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  • I just got out of a relationship and I'm so lost. This video is so helpful though. Thank you and I really hope that I can deal with this as well as you did. And I'm sure even as of right now it still hurts to not know why or understand why you're not with each other. Or atleast I know that's how I feel. It's harder and more confusing than anything I've ever gone through in my life...I just miss the way things used to be...and I want them to be back to normal..but I don't think that will happen.

  • I've come to realize that relationships are not built on love, but instead on subsconscious needs. These needs are forever changing, and its nature way of making sure we keep looking for those that bring out the best of us. Our souls are meant to make another glow. Love is just the reward our hearts give us for finding them.

    Thus love is not something you win, and keep forever. Love is something you find, and chase forever.

    And its in that spirit we all will.

    Shine on everyone. <3

  • thumbs up for another video like this about getting over heartbreak!

  • "and stuff"

    

  • You're just an incredible person! :) God bless you!! ♥♥

  • JUST STFU!

  • @omg101man get the fuck out? fucking idiot.

  • what happened exactly? be strong<3

  • You are truly amazing (: <3

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  • she never says anything about sex in here.....?

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  • Sounds like he wanted to " Get it in "

  • Are you  christian girl Megan? It would really suprise me if your not. You seem so sweet and like you really are christain.

  • @booklover4ever96 I've been wondering the same thing :D

  • Your such a good talker megan! Please check out my new channel<3.

  • you are amazing. that is all.

  • i am going through the same thing pretty much. this really helped me.<3

  • @SweetheartCynthia Same<3

  • @hellomynamesawesome What's the problem with you? How can you be so mean with someone while they were having a hard time? What kind of person are you? Don't get a heart? Think before saying sth cause that was just really mean, if you can't say anything nice then just don't comment, go away and leave her alone

  • I am going through something kinda like that, umm I'm 11 and I have already had my 1st love, we broke up 2 months ago and my heart is still aching. He found a note about how I felt and he said he does not love me and that maybe I need to forget about him. And he told me to listen to space bound by eminem but I love him and I can't get over him. His name was Brett

  • My heart goes out to you in this video I had a hard brake up about the same time as this video and now looking back it was the best thing today I dont think people should be putting do much hate comments on this video if you dot like his amazing and talented girl don't watch her videos there's no need too need rude and mean Megan you are amazing girl from the videos that I watch :)

  • @hellomynamesawesome what's wrong with you?! what is your problem?! How can you be so mean?

  • @hellomynamesawesome that isn't very nice

  • @hellomynamesawesome that had to be the worst comment i read in my entire life. shes hurt and is mature enough to tell us all that we are special and all deserve love, and you leave comments like that? people like you sicken me, grow up.

  • This made me cry. You really know how to be a great friend even if u are over the Internet. You have really helped me through my hard time-3 Thank you

  • @MsRadish17 well said!:)

  • You are amazing.

  • i only ever watched her beauty channel and although i liked her i thought she came across a bit spoilt but nice lol but after watching this i see that she is such a genuine girl!! well done for keeping to your morals!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • When you started crying, I started crying because I could feel your pain because that is what I am going through now :/

  • Thank you. I was broken up with about two weeks ago and I felt so bad but I am slowly getting stronger. I am trying to learn more about myself and be happier. It was two years and now I just need to learn how to deal with being alone. :/

  • I'm 24, and going through a breakup, and you've inspired me! You are so right. Some people are just wrong for us, but we learn so much from being with them, that we are better equipped to find the right person. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, it just means that you won't settle for less than you deserve. <3

  • You're such an inspiration to all ages! You're right that you shouldn't be ashamed to share your life, because everyone respects you and loves your advice and videos. You're a big help to all girls in need of this kind of advice, it's amazing. Keep making these amazing videos and express yourself when you're sad. Trust me, many youtube viewers will cheer you up. I'm very sorry for what you're going through, and I hope things get better <3 Love you, From (not gonna say the city) Ontario Canada :)

  • love u megan much love from austria <3

  • and your beautiful!

