It's not that you are a lesbian, it's that you are annoying and think that you are important enough that that many people care about your private life.
@irishthunda66 It's not that I'm a lesbian, it's that I was bored and wanted to share my experience with people who REQUESTED for me to do this video.
Who says you have to be like everyone? Love who your heart loves, not what society tells you is normal to love. Do whatever makes you happy; as you only have one life and it goes fast and you will be old and regret not doing something. Be proud of who you are and your beliefs, and never let anybody tell you, that you are somebody you are not. You know who you are and nothing can bring you down. Be strong and stay true to yourself, always remember my words. Love and Peace no matter what. ♥
@SeleneHazelEyes Thank you very much, and I wish the same to you. I really appreciate that you watched my video and left such a sincere comment. It gives me faith in humanity, sad as it may sound. <3
@Abrakdabra77 You're welcome dear, and whenever you feel down just remember my words and THAT there is a part of humanity left which still cares and still has a soul or even any "humanity" left in them. :)
@alibout So funny, that when people talk about somebody else, they actually ALWAYS talk about themselves. People are like mirrors, they see themselves in other people. The truth is sad, eh isn't it? :)
I would accept people who r lesbians or gay. I'm in middle school right now, and my best friend is gay and she told me one day and after a couple of min she asked why I wasn't freaking out. I told her that I was cool with it, and I didn't care also, if anyone had a problem with her being gay than screw them who cares what they think.
(Continueing last comment) because people were always so mean when I tried to be friendly until one day I said fuck it, and tuned out everyone and started being the huge long haired, "satanic murderer" that never talked to anyone or had friends until a couple years ago.I find it funny when people pass by remembering me from elementary and how they teased and now afraid of me hehe. All I can say is be true to yourself, never let the crowd control you. I always was different. But never realized it
@theblizzard32 Thank you :) I had kinda always been bullied, I can't remember if I said it or not in this video. I have changed quite a bit though since I did this. I'm a metal head too, and btw you sound a lot like a bunch of my friends. lol. I'm at an art school where there are hippies everywhere, so nobody is cruel or anything.
I had a turn around too like you did. I said fuck it when I started wearing thick black eyeliner originally to scare people away, then I liked it a lot. lol
@theblizzard32 (cont.) I kinda became a poser and said I liked stuff like ozzy and judas priest, ya know all the old school stuff, before I actually listened to them. Now that I have started listening to metal I love it so much, so I guess I wasn't really a poser. XD
This issue is very idiotic to me, the fact that people can't accept others for who they are. I find nothing wrong with peoples perference. To me, it does not matter, I'll talk to anyone who is nice and respectful. But hey, I know what its like to be bullied for being different. I was always the outcast since elementary,being bullied for no reason. all I can say is fuck people in high school. Now people think I'm satanist/murderer for liking metal,being 6'4 with long hair and never speaking
@Abrakdabra ...to think there is no God. But I think when people completely set their mind on that, they close their minds to anything else. Because there always is that possibilty that there is a God. I think that people should be willing to open their minds and look around for more than meets the eye. To search deeper. So dont let Christians condemn you...and most importantly, stay true to yourself. :) peace
@Abrakadabra77 I am a Christian who finds homophobia ridiculous. I respect you more than you know. I agree with you. There are always people who are out there who claim Christianity but then go off and condemn homosexuals. It shouldn't happen. I love homosexuals/bisexuals just the same. Don't let Christians condemn you. The reason they do it is because they think they're helping you but they're not. I completely understand how you don't believe in God. There are so many things that can lead peo
I was one of those people who was "grossed out" by gay girls- not gay guys for some reason. But that's because I was an ignorant little shit. I regret thinking that way and being so closed minded. I'm sure a lot of people will regret acting that way to you too. I never bullied someone over it though- that's a bit much. :S
In response to your question in the video: It's hard not to be homophobic about gay guys. Why? Where I come from (Greece) the worst cuss word for a woman is "whore" and the worst cuss word for a man is "homo". The social pressure on one's ego should be apparent. Many cultures have idioms like, "Do you have the balls...", "Are you man enough...", "Who wears the pants in the house..." etc. So, it's a matter of ego and self image. It took a lot of reading to make me noticably less homophobic :p
Now, a guy being homophobic towards lesbians doesn't make sense in my head. What's there to threaten your identity and your social and self image? It should be the same for straight women and lesbians, but I don't know... maybe someone else would be better at answering that question. Can we have someone with a psych degree in here? :p
@NaxNax96 Haha, well my theory is it all boils down to sexism. Some people may think that it's a threat to call a man "girly", or whatever, to make them seem weak. So people have no reason to be homophobic the way I see it, it's just society and media which influence their perspective.
