I read the book. Actually purchased and read both of them. And they are awesome. I have to say, it's not just for women. Even though it was written for women. This information works for gay men too! I was frustrated about my boyfriend for all the same reasons that women do...and after reading this book and following the principles, my boyfriend started going out of his way to please me and be with me. This book is THE TRUTH. Get it.
I am going to buy this book. This is one of the reasons why I love my religion. God created Man so he knows a man's mind. I follow how to act, dress and be around men according to what God told be. The great thing is you have self-respect and 98% of players and fools back off.
Women also need to keep their options open, men do it all the time. I grew up old school I have never in my life chased a man. I'm half Caribbean and Southern and it was drilled into my head as early as elementary school not to chase men or depend on them too much. The book is saying stop being a doormat, stop chasing and putting up with bad behavior and put yourself first. Sometimes women think if they show the man how much they love him, he will change..................yeah right!!
Also...it is not about looks...looks will get his attention, but it is the ATTITUDE that will get you access to his heart and have him eating out of your hand. The commentator of this video is right on point....and I can see her confidence (and the ring) and she just comes off as being so happy and full of life. I am currently in the process of using this book FOR REAL THIS TIME AROUND and I know and believe I am going to see a change in my situation with the guy I am dating.
omg, i seriously need to go get this book! my co-worker was telling me about it and i didn't really think too much about it, but after hearing a podcast about her book, "why men love bitches" i was like, "GOTTA get me one!!" >_<
@sweetmonie yeah you need to do yourself a serious favor and pick this book up, I also recommend her first book Why Men Love Bitches. Either way you'll avoid a lot of pitfalls. Pls let me know how the book helped you!!
@sweetmonie YOU SHOULD. Get both books by Sherry Argov...."Why men marry bitches" and "Why men love bitches." If you are in a current relationship that is bad or not progressing or if you find yourself nagging, begging and constantly asking your man for what you need....read the advice and use the advice Sherry provides in both her books. THEY WORK!!! It doesn't matter how "good" or bad the guy is.....there are just certain things they do and try to test women with.
@tabbykat329 I promise this is one of the best gifts you could EVER give yourself and your friends......TRUST ME! After you read it, please let me know how you liked it/loved it, and how it has changed you and the way you interact with men :)
I've just finished this book, and OMG wow! I have been using some of the techniques - THEY WORK, it's not about being a nasty bitch, its about being respectful & beautiful to oneself, so using the advice, in a quiet feminine way, you have your dream relationship. P.S This isn't guy bashing at it's best - wait, think about it, would you rather a women nagging you all the time? or one who keeps the excitement in your relationship whilst giving you breathing space?
@jo5189 Well...I am a woman and I wouldn't want someone nagging and begging me even if I was playing games or not living up to they're expectations....it gets annoying, kind of like how parents can get on a child's nerve when they are constantly on them....it causes you to rebel. Plus, it is better to show with ACTIONS and not WORDS to get your point across....esp. when dealing with men.
It's a shame that this is what dating has come to, that women who are naturally inclined to be loving & giving have to censor that in order to be loved & respected. But unfortunately, the majority of men don't love or respect a doormat. I just started on the 1st book and i'm looking 4ward 2 reading this one.
girl preach...i just read this book...i already read why men love bitches (loved it!) and I just had to read why men marry! Girl you gave the best review of this book on youtube soo far. I'm guilty of asking where is this going? and talking abt the "future" this book gave me instant changes from the boo...another main point in this book is how men dont react to us yapping they respond to actions!! hallejuah this book has changed my life
I haven't read the book, don't intend to...but from the sounds of it, it seems like a must-read for women that r tired of running in circles with idiots.
I used to be one of those idiots u r being warned about. I suggest ladies protect yourselves from wasting your time and your lives on nothing.
This book agrees with my claim that all women are whores who are after men's money. I think a good husband needs to control his wife, if your wife is off the hook I think it's the husbands fault for not training it properly.
Women are human beings but if you're to be subject to a woman's feelings (which are random) you are in for a miserable ride. It would be like a dog chasing its instincts, leaving its owner helplessly and aimlessly following it.
no problem. If you take a survey of men who are glad they got married half of them will tell you that they wish they hadn't... the other half will be lying.