  • i love you <3

  • Your sooo beautiful inside and out, i JUST subscribed and i am totaly 1hundred percent your biggest fan allready!! LUV FROM KANSAS!

  • Megan, youre just a great person. youre really an inspiration to so many people and you give great advice. youre definately my favorite youtuber and i love to watch your videos, especially these kinds because i can relate to them so much and i can relate to you and your situation and it feels good to know im not alone in the situations i go through too. after watching a couple of your videos i really got a better view on life and i just wanna say thanks :)

  • Very sweet girl. You'll definitely find someone who will respect your morals and values.

  • we have the same necklase lol my x boyfriend gave it to me

  • You are very mature and everything you said I agree with 110%. At 31 years old I can honestly say I know quite a few couples who have been together since high school and they are some of the happiest I know. So "young love" is very much real. And as you get older breakups don't get any easier. But letting go of the wrong person allows you more time to find the right person.

  • I'm 15, and Megan really showed me what i have to stand for and what i have to do if i don't want to lose my self-worthy and my morals. She's on of rare girls who i know that did this, and i think that's mostly cause she has self-respect and she knows that Justin can find lots of girls to have sex with, but non of them is going to be like her. She's always gonna have a whole lot of respect and admiring in his eyes. :) Go Megan <3

  • this made me cry! <3

  • Thank you so much megan :( <3

  • going thought a break up is really tough. i just broke up with my gf the other day. i feel lost with out her. i feel like i have no one. no idea what to do.....

  • U r so right of people don't except u 4 who u r then leave :)

  • you're still wearing his necklace in this video? :/

  • Wow I can't believe you didn't give your virginity to Justin, what you had was pure love..

  • @IlanIvasko she obviously didnt feel ready?

  • was this about justin??

  • can i have your facebook because i really need your help and i can honestly relate to your situation because i am living it right now. i lived what your living right NOW!!!! .please contact me on facebook under alcesar14@hotmail.com!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • It's ok boyfriends are fun to have but sometimes there kinda not as caring as they need to be it's ok

  • u care about others 2 much!! think abt urself 4 once!!! <3

  • Everyone should love you Megan, you're beautiful inside and out! This is sad news too, because i thought Justin and Megan were perfect together <3 :)

  • Never stop making videos Meghan. You're amazing. Everyone is going to have a tough time in their life and you will get through it. I think everyone can see that you are a very smart girl and you know what you're doing. I look up to you. You're definately one of my Idols. Never give up. It gets better.

  • BRAVO MEGAN! You go right on w/your personal beliefs & morals. If more young women did as you are doing, we wouldn't have so many screwed up kids today, STD's raging among them, unwanted pregnancies, abortions & babies trying to raise babies. I agree w/ColormeCaitlan. Your parents have done right by you. Too bad so many others fail. You're 'rich' in areas, where riches really count.

    Stay strong & stand firm. You're a great example for many w/o any moral compass. Be richly Blessed, Always!

  • what did those girls do to her, bens and justins accnt

  • megan, youre beautiful inside and out. I feel like i can truly relate to you and that you are a friend. thank you for being so incredibly amazing. you're a super strong girl and this video took my breath away <3 stay strong cuz we do love you!

  • She is so wise at such a young age! I can't believe she is only 16.

  • I aprericate that you stand up for what you believe in yaaaaayy for Meaghan

    Haha people exapect to learn about makeup but truly they gain a friend ;) so proud

    Not tryin to pry but can we here about your new bf? People are guessing

  • Thank you for sharing and being so genuine. You are really making a difference by helping people going through similar circumstances. I am glad you are doing well. I was sad when I realized you and Justin broke up--but seeing this video makes me feel better--like people can feel better and do better and get over heart break. More importantly, I also realize that you have GREAT integrity and will not compromise your values. You are an amazing person.

  • she'sstill wearing the necklace that he gave her for their one year

  • those two lovebirds were perfect for each other but just like how aria says in pretty little liars "all good things must come to an end".

