Don't get me wrong I like the slim, natural hair, educated ones but there are not enough of those and it just seems a lot easier to get with a girl that looks like kathryn Prescott...
your black/mixed daughter is dirty porno wh0re or stripper it only because she thought that her white boy was really love her just like her self-hating dumb azz black azz mother teach her. all these dirty crakkkers/wiggers/white mixed latinos f'cking young black or mixed girls in young age before than they will be sleep with dark/brown skin brother that is why black/mixed women are f'cking up and your black men not really love and trust you!
we need to stop propagandize interracial/light skinned bullsh't in african/BLACK sites, blogs or tv and media with these all racist ugly whites and non african/black ppl because it is ridiculous how you self-hating sellout coons want to kill yourself and your people. most of us do not want f'ckin ugly crakkkers and mixed looking kids for white race just like they want it, that is why we have mixed boy in white house!
@BrownSkinBarb ..don't respond to that Swag kid anymore.. u and I know what the real deal is. Im glad u liked the video.. sorry u had to deal with that BS harrassment...and he wonders why black women don't want him?....smh. he just solidified my point, he's not gonna marry u Black Barb but he'll insult the fuck outta you.
@2centsnow swagboi expects black women to stay with black men but he's got no respect for black women in the first place. And to be honest, I'm surprised his account hasn't been terminated long ago. He's all over the place!
@Swagboi7 ..ur name is Swagboi..but this video is intended for GROWN/ADULT men and women.. i saw ur other comments on peoples videos. Ur profile will be deleted soon. Ur lost kid,google search mental health Or anger management facilities in ur area. Peace
black women you must be retarded or something smh! white or latino white men don't love you they just want to fuck your self-hating dumb black vagina!! stop make white looking kids for white race you fuckin dumb self-hating black hoes! that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
....and stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man's porno whores or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! fuck racist whites and their dumb whores!
THIS NIGGA IS GAY SO HE DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT BLACK RACE, BLACK FAMILY, DARK SKIN BLACK SONS/KIDS AND BLACK PPL! BLACK WOMEN AND MEN DONT NEED TO DATE OUTSIDE WE NEED TO DATE/MARRY OUR OWN BLACK PPL TO MAKE REAL DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK KIDS AND BLACK FAMILY! BLACK LOVE THE BEST!
Great video. It's great to see Black men uplifting Black women. (:
I'm allll for IR dating. You should date someone based on their character, not their color. I never understood why some people are so closed up and exclusively date ONE type when it comes to dating. Sure there's preferences, but damn! I have a few friends that will turn down every non black man (and black men who don't have "swag") and they're at home alone & single. Smh. Broaden you're horizons!
@BROWNSKINBARB NAHH YOU'RE WHORE JUST DIRTY SELLOUT WHITE MAN'S NIGGER WHORE WHO WILL BE SINGLE BABYMAMMA WITH UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE OR PORNO HOE VERY SOON! PLS STAY WITH YOUR UGLY OLD CRAKKKERS/W!GGERS AND UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE BECAUSE WE DON'T WANT YOUR DIRTY MIXED AZZ AFTER WHITE D'CKS AND NON BLACK MAN ... F'CKIN FAKE AZZ PORNO MIXED WHORE!!
I must say that this is the most positive vlog I've ever seen re: black women dating outside of their race. It takes a "real man" to be able to say that. I certainly do appreciate you saying that. I so agree!!!
@goldsunlover I'm glad u appreciate my view...and I'm happy 4u and ur white husband..the key word there is "husband" but some would focus on "white".. I like yalls video also..haha, love is always good 2see
(Part 1) Thank You so much for making this video, Im sure it will mean a lot for some sisters who are set in waiting until death, coming from you. Thanks again. I am Black American and my husband is White American and we are both very happy.
(Part 2) I've mostly always dated interracialy and always kind of knew my soulmate would be white. Although when we met and now are living our family lives together It's not about color, its about real true love, loyalty and surviving this world together as a family. I also know many sisters all over the U.S. who are also dating / marring interracialy and we've always said in our online BW+WM IR Community groups that we need more couples like us.
@goldsunlover BECUASE YOU'RE DUMB SELLOUT FUCKIN SELF-HATING WHITE DICK LOVING NIGGER WHORE THAT'S WHY! JUST STAY WITH YOUR UGLY OLD CRAKKKERS/W!GGERS AND UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE BECAUSE WE DON'T WANT YOUR DIRTY BLACK AZZ AFTER WHITE D'CKS AND NON BLACK MAN ... F'CKIN FAKE AZZ PORNO BLACK WHORE!!
I don't understand why some Americans have an issue with race,well I can tell you now we are all the same race,the human race,colour makes no difference,only culture and religion does,any we are all attracted to many types of people,so does it really matter who we date or marry?
Seems you're a fine marriage candidate for any woman!
Not saying that's what you need to do of course, for all i know you already are married, or perhaps an eternal bachelor... whichever, you sure seem relaxed and confident so i'll vote for you :D
I do have to wonder that while taking out the time to make a Video addressing BW why not ask BM why there is a Lack of Commitment, and What the true issues are for not Committing to BW in particular peace!
I have just blocked that troll "UK" somebody...people that person is on this page to troll and diss BW. And that troll can't believe that a BM is telling the truth.
Smart BW IRR... and block trolls with a quickness.
@DeeDeeTV I am not responding to trolls they think they are so clever. The minute any black women talk about dating outside the race they show up. The tactics are always obvious, 1. no non-black men will want you. 2. you did not pick the right black man etc etc. Guess what, IF THEY TRULY BELIEVED THAT, THEY WOULD NOT SHOW UP TO THESE DISCUSSIONS. LOL.
Pay them no mind. I only comment to talk to the women and girls that may be listening to the discussion.
@trishi74 Ah no. The minute black woman bash black men as a reason to date inter racially is when you should be reasonable expected to get a push back. Dont act as if this video is some benign piece about BW expanding their options.2cents could have said everything he wanted to say without EVER mentioning black men. He knows that mentioning black men is red meat to you chicks. He wouldnt be getting the attention if he didnt mention black men. How sad is that?
Anyway thanks 2centsnow for making this video. There are definately good black men out there, I think you may be one of them. But it's just a fact that there is not enough and a lot of them BM who are out there, even those who aren't in prison, aren't gay, and have successful full time jobs, still aren't marriage material. They don't want to settle down and commit to one woman and commit to a family. It is against a woman's nature to put up with that. She needs love, trust and stability.
I dont think blk women want to take responsibility for the choices they make. Its easy to portray yourself as a passive victim of a non committal blk man. Blk women just dont know how to date and they dont know what to look for in a man. They then turn to what can only be described as white supremacy and decide that, "it wasnt me that was the problem, it was blk men and if I just get me a white man, all will be well and good." A wise woman makes wise choices regardless of the man she dates.
@UKGully I think some black men just get angry that black women aren't going to wait for them to out grow their bullshit. BW/WM have the lowest divorce rate of any group (accept maybe AM/AW. I do not know their stats) BM/WW have the HIGHEST divorce rate. Wouldn't that say that mean between BM and BW that BM are more the problem? BW have more successful marriages when they marry outside the race and BM have a higher divorce rate when they go outside the race. Just sayin'. Numbers don't lie.
@ISayThisWithLuv More likely BW get angry when rejected by men they think should marry them.Even after a baby-Look at Christyln. Re: Divorce: Has it ever occurred to you that BW/WM who marry already exist within a demographic that has a lower rate of divorce, i.e. older / educated? More BM married to nonBW so the chances of them occupying a high divorce demographc i.e. younger and uneducated is higher. For all this talk about blck men not committing remember its women who end marriages not men.
@UKGully I haven't been rejected by any black men. I've always done the breaking up when I decide a guy is wasting my time, or might be interested in marriage but isn't marriage material. Older/educated? It doesn't make much difference to me why the BW/WM marriages are more successful. All i care is that they are. Yes, women end more marriages, so the BW must be pretty happy with their husbands since there not ending the marriages as much. Now my question is why do YOU have a problem with that?
@ISayThisWithLuv Its important to know that status of the couple because you can predict with great accuracy their rate of success or failure. i.e. marry when you are 18 HS drop-out, you will divorce. Marry when you are 32 and uni educated-more likely to stay together. Dnt have a problem with the success of BW marriages to WM but why must BM enter the picture when discussing this issue? Cant have a debate about the positives of BW dating IR without mentioning BM proves how toxic you women are.
@ISayThisWithLuv Is it possible that many blck men see black women as not marriage material? Its ok for you to reject a man who is a waste of your time but men cant similarly deem women unworthy? Put yourself in their shoes. Marriage is important and men should be picky. They have a lot to lose in marriage if the wrong decisions are made.
@UKGully Maybe if black men like you would have spent more time appriciating black women you wouldn't have to worry about us dating outside our race. BW never use to date interracially, but we are tired of BM shit. You abuse it you loose it. We are still open too good black men though, but I'm not waiting around for BM to get their shit together. BM can attack, blame and do all that stupid mess against BW. I'll be too busy having fun with my WM to be concerned. :)
@ISayThisWithLuv Blck men dont have to appreciate me because I am not dating every blck man. Having watched the video the only people being attacked are blck men. They have a right to defend themselves. Are you really having fun with your WM? I married IR, black men's "shit" wasnt a motivation. I tend to think I have a healthier relationship because it wasnt based off of blck men's "shit" but my compatibility with him. Blck men are still open to good black women. Are you one?