There's no reason for a man to get married ever. It's like the same effect as putting handcuffs and shoving yourself into box. So what women are looking for, in essence, is a chump. A chump who has failed so miserably as a man that he must pledge his life's work towards to someone so ungrateful for the opportunity of mating, when is counter intuitive because it's muc easier or more satisifying to treat a girl like a child, and then getting her in the sack.
Simply put, The men who dont want to get married just because they think their life is "over" or think that they might as well get handcuffs on them are those who really want to... basically, stay in the game and hunt,. whats basically what u jsut said. If thats what u want to be, be it.
@MulataLinda8 Countless men fall into the trap that is marriage and I think men should be aware of the fact that there's no reason to get married ever. For women it's different, it's like winning the sucker's lottery which is explains why all the other women secretly loathe the bride. No one feels jealous of the groom which is why they have a bachelor party. This is why bachelorette parties are stupid. It's like buying a game console with one controller and having your friends watch you play it.
Sister, sometimes there r Brothers who have a clue what 2 do with Sisters that r "nice". Some of us actually want to live in peace and harmony w/our women.
I didn't need to write a book because my formula on how to handle manipulative women is quite succinct and to the point. If you find yourself in a situation where your girlfriend is trying to make your life miserable. Step 1: take her out for a drive Step 2: ejac on her face Step 3: kick her out of the car door Step 4: Punch her in the face 5: Drive off with your car while having a good hearty chuckle on the way home.
I think the term "afraid of commitment" is a false cliche because it implies cowardice whereas an intelligent man will give due consideration of whom he will spend the rest of his life. Any woman who considers men who don't pay her for her sex (through marriage) "a waste of time" isn't deserving of a good man's love.
i absolutely agree with you. this is a woman's bible seperate from the holy bible. its amazing and i have also read the whole book and used it to change from being the typical nagging girl always asking "where is this going??" and after reading this book, i not only got an older, more mature boyfriend than im used to, but he has already (after a year of being together) been talking about marriage with me. this book is a MUST HAVE for ALL women around the world.
I have a friend who has this book and I was pretty appalled because it seeks to degrade men but there many girls who are actually going to take some of this advice to heart. From what I've read this book preaches nothing but deceipt, dishonesty and insincerity as though they were worthwhile traits or skills. None of these traits are corner stones of good communication in a relationship.
First let me say, I appreciate that you took the time to comment, even though you don't not hold the same opinion. That being said, based on your comments, I am guessing that you have not read the book for yourself. This book does not degrade men. It only talks about weeding out the men that really aren't worth your time in the first place. She talks plenty about how to tell if a man is a good man and worth your time, and she never says all men are bad, or evil, or anything or that sort.
Secondly as I always say, it would be nice if we all lived in a world of honesty and pure communication, but the fact is we don't. People withhold critical information about themselves all the time, for fear that if people knew the truth about them, they wouldn'[t be able to get what they want. This happens in relationships far too often. All Sherry Argov does is tell you how to recognize game, and how to counter the game non-verbally.
Everything Sherry Argove said in the book is true, and you would be hard pressed to find a woman over the age of 18 who hasn't experienced at least one of those dating/relationship scenarios. I know plenty of women who are living with unmarried, and they really want to get married, but have bought into the Bullcrap lie, of well he's afraid of commitment. All men do not play games, but a vast majority of them do, mainly because us women have lowered our standards. I am firm, the book is on target
umkay, by" nice" I don't mean sweet and charming. I'm talking about a women that will bendover backwards to get a man's approval. Those women are very insecure and end up losing in the end. The same way i'd prefer a sweet , yet strong guy.
Oh, okay. Nowadays if one is naturally a sweet person, when u meet someone new, u have to almost automatically go into a protective mode for the trial u can assume is coming..."niceness means stupid."
You are right, lot of women do play games, and even cheat, maybe more than men at times. Communication is key, but women need to learn to speak man, and men need to learn to speak woman
Sounds like a good book.
