You are a lovely person. Although, it's difficult to love others when loving you back is clearly not on their agenda, but you're right, we should love regardless.
Lovely vlog. Only I have always heard it like this, "You can't truly love others if you don't love yourself." Not, "In order to be loved you must first love yourself." Yes. It IS about balance and learning to forgive yourself. Then you are able to forgive others.
It's not about, 'self-selfish-conceited-love'. It's about respect for all living creatures and places others' needs before your own. It's about truly celebrating diversity and embracing humanity.
Good plan! Some people might need a little kickstart, though, and sometimes thinking about something other than oneself is the way to do that. Love and peace to you.
True in many respects but in alot of ways. In alot of way's it is wrong. Jerks can be loved becuz they have power. People who love can be hated becuz of there looks. It is a fact of life...
Yes, but this has no bearing on how we, as individuals, decide to view the world. It is not about others; it is about ourselves. Adding positive energy to the world is its own reward. I ought to know! Love to you.
What you say in this video is the same thing people have been telling me for years. The thing is that I'm so sick of being rejected and screwed with that I don't want to try any more. I feel lonely but I don't want to deal with people, but if I don't deal with people I will be lonely. What a vicious cycle.
...first comment didn't post, I guess... I think that if you believe this will be true, it will be true. The idea is not to put out positive energy with the expectation that everyone will respond, but to do it for your own sake, because it makes you feel good. Then, you never know, something good might happen as a side effect. Love to you.
You shouldn't wait for others to love you cuz not everyone that you expect to love you will. Having a love for yourself doesn't come from anyone. It comes from you. That's why it's important to have self love first, becuz even if no one else loves you, someONE loves you, and that is yourself. And, always remember that God will ALWAYS love you. That's where my peace comes from.
I agree. The idea is not to expect love from anyone, but to offer love to others. Whether it is returned or not, the loving in itself is good for you. Love to you.
All I can is Amen 2 that pretty much sums it all up in a min and 19 secs there lol Its so cool what your doing here on you tube thanks for takeing the time to be my friend as always i send my love and prayers Jeff PS Oh I almost forgot Nice Job
Thanks, LR. I only mentioned "coming back" because I'd had some people write and think that my channel was a sham because I'd not posted in a while. Love and jokes to you, my friend.
ShortbusMooner: You may be right. After all, we have no way of checking. Consider, however: Even if this were true that some actions to not result in a reaction, isn't it still better to focus on putting positive energy into the universe? Even if it receives no response, it at least causes no harm. Negative energy, however, is more likely to cause harm--plus it has the potential to snap back at you negatively. Love to you.
Love the messages in your videos, and this one was a slightly different way of looking at things too. I agree with it too - love (as well as any other emotion), is exponential. The soul is a beautiful thing. Peace & love to you :)
There are people who will respond positively...but not everyone does. I think it's also very dangerous to advocate that our view of ourselves should be based on how others see us.
I agree on both points. On the first: Of course not everyone will react positively, but one has a better chance of getting positive reaction by behaving positively. On the second: This is not what I was saying. However, it can't be denied that if people are supporting you, you are more likely to feel positive about yourself. It shouldn't be the sole basis of your self-image, but it doesn't hurt, right? Love to you.
Fair enough. However, I am here to learn as much as anything else. It may be that your viewpoint would deepen my understanding on this. I'm happy to hear from you privately, if you choose. If not, that's perfectly fine, of course. Love, either way.
luv your work, i think i draw people from my positive attitude towards everyone!! i luv myself & i luv others, it's a great balance lol....have a great day!! xjoeyx
unfortunately im going to have to disagree :o( see i have loved how ever i still do not love myself ,ita difficult because most of the people i love dont give it back just negativity which doesnt make me love or feel good about myself .. but i guess it depends on the person , it may work for some but for some others it doesnt work ...:o)
It's true that not everyone is going to respond in exactly the way you would like. But that does not mean you should stop trying to be positive toward others. Notice that the negativity you receive from others creates negativity in you... Why, then, should your positivity not create positivity? I love you, anyway.
Hey, just a thought, teddibearsangel...I know what you're saying - and if in that situation of recieving negativity, it's very difficult to see things positively. I mean, I always thought that if everyone around me is depressed then I would be too. But through the negative, there always comes a positive - you can't emerge into light without having been in the dark first of all. It's like people only know how to be negative because they understand positive :)
Now, see how we've gotten love and positive energy started flowing, just by deciding to do it? This is what I'm talking about. Love and hugs, both of you.
