These guys are total soft cocks . Feminized manginas. NEVER chase a woman. The world is full of them. If you start out pursuing her she will always make you work for every "concession". Try a woman who has honesty.
Fuck chasing. These games are so lame. If I'm attracted to a guy I'll ask him out myself and sleep with him pretty much right away. I'm not going to pretend I don't enjoy sex! And if he doesn't stick around, whatever, at least I got laid.
@relmneiko u r so right. games r fucking annoying, & its shit how we r supposed to pretend we dont want to have sex & say "no" even if we do. i, however, am ruled by societies expectations :(
As a bloke.... If someone is not that interested, I leave them alone. I do however like the certain chase where you can see someone is interested in you but plays the games. However, to chase everyone you like seems a bit desperate to me!
i love to chase have to chase dont feel good if i dont chase.doesnt work tho,only got girls i didnt chase,why, some girls just think i chase to hard,now im married to a girl i didnt chase , and wouldn t you know some of those past girls chasing me now,sorry girls had your chance,plus new girls chacse you when they realize you dont want them girls dont like to be ignored ,cant help it tho im a chaser.
The best way to deal with women is to not act like you care too much. It works on so many levels.If they dont like you,no problem.If they do like you,they'll respect the fact that unlike most guys,you're not drooling all over them.Women like a challenge.You've got to be that challenge,or else its game over---
i have noticed that guys do chase u after you've said "no" idk they cant accept rejection..but then again i like the chase too..easy guys are boring..haha because it goes both ways. women dont like easy guys and guys dont like easy women.(:
when I say "NO I'M NOT INTERESTED" I really do mean it but men always assume that I'm playing hard to get, I hate it when a guy follows me around after I tell him that I'm not interested...............Its just pitiful if a guy has to chase a girl around and go out of his way to get her attention I mean a guy shouldn't have to work that hard to get a girl or just sleep with her
I like how the dork next to the host wonders what a woman did with the past two guys because she slept with him too soon etc. How about if he slept with her as well then he's doing the same thing, so what does that say about himself? Dumbass.
Thats what irritates me with the dating game. Its always men that have to chase and jump through hoops to get a relationship started. All a woman has to do is stand there and look pretty.
I like women to be a bit assertive on their end as well.
I see a woman who does not show any assertiveness as a woman who has no interest and I am not going to make a move if I see no interest.
I am the kind of guy who likes to meet in the middle, not chase after her like a love sick puppy.
Be a man! what the hell, where are the men? you'll play a whole freaking sport of football or something to win a trophy, to show it off and brag about it, but as soon as it comes to sporting a hell of a lady who likes to run, you guys get all sissy. "aw, let me ignore her so she can chase me".,. buddy a real woman ain't gonna chase you if you ain't man enough to get her. Don't be a chicken, I promise, you wont regret it. Its victorious to get a lady who wasnt easy, Cuz she respects herself.
so juvenile.. and if a person is under the magic of this "impossible to get" idea, it means he will get bored when they "get" whom they want..it may be a trick to attract some people but I can't see any relevance with love.
smart and self confident women don't need to play those games on men whom they really like, no matter how much those guys like the pain and waste of time..
considering relations, this is one of the theories I hate most!
I'm a woman and I don't want to give the impression that I'm a fatal attraction female. Even though this kind of theory may be old fashioned, but I believe the traditional boy meets girl, boy gets girl is the way to go. A woman may pursue a man who is interested in her at that moment, but in the end the relationship won't last. I understand that there are woman who may struggle with this philosophy, so do I, but I've learned to discipline myself and practice self control
first guy, who said it was too easy. That's why he's still single. Whats wrong with going on one date and then seeing if you like eachother. Just b/c someone says yes right away does not mean she's easy. It just measn she likes you and is eager to get to know you. Sheesh. These men are idiots. That married one wont be married for long. The girls who make u chase them are the same ones who play games with ur head.
I knew IT!!!!!!! I always hear guys say that they don't like women they have to chase but i men are naturally hunters and naturally competitive. It's in their genes. And whether they know it or not, chasing women turns them on and makes you more appealing as a woman.
the best type of guys are somewhere in between, they like a little chase but are not all about it. i've neverr met a guy that likes the chase a lot and is also normal. these types are always psycho in some way, or they have commitment issues, etc, there is always something wrong with them. a normal guy is somewhere in between.
I agree with the host. Why not call the next day if you really like the person? I know if a guy waited 3 days to call me, I would think he wasn't really that interested.
I HATE "the chase". I take it as a hint and lose interest. There's SO many women out there, only one ME, and only 24 hours in a day. Why waste any on a game-addled twit?
I think "the chase" is the same as a head game. Some women play the chase game, then find out that the guy is not into the chase and forgets about her, and then she beings to pursue HIM. That may be why some guys think some women are psychos. Just be honest and real. Flirting is fine, but don't make us chase you. Doesn't that show insecurity on both parts? If he's a jerk to begin with, the chase won't make him less of a jerk, and it won't make him love you more... only lust after you more.
aren't you people spaming here>>?? huh - some girls by nature want's to be banged and I hate them - that's you wanna hear - and at the end of the day you see those preety (fetish girls) marrying sorta business man (and it makes you feel FUCK EM)
And remember bubblehead, the older women get, the less valuable they are for reproduction. Yet, the older men get, the more options he has with young and old females alike. So you my dear are a depreciating asset. I hope you used your youth wisely (obviously you didnt spend it in the classroom). Watch and see how less and less men pursue you as time goes by. Yet if you had something else to offer (like a personality), you would have had a chance to be with someone worthwhile. Good luck.
Yeah, so what? Sorry, mate, females still invest more. Just means we can have sex without worrying about pregnancy :) And, actually, unfortunately for you- the older a man gets the morely likely he his to have faulty sperm. Hardly god's gift to healthy babies. Lol, no, I'm only spending my youth studying in a rather excellent uni, that's all. You're a silly little kid and I doubt any woman will propagate your genes for you.
Thank you for supporting my view. If older men have faulty sperm, why are they still attractive to young and women alike? Ah ha, because its not about reproduction! Why is it that older men become "distinguished"? Most likely because they become more successful as time goes on. And with success comes women. We wont want to use our faulty sperm with you, we only want to see you naked. And if you continue to drop your pants just because we are successful, then so be it. Now sit on your thumb
Lol, sure I did. Mostly because they're actually grown ups, as opposed younger men and that can outweigh the attractiveness bit, especially when the woman isn't ovulating. You're right- the older man may not be about reproduction, he may be about money. The woman may already have slept with the younger man. Provision is attractive, that doesn't mean the successful man gives the sperm. Lol, who's 'dropped their pants' for you boy? What's that? NO ONE?
I´ll give you an example. I was with about 10 guy friends once for a wedding. All are really great guys who are very successful, and very considerate (good catches). Yet one was only focused on sex. Being an attractive guy, he got alot of attention from the ladies. He pursued and had sex with one of the best looking girls at the reception. The girl turned out to be a friend of mine. She was sad because he never called her again. Remember, the one who pursues who isnt always the right one
My advice to all the girls out there. If you see a man who you believe is worthy, make an effort to get his attention. It doesnt need to be much, just something to let him know that you are interested. You are lucky enough that you can choose your man, so dont base your decision on a guy who pursues you. Normally a successful guy doesnt have much time to do the pursuing, so if you want this type, you will have to catch his eye.
ahhh im in a "chase" right now and its intense.. in all honesty its really fun, but dont you think it shouldnt always be the guy to chase? sometimes it just gets tiring and its like common ladies.. give us a break and let us actually have a civilized conversation with you
I REFUSE to chase. Either you're interested or you're not. If you're not, I won't be offended. I simply move on and there will be someone else that will be interested.
