To me your video is mostly about how to hurting a bw because you say over and over "the best way to hurt a bw is by dating out side the race and having a happy family" is this a training video for how to hurt a bw. I have met some of the sluttest ww that are pretending to be special. No one is buying it. I have had bm do to me what you are saying about bw and you don't see me crying and running to another race.
I want to also make mention that black americans are the most confused out of all the africans in the diaspora. It makes sense we've had our identity under attack since day 1. Whereas Jamaicans, Trinidadians, etc know who they are because their culture isn't constantly under attack. They don't have a sieged mentallity. We do as black americans we have a siege mentallity. MY GF from France originally frmo Rwanda told me when she came to the US that we are truly 2nd class citizens.
the world is changing and its silly for black women to be hurt by such a thing. interracial relationships have never ever ever bothered me, I'm in one and I support black men who are in them or anyone who is in a loving relationship, because that's far more important than race....being upset that a black man is with a nonblack woman is so foolishly immature its embarrassing that something so stupid and immature is hold so many smar black women down.
Maybe the reason why some black men date outside their race is because they're looking at the quality of the woman's character, and not their skin color. Dating based on character is a good reason to date somebody.
And on a saide note it amazes me what black women will go through for money and success. So many black women say they would still get with Chris brown or men like him simply because they have money! It's like say guy A works at office max and is respetful and lovers her but she would rather have guy B who is a chronic abuser and player but is a multi million dollar recording artist or Dr. Women don't know how great and thankful a man could be if shes there to help push him to greatness.
@supersayin1 And as a black woman, I have to say that these types of women, are settling for anyone that's black. They should be dating based on their quality of the person's character instead.
@gir908922 I agree 100% Who you date should not be decided upon color or determined by the social standard of the few close minded in black community. People would be amazed at who they will find, what they will learn, and the fun they may have if they woud simply diversify themselves. It's like saying just because your black you have to only listen to Rap,R&B, or Soul. Your missing out on other good music by staying in that bubble! Same goes for dating!
@gir908922 Your welcome! That is why i've always told my younger brother to be color blind to dating, and be diverse in life itself, which goes from dating, down to just where you go as a social surrounding. Now he realizes wow, now that he hasn't closed himself in that bubble, life and the people you meet is more enjoyable. Black people need to stop letting, BET, Vibe Magazinge, and Hip Hop artist, and the Hood dictate their lives. Be blessed, and have a great night!
I said it a million times. Black women only get upset when its a succesful brother with money with women outside the race. Making it a well since i'm black i should be the women he shares the money with. When 9 times out of 10 she gave him no play when he was broke!
1) I think that some men keep themselves down so that they won't be desirable to women. Plus they won't have to deal with envy from people who think that because he's black he's not supposed to have anything.
2) Some women can't find a good man because these brothers take themselves out of the game because they resent the fact that now that they are successful, the women are coming around. It makes them feel as though it's their stuff and not them that's important.
Very good video. Words spoken straight from the heart. I've encountered that scenario several times, women wanting the steak after tasting all of the hot dogs and hamburgers on the market. I can not count how many women I've kicked to the curb because of that.
Its a said case. I mean they wanna do the smallest thing and act like they have changed your life. I mean take it slow. They dont wanna take the time to truly know you or grow with you and its frustrated. I to had to turn away good women but i had to. Its to easy to like/love someone when they had to never make any sacrifices for you.
Most black women when their in college tend to try and date men who are already establish, as if the college brother wasn't good enough, and then after the establish man dumps or plays her years later she wants the brother from college, and tries to build off of that. Even with the brother who works at office max whos intrested in her, she will dis him but when he's the regional manager she wants him again, and gets pissed when he gets with the non black chick that dated him before him.
true. but i think thats only cos women want protectors/hunters (pinkk has mentioned this on another video). peeps make out like these yet-to-be-established dudes are bein played, altho that maybe the case sometimes. i dont think thats the be all and end all of it. i think they just...forget...or something.
