How to Handle/What Causes Break Ups

[DeadlyMonkey49]

Thanks for the video! Very deep, I must say. Problem: for me...lol not you.

Ok so here it goes. One of my really good guy friends likes me, and wants to be more than friends.  I like him, but not that way. I don't feel the same way. He's been saying stuff that gives clues to him liking me...and we've been hanging out lately....and I just don't know what to say. He has said he had a crush on me when we were like 10 years old. Now, things have changed...it's been awhile. We are both 15.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@DeadlyMonkey49 Awww. well the more you hang out with him without telling him how you really feel, he's going to be misled.. you should tell him how you feel, be honest and straight forward. do not sugar code things. be brave :D

[MsShadluvr]

Kells its commentarys like this that make you such a great youtuber. Not only do you give us advice on how to deal with things, you also put a little bit of your own scenario in there.

I <3 Kells ^_^

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@MsShadluvr awwwwww thank you so much ehhe (: you are the best!

[beastingitt]

ok 3rd time watching this and im gonna actually gonna comment this time okay here goes: i agree completely XD

[SkyDhawen]

@RAVENOUSKELLS: Haha. Great vid btw.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SkyDhawen thanks!

[MrShadyCash]

Relationships usually end. Unless you spend your whole life with the same person, at some point you will go through a break-up. Really good points and some great advice on dealing with the whole situation. Very insightful and an extremely mature way of looking at break-ups. Awesome commentary Kells, beast sniping :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@MrShadyCash SHADY!! OMG I MISS YOU. HEHE thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! you're right, break ups are bound to happen, sometimes for a good reason too (:

[LokiT13]

These kinda topics are kinda out of my league since I don't have much experience in the field but I'm glad that you're putting yourself out there to help those who are feeling depressed and stuff from break ups = O I know that some of them can be hard but there are others where they end up staying good friends... even though it may be rare.

But regardless awesome comm! Serious kells is like a total different person LOL

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@LokiT13 do you not like serious kells?! haha jk. aw (: thank you!!

[dudemachine12]

When you get killed do u just say " its what they wanted so i cant get mad "

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@dudemachine12 lmao, no!

[Volt7158]

3 things 1. You said willy lol. 2. I like the laugh after "your all indivually beautiful people" lol. And lastly 3 it was a good gameplay, and commentary. Very informative and is very helpful to kids, teens, even adults. Nice topic kells, keep it up and have a nice weeken hun :-).

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@Volt7158 awww thank you!!! hehe. you have a nice weekend too! lmao i meant it though!

[Volt7158]

@RAVENOUSKELLS I'll try and thank you for replying say hi to jeed for me :-). Later hun.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@Volt7158 no, you will have a great weekend! <3 hehe

[J3kegamer]

Well u never know

[YungAlphaWolf]

You know how to talk about a subect. You break it down into simple sub-topics. So your audience can understand what your trying to talk about. As a active sub, I can say you are one of the most interesting, and amazing commentators on the YouTube community. You never seem to be tedious when ever I watch your videos. So I guess in other words. You're awesome in every way imaginable! RAVENOUSKELLS - R.espect, A.ctive, V.igor, E.nthusiastic, N.oble, O.ptimistic, U.nique, S.uperb! Peace & Love!

[SuperPedro2468]

Is it wrong every vid i watch from u i get a boner? o_O

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SuperPedro2468 ROFL....

[JeedUpEnt]

@SuperPedro2468 and i thought i was the only one

[Zooloboohoo]

Yet another epic commentary by RAVENOUSKELLS! :D

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@Zooloboohoo thanks!

[14Asura14]

Nice gamelay and commetary....Doesn't really aply to me since I've never had any serious breakups....I actually had a girlfriend for quite a long time and we broke up just fine... Well It wasn't as easy as I'm making it to be but still....when I look back everything went as it should (immaturity aside :P)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@14Asura14 thank you. ahha oh yeah? well as long as you don't let it affect you greatly.