People who are homophobic in general need to loosen up and read like you did. Or at least have the self respect and consideration to talk to some gay people, maybe see what it's like from a different point of view
@Abrakdabra77 Well, if you take a virtual stroll around youTube watching videos with gays and lesbians (coming out videos etc.) you'll randomly see straight people commenting. Now, among the trolls there will be people with an opinion -- who nevertheless will rush to affirm they're straight!
Well, I dream of a world were being mistaken for gay would be the same as being mistaken for a tenis fan instead of a soccer fan! It'd be a better world for both of us! ^^
Hmm I see your point of view. Imagine that you weren't lesbian would you mock homo people. You probobly think you wouldn't, but yet only because you would accept them now. I'll be be honest I am kind of homophobic to gay guys. I mean if they talk to me or look at me... Just ew.
@Tinyjb0 Just because they look at you or talk to you does not mean they're checking you out. Most likely, they're not checking you out. And you should also try not to be a homophobe because they've also probably been through more shit and bullying than you have, although I do not know your history.
Just try to be open minded and considerate toward gay people in general no matter if you're comfortable with them or not. Take it from me.
But you may want to notice some things; for instance, how do you know I'm butch, more or less a bitch? Secondly, why would I be the one going to hell when I've done nothing to you when you were the one who watched my video and made a cute remark making assumptions about me?
lol. But it's goos to see another lesbian that actually "get's it." I hate it when straight b*tches all look at me like I'm about to grab their boobs lol. Euck.
@coolifyyourlife lololol. And I always kinda chuckle at it too and I wanna say "you don't have good boobs!" just to mess with them XD. I never have, but I really have that urge.
I know what you mean ...people are so ignorant ..they give too much credit to themselves by thinking we're into them when on the other hand they don't realize we have standards..mine are ...education hygiene and virginity...so no I wouldn't want to have sex with a guy..no i dont like every guy i see because most guys are gross about their hygiene...and not every gay person in the world is a male private part fanatic! lol
You are a great and wonderful person, an inspiration to both gay and straight people alike because you've kept your dignity and your pride. You stay true to yourself and ignore the cowards and the haters. You're alright by me.
Voldamorts daughter?
darkninjagz1 4 months ago
your so beautiful!!!
xABitTooGorgeousx 5 months ago
@xABitTooGorgeousx Thank you!
Abrakdabra77 4 months ago
lol "cover your breastes"
silenceatmidnight 6 months ago 4
@silenceatmidnight that was hilarious lol
justmeduhfull 4 months ago
It's not that you are a lesbian, it's that you are annoying and think that you are important enough that that many people care about your private life.
irishthunda66 6 months ago
@irishthunda66 It's not that I'm a lesbian, it's that I was bored and wanted to share my experience with people who REQUESTED for me to do this video.
Abrakdabra77 6 months ago 4
female napoleon dynamite
bluefrog1990 6 months ago 2
@bluefrog1990 I'm not sure how to take that, but okay XD
Abrakdabra77 6 months ago
Who says you have to be like everyone? Love who your heart loves, not what society tells you is normal to love. Do whatever makes you happy; as you only have one life and it goes fast and you will be old and regret not doing something. Be proud of who you are and your beliefs, and never let anybody tell you, that you are somebody you are not. You know who you are and nothing can bring you down. Be strong and stay true to yourself, always remember my words. Love and Peace no matter what. ♥
SeleneHazelEyes 6 months ago
@SeleneHazelEyes Thank you very much, and I wish the same to you. I really appreciate that you watched my video and left such a sincere comment. It gives me faith in humanity, sad as it may sound. <3
Abrakdabra77 4 months ago
@Abrakdabra77 You're welcome dear, and whenever you feel down just remember my words and THAT there is a part of humanity left which still cares and still has a soul or even any "humanity" left in them. :)
SeleneHazelEyes 4 months ago
Middle school is less than nothing. Move ahead now.
