This video is non sense. What is the moral of the story?? I will say this bm don't hate bw we just are in transitioning meaning distancing ourselves from most bw that act like men truth hurts not at but I'm invovled with a spanish sistah now I gave up on black ones..
you knoww girl, thank you for this videoo, it truly hurts to knoww that their is so much negativity being spewed here on youtube from BM toBW.When in reality BW are the ones who are providing shelter for these men, taking them bak time after time when theyve been done wrong by us. How men come to hate their own kind baffles me, but it scares me as a young black women(16 years old) growing up my mom was rightwhen she said there are hardly any GOOD BM left. smh
nope. bm bash bw more. sorry,because if there were GOOD ones..then why arent they defending themselves? instead, they talk MORE SHIT than the rest..get the hell out of here
in the usa i will be known as black(understandable). however, i live in the uk and i am known as a mixed hispanic(not JUST black) so whats your point? dont worry, you have nothing to worry about ;)
Worry about you???? Nah ... so you are bi-racial? Yet, you have so many negative words about Black men? Nah, I'm not worried about you at all. LOL! And yes, it does matter if your ass had been Black and constantly degrading Black men. That is why I asked.
sorry, i dont have no relations with black men..lol. i dont see why thats so hard to understand when half of you guys dont even grow up with a dad being around, lets just say my mother was part of that half ;)
So, you have no relations with Black men, yet you speak so harshly about them??? Honey, stop listening to the media and uncle tom negroes. Stop believing the BS stereotypes. or else if you are going to belive it about Black folks, know that ALL of America has the same problem too. Yes, Black folks have probelms. ALL people have problems.
And do know I grew up with my Father. He was not in my house all of my life, my parents were divorced. But I spent equal time with my parents. My father was and is definitely present. This is also true for most of my friends and associates. And yes, they are Black. Statistics will make you look like a dumb ass. I sugeest you ignore them or at the very least, find out the source that was used. Good day!
To brothers who probably wouldn't give us a chance if we were in the same predicament-they were making that money and we were up working at McDonalds...etc.
I agree, I am glad you said this. Brothers act like black women corner the market on materialism when they are too. I can't find one criticism they say about us that's not applicable to them! I am glad though that you criticize us about not holding black men accountable, not loving our selves, and stuff without putting us down!
I know this vid is old but I just found it. At 5:31...Real Talk. I was the same way. Die hard for blk men! Couldn't see it any other way..wouldn't see it any other way! Them days are gone!
Thank You AtlantahSistah for the encouraging words.
You are supporting black women and not bashing them under the guise of helping them. Unfortunately, the YT community has female versions of SgtWilliePete known as bellamuerte333 or melosidad1, and there are bound to be others, which is truly sad.
No, it is not false. It is a case by case bases. Please don't play stupid. Do that act somewhere else. You know, some Black men love to spout that HIV statistic. Remember, it is a statistic which can be proven wrong. Some of you are a trip! But if Black women lead the HIV cases, and Black women usually on the whole stick to dating and marrying Black men, then where the hell are Black women getting the HIV from?? Do the math!
Forreal, I was going to say the same thing. Who are BW getting infected from - men who sleep around with other men/women who don't practice safe or self control. I agree with one thing there are a lot of BW who sleep around which is sad, but all races do because we live in a sexually permissive society. Anything goes and it's all about sex, sex and more perverted/gratuitous sex. So give it a break, our culture says its socially acceptable to be a hoe no matter what gender or race.
Well, good for me. I actually like being a Black woman. My part of the commuinty is fine. In my circle I don't deal with Black men that believe as you do. I have a great circle of Black folks around me. Sorry to hear about your side of the tracks. Good luck!
Yeah, I do socialize with MANY Black women. And yeah, you are what you attract. Of course you see other women as being decent. Because you already don't like Black women, you immediately judged them upon contact. Change your mind and you change your life.
You have the option of making your own video and giving what advice you deem necessary. I did this video based on my thoughts. I don't know of any masculine strong Black women. So, I can't relate to you on that subject. Is that the type of Black woman ou run into? Hmmm ... interesting ...
There are so many chaotic black men. Yet, they wonder why they are losing so many of their women. I don't know why so many of them are so blind. Black women are just growing tired of black men who dis black women before the face of the world and then pick up his big rap check at the end of the quarter. They have sold their women out for money. Then there's the lost sistahs who dance with their booty. This has also made a bad influence upon children who sits before the TV in a trans.
and plus how would you know that the man that you are with is the right one if you dump him off for his first mess up? women mess up too!!! its just that you are sneaky about
ok you have made some good points but what is makeing women nowadays black women, shun a brother when they approach them? my generation is messed up with the independent i dont need a man mind set.