But, if you're going to act interested one day and completely ignore me the next, I WILL move on and you will NOT get a second chance.
I have a life to live and better things to do. If you're interested, make it known, one of us asks the other out, and we take it from there.
Haha, oh dear. You actually will never end up with anyone. The fact of the matter is.....the chase is biologically driven. Women contribute much more to reproduction than men do, so actually in a way you do need to prove you're the best she could pick. If you don't chase/put effort in any woman will find someone worth her while and that's reality.
Another woman that thinks her pussy is gold plated. No one contributes more to reproduction. Without one, the other is irrelevant.
The chase being biologically driven is bullshit. Supposedly, women staying at home, cooking/cleaning, and spreading her legs was biological. We all know that's not the case.
I've been in relationships where I didn't have to chase. Chasing is a game. Self-respecting men(and women) do not play games. Life is too short to play games.
Lol, what a charmer you are. A lonely one too I'll bet. No, I think you'll find the female of the species has a significantly higher parental investment and to claim otherwise is to be guilty of idiocy. It's perfectly simple, and I've already spelled it out for you. You've clearly been in relationships with girls with no self-value. I was actually doing you a favour here but it's obvious you have some bitter issues.
Hopefully no woman will be stupid enough to propagate your genes for you.
Actually, I've clearly been in relationships with girls that had high self-esteem, self-respect, and confidence. The only stupid girl is one that actually reads your comments and uses it as a guide.
I'm not a bitter person at all. I refuse to date someone that has low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Every girl I've gone out with has self-value. Those that expect a man to chase has no self-value. Playing games shows no self-value and immaturity.
Ooh get you, angry boy. I very much doubt that, or if they were it sounds like they got wise. You're a little muddled, aren't you? I expect a man to make an effort and therefore I have no self-worth? Right. Chasing isn't about games, I said nothing about teasing. Anyway, I don't really care about you ending up alone that much so cheerio.
I never said women were better than men, dear, I said that for reproduction we invest significantly more time and effort which is why the male of the species has to work to prove himself. You see this in much of the animal kingdom and I was merely enlihghtening you. Clearly you are too insecure to take on the truth. Sad.
You claim to invest more time and you still struggle to find decent men. Men are starting to learn that they do not need women. We don't need to prove ourselves. Quite the opposite in fact. Not very big on logic and reasoning, are we my dear?
If I was insecure, I would be chasing women like a dog treat, like the other boys. I, however am a man. I have my own life, responsibilities, and obligations.
The Queen of England called. She wants her throne back.
Lmao. Oh dear oh dear. First of all.....I don't struggle to find decent men. Secondly, you cannot debate that women have more personal investment in reproduction- that's nature and yes, sorry, but men do need women in order to perpetuate the species and you are required to make an effort so that you will be chosen.
Do you actually know what' logic and reasoning' is darling?
You want logic? Here's some logic: In order for you to have offspring, you need sperm. So now, you don't have more personal investment. Without men, women can't reproduce. There goes your "women have more investment" logic. See how far you get with that.
You want rules? Here's rule #1 in dating: There are no rules. You think I should be thanking you? That's laughable at the very least. If my ways didn't work, you would have a solid argument. Too bad you don't.
Of course, but guess what: It's not hard to get a man to give you some sperm. You truly are a stupid little boy. Here's a biology lesson for you dear- women get pregnant, give birth, breastfeed and give the majority of care. Does that take more time and effort than an ejaculation? I think so. So yes, our investment in reproduction is significantly more than yours therefore you must prove that you are the best sperm and it will be worth our efforts. I know you hate the facts of life, dear.
Still with the "holier than thou" attitude. You'll get very far with that attitude. And since more men are choosing to stay single, I guess we don't have to prove ourselves. That's another fact of life.
If any man goes out of his way to "proove himself" to you, I'll be praying for him. Cunts like you make horrible girlfriends.
You're a stupid little girl, thinking her pussy is gold plated lol. Good luck with that attitude these days. It may have worked in the past, but not now.
No, dear, I just know the facts of life- like you really should. I never said the fact that women become pregnant makes us 'better', but it IS the reason why the male of the species is known to compete more for the female. You do have to prove yourself if you want offspring, I don't mean generally ffs lol. Darling, you lead a sad sad life and you have a lot to learn. I feel very sorry for you. Your replies will not be read.
You're not going to read my replies because you know I'm right. My life is great and I have no intentions of changing. You feel sorry for me? You're the pathetic one. Enjoy the rest of your life in fantasy land.
Just because a man is charming and most persistent in chasing you that doesn't mean he will be the best choice for a mate.
Any man worth mating with has to make the huge investment of providing and caring for his mate and his offspring. He'll stand by the mother of his children, protect them and be devoted to them for as long as he lives.
bumblybee, you sound like a bumbling idiot. Do you realize that men now a days dont pursue women to reproduce? Your Darwin beliefs are very outdated. Yes, our biology makes us hunt you, but we are smarter than average animals to know that we dont want to get you pregnant. Trust me, guys only pursue you for sex, nothing more. Dont feel special, because we pursue just about anyone without a penis. If your theory is correct, why then darling do you believe we pull out?
Sorry, whether you 'want' to reproduce or not the drive is still there for a reason. There is still behaviour we unconsciously adhere to. Wanting sex is all the male needs to want since you don't really need to be involved afterwards. I don't feel special because of that, dear lol, I should probably tell you that penis envy is a myth too *shock*. Well, 'darling' , AGAIN: you may not consciously want children but your body still drives you to reproduce (btw 'pulling out' is not foolproof lol)
Bumblybee, you are a broken record. You say the same things over and over again without really saying anything that we all dont already know. Let me break it down for you. Please dont believe that the man who pursues you the most is the most worthy to be your donor. It just means he is the horniest at that moment, and wants to be inside you worse than the other guy. Again, he does not want to get you pregnant. Our drive has nothing to do with this video ¨"do we like the chase"
I know, I wish to god you'd get it through your thick skull the first time. I DON'T believe the man who pursues the most is necessarily the most worthy, they could just be a stalker, but it's about EFFORT. Your sex drive has everything to do with reproduction, that's what sex is for, dolthead.
Ok, I now believe you are special, yellow bus special.Please look at the definitions. Pursue: To follow in an effort to overtake or capture. Effort: The use of physical or mental energy to do something. They are basically one in the same,so no matter how much effort a guy makes it doesnt represent a good catch. Also, sex drive has nothing to do with reproduction. If that is what sex is for, why did the men in your life only give you a pearl necklace?
Darling boy.Yes, pursuing someone is making an effort- pursuing in the right way. I trust my own judgement as to whether the pursuer in question is decent or not BUT that effort must be there. Sex drive has everything to do with reproduction, that's why it exists, you nad.
What EXACTLY do you imagine the function of sex mainly is?
You should ponder on this question more bubblebutt. If sex is for reproduction, why do alot of men only want one night stands? Why do men want to sleep with as many women as possible, so they can brag to their friends abot how many girls they´ve slept with? And why are men so careful with where they release their love lotion? Please if sex had anything to do with reproduction nowadays, you could have possibly gotten a return phone call from the guy who seduced you the other night.
Lol. WOW. Think of it this way, my little imbecile. What more do men need to do to reproduce? If anything you've just backed me up. Men are programmed to be promiscuous to maximise their reproductive success. What the hell do you think sex is lmao, it's the stork isn't it?