@UKGully "Having watched the video the only people being attacked are blck men." I wonder why. There are numerous vids about BM hating BW. They deserve their anger. This video is a breath of fresh air. You also seem to hate the idea of WM. I think the increase in IR dating a good thing. You only need to find one. I love europe, so different.
@kmcl11 This isnt an asymmetrical war. BW have had decades of bashing BM. Too bad BM decided to fight back during the information age of 24 hr TV and internet. This guy can be the Steve Harvery of IR daters. Line his pockets with your anger of BM. A cottage industry. I havent mentioned white men and neither have most of you. As this video reiterates, this isnt about IR dating at all but about BM. Change the record.
LOL. What a laugh. If that is the case you should be happy a video like this is up. Anytime I ask a BM to give evidence of the female bashing its typically something like 'I heard my mom bash my father'. Meanwhile you cannot find BM present in the community today. I wish BM would change.
@kmcl11 What? Ive been hearing "niggas aint shit" all my life. And yes when you do bash a black father before their children you are chipping away at black men. When you verbally abuse your sons for the sins of the father you are chipping away at black manhood. You dont even recognize it as such which is why it happens with such reckless abandon in the black community.
@UKGully "What? Ive been hearing "niggas aint shit" all my life. And yes when you do bash a black father before their children you are chipping away at black men. "
Thought so. Women go thru so much more than than, yet still seem to be 'nothin but a black man'. Even when they are ripped apart on TV and online. BM are sooo sensitive.
@kmcl11 BM have been taking lump since he got off the boats. Being trashed in the media and in literate is nothing new to BM. Recently people have been putting a spotlight on BW. The reaction, "Well you must hate your mama, your sisters are black, we carried you through slavery." Ridding the coattails of a BM's mother in order to escape scrutiny is a cowards way out."Nothin but a black man..." Yes, unless that BM fits a very narrow definition of what a BM should be to the average modern BW.
@UKGully By the way you're in this thread day and night arguing with multiple people. WTF? Don't you have to go cook and clean for your "husband"? He let's you sit on youtube all day? Are gay men more relaxed with their husbands and expect less of them? I've always suspected as much.LOL
@ISayThisWithLuv Im in the UK. My posting times can vary. But what does that have to do with anything? Takes five seconds to respond. Aint rocket science. Im Gay now? Yes, BM have to deal with the accusations of them being Gay and spreading STDs in the media yet you want to talk about how the media is ripping on BW? Accusing BM of being gay when they dont agree with your dehumanisation is an attack on their manhood. Maybe you should excuse yourself because you sound like a child.
@UKGully I accused YOU of being gay, not all black men. Yesh! The crying never stops with you. You play the victim role a lot and then you try to make yourself a Martyr for all BM or something. I am talking about you and your weirdness. Not "all" black men.
@ISayThisWithLuv I think your post proves a few things. You lack the intelligence to construct a cogent argument in defense of your positions in a debate you willingly entered. How do these intelligent, worldly and cultured WM you date deal with your utter backwardness? Do you similarly attack the masculinity and heterosexuality of WM when you are losing the argument? Of course not. You have far more respect for the manhood of the WM than of the BM.
@ISayThisWithLuv Its why you think nothing of calling me gay or accusing me of crying. Because for black women, attacking a black man's sexuality, and his masculinity is a tradition. Then you wonder why some BM exhibit such hyper masculinity and sexuality. If they slip up, even a little bit, here come the accusations of homosexuality and feminine weakness. Combine this with living in dangerous hoods and you stop wondering why BM have to constantly be on overdrive to prove himself.
@UKGully I am not taking you seriously because there's nothing to argue, debate or discuss. I'm not going to limit my dating pool because it makes YOU feel better. I don't care about you. Your some strange homo on the internet as far as I'm concerned. And you would be better spent tending to your "Husband" rather then worrying about whatever everyone else is doing in their relationships.
@kmcl11 Blame racism? Ok. So BM are bashed in the media its racism. When BW are bashed in the media its BM's fault? BM are often accused of being powerless and not in control of anything yet they control the media (the largest institution in American society) and use their control of the media to attack BW? You control the media you control everything. Do BM control the media?
@kmcl11 Who is ripping us apart on TV? Who made that Pepsi commercial during the Super Bowl? Who wrote about how BW were deemed the least attractive? Who called us Welfare Queens in the 1980s. Who tried to end welfare programs with the image of slovenly BW with a bunch of iligitemate children? Who replaces us on TV with biracial women? When we arent being replaced with biracial women we are overweight and have a stinky attitude. NeNe Leakes is not a creation of BM. Who is bashing Michelle O.?
@kmcl11 And why shouldnt black women say 'nothin but a black man?' Im hearing from every other man "anything except a black woman." I dont see myself promoted by white men, Asian men, Hispanic men, Arab men, Indian men, etc. A lot of American culture that is exported to the rest of the world comes from the inner city created by black men. Black women have been riding shotgun. All we can do is beg Italians to put us on the cover of Vogue. Please!
@kmcl11 BW have been rejected far more by other races of men than BM but BM are supposed to suffer for the few BM who date inter racially? Why do you forgive these non BM when they reject BW but cant forgive BM when a TINY minority of BM reject BW?
@UKGully Ok now you are going all over the place? A tiny amount of BM hurt BW? Not true. Dont know what all that other stuff was about. Rejection from your 'own' will always be worse.
@kmcl11 BM and BW hurt each other. Just because we are physically weaker doesnt mean we as women cant hurt men. Its this mentality of innocence that allows women to be incredibly callous toward men and other people. No I dont have the strength to knock a man out but I can hurt him in other ways. BM have NEVER rejected black women. Ever.
@UKGully "BM and BW hurt each other. Just because we are physically weaker doesnt mean we as women cant hurt men" And you know who is usually more succesful ? The men. You are hell bent on defending everything they do.
@kmcl11 Society ignores the pain men feel. Because you dont see men sobbing and slobbering all over the place and having emotional breakdowns doesnt mean they dont hurt. Men tend to keep their pain to themselves. Women make a bigger deal out of their pain, are louder about it, more publically expressive but their pain doesnt exceed that of men. I am defending the humanity of men in general and black men in particular. Not their actions but their humanity which is a lot different.
@UKGully Just because YOU have been rejected by other races of men (or whatever your into) doesn't mean the same goes for all BW. That's your main problem you think your limited experiences apply to everyone. They don't. I've been shown lots of kindness and attention by WM, not more so then BM, but enough I don't feel the need to say I'll never date them again.
@kmcl11 Listen, date and marry who you want to but dont sit up there and act like black men are 100% evil incarnate. Dont portray non black men as the Savior of black women when at best they have been very indifferent to us and at worst they have considered us less than. You may have found peace and joy with your individual white man but he doesnt represent every white man, likewise, I've had some drama with some a black man but he only represented himself. This discussion is over.
@UKGully You are such a lier, stop trying to front like your a black woman. In your first comments to me you were a BM talking about having sex with multiple woman and how you don't like dating BW. Now all the sudden your a black woman?!? LOL!! Dude you are crazy. Anyone who has to pretend to be something they're not on the internet is a loser. Most people I think have sense enough not to switch genders in the same post. The only other alternative is that your some kind of homo.
@ISayThisWithLuv Quote me when I said I am having sex with multiple women. My words are here for everyone to read. Please tell me when I EVER said I was having sex with multiple women. When you cant find me saying that, dont apologize. I have already forgiven you.
@UKGully You were defending men who do and accusing women of giving it up to easy, which is the typical excuse assholes use. I never give it up easy, which is why I don't date BM that often anyway. Ah, I see it only takes a few seconds for you to think out your post and write them up...yes, that explains a lot :)
@ISayThisWithLuv In fact I challenged the poster that said 70% of black men have multiple women. If I remember correctly I said it was "mathematically impossible." Maybe you should go back and read what I wrote. Women should get it out of their heads that because they are sexually available for a man that that man should commit to a serious relationship with him. Sex isnt a bonding agent between two people.
@ISayThisWithLuv This is what you said, "Yes it is "not acting right". If you are having sex with a woman and you have no intention of marrying her EVER, then you are a selfish asshole that's wasting her time." Dont use sex or dont think sex will make a man want to be with you. Sex doesnt make any woman special to a man.
@UKGully I didnt say that about BM having relationships or sex with multiple women. I said that about BM not marrying a particular BW he is in a relationship with. You are not entitled to be his wife. Just because you make yourself sexually available doesnt mean he has to put a ring on it. Keep thinking that and you will be a very hurt isolated woman. I never defended BM w/ multiple women. I did however defend BM's right not to have to marry a woman simply because she opens her legs for him.
@UKGully I don't have sex with any man who I don't feel is marriage material and doesn't feel the same about me. My body is for my king only, not for entertaining fools. LOL. I've only had 2 sexual partners, and I was in long relationships with both and kicked both to the curb when I realized they would not make good life partners ultimately. I never left it up to the man to decide what direction the relationship would take. That's stupid, that's something you would do.
@UKGully Go read your own post. You lie too fucking much. Can't get your own story straight but you over here in everybody else's business. HAHA! Yeah black men have the right to screw whoever they want. Just like I have the right to date/marry/fuck whoever the hell I want to. I don't date sluts, and too many BM are sluttish. I'm dating a BM now who i didn't think fit the title "slut" at first but he is acting like one now. I am trying to trade him in for a nice easy going white boy.:)
:/ He's a nice guy, but I can't stand men who are too focused on sex, or expect sex too quickly, or don't take sex seriously. So no a man doesn't have to marry every girl he fucks, but I wouldn't fuck him to begin with if I even got the hint that that's all he's after. I don't date sluts and while i've had my problem with men, they've never been sex related problems (cheating, multiple Baby Daddies,STD's...). So I think I'll keep my policy, thank you!