[GreyGooseVodka555]

Well said :) I broke up last month and no joke I asked Kells for some tips/advice. I used it and wow I'm thankful I really moved on like she says. With the tip/advice she gave me I gave anotehr cast out into the sea, and reeled another girl. The new girl seems cool and better than the previous one. This time were going take our time as friends :) before any serious relationship. Don't dwell on the past just simply move on because god as someone better that's why it didn't work out.

[GreyGooseVodka555]

Thanks Kells :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@GreyGooseVodka555 well said!!! <3 omg. i'm glad you're happy now :D

[OFF5TH]

Awesome job!! Nice topic to do a commentary on. Lets see what else you can come up with.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@OFF5TH thank you!! (;

[009noobagent]

0:35 Lol, ILLZ shot a javelin and it hit you and he caused suicide x)

P.S I like random commentaries more imo, but that one was god too :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@009noobagent thank you!!

[bonghitbrianws]

you have the best personality I've come across on youtube in awhile.A great attitude towards life as well, later

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@bonghitbrianws aw thanks ^_^

[SkyDhawen]

Oh, aren't you the sweetest thing..

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SkyDhawen nahhh (:

[the1kamikaze]

Listen to this girl, she makes very good points. I'm sure many people will benefit from this commentary. I don't have a girl friend but I know a girl who would get mad if I'd say that >.<'

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@the1kamikaze oooooooooo that means you and a girl are at that stage, but haven't made it "official" because the conversation of being in a relationship wasn't brought up much, and it's on and off eh?! but thank you (:

[the1kamikaze]

@RAVENOUSKELLS i think you missed the joke on that one. haha.. I'm not in a relationship. But looking to find that special girl very soon. :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@the1kamikaze oh opsy. haha :D well she'll be a very lucky girl whoever she is!! :D

[Gatsurendo]

good com but this is only good towards those in non serious relations ie not married. Like for me knowing even when my wife cheated while engaged it was a nasty situation to deal with. Emotionally now yea I don't get sad anymore. She gets upset since I am basically so cold and heartless after every cheating attempt and stupid time of taking her back since we have kids that I am pretty much without care. I do love her but if she left to cheat I would probably just kick back and start my next com.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@Gatsurendo damn gatsu. yeah, this is from experience. i have no idea what it's like to be MARRIED. title- break up, not divorce LOL. but wow, thanks for sharing

[Gatsurendo]

@RAVENOUSKELLS Lol I am not trying to divorce just saying. We are doin okay here. Just after so long the wounds from all that stuff you mention can either hurt or turn you cold and heartless. For me even being with her and trying to make things work. I feel like most of my emotions are acted now. Kinda sucks. Already talked with her about this to.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@Gatsurendo oh... i see. wow. yeah, i haven't experienced that.

[TheSkater290]

I'll be sure to remember this when the time comes lol

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@TheSkater290 (:

[LeagueOfAssassinsHQ]

hey kely this is helljumper im on my clan account

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@LeagueOfAssassinsHQ hello!

[JeedUpEnt]

5 people had bad breakups :P

[zombie651]

well now i know how to handle a break up altho i never had a gf

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@zombie651 it's okay. time will come!

[zombie651]

@RAVENOUSKELLS sooner or later but ill wait im good for now =3

[x2MANYHATERZx]

I enjoyed this commentary but something waz missing lol :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@x2MANYHATERZx LOL i made this commentary before you asked for the bad ass. hahaha

[J3kegamer]

good :P

[TheStuntZero]

0:40

Lol you walked infront of that guys javlien and made him kill himself.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@TheStuntZero ROFL!!! that was my teammate ILLZ. haha he was laughing so hard

[RAVENOUSSNIPERS]

@RAVENOUSKELLS great commentary felt like it was aiming towards me...lol just saying...but good to know you talk about things that are important in life and care for others as well. You know what i mean (:

-repent

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@RAVENOUSSNIPERS thanks repent! hahah. noooo it was just in general!!

