andrea seems like a total bitch. she's obviously not into the whole relationship thing and is the type of person that just wants flings and short-term stuff.
These people are fucking robots, except for the girl that said, what the point of living and not sharing your life with someone. Andrea is full of shit, she's one of those girls, who wants to love, but doesn't understand sacrifice, americans we are so selfish. by the way girl we are all individuals there are many types of man, if you know yourself and know how to seek, no daddy issues or anything you'll be find. Is all about fear with people, WTF
i got a question. what the hell do these people do that they can afford to live by themselves in the first place? and in Los Angeles of all places too.
@Paul2000 I totally agree. It just depends on how independent you are. There's nothing wrong with wanting to live alone, or wanting to live with someone.
As a side note, statistically, people who live together before marriage have a greater chance of divorce than those who don't. Weird, but true.
If you are 100% self centered then you will never want/ find someone you can live with, or should i say someone who will put up with you. Remember. You are not a princess, you never have been and never will be. Get over yourself.
If you are mutually compatible and are willing to make the small sacrifices for some real resposibility and devotion to loving someone then there is no question.
I just hooked up with my roomate. So we started off living together, and grew crushes for eachother just hanging out in 5 person house. Dispite school and breaking up. We got back together when we matured and finished our school long distance 4 years later. It's been 3 great years and i still love her just as much if not more. It all boils down to how selfish you are.
I think it all leads back to if you're a dependent person or independent person. Andrea seems independent, so she likes her space. Sarah seems dependent, so it seems like she somewhat needs her boyfriend to feel good at the end of the day.
i was dating a girl for 2 years and when we moved in together and broke up 2 months later.... a woman i worked with dated a guy for 7 years, got married and divorced 2 years later.. so you definitely want to live together before you get married!!!!!!!!!
Any woman that took his joke at the end seriously needs to lighten up and understand that men make jokes like that. Living with someone helps you know whether you do want to marry them. I mean fuck you don't marry someone you've never lived with and expect it to last. You don't know eachother til you live together. They could be hell annoying and you wouldn't know til you're already married!
MARRIED life is about commitment and obligation. SINGLE life is not, enjoy it and the freedom it entails while you have it. Just because you are single doesn't mean you have loose morals or are lonely. Marriage is beautiful, but there should be a stark difference.
No offense, but my point was if you want to ACT married might as well be married people are saying love is the reason, marriage is the way to show it. If you want to just sex it up all of your life, sex it up.
Matt certainly doesn't have a problem with it, he has done it before.. and will do it again after her. He certainly has the buy the cow mentality.."now go clean the kitchen" you think he was playing?. No.. that's why he keeps getting "the milk" for free. Don't give them the satisfaction.
so you are saying that men and women living together are "acting married" lol...
you are so closed minded and brainwashed..
Ever occur to you that maybe someone may be married unhappily and staying because of a contractual obligation and not because they love you...
and two people living together might not feel the need to sign a contract to prove their love to others and are staying together because they want to be together without obligation.
@coolbeens21 I Yes, men and women living together are ACTING married and brainwashed is going with the crowd saying it's o.k. to be married and living together, and ppl may do it for a contractual agreement, if not we would all be perfect, and I understand what you are saying wanting to live together without obligation, I was saying the same thing.. that's why they don't get married bc they don't want obligation to whoever allows it. BUT I wouldn't stand for it. My esteem is too high.
@coolbeens21 If you love a person, you wouldn't mind the obligation sweety! And foreal, if a man LOVES you.. he would love for you to be his obligation. That's why most of the men who commented are saying girls are stupid, because GIRLS are.. WOMEN aren't!
@coolbeens21 O.k. then you shall be a whore, and ppl who are married dont get paid, but then.. you'll never know bc you want to remain a whore. Take care whore!