I agree with the general message. I see that you are a stand up dude. But when you state that you want Black females to find happiness. As messed up as it is. These "miserable" sistas. They are happy. I'm sure you know. Some women love the drama. Living the cookie cutter "American" dream would be considered death to some women.
But I personally never understood a woman that would waste their good years on one guy. But as you dig deep. They are willing participants.
@DeeDeeTV That would be mathematically impossible. Thankfully I never went to a HBCU but Ive heard testimonies from black men who did. They talked about how black women created harems for the athletes and the fraternities boys on campus further eliminating even more black men from their dating pool. When blk women go after a small group of black men, what do they expect? Blk women cant even expand their dating options to other black men, what makes you think they will do it with non black men?
@UKGully No, its not. You're wrong. Show me the stats of what you speak.
Why are you here? You don't like BW.
Scram! I see through you.I recognize you clearly. Sorry, wrong BW, ha. Folks like you are so old fashioned, you think that BW cannot see you for what you are, a hater who wants BW to be alone.
I'm ignoring you from this point of and if you insist on bothering me I will block you its that simple good luck on your misinformation campaign and trolling a page that is clearly not for you.
You are one mature brother to be able to make a video like this. But I have always agreed. You should date someone based on their character and love for you, not their skin color. Once black women stop waiting for black men to act right, guess what? They'll start to act right. Trust.
@ISayThisWithLuv Not wanting to marry you is not, not acting right. Has it ever occurred to some black women that they man that would like to marry just doesnt want to marry them? Is isnt anyone's fault. He's just not that into you despite how great you think you are. What he is saying can be said to women who will not choose to date interracially.
@UKGully Yes it is "not acting right". If you are having sex with a woman and you have no intention of marrying her EVER, then you are a selfish asshole that's wasting her time. I don't like having my time wasted, so I don't sit around waiting for black men and I don't really understand the poor women who do. I am great and my love is special. I only spend time with men who agree with that, if they don't agree with it, why waste my time with them?
@ISayThisWithLuv Most people in Western soceities are having sex with people who they will never marry. People start having sex as teens. Will those teens go on to marry? Of course not. Stop giving it away then you will not feel used. But you dont have the discipline. Not their problem. I think you need to grow up.
@UKGully Anyway, I find white men fun and creative. They enjoy black women, getting to know them, as if they want to get a sense of the world from our POV. They listen, it's rather nice. And they have different life experiences of course, which make them interesting. I still date blk men of course but only those black men who can give me the same attention and experience as I would get from a white boy. And there are some out there...sadly though not nearly enough that I could only date BM.
@ISayThisWithLuv You cant speak for all white men who will never be with anyone other than a white woman. Some white men are creative and fun, others, like most men in this world are rather average. I dont put white men on a pedestal. Why should I? Why should you? Does that give you leverage with them? It doesnt. In my experience black women tend to be rather boring and stereotypical.
@UKGully I said "I Find". Which means the white men who tend to approach me, fit that description in one way or another. Although, I move in artsy circles so I will attract that type anyway. I don't put any man on a pedestal. The only man who gets put on a pedestal is the one I love and I'm not in love right now, so that isn't a problem. If you don't like black women then don't date them. I could care less. I only put my attention and focus on men who are 100% into sista's! :)
@ISayThisWithLuv Im a hetero BW. Blck men are more likely to be 100% into sistas than any other men on the planet. You strike them off your list you effectively limit your dating pool. Though I am married I would be stupid to reject blck men because they have consistently shown me the most romantic interest throughout my life. Ive tended to take it for granted. As my name suggest I live in the Uk. in a town 97% white. I am the only BW on my block. WM have been demystified. I see no difference.
@UKGully I doubt you are a woman and if you are then you are one strange chick! lol! If you were listening and reading effectively, you would have heard me say that I do date BM but only those who are worth my time. I have been shown romantic interest in by both BM and WM, so why limit my options? Especially when so many BM in the US have adopted what I can only call heathen savagery. Life is too short to deal with that shit. I date whoever I want to and that's the end of it.
@ISayThisWithLuv Im not strange. I am not drinking your cool-aid. Im not apart of the cult of white male worship. I judge men on their character because Martin Luther King told me too. Did I ever say to limit your options to one race of man? If I did you can quote me. If you cant date inter racially without BM hatred being your raison d'être youre a loser of epic proportions.
@UKGully You judge males on their character yet you try to tear down "other" women. I never said anything hateful against all black men, I even gave this brother right here a lot of props. You have a hatred for women and for some reason your surprised I don't see things YOUR twisted way. Actually it isn't any of your business who I date and why I date them? Is it? If I think your an angry little male, then I think your an angry little male. If you don't like the characterization, don't act it.
@ISayThisWithLuv Im talking about a small but very vocal subset of black women who make it their point to use black men as a reason to date inter racially. Now its customary to mock a black man who dates inter racially because of issues he has with black women.
@UKGully I judge males on their character to and it's pretty obvious to me, as well as everyone else your harassing, that you are a woman hater. I think your a lier to. But it doesn't really make a difference what you are. The brother in this video didn't say anything about not dating any black man, he was talking about BW need to keep our options open. Now, my brother, I'll ask you again. What is YOUR problem with that? Whatever it is, remember it's just that. YOUR PROBLEM.
@ISayThisWithLuv Please stop speculating about my gender. Its really easy to accuse me of hating women but I actually havent brought up any other woman except a very small but vocal group of black women who use their bitterness toward black men to justify their inter racial dating choices. Why shouldnt I have a problem with that? Its a completely unreasonable position to have.
@UKGully excuse me, no one has to justify anything to you. If I date a white man, If date a white man. I really don't care how you feel about. You will just have to deal with it. You have no other choice. lol.
@ISayThisWithLuv But you have already justified your reasons for dating WM. I object to your stated justifications because they are spurious and presents a flaw in your character and your line of thinking. You insult both black and white men with your mentality. These two groups of men represent not individuals but amorphous blobs of either good or evil. If I were a white man, I would hate to date a woman like you. The White Man's Burden should not extend to black women's relationships woes.
@UKGully Also it seems apparent to me that BM have a lot of issues that need to be worked out. To the point that other BM get sick and tired of it. Why are you trying to stifle anyone who has some concerns about how SOME black men treat women? Maybe more BM do need to take marriage seriously. We have an epidemic of AIDS, fatherless children and other mess. Yet rather then talking to men discussing the changes they need to make to help alleviate these issue, you want to attack any BM who...
@ISayThisWithLuv Who doesnt have issues that need to be worked out? Have you seen that very popular video by a black woman called "Black Women have Dropped the Ball?" Remember that video by that Ethiopian chick that went viral? Did I deny that some BM treat women badly? A lot of men treat women badly. THats a personal issue. Also, not marrying a black woman isnt treating her badly. Condoms and birth control solve loads of problems. We been knowing that since the 1980s.
@UKGully THEN WHAT IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM!?! Dang, going round and round in circles with your ass. I am right back where I began. Still open to interracial relationships. Still not putting up with nigga shit. I don't know what your trying to do arguing with everyone but I don't think it's working.
@UKGully (cont) who aren't willing to put up with being miss treated and undervalued. Now I don't get mistreated or under valued because as soon as I sense any kind of slack, I'm out! I'm dating a BM now for your info, and he's absolutely unbelievable. I've dated some unbelievable WM in the past too. I don't care what color the love is coming from as long as I get it and it's real. I bet the brother in this video has no trouble getting love from BW, because he's showing he cares about us.
@ISayThisWithLuv Dont get yourself and women like you confused with all black women. When I talk about you, and women who think like you, I am probably talking about less than 2% of the black female population in America. You guys represent no one but yourselves.
good video..it took a lot of guts to do a video that points out "some" shortcomings o "some" black men NOT all..but just ignore the ignorant ones that bash you for speaking truth..i bet the ones who are talking BS probably the main ones that date interracially .i come to think those kind of guys have the mentality of: "if we don't want you(black women) no one can" sad state of mind really...but i'm happily married to an Asian man...and the stereotypes about Asian men are laughable..nice vid
@Wakandanking so if "WAITING" for black men to act right hasn't worked for a black woman or any other women that have been waiting for black men. then dont be afraid to explore other races and Vice versa. if women are tired of waiting for White,latin,asian etc..move on if need be. basically im saying dont allow race to stand in the way of the true HAPPINESS.
@2centsnow This post makes a lot of assumptions. No one is allowing race to stand in their happiness. You seem to have this idea in their head that black women are choosing to wait on black men while other races of men idle by waiting for her to wise up. That isnt the case. A black woman isnt waiting on black men. She is waiting on one man that just doesnt want her but probably may want someone else.
@WakandanKing again thanx for caring enough about this topic to respond. i dont have to make a video encouraging black men to date other races bcuz BLACK MEN HAVE BEEN DATING OTHER RACES FOR YEARS! .idk where u live,but in my many travels around this country i have seen countless black men dating other races. not just successful black men,ALL different walks of life.. and i think ur missing my point. I DONT CARE WHAT RACE ANYBODY IS,Im a dreamer/visionary. I WANT EVERYBODY 2BE HAPPY.