Your attempts to goad me fail miserably, mostly because I have the warm glow of an education. Now go and sit in the corner and contemplate your lack thereof.
Again, you dance in circles. Dont you get dizzy? For the last time, men are not promiscuous because we want to reproduce. If that were the case, all men (not just most) would be sleeping with each girl he sees in hopes she would get pregnant. Look at it another way. If women were programmed to want the penis (in order to get pregnant), why are you rubbing yourself on top of your pillow at night? And why is that vibrating thing constantly out of batteries? Neither has ejaculate.
Jesus Christ. The thickness of your skull. It has NOTHING to do with what you WANT, boy wonder. It is an INSTINCT, a drive. You are predisposed to find certain women attractive because they send signals of fertility. It doesn't matter what you WANT because after ejaculation you can get lost for all anyone cares. You've played your role.
Orgasms are pleasurable, didn't you know that. You've so may questions don't you? Lil virgin boy.
If our instinct is to find women who are sending signals during times of fertility, why is it that women are horniest and wanting sex during their period? Dont you know that is the least likely time to get pregnant?
Lol, well no, not all women are horny during their period ACTUALLY but that can be because there's alot of tension and orgasm releases that. The defination of sex is the mixing of genes for reproduction but it can have other 'side effects.'
And for your info women are at their most attractive during ovulation- as has been shown through subtle signals like pheromones.
Thanks, I know more about my own biology than you do, idiot boy.
Ok, lets just cut to the chase. We just showed everyone on youtube that this video is correct. Guys love the chase. Our discussion has been heated, but its heat of passion. I pursued you through debate, and I can tell I´m slowly working my way into your pants. All in about 15 minutes. Just think if we were face to face....we might be bumping uglies before the night is up. Of course, not with the intention of getting you pregnant, only for simple pleasure. Whats your phone number?
Lol, no, it's not 'passion' dear, it's a disagreement. I reckon you think you've been successful goading people into punching you before but you aren't bothering me, you're a cretinous fool and if we were face to face, god forbid, I'd be destroying your self-esteem. I'm glad you've admitted defeat, now fuck off.
mmmm, your dirty words give me goosebumps. just dont forget that potty mouth when you join me for a tango dance in my bedroom. Ahhh foreplay, dont you just love it? Who would have thought a disagreement could lead to something like this? Just dont pursue me to aggresively after the first night. I may just lose interest. But thats the risk we take for love. Thank you for your phone number in my private email. I´ll call you alittle later (if I feel the need).
lmao, the defeated words of the horniest, and yet most rejected, little guy on youtube.I now understand that you think and talk with your dick and therefore are incapable of making sense.
Your stalker-esque replies won't be read. Have fun with your special alone time.
Many may find it unattractive, it only indicates they haven't thought about it much. I imagine it's very hard to tell my exact thoughts from my behaviour alone.
No, not chasing just any women but if you really wanted to be with a woman in particular that you liked you'd make an effort- otherwise why on earth should she bother with you? And if you don't play by the rules, you won't get anyone worth having. You ought to be thanking me, dear. Good for you, and no one to ever share it with. Have fun.
Some are really shy n others get so exited that they behave in odd ways as if commanding the man to chase. so perhaps even if a woman is not basing her conclusion on the biological factor, due to this biological factor, nature has assured that woman have some moves which makes the process longer.
besides (1)shy girls n those that night get exited n not know whats going on,there r perhas (2)the other women who just want to say I am a goldplate n do nt have much respect to the man.
Sadly most man know about category (2) and (I am a man and can tell sincerel) due to that the chase acts as a huge turn off for the man.
I don't suggest that most women would consciously think about our reproductive roles and then elect to only ever respond to the best 'chaser' but I think it ends up that way as we are predisposed to do so due to the nature of reproduction. We can be picky.
It's knowing what type of girl you are dealing with.. Some women like to get over on clueless guys as a power thing because the real boyfriend treats her badly ,but its a turn on to her, so we all know who she has been doing it with while clueless buys her dinners and never gets even a kiss but she keeps hinting that she may want to get serious, to keep him around, Welcome to the jungle.
Yeah it's kinda why I don't bother with dating. It gets me all disillusioned about human nature. But if you just stay single and have friends and stuff, people seem nicer. Weird!
I think the chase is great! However, if she has absolutely no intention on ever going out with the guy, then she's being cruel, a tease. Which is misleading to say the least. I never approach men, and I suck at flirting, but I'm always respectful when men approach me, unless they come off as complete cavemen, then I just walk away.
Honestly, ladies. If you're not interested in a guy, just let him know. Be kind and gentile, but seriously. Just let him know, so he can stop wasting his time
And guys: As much as the feminist movement tried to argue against this, the delicacies of being a woman are very significant. Keep your hands to yourself and honor her body by keeping it exactly what it is: Sacred. I can't tell you how important that is.
women only want metrosexual men they say they dont but its bullshit women always say what they want is what they really dont want there confussing as fuck and i just dont bother try to understand them i talk but the moment i feel she is feeding me bullshit i dont freeze up like i used to i just walk away 95% of the time we are going to get that from women its just there behavior unless you are metrosexual
Just because you find the same kind of girl over and over again doesn't mean there aren't normal girls out there. You're probably in middle or high school... If not, you sure sound like it. Stop being bitter, grow up a little, and you'll find a girl worth chasing.
Ok, so let me get this straight. If we both like each other, and you ask for my number, you want me to give you a fake one so you can't contact me? Well, if that doesn't make sense, then I don't know what does...
don't lisen to these guy if a proud guy ask you out witch half of men are proud and you think that chase thing works and say no he will never ask you out again atleast thats how it works for me
No, they are saying that, if your not interested on a guy, dont give them your real number and then ignore their calls, just give them a fake number. Atleast thats more direct and lets us know not to waste our time with you.
I like a girl from my neighborhood, and i think im a descent man, but she doesnt want anything with me, and when i see the guys she dates i said to myself "wtf thes guys are just wanderers that that sell drugs to kids" (seriously they sell drugs), well Is her choice if she like to play that way
A tip to all the ladies! THe rule is: you have to play and you NEED to KNOW "HOW TO PLAY
If you are interested in the guy, you HAVE TO LET HIM KNOW that you are interested. At the same time you also need to let him know that you are NOT desperate. Bottom line is that everything has to be done in moderation. That's what will keep the game fun.
I believe that ladies needs to be a picky. Just because we like a guy, doesn't mean we should start a relationship with him right away.
I also think that we shouldn't rush into things. To find the perfect guy, we need to make sure that he has everything that we are looking for in a man. This is takes a lot of time, patience and observation.
Some people like the chase, some don't. These are just the opinions of these five men. I hate games. One of the things my husband loved about me is that I don't play them. If I knew I wanted him, why would I play hard to get? I said yes to everything right away! We're happily married! I guess it just depends on the person.
The Chase is a very false concept. Men who are busy, sincere and have ambitions in their lives do not like to waste time on games. Honesty is the best policy. This chase concept is usualy used by women who have a list of unwanted men to reject them and pick the best possible available. As for men they do not want a very hard girl to obtain, the real challenge is keeping a woman not chasing her. Trust me I'm a man. Also the panel is Hollywood centric, too stereotypical.
truth i hate teh chase thing, i had alredy lost too much time with this fucking chases, como on just simmply say yes im interested in you period, that way i can invest my money in a woman that really pretends something with me
You always have to stay ahead of girls or females because at the end of the day we compete. It has nothin to do with weather u respect em or not. Its common sense. and if u dont get any it means u are doing VERY WELL staying ahead. Trust me in the long run..wahahaha.
this only works if you both want each other initially, if not don't even bother tryin this. Also, i personally find it kind of annoying if a girl just keeps rejecting me if i know she likes me.
