Its the same thing in Russia and Ukraine. Even an unemployed drunken lazy abusive Russian stooge and find a dedicated pretty and faithful wife. He will of course have no respect at all for her and will be cheating on her minutes after the honeymoon but hey they think thats their right.
Found this intresting post on the web: I got married a few months ago for all the wrong reasons. I was just looking for a good man to be dad to my 6 year old son. Dont get me wrong i care for my husband and will do anything to make him happy but i just dont love him. He never leaves home without saying that he is the lucky one to have me as a wife. Then i feel bad cause i say that i love him too but in my heart i know im lying.
My husband think im the best thing since sliced bread and he worships me and my son. I dont want to loose the life i have with him, cause chances are slim that i will meet someone like that again.
So many men are freaking dumb suckers that women play them and so many women are better of avoided. The West is such a wierd place where men have so little value and women are so prized that Western men are quite welling to do anything, including raising other men kids and taking any kind of abuse and be with women that do not love them, or even abusive or unfaithful just to be married.
Yes, a higher level of spirituality may well be a major drive behind them, but I think the overwhelming male achievements are due much more to the superior conceptual and creative abilities of men, and the presence of many more male geniuses.
But then again, Nature gave men those abilities in greater amount for a reason - which is almost definitely the protection of women.
The reason most men are driven to accomplish isn't because of some spiritual enlightenment. It's because men are success objects and women the more you succeed the more attractive you are to women. And men know this.
To some extent you are right. Men want to gain status to marry some beautiful woman. The higher their status, the better chance of getting a more beautiful women. IMO, a man's life revolves around sex, while a woman uses sex to gain other things. For woman, sex itself is not something very special, because they can easily get it from anyone anytime easily, while for men it is a sort of victory!
I think what you are missing out on, Schopenbecq, is that many of the inventions of men were made for the sake of protecting or enriching women.Much of art, poetry or literature has some form of love or sex in them.
So, while women most probably devote most of their time to sex itself, men devote most of their their time to the protection and glorification of sex, viz., women.
No, we do need it.If not sex, then a surrogate of sex.We need to get our semen out of our system.
For women, the urge is several times lesser.All the viable women of the world produce about 400 eggs per day in total, compared to all the viable men producing some 200 trillion sperm cells.
^That's a 500 BILLION TIMES LESSER gamete count for females than males.Of course men need sex more than women do.
I've noticed that to in our own culture in America. I think feminist equate equality with being men so they imitate the behavior of men. The only problem is that they imitate the bad behavior and they hate being womanly at all so they work really hard to be like men.
"Saying a man doesn't need a woman, and a woman doen't need a man, is like saying the Earth doesn't need the sky......to keep it's self together."
Really depends on a lot of things.For men, it's mostly(say 75%) sex.For women, it's almost entirely shelter.Now, you can argue that there are so many 'empowered' women today.Sure, but then, these women always end up being miserable.
Ok. I don't believe men "need" sex. I do believe that men (having 10 to 20 times the testosterone coursing through their veins that women do.) have a very difficult time thinking about anything else.
Has Bernard done an inferno on how women see themselves as being more "highly evolved" and how men are neanderthals because all they're interested in is sex?
Just once I want to see someone stand up and say the opposite. The reason the only thing men want from women is sex is because they don't NEED any of that other crap. We don't need to be coddled, have crap bought for us, protect us, or any of that other crap.
Well, I have my own home, I have a business, and I can pay for myself. Wouldn't you say I don't need a man. I wouldn't. Saying a man doesn't need a woman, and a woman doen't need a man, is like saying the Earth doesn't need the sky......to keep it's self together.
It's not that men don't like the American woman. It's just that they are not what the males think as being that desirable. Maybe also a little aging and whiny.
I wander if it is feminism in general that has been giving women lots of privileges and turned them into brats. Men are seen as second-class citizens, the marriage strike... probably all have to do with this.