@WakandanKing my video"suggests"interracial dating bcuz i have experience in life&successful businesses.i learned if the initial plan is not working u must re-asses ur approach.relate that2our color,u want us 2only stay with our own color.thats insane,at what point does it end?are we also gonna only date people in our neighborhood,the rich with the rich,poor with the poor?are u pro segregation too?haha smh &U mentioned "SOLUTION"i presented a alternative,there is NO single"SOLUTION" 4every case.
@2centsnow I have absolutely no issue with who someone dates nor the color of the person they are dating. That is personal between those two and I have black female friends who are married to non-black men and I view them like sisters. The problem I have is with some folks going out crying to thw world that black women need to date non-black men because black men ain't worth a crap. That is the essence of it.
@2centsnow You ask if I am pro-segregation. You feel that folks should venture out and date outside of their race. Where is your video telling black men that they need to start dating non-black women? 90% of married black men are married to black women. When are you going to promote increasing that number if it is simply a case of not believing that folks should simply date their own race.
@DeeDeeTV When has anyone EVER controlled a black woman? You want to see the control of women, go to Afghanistan. Black women are by and large the freest women in the world. We run your own homes, no consistent patriarch in the home as either fathers or husbands. We spend our own money enriching East Asians. The problem isnt that black women are controlled, its that we have lost control. Our weight, our finances, our bodies, our attitudes, our children, our social circles, etc. Lets own up.
@Trishi74 thank u for handling this @Wakandanking guy...i started to respond but i dont have the energy right now to deal with his 1-sided opinion. aww fuck it i have to say something... @Wakandanking -thank u for watching the video and taking ur time to respond,that means i triggered a emotion in u,which is what my intent was when making this video.
2centshow, as a BW I see u as a man of honor for making this vid. Even though I don't use the word (Brotha)anymore to describe men who I don't know, u fit the description of what that word is suPposed to mean.much love to u!
Lastly, you assume that the marriage problems in the black community are entirely to blame on black men. A good look into it will show that in their own way, black women value marriage no more than black men and possibly less. Just because a woman wants to or is open to marriage doesn't mean that she wants to be a wife. Just out of curiousity, are you married (forgive me is I missed you informing us of this). Are you currently serving as husband to a black woman? I am.
Black women claiming no to care about marriage is simply an attempt tp pacify black men when they say stupid things like marriage is a piece of paper. These same women need to drop dealing with non-marriage minded black men and find men from other communities that respect the institution. It is time for black women to walk out of the failed black community and embrace life outside. Life is SANE outside.
@WakandanKing you just love to gas light dont you? Wish more black men like this guy would admit the truth and stop living in denial. @2centsnow You know they are going to name you an uncle ruckus etc
@choochiXluvzXMakeup Please, enough with the accusations of gas lighting. There is a possibility that you are wrong. And you are not a victim because a black man doesnt want to marry you.
@UKGully i dont give a damn if a brother doesnt want to marry me because i am already married i guess what it isn't to a brutha! and wasn't trying to be a victim or play a victim because i know i am not and furthermore the possibilities of me being right is far greater than me being wrong.
@WakandanKing Thats a very good point. I dont think black women do value marriage like that say that do. That just use the language to shame black men about them not stepping up which is just code for "not doing what you want me to do." Men control marriage and women control sex, and by the looks of things men have been controlling marriage better than women have been controlling sex.
Regarding assumptions, it is often spoken as if black women are holding back from dating interracially. There has never been any study showing that black women are any more pressured to date within the race than any other group and studies have shown that white women are more pressured by family and friends to date within their race than black women are. Black women simply don't desire non-black men to a significant extent. You might as well tell black women to open up to short fat nerds.
You're full of it. The very fact that you are here attempting to co-opt this message is just another piece of proof of the tremendous pressure placed on black women not to date outside their race. The violence done to interracial couples (bw-wm) who happen to be in black areas. The constant name-calling etc. You're not fooling anyone. Black women know the truth and your attempt at gaslighting will not go unchallenged.
@trishi74 I think that you and Chris need to better evaluate the definition of "gaslighting" especially since you guys use the term excessively and inappropriately.
@WakandanKing Gaslighting-To deliberately drive someone insane by psychologically manipulating their environment and tricking someone into believing that they are insane. Apparently disagreeing with these women is tantamount to pyscholigically abuse. These women have, what I could describe as Histrionic Personality Disorder.
You do realize that since 1980, the percent of black women who have married interracially has trippled, yet since 1980, there has been a 30% drop in the percent of black women who are married. Thus, a significant increase in black women marrying non-black men has coincided with a significant decrease in the percent of black women who are married. Clearly, marrying non-black men is not the solution. With all due respect, your advice seems simplistic and based on a lot of assumptions.
Absolute nonsense. Black women with sense reject your specious arguments. Black women are largely alone simply because they hold out for black men that place next to either no value on marriage or no value on marriage to black women.
i'm african but my brother recently dating an african american women and the stories he has told me about his girlfriend and all her friends' experiences with dating black men..i read/hear the time about black women having a hard time dating but hearing personal experiences, i never imagined it was so bad....she's a wonderful, sweet girl too...it's just sad all around...
As a black woman married to a white man, I want to say, " Thank you." No, black women don't ( or at least shouldn't) need permission to date who they want, but it is good to hear such a positive, honest, and down to earth opinion without hidden motives. You are wise beyond your years and see things for what they are. Any partner you choose will be a lucky person,regardless of color.
As a BW married to a WM, I agree. Once I dated my first WM, I never went back. No need to. WM are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. They know how to cherish and nature relationships. And my marriage is traditional, secure, and full of happiness. While my sistas in their 30s complain, cry over BM, Im home cooking, cleaning, loving and growing with a wonderful husband who provides.
The dummies who talk about swag; what swag do BM have? Taking care of business, home and children is swag enough.
@camiNICHOLS Its ironic that women like yourself would immediately view 2centsnow as someone who would not cherish and nature relationships. I'm amazed at the denial of how sound black men are routinely bypassed by black women for those very men with "swagge"r. That is why black men put so much emphasis on it. If black women pursued sound, intelligent and responsible black men, that is what would dominate. Most of what men do, we do to appeal to women. This has been shown by experts.
@WakandanKing I dont bypass sound, caring, clever men for men w/ swagger. I dont care what other women do;how other women step over decent men b/c of a man's walk or style of dress. That's not me. If a man chooses to dumb down himself for a woman, that's his weakness.Not all black women want looks. Many are looking for a true, long lasting partner. Many BW who strive for a traditional marriage have decided to date non-BM in order to achieve the family life we deserve. Deserve.
Don't get me wrong I like the slim, natural hair, educated ones but there are not enough of those and it just seems a lot easier to get with a girl that looks like kathryn Prescott...
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biblefarce 3 days ago
A lot of us black men that are in college prefer other races so I guess this is good advice for them.
Odakufilms 1 week ago
@Odakufilms Its a shame you cannot do right by these other races. manyof whom (whites) still don't care for blacks, male especially
biblefarce 3 days ago
@biblefarce well you can believe that all black men hate natural hair. not my problem
Odakufilms 3 days ago
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interracial is wrong and a genocide pls my black ppl wake up!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
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your black/mixed daughter is dirty porno wh0re or stripper it only because she thought that her white boy was really love her just like her self-hating dumb azz black azz mother teach her. all these dirty crakkkers/wiggers/white mixed latinos f'cking young black or mixed girls in young age before than they will be sleep with dark/brown skin brother that is why black/mixed women are f'cking up and your black men not really love and trust you!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
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we need to stop propagandize interracial/light skinned bullsh't in african/BLACK sites, blogs or tv and media with these all racist ugly whites and non african/black ppl because it is ridiculous how you self-hating sellout coons want to kill yourself and your people. most of us do not want f'ckin ugly crakkkers and mixed looking kids for white race just like they want it, that is why we have mixed boy in white house!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
@BrownSkinBarb ..don't respond to that Swag kid anymore.. u and I know what the real deal is. Im glad u liked the video.. sorry u had to deal with that BS harrassment...and he wonders why black women don't want him?....smh. he just solidified my point, he's not gonna marry u Black Barb but he'll insult the fuck outta you.
2centsnow 2 weeks ago
@2centsnow swagboi expects black women to stay with black men but he's got no respect for black women in the first place. And to be honest, I'm surprised his account hasn't been terminated long ago. He's all over the place!
BROWNSKINBARB 1 week ago
@Swagboi7 ..ur name is Swagboi..but this video is intended for GROWN/ADULT men and women.. i saw ur other comments on peoples videos. Ur profile will be deleted soon. Ur lost kid,google search mental health Or anger management facilities in ur area. Peace
2centsnow 2 weeks ago
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black women you must be retarded or something smh! white or latino white men don't love you they just want to fuck your self-hating dumb black vagina!! stop make white looking kids for white race you fuckin dumb self-hating black hoes! that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
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....and stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man's porno whores or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! fuck racist whites and their dumb whores!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
THIS NIGGA IS GAY SO HE DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT BLACK RACE, BLACK FAMILY, DARK SKIN BLACK SONS/KIDS AND BLACK PPL! BLACK WOMEN AND MEN DONT NEED TO DATE OUTSIDE WE NEED TO DATE/MARRY OUR OWN BLACK PPL TO MAKE REAL DARK/BROWN SKIN BLACK KIDS AND BLACK FAMILY! BLACK LOVE THE BEST!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
Great video. It's great to see Black men uplifting Black women. (:
I'm allll for IR dating. You should date someone based on their character, not their color. I never understood why some people are so closed up and exclusively date ONE type when it comes to dating. Sure there's preferences, but damn! I have a few friends that will turn down every non black man (and black men who don't have "swag") and they're at home alone & single. Smh. Broaden you're horizons!