Exactly if you are being shunned by a black woman, she is not interested in you, just pick your chin up and move on. Didn't anybody teach you that rejection and failure is part of life? Everytime you get rejected by a woman that looks a certain way are you not going to pursue somebody that may look like that person because of what the last person did? That's just sad that so many black men have such easily bruised egos. Yall need Jesus for real!
Great video, ATL Sista! I have a niece that I truly LOVE. I model the woman that I would like for her to be and she appreciates that even at her age of 8.
We do have to hold men (ALL MEN) accountable for their behavior. Let's stop trying to change them; meet a drug dealer or pimp SHUT HIM DOWN IMMEDIATELY- do not give him your number or call him. Your good heart will not make a thug a gentleman; time is promised to no one.
Excellent points Sister, bringing it back to how we treat each other - period. I agree that we as women MUST raise our sons differently. The same thing happens in the NDN community. We both raise our daughters and love our sons. And then wonder why our daughters can't find men their ages.
I chose to do my video my way. But one thing I need to point out concerning your comments. It has not been my experience to continuously hear Black women speak bad about Black men for decades. Like I said, it depends on who you hang with and who raised you. Upstanding Black men are all throughout my family. So, I guess there was no need for the women in my family to speak ill of Black men. I speak from MY experience. Anyway, I do appreciate your comments. Have a great weekend!
"We have to hold them accountable.." You damn right. Another problem is that too many out there give it up too easily. Like Dave Chappelle said, the market is flooded with p***y so the value goes down.
Why did I even respond to you in the first place? A nobody with a piece of page making personal attacks...I am so beyond you. Get your weight up and THEN holla.
Many of these mothers rub their sons' bellies or look the other way when they act up. Eventually these BOYS begin to think they can do no wrong, so they treat other women any ol' way.
The Most High have a ICBM nuke missle gift wrapped for your Edomite(white) loving ass.
Mal 4:1 ¶ For, behold, the day cometh, that shall burn as an oven; and all the proud, yea, and all that do wickedly, shall be stubble: and the day that cometh shall burn them up, saith the LORD of hosts, that it shall leave them neither root nor branch.
Also, your precious Edomite(white man)empire America(Babylon) is going fall. And they will be slaves soon.
Rev 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
I'm from Chicago,Ill. my bloodline goes back to the Moors & black Jews of England,Wales,Angola. But, on white government paper they call me African American.
Thats so cool, I really wish I could tell you where my bloodline goes back to, I dont know where my Black ancestors came from just the European ancestors and Indian, but all I know is that I'm Black, thats sad. I'm African American too, how did you find out where your ancestors came from?
Well, don't discard your European heritage too fast. Because,the original Irish,Welsh, &British was a black ppl.(read Nature Has No Colorline by JA Rogers) Also,many Indians tribes ws originaly black. I founded out by doing research on the meaning of Surname,History of black presence in Europe,& we kept family records,& talked to Moors & Hebrew Israelites.
I didnt know the Irish were a Black people at first omg, but you know, my mom told me that my great great great grandpa was a White dlave owner from Ireland, so I dont think that side was Black, and he impregnated one of his slaves, then she had babies and stuff, I dont exactly remember but I did a project on it. Also, on my grandma side, my grandma is 1/4 Black 3/4 Cherokee Indian, and her mom was half Black half Indian, and her dad was Indian. I wish I knew more.
Yes,The Irish was a black ppl & Israelites. the Irish Gaelic language is similar to Hebrew.Also, you can see pics of wealthy black Irish families in JA Roger's book Nature HAs No Colorline. Also, Many Irish was enslaved along with blacks in America,WestIndies, & South America.
What happen is that The Blacks in Ireland father children with White ppl.Making each generation light. What is your Irish 3rd grandpa lastname? I probably can break his lastname down.
This video is non sense. What is the moral of the story?? I will say this bm don't hate bw we just are in transitioning meaning distancing ourselves from most bw that act like men truth hurts not at but I'm invovled with a spanish sistah now I gave up on black ones..