  • So, i like made a youtube, account just to talk to you , im going through a three years break up , we were together for three years, & i feel like my lifes over, & you give me hope<3

  • In this video a really cute girl talks about relationships.

    ...as if a cute girl's experience will be anything like other people's experiences.

    She hasn't got a clue.

  • @chunksloth Uhm clearly she does. She just made a very helpful video. I dont think you have a clue. Cute people go through hard times to? Dumbass...

  • this is the best video ever, i am going through a breakup and i watch this every day it makes me happier and helps me to go on, my heart goes out to every one in this situation too, but remember friends never leave so NEVER change for anyone be yourself and u wil find someone that love you exactly like that!

  • This is great. I am currently going thru a break up to on a relationship of almost 2 years too. I'm really glad to see this video. Today I hope you're much better and in a couple months I hope to keep moving on.

  • you are probably the most mature 16 year old ever..

  • @08mellbaby you know her best friend JUST died.  on xmas. Shes so mature about it too. Im so proud of her. Im 16 and i would be so reckless right now.

  • you are sooooo smart and wisdomis for your age. never stop being who you are because even though i dont know you personally, i do know that "real" girls like you are extreamly hard to find these days.

  • I think you were right in standing by your beliefs but I also understand his thinking as a young guy who feels ready to experience sex...Both of you have a right to your beliefs.

  • is she crying?

  • I am so sorry for you. even though this is old i know it still probably hurts

  • After over a year with deep feelings it's reasonable to expect your partner to want to have sex. Doesn't mean they HAVE to of course, but he's not an ass for wanting to.

  • You're so beyond your years. Thanks for being awesome.

  • You know what Megan, this made you stronger. I can tell even by watching your videos. Good for you that you had the strength and self respect to stick to your own morals. Your viewers love you. <3

  • Who gives a crap about this girl's top. She's 16! She actually KNOWS her morals and boundaries and refused to compromise herself. Girls at 16 shouldn't even have to say "no, I don't want to have sex." Maybe her parents are well off or "rich" but it's apparent that they did SOMETHING right if she had the pride to stand up for her beliefs and say no. THAT is good parenting. Not a lot of girls these days have that kind of moral compass already established. I applaud her.

  • @ColormeCaitlan If you dress like a slut and act like a slut, people will think your a slut. Not calling her a slut, im calling her out for portraying herself wrong to guys. i dont applaud her. I applaud the girls who say "before we start dating any farther,i need to tell you im not going to have sex with you."Any girl that goes into a highschool relationship thinking he wont want sex is immature and naive. She definitely had it coming. Doesnt mean she deserved it, but she shouldve known better.

  • @9SweetiePie7 you're a dumb bitch

  • @ColormeCaitlan I 100% support your reasoning.

  • ahhh this made me cry. just got out of a 2 year relationship, first time I was in love too! it gets better, I promise(: stay strong girl! -3

  • Oh Megan, I understand exactly what you were going through. Regardless of what people say about young love, I feel like first love is one of the most real things this world has to offer. It's pure, true, and completely blind and wonderful and you should feel so blessed that you were able to experience it. <3

  • i was crying with you :'( love you megan <3

  • @poopmcscoopface just because bad stuff happens to you doesnt mean other people cant be sad

  • Megan you are absolutely amazing. You are so positive and thankful for everything you have been blessed with. If he wanted you to change yourself or you felt pressured to be different in some way then the breakup was what was best.

  • You're absolutely beautiful Megan...inside and out!  Love you girl! <3

  • You are so wise to know all this at only 15! It took me till I was 21 to learn this :) amazing girl!

  • megan this helps so much thank you. i just broke up with my 1st boyfriend/ first love.

  • @horeselover07 Same <3

  • @poopmcscoopface shes not whining about it, shes sharing it because people care ad people are concerned, and you dont really have the right to be rude and crytisize her for it, because shes sharing whats on her mind. sorry that all that horrible stuff happened to you though :/

  • @poopmcscoopface Everyone has pain...