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GIRLLL good review =)
Gonna get me that book asap
IheartPRETTIboys 8 months ago
I read the book. Actually purchased and read both of them. And they are awesome. I have to say, it's not just for women. Even though it was written for women. This information works for gay men too! I was frustrated about my boyfriend for all the same reasons that women do...and after reading this book and following the principles, my boyfriend started going out of his way to please me and be with me. This book is THE TRUTH. Get it.
MattieSongbird 8 months ago
I love how real you are...I ordered this book months ago and loved it.
hOneybaBey123 9 months ago
I am going to buy this book. This is one of the reasons why I love my religion. God created Man so he knows a man's mind. I follow how to act, dress and be around men according to what God told be. The great thing is you have self-respect and 98% of players and fools back off.
greenbutterfly101 10 months ago
good review just bought it
n0hra 10 months ago
I have just ordered thid book, I can't wait to read it ^^. Thanks for the review...
YeeSun 11 months ago
Women also need to keep their options open, men do it all the time. I grew up old school I have never in my life chased a man. I'm half Caribbean and Southern and it was drilled into my head as early as elementary school not to chase men or depend on them too much. The book is saying stop being a doormat, stop chasing and putting up with bad behavior and put yourself first. Sometimes women think if they show the man how much they love him, he will change..................yeah right!!
tanyatmr 1 year ago 9
I an in the process of purchasing this book right now......This sounds exactly like what I did when I married my husband 12 years ago.......
Caramellaluxe 1 year ago
@Caramellaluxe let meknow how it works for a 12 year old marriage. Very curious
cocokisses787 1 year ago
Also...it is not about looks...looks will get his attention, but it is the ATTITUDE that will get you access to his heart and have him eating out of your hand. The commentator of this video is right on point....and I can see her confidence (and the ring) and she just comes off as being so happy and full of life. I am currently in the process of using this book FOR REAL THIS TIME AROUND and I know and believe I am going to see a change in my situation with the guy I am dating.
Annazayla 1 year ago
can someone tell me - is this Sherry Argov bitch even married? I don't think so!
realvenusinfurs 1 year ago
omg, i seriously need to go get this book! my co-worker was telling me about it and i didn't really think too much about it, but after hearing a podcast about her book, "why men love bitches" i was like, "GOTTA get me one!!" >_<
sweetmonie 1 year ago 3
@sweetmonie yeah you need to do yourself a serious favor and pick this book up, I also recommend her first book Why Men Love Bitches. Either way you'll avoid a lot of pitfalls. Pls let me know how the book helped you!!
cocokisses787 1 year ago
@sweetmonie Honestly ... get it immediately! I love both her books. So truthful and helpful!
prettykitty11111 1 year ago
@sweetmonie YOU SHOULD. Get both books by Sherry Argov...."Why men marry bitches" and "Why men love bitches." If you are in a current relationship that is bad or not progressing or if you find yourself nagging, begging and constantly asking your man for what you need....read the advice and use the advice Sherry provides in both her books. THEY WORK!!! It doesn't matter how "good" or bad the guy is.....there are just certain things they do and try to test women with.
Annazayla 1 year ago
I have to read this book...On my way to Borders. I will be giving this book out to my girls for a christmas gift...lol
tabbykat329 1 year ago
@tabbykat329 I promise this is one of the best gifts you could EVER give yourself and your friends......TRUST ME! After you read it, please let me know how you liked it/loved it, and how it has changed you and the way you interact with men :)
cocokisses787 1 year ago
I've just finished this book, and OMG wow! I have been using some of the techniques - THEY WORK, it's not about being a nasty bitch, its about being respectful & beautiful to oneself, so using the advice, in a quiet feminine way, you have your dream relationship. P.S This isn't guy bashing at it's best - wait, think about it, would you rather a women nagging you all the time? or one who keeps the excitement in your relationship whilst giving you breathing space?
Buy your girlfriend this book!
jo5189 1 year ago
@jo5189 Well...I am a woman and I wouldn't want someone nagging and begging me even if I was playing games or not living up to they're expectations....it gets annoying, kind of like how parents can get on a child's nerve when they are constantly on them....it causes you to rebel. Plus, it is better to show with ACTIONS and not WORDS to get your point across....esp. when dealing with men.