TheNubian100 6 months ago
you knoww girl, thank you for this videoo, it truly hurts to knoww that their is so much negativity being spewed here on youtube from BM toBW.When in reality BW are the ones who are providing shelter for these men, taking them bak time after time when theyve been done wrong by us. How men come to hate their own kind baffles me, but it scares me as a young black women(16 years old) growing up my mom was rightwhen she said there are hardly any GOOD BM left. smh
babyxhil 2 years ago
@babyxhil
I do think there are many god BM left. Don't let the scallywags clous your view.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
hair and make-up are flawless in this one. I miss your videos. More, please;)
IHEARTNERDS34 2 years ago
o and another thing,then yall get mad when you see a positive black man with a white woman......
megamanlegends18 2 years ago
No, never mad ... positive Black men don't end up with white women.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
snap!!!! true statement!! :]
allyalleybooboo 2 years ago
who cares about bm with ww? lol..BE GONE! if they were GOOD BM..they wouldnt have the highest DIVORCE RATE in IR with white women ;)..keep it moving.
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
Do black women not bash us ALL the DAmn time, Tyra BAnks show, Oprah show, THis youtube video right here!!!!
dcash1717 2 years ago
Honey, who watches Tyra? You and your mother??? I don't.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
nope. bm bash bw more. sorry,because if there were GOOD ones..then why arent they defending themselves? instead, they talk MORE SHIT than the rest..get the hell out of here
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
@caramelprincessxxx41
You have a major problem with Black men. You need to get that in check if you are Black too. What excatly started this hate you have built up?
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
in the usa i will be known as black(understandable). however, i live in the uk and i am known as a mixed hispanic(not JUST black) so whats your point? dont worry, you have nothing to worry about ;)
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
@caramelprincessxxx41
Worry about you???? Nah ... so you are bi-racial? Yet, you have so many negative words about Black men? Nah, I'm not worried about you at all. LOL! And yes, it does matter if your ass had been Black and constantly degrading Black men. That is why I asked.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
sorry, i dont have no relations with black men..lol. i dont see why thats so hard to understand when half of you guys dont even grow up with a dad being around, lets just say my mother was part of that half ;)
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
So, you have no relations with Black men, yet you speak so harshly about them??? Honey, stop listening to the media and uncle tom negroes. Stop believing the BS stereotypes. or else if you are going to belive it about Black folks, know that ALL of America has the same problem too. Yes, Black folks have probelms. ALL people have problems.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
well duh!
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
And do know I grew up with my Father. He was not in my house all of my life, my parents were divorced. But I spent equal time with my parents. My father was and is definitely present. This is also true for most of my friends and associates. And yes, they are Black. Statistics will make you look like a dumb ass. I sugeest you ignore them or at the very least, find out the source that was used. Good day!
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
lol
caramelprincessxxx41 2 years ago
@caramelprincessxxx41 LOL. It's her video. You're just a troll. Seen you before saying the same crap. You're not even that pretty.
visionimagify 1 year ago
Thank you so much for the kind words.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
pretty earrings and eyes.
frankwhite432 2 years ago
Thank you.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
To brothers who probably wouldn't give us a chance if we were in the same predicament-they were making that money and we were up working at McDonalds...etc.
I agree, I am glad you said this. Brothers act like black women corner the market on materialism when they are too. I can't find one criticism they say about us that's not applicable to them! I am glad though that you criticize us about not holding black men accountable, not loving our selves, and stuff without putting us down!
sillyposter 2 years ago
I know this vid is old but I just found it. At 5:31...Real Talk. I was the same way. Die hard for blk men! Couldn't see it any other way..wouldn't see it any other way! Them days are gone!
hehatemepartdeux 2 years ago 6
YESSSS!
MiloandDaisy113 2 years ago
Thank You AtlantahSistah for the encouraging words.
You are supporting black women and not bashing them under the guise of helping them. Unfortunately, the YT community has female versions of SgtWilliePete known as bellamuerte333 or melosidad1, and there are bound to be others, which is truly sad.
tashenne 3 years ago 7
@tashenne
omg everyone talks about SGWP.. everytime i am on a site someone mentions him.. who is he?? i been trying to find him on here.. LOL .. great point.