To me your video is mostly about how to hurting a bw because you say over and over "the best way to hurt a bw is by dating out side the race and having a happy family" is this a training video for how to hurt a bw. I have met some of the sluttest ww that are pretending to be special. No one is buying it. I have had bm do to me what you are saying about bw and you don't see me crying and running to another race.
newmindseye 7 months ago
I want to also make mention that black americans are the most confused out of all the africans in the diaspora. It makes sense we've had our identity under attack since day 1. Whereas Jamaicans, Trinidadians, etc know who they are because their culture isn't constantly under attack. They don't have a sieged mentallity. We do as black americans we have a siege mentallity. MY GF from France originally frmo Rwanda told me when she came to the US that we are truly 2nd class citizens.
lordblazer 10 months ago
the world is changing and its silly for black women to be hurt by such a thing. interracial relationships have never ever ever bothered me, I'm in one and I support black men who are in them or anyone who is in a loving relationship, because that's far more important than race....being upset that a black man is with a nonblack woman is so foolishly immature its embarrassing that something so stupid and immature is hold so many smar black women down.
theherdmentality 1 year ago
Maybe the reason why some black men date outside their race is because they're looking at the quality of the woman's character, and not their skin color. Dating based on character is a good reason to date somebody.
gir908922 1 year ago
And on a saide note it amazes me what black women will go through for money and success. So many black women say they would still get with Chris brown or men like him simply because they have money! It's like say guy A works at office max and is respetful and lovers her but she would rather have guy B who is a chronic abuser and player but is a multi million dollar recording artist or Dr. Women don't know how great and thankful a man could be if shes there to help push him to greatness.
supersayin1 2 years ago 3
@supersayin1 And as a black woman, I have to say that these types of women, are settling for anyone that's black. They should be dating based on their quality of the person's character instead.
gir908922 1 year ago
@gir908922 I agree 100% Who you date should not be decided upon color or determined by the social standard of the few close minded in black community. People would be amazed at who they will find, what they will learn, and the fun they may have if they woud simply diversify themselves. It's like saying just because your black you have to only listen to Rap,R&B, or Soul. Your missing out on other good music by staying in that bubble! Same goes for dating!
supersayin1 1 year ago
@supersayin1 Thank you! That's exactly how I feel.
gir908922 1 year ago
@gir908922 Your welcome! That is why i've always told my younger brother to be color blind to dating, and be diverse in life itself, which goes from dating, down to just where you go as a social surrounding. Now he realizes wow, now that he hasn't closed himself in that bubble, life and the people you meet is more enjoyable. Black people need to stop letting, BET, Vibe Magazinge, and Hip Hop artist, and the Hood dictate their lives. Be blessed, and have a great night!
supersayin1 1 year ago
@supersayin1 I agree. You have a good night, too, man. ^__^
gir908922 1 year ago
I said it a million times. Black women only get upset when its a succesful brother with money with women outside the race. Making it a well since i'm black i should be the women he shares the money with. When 9 times out of 10 she gave him no play when he was broke!
supersayin1 2 years ago 8
Your words are so true, so true, so true
MrWorldbefree 2 years ago
Thanks even with my spell errors lol!
supersayin1 2 years ago
real talk
LetusbFree 2 years ago
Good vid, two points:
1) I think that some men keep themselves down so that they won't be desirable to women. Plus they won't have to deal with envy from people who think that because he's black he's not supposed to have anything.
2) Some women can't find a good man because these brothers take themselves out of the game because they resent the fact that now that they are successful, the women are coming around. It makes them feel as though it's their stuff and not them that's important.
saintcaffeine 2 years ago 4
Reel Talk!!
fiendga 3 years ago
Very good video. Words spoken straight from the heart. I've encountered that scenario several times, women wanting the steak after tasting all of the hot dogs and hamburgers on the market. I can not count how many women I've kicked to the curb because of that.
kingdre1000 3 years ago 4
Its a said case. I mean they wanna do the smallest thing and act like they have changed your life. I mean take it slow. They dont wanna take the time to truly know you or grow with you and its frustrated. I to had to turn away good women but i had to. Its to easy to like/love someone when they had to never make any sacrifices for you.
pinkkelephant 3 years ago
Most black women when their in college tend to try and date men who are already establish, as if the college brother wasn't good enough, and then after the establish man dumps or plays her years later she wants the brother from college, and tries to build off of that. Even with the brother who works at office max whos intrested in her, she will dis him but when he's the regional manager she wants him again, and gets pissed when he gets with the non black chick that dated him before him.
supersayin1 2 years ago 2
true. but i think thats only cos women want protectors/hunters (pinkk has mentioned this on another video). peeps make out like these yet-to-be-established dudes are bein played, altho that maybe the case sometimes. i dont think thats the be all and end all of it. i think they just...forget...or something.
CreeWilly 2 years ago