BROWNSKINBARB 3 weeks ago
@BROWNSKINBARB FUCK OFF U WHITE MAN'S MIXED WHORE!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
@swagboi7 I am nobody's whore honey. Get some help! :P
BROWNSKINBARB 2 weeks ago
@BROWNSKINBARB NAHH YOU'RE WHORE JUST DIRTY SELLOUT WHITE MAN'S NIGGER WHORE WHO WILL BE SINGLE BABYMAMMA WITH UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE OR PORNO HOE VERY SOON! PLS STAY WITH YOUR UGLY OLD CRAKKKERS/W!GGERS AND UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE BECAUSE WE DON'T WANT YOUR DIRTY MIXED AZZ AFTER WHITE D'CKS AND NON BLACK MAN ... F'CKIN FAKE AZZ PORNO MIXED WHORE!!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
I must say that this is the most positive vlog I've ever seen re: black women dating outside of their race. It takes a "real man" to be able to say that. I certainly do appreciate you saying that. I so agree!!!
beajoiful 3 weeks ago in playlist IR Miscellaneous 2
@goldsunlover I'm glad u appreciate my view...and I'm happy 4u and ur white husband..the key word there is "husband" but some would focus on "white".. I like yalls video also..haha, love is always good 2see
2centsnow 1 month ago
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(Part 1) Thank You so much for making this video, Im sure it will mean a lot for some sisters who are set in waiting until death, coming from you. Thanks again. I am Black American and my husband is White American and we are both very happy.
goldsunlover 1 month ago
(Part 2) I've mostly always dated interracialy and always kind of knew my soulmate would be white. Although when we met and now are living our family lives together It's not about color, its about real true love, loyalty and surviving this world together as a family. I also know many sisters all over the U.S. who are also dating / marring interracialy and we've always said in our online BW+WM IR Community groups that we need more couples like us.
goldsunlover 1 month ago
@goldsunlover sell out aunt jemima race traitor!! you are the cracker white men slave!!!
GatTotin 2 weeks ago
@goldsunlover BECUASE YOU'RE DUMB SELLOUT FUCKIN SELF-HATING WHITE DICK LOVING NIGGER WHORE THAT'S WHY! JUST STAY WITH YOUR UGLY OLD CRAKKKERS/W!GGERS AND UGLY WHITE LOOKING KIDS FOR WHITE RACE BECAUSE WE DON'T WANT YOUR DIRTY BLACK AZZ AFTER WHITE D'CKS AND NON BLACK MAN ... F'CKIN FAKE AZZ PORNO BLACK WHORE!!
swagboi7 2 weeks ago
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goldsunlover 1 month ago
I don't understand why some Americans have an issue with race,well I can tell you now we are all the same race,the human race,colour makes no difference,only culture and religion does,any we are all attracted to many types of people,so does it really matter who we date or marry?
lonelycyclist 1 month ago
Ha !
Seems you're a fine marriage candidate for any woman!
Not saying that's what you need to do of course, for all i know you already are married, or perhaps an eternal bachelor... whichever, you sure seem relaxed and confident so i'll vote for you :D
mindwis3 1 month ago
Great video. Thanks
MsTemptation 1 month ago in playlist IR Miscellaneous 2
That was so sweet and honest of you to make this video =] Thanks. A lot of people need to hear this.
ambre15 1 month ago in playlist IR Miscellaneous 2
I do have to wonder that while taking out the time to make a Video addressing BW why not ask BM why there is a Lack of Commitment, and What the true issues are for not Committing to BW in particular peace!
sophisticatcovergirl 2 months ago
I have just blocked that troll "UK" somebody...people that person is on this page to troll and diss BW. And that troll can't believe that a BM is telling the truth.
Smart BW IRR... and block trolls with a quickness.
DeeDeeTV 2 months ago
@DeeDeeTV I am not responding to trolls they think they are so clever. The minute any black women talk about dating outside the race they show up. The tactics are always obvious, 1. no non-black men will want you. 2. you did not pick the right black man etc etc. Guess what, IF THEY TRULY BELIEVED THAT, THEY WOULD NOT SHOW UP TO THESE DISCUSSIONS. LOL.
Pay them no mind. I only comment to talk to the women and girls that may be listening to the discussion.
trishi74 2 months ago
@trishi74 Ah no. The minute black woman bash black men as a reason to date inter racially is when you should be reasonable expected to get a push back. Dont act as if this video is some benign piece about BW expanding their options.2cents could have said everything he wanted to say without EVER mentioning black men. He knows that mentioning black men is red meat to you chicks. He wouldnt be getting the attention if he didnt mention black men. How sad is that?
UKGully 2 months ago
@DeeDeeTV Yes they are a troll.
entertainer4ever 1 month ago
Anyway thanks 2centsnow for making this video. There are definately good black men out there, I think you may be one of them. But it's just a fact that there is not enough and a lot of them BM who are out there, even those who aren't in prison, aren't gay, and have successful full time jobs, still aren't marriage material. They don't want to settle down and commit to one woman and commit to a family. It is against a woman's nature to put up with that. She needs love, trust and stability.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
I dont think blk women want to take responsibility for the choices they make. Its easy to portray yourself as a passive victim of a non committal blk man. Blk women just dont know how to date and they dont know what to look for in a man. They then turn to what can only be described as white supremacy and decide that, "it wasnt me that was the problem, it was blk men and if I just get me a white man, all will be well and good." A wise woman makes wise choices regardless of the man she dates.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I think some black men just get angry that black women aren't going to wait for them to out grow their bullshit. BW/WM have the lowest divorce rate of any group (accept maybe AM/AW. I do not know their stats) BM/WW have the HIGHEST divorce rate. Wouldn't that say that mean between BM and BW that BM are more the problem? BW have more successful marriages when they marry outside the race and BM have a higher divorce rate when they go outside the race. Just sayin'. Numbers don't lie.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv More likely BW get angry when rejected by men they think should marry them.Even after a baby-Look at Christyln. Re: Divorce: Has it ever occurred to you that BW/WM who marry already exist within a demographic that has a lower rate of divorce, i.e. older / educated? More BM married to nonBW so the chances of them occupying a high divorce demographc i.e. younger and uneducated is higher. For all this talk about blck men not committing remember its women who end marriages not men.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I haven't been rejected by any black men. I've always done the breaking up when I decide a guy is wasting my time, or might be interested in marriage but isn't marriage material. Older/educated? It doesn't make much difference to me why the BW/WM marriages are more successful. All i care is that they are. Yes, women end more marriages, so the BW must be pretty happy with their husbands since there not ending the marriages as much. Now my question is why do YOU have a problem with that?
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Its important to know that status of the couple because you can predict with great accuracy their rate of success or failure. i.e. marry when you are 18 HS drop-out, you will divorce. Marry when you are 32 and uni educated-more likely to stay together. Dnt have a problem with the success of BW marriages to WM but why must BM enter the picture when discussing this issue? Cant have a debate about the positives of BW dating IR without mentioning BM proves how toxic you women are.
UKGully 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Is it possible that many blck men see black women as not marriage material? Its ok for you to reject a man who is a waste of your time but men cant similarly deem women unworthy? Put yourself in their shoes. Marriage is important and men should be picky. They have a lot to lose in marriage if the wrong decisions are made.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Maybe if black men like you would have spent more time appriciating black women you wouldn't have to worry about us dating outside our race. BW never use to date interracially, but we are tired of BM shit. You abuse it you loose it. We are still open too good black men though, but I'm not waiting around for BM to get their shit together. BM can attack, blame and do all that stupid mess against BW. I'll be too busy having fun with my WM to be concerned. :)
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Blck men dont have to appreciate me because I am not dating every blck man. Having watched the video the only people being attacked are blck men. They have a right to defend themselves. Are you really having fun with your WM? I married IR, black men's "shit" wasnt a motivation. I tend to think I have a healthier relationship because it wasnt based off of blck men's "shit" but my compatibility with him. Blck men are still open to good black women. Are you one?