  • it broke my heart seeing her trying to hold hold her tears in.

    i wish i was THAT strong.

    keep your head up, beautiful! <3

  • I wish my best friend didn't forget about me when he got a girlfriend...

    Thanks megan!

  • I lost my dad on the 24th of novemeber when he was just 59, im 16.. i know how it feels to lose someone you truely care about. Losing someone is the hardest thing i've ever had to go through.

  • u r the best im am the same age as u and i went through the same i wish u the best

    

  • this helped me so much . thank you ♥

  • im going through the exact same thing megan </3

  • You're such a sweet heart. I wish I was this wise at your age!

  • Youur amazing, pretty, and nice. He lost everything, youu need a guy who treaats youu how youu deserve...

  • honestly i love watching ur videos because u seem exactly like me. i saw this video when it first was uploaded and didnt know how it felt but now im aware of feeling the loss and this video helped me so much and motivated me to move on.. thank you so much megan you are truly amazing.

  • @dreamwishergirl I am so sorry. That happened to me too. But what I wish I knew then was that there will be another guy out there. It might seem soo far away and it might seem maybe even impossible that there is someone else who you will love more, but it will happen. God knows your heart the best, and He knew that that guy wasn't potentially right for you. As hard as it seems, things WILL get better.

    Xoxo, take care.

    PS. Don't forget to pray and ask God for direction. He's ALWAYS available

  • Its funny i was watching this when this came out, & she said "my heart aches for anyone thats been in this situation or will go through it" cause i never been in a relationship thinking when its gonna happen to me...and it did. A little over a week ago, i found out the guy that i was talking to for 3 months, i found out he had a girlfriend of a month, & i think theyve previously dated &we havent talked since i found out, & it still breaks my heart cause i do love him & i miss him so much </3 ;(

  • He wanted the pum-pum, she said no no no.

  • @capgurken if you wanted to learn make up tips follow her make up channel. This is a channel for blogs like this one, jeez.

  • you taught me to believe in myself, I just wish I had learned more makeup tips

  • ur special to and i hope ur heart mends xx

  • tits or gtfo

  • @b1tchas5sn1pa Did you not read the comment below? go somewhere else to get your 'fun' this girl is going through a hard time. its pathetic.

  • I think it is absolutely pathetic that even when someone is going through a tough time..and close to tears that people in this sad World can still be rude, obnoxious and unsympathetic.. stop talking about 'sex' and her 'low cut top' .. its so pathetic and sad.. and seeing some of these comments have made me really doubt Man kind.. how can you be so fucking heartless?

  • @MaddieLouxx It's like zombies...the heartless "sexual' freaks are the zombies and the people who have heart are the survivors.

  • You know, you're young, and beautiful, and talented. I have no doubt that you'll go far in whatever you do. Be strong, and remember, after a rainstorm, comes the rainbow ^-^

  • i almost broke my heart when i flipped off the front of my bike onto a rock

  • you are so strong megan! you are beautiful and young, there are definitely more relationships to come <3

  • Be strong, I love you

  • I hate her new bf ..too old for her!!!

  • @stunnerrocker he's only a year older than her..

  • Its really brave of you to put up this video. I was 14 when I met my first boyfriend, my first love. And it was great but your right, you deserve to be treated the best for who you are and flash 2 years and 8 months later and then we broke up. It was for the best and I knew I deserved better. And so do you =] Now I'm happily dating my BEST Friend and he is AMAZING! He treats me right and coming up on my 18th birthday I wouldn't change a thing =] Keep looking up and everything will work out <3

  • Keep your morals and rand for what u believe cuz either Way you won't have the guy and be happy you might aswell have your self respect than some guy who can't respect you

  • I've gone through the same thing, except I wasn't as good at keeping all of my morals. I regret some things but know how hard it is to have to chose between the one you love and have been with and the routine and between what is really right. So much respect for you. But the things you don't feel you want your viewers to know, maybe the reason why you broke up. Don't share it. Your viewers will understand and the ones who don't, we'll who cares you shouldn't have to share your entire life. Kee

  • @deanie54 i dont know if this is a joke or not... but its not funny. and it's definantly not the truth. it was a compeletly different thing that happened on her boyfriends youtube account.

