How To Be Attractive To Women By Being A Leader

[mistervova11]

damn girls are weird and difficult

[LW89music]

'and you know you really quite like your, you know, your....hip hop.'

Stephan cant figure out why anybody would like hip hop hahahaha

[Mooktopia]

This is great. This course has really helped my be more confident. Before i started i used to stare at women from a distance and never approach them. Now after the course when i see a women i like i approach them confidently and assuredly from behind and take them. I take them because i want them and i am a leader.

[caselorance]

Stephan, I can identify with your example of being in the car very easily because that is a place where we are at odds a majority of the time. It manifests itself there because I have a feeling the need for leadership or "control" is so imperative. She gives me crap all the time, which is something you alluded to. Where she is aggravated I am patient, thus relinquishing control. I am tired of her giving me crap, and need some method of handling that. I don't want to be an asshole.

[iAREanthonyyy]

super good analogy

[xXXrayzerXXx]

respect to this dude

[rofltroll656]

Whenever my girl doesn't listen to me, I pull a Chris Brown on her!!

[greatfull11]

May I please please notice that this 'being the leader' stuff really doesn't work for all woman? Personally I find it highly irritating. You should treat each other like equals

[jpr422]

@greatfull11 I agree with you completely. Many women feel that they are being dominated and their opinions and feelings don't matter. This leadership crap is complete bullshit!

[Monaatti]

@greatfull11 Yeah, the "male leads, female submits" stuff works in cases many enough to make it worth the video, but there are basically two conditions where it goes wrong: 1) the woman doesn't want to be submissive 2) the man doesn't want to dominate, even with the cost of no relationship. Luckily the two cases balance each other, though they might not make up groups of equal sizes.

[Duskwarrior308]

Get off my GD Mp3!!

[SincereCreature]

"It's your stereo. Stereo... That's what they used to say in the 80's!" :D

[flamingaxe791]

Icon, shhhhhhh!

[IconListening]

HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN YOU HAVE TO BE GOOD LOOKING LIKE THE GUY... IN THIS VIDEO

OR BE RICH

THATS WHAT WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR GOOD GENETICS (LOOKS or ATTRACTIVE MAN)

AND

RESOURCESES SO THEY CAN LIVE A GOOD COMFORTABLE LIFE AKA (MONEY) AND LOTS OF IT

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[bigheadrhino]

@IconListening It's possible to be good looking and rich and still feel shy or uncomfortable around beautiful women, so even if you're right, there's still a demographic that he's helping.

[animefreak619240]

So does that mean if I'm leading and not trying to be submissive, I shouldn't ALSWYS ask her opinion?

I tend to ask girls for their opinions before I do something to make sure it's ok. Is it ok to always ask their opinion? Now I don't mean I don't have balls or what.. I'm just saying I'm trying to be considerate. Should I continue to do so or what should I change?

[MuhammadEgypt]

@animefreak619240 Dude, has he answered you yet?

[animefreak619240]

@MuhammadEgypt haha no.

[stephanerdman]

@animefreak619240 Ok. Stephan here. Sorry for not seeing this earlier. Just been launching my new Approach At Will Ebook. Here's the thing: ALWAYS asking for her opinion before you do anything? I would advise against. Don't "TRY to be considerate". Assume leadership while listening if she's against sth. Get comfortable making decisions & ask her to join you.Have a clear preference. I am not saying "never asking for her opinion" but in general do your best to make decisions. Trust me on this one.

[Anglacer]

Thanks Stephan! :D this really made me re-think my actions, i'll do things better now :)

- Anglacer™

[JonJon3794]

Hey stephen can you do an episode on cock teasers ? It is a HUGE problem. (Thumb up if you agree, so he can see this)

[russellstall]

@JonJon3794 why aren't you doing the teasing?

[slim240293]

Thanks you Stephen, nice tips! After seeing this I decided that I'll put my girlfriend to cook me dinner every day and if she doesn't want to do that I'll beat the crap out of her until she gets used to idea of me being the man! ^_^

[tcbshaded39]

"Do some Funky House"...lol sounds like doing acid. Great tips in the video btw, It really solidifies what I'm doing now.

[MadeByShady]

I remember like a year ago or so when I asked you to make a video about playfully teasing a girl. lol you never made a video like that :( oh well i still like your tips.

[andrew19vato]

hey stephan, this might sound kinda weird but do you have any advice on getting laid in clubs?

[nickybev]

im a leader most of my relationships, but I still take crap from her. My excuse is that I love her too much, but deep down I think its a problem. Wt should i do??

[stephanerdman]

@nickybev Hi, it's Stephan here. Listen...I can't tell you what to do. I can only tell you in my experience being clear about your boundaries and having your own confidence in tact are more attractive to women in general...even if it seems like they test your resolve. S.

[solarcquence]

@nickybev realize that it means that you're probably afraid to do something wrong, not that you love her very much.

[bombwow]

@altamuramarc should it? coz it doesnt to me lol i just get propa embarressed and nervous

[minhmeo1209]

what do you mean when she wants to test you?

[lawshorizon]

@minhmeo1209

Re. Testing: It’s when a girl will say something to get you angry or confused to test your reactions (e.g. if you’re unstable and get angry easily) or to just get more attention. I’ve always considered it as an opportunity to flirt. Example: GIRL: “You’re a very controlling person!” GUY: “Shut up b'itch!” or my way … GIRL: “You’re a very controlling person!” ME: “Of course I am!”

[General0208]

stephan !!! I really appreciate ur efforts

I mean no offense !!! but u are a handsome dude and will be fine with girls !!!! I think it will be more convincing if you actually prove to us that a below average looking guy can get a pretty girl .... she doesnt has to be the hottest but at least a good looking girl !!! THen i will subscribe/ join ur programmes !!!

[valetinadrian92]

make more videos man :]

[bombwow]

how do u approach a girl whos shy and quit and if youre shy aswell?

[altamuramarc]

@bombwow in my opinion- if the girl is shy and you know this, that in itself should be able to give you the confidence boost you need to approach her.