I have just recently found out that my wife has BPD. I have two kids by her and love her. I am so frustrated. I am doing research to help her and our situation as it is getting worse.
Is Prozac suitable? Dr Leland M. Heller suggests that Prozac and Tegretol combined have performed miracles on his patients. plz help.
@universalstudios13 prescribing SSRIs is not an exact science. Different medications will work for different people, you just have to try them out and see how they work for you, (as prescribed by your doctor, obviously). I had to try a couple of different medications before my doctors found something that worked for me. In my case a combination of Citalopram and Buproprion helped a lot. Look into Dialectical Behaviour Therapy as well. Most of all what you need is time and patience.
Trials make us stronger if we can survive. When you become fully self-aware you will see what an impressive person you are able to be because you had to build yourself from the outside in. Dont forget that this is most common up until age 24 - the end of adolecence in western culture today! Take it as what it is - a search for your truest identity outside of what society tells you it is.
My wife has BPD. She is as mean as mean can be. After eight years of marriage, eight years of hell on earth, I am sooo done. All I can do now is divorce her, and hope she doesn't murder me. She is the scariest person I have ever known. Please, good Lord, protect me from her.
I am a great supporter to you all people with BPD. And I want to say that there is a therapy which makes you feel little better. It's called DBT (dialectical behavioural therapy) I don't know if anyone has tried it ?
But wish you all the luck !! Stay with us and don't give up. You are all precious persons, just have to trie to find your good sides, and focus to that .. and GO GIRL!
Hey lady! i love this video, i think you did a pretty decent job in portraying your version of bpd to others. i wish people understood, but they dont. i mean hell i dont even understand. lol. but good job thumbs up!
@DylanJamesAkaSavD thats not the point. the point is that she doesnt have paranoid schizophrenia, she has borderline and it is hell. and dont you tell me that i dont know what im talking about because A, i have known this girl for years, and B, because i have the same shit. we dont know what PS is like, but we know more than we want to know about BPD. it sucks, it makes you feel like your on a crazy rampage 24/7 with no end in sight. so say something useful or SHUT THE FUCK UP!
@MaliciousCaveman why u tellin me what it feels like i know i have it infact im just out of hospital after a suicide attempt
all im sayin is other people with this disorder make vids sayin how awfull it is i mean i just get up and get on with it, i dont want people to feel sorry for me
also i just wanna say theres worse thing out there in the mental health world
and no i dont think ps is the worst tjing to have as i would rather have that than cancer of something
I hope you manage to deal with your BPD. I now know my ex had these tendencies. I just thought she was controlling, overly sensitive, anxious and self centred. Our relationship was constantly abusive, and was draining me. One day, I walked out.
Her response was characteristic - she cut me out. Everything was my fault - there was no compromise, no "maybe I did this wrong, but you did this...".
I wish I had known about BPD, I might have been able to help her a bit more.
i understand what its like to feel like that, though i may not have the excat disorder you do, but having a disorder like i do, you can feel isolated, misunderstood and alone.
I wasn't going to comment because words aren't going to fix it and I can't begin to contemplate what it really must feel like for you. But I know that you have strength, especially since you made this video. I will pray for you, hun. x
I have been the same as long as I can remember. I am much older than you. All what you said is true. Don't pay attention to the negative comment. For sure it's a guy and ignorant sob. I hate and love very quicly. I am scared and always alone. I live on pills and did try to kill myself. The only thing that keeps me here is music. Nothing else reassures me more than music. I am scared of everything . I abandon people before they abandon me. You will learn to live with it. But it's lonely!
Thank you for making me not feel alone:)
manda2626 1 month ago in playlist BorderLine Personality Disorder
You are very brave to tell everyone how you are feeling.
xxtasha10xx 5 months ago
Great Video. Whats with all the dislikes?
I have just recently found out that my wife has BPD. I have two kids by her and love her. I am so frustrated. I am doing research to help her and our situation as it is getting worse.
Is Prozac suitable? Dr Leland M. Heller suggests that Prozac and Tegretol combined have performed miracles on his patients. plz help.
universalstudios13 9 months ago
@universalstudios13 prescribing SSRIs is not an exact science. Different medications will work for different people, you just have to try them out and see how they work for you, (as prescribed by your doctor, obviously). I had to try a couple of different medications before my doctors found something that worked for me. In my case a combination of Citalopram and Buproprion helped a lot. Look into Dialectical Behaviour Therapy as well. Most of all what you need is time and patience.
a3th3r 5 months ago
hey you ARE SO LOVED. i just made a channel for love and suppport for those with bpd check it out<3
help4bpd 9 months ago
Trials make us stronger if we can survive. When you become fully self-aware you will see what an impressive person you are able to be because you had to build yourself from the outside in. Dont forget that this is most common up until age 24 - the end of adolecence in western culture today! Take it as what it is - a search for your truest identity outside of what society tells you it is.
