My Husband Won't Discipline Our Children

[gorillas400]

pretty funny it takes so much work to figure out its wrong to hit people XD

[olibr01]

Those studies are bogus. I was spanked as well as other methods of discipline. I have a MENSA IQ, no aggression and am not anxious. Parents not disciplining has made a country a complete self-centered hell-whole of a wreck.

It seems that unfortunately, most dads are shirking their roles. Getting worse with each generation. Men in this country used to have balls. Dont' stop your part though; your kids are gonna love you. Trust me. A mom who corrects and shapes is loved forever.

[cliftonhauusd]

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[GoldeWC]

shut up slut, just go and suck your husbands cock.

[Bazooka044]

@GoldeWC that is the smartest thing i ever hear. EVER.

[MrWebtastic]

bull shit

[gymer15]

somebody has too step up and kick the shit out of the little snott nose brats

[rwalden2007]

Mom keep on doing what you're doing. Disciplining your kids may make them angry at you now, but trust me, the respect will come down the road when they become teenagers and young adults. They will know you mean what you say -- and they will love and respect you for it. If the Dad doesn't get his act together, he will be facing a rather rebellious group of teens because they will know he's a, forgive me but it's the only word that applies, CANDYASS!

[UnschoolingEagle]

Sounds like he is a better parent 8)

[LynRuiz]

Where is the help for women with husbands just stand by

idly while their kids run around in public places and make messess, get hurt, fight, and annoy strangers. My husband just stands around with his arms folded and says NADA to our kids. I give him a chance to until I finally have to scream and then spank them.

[bmanx11]

boring as shit wait shit is funny this isnt

[rkosie]

There are just WAY TOO MANY Facial expressions. I would not EVER take your advice because your expressions (mood?) changes about every 1000000th of a second. > I'd take him to counceling like that is even an option... "honey, that's it! off to the councelors with you" Get the fuck out of here with that. YOUR RIDICULOUS. "80/20"....

[sansevieriafilms]

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[sansevieriafilms]

You can have discipline without spanking and spanking without discipline. The two are not synonomous. They both mean different things. Try non-physical disciplinary action if your husband has a problem with spanking. I don't believe in it either.

[imfreegee]

you should spank or dicipline them if your husband does not buy the kids ice cream and don't tell the father than tell the kids dad said you are the worst kids so they will like you well not rreally you should disipline them!

[patriotisnot]

political correctness has hijacked common sence and effective parental control procedures . if the kid is bad spank him.

[marlivil]

There's no such thing as a bad kid- just inappropriate behavior. BTW, you are encouraging a for of child abuse-spanking

[patriotisnot]

marlivil Spanking is effective negative reinforcement,spanking is not child abuse.I have experianced several bad children mostly gang members from fatherless homes. You must be a liberal Democrat.

[marlivil]

You are incorrect about 2 facts:

1) Spanking is NOT effective- several studies have this, as well as the link b/w spanking and depression, aggression, lowered IQ, anxiety- Do you want this for your kids? Is this discipline? NO

2) I don't associate myself with the Democratic nor with any political party nor do I like any such labels. However, if "liberal Democrat" to you means "person who is opposed to spanking and cares about the well-being of children"then I will it as a compliment. Thank you

[kjuhen]

I agree with both of you. I have heard that your hands are supposed to be used for love, ie hugging, patting on the back, holding hands.

[kjuhen]

This is above my first post below. Other methods aren't as effective with very young children-If they run out in street, spanking them in a controlled manner gets their attention so they know not to do that again. you shouldn't spank after a certain age, may it was 10yr old that I heard.

[WiccanHighPriest0]

@marlivil Well said

[marlivil]

1-"Liberals hate the truth they call the truth swiftboating you are a misguided liberal "- you wrote this on my channel- why not post it here where everyone can see it?

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[marlivil]

2- You have the right to disagree with and cirticize Democrats and liberals. However, I was not discussing politics- I was discussing spanking. As I have said, I do not associate myself with the Democrats nor the Republicans nor any other political party. I also don't like labels. If you support spanking then, please provide good reasons for you support in your next post. Thank you.

[marlivil]

I just notice a spelling error. I meant to say "form' not "for". Sorry

[Airlightf]

You two Have to agree -the kids are OR you not the problem BUT your hasband!

[NWesterner]

Balance, parental agreement even when unpleasant is essential. Consistency while giving the kids a short version of the rationale behind your actions helps.

But then I'm no expert.