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully "Having watched the video the only people being attacked are blck men." I wonder why. There are numerous vids about BM hating BW. They deserve their anger. This video is a breath of fresh air. You also seem to hate the idea of WM. I think the increase in IR dating a good thing. You only need to find one. I love europe, so different.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 This isnt an asymmetrical war. BW have had decades of bashing BM. Too bad BM decided to fight back during the information age of 24 hr TV and internet. This guy can be the Steve Harvery of IR daters. Line his pockets with your anger of BM. A cottage industry. I havent mentioned white men and neither have most of you. As this video reiterates, this isnt about IR dating at all but about BM. Change the record.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully "BW have had decades of bashing BM"
LOL. What a laugh. If that is the case you should be happy a video like this is up. Anytime I ask a BM to give evidence of the female bashing its typically something like 'I heard my mom bash my father'. Meanwhile you cannot find BM present in the community today. I wish BM would change.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 What? Ive been hearing "niggas aint shit" all my life. And yes when you do bash a black father before their children you are chipping away at black men. When you verbally abuse your sons for the sins of the father you are chipping away at black manhood. You dont even recognize it as such which is why it happens with such reckless abandon in the black community.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully "What? Ive been hearing "niggas aint shit" all my life. And yes when you do bash a black father before their children you are chipping away at black men. "
Thought so. Women go thru so much more than than, yet still seem to be 'nothin but a black man'. Even when they are ripped apart on TV and online. BM are sooo sensitive.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 BM have been taking lump since he got off the boats. Being trashed in the media and in literate is nothing new to BM. Recently people have been putting a spotlight on BW. The reaction, "Well you must hate your mama, your sisters are black, we carried you through slavery." Ridding the coattails of a BM's mother in order to escape scrutiny is a cowards way out."Nothin but a black man..." Yes, unless that BM fits a very narrow definition of what a BM should be to the average modern BW.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully By the way you're in this thread day and night arguing with multiple people. WTF? Don't you have to go cook and clean for your "husband"? He let's you sit on youtube all day? Are gay men more relaxed with their husbands and expect less of them? I've always suspected as much.LOL
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Im in the UK. My posting times can vary. But what does that have to do with anything? Takes five seconds to respond. Aint rocket science. Im Gay now? Yes, BM have to deal with the accusations of them being Gay and spreading STDs in the media yet you want to talk about how the media is ripping on BW? Accusing BM of being gay when they dont agree with your dehumanisation is an attack on their manhood. Maybe you should excuse yourself because you sound like a child.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I accused YOU of being gay, not all black men. Yesh! The crying never stops with you. You play the victim role a lot and then you try to make yourself a Martyr for all BM or something. I am talking about you and your weirdness. Not "all" black men.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv I think your post proves a few things. You lack the intelligence to construct a cogent argument in defense of your positions in a debate you willingly entered. How do these intelligent, worldly and cultured WM you date deal with your utter backwardness? Do you similarly attack the masculinity and heterosexuality of WM when you are losing the argument? Of course not. You have far more respect for the manhood of the WM than of the BM.
UKGully 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Its why you think nothing of calling me gay or accusing me of crying. Because for black women, attacking a black man's sexuality, and his masculinity is a tradition. Then you wonder why some BM exhibit such hyper masculinity and sexuality. If they slip up, even a little bit, here come the accusations of homosexuality and feminine weakness. Combine this with living in dangerous hoods and you stop wondering why BM have to constantly be on overdrive to prove himself.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I am not taking you seriously because there's nothing to argue, debate or discuss. I'm not going to limit my dating pool because it makes YOU feel better. I don't care about you. Your some strange homo on the internet as far as I'm concerned. And you would be better spent tending to your "Husband" rather then worrying about whatever everyone else is doing in their relationships.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully Yeah, you gay. Stop crying already. lol!
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Typical, yet still sad.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully "BM have been taking lump since he got off the boats. Being trashed in the media and in literate is nothing new to BM"
THEN BLAME RACISM
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 Blame racism? Ok. So BM are bashed in the media its racism. When BW are bashed in the media its BM's fault? BM are often accused of being powerless and not in control of anything yet they control the media (the largest institution in American society) and use their control of the media to attack BW? You control the media you control everything. Do BM control the media?
UKGully 2 months ago
@kmcl11 Who is ripping us apart on TV? Who made that Pepsi commercial during the Super Bowl? Who wrote about how BW were deemed the least attractive? Who called us Welfare Queens in the 1980s. Who tried to end welfare programs with the image of slovenly BW with a bunch of iligitemate children? Who replaces us on TV with biracial women? When we arent being replaced with biracial women we are overweight and have a stinky attitude. NeNe Leakes is not a creation of BM. Who is bashing Michelle O.?
UKGully 2 months ago
@kmcl11 And why shouldnt black women say 'nothin but a black man?' Im hearing from every other man "anything except a black woman." I dont see myself promoted by white men, Asian men, Hispanic men, Arab men, Indian men, etc. A lot of American culture that is exported to the rest of the world comes from the inner city created by black men. Black women have been riding shotgun. All we can do is beg Italians to put us on the cover of Vogue. Please!
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully "And why shouldnt black women say 'nothin but a black man"
BECAUSE BM DON'T DO THE SAME. WHAT A DUMB QUESTION.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 BW have been rejected far more by other races of men than BM but BM are supposed to suffer for the few BM who date inter racially? Why do you forgive these non BM when they reject BW but cant forgive BM when a TINY minority of BM reject BW?
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Ok now you are going all over the place? A tiny amount of BM hurt BW? Not true. Dont know what all that other stuff was about. Rejection from your 'own' will always be worse.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 BM and BW hurt each other. Just because we are physically weaker doesnt mean we as women cant hurt men. Its this mentality of innocence that allows women to be incredibly callous toward men and other people. No I dont have the strength to knock a man out but I can hurt him in other ways. BM have NEVER rejected black women. Ever.
UKGully 2 months ago
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@UKGully "BM and BW hurt each other. Just because we are physically weaker doesnt mean we as women cant hurt men" And you know who is usually more succesful ? The men. You are hell bent on defending everything they do.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 Society ignores the pain men feel. Because you dont see men sobbing and slobbering all over the place and having emotional breakdowns doesnt mean they dont hurt. Men tend to keep their pain to themselves. Women make a bigger deal out of their pain, are louder about it, more publically expressive but their pain doesnt exceed that of men. I am defending the humanity of men in general and black men in particular. Not their actions but their humanity which is a lot different.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Just because YOU have been rejected by other races of men (or whatever your into) doesn't mean the same goes for all BW. That's your main problem you think your limited experiences apply to everyone. They don't. I've been shown lots of kindness and attention by WM, not more so then BM, but enough I don't feel the need to say I'll never date them again.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@kmcl11 Listen, date and marry who you want to but dont sit up there and act like black men are 100% evil incarnate. Dont portray non black men as the Savior of black women when at best they have been very indifferent to us and at worst they have considered us less than. You may have found peace and joy with your individual white man but he doesnt represent every white man, likewise, I've had some drama with some a black man but he only represented himself. This discussion is over.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully You are such a lier, stop trying to front like your a black woman. In your first comments to me you were a BM talking about having sex with multiple woman and how you don't like dating BW. Now all the sudden your a black woman?!? LOL!! Dude you are crazy. Anyone who has to pretend to be something they're not on the internet is a loser. Most people I think have sense enough not to switch genders in the same post. The only other alternative is that your some kind of homo.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Gully has been caught...lol
kmcl11 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Quote me when I said I am having sex with multiple women. My words are here for everyone to read. Please tell me when I EVER said I was having sex with multiple women. When you cant find me saying that, dont apologize. I have already forgiven you.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully You were defending men who do and accusing women of giving it up to easy, which is the typical excuse assholes use. I never give it up easy, which is why I don't date BM that often anyway. Ah, I see it only takes a few seconds for you to think out your post and write them up...yes, that explains a lot :)
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv In fact I challenged the poster that said 70% of black men have multiple women. If I remember correctly I said it was "mathematically impossible." Maybe you should go back and read what I wrote. Women should get it out of their heads that because they are sexually available for a man that that man should commit to a serious relationship with him. Sex isnt a bonding agent between two people.
UKGully 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv This is what you said, "Yes it is "not acting right". If you are having sex with a woman and you have no intention of marrying her EVER, then you are a selfish asshole that's wasting her time." Dont use sex or dont think sex will make a man want to be with you. Sex doesnt make any woman special to a man.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I didnt say that about BM having relationships or sex with multiple women. I said that about BM not marrying a particular BW he is in a relationship with. You are not entitled to be his wife. Just because you make yourself sexually available doesnt mean he has to put a ring on it. Keep thinking that and you will be a very hurt isolated woman. I never defended BM w/ multiple women. I did however defend BM's right not to have to marry a woman simply because she opens her legs for him.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I have no idea why you are telling me this. Of course there was no response to my comment. This happens over and over.
kmcl11 2 months ago
@UKGully I don't have sex with any man who I don't feel is marriage material and doesn't feel the same about me. My body is for my king only, not for entertaining fools. LOL. I've only had 2 sexual partners, and I was in long relationships with both and kicked both to the curb when I realized they would not make good life partners ultimately. I never left it up to the man to decide what direction the relationship would take. That's stupid, that's something you would do.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully Go read your own post. You lie too fucking much. Can't get your own story straight but you over here in everybody else's business. HAHA! Yeah black men have the right to screw whoever they want. Just like I have the right to date/marry/fuck whoever the hell I want to. I don't date sluts, and too many BM are sluttish. I'm dating a BM now who i didn't think fit the title "slut" at first but he is acting like one now. I am trying to trade him in for a nice easy going white boy.:)
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Okay that sounded harsh.
:/ He's a nice guy, but I can't stand men who are too focused on sex, or expect sex too quickly, or don't take sex seriously. So no a man doesn't have to marry every girl he fucks, but I wouldn't fuck him to begin with if I even got the hint that that's all he's after. I don't date sluts and while i've had my problem with men, they've never been sex related problems (cheating, multiple Baby Daddies,STD's...). So I think I'll keep my policy, thank you!
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Are you really using your vagina to get men to marry you? Dear Jesus in Heaven!!!!
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully ROFLMAO!! I'm sure it works better then using your penis to get men to marry you.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully "Listen, date and marry who you want to but dont sit up there and act like black men are 100% evil incarnate" Tell Bm the same
kmcl11 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv You are like me. I doubt this gully person is a female. Seems way to eager...lol
kmcl11 2 months ago
@kmcl11 I'm a contrarian.