Dizeat24 9 months ago
Like not to be judgy or titling , but is this what some "emo" people have without realizing it ?
AmberRawwr 10 months ago
@bumblebee4me22 Surrounding herself with Christians would really fuck her up.
chessdragon1 11 months ago
My wife has BPD. She is as mean as mean can be. After eight years of marriage, eight years of hell on earth, I am sooo done. All I can do now is divorce her, and hope she doesn't murder me. She is the scariest person I have ever known. Please, good Lord, protect me from her.
luv2bud 1 year ago
All I can say is don't give up,and I'm sure you can and that you will overcome this =)
emorevolution1000 1 year ago
I am a great supporter to you all people with BPD. And I want to say that there is a therapy which makes you feel little better. It's called DBT (dialectical behavioural therapy) I don't know if anyone has tried it ?
But wish you all the luck !! Stay with us and don't give up. You are all precious persons, just have to trie to find your good sides, and focus to that .. and GO GIRL!
olja1802 1 year ago
Hey lady! i love this video, i think you did a pretty decent job in portraying your version of bpd to others. i wish people understood, but they dont. i mean hell i dont even understand. lol. but good job thumbs up!
MaliciousCaveman 1 year ago
i dnt no why people make out like this is hell its not as bad as paranoid schizophrenia as u get all those symptoms and even more
dnt say i dnt no what im talking bout coz i actually have both of them and i would much rather live with just bpd rather than schiz
DylanJamesAkaSavD 1 year ago
@DylanJamesAkaSavD thats not the point. the point is that she doesnt have paranoid schizophrenia, she has borderline and it is hell. and dont you tell me that i dont know what im talking about because A, i have known this girl for years, and B, because i have the same shit. we dont know what PS is like, but we know more than we want to know about BPD. it sucks, it makes you feel like your on a crazy rampage 24/7 with no end in sight. so say something useful or SHUT THE FUCK UP!
MaliciousCaveman 1 year ago
@MaliciousCaveman why u tellin me what it feels like i know i have it infact im just out of hospital after a suicide attempt
all im sayin is other people with this disorder make vids sayin how awfull it is i mean i just get up and get on with it, i dont want people to feel sorry for me
also i just wanna say theres worse thing out there in the mental health world
and no i dont think ps is the worst tjing to have as i would rather have that than cancer of something
so seriously chill out !
DylanJamesAkaSavD 1 year ago
Look up "EFT" and "MATRIX RE-IMPRINTING." Hope it helps. Best wishes x
Halfstar3 1 year ago
bless yooou<3
ElliotMinor2009 1 year ago
I hope you manage to deal with your BPD. I now know my ex had these tendencies. I just thought she was controlling, overly sensitive, anxious and self centred. Our relationship was constantly abusive, and was draining me. One day, I walked out.
Her response was characteristic - she cut me out. Everything was my fault - there was no compromise, no "maybe I did this wrong, but you did this...".
I wish I had known about BPD, I might have been able to help her a bit more.
gert83 1 year ago
this is really good, im in process of being diagnosed and can relate to all you have on here, hugs xx
fairy18475 1 year ago
You Go Laura <3
Stay Strong.
you ever need me,
I'm here for you <3
i understand what its like to feel like that, though i may not have the excat disorder you do, but having a disorder like i do, you can feel isolated, misunderstood and alone.
stay strong beautiful
:)
<3 Panik
PukingRainbowsx 2 years ago
I wasn't going to comment because words aren't going to fix it and I can't begin to contemplate what it really must feel like for you. But I know that you have strength, especially since you made this video. I will pray for you, hun. x
pplwatchergirl 2 years ago
I have been the same as long as I can remember. I am much older than you. All what you said is true. Don't pay attention to the negative comment. For sure it's a guy and ignorant sob. I hate and love very quicly. I am scared and always alone. I live on pills and did try to kill myself. The only thing that keeps me here is music. Nothing else reassures me more than music. I am scared of everything . I abandon people before they abandon me. You will learn to live with it. But it's lonely!
FancyMary15 2 years ago
<3 <3 <3
kush1blower 2 years ago
Hi, I'm border too... :(
86Estel 2 years ago
made me cry :/
krsyness 2 years ago