[RAVENOUSSNIPERS]

-Ravenous Repent

[RAVENOUSSNIPERS]

@i7vsa7vi7y obviously you dont really much care for tye commentary so please dont put a useless comment on an important commentary. If you have nothing.to say aboht the subject, do remove yourself from where you are. Judging by the fact that you dont like her breathing into the mic youre probably just obsessed with girls and probably cant even talk to one too. Maybe you can just sit behind that computer desk all day long whacking off to some gay porn. Thanks its been nice knowing ya.

[i7vSa7vi7y]

@RAVENOUSSNIPERS That's cool bro.

[tatokombat12]

»»───knee───►

[i7vSa7vi7y]

STOP BREATHING INTO THE MIC!!!

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@i7vSa7vi7y LOL repent said it all... but i'm going to make it more fun since he was probably too intellectual for you.... I'll put that mic in your throat and pretend i'm your daddy.

[J3kegamer]

Did u and Jeed breakup

[JeedUpEnt]

@J3kegamer lol nope not even close

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@J3kegamer mm.. that probably will never happen :P

[TheTreehuggerGames]

good commentary though i wont need this help since ive decided to die alone at the old age of 30-40 and spend remainer of life having drunk sex with cute gay guys.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@TheTreehuggerGames ROFL. omg.. you are sooo funny <3

[SoCloseToToast]

Awh Kells! Awesome commentary! ;P I answered your question from my ask away video! :) haha

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SoCloseToToast i haven't gotten to watch vids because of my internet!!! i have to make my way to the library to watch vids, which i did today, but i only was able to watch one because i have heavy loads of reading. but i will!

[CrypticJezuz]

lol im sure i'd find this more helpful if I could get the girls in the first place xD jks Real good advice :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@CrypticJezuz LOL awwww <3

[ThePaintballMasterz]

Why do i get the feeling you're extremely hot?

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@ThePaintballMasterz because i do live in california. :P

[conwizzlo717]

I need to learn how to snipe, lol.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@conwizzlo717 i can teach!!! :D

[SergeantBean67]

Well we all know killa is a whore. Lol

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SergeantBean67 LOL!!!

[JeedUpEnt]

is the same and they will not do the same things your last one did. Honestly idk how i would handle a break up especially if someone cheated on me but I know that would never happen now :) Love the com babe!!

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@JeedUpEnt aw <3 don't worry, the only person that would cheat on you right now is killa

[ViVaDaAlDaMa713]

@SindreThePunk Yeah, you could get stuck there. And it really hurts when you hear about their crushes (or whatever) and it doesn't involve you, ya know?

[69873167594]

thank you very much =)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@69873167594 welcome!

[JeedUpEnt]

I think it's almost impossible not to be sad or angry when someone you love breaks up with you especially if they cheated on you or ended up liking someone else. I guess the only way you wouldn't be sad is if you didn't really liked them yourself. Peoples mentalities after breaking up is completely different because now they think their new gf or bf will do the same so they will do things they wouldnt normally do in a relationship that why it's always important to remember that not everyone

[GoProheroSailing]

What would we do without you..? LOL ;P

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@GoProheroSailing awww :D a lotttttttttt (: hehe.

[jhv4l]

yay these commentaries are wonderful :)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@jhv4l aw ^_^ thanks. you're wonderful!

[DAGONdarkness]

kool

[XxASJLxX]

:)

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@XxASJLxX (:

[SindreThePunk]

the friend zone is dangerous though

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@SindreThePunk oh yes it is..

[ShakeDown2012]

This is a great commentary. People, pay attention.

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@ShakeDown2012 thank you shake!!! <3

[theshetman]

Hahaha he kills he teamate by running in front of his javelin nice

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@theshetman i'm a she o.0

[monkeychunkies]

I really like your game play and commentary : ]

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@monkeychunkies thank you!! :D

[ThatKiddJake]

Hardscoper! J/K Nice video!

[RAVENOUSKELLS]

@ThatKiddJake thanks!