JeffersonDinedAlone 6 months ago
You should become a slut and start giving head to guys in the school thanks to cancer like you i couldnt get a kid at 14!
alibout 6 months ago
@alibout Do you know how to use punctuation, by any chance?
Abrakdabra77 6 months ago
@alibout So funny, that when people talk about somebody else, they actually ALWAYS talk about themselves. People are like mirrors, they see themselves in other people. The truth is sad, eh isn't it? :)
SeleneHazelEyes 4 months ago
@SeleneHazelEyes
nice speech
alibout 4 months ago
I really truly dont understand how people seriously think its bad???
iLuvPinkZebraStripes 7 months ago
You are so sweet! I like you :D keep up these awesome videos!!
amelinaproductions 7 months ago
I would accept people who r lesbians or gay. I'm in middle school right now, and my best friend is gay and she told me one day and after a couple of min she asked why I wasn't freaking out. I told her that I was cool with it, and I didn't care also, if anyone had a problem with her being gay than screw them who cares what they think.
TheSocalhannah 9 months ago
(Continueing last comment) because people were always so mean when I tried to be friendly until one day I said fuck it, and tuned out everyone and started being the huge long haired, "satanic murderer" that never talked to anyone or had friends until a couple years ago.I find it funny when people pass by remembering me from elementary and how they teased and now afraid of me hehe. All I can say is be true to yourself, never let the crowd control you. I always was different. But never realized it
theblizzard32 1 year ago
@theblizzard32 Thank you :) I had kinda always been bullied, I can't remember if I said it or not in this video. I have changed quite a bit though since I did this. I'm a metal head too, and btw you sound a lot like a bunch of my friends. lol. I'm at an art school where there are hippies everywhere, so nobody is cruel or anything.
I had a turn around too like you did. I said fuck it when I started wearing thick black eyeliner originally to scare people away, then I liked it a lot. lol
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
@theblizzard32 (cont.) I kinda became a poser and said I liked stuff like ozzy and judas priest, ya know all the old school stuff, before I actually listened to them. Now that I have started listening to metal I love it so much, so I guess I wasn't really a poser. XD
Thanks again for watching and bring awesome!
♥Tango
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
@Abrakdabra77 being* not bring
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
This issue is very idiotic to me, the fact that people can't accept others for who they are. I find nothing wrong with peoples perference. To me, it does not matter, I'll talk to anyone who is nice and respectful. But hey, I know what its like to be bullied for being different. I was always the outcast since elementary,being bullied for no reason. all I can say is fuck people in high school. Now people think I'm satanist/murderer for liking metal,being 6'4 with long hair and never speaking
theblizzard32 1 year ago
Another fucked up mentally ill person.
BDSR40 1 year ago
@BDSR40 I know right ? People like you really are gross ;)
oOKdLuvsOo 1 year ago
@oOKdLuvsOo Are you talking about me or the girl in the video?
BDSR40 1 year ago
@BDSR40 Did I not reply to YOU, that people like YOU are gross ?
oOKdLuvsOo 1 year ago
@BDSR40 you, u idiot
applebottomsweetness 1 year ago
@Abrakdabra ...to think there is no God. But I think when people completely set their mind on that, they close their minds to anything else. Because there always is that possibilty that there is a God. I think that people should be willing to open their minds and look around for more than meets the eye. To search deeper. So dont let Christians condemn you...and most importantly, stay true to yourself. :) peace
christiantechdude521 1 year ago
@Abrakadabra77 I am a Christian who finds homophobia ridiculous. I respect you more than you know. I agree with you. There are always people who are out there who claim Christianity but then go off and condemn homosexuals. It shouldn't happen. I love homosexuals/bisexuals just the same. Don't let Christians condemn you. The reason they do it is because they think they're helping you but they're not. I completely understand how you don't believe in God. There are so many things that can lead peo
christiantechdude521 1 year ago
I was one of those people who was "grossed out" by gay girls- not gay guys for some reason. But that's because I was an ignorant little shit. I regret thinking that way and being so closed minded. I'm sure a lot of people will regret acting that way to you too. I never bullied someone over it though- that's a bit much. :S
Cass0emoheart 1 year ago
In response to your question in the video: It's hard not to be homophobic about gay guys. Why? Where I come from (Greece) the worst cuss word for a woman is "whore" and the worst cuss word for a man is "homo". The social pressure on one's ego should be apparent. Many cultures have idioms like, "Do you have the balls...", "Are you man enough...", "Who wears the pants in the house..." etc. So, it's a matter of ego and self image. It took a lot of reading to make me noticably less homophobic :p
NaxNax96 1 year ago
cont.
