Awkwards moments: parents hitting their kids in public

[gorillas400]

@dannieds78 actully luv100bug's comment was probably the simplest argument there is out their in favor of spanking, also, even most people who spank, dont approve of it, leaving her (im guessing her) and her worthless argument alone sorry luv100bug but your all alone, nobody loves you

[gorillas400]

@Luv100Bug people like you are the ones who dont really remeber being spanked, spanking hurts, ok? i remeber it very well! you are causing your kids actual PAIN! i cant stand you people who are too stupid to realize that. and who cares if you deserved it? what does that help?? PARENTING SHOULDNT BE ABOUT JUSTICE!!

[gorillas400]

@Danedhxk if you were to spank an adult it would be called rape, theres really no debating whether its sexual or not. it just is by nature

[gorillas400]

@Danedhxk also you make children sound as if theyre not people, parents should not be allowed to own their children

[gorillas400]

@Danedhxk please responed to my comments after youve read them and have more than 20 sec to type ur comment

[Danedhxk]

@gorillas400 spanking is not sexual, u need help...wat is child sucking on suckerbsexual to? Wat u want all kids to cover up like moslims! Secondly saying urblaw enforcement (cps) will land urass in jail especially if u go up to an off duty police or federal agent, or even parent who has weapon. Leave parents alonevwith thier kids ptherwise they will get very irrate with u.

[gorillas400]

spanking is waaaaaaaaaay to sexual of an expirence to force apon a child, i remeber being spanked as a kid it humiliated the shit out of me, i still cant forgive my parents even though i try

[summer12601]

BTW, children in my opinion are never brats. We are to to guide them gently how to understand the world they were born into and hopefully we all would do so with love for them, for the parents, and with understanding. Non Violent Communication --- with honest intention and an honest heart.

[summer12601]

If someone can find a tactful way to tell a parent (who like all of us needs compassion and respect) that would be the way to go in my humble opinion.

Be well, Er

I am sorry for the possible confusion about the multiple posts that read upward. It was hard to complete my message with the minimum character limit. TY

[bornstandin]

@summer12601 Nothing "humble" about your rambling opinion.

[summer12601]

The dairy that we have today in the grocery stores like the cheeses are too thick and clogs the channels in the liver. The Chinese say that anger, child tantrums are in a sluggish liver,,, and they cause inattentiveness and sometimes anger in children and in Adults. But calcium is a great mineral for anger or tantrums. Maybe Get a Magic Bullet and make Homemade Lassi which is really just yogurt blended into a watery smooth liquid.

[summer12601]

When a child is angry and yelling or even hitting, meet them with softness and love and they learn to trust you. Find out what they are experiencing and needing.

Many times, children are misunderstood by us becasue they don't know how to say things or how to ask for what they want. Even if we reminded them 1000 times... They forget.

[summer12601]

When a child is angry, what is going on for them. My child had sensory issues with sounds and touch and taste. When I'm at the store, I let him pick the vegetables and fruits he likes. And although my child is a really picky eater, he always eats the healthy food he chooses. Our bodies have that inherent wisdom about our nutritional needs when we are children before it is destroyed by sugar, fast food, etc.

[summer12601]

It might be best to have understanding for the parents and approach them with tact and respect rather than something they may perceive as a threat.

Good resources for diet and children that may need extra attention is Ayurveda.

Resources for talking to children .... Non Violent Communication and Empathy has worked for me and my child with ADHD

[summer12601]

I understand that the uploader of this video feels concerned about the wellbeing of the child. Most of us would but there might be a better way to approach the situation. The parents are feeling things as well as the child. Many parents need support from onlookers in public when their child is acting out and many do not have good people to turn to for advice that really works.

[wlkgbrft1]

If a person ever saw me spanking my child in public and then came and claimed to be CPS I would be very happy to have a discussion with them and hopefully relieve them of some of their misconceptions about spanking and other forms of discipline.

[jcrowley1985]

Child Protective Services; 30 years of protecting kid's rights to act like spoiled brats.

[Quack808]

Pussy

[Luv100Bug]

My mom hit me in public and I deserve every bit of it!! When u get a kid and they don't listen then you would understand more!

[dannieds78]

@Luv100Bug well said...

[mebbygirl109]

hey guys every one has there own way of gettin stuff done its tru that the child shouldnt be hit but when u want go do something about wat the parent dose ur only doin it because u dont want to c it happen just larn from it dont strike ur kid an dont let ur kid get so out of controle of it self that it starts to act out take ur kid to the bathroom if there is one an let them know ats gonna happen a simple time out or take something away.