WonderWomanFan4life 1 year ago
I'm a young black man and I enjoyed your video. You made alot of great points
BurnNotice015 3 years ago
No, it is not false. It is a case by case bases. Please don't play stupid. Do that act somewhere else. You know, some Black men love to spout that HIV statistic. Remember, it is a statistic which can be proven wrong. Some of you are a trip! But if Black women lead the HIV cases, and Black women usually on the whole stick to dating and marrying Black men, then where the hell are Black women getting the HIV from?? Do the math!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Forreal, I was going to say the same thing. Who are BW getting infected from - men who sleep around with other men/women who don't practice safe or self control. I agree with one thing there are a lot of BW who sleep around which is sad, but all races do because we live in a sexually permissive society. Anything goes and it's all about sex, sex and more perverted/gratuitous sex. So give it a break, our culture says its socially acceptable to be a hoe no matter what gender or race.
lalachanel 3 years ago 4
Well, good for me. I actually like being a Black woman. My part of the commuinty is fine. In my circle I don't deal with Black men that believe as you do. I have a great circle of Black folks around me. Sorry to hear about your side of the tracks. Good luck!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
You are speaking the truth and your hair is gore-juss!
lalachanel 3 years ago
Thank you!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Yeah I like your hair as well, make video about that.
Giagantus 3 years ago
Yeah, I do socialize with MANY Black women. And yeah, you are what you attract. Of course you see other women as being decent. Because you already don't like Black women, you immediately judged them upon contact. Change your mind and you change your life.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
It would indeed matter what you look like. You are judging other folks looks. Why can't your looks be judged? Are you Black?
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
You have the option of making your own video and giving what advice you deem necessary. I did this video based on my thoughts. I don't know of any masculine strong Black women. So, I can't relate to you on that subject. Is that the type of Black woman ou run into? Hmmm ... interesting ...
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Hmm ... and you look like what??
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
at 2:20 that's interesting
i just read a comment yesterday where an older black Man said he feels sorry for younger black men of today who are teens and in their 20's
scottnaji 3 years ago
There are so many chaotic black men. Yet, they wonder why they are losing so many of their women. I don't know why so many of them are so blind. Black women are just growing tired of black men who dis black women before the face of the world and then pick up his big rap check at the end of the quarter. They have sold their women out for money. Then there's the lost sistahs who dance with their booty. This has also made a bad influence upon children who sits before the TV in a trans.
joyceepoo56 3 years ago 3
everything you said was one point
breakwaves 3 years ago
Well said!
firemama1269 3 years ago
and plus how would you know that the man that you are with is the right one if you dump him off for his first mess up? women mess up too!!! its just that you are sneaky about
spccason 3 years ago
ok you have made some good points but what is makeing women nowadays black women, shun a brother when they approach them? my generation is messed up with the independent i dont need a man mind set.
spccason 3 years ago
Maybe they are just not into you. Do all women shun you?
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Exactly if you are being shunned by a black woman, she is not interested in you, just pick your chin up and move on. Didn't anybody teach you that rejection and failure is part of life? Everytime you get rejected by a woman that looks a certain way are you not going to pursue somebody that may look like that person because of what the last person did? That's just sad that so many black men have such easily bruised egos. Yall need Jesus for real!
lalachanel 3 years ago 3
Great video, ATL Sista! I have a niece that I truly LOVE. I model the woman that I would like for her to be and she appreciates that even at her age of 8.
We do have to hold men (ALL MEN) accountable for their behavior. Let's stop trying to change them; meet a drug dealer or pimp SHUT HIM DOWN IMMEDIATELY- do not give him your number or call him. Your good heart will not make a thug a gentleman; time is promised to no one.
crazycoolone 3 years ago 2
Phenomenal message
oldsoulisme 3 years ago
Excellent points Sister, bringing it back to how we treat each other - period. I agree that we as women MUST raise our sons differently. The same thing happens in the NDN community. We both raise our daughters and love our sons. And then wonder why our daughters can't find men their ages.
Peace.
makezmuzic 3 years ago
Watch Melosidad1's video 'Black Women Dropped The Ball'
because yes BM do need to speak better of their women but BW have spoken bad about their
men for decades as well. It would've been nice if you'd mentioned that in this video.
BM continually say BW are unfair and biased
against BM.
I made 2 videos 'A Black Woman's Worth' Pt.1&2
which gives info not found anywhere on youtube. Enjoy!
NQ 2008
xXNubianQueenXx 3 years ago
I chose to do my video my way. But one thing I need to point out concerning your comments. It has not been my experience to continuously hear Black women speak bad about Black men for decades. Like I said, it depends on who you hang with and who raised you. Upstanding Black men are all throughout my family. So, I guess there was no need for the women in my family to speak ill of Black men. I speak from MY experience. Anyway, I do appreciate your comments. Have a great weekend!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
"We have to hold them accountable.." You damn right. Another problem is that too many out there give it up too easily. Like Dave Chappelle said, the market is flooded with p***y so the value goes down.