Annazayla 1 year ago
It's a shame that this is what dating has come to, that women who are naturally inclined to be loving & giving have to censor that in order to be loved & respected. But unfortunately, the majority of men don't love or respect a doormat. I just started on the 1st book and i'm looking 4ward 2 reading this one.
scorpionimph 1 year ago
girl preach...i just read this book...i already read why men love bitches (loved it!) and I just had to read why men marry! Girl you gave the best review of this book on youtube soo far. I'm guilty of asking where is this going? and talking abt the "future" this book gave me instant changes from the boo...another main point in this book is how men dont react to us yapping they respond to actions!! hallejuah this book has changed my life
lilbowwowchick38922 1 year ago
As a Man I can tell you straight up real Men don't like Woman who are bitches. a henpecked pussy would but not a real Man
HOODYWOODRECORDS 1 year ago
@HOODYWOODRECORDS You do realizes the title isn't literal right? The author doesn't mean an asshole just, but a woman who is not a doormat.
TVwriter23 1 year ago
@TVwriter23 Yes I do realize that, but thanks for trying to bring that to my attention
cocokisses787 1 year ago
@TVwriter23 poor choice of title then....
cr4yv3n 1 year ago
@cr4yv3n Not really. Got you attention didn't it.
TVwriter23 1 year ago
@TVwriter23 yeah i guess you're right there :P
cr4yv3n 1 year ago
Proverbs 31:10
What a rare find is a capable wife! Her worth is far beyond that of rubies.
Thats all I got to say.
dsamaiable 1 year ago
this book IS GREATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
bahamasgirl72 1 year ago
this book must be like Steve Harvey's "Act like a lady but think like a Man"
MulataLinda8 1 year ago
Hey cocokisses!!!
i totally agree!!! this book is awesome!!!
Every woman should read it to become more aware... & realise their self worth!
It all works!! without being rude, arrogant or nagging!!! & your right - its not about playing the game, its about understanding the game
awesome girl - well said!
Souriya21 2 years ago
im gonna read the book
VeronicasPlace 2 years ago
I haven't read the book, don't intend to...but from the sounds of it, it seems like a must-read for women that r tired of running in circles with idiots.
I used to be one of those idiots u r being warned about. I suggest ladies protect yourselves from wasting your time and your lives on nothing.
Read!
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
This book agrees with my claim that all women are whores who are after men's money. I think a good husband needs to control his wife, if your wife is off the hook I think it's the husbands fault for not training it properly.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
I disagree w/that thinking, sir. Women r human beings w/feelings and were not put here to be treated like someone's hobby.
U r, of course, entitled to your opinion.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
Women are human beings but if you're to be subject to a woman's feelings (which are random) you are in for a miserable ride. It would be like a dog chasing its instincts, leaving its owner helplessly and aimlessly following it.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
My experience is different...however I will not go on this merry-go-round w/u. I am finished with this.
Best wishes to u, sir.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
no problem. If you take a survey of men who are glad they got married half of them will tell you that they wish they hadn't... the other half will be lying.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
There's no reason for a man to get married ever. It's like the same effect as putting handcuffs and shoving yourself into box. So what women are looking for, in essence, is a chump. A chump who has failed so miserably as a man that he must pledge his life's work towards to someone so ungrateful for the opportunity of mating, when is counter intuitive because it's muc easier or more satisifying to treat a girl like a child, and then getting her in the sack.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
Simply put, The men who dont want to get married just because they think their life is "over" or think that they might as well get handcuffs on them are those who really want to... basically, stay in the game and hunt,. whats basically what u jsut said. If thats what u want to be, be it.
MulataLinda8 1 year ago
@MulataLinda8 Countless men fall into the trap that is marriage and I think men should be aware of the fact that there's no reason to get married ever. For women it's different, it's like winning the sucker's lottery which is explains why all the other women secretly loathe the bride. No one feels jealous of the groom which is why they have a bachelor party. This is why bachelorette parties are stupid. It's like buying a game console with one controller and having your friends watch you play it.
professorfoxtrot 1 year ago
your wrong
lancejr14 1 year ago
hahahahahahahahahhaha. cute (:
mjp1206 2 years ago
I have why men love bitches & I absolutely LOVE IT!!!! I will get this one for sure. I recommend it for every women that is too nice.
goddess002 2 years ago
Sister, sometimes there r Brothers who have a clue what 2 do with Sisters that r "nice". Some of us actually want to live in peace and harmony w/our women.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
I read why men love bitches and it changed my life! Women empower yourself and read these books!