[marksredpants]

Ridiculous commentary. Skip this video.

[SocailQueen]

@smithy180180 are you retarded?

[gorillas400]

@SuperDeluxe80 oh i love argueing with people like you, respond so we can begin

[SuperDeluxe80]

@jerryskeeters

just look at the number of killers and young worthless parents now ever since you go to jail for spanking your kids, look at all the kids acting like there the boss not most young adults dont wanna do anything hang out not work. and look at the days when people got spankings.

theres a difference between a spanking and a beating if you dont know. that soccer mom way of thinking you have is worse.

[congtutony1]

go to Vietnam or China those kid need ur help=]]

[SuperDeluxe80]

when you have kids you want say that when there saying fuck you you cant tell me shit, then you think sending them to there room is gonna help thats just giving them time to think up shit to call you. just look at this generation of kids there all fucked up and spoiled. in public kids just act a fool like there the boss.

ass wooping is fine they'll live, if there fucking up the kid where there trying to hurt them its not.

[Rocky390]

if the parent is like fucking destroying the child smacking the shit outta the kid in the face or somehting then yes say something... if its a little spanking because the kid is crying like crazy becasue he cant get no pokemon cards then its fine keep ur fucking mouth shut...

[malia9tki]

alu o te

[Kiyoko504]

Critical

"Any child in need of critical aid I will be there"

Children's

"All children will receive protection no matter how old"

Care

"I care for any child needing assistance with mental and physical problems"

Protection

"Any child I see in need of my protection I will aid them"

(Comfort Is The First Priority)

[sunshinerinker]

It depends on why and how the child is being hit. If it is a simple spank on the but then no say nothing and do nothing. If the child is being beaten, well I have been known to hit back. But not for a simple spanking.

[StndFatboy]

i used to beat my kids to...untill i took an arrow to the knee

[fomiz]

what you do is mind your own fucking business, and not take advantage of the situation to try and make yourself look like a hero, because you know if two strong dudes bigger and more powerful than you were beating up on another one dude or even a woman on his/her own, you would not go over to help for hear of getting your own ass whopped yourself. well where is your moral obligation to help in that situation?

[dand902]

@fomiz sounds like you are a bit of a coward. If you ever find yourself in any of these situations, I hope your actions are more noble than the words you wrote.

[fomiz]

@dand902 so youre saying you would just in to rescue the woman from two thugs much stronger and bigger than you? i doubt you would as most people dont, that why thugs get away with it, but youre sure willing to tell a parent how to raise their child. fuck out of here! even got any kids?

[fomiz]

@fomiz "...jump in"

[dand902]

@fomiz I'm saying that you should do what is right. We all have fear, that's natural. The key thing to remember is that if you don't "jump in" or help, then who will? Maybe someone else will..maybe not. But I bet if you were the person on the ground getting beaten senseless you would be screaming for help, and you would hope that your cries for help are answered.

[fomiz]

@dand902 someone getting jumped and someone spanking their naughty kid strike me as different, maybe you should mind your own business with other people's kids otherwise this might be you: watch?v=o1u1xQ4beRU - Phily bus shooting.

[groundcontrolwon]

I don't find it that awkward. Some times the parent might and thats when I give them a wink and a smile to let them know that I support their choice not to raise children that think they can get away with whatever they want.

[luckyvan2]

@groundcontrolwon,I agree only because it's hard teaching kids right from wrong.They take every chance to disobey you and not listen.I've tried the whole put them in timeout.When that happens they just go back to what they were told not to do before being put in timeout...so what to do put them back in timeout and hope for the best? I am strongly guessing that the guy who posted this video has no clue what it's like to have kids nor have them disobey him!!!!!

[luckyvan2]

@groundcontrolwon Once you have kids they change the way you look at the world.Heck I guess at this rate putting people in jail for anything should be done away with because well you know you don't want anyone's feelings to get hurt,right???? I've also tried the whole listen to them but that has never worked either because why listen to you (the parent) when they can get away w/whatever they want to and still get the world to give them everything on a gold plate?

[luckyvan2]

@groundcontrolwon,Now I am in no way in favor of betting the hell out of your kids,just a few good blows is all because most times kids won't listen to anything they are TOLD or ASKED to do and hitting their butt is the only way to get them to listen up and know that you mean ever word you say becaues there are things that happen if you act badly....like going to jail or getting the death chair in jail. I will say I totally agree w/what you have said in your post.

[groundcontrolwon]

go ahead and tell me your lie that you are with child protective services and I will tell you the truth that its not illegal to spank my child. Have you actualy gone up and lied to people about who you are? If you have, your parents didn't spank you enough.

