Seeing Friends for who they ARE..

[lambertlover19]

Chris, I love my life and my life is good but it would be better if I had a friend like you. :)

[speedofpee]

CAN I BE YOUR FRIEND?

[Britneybtchforever]

Atleast you're'' yourself and take friendships, etc. seriously. Not many people do.

[charlzooo]

EVERY FUCKING VIDEO U HAVE MADE IS WONDERFUL! SPEAK THE TRUTH THIS VIDEO GIVES ME STRENGHT

[BloodStorm1991]

So true, I learned that from my friend Ben, That bitch is a tell it to your face... well bitch, lol but I like it because it helped me get over shit real fast, and I'm the same way for him, mmmhm I love it.

[lrmanning725]

I am fairly new to your video's. I remember when the "Brittney" video first came out. But after watching your video's today, you come across as a very intuitive person (who have a certain level of Bitchy-ness of course...by your words, not mine :)(no hate honest) I may not agree with everything that you believe in, but I admire the person with-in you and only wish you the best. You've given me pause for thought, and in a good way. Plus you are very talented from what I heard in your song!

[TheJeffhero]

Chris honestly your awesome I'm the same way I'm gay and hate when ppl get all weird when I'm w my partner n all that shit like this is me fuk u

[1011kay]

Great Advice you are amazing

[khyeisasmilechild]

even though is a stupid there is some truth in this.

not alot though but some.

hes still crazy

[vanityfudge38]

Passionate intelegent bitch :)

[nikkigetsguys]

Great advice!

[rifecoolaid69]

YOURE BEAUTIFUL. -3

[terriaisachipmunk]

I love this video :)) great advice :)

[MrsXxBarbiexX]

I laa yhu bxtch! XD hehe

[MsTooLazyToMakeAName]

ha i love that "sweet cuddle bunny"

[Chrystalxlopez]

Didn't your momma ever tell you to look for the good in people? Thats what your friends are clearly doing. Making an effort to stay your friend even if you're a bitch because they actually like you.

[doodlebug0001]

@Chrystalxlopez that is soo true

[kimmyfreak200]

its the opposite for me they obsess over the bad, where i live all people do is obsess over the differences while simply ignoring similarities and the good in me.... its sad

[OrangeChickhen]

Is this about Danny?

[glitterprincess857]

lol "you became friends with a bitch" :P

[anaivh0128]

Ur in ur kitchen

[ternar]

@anaivh0128

well he is a female... lol he know his place, lol I'm a chick too I thought it would be funny... sorry

[enemystinkbug]

so true!

[tiffyj85]

Do you mean love you unconditionally, and that goes for being ok with everything about that person even the bad???

[MonacoBlast]

Bad hair day?

[dannyrudy02]

@MonacoBlast Yes.

[WindIove]

Yes.

[siesie523]

You look really pretty in this video :)

[laviniawantspeace]

Honey... U are not as big of a bitch as you think you are. And, face it, we love that bitch.

[SuperHairyDick]

Oh fuck...

[jrdkitty]

i know your are so awsome and right

[IMakeEpicSAMmiches]

I think we would get along well.

[maddiluvsJohnnyDepp]

Oh my god I love you.

[jruizdemena]

yes! at the beginig relationships are more respectful, what a sad paradox

[facejobby]

NO I HAVENT NO NO NEVER, THAT WOULDN'T EVER HAPPEN, DON'T BE SILLY. MASSIVE SILLY BILLY, YOU ARE A NOT 4RIGHT PERSON.

[Msbtrlover1]

well if your being a bitch to your friends your not a real friend

[Mrbrightside976]

@Msbtrlover1 There is a difference between being a "bitch" to someone and telling them how it is. Would you prefer a friend who lies to you to spare your feelings or someone who is going to tell you the truth whenever.

[muzzfuzz488]

wow i wonder whaqt he looks like whithout dat makeup and all dat

[jasiragusa]

ture dat gf

[orcfeseda]

353 people need real friends......