@coolbeens21 And as said before Matt has no problem with it! He loves it.. he has done it before as most ppl have that keep doing it, going from person to person.. Read STATS, most ppl that live together before marriage end in divorce. You hit the nail on the head when you said NO OBLIGATION, how true it is! Being a man in this day and age must be BLISS, which is why most women won't ever be married, going and living with person to person.
dont you see also that SHE has no obligation either?
she has the option to change her mind and leave if it doesnt work out..
thats what life is about, I love having my freedom and options to change my mind.. I dont need a man to stay with me so badly that I need him to slap a ring on my finger..
either of us can leave if it doesnt work out.. and staying together implies we are both happy together.. which is an even bigger commitment because theres no paper keeping us together
@coolbeens21 You are so confused you can't MAKE A MAN put a ring on your hand. lol! Believe me, you can't! A man does it for one reason and one reason only bc he loves the woman! And most of the time THE MAN leaves not the woman! And the woman accepts bc she loves the man and wants to be with him forever, not temporarily as with couples who "come and go as they please" Love is not proven sweety, it's cultivated then cemented.
Don't live with a guy first. "I do what I want" that is what being single is ALL about. Have you ever heard, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free, "put a ring on it" Living with someone is the reason most woman aren't married...Andrea is right, in and out.. If you LOVE someone marry them. Live in sex..Not on my watch! 26 and 27 is not old, that's when the fun starts..
wow ok so you have views from both sides the player and the comitted like me i live with my fiance been together for year and i agree with the girl that is commited and i do agree you have a bad day its always good to come home to some one but there are people out there that are real real needy and if you have a needy person it just makes liveing together bad real bad
Right, andrea's whole opinion is void because she doesn't really have a legit reason (imo) as to why she likes being single. She just doesn't want to communicate with anyone, she wants to be a hermit, she prob parties on friday, sat and sun and then works throughout the week and come home and does it again. Her op is void.
I worry about people rushing into things like this so soon. I suppose I wouldn't know much about loving someone, having never loved, but I still don't think that you should live with someone after knowing them for only a year. She just seems so young, and it seems too early in the relationship to be taking a step second only to actual marriage.
There are advantages/disadvantages, many on both sides..it depends what you want. And 26/27 is a good time for a step to try living with someone, and see how thing will go. In my opinion..
Im sure its great sleeping with tons of people and telling someone your serious about later in life that you were a slut in your 20's, buts its ok... right? live it up, spread your legs, life is all about you and the whole universe revolves around you.
@neoxigbar Your being very judgemental, you don't know her whole life, and if even she decided to sleep around, who are you to call her a slut? there is no difference between her doing that, than some 22 year old guy trying to get laid every night.
If that's true I think that's because people who won't even live together when they're engaged are most likely very religious, and therefore too afraid to get divorced.
no, you girls know the why buy the cow when you can get the ring scenario!!! Move in with him, you may NEVER get the ring...o.k. maybe in 20 years when he can't get no one else.
"If he like it then he should put a ring on it" MARRIAGE is about coming home to somebody. Andrea is correct, being single is SO ALL about "I do what I want!!" Alone forever? They are only in their 20's... ladies that's fun times!! The next big step..cat or dog, NOT a ring.. live in sex, what a life.
the way you talk is so scary, almost like you need a man to put a ring on your finger to prove he loves you :O
I will not ever agree and think they way you do, seems like your only goal is marriage, not deep passionate genuine love. I'm happy that I don't think that way. I don't need a ring around my finger to make me feel like a loved woman.. I was born all woman ;) ring or no ring..
@coolbeens21 My only goal isn't marriage bc I am and have already been that.. BTW, I'd rather any day to be "the most expensive type hooker" then a whore, and if the only reason you'd get married is for the stigma why do it at all? Because you tire of being a whore.. stay a whore, you seem fixated on it. You will not receive another comment from me.. you're filthy and unworthy.
you can be independent without having such a shitty attitude like andrea
iAREanthonyyy 1 year ago
andrea seems like a total bitch. she's obviously not into the whole relationship thing and is the type of person that just wants flings and short-term stuff.
iAREanthonyyy 1 year ago
These people are fucking robots, except for the girl that said, what the point of living and not sharing your life with someone. Andrea is full of shit, she's one of those girls, who wants to love, but doesn't understand sacrifice, americans we are so selfish. by the way girl we are all individuals there are many types of man, if you know yourself and know how to seek, no daddy issues or anything you'll be find. Is all about fear with people, WTF
yoshie47 2 years ago
Haha. The guy has a comb over. Lol.