UKGully 2 months ago
@kmcl11 I didn't even this this gully person was suppose to be female. This is definitely an angry little male we're dealing with.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv "...angry little male..." This type of racio-misandry from some black women is par for the course.
UKGully 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv This UKGully person is a lost cause, just block them and move on. :)
entertainer4ever 1 month ago
I agree with the general message. I see that you are a stand up dude. But when you state that you want Black females to find happiness. As messed up as it is. These "miserable" sistas. They are happy. I'm sure you know. Some women love the drama. Living the cookie cutter "American" dream would be considered death to some women.
But I personally never understood a woman that would waste their good years on one guy. But as you dig deep. They are willing participants.
everclyde 2 months ago
Can you please tell me who are these back men that have three or four women in their life?
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Get real. Like, 70% of Black american men have mulitple women.
DeeDeeTV 2 months ago
@DeeDeeTV That would be mathematically impossible. Thankfully I never went to a HBCU but Ive heard testimonies from black men who did. They talked about how black women created harems for the athletes and the fraternities boys on campus further eliminating even more black men from their dating pool. When blk women go after a small group of black men, what do they expect? Blk women cant even expand their dating options to other black men, what makes you think they will do it with non black men?
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully No, its not. You're wrong. Show me the stats of what you speak.
Why are you here? You don't like BW.
Scram! I see through you.I recognize you clearly. Sorry, wrong BW, ha. Folks like you are so old fashioned, you think that BW cannot see you for what you are, a hater who wants BW to be alone.
I'm ignoring you from this point of and if you insist on bothering me I will block you its that simple good luck on your misinformation campaign and trolling a page that is clearly not for you.
DeeDeeTV 2 months ago
@DeeDeeTV Thanks for the walk down memory lane. Your response just reminded me of grade school.
UKGully 2 months ago
:)
joydubyadee 2 months ago
U A GOOD MEN BRO THAT VERY SWEET OF U TO SAY THAT
cecinia23 2 months ago
You, my friend, are VERY secure in yourself. Kudos!
Blissfulone82 2 months ago in playlist IR Miscellaneous 2
You are one mature brother to be able to make a video like this. But I have always agreed. You should date someone based on their character and love for you, not their skin color. Once black women stop waiting for black men to act right, guess what? They'll start to act right. Trust.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Not wanting to marry you is not, not acting right. Has it ever occurred to some black women that they man that would like to marry just doesnt want to marry them? Is isnt anyone's fault. He's just not that into you despite how great you think you are. What he is saying can be said to women who will not choose to date interracially.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Yes it is "not acting right". If you are having sex with a woman and you have no intention of marrying her EVER, then you are a selfish asshole that's wasting her time. I don't like having my time wasted, so I don't sit around waiting for black men and I don't really understand the poor women who do. I am great and my love is special. I only spend time with men who agree with that, if they don't agree with it, why waste my time with them?
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Most people in Western soceities are having sex with people who they will never marry. People start having sex as teens. Will those teens go on to marry? Of course not. Stop giving it away then you will not feel used. But you dont have the discipline. Not their problem. I think you need to grow up.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Anyway, I find white men fun and creative. They enjoy black women, getting to know them, as if they want to get a sense of the world from our POV. They listen, it's rather nice. And they have different life experiences of course, which make them interesting. I still date blk men of course but only those black men who can give me the same attention and experience as I would get from a white boy. And there are some out there...sadly though not nearly enough that I could only date BM.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv You cant speak for all white men who will never be with anyone other than a white woman. Some white men are creative and fun, others, like most men in this world are rather average. I dont put white men on a pedestal. Why should I? Why should you? Does that give you leverage with them? It doesnt. In my experience black women tend to be rather boring and stereotypical.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I said "I Find". Which means the white men who tend to approach me, fit that description in one way or another. Although, I move in artsy circles so I will attract that type anyway. I don't put any man on a pedestal. The only man who gets put on a pedestal is the one I love and I'm not in love right now, so that isn't a problem. If you don't like black women then don't date them. I could care less. I only put my attention and focus on men who are 100% into sista's! :)
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Im a hetero BW. Blck men are more likely to be 100% into sistas than any other men on the planet. You strike them off your list you effectively limit your dating pool. Though I am married I would be stupid to reject blck men because they have consistently shown me the most romantic interest throughout my life. Ive tended to take it for granted. As my name suggest I live in the Uk. in a town 97% white. I am the only BW on my block. WM have been demystified. I see no difference.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I doubt you are a woman and if you are then you are one strange chick! lol! If you were listening and reading effectively, you would have heard me say that I do date BM but only those who are worth my time. I have been shown romantic interest in by both BM and WM, so why limit my options? Especially when so many BM in the US have adopted what I can only call heathen savagery. Life is too short to deal with that shit. I date whoever I want to and that's the end of it.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Im not strange. I am not drinking your cool-aid. Im not apart of the cult of white male worship. I judge men on their character because Martin Luther King told me too. Did I ever say to limit your options to one race of man? If I did you can quote me. If you cant date inter racially without BM hatred being your raison d'être youre a loser of epic proportions.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully You judge males on their character yet you try to tear down "other" women. I never said anything hateful against all black men, I even gave this brother right here a lot of props. You have a hatred for women and for some reason your surprised I don't see things YOUR twisted way. Actually it isn't any of your business who I date and why I date them? Is it? If I think your an angry little male, then I think your an angry little male. If you don't like the characterization, don't act it.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Im talking about a small but very vocal subset of black women who make it their point to use black men as a reason to date inter racially. Now its customary to mock a black man who dates inter racially because of issues he has with black women.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully I judge males on their character to and it's pretty obvious to me, as well as everyone else your harassing, that you are a woman hater. I think your a lier to. But it doesn't really make a difference what you are. The brother in this video didn't say anything about not dating any black man, he was talking about BW need to keep our options open. Now, my brother, I'll ask you again. What is YOUR problem with that? Whatever it is, remember it's just that. YOUR PROBLEM.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Please stop speculating about my gender. Its really easy to accuse me of hating women but I actually havent brought up any other woman except a very small but vocal group of black women who use their bitterness toward black men to justify their inter racial dating choices. Why shouldnt I have a problem with that? Its a completely unreasonable position to have.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully excuse me, no one has to justify anything to you. If I date a white man, If date a white man. I really don't care how you feel about. You will just have to deal with it. You have no other choice. lol.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv But you have already justified your reasons for dating WM. I object to your stated justifications because they are spurious and presents a flaw in your character and your line of thinking. You insult both black and white men with your mentality. These two groups of men represent not individuals but amorphous blobs of either good or evil. If I were a white man, I would hate to date a woman like you. The White Man's Burden should not extend to black women's relationships woes.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully WOW, your still talking. Even though no one is listening to you and you look kind of like an idiot? lol.
Not trying to be mean but I think a normal person would have gotten the hint by now.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully Oh my, some douche bag over the internet doesn't appriciate my reasons for dating various races of men.
You have to tell me why I should care first. I'm trying real hard to see why I should care. I'm having a hard time...hmm...still drawing a blank. lol
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully Also it seems apparent to me that BM have a lot of issues that need to be worked out. To the point that other BM get sick and tired of it. Why are you trying to stifle anyone who has some concerns about how SOME black men treat women? Maybe more BM do need to take marriage seriously. We have an epidemic of AIDS, fatherless children and other mess. Yet rather then talking to men discussing the changes they need to make to help alleviate these issue, you want to attack any BM who...
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Who doesnt have issues that need to be worked out? Have you seen that very popular video by a black woman called "Black Women have Dropped the Ball?" Remember that video by that Ethiopian chick that went viral? Did I deny that some BM treat women badly? A lot of men treat women badly. THats a personal issue. Also, not marrying a black woman isnt treating her badly. Condoms and birth control solve loads of problems. We been knowing that since the 1980s.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully THEN WHAT IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM!?! Dang, going round and round in circles with your ass. I am right back where I began. Still open to interracial relationships. Still not putting up with nigga shit. I don't know what your trying to do arguing with everyone but I don't think it's working.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@UKGully (cont) who aren't willing to put up with being miss treated and undervalued. Now I don't get mistreated or under valued because as soon as I sense any kind of slack, I'm out! I'm dating a BM now for your info, and he's absolutely unbelievable. I've dated some unbelievable WM in the past too. I don't care what color the love is coming from as long as I get it and it's real. I bet the brother in this video has no trouble getting love from BW, because he's showing he cares about us.
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv " I bet the brother in this video has no trouble getting love from BW, because he's showing he cares about us."
I bet many women will step on this brothers neck to get next to Lil Wayne.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully"I bet many women will step on this brothers neck to get next to Lil Wayne."
I find it funny how u want to get on here and talk about male bashing when all your doing is bashing BW. Your problem, not mines. Remember?
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Dont get yourself and women like you confused with all black women. When I talk about you, and women who think like you, I am probably talking about less than 2% of the black female population in America. You guys represent no one but yourselves.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully Who cares? :D
ISayThisWithLuv 2 months ago
@ISayThisWithLuv Its funny how we are supposed to ignore skin color except on a black man. Maybe a new twist on colorism.
