ASK JUNEBUG OBAMA #2 (Being "SCARED" of a Woman)

[WizzoPro9476]

THank u for the pic that makes life so much smoother!

[terrence6720]

i don,t know why a person would be scared of somebody who bleed every month

[RADIKALDREAD]

He who hesitates masturbates. So Profound. Ha ha ha ha

[WizzoPro9476]

@RADIKALDREAD I'm not finna hesitate to masturbate to her pic right about now! 

[WesleyPipes1985]

"He who hesitates, masturbates!" LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!!

[CognitionPrime]

@WesleyPipes1985 Calling it like you see it.

[Revolutionary36]

I have no idea why men are so nervous around women. If you are confident in the man that you are and what you have to offer, then what is there to scared of? If she says no then move on with your life and find the next one. I always see dating and women as a game. If you lose the game with that women then you can always press the restart button and start over with a different one.

[kltiswhoib]

Basically, if dude had came in there with a bunch of ice on his neck and wrists, she would have jumped right on his d*** if he looked like he was made out of money. He wouldn't have had to say a damn thing then would he?

[650Pisces]

she was probably gonna say no ..IVE SAID NOOO when this guy came and talked to me ..i was working and i need to be professional ...and yea its better when shes on a break or lunch NOOOOOOOT AT WORK!!!

[glasscitadel12]

this babe on the flick is nice.

[jaybrick8920]

chick at 40 is bad as hell 

[MrWestcoastcpt]

`he who hesitates masterbates` words to live by

[super9964]

that's real talk!

[vindoler]

Haha! "He who hesistates, masturbates!" lol...simply priceless.

[JCLeSinge]

"If you're single, talk to as many women as possible."

Top advice; half the human race are women, getting fixated on one girl as your sole prospect is just insecure behaviour, and insecure doesn't score. Talk to 'em like they're normal humans who just happen to have compatible plumbing.

[bigdaddy45able]

Ive enjoyed this commentary,just like all of your commentaries.There's something i need your advice on,please provide me with your email address bro,your very insightful.

[JunebugObama]

@bigdaddy45able You can email me here a You Tube or at my hotmail address which is junebugobama @ hotmail dot com.

[Mannypacquia0]

@JunebugObama thats exactly what happened to me, this same situation except, i feel like a even bigger dumbass!!! because looking back at it, it was obvious that she wanted me to grow some fucking nuts, and asked for it, btw i did enjoy this commentary as well, because its happened to me before, it fucking annoys me because its true lol im just like this guy,

[JunebugObama]

@Mannypacquia0 Don't be so hard on yourself. We've all done it. We just have to realize that WE HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. The worst that can happen is she will say "no." So what?

There is an old saying: "Fortune Favors the Bold."

[Mannypacquia0]

@JunebugObama thanks for the encouragement, and absolutly, and man i even have a video of me talking to a girl which i wanna get judged on how i did, i know i have massive mess ups, like i know exactly what i did wrong too, i just wanna see your take on it, what i couldve done better, what i couldve done to esculate to a number, what i couldve done to build more attraction and all, it was kind of a unique situation, its on my youtube page

[Drbolla345]

@JunebugObama Mr. Obama, are you going to run for the next Presidential Playa Election for the United Pimps of Bootyville? 

[ANDREW26101]

i feel this guy man when ever you see beautiful girl you wanna talk to you get intimated by her its rejection but you got to be man she says no she says no fuck it

[Kabosen23]

not that i dont lke the videos, they are just very similar

[Kabosen23]

i have heard a lot of your videos, this sounds a lot like tariq nasheed

[harlemw651]

If all u want is to sleep with women, then yes, ou do need to always 'close the deal' and ask for her number because that may be your only chance. BUT, if you are trying to find a woman to marry you don't need to put that much pressure on yourself. If she is THE ONE then God will give you more than one opportunity to seal the deal.

Having said that, if you feel it's time to ask her out, ask her. But if you see a woman once and never see her again, it wasn't meant to be. On to the next one!!!

[LA12312]

LOL in my case. I take girls that I talk to like ahh. And well they want attention so I give them a lil so that way they can show more of what they got to show. Love. So by like in a week. They just give they're # so that way we can talk whenever she or I want. P.S. I don't look fuked up.

