Bastian's Birth - Part 7

[13hamsterluver]

this is kinda gross but also very beautiful congrats

[isarma42]

@13hamsterluver Gross and beautiful - sounds like a birth to me :)

[TENNSUMITSUMA]

1 how is this allowed but not porn? are some vaginas special and others not?

2 why woudl you post this? when he gets older dont you think kids at school (in all grades and maybe even college) will get on his ass about it.

[isarma42]

@TENNSUMITSUMA Vaginas giving birth = not porn. Vaginas having sex = porn.

2. To educate and share. I gained so much from the resources on the internet, I wanted to add mine to the communal knowledge.

[MrCircus177]

O.o Idk if i can ever be normal again..... but... uhhhh... Congrats?

[isarma42]

@MrCircus177 Normal is overrated.  Thanks :)

[sasebosbest]

Giving birth to Let it be by the beatles. Fucking EPIC.

[isarma42]

@sasebosbest I was really pleased shuffle chose that song for that moment, too :)

[MsRenan212]

is baby ??

[isarma42]

@MsRenan212 Yes?

[destruidor12]

god dam ! congratulations for your son but theres a problem , when bastians get younger what his friends will tell , hey man whatzup i saw your mother pussy in youtube or jokes like this .

[mr931126]

i cant watching this, still i putted it in my favorites x)

[semkasa]

OmG, This is why i have the utmost respect for women, damn that looked dangerous and beautiful at the same time, thanks for posting this video!

[isarma42]

@semkasa Thanks :)

[PROUNTOS]

Life!! \m/

[isarma42]

@PROUNTOS Yes!

[xXjessisonfirexX]

omfg this is like shocking ! i didnt know birth was like this!!

[isarma42]

@xXjessisonfirexX Most people have no idea what a natural birth looks like. That's the point of videos like this :)

[ludoluneloki]

congrats ( i know im like 5 years late) the music threw me off tho

[isarma42]

@ludoluneloki Thanks :)

[mrLakkiss]

after seeying this i wont have a baby

[isarma42]

@mrLakkiss I think it's wonderful that you'd try to expose yourself to birth videos before making that kind of decision :)

[tylerashwin]

ew ew ew cute but ew congrats :) ew im 15 i shouldnt be seeing this

[isarma42]

@tylerashwin Thanks! On the contrary, I think we should teach kids about birth and their bodies much earlier than we do. It scares all of us so much because we're not exposed to it as normal at an early age.

[fingermand]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO SO MUCH!!!

[isarma42]

@fingermand Thanks!

[dferg1793]

Haha this whole thing is awesome glad I'm a dude though

[isarma42]

@dferg1793 Thanks!

[miltwife]

beautiful baby hun

[isarma42]

@miltwife Thanks!

[sakoupa]

Wtf? Why somebody all time was keeping his hands on perineum??? And why this woman has two assholes??? I don't understand this humbug.

[isarma42]

@sakoupa 1) Because I asked him to. 2) I don't, but I do have a pronounced dimple under my tailbone.

[hubbaman9885]

While I commend you for such a courageous decision, my only question is, why would you have others around (unless they are assisting you in the actual birth) to watch? Just curious.

[isarma42]

@hubbaman9885 I'm very social and feel most at home surrounded by those I love. I wanted each person there, as I'm close to all of them. I loved having my baby welcomed by my community.

re: Courageous - google "Brave has nothing to do with it"

[blagoj135x]

nice music

[isarma42]

@blagoj135x Thanks!

[ReviewCam]

I love that Let It Be was playing while he was being born. I've never been able to have kids, and have watched many videos on You Tube but this one...everything about it amazes me. I think the song Let It Be describes how I would like to approach child birth if I were able to.

[isarma42]

@ReviewCam Me, too! I love how shuffle chose that, right at that moment. It gave me strength during the pushing, too.

[RaineaTrenton]

Why are they playing Janet Jackson while a woman is giving birth?