SoFlyCee 2 years ago
I didn't need to write a book because my formula on how to handle manipulative women is quite succinct and to the point. If you find yourself in a situation where your girlfriend is trying to make your life miserable. Step 1: take her out for a drive Step 2: ejac on her face Step 3: kick her out of the car door Step 4: Punch her in the face 5: Drive off with your car while having a good hearty chuckle on the way home.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
I think the term "afraid of commitment" is a false cliche because it implies cowardice whereas an intelligent man will give due consideration of whom he will spend the rest of his life. Any woman who considers men who don't pay her for her sex (through marriage) "a waste of time" isn't deserving of a good man's love.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
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dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
Other books women should read are The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider and He's Just Not That Into You
TVwriter23 2 years ago
Oh yes and Why Men Love Bitches
TVwriter23 2 years ago
i absolutely agree with you. this is a woman's bible seperate from the holy bible. its amazing and i have also read the whole book and used it to change from being the typical nagging girl always asking "where is this going??" and after reading this book, i not only got an older, more mature boyfriend than im used to, but he has already (after a year of being together) been talking about marriage with me. this book is a MUST HAVE for ALL women around the world.
-michele
mjp1206 2 years ago
Congratulations on getting a man who knows what to do. I hope u 2 r very happy and stay 2gether for at least 30 years.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
I have a friend who has this book and I was pretty appalled because it seeks to degrade men but there many girls who are actually going to take some of this advice to heart. From what I've read this book preaches nothing but deceipt, dishonesty and insincerity as though they were worthwhile traits or skills. None of these traits are corner stones of good communication in a relationship.
.
professorfoxtrot 2 years ago
First let me say, I appreciate that you took the time to comment, even though you don't not hold the same opinion. That being said, based on your comments, I am guessing that you have not read the book for yourself. This book does not degrade men. It only talks about weeding out the men that really aren't worth your time in the first place. She talks plenty about how to tell if a man is a good man and worth your time, and she never says all men are bad, or evil, or anything or that sort.
cocokisses787 2 years ago
Secondly as I always say, it would be nice if we all lived in a world of honesty and pure communication, but the fact is we don't. People withhold critical information about themselves all the time, for fear that if people knew the truth about them, they wouldn'[t be able to get what they want. This happens in relationships far too often. All Sherry Argov does is tell you how to recognize game, and how to counter the game non-verbally.
cocokisses787 2 years ago
Everything Sherry Argove said in the book is true, and you would be hard pressed to find a woman over the age of 18 who hasn't experienced at least one of those dating/relationship scenarios. I know plenty of women who are living with unmarried, and they really want to get married, but have bought into the Bullcrap lie, of well he's afraid of commitment. All men do not play games, but a vast majority of them do, mainly because us women have lowered our standards. I am firm, the book is on target
cocokisses787 2 years ago
"Afraid of commitment"...I agree, that is a bunch of bullcrap. Some men r willing to do all the marraige "stuff", w/o doing it right.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
umkay, by" nice" I don't mean sweet and charming. I'm talking about a women that will bendover backwards to get a man's approval. Those women are very insecure and end up losing in the end. The same way i'd prefer a sweet , yet strong guy.
goddess002 2 years ago
Oh, okay. Nowadays if one is naturally a sweet person, when u meet someone new, u have to almost automatically go into a protective mode for the trial u can assume is coming..."niceness means stupid."
I hate when that happens.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
please
TVwriter23 2 years ago
its all about education and communication between men and women. ask questions, its alot of women who play games too.
teddet87 2 years ago
You are right, lot of women do play games, and even cheat, maybe more than men at times. Communication is key, but women need to learn to speak man, and men need to learn to speak woman
cocokisses787 2 years ago
do u like PRico?
teddet87 2 years ago
I like Puerto Rico, but honestly I don't want to live here full time...I am used to the good old USA, but maybe a few months out of the year
cocokisses787 2 years ago