[ncfiction]

Why do men get so pissed off when I dont give them my number, DUDE get over it, I'm in relationship, you should appreciate Im a faithful female... it's like guys dont consider the possibility that an attractive female has a BF...

[kayolekenya]

dude, you sound like the ladies man skits on SNL..lol

[kayolekenya]

lol ''he whoo hesitates masturbates'' lmao..good one dude

[tooldrums1000]

2 months! Damn.

[guiademsandrine]

Did you say Shaquita Christ ? LMAOOOO

[guiademsandrine]

I think he should ttally b honest wit her if she asks him why he waited so long to ask for her n* ... She will be flattered but if she thinks hes weak , he shouldnt waste his time with that kind of girl....I'd rather be appraoched by someone like him than those dudes who ask for your n* only after 2 sec in the conversation to boost their huge ego

he is a good guy everything should be ok .Men should show their feelings mor often , b honest about instead of acting like fake mobster wannabe

[doncvr]

Cool! Dude, Fuck you!

[wappahawlic]

This is good advice, very helpful

[blacksultan85]

blah blah blah!

[p3arliaga]

frankenstein dracula the boogie man rosie odonnell lol

[rsuave109]

LMAO shaquita christ LMAO!!!!

[MisterDonnieB]

shut your face...I like the commentary idea...I will try it..." he who hesitates...masturbates" classic....some great ideas

[ArsenalfcNgeria]

GOOD STUFF JUNEBUG

[roadlesswandering]

Junebug do you read sales magazines? I just read Zig Ziglar and you both sound alike.

[21sttnmemphis]

I love that cute lady picture in the jacuzzi. That guy who killed women in Pittsburgh because he felt lonely and hadn't had a girlfriend since 1984 missed that lesson from daddy or friends. He should have kept going to the next one and improve his outward appearance because women look at that. Man, I used to be scared but I say approach the women you find attractive and be yourself. It feels good to be close (not all up on them) to women, talking and complimenting them and ask for the number.

[revemupman]

I'm a fat black gay man and women approach me just off of my confidence alone. There should be no excuse, if you don't believe youself, no one will believe you.

[panicman10]

I just do my own thing and either she likes me or she doesn't. In the end I win as she's the one who loses out getting to know a great guy,me.Men do have these problems because of being rejected so many times in life.If you ask a woman to dance, she acts like you want to go to bed with her. What's up with that, it's just a dance?!How women affect our self esteem, this is a great example of how men are only human too!Keep this in mind ladies the next time a guy asks to go out with you.He's lonely

[fareel2]

thats fucked up he compared rosie o donald 2 dracula n shit!!!!

[HendrixPrinceFlea89]

my role model is Prince.

[Flowmasta]

go up in there like denzel on training day lmao.

[Brownfox1981]

Aiming at the Ceiling lol

[driva242]

LOL "he who hesitates, masterbates"

[Coolflames101]

ROFL lol "passin a turd"

[Jabbaro123]

I love these kind of video's.

[21sttnmemphis]

Good video for real. Ladies are human beings so just talk and ask like a man because I assume she thinks you are not thuggish (you work at a mall) because women see that you know what you want. Dress well and over time you will be confident

[c00lwatter]

I agree. Be mature in asking a girl out and if she is not mature in responding then why would you even waste time with that. She most likely won't say yes, the first time, so be persistent.

[CrackerVille2]

Beautiful

[milo771]

Hey Junebug do u give advice for women as well...or is it just males??

[JunebugObama]

milo771, I answer women also. Listen to Ask Junebug Obama#1...that was a letter from a girl.

[milo771]

Oh I forgot i watched that vid a while back....great job by the the way!

[johnied8509]

hey junebug I would like to ask some advice from you about this topic its this girl or I should say she is my speech therapist that I have been seeing her for a year now well I really do think she is beautiful and I want to take her out she is white I don,t even know if she likes blk guys but she always be flicking her hair back an smiling at me but I am kind of scred to ask her out cause ive been seeing her for a while know and I don,t know how she would react if I asked her out.

[milo771]

one word for this video...AWESOME!!!