Whats better than getting something through hard work? Getting the same thing with no work at all!
Come on... you can disagree all you want, but this is the truth. It's the most intelligent effort/payoff scenario. it's the most rational thing to do, logically and in terms of evolution.
I beg to differ - I'm a girl and I like it when they initially reject me or play tough - I hate it when the guy is kind of drooling over me even if I really like him - it's just boring. But if I have worked hard to get him , then the satisfaction I get when he finally gives in is Amazing!
There is no reason whatsoever to pretend you are not interested when you are! Thats just being difficult for no reason, and simple things are almost always better from a design perspective!
girls who give out their numbers and not pickup are actually more rude then girls who don't give their numbers at all. Its giving somebody false hope. Stop being selfish and always thinking about yourself and your low self-esteem and start thinking about the guy who likes you.
the reason we sometimes give out our number, and then don't pick up, is because we don't wanna be blatantly rude, and be like um NO, you may not have my number to their face.
Its more rude to give your number and then not picking up because then its like you making fun of us.
We call you thinking "she gave me her number, she must be interested" and then you dont answer, its like saying to our face "your an idiot, do you really thought i was going to pick up?"
Just be honest and say "no", both are a way of rejecting us, but not picking up is the cowardly and stupid way to do it.
a "chase" is sth guys make up when a girl simply doesn't desire them, and men think she does that on purpose - in reality shes with someone already and she's just making fun of you
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who are these guys? does anyone listen to these guys. a real man does not need to chase a women. these guys are geeks. these guys are women themselves, look at the way they act.
Okay. So far I've learned Michael likes the European look, high heels, toes and feet (from the fashion video) and he enjoyed being teased by a girl for an entire year before having sex. He clearly needs a dominatrix in his life.
You know what, guys? If a girl rejects you, SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. Women don't like to play mind games except when it comes to other women.
If I like a guy, he will know right away and won't have to guess at it. However, women want more than just sex out of a relationship, so if that's all you want out of her, you're not going to get it.
These guys are total soft cocks . Feminized manginas. NEVER chase a woman. The world is full of them. If you start out pursuing her she will always make you work for every "concession". Try a woman who has honesty.
t6a9m 1 month ago
Fuck chasing. These games are so lame. If I'm attracted to a guy I'll ask him out myself and sleep with him pretty much right away. I'm not going to pretend I don't enjoy sex! And if he doesn't stick around, whatever, at least I got laid.
relmneiko 1 month ago
@relmneiko your dad must be so proud of your life choices
nblonigan44 1 month ago
@relmneiko u r so right. games r fucking annoying, & its shit how we r supposed to pretend we dont want to have sex & say "no" even if we do. i, however, am ruled by societies expectations :(
TheBgoz 1 month ago
@relmneiko whore
OPIobsession 1 month ago
As a bloke.... If someone is not that interested, I leave them alone. I do however like the certain chase where you can see someone is interested in you but plays the games. However, to chase everyone you like seems a bit desperate to me!
supercacti 4 months ago
i hate these guys..
itsfrancesca1409 4 months ago
i love to chase have to chase dont feel good if i dont chase.doesnt work tho,only got girls i didnt chase,why, some girls just think i chase to hard,now im married to a girl i didnt chase , and wouldn t you know some of those past girls chasing me now,sorry girls had your chance,plus new girls chacse you when they realize you dont want them girls dont like to be ignored ,cant help it tho im a chaser.
MrBadattitude001 5 months ago
The best way to deal with women is to not act like you care too much. It works on so many levels.If they dont like you,no problem.If they do like you,they'll respect the fact that unlike most guys,you're not drooling all over them.Women like a challenge.You've got to be that challenge,or else its game over---
mrbrianmccarthy 6 months ago
Women don't seem to want me to chase them.
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slkujdghf 6 months ago
i have noticed that guys do chase u after you've said "no" idk they cant accept rejection..but then again i like the chase too..easy guys are boring..haha because it goes both ways. women dont like easy guys and guys dont like easy women.(:
NeverShoutBarbie18 7 months ago
if the woman want a chase i will dump her , im the king or shes the king here ? i think women must chase men not men chase women
bong17894 8 months ago
when I say "NO I'M NOT INTERESTED" I really do mean it but men always assume that I'm playing hard to get, I hate it when a guy follows me around after I tell him that I'm not interested...............Its just pitiful if a guy has to chase a girl around and go out of his way to get her attention I mean a guy shouldn't have to work that hard to get a girl or just sleep with her
thickjai18 8 months ago 6
sooooooo....when a guy chases a girl it means he likes her? xD
tifaluvsyuh 8 months ago
I like how the dork next to the host wonders what a woman did with the past two guys because she slept with him too soon etc. How about if he slept with her as well then he's doing the same thing, so what does that say about himself? Dumbass.
pinktopaz25 10 months ago
Soooooo....That Didn't ANSwer the Question<< Whatabunchofdorks
xXr0adrunnerXx 11 months ago
Thats what irritates me with the dating game. Its always men that have to chase and jump through hoops to get a relationship started. All a woman has to do is stand there and look pretty.
I like women to be a bit assertive on their end as well.
I see a woman who does not show any assertiveness as a woman who has no interest and I am not going to make a move if I see no interest.
I am the kind of guy who likes to meet in the middle, not chase after her like a love sick puppy.
ManSpeakOut 11 months ago 3
Be a man! what the hell, where are the men? you'll play a whole freaking sport of football or something to win a trophy, to show it off and brag about it, but as soon as it comes to sporting a hell of a lady who likes to run, you guys get all sissy. "aw, let me ignore her so she can chase me".,. buddy a real woman ain't gonna chase you if you ain't man enough to get her. Don't be a chicken, I promise, you wont regret it. Its victorious to get a lady who wasnt easy, Cuz she respects herself.
heavenlyrko 1 year ago
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kos66t 11 months ago
@heavenlyrko Sorry pal,but you're talking crap. What you're glorifying is called sexual harassment.
And being a man has got nothing to do with chasing a woman.
kos66t 11 months ago 3
how the hell does the guy closest to the host on the left side... sit sooo straight up
gogetareeljob 1 year ago
so juvenile.. and if a person is under the magic of this "impossible to get" idea, it means he will get bored when they "get" whom they want..it may be a trick to attract some people but I can't see any relevance with love.
smart and self confident women don't need to play those games on men whom they really like, no matter how much those guys like the pain and waste of time..
considering relations, this is one of the theories I hate most!
firstcoffeeoftheday 1 year ago
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firstcoffeeoftheday 1 year ago
I'm a woman and I don't want to give the impression that I'm a fatal attraction female. Even though this kind of theory may be old fashioned, but I believe the traditional boy meets girl, boy gets girl is the way to go. A woman may pursue a man who is interested in her at that moment, but in the end the relationship won't last. I understand that there are woman who may struggle with this philosophy, so do I, but I've learned to discipline myself and practice self control
jbdream3 1 year ago
just do what is logical and follow the gut. these men don't represent all men from different walks of life.
haokannan 1 year ago
sausage fest
NlcEpAnTs 1 year ago
I disagree as a man loving the chase. Fuck that its fuckin adolescent if woman plays hard to get I disappear never to be seen again! Next!
jasonbear72 1 year ago
first guy, who said it was too easy. That's why he's still single. Whats wrong with going on one date and then seeing if you like eachother. Just b/c someone says yes right away does not mean she's easy. It just measn she likes you and is eager to get to know you. Sheesh. These men are idiots. That married one wont be married for long. The girls who make u chase them are the same ones who play games with ur head.
