Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman's Perspective : How to Make That First Phone Call

[wasabikimchirocks]

1:21

she says cumming weirdly lol

[fortune1972]

Talking to chicks on the phone is a pain in the arse because they never shut up, and they never want to get off the phone...even long after the conversation is over and you said what you wanted to say. They'll hold that dead air, and not let you off despite valiant attempts. It reaches a point where you almost need to hang up on her. Women think men are women who like to banter on the phone about stupid crap like how she likes her mascara brand. Hi, bye, talk tomorrow!

[Nameloc2012]

Pick up the phone and say "I'm a billionaire, Bitch."

[countryofdestiny]

She is a liar that way does not work! I tried it myself.

[pevi2007]

Fck according to your tuts i've been doing everything wrong T.T

[letstalkdirty1]

im thinking always date in ur city that way traveling and distances dont become drama

[letstalkdirty1]

it all depends right now im tellin this pretty fine woman all kind of codes if she cant read between the lines thats on her man she sent me this booty pic shes fuckin hot but u cant just say it the first real time we chatted i was like stunning very lol and she approached me lolthis girl jessica dont gotta be helping us its a freebie god bless her most chicks wouldnt do it

[letstalkdirty1]

man i croak on the phone

[letstalkdirty1]

shes right

[rickalex21]

for the first call should I text and say hi then call later ? or call then follow up with txt ?

[davidattends]

This is gold. Indeed, the first phone call can be harder than approaching them in the first place.

[scryerofold]

"hi honey, almost at your place, take your panties off and get out by your house!"

[NicoKenRawr]

Talking on the phone is awkward for me because it's hard to tell when they're done talking. It goes:

1. Girl Talks

2. Girl Stops Talking

3. Both people wait their turn to speak

4. Both people start talking at the same time

5. Both people feel like they were interrupted rudely

Gosh darnit. :(

[Arvak777]

just call, if there's a big protocol behind everything the girl might be protocol about everything.

[sintality]

Text them to let them know you are coming? She wants James Bond not Woody Allen with a cellphone. Swoop her up in your Jag, preferably one altered enough to dispose to foes on the way, escort her to her seat, whisk her to dinner then charm her until she is wearing nothing but her sweet little accent.

[abrhamlee]

i can talk to any girl on phone i don't have problem with making th 1st call. all u got to do is just call her and tell her that you would like to take her out dinner.

[keithlamontbraggs]

Strange how you say men are the ones that try hang up quickly whenever i call the woman SHE is the one trying to get off the phone quickly, why do you think this is( i feel i am a decent looking guy) .

[davidattends]

@keithlamontbraggs

Would it be because of the rythm in the conversation? Women are demanding when it comes to "rythm" or "dynamic" in the conversation, and the goal of such conversation.

[rasfo123]

dating coach .... only in america :) cant wait for next service shopping coach or maybe how to live my life coach

[RajahBrooke]

@rasfo123 They already have Life Coaches in America :-P

[bigal1226]

i stick my tongue in the phone in hopes dat it will come out on de other end

[xELEMENT1995x]

idk y she is a dating expert she aint never gona get laid

[weversonman]

@xELEMENT1995x i'd eat her garbage

[valarmanwe]

I don`t call women first. That`s my one and only rule. I never ask for a womans` number. I may give them mine. And if they call, that`s sweet. But if they don`t, they don`t. But I`ve yet to give a woman my number that has not responded with a desire to meet me again. "Dating Coach ?" For Heavens` sake !

[zuzanarox]

call her every 15 minutes ... women love that

[Attila709]

you make the first call by opening your phone and pushing the numbers

[calves009]

as if beard man, could pick up that hot chick....

[Jattpride1987]

i hope that helps very well

[axedrecista]

The best way to leave a mesage is:

"Hi Jane this is Todd, i would like to fornicate with you, call me back"

[LosAngelesWriter]

Horrible advice, make her call you. Text her. That's it.

[949skate]

yea

[TheLoneIdealist]

You bastard,sexist >:O

[FutureLaugh]

Hi Jane, this is Todd. I have no social intelligence to hold a conversation. I was calling you to discuss the time and place to share intercourse. I look forward to it, good bye to you.

[Chipwhitley274]

The main problem with this "advice" is that there isn't any advice on how to make the first call. Like when to make the first call, and how to have a casual and natural conversation. She just says "because I don't actually want to teach you what to do, I want you to just make it as business like as possible. Make an appointment and end the call"

[Mystefier]

@Chipwhitley274 Hi Chipwhitley, She was giving good advice. Her advice is the same as what the male dating couches say. I'll elaborate. Other couches also say you should keep the phone call short and to the point. The purpose of the call is to set up the date. Save the long chatting for the date. Long phone chatting when you first meet her can make you seem needy. As for "when to call" many couches recommend about 3 days after getting number.

[Chipwhitley274]

However most dating coaches don't study the psychology involved with behaving naturally and normally. You want to immediately make her feel like you are used to talking like you have talked many times before, as if you are interacting with someone you know and are comfortable with. That way it gets the awkwardness out of the way. I am not talking about a long in-depth conversation, I am talking about a light short chat like normal friends or gf/bf relationships have.