He probably cleans the kitchen and cook too. Lol.
bongapendo 2 years ago
The single one is probably a massive bitch.
SesshyV2 2 years ago
positively.
vindicator2008 2 years ago
I'm like Andrea ... NICE :D
cyberfoxxy1210 2 years ago
She's pretty! :) Good VC2
dackalac 2 years ago
andrea sucks
rainecheck 2 years ago
oh gawd.. fucking hipsters. moped? fucking loser. get a real bike.
wdp11683 2 years ago
BOOBIES
wdp11683 2 years ago
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you! who is thinking about moving in w ur boy/girlfriend...you know God doesnt approve it...reply when you read this. Blessings!
Xelaju16 2 years ago
Nope live in separate flats for sure,sometimes sleep over for day of 2 then go home
tinypuppies3 2 years ago
HA! it has 2009 views!
QuitePossiblyANinja 2 years ago
You're a female and you're hardwired to have the most important thing in your life being your relationship with your man.
I live alone and it's a luxury that at the top of my list. I suspect someday I may change my mind, age 32 atm.
Warmagus 2 years ago
Whut? Fail.
0Krusnik0 2 years ago
i got a question. what the hell do these people do that they can afford to live by themselves in the first place? and in Los Angeles of all places too.
bjj4ever86 2 years ago
i'm with you there. trust fund babies or something.
FutureFrontLA 2 years ago
and that chick said she had a pool!
jjointer 2 years ago
@Paul2000 I totally agree. It just depends on how independent you are. There's nothing wrong with wanting to live alone, or wanting to live with someone.
As a side note, statistically, people who live together before marriage have a greater chance of divorce than those who don't. Weird, but true.
Lizzie12348 2 years ago 2
"people who live together before marriage have a greater chance of divorce than those who don't. Weird, but true" -
This actually is true, ive taken a human sexuality class, they cover all these weird divorce statistics.
FutureFrontLA 2 years ago 3
girls are soooooo stupid!!!!!
chronaxdeaththekid 2 years ago
Those who would rather be a "free agent" will die alone.
Those who find love and do everything they can to keep with will die with someone holding their hand and remembering them
DeliciousMike 2 years ago
@DeliciousMike Everyone dies alone. No one is going with you.
aluisious 2 years ago 4
If you are 100% self centered then you will never want/ find someone you can live with, or should i say someone who will put up with you. Remember. You are not a princess, you never have been and never will be. Get over yourself.
If you are mutually compatible and are willing to make the small sacrifices for some real resposibility and devotion to loving someone then there is no question.
DeliciousMike 2 years ago
I just hooked up with my roomate. So we started off living together, and grew crushes for eachother just hanging out in 5 person house. Dispite school and breaking up. We got back together when we matured and finished our school long distance 4 years later. It's been 3 great years and i still love her just as much if not more. It all boils down to how selfish you are.
DeliciousMike 2 years ago
I think it all leads back to if you're a dependent person or independent person. Andrea seems independent, so she likes her space. Sarah seems dependent, so it seems like she somewhat needs her boyfriend to feel good at the end of the day.
makefunnyfacesbitch 2 years ago 5
i was dating a girl for 2 years and when we moved in together and broke up 2 months later.... a woman i worked with dated a guy for 7 years, got married and divorced 2 years later.. so you definitely want to live together before you get married!!!!!!!!!
mellowdalyricist 2 years ago
Any woman that took his joke at the end seriously needs to lighten up and understand that men make jokes like that. Living with someone helps you know whether you do want to marry them. I mean fuck you don't marry someone you've never lived with and expect it to last. You don't know eachother til you live together. They could be hell annoying and you wouldn't know til you're already married!