LiveLaughLove8489 1 year ago 2
These men should not be allowed to speak....
yoshidragon2 1 year ago 5
I knew IT!!!!!!! I always hear guys say that they don't like women they have to chase but i men are naturally hunters and naturally competitive. It's in their genes. And whether they know it or not, chasing women turns them on and makes you more appealing as a woman.
GetYourMrRight 1 year ago
the best type of guys are somewhere in between, they like a little chase but are not all about it. i've neverr met a guy that likes the chase a lot and is also normal. these types are always psycho in some way, or they have commitment issues, etc, there is always something wrong with them. a normal guy is somewhere in between.
bellacinderellakk 1 year ago 2
These guys are idiots. If a girl says no or doesn't call me back, I leave her alone.
OdinHyrule 1 year ago 21
@OdinHyrule true
iwantsexbaby666 3 months ago
"It may seem stupid and childish" it is stupid and childish...
Ostrich316 1 year ago
this is so immature.
eskimo6unny 1 year ago
girls like the chase because its hows the guy wants her plain and simple if you dant want her then dont waste your time
Marokitawagata 1 year ago
These men are fucking patheitc, this makes me embarrassed to be a man.
89CaptainTurd 1 year ago
Fuck the chase! Let the women chase us!
DontRepYourCity 1 year ago 7
@DontRepYourCity No one will chase you if you let your mouth go off like that. Conceited guys are not attractive. :)
kakashidemon321 1 year ago 2
@kakashidemon321 Yeah, I guess girls who want to be chased are conceited too?
Ostrich316 1 year ago
@DontRepYourCity Go to sweden dude, that actually happens there
hudz595 1 year ago
@DontRepYourCity I dont "chase". 'Chasing" is for retards and losers. hahahahahahah
mrbrianmccarthy 6 months ago
@DontRepYourCity ok Im with you, now we just need to work out how...
SWIFTzTrigger 5 months ago
Stupid ass games...what fun!
tmq2moo 1 year ago
I agree with the host. Why not call the next day if you really like the person? I know if a guy waited 3 days to call me, I would think he wasn't really that interested.
BloodHunterHilda 1 year ago
i kinda like the chase. i mean if it's too easy i automatically think there must me something wrong with her.
but yeah i gotta admit, it feels nice having girls chase me, but those girls usually are not the girls i REALLY want.
skittb89 1 year ago
hate the god damn chase.......
thats why i only mess with woman who want a relationship staright up,no games,just a honest relationship.
pulsegang 1 year ago 3
I HATE "the chase". I take it as a hint and lose interest. There's SO many women out there, only one ME, and only 24 hours in a day. Why waste any on a game-addled twit?
mowgli2071 1 year ago 3
I think "the chase" is the same as a head game. Some women play the chase game, then find out that the guy is not into the chase and forgets about her, and then she beings to pursue HIM. That may be why some guys think some women are psychos. Just be honest and real. Flirting is fine, but don't make us chase you. Doesn't that show insecurity on both parts? If he's a jerk to begin with, the chase won't make him less of a jerk, and it won't make him love you more... only lust after you more.
GUYWITHICECREAM 1 year ago
aren't you people spaming here>>?? huh - some girls by nature want's to be banged and I hate them - that's you wanna hear - and at the end of the day you see those preety (fetish girls) marrying sorta business man (and it makes you feel FUCK EM)
tehrani101 1 year ago
the married guy is so some sort of a weirdo :D
HerbertusBraeu 1 year ago 34
ah ha! steven fabien, from channel one...we watch it at our school...LOL
brownDASHsweater 2 years ago
Play that game with me and you are gone, I just move on..
freshhug 2 years ago
1:25, that green guy is a creep
MadelynMarieMusic 2 years ago
And remember bubblehead, the older women get, the less valuable they are for reproduction. Yet, the older men get, the more options he has with young and old females alike. So you my dear are a depreciating asset. I hope you used your youth wisely (obviously you didnt spend it in the classroom). Watch and see how less and less men pursue you as time goes by. Yet if you had something else to offer (like a personality), you would have had a chance to be with someone worthwhile. Good luck.
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Yeah, so what? Sorry, mate, females still invest more. Just means we can have sex without worrying about pregnancy :) And, actually, unfortunately for you- the older a man gets the morely likely he his to have faulty sperm. Hardly god's gift to healthy babies. Lol, no, I'm only spending my youth studying in a rather excellent uni, that's all. You're a silly little kid and I doubt any woman will propagate your genes for you.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Thank you for supporting my view. If older men have faulty sperm, why are they still attractive to young and women alike? Ah ha, because its not about reproduction! Why is it that older men become "distinguished"? Most likely because they become more successful as time goes on. And with success comes women. We wont want to use our faulty sperm with you, we only want to see you naked. And if you continue to drop your pants just because we are successful, then so be it. Now sit on your thumb
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Lol, sure I did. Mostly because they're actually grown ups, as opposed younger men and that can outweigh the attractiveness bit, especially when the woman isn't ovulating. You're right- the older man may not be about reproduction, he may be about money. The woman may already have slept with the younger man. Provision is attractive, that doesn't mean the successful man gives the sperm. Lol, who's 'dropped their pants' for you boy? What's that? NO ONE?
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
I´ll give you an example. I was with about 10 guy friends once for a wedding. All are really great guys who are very successful, and very considerate (good catches). Yet one was only focused on sex. Being an attractive guy, he got alot of attention from the ladies. He pursued and had sex with one of the best looking girls at the reception. The girl turned out to be a friend of mine. She was sad because he never called her again. Remember, the one who pursues who isnt always the right one
hcoprdice 2 years ago
My advice to all the girls out there. If you see a man who you believe is worthy, make an effort to get his attention. It doesnt need to be much, just something to let him know that you are interested. You are lucky enough that you can choose your man, so dont base your decision on a guy who pursues you. Normally a successful guy doesnt have much time to do the pursuing, so if you want this type, you will have to catch his eye.
hcoprdice 2 years ago
do man like the chase !! perhaps it depends on the situation.
I ll get really turned off if a girl makes me to chase her. certnly its gona be a turn off if she try to play a game of being too cold.
DhaItalianStallion 2 years ago
ahhh im in a "chase" right now and its intense.. in all honesty its really fun, but dont you think it shouldnt always be the guy to chase? sometimes it just gets tiring and its like common ladies.. give us a break and let us actually have a civilized conversation with you
MiKePaRkEr235 2 years ago
I REFUSE to chase. Either you're interested or you're not. If you're not, I won't be offended. I simply move on and there will be someone else that will be interested.
But, if you're going to act interested one day and completely ignore me the next, I WILL move on and you will NOT get a second chance.
I have a life to live and better things to do. If you're interested, make it known, one of us asks the other out, and we take it from there.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Haha, oh dear. You actually will never end up with anyone. The fact of the matter is.....the chase is biologically driven. Women contribute much more to reproduction than men do, so actually in a way you do need to prove you're the best she could pick. If you don't chase/put effort in any woman will find someone worth her while and that's reality.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Another woman that thinks her pussy is gold plated. No one contributes more to reproduction. Without one, the other is irrelevant.
The chase being biologically driven is bullshit. Supposedly, women staying at home, cooking/cleaning, and spreading her legs was biological. We all know that's not the case.