[isarma42]

@RaineaTrenton There is no "they". I chose everything, including the music.

[DMNDStudios]

big girls dont cry lol wtf why are u listing to pink while making a baby out of your vagina lol

[joker35447]

What wonderful encouragement from the midwife. Bravo.

[isarma42]

@joker35447 No midwives - just my friends.  This was a UC. We're a pretty educated crowd, though.

[Destro088]

so thats what it looks like

[isarma42]

@Destro088 Yup!

[joachimwmusic]

beautiful miracle of life :) however it looks like the baby cant breathe with only the head sticking out

[isarma42]

@joachimwmusic He's still in his amniotic sac and he's attached to the umbilical cord. He doens't need to breathe just yet. He breathes beautifully once he's out.

[jminfante]

congratulations!! amazing

[isarma42]

@jminfante Thanks :)

[MerchandiseRichTV]

IM SEEING 3 HOLES...can somebody explain?

[isarma42]

@MerchandiseRichTV I don't have 3 holes. The top one is my tailbone, which has a very deep dimple.

[brelson23]

you were very courageous for posting this. Pay no mind to the naysayers as they are just regurgitating their religious and cultural ideologies. For me and my wife, this video was very educational and i thank you. Congrats!!!

[NIKS12132017]

this is why i am so scared of child birth.............the pain =[

[isarma42]

@NIKS12132017 It can be intense, but it's worth it. Maybe check out hypnobabies? It can be really helpful for pain management.

[twi265t37]

これ死んでるん？

[isarma42]

@twi265t37 Nope, just being born - see the next video in the series.

[ThoSe414NiGhTs]

THUMBS UP FOR FERGIE!! playing in the background 'Its personal between me myself and I that babies head has got some straightening out to do and it need that like a baby needs a blanket"

[isarma42]

@ThoSe414NiGhTs hahaha!  That's awesome.

[nornor06]

poor lady, she had a rough time. I never seen an anal get that big. birth is rough.

[isarma42]

@nornor06 It can be! And yeah, my poor butt. That took longer to heal than my vagina.

[quintensky]

he just popped out... he is beautiful =) i just can't wait for mine

[isarma42]

@quintensky Thanks!  Happy birthing :)

[Screwedup3013]

Hii...this is the most beautifull video in the whole world & supporting your wife in your arms while she is giving birth the most valueble present in your life is the proudest moment in a mans life.....hatz off..for posting such a beautifull video,my wife was almost like crying while watching this video

[isarma42]

@Screwedup3013 I'm so glad you guys enjoyed it! <3

[sacbrina]

Congratulations and i am happy for you but what in the world would possess you to put this on youtube. not to mention the strange sick and twisted way i got here but seriously.

[isarma42]

@sacbrina Thanks! I don't really care if people watch it for lewd reasons. That doesn't impact me at all. It's here so that those who need and want it can find it. Many mothers helped me, by sharing their stories and videos. I've now added mine to the communal knowledge.

[1CuriousMew]

negligent. you could have hurt him

[isarma42]

@1CuriousMew Homebirth is far from negligent. Your bias is showing and your ignorance on the topic.

[seanyboyceltic]

I love how his head is just sticking out your ass lol, so cute though! Congratulations!

[isarma42]

@seanyboyceltic It does look like that, doesn't it?

[immyfilm]

Very well done! You have helped countless mothers-to-be in a way 100 lectures or text books could not. We thank you!

[isarma42]

@immyfilm You're so welcome :) Thank YOU.  That's nice to hear.

[11XXshadowXX111]

is like forcing a hard shit! LOL

[isarma42]

@11XXshadowXX111 Kinda :)

[EPICisFUN]

amazing giving life out of your own body and to see it grow in your life, congratulations.