[blackcherryglitter]

@ShimmyKimmy90 - me too! i have the EXACT same headache and they wonder why my "bitter side" is around more then my "sweet side" lol

[ShimmyKimmy90]

OMG! I can relate. That's exactly how my friends are.

[itsjojovan]

idk y it has to be that bluntly put but ok

[Amme4567]

@itsjojovan This was stated SEVERAL times in the video; "I am a tell-it-how-it-is kind of person".

[itsjojovan]

@Amme4567 lol sorry i dont recall asking for your input, thanx though ill remember next time to accept the bitchyness and closed-mindedness of a "real" person that chris is :)

[toastandJAMMMMMM]

I like everything about you Chris. Your funny and smart. :) I bet your a fun person to hang out with. ^_^

[PumpkinMozie]

I agree with this video. When my sister died, I actually wrote a eulogy saying similar things...it pissed me off that everyone was saying that she was such a sweet, loving, caring, blah blah blah and I just got up to the podium and stated all the things I used to dislike about my sister, and why those faults made her such a f*cking awesome person. I said, "Only remembering the good in her is like deleting half of who she was." I hope I got through to people. Love others for ALL that they are.

[IxionForte]

Please go die somewhere where nobody will find you and have to smell your corpse and the shit release from where it's packed up your asshole.

[orcfeseda]

@IxionForte Please go die in your moms womg again.. Why did you bother coming back to life? Oh right.. Your mom wanted to kill you again with a double dose of Cellcepts....

[babygurl20007]

if you dont like something about your friend get over it lol

[vicnsteve]

I've had this happen to me...20yr + bestfriends and it ends over a stupid ffin game? I don't understand it

[SuperJennie]

So true love

[sammi11042]

yet again this is a video that i really like because its all true and i can be a bitch to and when i am being one i would want my friend to tell me instead of sit there and take it because at one point they are going to just leave and not exept you for who you are because most of the time i am nice but i speak my mind and i am not afraid to and when im hurting their feelings they need to let me know.....good video by the way like your shirt

[NotsoxPosiSarah]

Sooo true! Chris your so legit ;]

[PassionateGoth]

I feel if your gonna make me out to what you wish I was, and ignore ME; both good and bad....you can't handle me being your friend. It's that simple.

[ItsSarah100]

this actually isn't bad advice,

[sneakysqwurts]

i think you should work on your lisp. not get rid of it just make it a little less.... fake again constructive criticism i love you chris

[sky2fire]

@sneakysqwurts it's the quality of the video or the video editing software, 100%... I made a video with Pinnacle once and I sounded very similar, like I had a lisp. He doesn't have a lisp in real life. If you love him, you should watch other vids and you'll see he's not lispy like this!

[Tamakaria]

roflllll... see the bitch in me hehee -hair flip-

[slut320]

yeah ur sooo right! :D ily

[Uhthenuh]

Trust me hun, we KNOW your a bitch!

<3

[mclovin6731435750]

so true oh so true

[TheJayAnne]

very well said. i applaud you!

[ABRAXIS]

Like you're a man?

[abbey1barnett1]

true no lie you r smart you know things that we need to know :)

[abbey1barnett1]

true 

[smexylexy321]

ok i do like chris crocker

i thnk he is brave 2 say the thngs he says

and i like kate gosslin

but they look so so so so similar

[dagayle06]

you made a good point

[spatiality]

Every sense Kate Gosslyn got her hair extensions I can't stop seeing Chris Crocker.

[mannythreefour]

LOL the hair flip. THE hair flip.

[Broken4goodnow]

It's amazing you look like lindsay lohan

[Xscenelaura]

this ones faking chris still

[xxChayLaidigxx]

Meow.

[Crytiqal]

Wait? is this person giving US psychological intel? lol, he/she can't even make up his own mind

[peytonmariesawyer23]

this is my life

[PassionateGoth]

I feel the same way, wether its a bf/gf relationship or a frienship. If you can't see me for all of me, or just make up this persona about me in your head; then you simply are a waste of my time. Don't ignore the fact that I'm as stubborn as dried dog shit!!!! Or that I get easly annoyed at times. The good and the bad is what makes me who I am, a whole person.