I've been in relationships where I didn't have to chase. Chasing is a game. Self-respecting men(and women) do not play games. Life is too short to play games.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Lol, what a charmer you are. A lonely one too I'll bet. No, I think you'll find the female of the species has a significantly higher parental investment and to claim otherwise is to be guilty of idiocy. It's perfectly simple, and I've already spelled it out for you. You've clearly been in relationships with girls with no self-value. I was actually doing you a favour here but it's obvious you have some bitter issues.
Hopefully no woman will be stupid enough to propagate your genes for you.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Actually, I've clearly been in relationships with girls that had high self-esteem, self-respect, and confidence. The only stupid girl is one that actually reads your comments and uses it as a guide.
I'm not a bitter person at all. I refuse to date someone that has low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Every girl I've gone out with has self-value. Those that expect a man to chase has no self-value. Playing games shows no self-value and immaturity.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Ooh get you, angry boy. I very much doubt that, or if they were it sounds like they got wise. You're a little muddled, aren't you? I expect a man to make an effort and therefore I have no self-worth? Right. Chasing isn't about games, I said nothing about teasing. Anyway, I don't really care about you ending up alone that much so cheerio.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
When you get off your throne, you'll see that no self-respecting man is going to chase your bitch ass.
When you stop expecting a man to chase and acknowledge that women are no better than men, then you will find a decent man.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Lol, god you're just so charming, aren't you?
I never said women were better than men, dear, I said that for reproduction we invest significantly more time and effort which is why the male of the species has to work to prove himself. You see this in much of the animal kingdom and I was merely enlihghtening you. Clearly you are too insecure to take on the truth. Sad.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
You claim to invest more time and you still struggle to find decent men. Men are starting to learn that they do not need women. We don't need to prove ourselves. Quite the opposite in fact. Not very big on logic and reasoning, are we my dear?
If I was insecure, I would be chasing women like a dog treat, like the other boys. I, however am a man. I have my own life, responsibilities, and obligations.
The Queen of England called. She wants her throne back.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Lmao. Oh dear oh dear. First of all.....I don't struggle to find decent men. Secondly, you cannot debate that women have more personal investment in reproduction- that's nature and yes, sorry, but men do need women in order to perpetuate the species and you are required to make an effort so that you will be chosen.
Do you actually know what' logic and reasoning' is darling?
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
You want logic? Here's some logic: In order for you to have offspring, you need sperm. So now, you don't have more personal investment. Without men, women can't reproduce. There goes your "women have more investment" logic. See how far you get with that.
You want rules? Here's rule #1 in dating: There are no rules. You think I should be thanking you? That's laughable at the very least. If my ways didn't work, you would have a solid argument. Too bad you don't.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Of course, but guess what: It's not hard to get a man to give you some sperm. You truly are a stupid little boy. Here's a biology lesson for you dear- women get pregnant, give birth, breastfeed and give the majority of care. Does that take more time and effort than an ejaculation? I think so. So yes, our investment in reproduction is significantly more than yours therefore you must prove that you are the best sperm and it will be worth our efforts. I know you hate the facts of life, dear.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Still with the "holier than thou" attitude. You'll get very far with that attitude. And since more men are choosing to stay single, I guess we don't have to prove ourselves. That's another fact of life.
If any man goes out of his way to "proove himself" to you, I'll be praying for him. Cunts like you make horrible girlfriends.
You're a stupid little girl, thinking her pussy is gold plated lol. Good luck with that attitude these days. It may have worked in the past, but not now.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
No, dear, I just know the facts of life- like you really should. I never said the fact that women become pregnant makes us 'better', but it IS the reason why the male of the species is known to compete more for the female. You do have to prove yourself if you want offspring, I don't mean generally ffs lol. Darling, you lead a sad sad life and you have a lot to learn. I feel very sorry for you. Your replies will not be read.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
You're not going to read my replies because you know I'm right. My life is great and I have no intentions of changing. You feel sorry for me? You're the pathetic one. Enjoy the rest of your life in fantasy land.
FuturePBABowler 2 years ago
Just because a man is charming and most persistent in chasing you that doesn't mean he will be the best choice for a mate.
Any man worth mating with has to make the huge investment of providing and caring for his mate and his offspring. He'll stand by the mother of his children, protect them and be devoted to them for as long as he lives.
Want a man like that? Earn one.
Men are not just here to make sperm.
Pumpkinhead77 2 years ago
"I don't struggle to find decent men."
Men struggle to find decent women though. It's your turn to prove yourself.
Pumpkinhead77 2 years ago
I have absolutely no need to do so. Thank mother nature.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
bumblybee, you sound like a bumbling idiot. Do you realize that men now a days dont pursue women to reproduce? Your Darwin beliefs are very outdated. Yes, our biology makes us hunt you, but we are smarter than average animals to know that we dont want to get you pregnant. Trust me, guys only pursue you for sex, nothing more. Dont feel special, because we pursue just about anyone without a penis. If your theory is correct, why then darling do you believe we pull out?
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Sorry, whether you 'want' to reproduce or not the drive is still there for a reason. There is still behaviour we unconsciously adhere to. Wanting sex is all the male needs to want since you don't really need to be involved afterwards. I don't feel special because of that, dear lol, I should probably tell you that penis envy is a myth too *shock*. Well, 'darling' , AGAIN: you may not consciously want children but your body still drives you to reproduce (btw 'pulling out' is not foolproof lol)
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Bumblybee, you are a broken record. You say the same things over and over again without really saying anything that we all dont already know. Let me break it down for you. Please dont believe that the man who pursues you the most is the most worthy to be your donor. It just means he is the horniest at that moment, and wants to be inside you worse than the other guy. Again, he does not want to get you pregnant. Our drive has nothing to do with this video ¨"do we like the chase"
hcoprdice 2 years ago
I know, I wish to god you'd get it through your thick skull the first time. I DON'T believe the man who pursues the most is necessarily the most worthy, they could just be a stalker, but it's about EFFORT. Your sex drive has everything to do with reproduction, that's what sex is for, dolthead.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Ok, I now believe you are special, yellow bus special.Please look at the definitions. Pursue: To follow in an effort to overtake or capture. Effort: The use of physical or mental energy to do something. They are basically one in the same,so no matter how much effort a guy makes it doesnt represent a good catch. Also, sex drive has nothing to do with reproduction. If that is what sex is for, why did the men in your life only give you a pearl necklace?
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Darling boy.Yes, pursuing someone is making an effort- pursuing in the right way. I trust my own judgement as to whether the pursuer in question is decent or not BUT that effort must be there. Sex drive has everything to do with reproduction, that's why it exists, you nad.
What EXACTLY do you imagine the function of sex mainly is?
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
You should ponder on this question more bubblebutt. If sex is for reproduction, why do alot of men only want one night stands? Why do men want to sleep with as many women as possible, so they can brag to their friends abot how many girls they´ve slept with? And why are men so careful with where they release their love lotion? Please if sex had anything to do with reproduction nowadays, you could have possibly gotten a return phone call from the guy who seduced you the other night.
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Lol. WOW. Think of it this way, my little imbecile. What more do men need to do to reproduce? If anything you've just backed me up. Men are programmed to be promiscuous to maximise their reproductive success. What the hell do you think sex is lmao, it's the stork isn't it?
Your attempts to goad me fail miserably, mostly because I have the warm glow of an education. Now go and sit in the corner and contemplate your lack thereof.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Again, you dance in circles. Dont you get dizzy? For the last time, men are not promiscuous because we want to reproduce. If that were the case, all men (not just most) would be sleeping with each girl he sees in hopes she would get pregnant. Look at it another way. If women were programmed to want the penis (in order to get pregnant), why are you rubbing yourself on top of your pillow at night? And why is that vibrating thing constantly out of batteries? Neither has ejaculate.