[isarma42]

@EPICisFUN It is! Thanks :)

[lmalbrue]

You gotta laugh at "Big Girls Dont Cry" playing in the background

[isarma42]

@lmalbrue Me, too :)

[MrMedico33]

4:10 the head had become almost crumpled, God has put his hand because he is safe and sound

[isarma42]

@MrMedico33 I'm not sure about the second part of our comment, but to the first - Babies have soft spots because their heads are designed to squish a bit so they can safely be born :)

[69Techno69pt]

Thank God I am not a woman.

[123kaylenful]

congratulations



[isarma42]

@123kaylenful Thanks :)

[NoJohnZz]

Aside from how I got here to begin with, what is the child going to think when his friends show him a video of his mother giving birth on youtube -_-

[isarma42]

@NoJohnZz  He's already seen it :)

[NeverAloneForever]

@isarma42 You showed a four year old his birth?

[isarma42]

@NeverAloneForever Yup!

[andymcbigbright]

you're amazing thanks for this!!!

[isarma42]

@andymcbigbright You're so welcome :)

[MyBlackmagic666]

Why do people do this at home?

[isarma42]

@MyBlackmagic666 Lots of reasons. A better question might be why go to the hospital? Some births are emergencies, but that's rare. Most women don't need and can't benefit from what's offered there. If what you want is a natural, normal birth, it can be very hard to get one at a hospital.

[creamsodaistasty]

@MyBlackmagic666 Many reasons! You don't have people telling you when to do something or how to do it.Nobody forcing anything on you.Nobody taking your baby away to poke or prode it.You can labor how you wantin the comfort of your own home etc.

[d0ct0rsweet]

it looks dead not trying to be mean...

[isarma42]

@d0ct0rsweet He's still in his amniotic sac and connected to the cord. He's not breathing and doesn't even realize he's being born yet :)

[scetdellak]

it gives me shivers to watch this,one of the most amazing video I've ever seen.

[isarma42]

@scetdellak What a nice compliment. Thanks!

[SuperSterns]

i got hic ups but it seems like nothing after this hahaha

[isarma42]

@SuperSterns Hahahaha! So true :)

[MrMedico33]

Poor baby head.. it's a Luck if he is 100% safe today

[isarma42]

@MrMedico33 He's 4 and he's wonderful :)

[DustyMemorys]

Why were they holding you down there? Beautiful video btw! :D

[isarma42]

@DustyMemorys They're mostly letting me lean on them and providing support. They are pressing on my hips because the pressure helped lots during the contractions.

[TheSanguineOne]

Performing labor in that position isn't providing the most facilitating process of childbirth. Very lucky that an episiotomy was unneeded.

[isarma42]

@TheSanguineOne Your information is pretty out-dated. Giving birth in the prone position actually closes the pelvic opening by about 30% and is one of the main reasons women needed all those episiotomies in the first place. Women giving birth naturally, especially at home, rarely need such things.

[0thereaper0]

6:49, the moment the creature gets out.

[0thereaper0]

Shit, what happened to her anus? Did it collapsed? lol

[isarma42]

@0thereaper0 Prolapsed :)

[Ripulse]

How ironic, Big Girls Dont Gry LOL

[isarma42]

@Ripulse RIght?!

[regilanda]

No offense but I just feel like saying stop pressing with your hands inward while she is trying to push out ward! The person pressing with their hands look like their stopping the natural process! "Jeash"

[isarma42]

@regilanda He was a bit firm, but he was just trying to help and it all worked out :) That's the Dad, by the way.

[VideosHDDavid]

si claro que vale la pena

[isarma42]

@VideosHDDavid It is worth it :)

[fingermand]

Mom?...



[isarma42]

@fingermand I'm A Mom?

[isarma42]

@kya7502 Yes, he's real :) What a funny question. He does look a bit shiny. He's still in his amniotic sac.

[3110100803591]

love mum  very ๆ ๆ (^:^)

[isarma42]

@3110100803591 It's nice that this video reminds so many what a mother's love can be. :)

[39182alejandro]

q buen video.......