[momodaawesome]

I LIKE YOUR DRESS!!! American Apparel? 

[SNBeall38]

...I love you for this.

[ImJayBurrell]

I totally agree with this... I don't get why people forget who they are

[LeeJonesLuvsU]

"See all of me or see nothing." PERFECT! You hit the nail on the head.

[itsmegannlouise]

I see what you are saying ;)

You give good advice (:

This happens to me aswell .

[iCLoaiza]

"Hello every one" *in a gay voice* SHUT UP FAGGOT!!

[FakeTatoosForYourMom]

Heres the simple solution; Tell them to go fuck themselves.

Thumbs up for shortcuts!

[vincelovemarkdalton]

I don't think that you can over analyze anything! It's a proof of intelligence!

[widndn]

You just really over analize everything, which makes life very difficult for you.

[Monkeycripler]

wow

[smurfshanker58]

gayyyyyyyyyy

[NONPOINT420]

Wow, this happens to me a lot when I'm friends with people. They freaking know exactly the type of person you are, claim to be fine with who you are and how you are....they later down the line it's like "stop being this stop acting like that and be more this" .....wtf I didn't become friends with you so I can be a puppet that pleases you.....oh and don't even try telling them things you see about their character cause they'll deny that sh@t.

[Bairindo]

did he get a full sex change or a sex changed face?

[JamesParker96]

@Bairindo I think a full but idk

[EGGZiX]

@Bairindo He just has a good chick-face o.-

[passionxxx28]

@Bairindo u prob know now but he didnt get a full sex change hes just feeling out his feminine side hes not ready to fully change yet

[jordybug2jee]

your a fucking ASSHOLE, who is a bitch to their friends get over yourself

[Siixy66]

Stop being a bitch, or don't have any friends at all.

[Paladin675]

u have friends?

wow i am amazed

[shashu101]

my story exactly right now !!!!

[95kittykat95]

ummm.... did you get in like a big fight with all your friends???? yea i hate when that hapens

[sweetgingerbread]

ooo boi! you will go through friends through out ur life.... it happens when ur young... I myself.. speaking from experience, only have 1 friends from my past and newer friends... all the loosers and people who don't know you by now will slowly disapear.. and the real ones will stand close... and you may make new Real Friends later in life... .. remember friendship shouldn't be hard work... :)

[Tixa17042]

@sweetgingerbread you're so right :)

[tinkacooper]

What's up?

[silenthillmaster755]

i wish my ex bff would have seen this...we talked on the phone for 3 hours a day, and suddenly she started ignornig me and reported to the police i was harrasing her, people asked her what happened she said i was to "glamourous" or something...okay thats me, youve known me for a year you should have known im bossy and annoying and i care about how i look...people suck Chris!

[pubesinabag]

thats an AA dress, love it ! :D

[HyoukyoNoSora]

I'm the kind of person that doesn't see bitchy-ness or whatever as something bad or good if I really care about the person... I just see it as one of their traits.... but, I do get it when my close friend doesn't really get somethings... 'cause I normally always smile and laugh and only EVER get angry and stop smiling at someone I trust and love enough... so it's kind of funny when we are amongst people and I have a huge grin on my face and am glaring daggers at her in a way only she notices. xD

[superduperadelynn]

Well, next time I feel that way about one of my friends, I'm so sending them this video.

The ending would be prefect. :)

[xiHartSkittlez]

Omfg you'll never be better than johnnyboyxo your not even that pretty. :(

[1milliondollers]

@xiHartSkittlez : i agree

[Li8aGun92]

HAH!! You speak the truth! I have the same mental attitude.

[TheSecretLifeOfBees1]

You should let us see what yur wearing cuz you always have such nice clothes on...no lie lmaooo!!!!

