Out-Of-Control: A Dialectical Behavior Therapy (Dbt) - Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Workbook for Getting Control of Our Emotions and Emotion-Dri by Ph.D. Melanie Gordon Sheets (Paperback - May 2010) It helps. I have read it. I also have BPD. Things will get better, just takes time. I am still struggling, but I won't give up.
The video made me weep.. it says so much about how it feels to live with bpd..im recently diagnosed and soo needed to see something that made me feel less alone ... thamks
people don't have enought awareness about bpd and there should be alot more info out there about this serious illness. like others have said this video is not glamorized it depicts what we feel, creating video's is one of the only way's we can really express how we really feel and not worry about being judged but then saying that we probably do worry about being judged. thankyou to those that do post video's because it has helped me in alot of way's on my road to recovery.
I hate videos like this. All of the pictures glamorize self-harm and suicide and things like that, with the fancy effects and clothing of the people, and the random fake pretty eyes, and the makeup and everything, it's just not real. It gives out a false image to people. Self-harm and suicide aren't pretty, and BPD is not pretty.
@Korn0nTheK0b I TOTALLY agree. It's almost always just women as well, and the fact is there are a lot of men out there suffering with this as well. Apparently this culture thinks that women are the only people who can possibly be emotionally unstable. It's a myth and needs to be changed. These videos don't help.
@Korn0nTheK0b Glamorize? are you really fucking serious? NO ONE who suffers from this wants it to be glamorized. It's a video to represent what those of us who have bpd go through. If you think this is glamorization YOU are the one who needs help. "it's not real" that is the point. And it gives out a REAL image of us with BPD, it's symbolic, not literal. Your opinion makes me think you are either uneducated or have sever problems you should seek help for.
@lambchopclmt I am willing to have an intellectual conversation with you about this so that I may explain my point of view, but I will refuse to do that if you back yourself up solely by insulting me.
What I meant is the photos and people in this video appear to be "pretty" (the photos themselves, not what they contain). Refer to 0:13 and 0:28 as examples. Most of the pictures in this video have the "emo" look that people see as "pretty" but I have not seen one that is not glamorized.
@lambchopclmt Might I add that I have BPD as well and I was actually offended by the glamorization of this video, and that's why I felt the need to comment.
Diagnosed with BPD less than 2 yrs. ago. Started suffering symptoms about age 12. Cried when I saw this. Sad to see others suffer but nice to know I'm not alone.
we're never doin the sentence alone if there are others of us out there.. all i need is a hug from someone who understands after a BAD, BAD episode has passed but i dont even have that cuz no one but my therapists and doctors understand...
however iF you nEED someone to talk to, we're in the same boat, im hERE....
I was first diagnosed with clinical depression at school....then manic depresstion....then registered disabled with Bi-Polar....now bpd...with npd and ocd....very confusing....thank you for some insight and comfort xxx
I am 33 years old and I have had bpd my whole life. I can tell you it gets easier. You can do something about it. get up everyday and keep trying. I know that it seems like blow after blow but I think the older you get the blows sometimes get eaiser or less. I have learned to grow with mine. If you beat yourself down and dont believe in yourself it will stay the way it is. .if you work on it things can and will get better.
@Lyssenk0 DBT is a crock and a mask for real therapy. It does nothing to address the source of the psychological damage. Yes examining cognitive distortion is a good tool, but it falls short from stopping triggering mechanisms from being activated at crisis moments. DBT in that sense is dangerous and leaves patients open to curing themselves or suicide (which includes the slow methods BPDs use to push toward the edge.) HMOs love it, that should tell you something.
I dont do any of this in the video do I have BCD? I dont harm myself in those ways but I constantly think about doing it... like i think of me getting cut up and those stuff ? it sucks nice pictures is there a group for people with borderline pesronality disorder? im pretti sure i have it..
In 2008 alone my BPD caused me to experience; two suicide attempts, oa week in a psych hospital, a restraining order, three weeks in rehab, lost my job, got arrested, lost most friends. Started Abilify two weeks ago and it's been a lifesaver. Your mileage may vary, but I suggest anyone w/ BPD talk to a psychiatrist about an atypical antipsychotic. That doesn't mean you're psycho, that's just what they're called because that was the original use.