LLO525Star 3 years ago
I'm pretty sure that's not what she meant. I don't see why you think you are that important to gauge someone's value like that. Get over yourself.
EyeoftheSun110 3 years ago
Hmm...get over myself. I used a Dave Chappelle joke to make a point and I am "that important?" Riiiiiight.
LLO525Star 3 years ago
Actually, you aren't. I rest my case.
EyeoftheSun110 3 years ago
Why did I even respond to you in the first place? A nobody with a piece of page making personal attacks...I am so beyond you. Get your weight up and THEN holla.
LLO525Star 3 years ago
very well said. You're right about these men that are being raised by mothers that are ruining them.
PharaohGoddess 3 years ago
Many of these mothers rub their sons' bellies or look the other way when they act up. Eventually these BOYS begin to think they can do no wrong, so they treat other women any ol' way.
LLO525Star 3 years ago 2
Black women should expands their options and date other races that want to marry and date them, not just fuck them.
renea1977 3 years ago
Why not date black men from South America,Caribbeans, or Europe? Your so damn in hurry to jump in the bed with them white devils.
khammurabi 3 years ago
Fuck black men! I don't want to have anything to do with neither of them, so please don't try to change my mind.
renea1977 3 years ago
renea1977
The Most High have a ICBM nuke missle gift wrapped for your Edomite(white) loving ass.
Mal 4:1 ¶ For, behold, the day cometh, that shall burn as an oven; and all the proud, yea, and all that do wickedly, shall be stubble: and the day that cometh shall burn them up, saith the LORD of hosts, that it shall leave them neither root nor branch.
khammurabi 3 years ago
renea1977
Also, your precious Edomite(white man)empire America(Babylon) is going fall. And they will be slaves soon.
Rev 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
khammurabi 3 years ago
Omg, I would love to date a foreign Black guy.
A16FitchBabe 3 years ago
Bless you sister.
Which type of foreign Black guy?
khammurabi 3 years ago
It doesnt matter to me, I like them from Africa, Europe, the carribbean all over! Where are you from?
A16FitchBabe 3 years ago
I'm from Chicago,Ill. my bloodline goes back to the Moors & black Jews of England,Wales,Angola. But, on white government paper they call me African American.
khammurabi 3 years ago
Thats so cool, I really wish I could tell you where my bloodline goes back to, I dont know where my Black ancestors came from just the European ancestors and Indian, but all I know is that I'm Black, thats sad. I'm African American too, how did you find out where your ancestors came from?
A16FitchBabe 3 years ago
Well, don't discard your European heritage too fast. Because,the original Irish,Welsh, &British was a black ppl.(read Nature Has No Colorline by JA Rogers) Also,many Indians tribes ws originaly black. I founded out by doing research on the meaning of Surname,History of black presence in Europe,& we kept family records,& talked to Moors & Hebrew Israelites.
khammurabi 3 years ago
I didnt know the Irish were a Black people at first omg, but you know, my mom told me that my great great great grandpa was a White dlave owner from Ireland, so I dont think that side was Black, and he impregnated one of his slaves, then she had babies and stuff, I dont exactly remember but I did a project on it. Also, on my grandma side, my grandma is 1/4 Black 3/4 Cherokee Indian, and her mom was half Black half Indian, and her dad was Indian. I wish I knew more.
A16FitchBabe 3 years ago
Yes,The Irish was a black ppl & Israelites. the Irish Gaelic language is similar to Hebrew.Also, you can see pics of wealthy black Irish families in JA Roger's book Nature HAs No Colorline. Also, Many Irish was enslaved along with blacks in America,WestIndies, & South America.
What happen is that The Blacks in Ireland father children with White ppl.Making each generation light. What is your Irish 3rd grandpa lastname? I probably can break his lastname down.
khammurabi 3 years ago
My 3rd granpa name was Gina Cochran. And yeah, like in the U.K everybody is mixing together, like there are more mixed people than Blacks up there.
A16FitchBabe 3 years ago
Ok, hold on while I research that last name.
khammurabi 3 years ago
yeah, ur Israel. I left u a message in ur YT mailbox.
khammurabi 3 years ago
Great response AtlantaSistah. It is so wonderful to see black women reaching out to one another with love as opposed to contempt.
bestlife08 4 years ago
thank you for your wisdom.
superhotpink 4 years ago