I've seen within myself recently that i desire to have an agreement because i've formed an idea that within an agreement i'll be more effective, pushing myself more with the support of the partner. I was trying to use an agreement as an excuse to not effectively directing myself. which is interesting because within your agreement, you haven't directed yourself. what i'm realizing through your video is that the core point is: one must direct himself here and become the directive principle here.
Thanks for sharing - Any point that we do not want to face can reflect off/or be projected onto the other person whether in an agreement or not and it can be what seems the slightest thing that is 'overlooked' so it becomes a real mind fuick if we participate within the secret mind. Nothing should be left unsaid thanks very much for the assistance and sharing
from my own experience - being self directive whether participating with another, in writing, sf, breathing one must direct for oneself. Waiting for a another to direct for you is hoping for an outcome without any self directive actions taken and actually within this already participating within the outcome that is only serving the 'betterment' of one.
@JozienFokkert In the end I realized any excuse is unacceptable within this, therefore I´ve seen how all the outflows of what happened is irrelevant because I missed my initial point of being self directive in every moment. This agreement experience has reflected back to myself what I was accepting and allowing within self, now I see - I am grateful for all and everything, I´m here and walking. thanks jorn
Maybe we give too much leeway and have too high of expectations, and we don't want to come off as smothering, but leaving it alone isnt the answer. Either way it doesnt matter because if the other person decides to quit and loses sight of the principle of the Agreement, it's over.
thanks for sharing, this was helpful in revealing points about what I was doing in all relationships
KasperKwan 1 year ago
this is so assisting!!
laurixtumix 1 year ago
I've seen within myself recently that i desire to have an agreement because i've formed an idea that within an agreement i'll be more effective, pushing myself more with the support of the partner. I was trying to use an agreement as an excuse to not effectively directing myself. which is interesting because within your agreement, you haven't directed yourself. what i'm realizing through your video is that the core point is: one must direct himself here and become the directive principle here.
MayaHarelHere 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing - Any point that we do not want to face can reflect off/or be projected onto the other person whether in an agreement or not and it can be what seems the slightest thing that is 'overlooked' so it becomes a real mind fuick if we participate within the secret mind. Nothing should be left unsaid thanks very much for the assistance and sharing
DeedraChavez 1 year ago
from my own experience - being self directive whether participating with another, in writing, sf, breathing one must direct for oneself. Waiting for a another to direct for you is hoping for an outcome without any self directive actions taken and actually within this already participating within the outcome that is only serving the 'betterment' of one.
Thanks for sharing
JozienFokkert 1 year ago
@JozienFokkert In the end I realized any excuse is unacceptable within this, therefore I´ve seen how all the outflows of what happened is irrelevant because I missed my initial point of being self directive in every moment. This agreement experience has reflected back to myself what I was accepting and allowing within self, now I see - I am grateful for all and everything, I´m here and walking. thanks jorn
MarlenVargasDelRazo 1 year ago 3
Thank you for sharing this discussion you guys. Very detailed and lot's of cool points to look at.
annabrixthomsen 1 year ago
Maybe we give too much leeway and have too high of expectations, and we don't want to come off as smothering, but leaving it alone isnt the answer. Either way it doesnt matter because if the other person decides to quit and loses sight of the principle of the Agreement, it's over.
DarrylWThomas 1 year ago 2
cool that you shared this discussion - very assisting!
BellaBargilly 1 year ago
thank you for sharing this. every assisting.
JoeKouFullCircle 1 year ago