000Caitlin000 2 years ago 3
I know it's wrong, but all I want is a guy to hold me to sleep and then disappear before I wake up.
fire1ce 2 years ago
Get a cat, dog shit is just wrong.
TimmyHaag 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Really stupid video
tpaladin 2 years ago
Cat. Even tho i like dogs. Cats are lazy and nice. Well dog if the dog is trained. and u liike walking :)
davedaysfan111 2 years ago
since when did current turn into mtv?!!!!
gizroc 2 years ago 4
the answer to this troubling dilemma is get a cute puppy. It will always be happy to welcome you home, n is not quite moody.
juniwilliams 2 years ago
MARRIED life is about commitment and obligation. SINGLE life is not, enjoy it and the freedom it entails while you have it. Just because you are single doesn't mean you have loose morals or are lonely. Marriage is beautiful, but there should be a stark difference.
honeyhued08 2 years ago 2
No offense, but my point was if you want to ACT married might as well be married people are saying love is the reason, marriage is the way to show it. If you want to just sex it up all of your life, sex it up.
Matt certainly doesn't have a problem with it, he has done it before.. and will do it again after her. He certainly has the buy the cow mentality.."now go clean the kitchen" you think he was playing?. No.. that's why he keeps getting "the milk" for free. Don't give them the satisfaction.
honeyhued08 2 years ago
@honeyhued08
so you are saying that men and women living together are "acting married" lol...
you are so closed minded and brainwashed..
Ever occur to you that maybe someone may be married unhappily and staying because of a contractual obligation and not because they love you...
and two people living together might not feel the need to sign a contract to prove their love to others and are staying together because they want to be together without obligation.
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 I Yes, men and women living together are ACTING married and brainwashed is going with the crowd saying it's o.k. to be married and living together, and ppl may do it for a contractual agreement, if not we would all be perfect, and I understand what you are saying wanting to live together without obligation, I was saying the same thing.. that's why they don't get married bc they don't want obligation to whoever allows it. BUT I wouldn't stand for it. My esteem is too high.
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@honeyhued08
You look down on women living with their bfs as whores. so what? you are entitled to your views..
you still haven't proved that there love is any less important than married people.
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 If you love a person, you wouldn't mind the obligation sweety! And foreal, if a man LOVES you.. he would love for you to be his obligation. That's why most of the men who commented are saying girls are stupid, because GIRLS are.. WOMEN aren't!
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@honeyhue08
*proven that their love (sorry was typing so super fast there and wasnt thinking lol )
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 O.k. then you shall be a whore, and ppl who are married dont get paid, but then.. you'll never know bc you want to remain a whore. Take care whore!
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 And as said before Matt has no problem with it! He loves it.. he has done it before as most ppl have that keep doing it, going from person to person.. Read STATS, most ppl that live together before marriage end in divorce. You hit the nail on the head when you said NO OBLIGATION, how true it is! Being a man in this day and age must be BLISS, which is why most women won't ever be married, going and living with person to person.
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@honeyhued08
dont you see also that SHE has no obligation either?
she has the option to change her mind and leave if it doesnt work out..
thats what life is about, I love having my freedom and options to change my mind.. I dont need a man to stay with me so badly that I need him to slap a ring on my finger..
either of us can leave if it doesnt work out.. and staying together implies we are both happy together.. which is an even bigger commitment because theres no paper keeping us together
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 You are so confused you can't MAKE A MAN put a ring on your hand. lol! Believe me, you can't! A man does it for one reason and one reason only bc he loves the woman! And most of the time THE MAN leaves not the woman! And the woman accepts bc she loves the man and wants to be with him forever, not temporarily as with couples who "come and go as they please" Love is not proven sweety, it's cultivated then cemented.