[peterp21]

Certainly is an awkward moment. On the one hand, you don't want to be a busybody but also a lot (but not every) parent that would actually hit in public probably isn't too intelligent or in control of themselves and is likely hitting out of anger than any real sense of discipline. I used to think a little less "PC" and not be against all forms of physical discipline, but in reality it doesn't even work. After the 2nd or 3rd beating kids get used to it and learn to just take the pain.

[jazziscool123]

Well its their kid and that's how they discipline their kid. Spanking them isn't abuse..

[Talos402000]

Second that. Your a fag.

[RECONDO101st]

You're a fag.

[alyssarocks351]

But what do u say when they agree to talk !??

[davidbenjeshua]

The Bible says "Honor your father and your mother, that your days be long upon the Land that The Lord your God gives you".

"He that withholds the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently" (Proverbs 13:24)

"Chasten your son while there is hope, and let not your soul spare for his crying."(Proverbs 19:18)

"The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame."(Prov 29:15)

How to do it? go to jesusisyahweh.blogspot.com

[ryoshi100]

@davidbenjeshua

why can't the rod of correction be your words? Sometimes what we say can affect a behavior more effectively than our words.

[davidbenjeshua]

@ryoshi100 Harsh words are remembered a lifetime. The rod hurts but a minute, and then the pain is gone, the misdeed is paid for, and the conscience is cleared. The relationship is healed. A kid whose misdeed has not been properly punished with the rod has a guilty conscience, the bridge of communication with the parent is broken. He is like a criminal whose crime has not been paid yet, who has a warrant for his arrest. When he pays for his crime, his relationship with his authority is healed.

[davidbenjeshua]

@ryoshi100 Also, obedience should not be dependant on a child's agreement with the command. A parent needs not try to convince the child, because the child owes obedience, for the mere fact of the parent being a parent. It's good to explain things, but disobedience should always and consistently be rewarded with the rod, as soon as it occurs. If this is done, in about one week or so, the child will learn to obey immediately. If this is achieved, strife ceases,and all benefit, specially the child

[ryoshi100]

@davidbenjeshua that makes my point.

A rod can be your words too. The point of spanking is to correct behavior. Soo, if I can correct behavior by instructing and teaching, why not?

[paintedblack01]

@davidbenjeshua

Why are you trying to coerce people on youtube to believe in god.This is about parents and children not god.Why do you people try and force your beliefs on other people.

[davidbenjeshua]

@paintedblack01 Coercion is when someone uses physical intimidation in order to make you do something. Coercion would be using physical intimidation to make a person think or not think, say or not say something. The constitution of the USA makes physical coercion in matters of conscience and religion illegal. Preaching is perfectly legal, and is not coercion since it does not use physical intimidation. What is illegal is to attempt to stop the preaching, using physical intimidation.

[paintedblack01]

@davidbenjeshua

Well its just as well I am not trying to intimidate you,physically or otherwise.It is interesting that you started spouting on about laws and intimidation.And to answer your second post,it is only true if god is real which cannot be proved either way.You base your arguments on a book and religion that like all religions cant be proved to be real.Does your god command priest to abuse children,no I dont think he does but it happens.

[davidbenjeshua]

@paintedblack01 When you say I am trying to "coerce people to believe in God", you are not using correctly the English language. It would be like me saying that you are "coercing me to not be able to express my ideas". I wonder if you have a dictionary, you can look it up. Now, about spanking or not spanking, this is very related to God, because God commands to spank, in the Bible, so, Christians should not be opposed to spanking. Your objection is easily dismissed.

[davidbenjeshua]

Spanking is necessary, to correct children. Like laws and punishments are necessary to maintain order in a nation. Like your boss fires you or suspends you, for misbehaviour. On this earth, there are authorities, and authorities have the right to enforce their authority. Should a judge not put you in jail for assaulting someone? Should your boss not fire you for not working well? Should parents not spank, for disobedience? If there is ONE authority that deserves to be obeyed, it's parents.

[jakedzz]

Unless the kid is being obviously abused, you shut your mouth and mind your own business. A kid getting smacked on the butt for misbehaving and you're going to pretend to be Child Protection Services... really? If the kid is getting punched in the face or kicked or something, obviously something needs to happen there, but I've seen more kids that needed a spanking in the aisle of a store and didn't get one than vice versa.

[peterp21]

@jakedzz Yeah, being a busybody is a bit excessive. Not because the situtation might not be as bad as you make it, but because there should be some boundary between you and another parent or family. That said, I think corporal discipline doesn't work. I'm not talking about the occasional spanking (had an uncle, sweetest guy in the world, who I remember spanking his kid once or twice for throwing a tantrum and kicking him in front of us) but most folks you see hitting in public have lost it.