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Jesus Christ. The thickness of your skull. It has NOTHING to do with what you WANT, boy wonder. It is an INSTINCT, a drive. You are predisposed to find certain women attractive because they send signals of fertility. It doesn't matter what you WANT because after ejaculation you can get lost for all anyone cares. You've played your role.
Orgasms are pleasurable, didn't you know that. You've so may questions don't you? Lil virgin boy.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
If our instinct is to find women who are sending signals during times of fertility, why is it that women are horniest and wanting sex during their period? Dont you know that is the least likely time to get pregnant?
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Lol, well no, not all women are horny during their period ACTUALLY but that can be because there's alot of tension and orgasm releases that. The defination of sex is the mixing of genes for reproduction but it can have other 'side effects.'
And for your info women are at their most attractive during ovulation- as has been shown through subtle signals like pheromones.
Thanks, I know more about my own biology than you do, idiot boy.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago 3
Ok, lets just cut to the chase. We just showed everyone on youtube that this video is correct. Guys love the chase. Our discussion has been heated, but its heat of passion. I pursued you through debate, and I can tell I´m slowly working my way into your pants. All in about 15 minutes. Just think if we were face to face....we might be bumping uglies before the night is up. Of course, not with the intention of getting you pregnant, only for simple pleasure. Whats your phone number?
hcoprdice 2 years ago
Lol, no, it's not 'passion' dear, it's a disagreement. I reckon you think you've been successful goading people into punching you before but you aren't bothering me, you're a cretinous fool and if we were face to face, god forbid, I'd be destroying your self-esteem. I'm glad you've admitted defeat, now fuck off.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago 2
mmmm, your dirty words give me goosebumps. just dont forget that potty mouth when you join me for a tango dance in my bedroom. Ahhh foreplay, dont you just love it? Who would have thought a disagreement could lead to something like this? Just dont pursue me to aggresively after the first night. I may just lose interest. But thats the risk we take for love. Thank you for your phone number in my private email. I´ll call you alittle later (if I feel the need).
hcoprdice 2 years ago
lmao, the defeated words of the horniest, and yet most rejected, little guy on youtube.I now understand that you think and talk with your dick and therefore are incapable of making sense.
Your stalker-esque replies won't be read. Have fun with your special alone time.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
As far as it being 'my turn' btw, our biology has not changed and until it does neither will reproductive behaviour.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
The fact is that many men find attitudes like yours unattractive; even repulsive. Explain that.
Pumpkinhead77 2 years ago
Many may find it unattractive, it only indicates they haven't thought about it much. I imagine it's very hard to tell my exact thoughts from my behaviour alone.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
Contd...
No, not chasing just any women but if you really wanted to be with a woman in particular that you liked you'd make an effort- otherwise why on earth should she bother with you? And if you don't play by the rules, you won't get anyone worth having. You ought to be thanking me, dear. Good for you, and no one to ever share it with. Have fun.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
maybe I agree with both of you.
when it comes to chasing, am nt sure whether women think inorder to base their reasons on the fact of reproduction,
But yet they might make the man chase them.
DhaItalianStallion 2 years ago
cont patr 2
Some are really shy n others get so exited that they behave in odd ways as if commanding the man to chase. so perhaps even if a woman is not basing her conclusion on the biological factor, due to this biological factor, nature has assured that woman have some moves which makes the process longer.
DhaItalianStallion 2 years ago
part 3
besides (1)shy girls n those that night get exited n not know whats going on,there r perhas (2)the other women who just want to say I am a goldplate n do nt have much respect to the man.
Sadly most man know about category (2) and (I am a man and can tell sincerel) due to that the chase acts as a huge turn off for the man.
DhaItalianStallion 2 years ago
I don't suggest that most women would consciously think about our reproductive roles and then elect to only ever respond to the best 'chaser' but I think it ends up that way as we are predisposed to do so due to the nature of reproduction. We can be picky.
Bumblybee256 2 years ago
It's knowing what type of girl you are dealing with.. Some women like to get over on clueless guys as a power thing because the real boyfriend treats her badly ,but its a turn on to her, so we all know who she has been doing it with while clueless buys her dinners and never gets even a kiss but she keeps hinting that she may want to get serious, to keep him around, Welcome to the jungle.
HYPNOTICVIDEO 2 years ago
Yeah it's kinda why I don't bother with dating. It gets me all disillusioned about human nature. But if you just stay single and have friends and stuff, people seem nicer. Weird!
D3adGoon 2 years ago
I think the chase is great! However, if she has absolutely no intention on ever going out with the guy, then she's being cruel, a tease. Which is misleading to say the least. I never approach men, and I suck at flirting, but I'm always respectful when men approach me, unless they come off as complete cavemen, then I just walk away.
letish 2 years ago
i hate when people play games, if you like a girl and she gives you her number dont wait days before calling, just call
monica0soares 2 years ago
Honestly, ladies. If you're not interested in a guy, just let him know. Be kind and gentile, but seriously. Just let him know, so he can stop wasting his time
And guys: As much as the feminist movement tried to argue against this, the delicacies of being a woman are very significant. Keep your hands to yourself and honor her body by keeping it exactly what it is: Sacred. I can't tell you how important that is.
beebaytah 2 years ago 2
so if a girl is not into a guy, it really is better just to come out and say it? it wouldn't hurt their feelings or pride or whatever?
Thunderflower367 2 years ago
wouldn't mine.
libed91 2 years ago
women only want metrosexual men they say they dont but its bullshit women always say what they want is what they really dont want there confussing as fuck and i just dont bother try to understand them i talk but the moment i feel she is feeding me bullshit i dont freeze up like i used to i just walk away 95% of the time we are going to get that from women its just there behavior unless you are metrosexual
ANDREW26101 2 years ago
Bitter, much?
Just because you find the same kind of girl over and over again doesn't mean there aren't normal girls out there. You're probably in middle or high school... If not, you sure sound like it. Stop being bitter, grow up a little, and you'll find a girl worth chasing.
beebaytah 2 years ago
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aye fuck that shit, if a bitch says no to me they get told to go fuck thereself haha
dessiesdoneit 2 years ago
Wow. A gathering of conmen. Observe them in their natural state . . .
dpardini79 2 years ago
Please explain.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
lmao that one guy likes toes and "cougars"
dont listen to him
WeaknessPaysCash 2 years ago
lol
steej45 2 years ago
Goodness, a couple of them are QUITE metrosexual.
EffieReal 2 years ago
if u are a girl please please do not say no if u like the guy just because u "think" he will chase...cuz it would be soo sad to watch him not....
XxArkhamxAsylumxX 2 years ago 4
Actually there are several ways to say "chase me" without saying no... I agree with you
maxi0805 2 years ago
Hahahahaha.
Ok, so let me get this straight. If we both like each other, and you ask for my number, you want me to give you a fake one so you can't contact me? Well, if that doesn't make sense, then I don't know what does...
Zeaky0arteest 2 years ago
don't lisen to these guy if a proud guy ask you out witch half of men are proud and you think that chase thing works and say no he will never ask you out again atleast thats how it works for me
danielkrieger1 2 years ago
That sounds a little more legit thanks lol :-)
Zeaky0arteest 2 years ago
No, they are saying that, if your not interested on a guy, dont give them your real number and then ignore their calls, just give them a fake number. Atleast thats more direct and lets us know not to waste our time with you.
davidgzmn12345 2 years ago
I like a girl from my neighborhood, and i think im a descent man, but she doesnt want anything with me, and when i see the guys she dates i said to myself "wtf thes guys are just wanderers that that sell drugs to kids" (seriously they sell drugs), well Is her choice if she like to play that way
zeroman1080 2 years ago
lol...this men are so gay, I bet they are still single because of these lame ideas and advice
wizebeni 2 years ago 14
A tip to all the ladies! THe rule is: you have to play and you NEED to KNOW "HOW TO PLAY
If you are interested in the guy, you HAVE TO LET HIM KNOW that you are interested. At the same time you also need to let him know that you are NOT desperate. Bottom line is that everything has to be done in moderation. That's what will keep the game fun.
