ENFJ Personality: A Female's Perspective

[killthemallism]

im an INTJ and i also forget to eat when i start to talk about things with my family

[yourfriendjaneen]

Cute video <3!

[EmeraldxFairy]

@yourfriendjaneen Thank you for your comment! :)

[pmbkitty123]

i am enfj....saddly i put forth others feelings rather than my own, it tares me up..

[EmeraldxFairy]

@pmbkitty123 Hi pmbkitty123. Thank you for stopping by!

[EmeraldxFairy]

@Sjevtic120

Hi, thank you for your comment. I didn't realize you had commented on my vid so I apologize for my late response. The confusing thing for many people, is that we all have these traits. Even if, say someone is an E and a J, they won't always be that way, and may switch around to I and P once in a while. The test is to see what you normally tend to lean towards. What you prefer or what you are more comfortable in. Hopefully that cleared things up a bit for you. :)

[CloudWatcherX]

i am just wondering what is the difference between enfj and enfp....or enfj and infp for that matter. im an infp so i am kind a confused where the differences are.

[EmeraldxFairy]

@CloudWatcherX Well Sophia Miller from New Earth, first I would like to say "Hi". Now to your question. The last letter refers to how you make up your mind: a P tends to be open longer and takes time reaching a conclusion, a J forms their conclusion first. The E is someone who wants to make love, and the I is someone who wants to make history. barcode9588 has more videos dealing with this subject matter. That should answer your questions further. Good day to you. =)

[CloudWatcherX]

@EmeraldxFairy lol you were pretty precise about who i am. i am guessing you know me from fb. well thanks for explaining it.

[fairiebee]

Hm! This is interesting. Dark City is your favorite film? Very interesting. love to go into rants about science "stuff" [I am an INTJ]. This was a great little video! My best friend is an ENFJ and she and I are like PB & J. :)

[EmeraldxFairy]

@fairiebee Thank you for your nice comment, fairiebee! Yeah, I think that NF's and NT's go together quite well and balance each other out, though at first the two types might seem to be the opposite. Or it could very well be that this is the very reason why they get along so well! :)

[fairiebee]

@EmeraldxFairy I agree completely. NFs and NTs compliment one another really well. I love being around NFs and my NF friends become very attached to me as well. We just seem to understand each other. :) I thought you expressed that really well.

[EmeraldxFairy]

@fairiebee Thank you fairiebee! :) I'm thinking of making another video about personalities in the future. But I'm quite a slacker when it comes to things like that. Now, if only I had the drive as an introvert has, it would've happened by now, but unfortunately, I'm an extravert, so it'll be a while. haha :)

[youannazara]

thanks for the video. it was nice

[EmeraldxFairy]

Thank you youannazara!  :)

[scraderz20]

im ENFJ my mum INFJ ,other ENFJ's are barack obama,ronald regan and abraham lincon cool eh

[EmeraldxFairy]

Hey scraderz20,

Thanks for your comment fellow ENFJ! I didn't know there were many idealists in political fields, but if there are, that's pretty cool because maybe they'll help make the world a better place.

[sheriffquick]

@scraderz20 Im not sure about that....Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan and abraham Lincolm are known INTROVERTS..........

[EmeraldxFairy]

@sheriffquick @scraderz20 Thanks for your input, sheriffquick. I was rather surprised too, that those three would be listed as ENFJ's, or even INFJ's for that matter...I was thinking idealists would be more involved with amnesty, or artistic endeavors, rather than politics. But, what do I know? They say Oprah is an idealist, which was a surprise. I thought she's more an artisan. I wonder how accurate those personality tests are...?

[Schischmischrox]

One of my closest friends is ENFJ and she is exactly how you describe yourself! Great vid. (Oh, and I am an INTJ rational and my ENFJ friend likes my level headed side!)

[EmeraldxFairy]

Thank you for your comment Schischmischrox,

I agree with your ENFJ friend, I like rationals' "level headed-ness" very much too! That's something all us idealists can learn from.

[barcode9588]

Great video. I've noticed that the internet (ie. forums, chatrooms, etc.) tend to have very few ENFJs. In general I find that INTPs, INTJs, INFJs, and INFPs tend to dominate the internet, which is interesting considering that in the general population they are the 4 rarest types.

[EmeraldxFairy]

Thank you barcode9588,

Yes, I noticed that as well. I figured that it might be because the E's will be outside doing something versus the I's who would prefer doing something inside the house? I don't know, but either way it's very interesting.

[EmeraldxFairy]

And since I's prefer to stay indoors, there would be more of them on the computer? I think that's probably something that could be researched/studied if they ever come out with a new book on personality types.

[fashionandmusic921]

hiii. I'm an infj, so I suppose this makes us cousins.

[EmeraldxFairy]

Hi fashionandmusic921,

I just noticed your comment and realized that I didn't reply, so 6 months later, I just wanted to say thanks! and a big wave from your personality cousin, ENFJ.

[adelfred]

Hi fellow ENFJ!!!

[EmeraldxFairy]

Hi adelfred,

I just noticed your comment here and realized I didn't reply, so 6 months later, I wanted to say thanks and a big wave from a fellow ENFJ.

[brian423]

Greetings from an ISFP Composer Artisan. I seem to be somewhat unusual among Artisans for having acquired a taste for philosophical discussion. However, Oscar Wilde and Hugh Hefner are among my role models as Artisan philosophers.

[EmeraldxFairy]

Thanks brian423! :)

I think Oscar Wilde and Hugh Hefner are cool too.

Artisans definitely make the world more interesting to live in. They're great!

[brian423]

Do you and your husband ever discuss education? Teacher Idealists are an endearingly good influence on the rest of us. Unfortunately, the American public school system tends to drive a wedge between your kind and my kind. Neither of us wants that! Our public schools are modeled after those of the absolute monarchy of nineteenth-century Prussia. I was traumatized by the authoritarian mindf*** there. I deserved better! Please Google "John Taylor Gatto" and think it over. Thanks!

[EmeraldxFairy]

Yeah, I totally agree. My husband still gets anxiety if he catches a "Back To School" commercial. Some of his colleagues are in education and when he told them that he's only had two good teachers in his lifetime, their response was "oh, you were lucky to have that many". His favorite quote is "It is the least academically gifted who drift into teaching, transmitting their own saddened mediocrity to generations of bored students." - George Steiner

[EmeraldxFairy]

Thank you for John Taylor Gatto.

And here's something for you:(put the normal youtube address here and add this to the end:) /watch?v=p2acXjdPzlY

Gallagher's Take on the Schools

[brian423]

Thank you for the Gallagher clip. That's fun. I'm so bitter about my experience of school that I see my parents as essentially war criminals for their part in forcing me to endure it.