Now, a guy being homophobic towards lesbians doesn't make sense in my head. What's there to threaten your identity and your social and self image? It should be the same for straight women and lesbians, but I don't know... maybe someone else would be better at answering that question. Can we have someone with a psych degree in here? :p
NaxNax96 1 year ago
@NaxNax96 Haha, well my theory is it all boils down to sexism. Some people may think that it's a threat to call a man "girly", or whatever, to make them seem weak. So people have no reason to be homophobic the way I see it, it's just society and media which influence their perspective.
People who are homophobic in general need to loosen up and read like you did. Or at least have the self respect and consideration to talk to some gay people, maybe see what it's like from a different point of view
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
@Abrakdabra77 Well, if you take a virtual stroll around youTube watching videos with gays and lesbians (coming out videos etc.) you'll randomly see straight people commenting. Now, among the trolls there will be people with an opinion -- who nevertheless will rush to affirm they're straight!
Well, I dream of a world were being mistaken for gay would be the same as being mistaken for a tenis fan instead of a soccer fan! It'd be a better world for both of us! ^^
P.S.: You sure have... guts! <3
NaxNax96 1 year ago
Hmm I see your point of view. Imagine that you weren't lesbian would you mock homo people. You probobly think you wouldn't, but yet only because you would accept them now. I'll be be honest I am kind of homophobic to gay guys. I mean if they talk to me or look at me... Just ew.
Tinyjb0 1 year ago
@Tinyjb0 Just because they look at you or talk to you does not mean they're checking you out. Most likely, they're not checking you out. And you should also try not to be a homophobe because they've also probably been through more shit and bullying than you have, although I do not know your history.
Just try to be open minded and considerate toward gay people in general no matter if you're comfortable with them or not. Take it from me.
♥Tango
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
If there is a hell then you can rest there you fuckin gay butch bitch!!! You fuckin muff muncher.
AustriaRollerblading 1 year ago
@AustriaRollerblading Thank you for your respectful and considerate comment, AR.
But you may want to notice some things; for instance, how do you know I'm butch, more or less a bitch? Secondly, why would I be the one going to hell when I've done nothing to you when you were the one who watched my video and made a cute remark making assumptions about me?
Think before you speak.
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
Jealouss that ur so open!
cheshierecat 1 year ago
BREASTESES!
lol. But it's goos to see another lesbian that actually "get's it." I hate it when straight b*tches all look at me like I'm about to grab their boobs lol. Euck.
coolifyyourlife 1 year ago
@coolifyyourlife lololol. And I always kinda chuckle at it too and I wanna say "you don't have good boobs!" just to mess with them XD. I never have, but I really have that urge.
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago
I know what you mean ...people are so ignorant ..they give too much credit to themselves by thinking we're into them when on the other hand they don't realize we have standards..mine are ...education hygiene and virginity...so no I wouldn't want to have sex with a guy..no i dont like every guy i see because most guys are gross about their hygiene...and not every gay person in the world is a male private part fanatic! lol
furiousjuffowup 1 year ago
How did people know you were a dyke unless you shoved it in their faces.
oHarryTimbercranko 1 year ago
@oHarryTimbercranko Watch my coming out video. All I'm gonna say.
Abrakdabra77 1 year ago 2
i think you're hot. ;D
nakiommi 2 years ago
@nakiommi Thanks! You are too :)
Abrakdabra77 2 years ago
I think it's awesome that you are confident enough to be yourself! You are a great example for being confident! =D
misseyeliner101 2 years ago
Thanks!!!!!!!
Abrakdabra77 2 years ago
You are a great and wonderful person, an inspiration to both gay and straight people alike because you've kept your dignity and your pride. You stay true to yourself and ignore the cowards and the haters. You're alright by me.
EmeraldGemstar09 2 years ago
Aww, thanks! It wasn't easy at first, but all in a day as a gay :D
♥Abz
Abrakdabra77 2 years ago