Very good commentary. This is a rather unfamiliar topic for me.
And I think that this situation in Eastern Europe, if it in fact does exist, can be attributed to a lot of other causes.Political turmoil, war, wooly-minded redistribution and westernisation has destroyed much of their erstwhile society, morals and culture.
For another thing, males themselves are held in a higher light, because of the highly disproportionate gender ratio that existed there after the second world war, and still exists to an extent.
I never stayed in those countries for long.The only country I stayed in for more than a month was Russia.During that time, I met a lot of men there.I never sensed this type of behaviour.Of course I lived in Moscow for most of the time.I don't know about the suburban or rural situation.
Depends on how much time you lived there. Two years for me. Of all the Ukrianian and Czech guys I met, every single one of them cheated and did so as if it was their god given right. Also, at least half if not more had at one point beaten their wives or girlfriends. Its not a subject Eastern Euro girls talk much about, as they try to put a good face on things, much the way most American guys do in polite, open conversation. But when you scratch the surface, its a weeping festering wound.
"Anyhow, Eastern Euro/Russian men are the "opposite number" of American females. Exact same traits, just inverted. Self absorbed, selfish, abusive, prone to deceit, backstabbing, just all around scumbags."
I don't think that's true at all.I myself have been to Romania, Russia and Ukraine, along with U.K and Germany.I didn't find the men there to be nearly as bad as you make them out to be.The women in Eastern Europe, however, were very nice.Not quite the same in western Europe I'm afraid.
I did the same thing before I took a trip to Eastern Europe. But saying "all guys are the same" is the same as saying "all females are the same". Sound familiar? Anyhow, Eastern Euro/Russian men are the "opposite number" of American females. Exact same traits, just inverted. Self absorbed, selfish, abusive, prone to deceit, backstabbing, just all around scumbags. They, like American females, will pretend to be "on your team", then shiv you the millisecond they think the gain outweighs the risk.
What alot of men fail to see is that the "Marriage Strike" (google it, great stuff) is having a profound impact on the issue. We men have been raised to see ourselves as second-class citizens, but things have changed in the last 5 or so years. We are on the verge of a "Relationship Renaissance" with a collapsing economy and a sizeable percentage of the eligable males in Iraq. The only problem is, NOBODY WANTS THE AMERICAN FEMALE! But Western men are in very high demand indeed.
Dream on dude... And your comment about the troops in Iraq being outside the mating pool is such loser talk. If you are happy to draw benfit from their absance while they defend your freedom with their blood, then that is low. They deserve better from you. Take it from me: ["Pussy"] in the America will always be at a premium for the average dude. Women will always be able to get what they want from men under whatever title jives with the times,- if not marriage, it will be something else.
"I have noticed this thing with older women between 38 and 45 where they basically throw themselves at any guy they meet for a one night stand."
That's because their body tells them that time is nearly up.
Another problem with these older ladies is that they are a burden upon the government, viz., tax payers' money.When women don't get a husband, they tend to look towards the government as 'Daddy.'
Oh yes,I have been cornered by quite a few of these has beens. In most of them it is still possible to see the remnants of what was once upon a time a hot chick. Their power is waning fast and they always appear desperate for some kind of attention, even if its only "get lost!" Fortunately for them, their numbers are increasing dramatically so at least they will have company of sorts.
I have noticed this thing with older women between 38 and 45 where they basically throw themselves at any guy they meet for a one night stand. I have also noticed this with single women with kids as well.
They are single and they feel the need to make up for wasted time (being married or taking care of kids). It is easy for them to get laid- So, why not from their point of view. If a middle age over weight balding man with nothing more than an average tool can get sex with younger attractive women as easy as his female counterpart, he would get as much as he can.
When I first started to examine the issue of the "battle of the sexes" I did tend to obsess over American females. But after my first trip to South America, I started to focus more on the solution (Hot young foreign girls...like my wife for example) then the problem (shrill bloated obnoxious subhuman American/Western females). After almost 5 years of blissful marriage, I care barely work up a yawn. Who gives a flying rats rump about cougars? They aint even on my radar. To each their own I guess.