[Mhendeb]

Great video and great advice.

Keep it going.

[6lemans10]

Also, I'm studying to be an Air Traffic Controller in my college. I see a very Attractive Carribean woman in my ATC class. I want to talk to hear, yet I can't. She is getting to attached to a white guy in my class. What should I do????

[lilrog0909]

I'm a Commercial Pilot(Flight instructor for now) but I have experience the same thing man. African women get attach to white men so easily. If I could turn back the hands of time I would showed her what life would be like with an educated black man. I think most African women intention are to get with white men. Plus white men do some evil things like tell the African students that African Americans are typically lazy or no good. The best thing to do is help her if needed with classwork

[lilrog0909]

Now I'm dating a African American woman she very beautiful but I still sometimes think about that African sista. Studying harder so when you are in class you can possibly get points by helping her. Also get in shape a lot of us African American men are fat compared to those healthy African/Caribbean men. Go talk to her now & let her know what you think of her. west Indes women don't play those American female games! Learn at little African history Black islanders love that stuff. I'm Jamaican!

[BryanMaster]

Hoss... West Indian women r the same damn thing they just do it with accent and slang das all. They completely amercanized, and de worst thing about it is they could fool you down to the last bit.. Yuh go leave even still confused and confufled.

[6lemans10]

JunebugObama, my problem is as a nice black man is getting women to respect me! I don't have money, a motorcycle, nice car, expensive cloths, etc. I'm not the steve urkel type either! I treat a women with respect. I'm only a college student. What should I do?????

[SeanCashPUA]

Tough it out, sadly.

[jbjustchillinman]

Never focus on just one woman in the dating game. There is no good advice to getting women. It's a numbers games. Lets say you go to a club and try to get numbers from 10 different women. You should end up with atleast 2 or 3 out of that 10 if your not use to talking to women. Some men may get 1 out of 10 some might get 9 out of 10. Keep in mind it's a numbers game. different women like different types of men. No matter what type of man you are you can get a woman it's just a numbers game.

[tribunalfunk]

Wow. That's all women are to men now? A number in a sequence? Hmm. Fascinating.

[mikeym5]

What makes you think that? Men have to deal with being rejected all the time from women. Women, also, are approached all the time from different men, so they less likely are going to take you seriously and turn you down if they don't find attractive. Men shouldn't be focusing on one particular woman when it could be a waste of time when he can keep his options open and find somebody that is worth his time. Do you think a woman will settle on one guy if she thinks that another guy is better?

[tribunalfunk]

I'm married and out the dating game, so I really don't care. But, it seems like a hot mess compared to back in the day when my husband and I were courting. Women have to look like made-up fake-ed up whore in order for any man to give them the time of day, and what types are you attracting with all that? Only a small percentage of men appreciate a naturally beautiful woman. Then women generally seem to want to chase thuggish boneheads that have nothing going on for themselves but a dick. Sad.

[panicman10]

I'm a 42 year old male and I agree with you, great post!!

[HuggumsMcgehee]

@tribunalfunk I don't have a poll or anything, but are you simply assuming that's what men want just because women wear lots of make up? I don't have a poll or anything, but most guys I know prefer that women look more natural. I know I do. I don't understand the make up either, man.

[mikeym5]

Men have to treat dating as a "numbers game" because they can't sit around hoping some woman will pay attention to a man and spend time with him when it is obvious that she is not interested. Instead, a man should be focused on his own goals and finding a woman that will show interest. It is not men seeing women as nothing, but numbers because that's ridiculous, it is about being with someone who will take you seriously and is worth your time, not obsessing over someone who's not interested.

[pinegrove33]

Good video, I remember when I used to be afraid of women in my teens. Ah, the old days. I'm glad they're over, lol.

[TariusShinobi]

You can get "Pussy" faster than you can get something to eat sometimes!

Don't be intimidated by no one,especially a woman! They are everywhere! The only guarantee is,that there are no guarantees!

[SeanCashPUA]

I call bullshit.

[TariusShinobi]

Good for you.......Nobody cares..........

[keepthapinit]

You know what, this is one of the realest comments I've seen on here "You can get "Pussy" faster than you can get something to eat"....