You should talk to your doctor who put you on the pills, and they will try others it took them three different kinds of Anti- Psychotic to get me the right kind of my BPD and it still has it days where it does not work. But they will find one that will work for you, good luck
There is hope to recover from self injury. I stopped after 15 years of cutting and burning, anyone who wants to stop can do it. message me for more info. liked the song, who is the artist?
Out-Of-Control: A Dialectical Behavior Therapy (Dbt) - Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Workbook for Getting Control of Our Emotions and Emotion-Dri by Ph.D. Melanie Gordon Sheets (Paperback - May 2010) It helps. I have read it. I also have BPD. Things will get better, just takes time. I am still struggling, but I won't give up.
wickedwoman1977 7 months ago
The video made me weep.. it says so much about how it feels to live with bpd..im recently diagnosed and soo needed to see something that made me feel less alone ... thamks
myrtlemaid 8 months ago
people don't have enought awareness about bpd and there should be alot more info out there about this serious illness. like others have said this video is not glamorized it depicts what we feel, creating video's is one of the only way's we can really express how we really feel and not worry about being judged but then saying that we probably do worry about being judged. thankyou to those that do post video's because it has helped me in alot of way's on my road to recovery.
jameskenly 9 months ago
Ever notice that all Three Days Grace songs relate so much to BPD?
2012GreenGhost420 9 months ago
I swear, it's like everyone that bitches about a made up illness HAS to listen to Three Days Grace.
meric2 11 months ago
haha dude!! the pic at 0:43, i own those pills.
SomeoneNeedsAHug 1 year ago
Love the song:)
TashaRichardsonFan 1 year ago
I hate videos like this. All of the pictures glamorize self-harm and suicide and things like that, with the fancy effects and clothing of the people, and the random fake pretty eyes, and the makeup and everything, it's just not real. It gives out a false image to people. Self-harm and suicide aren't pretty, and BPD is not pretty.
Korn0nTheK0b 1 year ago
@Korn0nTheK0b I TOTALLY agree. It's almost always just women as well, and the fact is there are a lot of men out there suffering with this as well. Apparently this culture thinks that women are the only people who can possibly be emotionally unstable. It's a myth and needs to be changed. These videos don't help.
AsSomedayItMayHappen 1 year ago
@Korn0nTheK0b Glamorize? are you really fucking serious? NO ONE who suffers from this wants it to be glamorized. It's a video to represent what those of us who have bpd go through. If you think this is glamorization YOU are the one who needs help. "it's not real" that is the point. And it gives out a REAL image of us with BPD, it's symbolic, not literal. Your opinion makes me think you are either uneducated or have sever problems you should seek help for.
lambchopclmt 1 year ago
@lambchopclmt I am willing to have an intellectual conversation with you about this so that I may explain my point of view, but I will refuse to do that if you back yourself up solely by insulting me.
What I meant is the photos and people in this video appear to be "pretty" (the photos themselves, not what they contain). Refer to 0:13 and 0:28 as examples. Most of the pictures in this video have the "emo" look that people see as "pretty" but I have not seen one that is not glamorized.
Korn0nTheK0b 1 year ago
@lambchopclmt Might I add that I have BPD as well and I was actually offended by the glamorization of this video, and that's why I felt the need to comment.
Korn0nTheK0b 1 year ago
i got ill at 14, finally got diagnosed at 21, it sucks xx
catontoast 1 year ago
I have BPD and I love this song. TDG writes some amazing songs that I relate to so much. This one, and PAIN are fantastic.
ashestobeauty613 2 years ago
im 18 and i have bpd and this is by far the best video to help me go through this nightmare. Thank you
aribaba3 2 years ago
the air force diagnosed me with bpd in july of this past year after i tried to kill myself :/
hippielovers20 2 years ago
the marine corps diagnosed me with bpd too.
bullturn711 2 years ago
Diagnosed with BPD less than 2 yrs. ago. Started suffering symptoms about age 12. Cried when I saw this. Sad to see others suffer but nice to know I'm not alone.
lcb4me 2 years ago
this is so true for me BPD sucks ass and theres no way out. no cure. just managment. at least now i know im doing the sentance alone
katrinalabellastrega 2 years ago
we're never doin the sentence alone if there are others of us out there.. all i need is a hug from someone who understands after a BAD, BAD episode has passed but i dont even have that cuz no one but my therapists and doctors understand...
however iF you nEED someone to talk to, we're in the same boat, im hERE....
sTaCi ..thnx!
bebawsee 2 years ago
I have BPD and this video really hits home for me! Very true! I wish alot of the people in my life would understand better,
lisagyrl84 2 years ago
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BPDsucks 2 years ago
whats the song's name?
love the pictures!