I believe that ladies needs to be a picky. Just because we like a guy, doesn't mean we should start a relationship with him right away.
coldviva204 2 years ago
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coldviva204 2 years ago
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I also think that we shouldn't rush into things. To find the perfect guy, we need to make sure that he has everything that we are looking for in a man. This is takes a lot of time, patience and observation.
coldviva204 2 years ago
Some people like the chase, some don't. These are just the opinions of these five men. I hate games. One of the things my husband loved about me is that I don't play them. If I knew I wanted him, why would I play hard to get? I said yes to everything right away! We're happily married! I guess it just depends on the person.
janetitan 2 years ago
I hate "the chase". I'm not about to be pulled around by some female like a toy on a string.
You're either in love with me or you're a memory.
BookCollector100 2 years ago 3
So, ur single then? Lol just kidding.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
The Chase is a very false concept. Men who are busy, sincere and have ambitions in their lives do not like to waste time on games. Honesty is the best policy. This chase concept is usualy used by women who have a list of unwanted men to reject them and pick the best possible available. As for men they do not want a very hard girl to obtain, the real challenge is keeping a woman not chasing her. Trust me I'm a man. Also the panel is Hollywood centric, too stereotypical.
scarletflip 2 years ago 6
yes yes yes yes yes man
clappic 2 years ago
truth i hate teh chase thing, i had alredy lost too much time with this fucking chases, como on just simmply say yes im interested in you period, that way i can invest my money in a woman that really pretends something with me
zeroman1080 2 years ago
even though they're total jerks and stuck ups, i would still date steven :p
sgtank123 2 years ago
I am not attracted to any of these guys. But they think they're hot stuff that a girl would be lucky to get.
momoxoxo22 2 years ago
We know all Sagittarians and Aries men do. Are you?
DeathShamans 2 years ago
Leos too.
Crazzzybabie 2 years ago
The 2nd guy would take what he could get as he is not good lucking and has no humour so will not score much.
sinwow33 2 years ago
If a boy asks you out he likes you. If a girl says yes the first time, she likes you too.
There are guys out there who will be crushed the first time you say no.
This video is so one sided, as in these are not the only types of guys out there.
ReyFan4Life619 2 years ago 2
Of COURSE a girl who says yes the first time you ask her is a turn off . . . to guys that are EXTREMELY SUCCESSFUL IN DATING!!!
Murphator 2 years ago
WOW you guys actually made a video that kinda made since
korikuulei 2 years ago
You always have to stay ahead of girls or females because at the end of the day we compete. It has nothin to do with weather u respect em or not. Its common sense. and if u dont get any it means u are doing VERY WELL staying ahead. Trust me in the long run..wahahaha.
afrikxquisite 2 years ago
this only works if you both want each other initially, if not don't even bother tryin this. Also, i personally find it kind of annoying if a girl just keeps rejecting me if i know she likes me.
Endevour01 2 years ago 2
big woop!!
cutiemefirsty 2 years ago
Whats better than getting something through hard work? Getting the same thing with no work at all!
Come on... you can disagree all you want, but this is the truth. It's the most intelligent effort/payoff scenario. it's the most rational thing to do, logically and in terms of evolution.
tugafighter 2 years ago
I beg to differ - I'm a girl and I like it when they initially reject me or play tough - I hate it when the guy is kind of drooling over me even if I really like him - it's just boring. But if I have worked hard to get him , then the satisfaction I get when he finally gives in is Amazing!
regardsfrom 2 years ago
There is no reason whatsoever to pretend you are not interested when you are! Thats just being difficult for no reason, and simple things are almost always better from a design perspective!
tugafighter 2 years ago
girls who give out their numbers and not pickup are actually more rude then girls who don't give their numbers at all. Its giving somebody false hope. Stop being selfish and always thinking about yourself and your low self-esteem and start thinking about the guy who likes you.
VendettaVince 2 years ago 2
your all liars coz you all flop the mikey YOUR GAY OR BOI
DsiturbiaBabe 2 years ago
I hate it when the girl overly plays the chase to much, then I just lose interest.
frostythesn0wman 2 years ago 7
the reason we sometimes give out our number, and then don't pick up, is because we don't wanna be blatantly rude, and be like um NO, you may not have my number to their face.
LovelyLady1090 2 years ago 2
You understand my dilemma...seriously
GoodGirlGoneBad656 2 years ago
Its more rude to give your number and then not picking up because then its like you making fun of us.
We call you thinking "she gave me her number, she must be interested" and then you dont answer, its like saying to our face "your an idiot, do you really thought i was going to pick up?"
Just be honest and say "no", both are a way of rejecting us, but not picking up is the cowardly and stupid way to do it.
davidgzmn12345 2 years ago 3
Some girls are afraid of hurting a guys feelings to his face like that so they beat around the bush. I know it sux.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
cowards
lederhosen4life 2 years ago
yes, it is cowardly
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
a "chase" is sth guys make up when a girl simply doesn't desire them, and men think she does that on purpose - in reality shes with someone already and she's just making fun of you
MultiHoudini 2 years ago 14
hahahahhaaa soooo true!!!!!!
I couldn't agree with you more!
devilishdiamond 2 years ago
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close your eyes
2.say your crush
3.touch a body part
4.copy and paste on two dif videos
5.youre crush will touch you there tommorow
gaara319 2 years ago
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this really works!
1. cover ur mouth with ur hand
2. make a wish into it
3. close ur hand into a fist
4. hold ur fist 2 ur heart 4 5 seconds
5. send to 3 more vids
6. 2mrw will be the best day of ur life
SLAHSthe2 2 years ago
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who are these guys? does anyone listen to these guys. a real man does not need to chase a women. these guys are geeks. these guys are women themselves, look at the way they act.
goodlookin41 2 years ago
a real man does not need to chase a woman? well.......thats no fun.
roxyroxy34 2 years ago 2
They are real men who respect women.Not stupid jerks who force themselves on women.
ThEiMpErSoNaToR7 2 years ago 4
even the biggest heart breakers can sometimes end up chasing after a girl.
LovelyLady1090 2 years ago
"If you go out with me, drop of the hat."
hahahahahaha
boomboomrama 2 years ago
Okay. So far I've learned Michael likes the European look, high heels, toes and feet (from the fashion video) and he enjoyed being teased by a girl for an entire year before having sex. He clearly needs a dominatrix in his life.
MichelleKenobi 2 years ago 4
ummm, STEVE, darling????? I've been saving myself for George Clooney, but u may just be the next best thing :)))
u're adorable
Nanusyonok 2 years ago 2
the guy who's actually presenting the show seems the sweetest and i'd date him any time lol ;) , and the rest of the guys are just dumb
GoldXrose 2 years ago 5
You know what, guys? If a girl rejects you, SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. Women don't like to play mind games except when it comes to other women.
If I like a guy, he will know right away and won't have to guess at it. However, women want more than just sex out of a relationship, so if that's all you want out of her, you're not going to get it.
princesspout89 2 years ago 2