[clearesmiles]

Yes I feel the same way! awkward! I am glad I am not only one who feels that way! In my opinion the parents should take them to the car and then spank them and discipline them. Thats when you have to stop what your doing and go spank them. Never in public. that is so embarrassing to you both. But Yes I do feel the same way. ITs so annoying when parents spank them in public.

[LMA629]

@clearesmiles or how about take away their playstation, video games, tv, etc. theres no need to hit your kids.

[ButterBaby2u]

Yawn!

[mylifeisnoturs]

well it's their problem not urs stay out jackass

[shirye]

I couldn't even finish my sandwich looking your face.

[TheShasiti]

I love the copy and paste"I am shocked by the comments below?! I would ask that you educate yourself and you will see that over the past 30 years there is evidence that spanking lowers IQ, causes low self-esteem, erodes the relationship between caregiver and child, the list is endless. " unquote. Everyone against spanking quotes these same exact words!! PLEASE come up with some new material!! FINE don't spank your kid and enjoy having the Walmart screamer or being kicked off planes!!

[joodrops]

@TheShasiti I have never once spanked my kids, and they are well behaved, polite, well balanced children, they have never thrown a tantrum, or talked back to me or anyone. They are living proof that spanking is totally un-neccesary! I don't quote any of the things you're on about. I just don't see a need for it!

[Rowan07001484]

@TheShasiti

Oh shit. I didn't read your comment. sorry.

I believe that smacking works on some children. for others it doesn't have any effect. for some it has the opposite effect, and makes them angry. a person just has to know when it is appropriate. all kids are different, and what works for some might not for others. I know some people who smack their kids, and the child is still badly behaved, or smacks them back.

[d35white]

You can parent in a positive, peaceful way without raising a brat..the words used below

[d35white]

I am shocked by the comments below?! I would ask that you educate yourself and you will see that over the past 30 years there is evidence that spanking lowers IQ, causes low self-esteem, erodes the relationship between caregiver and child, the list is endless. Discipline means to "teach" not to hit/spank/whatever stupid phrase you use...you are laying your hands on another person to inflict pain. Something you can't do in any other aspect of society. You can't slap a coworker, spouse, UGH!!!

[Rowan07001484]

@d35white

it didn't lower my grandad's IQ. He was beaten with a belt. He was made to live in house all on his own, when he was 10. I didn't know what the situation was. But the house was crowded for some reason. they had an croft house that was empty. he was made to sleep there alone. He hated his family. But he went to university, and was deen of a university. so it didn't effect him. Ludicrous idea, that it lowers you're IQ. effects you're self esteem, yes.

[gacktfan]

I saw a mother grab her child by the hair and pull her down.

[starfoxluver]

Umm...There IS a difference between "Spanking" and "Hitting" |:/

[Thor13332]

What's wrong with society nowadays. When I was a child this was quite common.

[JuneLady84]

@Thor13332 Yea, and at one point in time, doctors didn't xash thier hands because they were ignorant to it's benefits and unaware of the realism of germs. We learn, we evolve, we grow. And we stop doing stupid shit like trying to beat respect into a child.

[JuneLady84]

@JuneLady84 *wash



[joodrops]

@JuneLady84 I couldn't have said it better myself!! My hat goes off to you :)

[08Munekita]

Okay well its bad to hit your child I know but the kids would have to learn to behave atleast if it takes a little spank in the butt!!! I wouldn't like to raise a brat!!!!

[JVwow131]

stupid guy do something else like call the police man fuck you

[RalphCQ]

One time my sister in law hit her kid in the backseat of the car, because he wouldn't sit still for the carseat. She BARELY hit him at all, it was just to get him to stop, but of course he starts crying. This old woman from another car walks all the way over from 50 feet, and threatens that she will call child services, and acted like she was remembering the license plate number of the car. Only reason she did that was to feel like some kind of empowered bitch. It was pathetic, really.

[andersonjl4]

Id ask to see your creds.. Dont have any? No? I'd suggest you get out of my face and how I raise my child, before you get your ass beat.

[yaya564]

u do realize that hurting their feelings or embarrassing them is a better deterrent to crap behavior than warning repeatedly and begging kids to behave.

cant say ive ever seen someone unfairly just HIT their kid in public. sure spanking is controversial (read: UTTER BS!) but figure thats what that butt's there for should the need arise.

think id rather have a kid learn to behave from a little embarrassing tap on the ass once in a while than a wal-mart screecher. just saying.