  • I heard about this at our school. Her BF went Gay ! That's right , I'm not making it up. He came home one day and told his folks that he is coming out of the closet. He say's he's attracted to the football coach. Figures, Huh ? Damn coaches are always doing "IT" to young boys.

  • @tweeetme you are such an idiot.

  • why did you breake up!?

  • this is the sadders video she has ever made..nawww :( love you megan! <3

  • This video is so amazing Megan. Breakups suck and i went thru similar pain. When i was 15 years olf i was with this guy for almost a year and in the end we were just two different people who just love idea of being in love and loved our friendship. he wanted me to change my morals for his and i just couldnt in the end. so sorry megan. helped for me in futher relatioships. :)

  • aww megan i went through the same thing i was dating the guy for 2 years im 14  and we broke up bc he wasnt allowed to date a non jewish girl in hs and it was the worst pain ive felt in my life but now after a year and a couple months i found someone else whos better for me and doesnt take me for granted

  • @curlmachine21 something was really wrong with your school

  • <3<3 :(

  • He wanted to f***ck her, she didnt wanna, Thats why they broke up

  • @23lurann really? or are you just guessing

  • @23lurann I was thinking the same thing

  • @joellacousins isn't the necklace from her family and then the ring was from him? haha I don't know just curious :)

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  • awwww megan i love this!!!!! <333333

  • You are so down-to-earth and nice!! <3

  • gosh i love you and your videos because youre so down to earth and personal<3

  • aw megan thank you so much for this video.. at the same day this was put up my heart was broken over someone so thank you again -3

  • I had tears in my eyes watching this. It is SO hard to get past something like this but you seem so strong and I wanted to thank you so much for making a video like this.. to show that things do get better and that youve survived it and if you can, anyone can. We love you so much, Megan. Keep smiling pretty girl. I went through this over a year ago and im still not over it..its the hardest thing ive ever been through. This helped me a bit. Thank you again. <3

  • Awww.

  • When you were holding in those tears. Omg. <3 You're so strong, girl.

  • omg this nearly made me cry megan :( i heart you!

  • you are seriously one of the prettiest girls ever.

  • omg no way they broke up..justin and her right

  • megan, you are so strong. im not sure if youll get to read this but you are so great. you act so mature for your age! i wish i could be as strong as you are, keep your head up!

  • I bet Justin secretly watches her videos. Who wouldn't? ;)

  • Yeah. It is hard. Thank you for this video.

  • it almost broke my heart when i could see megan trying to hold in her tears :/

  • I'm going through something right now, I'm 21 and you're video really helped me. It's amazing how mature and wise you are for your age. Thank you SO MUCH for posting this. You are an amazing and incredibly special girl. Xoxoxo.

  • why are you guys obsessed about the reason behind their break up? IT'S NOT YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.

  • @chocolatemilkyum Lol she's obviously choosing to share with her youtube subscribers.

  • @brittanybeers well if she wanted to let us know she would have said why they broke up in the video. but she didn't, so move on, it's not your life to worry about

  • @chocolatemilkyum MY point is...she is making her life public so you can't tell people to mind their own business. I couldn't care less who she is or is not dating. I think YOU need to move on.

  • ive been in a relationship for a year, this helped me so much megan. </3 you are so strong and beautiful and i look up to you.

  • Never been a relationship. Lol, im such a loner :D

  • You poor pet I had a lump in my throat throughout the video, I know this was ages ago so I hope you feel so much better about this situation now xx

  • The awkward moment when she's still wearing the necklace from him...

  • My bf recently cheated on me I know how you feel. In the end you'll be ok but I'm still hurting right now so eventually we'll get through this.

  • I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years. Last year he gave me a promise ring and we had plans to move in together within the next year. Things will get better for both of us. <3