I've told this girl that I was dating that, and wouldn't you know she couldn't take that shit when I told her that.

She couldn't take the fact that I'm not kissing her ass, and being her "lap dog"...

[kuunami]

Shaquita Christ. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!

[nothing5630]

One of your best videos my friend. Yep - stay confident and go for what you like, lifes to short. If you want to win you have to play. Even if you are making a fool of yourself at first and only learning by trail and error. Don't let rejections get you down either fellas.

[GKECU]

Hi, my names GK Ima helluva guy...pull out the cellphone and TELL her to put her number in...IT WORKS. Stop being a pussy.

[GKECU]

"He who hesitates MASTERBATES."

He who gets rejected the most also gets the most numbers. Church.

[zk92000]

Yeah thats true. The guy who goes out and talks to the most women will get rejected the most. He also will get the most P***y too....LOL

[AskMicB]

Yeah being scared primarily comes from putting this chick on a pedestal. It wasn't until I start meeting loser beautiful women, then I realized. Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean they are mentality right and they don't have baggage. Females are human, and usually the more attractive women are the most insecure. Also don't take rejection personal, so true.

[zk92000]

WOW! Yeah ur right. Iv made that mistake in the past. Man its hard to go back & close the deal after u already get that chance. Alot of the time u cant close it after u do that. Women like men with confidence, & when u dont close the deal up front, they view that as kinda weak. They wonder "why he didnt do it the first time". (If u hesitate, u masterbate!) LOL

[blacktcoolie]

your videos are always a big help, keep it up

[pscomics]

Shaquita Christ!!!! LOL!!!

[asaadiq]

frankenstein, dracula, the boogie man , rosie o' donald LOL. Seriously good advice. As men we should not be intimidated by any woman. If she says no so what, her loss move on. Women like confident men, that's why they always fall in love with assholes LOL, they are confident.Always be sure of yourself and always improve your weak areas. Keep the videos coming JuneBug.

[SeanCashPUA]

From a PUA to a Mack, the advice was spot on.

That dude should have at least said Hi or popped in to small talk to stay in rotation.

[bkstyle82]

I can NOT front, I used to be that dude. I've left plenty of deals "unclosed" and have kicked myself countless times. Even in situations where I was damn near certain the female was interested I would chicken out.

I guess getting a little older and interacting with people more has taken some of that fear of rejection out of me.

[DarkAstartes]

Sounds like the sort of thing I would do to be honest.

You're right though, what it essentially always boils down to is 'just do it'.

[glhthesource]

That guy who sent you the first letter was a bitch, I mean it happens to us all sometimes like when we under 20 but damn to just choke up like that??? However you did give him good advice I would have told him the same thing after making him the joke of the day lol

--George

[WildL23]

I always thought women liked Denzel more for his looks than his demeanor. Women were liking Denzel before he got those roles. And women like Denzel not the character he pretends to be on screen. I thought. Women were liking him before they really knew anything about him. So I'm kind of confused but there are tons of cats I'm sure that is far more confident than Denzel. He must have some kind of look that women were born to like or something.

[tre2375]

This is good advice. Junebug, I like your videos, you make a lot of sense. You sound very knowledgeable and educated. Keep giving us these informative videos.

[pinklisa]

I like your videos.

[1titans]

If she asks why you took so long, tell her you were dating someone

[keepthapinit]

good one...lol

[Dcthetruth85]

On point you sound like my uncle, hip on game 4reeeal.

[reign1222]

as usual excellent video

[jblue04]

Junebug you should be a MADE coach lol

[jblue04]

he should have asked for the number i mean the only thing to be afraid of is rejection and rejection won't kill you though it might feel like it....lol

good advice at 2:33 because that will definitely get you noticed.

[TheProdigy0789]

"he who hesitates masterbates" real talk right there.

[jblue04]

i love you junebug...

you're so entertaining

[zell2u]

LOL at he who waites masterbates

[caramelkidd]

Good sense my brotha

[JunebugObama]

Thanks, dawg!

[caramelkidd]

keep with the videos and I'll keep with the replies

[tha2ndchance]

You dumb as hell man

LMAo