My wife is 10 years younger then I am, and thats about the logical limit in age difference. Anything beyond that and you run the risk of developing problems. Its best to wait for them to graduate university, as thats when they are faced with the very real prospect of working for a living, spending their days being beaten by a drunken Russian guy every weekend, or marriage to a decent and stable Western man. And I am not rich, I live on a disabled veterans prension. I just planned it out is all.
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... you lost me after 3:30.. Johnny Q Bob? Nostril penetration?
Also are you putting older women down for making the most of what they've got? For doing what works? Or is this resentment for when they were younger, and so much harder to get?
Cougars are the female equivalent of dirty old man and they are both creepy and funny at the same time. Bernie is a social commentator and a funny guy- Why would he not poke fun at clueless menopausal hussies?
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Its the same thing in Russia and Ukraine. Even an unemployed drunken lazy abusive Russian stooge and find a dedicated pretty and faithful wife. He will of course have no respect at all for her and will be cheating on her minutes after the honeymoon but hey they think thats their right.
gulskjegg 3 years ago
Found this intresting post on the web: I got married a few months ago for all the wrong reasons. I was just looking for a good man to be dad to my 6 year old son. Dont get me wrong i care for my husband and will do anything to make him happy but i just dont love him. He never leaves home without saying that he is the lucky one to have me as a wife. Then i feel bad cause i say that i love him too but in my heart i know im lying.
ibmsony101 3 years ago
Cont:
My husband think im the best thing since sliced bread and he worships me and my son. I dont want to loose the life i have with him, cause chances are slim that i will meet someone like that again.
ibmsony101 3 years ago
So many men are freaking dumb suckers that women play them and so many women are better of avoided. The West is such a wierd place where men have so little value and women are so prized that Western men are quite welling to do anything, including raising other men kids and taking any kind of abuse and be with women that do not love them, or even abusive or unfaithful just to be married.
ibmsony101 3 years ago 6
Yes, a higher level of spirituality may well be a major drive behind them, but I think the overwhelming male achievements are due much more to the superior conceptual and creative abilities of men, and the presence of many more male geniuses.
But then again, Nature gave men those abilities in greater amount for a reason - which is almost definitely the protection of women.
jupiviv 3 years ago 2
The reason most men are driven to accomplish isn't because of some spiritual enlightenment. It's because men are success objects and women the more you succeed the more attractive you are to women. And men know this.
Orville9999 3 years ago
To some extent you are right. Men want to gain status to marry some beautiful woman. The higher their status, the better chance of getting a more beautiful women. IMO, a man's life revolves around sex, while a woman uses sex to gain other things. For woman, sex itself is not something very special, because they can easily get it from anyone anytime easily, while for men it is a sort of victory!
PersonOfBook 2 years ago
I think what you are missing out on, Schopenbecq, is that many of the inventions of men were made for the sake of protecting or enriching women.Much of art, poetry or literature has some form of love or sex in them.
So, while women most probably devote most of their time to sex itself, men devote most of their their time to the protection and glorification of sex, viz., women.
jupiviv 3 years ago
No, we do need it.If not sex, then a surrogate of sex.We need to get our semen out of our system.
For women, the urge is several times lesser.All the viable women of the world produce about 400 eggs per day in total, compared to all the viable men producing some 200 trillion sperm cells.
^That's a 500 BILLION TIMES LESSER gamete count for females than males.Of course men need sex more than women do.
jupiviv 3 years ago 3
"If you believe all that men need is sex"
I said they MOSTLY need sex.World of difference.
jupiviv 3 years ago
I've noticed that to in our own culture in America. I think feminist equate equality with being men so they imitate the behavior of men. The only problem is that they imitate the bad behavior and they hate being womanly at all so they work really hard to be like men.
timbosforporn 3 years ago 3
"Saying a man doesn't need a woman, and a woman doen't need a man, is like saying the Earth doesn't need the sky......to keep it's self together."