[TheToriiBlaze]

you and I are alot of like:]

[madz3333]

i don't get anything you ever say, but i can't stop watching you.

[DJflapjackz]

Your shirt is gorgeous, Chris, you look sexy!

[alligtr]

I agree with the "cherry picking" thing. I had a really close friend who just randomly stopped being friends for no reason or explaination at all. She didn't even say she didn't want to be friends. She pretty much made me suffer by ignoring and ditching me. She made new friend aka the "popular" kids in school. Guess she expected me to be cool and popular. Sorry Hun, I'm me and I'm not gonna change for you. I'm glad she isn't in my life anymore...

[beebuz18]

and thats a GUY!!?!?!?!

[MusicIsALifeTime]

amen!

[missjestine16]

i think ur probably prettier then natural born chicks, haha!!

[phoenixfira]

How funny. your a bitch to them and they still hang with you. what does that show for their friendship, huh? Sounds like their good friends to you, because if I was your friend, I would be like, " see ya skank " in the first 3 minutes of meeting you. Cherish the fact that they put up with the bitch in you to begin with, because I highly doubt most people would put up with you to begin with.

[ichelleray]

i know EXACTLY what you're talking about. my friend and i got into a fight a month ago about something i did. i didn't think she would insult me the way she did. she was judging me and she was proud of it. she had no idea that what she said hurt me very deeply. we're okay now, but i'll never forget that fight and nothing she said was going to change me because i wasn't doing anything wrong. it's funny how she calls herself liberal but sometimes she can be a conservative bitch sometimes.

[lamb8390]

I did evaluate a 20 + friendship, and how she sucked up tons of personal info about me, acting like the whole time she was a "good" friend, when all along she was storing it up like a micro chip to turn it all around to make me look like a bad person. My lows were her highs. After years of put downs, name calling, etc. I finally saw how toxic she really was. Glad and soooo much happier without her.

[zaherneket]

Your an idiot dude ! Do you really think when world war 3 comes around YOU and everybody like YOU are the first to die. remember that the next time your sucking cock.

[videofreakboy91]

@zaherneket why? cuz they tell it like it is? and what duz sucking cock have to do with anything? ur acting like only gay men do it.... uh hello straight women do it to!

[orducksrosebowl09]

U were never loved as a cold were u

[lifesgoodpeep]

I think u should get a sex change dont u want to be a girl

[bananenalarm]

you´re so right!!

[Paulie88]

I'd totally suck this chick's cock.

[eaglestriker24]

When you fight, your blood heats and you say things that you don't mean!

you will never know who you really are, let's be honest - you're a freak, if you are a tell it how it is person... see what you are...

you're a total mutant

[msraymond]

faggott ass bitch!!!

[ZinahDelizia]

The bitch in me, lol. I love you :D

[seizetoday22]

All of my friends have flaws and I love them all. It's about accepting them for who they are and all of them, you can pick at them, it won't change. I was JUST talking to one of my friends earlier about this. He says he's a bad friend and walks out on people and just... This horrible person when really... I love him for who he is and I accept his ways. Whatever he wants to change about himself is all on him and I support him. I agree 100%.

[katelynnmonroe]

so so true! <3 my friend is that way too, she only sees the nice in me and when im a bitch she gets so defensive, when she has seen that side of me before and she looks past it. I may seem all sweet and innocent, but i can be cold, harsh and an all over bitch

[theQUEENdiamond1]

i love you!!!

[JamiiLouLou]

Oh how I love you chris, so wise and so beautiful.

[MrBarcaSoccer]

is this a guy or girl....or a tranny?

[omunique101]

@MrBarcaSoccer its a qirl .

[SolviasSex86]

omg! i am so glad you made this video! I AGREEEEEEE! btw, i love the shirt. &&ily. <3

[makeupforeverr3]

your hair looks really pretty there (:

[mizzshorty2300]

this so true wow how true

[xx4evaxx100]

i watch ur videoz wen im sad or tired nd wow u just make EVERYTHING sooo much better!!!!!!!!!!!!! ilu chris!!

