Lalah Hathaway is one of my favorite artist on this planet. I have been blessed enough to be in her company and she is as real as her music..Lie to me..OMG..you can actually tell the anguish from the last sigh I just released...I was in this relationship for ten years. I am still trying to pull me back into one place...this reminds me of what happened and gave me the power to take a little more of me back..Baby, you be encouraged. I promised, never again will I give all of me to anyone!
UPDATE: I downloaded the song off iTunes!!! I can't stop listening to it. REALLY nice song! Thanks for posting this! I would have never known about this song had it not been for your video! :-) Btw, I was sitting here laughing at the last minute of your video where you said, "Sticking our hands in the bowl of love...adding our own spices and ingredients.." LMAO! I know you were being serious, but you looked and sounded so cute telling it like it is! Keep making videos! Thumbs up!
Well, the song had the same effect on me...but she is not lying to herself...she knows that it is over..she just wants what they had for one more night...
i have been in that same place...you have to learn the lesson or you will be digging this ditch for yourself over and over again. i thank god for you.
WOW This is a great song Right now my relationship is going through a little period, I'm just being optimistic yet preparing for worst case scenario. I refuse to beg someone to love me. I love myself to move on and be by myself That is some real stuff you speaking
I jsut got out of a situation about 6 months ago. I was the person on the other end. It is hard... It draining ... being with someone that begs you to love you.. Putting all their emotions and responsiblity on me. I was stressed out.. and it took for this person to do damage to my property. To realize that that being with them trying to give them all I could was not enough.. becuase they didn't love themselves. What a hard thing to go through I am still recovering from it.
@doop1982 Thank you for showing us the other side of the 'LIE TO ME'! Great comment. Many tend to forget about the other party who has to deal with the 'weak' half. It's definitely a lot a pressure on them, as you've said/described.
I really appreciate that you make videos about self-esteem and self-love. I think the issue is quite popular, but it's not often discussed in-depth. People often gloss over having "confidence" as if it's some sort of performance. For this reason, I want to begin making self-esteem videos as well. It's very important.
Well, I can't lie to you....I will tell you the truth, and that is, you are SUCH a beautiful person! :-) If I ever run into you one day, I owe you a hug! :-) As far as your message goes, yes, I've been there too. Chasing after the dude whom I made my PRIORITY, while I was just his option; but I was satisfied with hearing him say he loved me, even though I knew I wasn't the only one. Dumb at the time, but I'm so glad I woke up. I'll be sure and check out this song though. Thanks!
As I matured in life I havent jerked rugs out from under people anymore..if I did before. I go before things get complicated and ugly. I end up giving them help to reset-up thier place, all thier things and support. I got hurt once real bad and if you truley love someone you are really more SELF-LESS to them. You care enuff to make things at peace for them but that is easier before it gets to love hate. Knowing when to break early can be benificial in this way. Another great vid and topic luv.<3
Boy have I been there! Ive even said to someone "you could at LEAST lie to me and pretend you care" Its a difficult concept to grasp sometimes but there are times its so needed just for a little more time to accept its over. Im listening to this song now.. its so telling of what we have felt, maybe not been able to express, so we have been left with unfinished business in the relationship. Having a rug jerked from under you is hardest to get over. Its Unfinished Love like a death to subconcious.
Now I know why people hate Gays. It's because they are truth seekers and everyone is stuck acting like they don't see the exchange in the psychological state of Women. Men are not EVEN men so to say this guy is lesser for being gay is a ILLUSION.11Stars
Lalah Hathaway is one of my favorite artist on this planet. I have been blessed enough to be in her company and she is as real as her music..Lie to me..OMG..you can actually tell the anguish from the last sigh I just released...I was in this relationship for ten years. I am still trying to pull me back into one place...this reminds me of what happened and gave me the power to take a little more of me back..Baby, you be encouraged. I promised, never again will I give all of me to anyone!
FOOMRADIO 1 month ago
UPDATE: I downloaded the song off iTunes!!! I can't stop listening to it. REALLY nice song! Thanks for posting this! I would have never known about this song had it not been for your video! :-) Btw, I was sitting here laughing at the last minute of your video where you said, "Sticking our hands in the bowl of love...adding our own spices and ingredients.." LMAO! I know you were being serious, but you looked and sounded so cute telling it like it is! Keep making videos! Thumbs up!