I've addressed this question in previous videos, if you're interested, and I probably will explore it in the future. It's unfortunate you've chosen to unsubscribe, because it removes the possibility that we may learn from each other. Love to you.
Yes you can..I do.. What good does hate do? Bring a negative impact in your life. I used to have hate in me. Its not worth it. Loving everyone is a much more peaceful way to live. You can love even your enemies for it is they that teach you the most, and make you strong. PEACE
Balance yes, I agree with that. Moderation yes I believe in that. But why is hate something we need to balance... Maybe if you have a lot hate in your life you would need to balance it. I certainly won't be adding hate to my life. Why do you think Hate is needed? I like my happy life with out hating.
hey man i am just saying, if everyone loved everyone always, then how would you know when you REALLY loved someone? we'd have, like, "love" and "superlove" or something. better to just leave it how it is?
BeTrue: I agree. There is much we can learn from hatred, or from confronting hatred, either in ourselves or externally. I also think it is unfortunate but true that we needn't worry that love and hate will become out of balance. The universe creates well enough negative energy to balance the positive. The balance exists, regardless of what we do. But, all things being equal, it seems just as easy to focus on increasing the positive in some small way, rather than the negative. Love to you.
zzz33333: I've run into this definition discussion previously. It sounds like you are thinking of romantic love, or possibly filial love, whereas I am talking more generally, about positive energy placed out into the universe. Though they share some commonality, they also stem from some very different sources. Hope that helps. Love.
I found it! Love is the answer. It makes everything smooth. Laughter makes loving easier.
NancyToday 1 year ago
world peace is very unlikly violence will always be around but i geuss... you have todo your best as a individual
koolKaid 3 years ago
so true... love to you xxx
am1musica 4 years ago
As the Beatles said:
...and in the end, the Love you take is equal to the Love you make.
onboardvideo 4 years ago
You are a lovely person. Although, it's difficult to love others when loving you back is clearly not on their agenda, but you're right, we should love regardless.
Lundadeuna 4 years ago
Great video. I really liked it.
AbstractNerd 4 years ago
:) Too beautiful.
kaberlova 4 years ago
This is the road of peace.. Thats cool.. LIKE YOU! =] I love you, and I hope to one day love myself too. <3
tiffarooroo 4 years ago
Lovely vlog. Only I have always heard it like this, "You can't truly love others if you don't love yourself." Not, "In order to be loved you must first love yourself." Yes. It IS about balance and learning to forgive yourself. Then you are able to forgive others.
daligoddess2006 4 years ago
It's not about, 'self-selfish-conceited-love'. It's about respect for all living creatures and places others' needs before your own. It's about truly celebrating diversity and embracing humanity.
daligoddess2006 4 years ago
I would say, ALL of humanity could use a little embracing these days. In fact, the entire world could use a GREAT BIG HUG right about now! =D
~WorldPeace, Celebrate Diversity & EVOLVE PEOPLE!~
daligoddess2006 4 years ago
i say work on both at once!
sadvipran 4 years ago
Good plan! Some people might need a little kickstart, though, and sometimes thinking about something other than oneself is the way to do that. Love and peace to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
I'm sending you my love! Nice video!
mia0899cs 4 years ago
Thanks! Right back at you!
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Sending a hug full of love to you! Love yourself :o)
BattlefieldDoktor 4 years ago
Love right back.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Didn't I meet you about 5,200 years ago and then again about 2,600 years ago and then again about 2,000 years ago?
USALawyer 4 years ago
Nah. Those were my friends, and a lot smarter than I. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
במדה שאדם מוֹדד בה מוֹדדין לוֹ וכן מדה זוּ לכל באי עוֹלם
USALawyer 4 years ago
Sadly, I don't know what that says. But thanks! Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
You are quite the philosopher. You have a talent for explaing things well.
misanthropy101 4 years ago
Thanks. It's hard work! Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Yeah, it is hard work, but somebody has to do it, and i'm glad it is you.
misanthropy101 4 years ago
True in many respects but in alot of ways. In alot of way's it is wrong. Jerks can be loved becuz they have power. People who love can be hated becuz of there looks. It is a fact of life...
metalfan182 4 years ago
Yes, but this has no bearing on how we, as individuals, decide to view the world. It is not about others; it is about ourselves. Adding positive energy to the world is its own reward. I ought to know! Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
these videos are effing awesome
viva2009 4 years ago
Thanks, Viva. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Much love to you, my friend... peace.
DJKarlos69 4 years ago
Love right back!