DeathByTheTree2 2 years ago
three days grace-never too late
:)
DeathByTheTree2 2 years ago
thank you for letting me im no alone in how i feel
thank you for this video
xoxox
chumbles2 2 years ago
I wish the people in my life could just understand!!
Cassienwes 2 years ago
PERFECT!
MedicineLove 2 years ago
I was first diagnosed with clinical depression at school....then manic depresstion....then registered disabled with Bi-Polar....now bpd...with npd and ocd....very confusing....thank you for some insight and comfort xxx
kayjanew 2 years ago
I am 33 years old and I have had bpd my whole life. I can tell you it gets easier. You can do something about it. get up everyday and keep trying. I know that it seems like blow after blow but I think the older you get the blows sometimes get eaiser or less. I have learned to grow with mine. If you beat yourself down and dont believe in yourself it will stay the way it is. .if you work on it things can and will get better.
jstngardipee 2 years ago
I can totally relate, i have BPD and hate it, but know there aint nothing i can do about it...sux!
pantz64 2 years ago
Yes there is. Dialectical behavior therapy is shown to be effective. Don't trust old sources and old research.
Lyssenk0 2 years ago 5
@Lyssenk0 DBT is a crock and a mask for real therapy. It does nothing to address the source of the psychological damage. Yes examining cognitive distortion is a good tool, but it falls short from stopping triggering mechanisms from being activated at crisis moments. DBT in that sense is dangerous and leaves patients open to curing themselves or suicide (which includes the slow methods BPDs use to push toward the edge.) HMOs love it, that should tell you something.
tomblack2112 11 months ago
I love this video... very beautiful... may God be with us all!!
LIZLoveZIL 2 years ago
Great video, I love the choice of pictures.
DrinkHg 2 years ago
I dont do any of this in the video do I have BCD? I dont harm myself in those ways but I constantly think about doing it... like i think of me getting cut up and those stuff ? it sucks nice pictures is there a group for people with borderline pesronality disorder? im pretti sure i have it..
numberr9 3 years ago
very good. thank you.
lauraleigh76 3 years ago
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In 2008 alone my BPD caused me to experience; two suicide attempts, oa week in a psych hospital, a restraining order, three weeks in rehab, lost my job, got arrested, lost most friends. Started Abilify two weeks ago and it's been a lifesaver. Your mileage may vary, but I suggest anyone w/ BPD talk to a psychiatrist about an atypical antipsychotic. That doesn't mean you're psycho, that's just what they're called because that was the original use.
reddkell 3 years ago
I am currently on an antipsychotic and it is not helping. What works for you may not work for everyone, but thank you for the info.
xdarkxflowerx 3 years ago
You should talk to your doctor who put you on the pills, and they will try others it took them three different kinds of Anti- Psychotic to get me the right kind of my BPD and it still has it days where it does not work. But they will find one that will work for you, good luck
SyntheticPlastikZ 2 years ago
omg where did u find that pic @ 2:59???
i love it
porcelain100 3 years ago
staring at the ceiling from a hospital bed is one of the only times that i feel safe from myself.
however, the strong door pic...gave me the creepers, being locked in a dirty cell is total ass.
xo for posting this.
minilotusseed 3 years ago
very beautiful.
xxxskeletonqueenxxx 3 years ago 2
That is an AWESOME video!!! It's perfect!!! Thanks!
AlyciaMalibu 3 years ago 4
The song is Three days Grace - never too late
bleedingmenow 4 years ago
There is hope to recover from self injury. I stopped after 15 years of cutting and burning, anyone who wants to stop can do it. message me for more info. liked the song, who is the artist?
stopselfinjury 4 years ago 2