[Chipwhitley274]

Think of it like building a bridge. Seed Future plans in conversations so you have a bridge over the gap of time you are not together. Try not to call later to make plans, as that's like building the bridge while on it, and if the bridge cannot be finished with concrete plans, then you fall in to the river and fail. When you have plans and intentions to do something in the future, that makes the phone number seem incidental not the goal.

[Chipwhitley274]

After you get her number, then you call her later that day/night and have a short chat. Maybe about something you talked or joked about earlier then you let her go. Call her in a couple of days and do the same. Have a light chat then let her go. This way you don't seem needy, so you don't look like all you are doing is trying to reach the goal of a date.

[Chipwhitley274]

Calling her the same day you hung out is normal among typical relationships. It does not seem needy because you are not making the conversation about going on a date, and it shows confidence because everyone else in the world has some strict plan to wait so many days before calling, but you are casual and carefree, you call her on a whim to talk about nothing. Like you would a buddy. This creates the perception that you're a normal, regular part of her life, and eventually it becomes reality.

[thesparitan]

when I said morons I was being facetious. But now I have to take umbrage with the rest of your philosophy. First of all telling someone exactly how you feel is boring, lazy, and worst of all wont work. How to you expect to seduce a women with the unexceptional. The point of what you call games is in a sense to play with emotions and to make the experience last. Nothing easy is worth anything. A easy seduction is a useless one. try it sometime and see if you dont like it.

[shechshire]

@thesparitan i have... I think it's a wast of time. and another thing, this "seduction" isn't going to work on someone your going to see once in our life.

[shechshire]

@thesparitan watever, you can call it lazy and boring. bottom line is that IT WORKS ok.

[thesparitan]

hey dude if it works then why the hell do you care what i say lol. if it works thats all you need to know. when it stops working then try something new.  but if you feel good doing your own thing and thats what the ladies want then have at it hoss.

[shechshire]

@thesparitan I didn't say I care. I'm just trying to point out this videos bullshit

[thesparitan]

yeah this video is bullshit

[shechshire]

Funny how there's this entire industry for dating tips for men and yet for woman it's just maybe a two perogragh forum on the web made by god knows who. Shows how much of the dating scene revolves around woman and just how complicated and nit picky they all are.

[thesparitan]

actually that is wrong, women can learn a get deal to about dating. the only reason there is some much more help for men and more need, is because we men are morons. i find many women that can be so much more if they would just know what to do. i hate girls that come on to fast and to strong. i like to be seduced and know most men do to. and its best to do it in subtle ways. but usually men are behind the curve more often then women.

[Attila709]

Hi, I'm calling because it's all part of the process of getting in your pants

[shechshire]

@Attila709 atilla... the hun

[8Julius8]

thats another way of looking at it... XD lol

[eldm55]

no wat u do is call if she doesnt answer leave an urgent message janie i was calling u to make sure ur ok cuz aliens r invading the planet and stealing cows.hangup. wen she gets the msg shel call u back cuz she doesnt want to be abducted by aliens duuh

[gearsofwar2318]

lol.... riiiggghhhtttt..... prank call much? :) lol

[brkdaice]

LOL!!!!

[ticers1]

be yourself

[ticers1]

ur dumb

[LTopomcFly]

"Hi Janie, this is Todd"

[DarkaAngel017]

1)When you call a girl it shows that you have confidence2)if you leave a message NEVER say call me back, it makes you seem needy in a sense. Say you were just calling to see how she was up to and that youll try to catch her some other time. 3)if you leave a message wait at least a day or two. If she calls you back then that means she is interested in you because you didnt even ask to call her back. 4)if you call a second time after leaving a message then most likely she isnt interested in you.

[ROCKO87DJ]

Good Idea Thx  *****

[mexicancricket7]

yeah, i would call first and say what you recomended over a text. well if your in your teens a text is acceptable. but anywhere over 20 a call is key.

[darkshiney]

Texting generally displays lack of confidence - so your first phone call should BE a phone call.

[nwcavertingoureyes]

"Are we on for this Saterday? Ok great.. Ohhh sry babe tunnle!!!" *Click*

[Limejello10512]

that's actually a really good idea.

[ninjasnipe]

i own the first call, its called soundboards

[leanonme1]

You sir, are awsome.

[trevorhendrix]

hahahah

[JackOfferson]

I feel awkward!

My parents are the trigger for my embarassed state of mine!!!

God damnit, why didn't Jessica anticipate parents being the reason for being nervous about anything???

GOD FUCKING DAMNIT, I just want assistance in person, but there is none!

[Marcos2347]

it worked!!! she likes me!!!

[MinxMatt]

First call...*shudder*

Really though, what I try to do is talk to her as if I was speaking with an old friend whom I haven't spoken to in a while. Helps keep things light and open. Love your vids by the way!

[thegothmog]

Here's a tip I use all the time. After you get home after the first date/whatever send a text saying "Don't worry, I got home safe."

My tips > her tips

[stopfederalism08]

yeah the first call lol i usually pace around on the first call racking my brain for conversation trying to stay one step ahead unfortunitly losing my train of thought in the process

[777appleguy]

I hate the first call

[TippmannHawk]

*SEXY*