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
I love these messages. Resonate with me so much. Thank you. :)
Rhonda9 4 years ago
You're welcome. Thanks for saying so! Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
i needed this message today...thank you! pg:)
ThePeaceGuy 4 years ago
Glad to help, peaceguy. Love (and peace) to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
What you say in this video is the same thing people have been telling me for years. The thing is that I'm so sick of being rejected and screwed with that I don't want to try any more. I feel lonely but I don't want to deal with people, but if I don't deal with people I will be lonely. What a vicious cycle.
diverkev 4 years ago
...first comment didn't post, I guess... I think that if you believe this will be true, it will be true. The idea is not to put out positive energy with the expectation that everyone will respond, but to do it for your own sake, because it makes you feel good. Then, you never know, something good might happen as a side effect. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
You shouldn't wait for others to love you cuz not everyone that you expect to love you will. Having a love for yourself doesn't come from anyone. It comes from you. That's why it's important to have self love first, becuz even if no one else loves you, someONE loves you, and that is yourself. And, always remember that God will ALWAYS love you. That's where my peace comes from.
Shana80 4 years ago
I agree. The idea is not to expect love from anyone, but to offer love to others. Whether it is returned or not, the loving in itself is good for you. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Love to you too. :)
Shana80 4 years ago
All I can is Amen 2 that pretty much sums it all up in a min and 19 secs there lol Its so cool what your doing here on you tube thanks for takeing the time to be my friend as always i send my love and prayers Jeff PS Oh I almost forgot Nice Job
DocHolliday92966 4 years ago
Thanks, Jeff. Love to you, as always.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
muah Clarisa a big hug (((((((((clarisa)))))) and kiss for u sweetie love u hun
DocHolliday92966 4 years ago
Amen.
torpedofish 4 years ago
Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Buddha De Sol????
GivinUpOnGood 4 years ago
Just Clarissa. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
You're the greatest.
TrailerTuber 4 years ago
We're all the greatest, if we want to be. Love you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Thank you for this! Glad to see you didn't leave us! lol(Joke) Great vid as always:)
LavonRoss 4 years ago
Thanks, LR. I only mentioned "coming back" because I'd had some people write and think that my channel was a sham because I'd not posted in a while. Love and jokes to you, my friend.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
I don't necessarily believe that for every action, there is a reaction.
Hmmmmmm.......
ShortbusMooner 4 years ago
i mean, that's not something you "Believe" in. it's true.
zzz33333 4 years ago
ShortbusMooner: You may be right. After all, we have no way of checking. Consider, however: Even if this were true that some actions to not result in a reaction, isn't it still better to focus on putting positive energy into the universe? Even if it receives no response, it at least causes no harm. Negative energy, however, is more likely to cause harm--plus it has the potential to snap back at you negatively. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Oh, yes! Most definately. I was actually referring to the opposite. As in, there doesn't have to be a hate for every love! There can just be love!
I kinda like that idea! :)
ShortbusMooner 4 years ago
Ah... And you see how I took it in the "negative" sense? Funny. Sounds like we're on the same page, after all. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Love back atcha! :)
ShortbusMooner 4 years ago
You should seriously write a book!
awalkingenmity 4 years ago
How nice of you to say! If you only knew how much effort it actually takes to make even a video of a few sentences... Alas. No book. But love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
glad to see you back
thatbamma 4 years ago
Thanks! I'm pretty busy these days, but I wanted everyone to know I'm still on the job, spreading love! Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
very true Clarissa,
love to you
=)
my1site 4 years ago
Love right back.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Perfect!
modernoracle 4 years ago
Well, not really. But trying to improve! Love to you, and thanks!
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Thank you, very well done :)
Karebee 4 years ago
So kind. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Great video, and the message is so true!
PlasmaDude47 4 years ago
Glad it works for you. Love. Pass it on.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Love the messages in your videos, and this one was a slightly different way of looking at things too. I agree with it too - love (as well as any other emotion), is exponential. The soul is a beautiful thing. Peace & love to you :)
SuperJimiRiddle 4 years ago
Love, SJR.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Wow, thank you.
TeslinGuy 4 years ago
Thanks to you. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Beautifully done
Fringe111 4 years ago
Here's some love for you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
nice video
neokasuki 4 years ago
Thanks! Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
True love is "unconditional love"!