MzTJones80 3 months ago
Okay, I finally listened to the song! I like it! "Let me borrow your heart until tomorrow...then I'll give it back." DEEP!
Thanks for sharing! :-)
MzTJones80 4 months ago
Well, the song had the same effect on me...but she is not lying to herself...she knows that it is over..she just wants what they had for one more night...
iralevifan 4 months ago
i have been in that same place...you have to learn the lesson or you will be digging this ditch for yourself over and over again. i thank god for you.
brnize1969 4 months ago
So Sweet
blackpinket 4 months ago
WOW This is a great song Right now my relationship is going through a little period, I'm just being optimistic yet preparing for worst case scenario. I refuse to beg someone to love me. I love myself to move on and be by myself That is some real stuff you speaking
crazyman0686 4 months ago
@crazyman0686 You know what to do, B.
WordSmith79 4 months ago
I jsut got out of a situation about 6 months ago. I was the person on the other end. It is hard... It draining ... being with someone that begs you to love you.. Putting all their emotions and responsiblity on me. I was stressed out.. and it took for this person to do damage to my property. To realize that that being with them trying to give them all I could was not enough.. becuase they didn't love themselves. What a hard thing to go through I am still recovering from it.
Thank you for this
doop1982 4 months ago
@doop1982 Thank you for showing us the other side of the 'LIE TO ME'! Great comment. Many tend to forget about the other party who has to deal with the 'weak' half. It's definitely a lot a pressure on them, as you've said/described.
WordSmith79 4 months ago
Dayumnnnn....... don't be getting me all choked up before I've even had my morning coffee! Superb Trav! Superb.
sfcalvinaz 4 months ago
damn that shit is deep and real
Trippleg1993 4 months ago
did you go back to your natural color?
Trippleg1993 4 months ago
@Trippleg1993 No. My roots are coming back in like crazy. I'm still auburn!
WordSmith79 4 months ago
CHILE, when I tell you I have been THERE!!!! Whew!!! It's so crazy how we are willing to embrace a lie because of it's comfort.
lloyd614 4 months ago
I really appreciate that you make videos about self-esteem and self-love. I think the issue is quite popular, but it's not often discussed in-depth. People often gloss over having "confidence" as if it's some sort of performance. For this reason, I want to begin making self-esteem videos as well. It's very important.
GataAgressiva411 4 months ago
@GataAgressiva411 It's definitely important. And so shouldn't be a 'performance'. It should be a way of life.
WordSmith79 4 months ago
Well, I can't lie to you....I will tell you the truth, and that is, you are SUCH a beautiful person! :-) If I ever run into you one day, I owe you a hug! :-) As far as your message goes, yes, I've been there too. Chasing after the dude whom I made my PRIORITY, while I was just his option; but I was satisfied with hearing him say he loved me, even though I knew I wasn't the only one. Dumb at the time, but I'm so glad I woke up. I'll be sure and check out this song though. Thanks!
MzTJones80 4 months ago
As I matured in life I havent jerked rugs out from under people anymore..if I did before. I go before things get complicated and ugly. I end up giving them help to reset-up thier place, all thier things and support. I got hurt once real bad and if you truley love someone you are really more SELF-LESS to them. You care enuff to make things at peace for them but that is easier before it gets to love hate. Knowing when to break early can be benificial in this way. Another great vid and topic luv.<3
AnnyaMoon 4 months ago
Boy have I been there! Ive even said to someone "you could at LEAST lie to me and pretend you care" Its a difficult concept to grasp sometimes but there are times its so needed just for a little more time to accept its over. Im listening to this song now.. its so telling of what we have felt, maybe not been able to express, so we have been left with unfinished business in the relationship. Having a rug jerked from under you is hardest to get over. Its Unfinished Love like a death to subconcious.
AnnyaMoon 4 months ago
*Waving my prayer cloth* Speak brotha!
MyNappyRoots87 4 months ago
We already spoke about this song, one of my faves off the album!
thruthealcove 4 months ago
deep.
mrssarkazz 4 months ago
@mrssarkazz not love at all....preach
mrssarkazz 4 months ago
@mrssarkazz I can't stop listening. That scenario is a messed up one. I'll never forget...
WordSmith79 4 months ago
Now I know why people hate Gays. It's because they are truth seekers and everyone is stuck acting like they don't see the exchange in the psychological state of Women. Men are not EVEN men so to say this guy is lesser for being gay is a ILLUSION.11Stars
mindanamoly 4 months ago