[TheHaterzmakemefamou]

i love ur videos u always no the right thing to say

[MissNataliiie]

IS your dress from American Apperal ?

Its cuuute !

PLUS agrreeed

[kategoestocollege]

I am a psychotherapist who is also a real human being. My daughter showed me your videos and I want to say to you Chris that you are Amazing and i really hope you continue your good work . . . . . thank you so much

[Babygir12494]

I agrree me n my bff went thru tht alot for awhile now we accept each other all round our attitudes n so do all my friendz

[MissEmoAsian]

EXACTLY

[TheVictoriaTiffany]

I just wanted to see if it might be an angel to vote for my best friend on Facebook. She namely joined See and Hear's Summer Star. And she needs your vote:) Hope you can be nice to vote for her ...

[visionimagify]

KILL ME NOW OH LORD!

[031004]

haha you became friends with a bitch, you didnt become friends with a sweet cuddle bunny. i like that

[xnsxblade]

is heshe a he or a she or a shemale. or "special".

[SilkroadddGM]

he is realiy gay omg i hope i see hem in Realiy live to ask hem why you do that ? why you be like gay ? to be start ? lol you are ( i don't know what is you )

i know he have bad live so you need to be gay to be star and get money when ane one Sleap with you ! where is your fother and you mother ! if i will say B1tch i will say it for you famliy ! you know why ? you fother and mother help you to be gay ! you can't stay alive you will die from ane one hate you pm me i want Speak with you .

[AmonLovesMona]

GAY!

[EskimoErica]

Do freinds really last forever?

[tighemyshoe]

dude i totally agree. my best friend, i call her my sister is a MAJOR FUCKING BITCH!! but i love her therefore i accept it. plus u cant ignore it wit her. u either accept it or u dont.. and i do ;]

[simplybrunetteful]

that is a really good advice... I was thinking about it when you were talking then... and I do tend to ignore parts of my friends personality....

[NiikkiiFuckinMurderr]

fucking stunning chris :333

[TheCassandraDenali]

I thought he was a girl for a second

[fchs1231]

i'll be your friend!!!

[megzerz92]

you look nice in this video...

[2016ac]

I AGREE AND YOU LOOK VERY VERY VERY SEXY IN THIS VID

[TheLadyLion24]

I compeletly relate to this :)

[UndeadMe683]

eww your a guy thats fucking gross

[subarianEra]

@UndeadMe683 ew, you're a closed minded person. ew, so unattractive!

[BobMarley0neLove]

lol like right one dude said see half of a face i thought dam this dude looks like a chick on the top half of his face but his chin throws shit off.

[TheRawrIloveyouboo]

wow,, thank you so muchhh for putting this video upp(: me and my "best" friend are in a huge fightt....and i need some advicee.:/

[HannahBaybeeh96]

i totaly agree [:

[caboboys5]

Wanna makeout

[bigfrmrb]

@caboboys5 Wtf hahahhhaahah

[mandymccurley]

Hey i so know friends should be friends no matter what... i want unconditional love or no love at all!! Right?? I am me and if people dont like me or love me because of it then oh well, they can get down the road somewhere.

LOVE YOU FOR THESE VIDEOS! Amanda McCurley

[xtishiix]

Just lost a friend for this exact reason... She thought out of nowhere I would decide to stop hating one of my arch nemesis' because she became friends with the bitch. FUCK. THAT. I hate who I hate and I won't change a damn thing. Love you, Chris.

[wendyXpeggyXpancho]

(S)he's a guy... You can tell by her/his hands... O-O.

[ilovesos3611]

I luv u Chris crocker u give the best advise and ur FUNNY

[iEpicTroll]

@ilovesos3611 ya love godzilla to!

"sweet cuddle bunny" tehehehe :3

i am NOT good with bitchs cuz i am not one o.o"

its hard being a bitch ;D