Your writing is awesome
dabiribd 4 years ago
Thanks. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
There are people who will respond positively...but not everyone does. I think it's also very dangerous to advocate that our view of ourselves should be based on how others see us.
petrus4 4 years ago
amen to that, petrus4
logana13 4 years ago
I agree on both points. On the first: Of course not everyone will react positively, but one has a better chance of getting positive reaction by behaving positively. On the second: This is not what I was saying. However, it can't be denied that if people are supporting you, you are more likely to feel positive about yourself. It shouldn't be the sole basis of your self-image, but it doesn't hurt, right? Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Not with ya on this one.
oneiblind30 4 years ago
Could you be more specific? Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
just don't agree with your feelings on this.
oneiblind30 4 years ago
Fair enough. However, I am here to learn as much as anything else. It may be that your viewpoint would deepen my understanding on this. I'm happy to hear from you privately, if you choose. If not, that's perfectly fine, of course. Love, either way.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
You will reap what you sow according to the song by Lou Reed
robboblin 4 years ago
Indeed. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
The meaning you convey is true
liquidmajic 4 years ago
Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
luv your work, i think i draw people from my positive attitude towards everyone!! i luv myself & i luv others, it's a great balance lol....have a great day!! xjoeyx
joey0028 4 years ago
Sounds like you're on the right track. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
unfortunately im going to have to disagree :o( see i have loved how ever i still do not love myself ,ita difficult because most of the people i love dont give it back just negativity which doesnt make me love or feel good about myself .. but i guess it depends on the person , it may work for some but for some others it doesnt work ...:o)
TeddibearsAngel 4 years ago
It's true that not everyone is going to respond in exactly the way you would like. But that does not mean you should stop trying to be positive toward others. Notice that the negativity you receive from others creates negativity in you... Why, then, should your positivity not create positivity? I love you, anyway.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
that makes sense :o) i love you 2 ((bighug))
TeddibearsAngel 4 years ago
Hey, just a thought, teddibearsangel...I know what you're saying - and if in that situation of recieving negativity, it's very difficult to see things positively. I mean, I always thought that if everyone around me is depressed then I would be too. But through the negative, there always comes a positive - you can't emerge into light without having been in the dark first of all. It's like people only know how to be negative because they understand positive :)
SuperJimiRiddle 4 years ago
((((( BIGHUG))))
TeddibearsAngel 4 years ago
Love & Big Hugs to you too! :)
SuperJimiRiddle 4 years ago
Now, see how we've gotten love and positive energy started flowing, just by deciding to do it? This is what I'm talking about. Love and hugs, both of you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Awesome Video.
scottklaw 4 years ago
Thanks. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Nice video. You've got a point there. I think that both are true.
LoneStarr92 4 years ago
Thanks. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
i disagree. i'm unsubscribing to make a point.
zzz33333 4 years ago
Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
where's the hate. you can't love everybody. that's a load of hooey.
zzz33333 4 years ago
I've addressed this question in previous videos, if you're interested, and I probably will explore it in the future. It's unfortunate you've chosen to unsubscribe, because it removes the possibility that we may learn from each other. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
Yes you can..I do.. What good does hate do? Bring a negative impact in your life. I used to have hate in me. Its not worth it. Loving everyone is a much more peaceful way to live. You can love even your enemies for it is they that teach you the most, and make you strong. PEACE
BeTrue2beingYou 4 years ago
BALANCE
zzz33333 4 years ago
Balance yes, I agree with that. Moderation yes I believe in that. But why is hate something we need to balance... Maybe if you have a lot hate in your life you would need to balance it. I certainly won't be adding hate to my life. Why do you think Hate is needed? I like my happy life with out hating.
BeTrue2beingYou 4 years ago
hey man i am just saying, if everyone loved everyone always, then how would you know when you REALLY loved someone? we'd have, like, "love" and "superlove" or something. better to just leave it how it is?
zzz33333 4 years ago
I agree. I've learned much from "hate" in my life. Don't regret hate at all. I've learned that hate is something I don't want in my life.
BeTrue2beingYou 4 years ago
BeTrue: I agree. There is much we can learn from hatred, or from confronting hatred, either in ourselves or externally. I also think it is unfortunate but true that we needn't worry that love and hate will become out of balance. The universe creates well enough negative energy to balance the positive. The balance exists, regardless of what we do. But, all things being equal, it seems just as easy to focus on increasing the positive in some small way, rather than the negative. Love to you.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
zzz33333: I've run into this definition discussion previously. It sounds like you are thinking of romantic love, or possibly filial love, whereas I am talking more generally, about positive energy placed out into the universe. Though they share some commonality, they also stem from some very different sources. Hope that helps. Love.
DamnILovesYouPeople 4 years ago
there needs to be some negative energy to balance out the positive??
zzz33333 4 years ago