[isarma42]

@39182alejandro Gracias :)

[gracefulbeauty1985]

How amazing!

[isarma42]

@gracefulbeauty1985 Births are pretty amazing :)

[andres29688]

por mi santa madre q forma de parir es esa

ahora los partos se evaluan , si el feto es grande se nesecita cesarea ahora con la medicina ya avanzada los partos se han hecho para q se hagan sin dolor para q no sehan traumaticos como en este caso,no se han puesto a pensar en el daño psicologico de la madre yel resentimiento q le puede causar a ella sobre su hijo

simplemente esto es acto de las famosas parturientas q no saben un bledo

[isarma42]

@andres29688 C-sections should be used in emergencies only, as they're surgery and have risks for both Mom and Baby. Size of a baby isn't an emergency. In fact, lots of scientific research has shown us that outcomes aren't improved at all by sectioning for large babies. The baby's size isn't something we can accurately predict, regardless.

I find it interesting that you disregard the psychological damage and pain possible when having a c-section. They're not painless.

[2tooful]

did you poop a little?

[isarma42]

@2tooful A bit, yes. Not too much. I had the normal purge in very early labor.

[haneulXDzzz]

asi no se realiza un parto al agua

[isarma42]

@haneulXDzzz ?

[jorgecowko]

THANK GOD IM A GUY.!!!!!

[rEfUxGaMiNg]

ainda bem qe eu ano so mulher!!

[isarma42]

@rEfUxGaMiNg I tried google translator, but I'm still not sure exactly what you're saying. Lo siento!

[Sherlockingkite]

Damn that must hurt!, i dont wana put my future wife into that pain :P

[isarma42]

@Sherlockingkite It's not about putting her through that, but I agree it should be her choice :)

[TheCodkill3r]

I'm so happy to be a man :D

[HegerAssil]

let me be honest that girl is realy awesome. I enjoyed da whole EDUCATIONAL video...

[isarma42]

@HegerAssil Thanks :)

[Horrorsue]

why is he holding his hand there all the time? lokks like he wants to keep the baby inside ;)

[isarma42]

@Horrorsue Not at all :) He's attempting to support my perineum, to reduce tearing. I would've done it for myself, but I couldn't reach around in that position.

[ninja070981]

One word, Beautiful video. amazin!!! for a guy !!! wow , almost brought a tear!!! xx

[isarma42]

@ninja070981 Births always make me cry, too.

[BeautifulNefertari]

Kissy Baby Lips?! Worse way to describe a baby's mouth. Other than that the video was pretty interesting even though I have seen other births like this one.

[isarma42]

@BeautifulNefertari I guess that's a matter of taste. I thought it was a sweet comment. Don't most people kiss their babies?

[TheOrderoftheOwl]

According to the bible, Women endure pain during childbirth as a part of God's curse for eating of the tree of knowledge. The real reason is that human females have a narrower hip bone due to walking upright. Our 4 legged friends have a much wider hip bone, so they don't endure the pain.

[isarma42]

@TheOrderoftheOwl I'm pagan, so the Biblical reason is of less interest to me, but thanks for dropping some Biology on the page :)

[2fly4dis100]

doctore rush u cuz if u take 2 long the baby can sufacate in the sack

[isarma42]

@2fly4dis100 I can think of lots of reasons doctors rush, but that's certainly not one of them. For starters, most doctors artificially rupture membranes to speed up labor, so it's unusual for a doctor assisted birth to be born in the caul. Also, babies can't suffocate in their amniotic sac. Babies don't breathe until air hits their faces, triggering that reflex. Until the umbilical cord takes care of the baby's needs.

[mavspivey]

This is amazing and the most beautiful natural phenomenon ever, in my opinion. I very much enjoy childbirth videos that actually show whats happening..they are far more educational than the "over the shoulder" ones. Thank you and congrats..although I read that he is almost four now lol Oh well, it is a belated congrats! :)

[isarma42]

@mavspivey I'm glad you enjoyed it! I'd hoped to show it as accurately as possible. And thank you!