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@honeyhued08
the only reason id get married is social stigma,
its not important to me.
you and i arguing back and forth achieves nothing.
its very important you to.. not so much to me..
I dont need to be married to feel happy or fullfilled. I dont feel the importance of it.
if that makes me a whore, so be it.
by the way " hookers get paid" you got paid for (marriage) so that makes you the most expensive type of hooker
a wife.
good day.. enjoy your contract love.
coolbeens21 10 months ago
I suppose I was judgemental... I just cant stand people whom enjoy that lifestyle, male OR female mind you.
neoxigbar 2 years ago
now go clean the kitchen...... evil laugh
gfsfg111 2 years ago 4
Im happy for you two ^_^
hellsangel08 2 years ago
Who are yoou! I don't CARE! Why is this important. MTV3.. GEt OFf THe AIR!
ubunite 2 years ago
this shit is fuckin gay
andresblazeit420 2 years ago
Actually I found it to be quite fucking straight.
35xSeries 2 years ago
That's because you're an idiot.
andresblazeit420 2 years ago
BTW, I think when people in general cannot be on their own for a certain amount of time, they are lonely and needy. IMO.
honeyhued08 2 years ago 3
Don't live with a guy first. "I do what I want" that is what being single is ALL about. Have you ever heard, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free, "put a ring on it" Living with someone is the reason most woman aren't married...Andrea is right, in and out.. If you LOVE someone marry them. Live in sex..Not on my watch! 26 and 27 is not old, that's when the fun starts..
honeyhued08 2 years ago 2
@honeyhued08
why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,
I'm not a cow, or a hooker I love freely and give myself away for free..
i'm not a piece of property or commodity..
That analogy is such a cliche,and a terrible one at that.
Its insulting to compare a woman to a cow, and if my love and affection had to be bought, that would make me a hooker.
Marriage is artificial, taxation on free love.
its ridiculous how people cant wrap their minds around love without marriage..
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 In my life sweety marriage is WONDERFUL and will continue to be.. if you want to continue to live like a whore by all means do so..
honeyhued08 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 We know you are not a hooker, hookers get paid! Whores give it up with no obligation or conscience, Women get married.
honeyhued08 10 months ago
27 and 26 is getting old?!!...Only if you are planning to die at 50!!!. People still has the mentality of the 1940's!!!
GrifterUno 2 years ago
They both have good reasons, but they have only known each other for a year, too short. But at the same time they are getting old.
Dini2525 2 years ago
wow ok so you have views from both sides the player and the comitted like me i live with my fiance been together for year and i agree with the girl that is commited and i do agree you have a bad day its always good to come home to some one but there are people out there that are real real needy and if you have a needy person it just makes liveing together bad real bad
virgostoner 2 years ago
Is it just me or did she drive after drinking?
kenotic0508 2 years ago
Get A Dog!
Radude88 2 years ago 6
Right, andrea's whole opinion is void because she doesn't really have a legit reason (imo) as to why she likes being single. She just doesn't want to communicate with anyone, she wants to be a hermit, she prob parties on friday, sat and sun and then works throughout the week and come home and does it again. Her op is void.
vVvGamer 2 years ago
she sounds like megan fox...
jujuman1029384756 2 years ago
I worry about people rushing into things like this so soon. I suppose I wouldn't know much about loving someone, having never loved, but I still don't think that you should live with someone after knowing them for only a year. She just seems so young, and it seems too early in the relationship to be taking a step second only to actual marriage.
LadyRhapsodos 2 years ago 4
There are advantages/disadvantages, many on both sides..it depends what you want. And 26/27 is a good time for a step to try living with someone, and see how thing will go. In my opinion..