Really depends on a lot of things.For men, it's mostly(say 75%) sex.For women, it's almost entirely shelter.Now, you can argue that there are so many 'empowered' women today.Sure, but then, these women always end up being miserable.
jupiviv 3 years ago
If you believe all that men need is sex...then I've got some land on Uranus I'd like to sell you...the market's not doing so well but it will turn.
ndependenthinkr 3 years ago
Ok. I don't believe men "need" sex. I do believe that men (having 10 to 20 times the testosterone coursing through their veins that women do.) have a very difficult time thinking about anything else.
Orville9999 3 years ago
also, to Bernard. It looks like you lift. What's your total (bench, squat deadlift.)
Orville9999 3 years ago
Has Bernard done an inferno on how women see themselves as being more "highly evolved" and how men are neanderthals because all they're interested in is sex?
Just once I want to see someone stand up and say the opposite. The reason the only thing men want from women is sex is because they don't NEED any of that other crap. We don't need to be coddled, have crap bought for us, protect us, or any of that other crap.
If anything, men are the evolved ones. Not women.
Orville9999 3 years ago 2
Well, I have my own home, I have a business, and I can pay for myself. Wouldn't you say I don't need a man. I wouldn't. Saying a man doesn't need a woman, and a woman doen't need a man, is like saying the Earth doesn't need the sky......to keep it's self together.
ndependenthinkr 3 years ago
It's not that men don't like the American woman. It's just that they are not what the males think as being that desirable. Maybe also a little aging and whiny.
I wander if it is feminism in general that has been giving women lots of privileges and turned them into brats. Men are seen as second-class citizens, the marriage strike... probably all have to do with this.
Very good commentary. This is a rather unfamiliar topic for me.
soccom8341576 3 years ago
And I think that this situation in Eastern Europe, if it in fact does exist, can be attributed to a lot of other causes.Political turmoil, war, wooly-minded redistribution and westernisation has destroyed much of their erstwhile society, morals and culture.
For another thing, males themselves are held in a higher light, because of the highly disproportionate gender ratio that existed there after the second world war, and still exists to an extent.
jupiviv 3 years ago
I never stayed in those countries for long.The only country I stayed in for more than a month was Russia.During that time, I met a lot of men there.I never sensed this type of behaviour.Of course I lived in Moscow for most of the time.I don't know about the suburban or rural situation.
jupiviv 3 years ago
Depends on how much time you lived there. Two years for me. Of all the Ukrianian and Czech guys I met, every single one of them cheated and did so as if it was their god given right. Also, at least half if not more had at one point beaten their wives or girlfriends. Its not a subject Eastern Euro girls talk much about, as they try to put a good face on things, much the way most American guys do in polite, open conversation. But when you scratch the surface, its a weeping festering wound.
gulskjegg 3 years ago
"Anyhow, Eastern Euro/Russian men are the "opposite number" of American females. Exact same traits, just inverted. Self absorbed, selfish, abusive, prone to deceit, backstabbing, just all around scumbags."
I don't think that's true at all.I myself have been to Romania, Russia and Ukraine, along with U.K and Germany.I didn't find the men there to be nearly as bad as you make them out to be.The women in Eastern Europe, however, were very nice.Not quite the same in western Europe I'm afraid.
jupiviv 3 years ago
I did the same thing before I took a trip to Eastern Europe. But saying "all guys are the same" is the same as saying "all females are the same". Sound familiar? Anyhow, Eastern Euro/Russian men are the "opposite number" of American females. Exact same traits, just inverted. Self absorbed, selfish, abusive, prone to deceit, backstabbing, just all around scumbags. They, like American females, will pretend to be "on your team", then shiv you the millisecond they think the gain outweighs the risk.