UKGully 2 months ago
BRAVO thanks dear brother... for posting this video.
spainishgirl 2 months ago
good video..it took a lot of guts to do a video that points out "some" shortcomings o "some" black men NOT all..but just ignore the ignorant ones that bash you for speaking truth..i bet the ones who are talking BS probably the main ones that date interracially .i come to think those kind of guys have the mentality of: "if we don't want you(black women) no one can" sad state of mind really...but i'm happily married to an Asian man...and the stereotypes about Asian men are laughable..nice vid
SomethingNewAMBW 2 months ago
wow a blk male saying these things....bravo!
SoileauFamily 2 months ago 2
@Wakandanking so if "WAITING" for black men to act right hasn't worked for a black woman or any other women that have been waiting for black men. then dont be afraid to explore other races and Vice versa. if women are tired of waiting for White,latin,asian etc..move on if need be. basically im saying dont allow race to stand in the way of the true HAPPINESS.
2centsnow 2 months ago 7
@2centsnow This post makes a lot of assumptions. No one is allowing race to stand in their happiness. You seem to have this idea in their head that black women are choosing to wait on black men while other races of men idle by waiting for her to wise up. That isnt the case. A black woman isnt waiting on black men. She is waiting on one man that just doesnt want her but probably may want someone else.
UKGully 2 months ago
@WakandanKing again thanx for caring enough about this topic to respond. i dont have to make a video encouraging black men to date other races bcuz BLACK MEN HAVE BEEN DATING OTHER RACES FOR YEARS! .idk where u live,but in my many travels around this country i have seen countless black men dating other races. not just successful black men,ALL different walks of life.. and i think ur missing my point. I DONT CARE WHAT RACE ANYBODY IS,Im a dreamer/visionary. I WANT EVERYBODY 2BE HAPPY.
2centsnow 2 months ago 6
@2centsnow Thats what I'm talking about!!!
DeeDeeTV 2 months ago
@WakandanKing my video"suggests"interracial dating bcuz i have experience in life&successful businesses.i learned if the initial plan is not working u must re-asses ur approach.relate that2our color,u want us 2only stay with our own color.thats insane,at what point does it end?are we also gonna only date people in our neighborhood,the rich with the rich,poor with the poor?are u pro segregation too?haha smh &U mentioned "SOLUTION"i presented a alternative,there is NO single"SOLUTION" 4every case.
2centsnow 2 months ago 4
@2centsnow I have absolutely no issue with who someone dates nor the color of the person they are dating. That is personal between those two and I have black female friends who are married to non-black men and I view them like sisters. The problem I have is with some folks going out crying to thw world that black women need to date non-black men because black men ain't worth a crap. That is the essence of it.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@2centsnow You ask if I am pro-segregation. You feel that folks should venture out and date outside of their race. Where is your video telling black men that they need to start dating non-black women? 90% of married black men are married to black women. When are you going to promote increasing that number if it is simply a case of not believing that folks should simply date their own race.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@2centsnow You are preaching. Trolls find it almost impossible to diss a BM cause they're cowards, used to bullying and trying to control BW!!
DeeDeeTV 2 months ago
@DeeDeeTV When has anyone EVER controlled a black woman? You want to see the control of women, go to Afghanistan. Black women are by and large the freest women in the world. We run your own homes, no consistent patriarch in the home as either fathers or husbands. We spend our own money enriching East Asians. The problem isnt that black women are controlled, its that we have lost control. Our weight, our finances, our bodies, our attitudes, our children, our social circles, etc. Lets own up.
UKGully 2 months ago
@Trishi74 thank u for handling this @Wakandanking guy...i started to respond but i dont have the energy right now to deal with his 1-sided opinion. aww fuck it i have to say something... @Wakandanking -thank u for watching the video and taking ur time to respond,that means i triggered a emotion in u,which is what my intent was when making this video.
2centsnow 2 months ago
Very deep and honest analysisl..I salute you sir.
ashken79 2 months ago
2centshow, as a BW I see u as a man of honor for making this vid. Even though I don't use the word (Brotha)anymore to describe men who I don't know, u fit the description of what that word is suPposed to mean.much love to u!
heavymetalloverz 2 months ago
Lastly, you assume that the marriage problems in the black community are entirely to blame on black men. A good look into it will show that in their own way, black women value marriage no more than black men and possibly less. Just because a woman wants to or is open to marriage doesn't mean that she wants to be a wife. Just out of curiousity, are you married (forgive me is I missed you informing us of this). Are you currently serving as husband to a black woman? I am.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@WakandanKing
Black women claiming no to care about marriage is simply an attempt tp pacify black men when they say stupid things like marriage is a piece of paper. These same women need to drop dealing with non-marriage minded black men and find men from other communities that respect the institution. It is time for black women to walk out of the failed black community and embrace life outside. Life is SANE outside.
trishi74 2 months ago 6
@WakandanKing you just love to gas light dont you? Wish more black men like this guy would admit the truth and stop living in denial. @2centsnow You know they are going to name you an uncle ruckus etc
choochiXluvzXMakeup 2 months ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup Please, enough with the accusations of gas lighting. There is a possibility that you are wrong. And you are not a victim because a black man doesnt want to marry you.
UKGully 2 months ago
@UKGully i dont give a damn if a brother doesnt want to marry me because i am already married i guess what it isn't to a brutha! and wasn't trying to be a victim or play a victim because i know i am not and furthermore the possibilities of me being right is far greater than me being wrong.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 2 months ago
@WakandanKing Thats a very good point. I dont think black women do value marriage like that say that do. That just use the language to shame black men about them not stepping up which is just code for "not doing what you want me to do." Men control marriage and women control sex, and by the looks of things men have been controlling marriage better than women have been controlling sex.
UKGully 2 months ago
Regarding assumptions, it is often spoken as if black women are holding back from dating interracially. There has never been any study showing that black women are any more pressured to date within the race than any other group and studies have shown that white women are more pressured by family and friends to date within their race than black women are. Black women simply don't desire non-black men to a significant extent. You might as well tell black women to open up to short fat nerds.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@WakandanKing
You're full of it. The very fact that you are here attempting to co-opt this message is just another piece of proof of the tremendous pressure placed on black women not to date outside their race. The violence done to interracial couples (bw-wm) who happen to be in black areas. The constant name-calling etc. You're not fooling anyone. Black women know the truth and your attempt at gaslighting will not go unchallenged.
trishi74 2 months ago 2
@trishi74 I think that you and Chris need to better evaluate the definition of "gaslighting" especially since you guys use the term excessively and inappropriately.
WakandanKing 2 months ago 2
@WakandanKing Gaslighting-To deliberately drive someone insane by psychologically manipulating their environment and tricking someone into believing that they are insane. Apparently disagreeing with these women is tantamount to pyscholigically abuse. These women have, what I could describe as Histrionic Personality Disorder.
UKGully 2 months ago
@trishi74 What violence? You mean the one or two cases over the past sever decades that we saw in the news?
WakandanKing 2 months ago
You do realize that since 1980, the percent of black women who have married interracially has trippled, yet since 1980, there has been a 30% drop in the percent of black women who are married. Thus, a significant increase in black women marrying non-black men has coincided with a significant decrease in the percent of black women who are married. Clearly, marrying non-black men is not the solution. With all due respect, your advice seems simplistic and based on a lot of assumptions.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@WakandanKing
Absolute nonsense. Black women with sense reject your specious arguments. Black women are largely alone simply because they hold out for black men that place next to either no value on marriage or no value on marriage to black women.
trishi74 2 months ago
@WakandanKing Are you drunk?
ashken79 2 months ago
i'm african but my brother recently dating an african american women and the stories he has told me about his girlfriend and all her friends' experiences with dating black men..i read/hear the time about black women having a hard time dating but hearing personal experiences, i never imagined it was so bad....she's a wonderful, sweet girl too...it's just sad all around...
stop08it 2 months ago
2cents, I'd love to interview you and feature your channel on my website.
Christelyn1 2 months ago
Very nice and intelligent outlook and agree with your honest opinions and comments!
stephenabm 2 months ago
As a black woman married to a white man, I want to say, " Thank you." No, black women don't ( or at least shouldn't) need permission to date who they want, but it is good to hear such a positive, honest, and down to earth opinion without hidden motives. You are wise beyond your years and see things for what they are. Any partner you choose will be a lucky person,regardless of color.
NightGypsie 2 months ago 8
As a BW married to a WM, I agree. Once I dated my first WM, I never went back. No need to. WM are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. They know how to cherish and nature relationships. And my marriage is traditional, secure, and full of happiness. While my sistas in their 30s complain, cry over BM, Im home cooking, cleaning, loving and growing with a wonderful husband who provides.
The dummies who talk about swag; what swag do BM have? Taking care of business, home and children is swag enough.
camiNICHOLS 2 months ago 7
@camiNICHOLS Its ironic that women like yourself would immediately view 2centsnow as someone who would not cherish and nature relationships. I'm amazed at the denial of how sound black men are routinely bypassed by black women for those very men with "swagge"r. That is why black men put so much emphasis on it. If black women pursued sound, intelligent and responsible black men, that is what would dominate. Most of what men do, we do to appeal to women. This has been shown by experts.
WakandanKing 2 months ago
@WakandanKing I dont bypass sound, caring, clever men for men w/ swagger. I dont care what other women do;how other women step over decent men b/c of a man's walk or style of dress. That's not me. If a man chooses to dumb down himself for a woman, that's his weakness.Not all black women want looks. Many are looking for a true, long lasting partner. Many BW who strive for a traditional marriage have decided to date non-BM in order to achieve the family life we deserve. Deserve.
camiNICHOLS 2 months ago