Diasfu 2 years ago
Btw that is sarcasm... just incase nobody knows :p
neoxigbar 2 years ago
Very insightful of you, and great presentation ;)
LadyRhapsodos 2 years ago
Im sure its great sleeping with tons of people and telling someone your serious about later in life that you were a slut in your 20's, buts its ok... right? live it up, spread your legs, life is all about you and the whole universe revolves around you.
neoxigbar 2 years ago
As long as she doesn't have any STD's, she's not hurting anyone. What's the problem with her doing what she wants to do?
penguinworm 2 years ago
@neoxigbar Your being very judgemental, you don't know her whole life, and if even she decided to sleep around, who are you to call her a slut? there is no difference between her doing that, than some 22 year old guy trying to get laid every night.
xGreydaysx 2 years ago 3
did they died?
yuriythebest 2 years ago
I think I love andrea hahahahaha
Pro303 2 years ago 2
Yes, fuck Andrea! lol
punkidjulian 2 years ago
the photos said it all. Andrea is a slut and a half.
chazkm 2 years ago
Notice how the bitch girl (that is single) looks evil... Yet, Sarah (the other advice girl) is beautiful, well-spoken, & looks so calm & loving.
NOTICE BITCH - NOTICE!
EntertainedGuy 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Nice little story
Omnisoldier 2 years ago
andrea sounds like the typical whore
DaBrute 2 years ago 2
only live with him after maybe a year
MaefGalaxies 2 years ago
psychologist's data shows 80% of couples that live together before they get married end up in divorce. how u like them apples?
mrzack888 2 years ago 2
Lol, and your a dumb ass conservatist prick who makes up bullshit numbers.
crimsonlung 2 years ago
If that's true I think that's because people who won't even live together when they're engaged are most likely very religious, and therefore too afraid to get divorced.
penguinworm 2 years ago
no, you girls know the why buy the cow when you can get the ring scenario!!! Move in with him, you may NEVER get the ring...o.k. maybe in 20 years when he can't get no one else.
"If he like it then he should put a ring on it" MARRIAGE is about coming home to somebody. Andrea is correct, being single is SO ALL about "I do what I want!!" Alone forever? They are only in their 20's... ladies that's fun times!! The next big step..cat or dog, NOT a ring.. live in sex, what a life.
honeyhued08 2 years ago
@honeyhued08
the way you talk is so scary, almost like you need a man to put a ring on your finger to prove he loves you :O
I will not ever agree and think they way you do, seems like your only goal is marriage, not deep passionate genuine love. I'm happy that I don't think that way. I don't need a ring around my finger to make me feel like a loved woman.. I was born all woman ;) ring or no ring..
coolbeens21 10 months ago
@coolbeens21 My only goal isn't marriage bc I am and have already been that.. BTW, I'd rather any day to be "the most expensive type hooker" then a whore, and if the only reason you'd get married is for the stigma why do it at all? Because you tire of being a whore.. stay a whore, you seem fixated on it. You will not receive another comment from me.. you're filthy and unworthy.
honeyhued08 10 months ago
adrea is a bitch xD
NinjaAngel619 2 years ago
Andrea's a bitch. nuff said.
DiFrand 2 years ago
That andrea is kind of a bitch
plusmin09 2 years ago
start with a sleep over, then do it more constant. if you both are comfortable with 2 months straight of sleep over then you should move in.
ezname1234 2 years ago 4
that girl will play the field until she'll be all alone, beauty isn't forever....
if you like someone and feel comfortable with him/her,why not move in together?
if you love someone,don't be afraid to show them, I wasn't and it's great to be with the one you love..
I wish them luck in their relation:)
Ionutz18 2 years ago 2
haha that one girl is act like such a bitch. I DO WHAT I WANT!
maritimetimes 2 years ago
@maritimetimes
Doing what you want makes you a bitch? That makes no sense.
poke089 2 years ago 4
haha no. she just comes across like a bitch
maritimetimes 2 years ago
Douchebags. Even the girls.
SEXYEDDiE 2 years ago
Dog.
soupisgreat 2 years ago
kind of cute, but a little biased, just because someone wants to live alone does not mean that they're commitment phobes........
Paul2000 2 years ago 5
Yoo
miritkenny 2 years ago