gulskjegg 3 years ago 2
What alot of men fail to see is that the "Marriage Strike" (google it, great stuff) is having a profound impact on the issue. We men have been raised to see ourselves as second-class citizens, but things have changed in the last 5 or so years. We are on the verge of a "Relationship Renaissance" with a collapsing economy and a sizeable percentage of the eligable males in Iraq. The only problem is, NOBODY WANTS THE AMERICAN FEMALE! But Western men are in very high demand indeed.
gulskjegg 3 years ago
Dream on dude... And your comment about the troops in Iraq being outside the mating pool is such loser talk. If you are happy to draw benfit from their absance while they defend your freedom with their blood, then that is low. They deserve better from you. Take it from me: ["Pussy"] in the America will always be at a premium for the average dude. Women will always be able to get what they want from men under whatever title jives with the times,- if not marriage, it will be something else.
ibmsony101 3 years ago
"I have noticed this thing with older women between 38 and 45 where they basically throw themselves at any guy they meet for a one night stand."
That's because their body tells them that time is nearly up.
Another problem with these older ladies is that they are a burden upon the government, viz., tax payers' money.When women don't get a husband, they tend to look towards the government as 'Daddy.'
jupiviv 3 years ago
Oh yes,I have been cornered by quite a few of these has beens. In most of them it is still possible to see the remnants of what was once upon a time a hot chick. Their power is waning fast and they always appear desperate for some kind of attention, even if its only "get lost!" Fortunately for them, their numbers are increasing dramatically so at least they will have company of sorts.
bettyswolloks2 3 years ago
I have noticed this thing with older women between 38 and 45 where they basically throw themselves at any guy they meet for a one night stand. I have also noticed this with single women with kids as well.
timbosforporn 3 years ago
They are single and they feel the need to make up for wasted time (being married or taking care of kids). It is easy for them to get laid- So, why not from their point of view. If a middle age over weight balding man with nothing more than an average tool can get sex with younger attractive women as easy as his female counterpart, he would get as much as he can.
ibmsony101 3 years ago
When I first started to examine the issue of the "battle of the sexes" I did tend to obsess over American females. But after my first trip to South America, I started to focus more on the solution (Hot young foreign girls...like my wife for example) then the problem (shrill bloated obnoxious subhuman American/Western females). After almost 5 years of blissful marriage, I care barely work up a yawn. Who gives a flying rats rump about cougars? They aint even on my radar. To each their own I guess.
gulskjegg 3 years ago 3
You're my new hero!
Q: 1. what the age diff?
2. how 'wealthy' do you have to be, for the foreign chicks to see you as a great catch?
Andybaby 3 years ago
My wife is 10 years younger then I am, and thats about the logical limit in age difference. Anything beyond that and you run the risk of developing problems. Its best to wait for them to graduate university, as thats when they are faced with the very real prospect of working for a living, spending their days being beaten by a drunken Russian guy every weekend, or marriage to a decent and stable Western man. And I am not rich, I live on a disabled veterans prension. I just planned it out is all.
gulskjegg 3 years ago
I've always assumed the 'drunken Russian abuser' stereotype was a myth perpetuated by social climbing Russian women.
ps. sounds like you've done your homework - what would u suggest former USSR, or Sth America?
Andybaby 3 years ago
hahahaha Bernard this is your funniest video ever
crypter27 3 years ago
Yeah, I said "his" daughter when I meant "her" daughter. Otherwise it was okay though.
pinegrove33 3 years ago
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... you lost me after 3:30.. Johnny Q Bob? Nostril penetration?
Also are you putting older women down for making the most of what they've got? For doing what works? Or is this resentment for when they were younger, and so much harder to get?
Andybaby 3 years ago
Cougars are the female equivalent of dirty old man and they are both creepy and funny at the same time. Bernie is a social commentator and a funny guy- Why would he not poke fun at clueless menopausal hussies?
ibmsony101 3 years ago 7