[M21cat]

Well to be honest im learning from this

[isarma42]

@M21cat Good :) 

[Screwedup3013]

Thats really cute to see a woman giving birth its the most amazing thing in the world

[isarma42]

@Screwedup3013 I agree :) Thanks!

[EmotionalShredd]

gosh must be a burden to be a woman

[isarma42]

@EmotionalShredd I guess different women feel differently, but I don't think so. I feel powerful :)

[justsupersteve]

LOOOOOOOOL are you serious?? Big Girls Don't Cry??? hahahahahahahah excelent timing for the shuffle!! congratulations for your labor!

[Tasworld]

I was so impressed about your videos, never saw a birth in my life.

I whish i had so good friends.

[isarma42]

@Tasworld Thanks!

[VideosHDDavid]

nunca habia visto un nacimiento *_* me imajino que debe costarle a la mujer tener el bebe yo creo que debe doler muxo y hay que tener paciencia y fuerza 

[isarma42]

@VideosHDDavid I'm glad you got to see one! It is very intense, but worth it.

[Ratolas86]

Amazing. Congratulations =)

[isarma42]

@Ratolas86 Thanks :)

[mordecairigbybenson]

@isarma42 may i ask why you are doing this in a tub?

[isarma42]

@mordecairigbybenson Waterbirth can be great for pain management.

[MaxxxSv]

tengo una pregunta ... el bebe no muere estando la cabeza sola por largo rato? me dio un poco de miedo..

[isarma42]

@MaxxxSv No, not at all :) It's actually more ideal for the birth to take awhile. In hospitals, with coached pushing, things move faster. That's not always a good thing!

[solomonpilot767]

NOTHING LIKE A MOTHER WHO CARRY U 4 9 MONTH IN THERE STOMACH,GOD BLESS MY MOTHER AND THOSE WHO LOST THERE MOTHERS DON'T U DARE 2 TREAT UR MOTHER BAD AND,THANKS 4 POSTING THIS EDUCATIONAL CLIP!

[isarma42]

@solomonpilot767 You're welcome :)

[Ifallinlove2everyday]

amazing !! Felicidades !!

[isarma42]

@Ifallinlove2everyday Thanks!

[daONEhiphop]

i think ill not see my kid borning, this make me feel uncomfy

[isarma42]

@daONEhiphop That's a real shame! Have you considered educating yourself and delving into why you feel this way? Obviously the choice is yours, but I imagine the mother of the child might like your support and I can't imagine missing my baby's first minutes of life.

[MrDerece]

what s wrong with u people, use hospitals, that s why we have hospital !

[isarma42]

@MrDerece We have hospitals for medical emergencies. Birth isn't one. There are actually lots of risks involved in hospital birth, especially if you want a natural birth.

[MegaCupcakes45]

hope you can post new picture of bastian here. love to see him at 4 already.

[isarma42]

@MegaCupcakes45 I keep getting requests for that. Perhaps one day I'll get around to it.

[hallomrbrownie]

it looks kind of creepy having the head of the baby looking outisde the ass..

but really nice birth :D

[isarma42]

@hallomrbrownie It is pretty funny looking :)  Thanks!

[djlic11]

I think you did a wonderful job. I am a newly qualified midwife in Australia and i so wish many more women would birth away from the hospital system - unless of course they require it - ie high risk. I do think a midwife should be present though, just incase- maybe just sitting in background or even out the door if necessary - i would want a midwife there handy - but each to their own. Good Job......

[isarma42]

@djlic11 What a nice comment. Thanks! Good luck to you in your career. We could use more like you!

[fofesimo]

wow... this  is so beautiful... Great! It moved me

[isarma42]

@fofesimo Births always get me, too. Thanks :)